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@poonamnaik3524

Жыл бұрын

But whatever you mentioned mam still it doesn't works, I have Intercaste marriage.. Bfr he agreed to everything thn he changed started dominating, his sister has taken charge of his life completely, every single details are shared with her, quarrel, fights was on rise.. Presently I came back to my hometown he is there but threat r given to come back, than suddenly he talks good n so on.. Marriage only works on truth not by Camouflaging it

@amardeepsharma8574

Жыл бұрын

Ranveer dress properly........

@shikharmartolia8026

Жыл бұрын

@@poonamnaik3524 yy

@sakshisingh2731

Жыл бұрын

♾️✨

When you become more intellectual ,forget marriage, u r so done with people n world

@y17t90

2 жыл бұрын

avg 14 year old

@shrikaracharya1517

2 жыл бұрын

@dangy ho 🍻

@arjunaponchalil6947

2 жыл бұрын

😁 This is true.

@payalkakade

2 жыл бұрын

True

@ad8128

Жыл бұрын

Me in a nutshell.

I asked her all these questions (that concerned to my life and job, family): She said Yes, BIG YES (I was not compelling her to say Yes, but I was looking for someone, who is okay with all my concerns)... before the marriage! But just after marriage she did completely opposite to what she said. When I reminded her words, she told me, she acted as she thought I was testing her. Life is not a game, but she assumed it is. Unfortunately, it damaged my life too.

@sunnychoudhary1323

2 жыл бұрын

Women overthinks and trys to play games

@RishabBanotra

2 жыл бұрын

I hope SHE is not reading ur comment bro Otherwise aur damage ho jayegi life 😅

@manas7536

2 жыл бұрын

Bro in india you should avoid getting married.

@shilpar6506

2 жыл бұрын

(PS: I see you have edited the comment, after my reply and added that you were not expecting her to say 'yes' lol. This makes me doubt the authencity of your comment. Even then, I don't see the need for you to get sad if you are okay with someone not saying yes to your expectations. Even men make promises to us they will stop smoking or drinking or gambling money and they still do and we don't feel our world's crashing down.) Its sad you wanted a woman that said 'yes' to all these questions. I am going to get heavy blacklash over here but here's the truth.. women want partners that equally compromise.. and yes what she did was wrong but if you had told her right from the beginning where you are willing to compromise for her and where you expect her to maybe things could have turned better. It's utter stupidity to expect anyone to say yes to each and every expectation of yours, be it man or woman.

@omanmol9640

2 жыл бұрын

@@shilpar6506 mam with due respect I agree with all your points.... But if you won't mind I would like to ask a personal query of mine.. Going along with whatever one partner is willing is not okay at all but do you really think living with family affects or downgrades a women's career in personal? I am just asking it out of curiosity to know women's psychology behind this. I have a sister in law (Bhabhi) and bhaiya as well as bhabhi they live with us and my mother helps in her daily activities of family and bhabhi is still doing her job. My family ( parents, bhaiya as well as bhabhi too) are very close to my heart. Bhabhi maa treats me as her own son and things I feel I can't share with anyone, I share it with her. So,my question is...... Is it a rare case that women happily lives with family of husband (as in case of my sister in law) or it is a normal case? If women don't want to live with family of husband then what could be the possible reasons? Thank you for your precious time. Highly anticipating an answer.

After listening to this podcast i have decided not to get married ... ❤️🤣

@shivanipurohit815

2 жыл бұрын

True❤️...beyond this pitty playcard love is the most cool

@arjunaponchalil6947

2 жыл бұрын

Good. 👍

@skttv4676

2 жыл бұрын

Go for it..🤣🤣

@manas7536

2 жыл бұрын

Well I have also decided the same

@sonubeta7938

2 жыл бұрын

It is the new normal bro , you are not alone !!

"Men are blind by 'all women are good' that they don't want to see a red flag" This line was so correct by her, often I have seen my friends behaving like a complete idiots and go behind a girl while keeping this whole stupid narrative in their minds. They gotta have some questions and put in forward what they REALLY want.

@thecontrarycontrarian4230

2 жыл бұрын

Marriage is an outdated concept of society. Marriage has no place in today's materialistic, consumer driven, commercial society. Marriage is just a commercialized institution of society. Its all about money and social convenience

@ROMI909

Жыл бұрын

You talking about me my friend!! Ha ha. Yes. You're spot on.

@ueoelekeksoekek9280

Жыл бұрын

Biharis are vikharis

@sm24572

Жыл бұрын

Bollywood

@kikupandit6789

Жыл бұрын

Some just go blind with what they see.... Some choose people for temporary only few actually look out for a lifepartner.... This is irrespective of gender..... We find, explore, learn, understand and if you and ur partner are ready to make things work out for each other , it's great, if not its okay, moving on is better..... Coz life has many other colors....💕

Great one. But i disagree when you said men are less emotional. Being emotional is something which is subjective.

@dakshmore1383

2 жыл бұрын

Great Men are supposed to be more stoic( meaning ur emotions don't affect ur actions). But no one is perfect at it and everyone is trying it making it seem like Men are not emotional.

@fiveelementhealing6332

2 жыл бұрын

My mam is very emotional than me

@shivamiltiwari9541

2 жыл бұрын

You have no experience of dating any woman .......

@AmitMohantyYT

2 жыл бұрын

Brother, here What I feel emotional means. Most Men are only emotional when something bad happens in personal or love life. Or else they are focused on their goals. Where as most Women use emotional lens for every possible decision.

@aniketgonsalves1597

2 жыл бұрын

Thinking emotionally and being emotional are TWO different things.

I told him, "I want to study after marriage". He said that he will support my education!! And after marriage, I was treated worst than a bonded labour... Now with two kids, I am left to fend for myself!! Best thing in life is to be independent - emotionally and financially...

@user-ue2vi2bz5r

Жыл бұрын

Yes , I also have seen such cases.

@aena5995

Жыл бұрын

Can't trust ppl this is y marriage is joke nowadays the ppl r not worth it

@aena5995

Жыл бұрын

But career takes time what about baby 🤔 it will take 25 age to complete idk what to do

@varindersingh-pz3sr

Жыл бұрын

Toh tumhe kisne kaha tha study krte huye shadi krne ko

@varindersingh-pz3sr

Жыл бұрын

Pehle namoone ladko ke peeche bhagti hain ladkiya fir baad mein roti hain pehle hi kisi shareef ladke se love krlo

There is no such thing as "choosing the right partner". Obviously there are red flags, but you can never predict how someone will behave in certain circumstances

@sujatajhunjhunwala1590

Жыл бұрын

if you stay with anyone long enough you will find red flag for whatever reason you want it to be.

@garima_cherry24

8 ай бұрын

Well said It happens mostly in live in relations now a days

@heatsingh2205

7 ай бұрын

human beings are very predictable you can always judge people from your past experiences, you just need basic understanding how people work

@nishthagupta1357

6 ай бұрын

Ikr you only know them by spending time together

8:36 I would rather choose to make friends with opposite gender than dating because during dating people tend to show their best self and while in a friendship good is good and bad is bad. Dhoodh ka doodh, pani ka pani.

@sachinshetti4405

Жыл бұрын

I think its other way round

@siddharthsid3638

3 ай бұрын

You can't just be friends for a long time with another opposite.. there is so much nuance and complexity involved . The idea of friendship kindly beware of it ..

@Gauravkumar-jm4ve

Ай бұрын

Ya doodh bi milta hai and Pani bi

Just to let everyone know it is not that this is that straightforward. If you ask someone yes, no questions. And expect them to answer honestly. I find in marriage or before people lie a lot. Everyone should focus on their goals and if anyone helps them to be in that journey then you should marry. It works both ways!

@Jay_Kamle

Жыл бұрын

Many man gonna die single in that case lol coz woman never make a 1st move if u know..!

@bangaloresatish6600

Жыл бұрын

@@Jay_Kamle better to die single than suffer a lifetime of misery and penury.

@low_key45-6

5 ай бұрын

For arranged marriage their should be a lie detector test or handcuff each other ask the difficult questions

One cannot change men / women when they are above 25 so you better have to observe things through their actions. Because saying something is very easy but one cannot do something they haven't done in their lifetime because behaviour comes from habits , upbringing.

@Akpandey69

2 жыл бұрын

One should know how to observe what is good in person or bad in person

@entropymusicoriginals

Жыл бұрын

very true. brain become resistant to change after 25. for majority.

@YashSharma-qo1sy

Жыл бұрын

@@Akpandey69 What should we observe exactly?

@hemang747

Жыл бұрын

​​​​@@YashSharma-qo1sy search fresh and fit clips watch first video it explains everything

@kdjoshi726

9 ай бұрын

​@@entropymusicoriginalsReally-?

Main points discussed were- Does she want to live with your parents? ( Yes/No) Does she want you to live with her parents? ( Yes/No) Will you be okay if she leaves her job for few years for baby?( Length of time, Yes/No) Will you be okay if you have to leave your job for few years for baby?( Length of time, Yes/No) Will she move with you, if you have to go elsewhere for job? Will you move with her, if she has to go elsewhere for job? Will you financially help her family members? Will she financially help your family members? (Brother/sister education, parents health expenses)

@Ashok-kw2ds

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@Eren-da-Jaeger

2 ай бұрын

Faith in human kind restored, thank you sir

@AshTheDuke

Ай бұрын

the last two is a very hard decision - financially helping family members

@ksb4868

Ай бұрын

@@AshTheDukeYES should be decision for both.

I was a Victim of False 498a and DV act. Fortunately all the cases (5) filed by her was dismissed by Karnataka High Court in July 2023 and got divorced in August 2023. What I learnt? Take care of your parents . Don’t be desperate to get married. Being single has more perks. Better to stay single than tolerate emotional damage. Either adopt a child or go abroad and get a child though surrogacy (Since India has banned that too). I’m not against marriage, if a genuine girl comes, i will definitely get married. But most of the marriages now have become a business.

@kavishwarmokal124

7 ай бұрын

Get married outside India.

@dailyguidance4u862

7 ай бұрын

Good luck

@Thewa.terguy

6 ай бұрын

Good luck

@malika5731

6 ай бұрын

Surogaccy also needs women and commercial surrogacy is banned in India which I think is right.dont. Go by single living idea otherwise our country will be like uk .

@malika5731

6 ай бұрын

​@@kavishwarmokal124lol

I respect you a lot Ranveer... BUT... Please wear some Pants, Let the guest speak more... If u already have answers, make a Solo Podcast...

@bharatnaidu4785

2 жыл бұрын

Finally someone called this out!

@shravanburagapu8364

2 жыл бұрын

Very true man! And he also generalizes everything based on his experience and talks less about the reality without being prejudiced.

@johnydesparado123

2 жыл бұрын

i agree with the second part but what is the pant part ? god ! grow up

@akashmishramgtow2361

2 жыл бұрын

Pants? He'd wear what he wants

@amishrawat9753

Жыл бұрын

Pants? Why bro I mean let him be what he is

3:14 "The idea is all women are good, so they do not even want to see the red flags". story of my life 🙂

@antrikshachatterjee368

2 жыл бұрын

All women good 😂😂

@sunnythakur6342

2 жыл бұрын

😂ambe heard mil gyi kya.

@ad8128

Жыл бұрын

@@antrikshachatterjee368 u not good ? 😅

Once married, make sure family stays away, from your marriage. Women have more levels of emotions but they have issues in communication. Men treat women like their guy friends... Parents are the main reason for most of the divorce cases, second is career.

@akashmishramgtow2361

2 жыл бұрын

I'll make sure HER family Stays away from our relationship. Not mine. I'll involve mine....

@thesublimesoul7231

2 жыл бұрын

@@akashmishramgtow2361 don't just DON'T either keep both or leave both .. there's no between Bro .. this idea itself is a Red flag

@Heartcutelittlethings12._

2 жыл бұрын

@@thesublimesoul7231 absolutely true this happened with me. I never involved my family but since day 1 he has been involving his mum , his cousin , his aunt n uncle n now we r heading for a divorce.

@scalerup

2 жыл бұрын

@@akashmishramgtow2361 MGTOW men only get man to marry. No women of her same mind would marry a MGtow mf😂

@uditraj8290

2 жыл бұрын

@@Heartcutelittlethings12._ Mom & Dad are important part of lif of both person. How can someone Ignore them??

I have decided a long time ago not to get married but after watching this podcast I am more convinced to not get married. 😂😂

@ad8128

Жыл бұрын

Yes me too. This modern time is against good men.

@Pratchatt

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@anjalisuresh9574

Жыл бұрын

Me2 😂 😂

@nayansarma9677

Жыл бұрын

@@anjalisuresh9574 bhai shadi mat kar benefit me rahega tips from a married man and regretting the decision

@lunacover020

Жыл бұрын

Oh my god bery bery fonny

First thing to realise is that all humans are looking for 'happiness' for themselves first. Whoever you meet, it's good to look at it like an abstract transaction and what is being traded. 'Unconditional love' and 'pyaar' are the the most toxic ideas created by humans.

@mitesine

Жыл бұрын

yes, one smart comment!

When people date, couples meet, they put in their best "self" forward; they can be in this state till marriage and even till the honeymoo phase; after that the real person with his good and bad emerges and that causes all the issues. Main issue is not knowing the person in totality before marriage. Besides people change with time, environment & situations. One needs to know the other well enough to deal with such changes. Marriage is not like buying furniture... that one can change after a couple of years.

@DOCSRUCS4265

2 жыл бұрын

Good piece of advice sir👍👍

@umarekha8787

2 жыл бұрын

Do u think Indian parents will allow to check each other like this

@doctor2187

2 жыл бұрын

Well said.deep🙏

@mohsinshaikh2470

2 жыл бұрын

Acclimatization to the changing surrounding, environment is the key for sure but sometimes husband or wife dont want to get themselves adaptive to the changing situations they expect to remain the same it is like driving maruti 800 in the generation of Tesla. The point is if you see closely you will find that men suffer most than women in case of emotionally, financially, physically etc as compared to women. In this capitalized society people are becoming more financially dependent whether it be men or women. Marriage sustains on the trust, balance and understanding. Basically no one can tale how to sustain a marriage because marriage doesn't come with a contract of rules and regulations, if it goes well then it will go good for long time and if it doesn't then one has to face the situation whatever it may be. Man / women can change the breaking marriage scenario if they think closely and logically on it, if one don't want to be with her/him even after the close observation then it's her/his choice to do whatever they think is good for him/her.

@psaiprateek1417

2 жыл бұрын

Hey You stole this line from Major Sushant singh right.He said the exact same shit.😄😄

I just went through divorce and she spoke brilliantly about the mistakes about mistakes I made as a man. Hats off

@YashSharma-qo1sy

Жыл бұрын

If you don't mind can you share what were those precisely, it could help many.

@catadventures.7201

6 ай бұрын

Ignore her comments. Self reflect and see what are the gaps in yourself, work on yourself, improvise. Thank her later for the comments. Dont tell her about her mistakes. Thats your revenge. Karma will take care of her.

@nishthagupta1357

6 ай бұрын

​@@catadventures.7201what Karma bro? You don't know their situation at all. Chill. If she talked about his mistakes, maybe he made terrible ones & deserved it. You don't know who's the right person at all. And who's wrong & is arrogant enough to never admit. Mostly men. Stop wishing bad for unknown people.

@queen_3636

5 ай бұрын

​@@nishthagupta1357 maybe you should first stop putting "maybe blames" on the man. You guys, marriages Don't always workout. And its okay. Life goes on. I hope for both the man and woman to find happiness and move on.

@hinduGigaChad951

3 ай бұрын

​@@nishthagupta1357you mentioned "maybe..we don't know.. mostly men" all in the same comment. 😂 How do you know it's mostly men? What was your reference? Your personal experience? 😂

She is absolutely right. I am 36 and unmarried. People blame me indirectly for this. But I figure out the big red flags of all the marriage offer I have received. I am only one to take care of my parents and they live in a very small place. So, I left my job from Mumbai and moved back once my sister got married. No girl would like to shift here after marriage.

@user-bw8yn3zr1s

2 жыл бұрын

She got her own parents too. If only your sister was not required by societal expectations to leave both of your parents, you could have been free to go and live anywhere. And if you want to live with your parents but some woman you meet and date doesn't want that, she should not be blamed too. But why do people blame you btw?

@Iamniyas17

Жыл бұрын

@M bhai/behen jo bhi tum ho. Just assume the same happens to your son/daughter you’ll get your answer.

@aquariusexpress

Жыл бұрын

@@user-bw8yn3zr1s if she doesn't want that then look for a different fish. There is a large ocean and there are different kinds of fish.

@gowriprakash5145

10 ай бұрын

You did really good by not marrying

@prashantkatti118

10 ай бұрын

Yes right thing to do.

We still leave in a society where dating is not totally accepted. For arranged marriages, we get to decide in just one meet. And just to have a good impression, people tend to say yes for everything. Like RishiS UK mentioned problems starts later on. Its not about men or women, its the way our society is.

@shikhashukla6405

Жыл бұрын

True

@thatguy4010

Жыл бұрын

Come to Germany, people are very open and at the same time respectful here which I didn't see back there in India :)

@iamnoob7593

Жыл бұрын

@@thatguy4010 only priviledged people can go to germany.

@user-pc1pd7ub3q

Жыл бұрын

Yah I talked to a man first time just for ten minutes and they wants me to married with him in next 3 days. But problem is I didn't feel anything from him, not positive or negative vibes. Nothing. I connect with the family even I met first time but not him. My family forcing me to marry him. He is a good person. But I don't feel anything. Am I a stupid , should I marry him, every thing is good in his family and him...

@army_774

Жыл бұрын

​@@user-pc1pd7ub3q tf u just met him..nd they wanted u to marry him in just 3 days?..gurl Don't do that..u just only met the guy.. take a time to know him..

You need to be little open minded. Just ask question. Don't give answer in your question. Don't look for answer you want to listen. You are narrowing the view of the guest. I believe they have many more perspectives to share. And thanks for letting the guest speak more.

@ab_still_unstoppable

2 жыл бұрын

Bro he does this in his every podcast 😅 He talks more than the guest 🤦‍♂️

@peekaygaikwad4117

2 жыл бұрын

He is an interviewer and not a podcaster

@ab_still_unstoppable

2 жыл бұрын

@@peekaygaikwad4117 Bhai tu ja idhar se , tere se nahi hoga

Johnny Depp's case is the best example for what will happen if you go for a person only for their looks rather than their mindset. "Don't trust a woman's words trust her actions". A woman can move mountains if she is truly in love with you. woman's words are connected to her mood Once her mood changes so does her words. Sometimes They'll deny what they said. They'll put the blame on their period. Communication is never the key for a perfect relationship, both genders can lie without hesitation. Women think that it's okay to put blame on their mood for acting crazy sometimes.Find a woman who is mature, find a woman takes accountability for what she says or said, find a woman who accepts her mistake instead of arguing she's always right. Stop doing this social media shit "Miss always right", "women are never wrong".

@kartickdgp8

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯💯 all women are same psychology.

@rishavburnwal6676

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@exolovebambibambi1763

Жыл бұрын

He left his long time girlfriend( the mother of his children also) for this young women amber

@sd8854

Жыл бұрын

@@exolovebambibambi1763 wow!! this is news to me.

@suntzu1409

Жыл бұрын

But can you really trust a woman's actions

All problems = One Solution...DO NOT GET MARRY AT ALL...That's it....sidhi baat...no bakwaas.

@johnnygaddar5742

5 ай бұрын

Running from a problem instead of facing it is not solution. It's a coward mentality

@saviofrancisfernandes413

4 ай бұрын

It is better to learn from someone else's mistake than your own. Sometimes the rectification for the mistake can involve our whole lifetime until our death. So, I agree with the initial commentator and would summarize "Be very careful before you sign the marriage document". Problem will get far more expensive to solve when you also have a child with the partner (1st mistake = marrying the wrong woman 2nd mistake = having a child with the wrong partner 3rd mistake = child and wife will work together to destroy you). If this happens, you will be financially (current assets + future earnings) and emotionally exhausted.

@billionaire6792

7 күн бұрын

Bro what should i do my sexual desire

3:14 "The idea is all women are good". Deepika's this word clearly makes her a legend. I was also delusional in past😅

@mrperfect3197

Жыл бұрын

Guys just don't get married, you will regret forever Don't believe in romantic movies🤠

I really want her to walk the talk. 1. A women checklist of 100 boxes to see/expect in men is considered having standards but if a men expect his wife to cook he is considered sexist, narrow minded. 2. How can you meet all your questions in one person even when you ask them before marriage. He/she will say yes to some questions and no to some and even then some choices, likings will change with time.

I know an instance where a guy asked very specific question about living with parents. She said yes in their first meeting. When the wedding date got closer. She changed her words, her argument was " his parents are not educated", "I didn't mean right after marriage" and etc. 2 years after marriage still parents are living separate in their old middle class house. So the point "women knows what they want" is right but they don't want to face the difficulties or challenges and they lack integrity just like men as well. Men or women, integrity and living up to your words is crucial for relationship.

Life is so unpredictable so you cannot ask all kinds of questions before marriage, only thing need to check is their family and values, how they are brought up, talk to friends

This is very insightful. I hope this will help people a lot! Thanks, Ranveer and team.

Finally someone is doing an effort to bring up these kind of topics to everyone. Great work. Keep it up👍

It makes so so much sense that before marriage get your conditions right like what Deepika said. So so practical and sensible

relationships r fluid, continuously evolving...this is not a school admission tht you ask yes/no questions...rather focus on getting to know the person over time, and this also means working on your own self awareness levels, give time before committing to relationships or marriage.

@sagarpednekar7960

2 жыл бұрын

TRUE

@Manikarnika07

2 жыл бұрын

I think people have made it more complicated even if discussed you never know what situations will arise...only when love and understanding exist all such things will be easy to deal with

@Light-jk3ui

2 жыл бұрын

But these type of questions are important to continue the relationship . Something are not compromisable . These type of things should be cleared soon in relationship otherwise relations can't be evolved

@dr.akshayanarayana7984

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah if we had 500 years to live then yes we could do that , getting to know the person OVERTIME

@jayatidave2864

2 жыл бұрын

This is so true what me n my guy were ten years ago is not who we are now!! People grow and thus relationships evolve...

Thank you Ranveer and your team for bringing up a very unique yet super important issue of how men should be emotionally aware about what they expect from their partner, especially after marriage. As a single guy, I feel that such deep dive conversation with experts would definitely provide a holistic view about how a guy can make himself emotionally aware about his aspirations and needs in life with regard to relationships. Thank you again.

Before asking questions to the other person, we should also ask the same questions to ourselves. What are the areas which we are ok to adjust? What is it that we bring to the relationship? How flexible we are to ever changing careers, passions, and lifestyles etc..? Once we are aware of what we want and how we want it, we can discuss it with the other person. Based on experience, during the first few meetings, we are so overwhelmed with the other person, we either give in to their expectations and suffer later or we just reject it all together with the fear of failure to meet expectations…

@NiteshKumar-mb1ni

Жыл бұрын

Discussion and respecting those terms will happen when both are on same ground. First of all we need laws that protect men, then and then only those discussion be fruitful or else it’s just a trap for men in this gynocentric soxiety

@Unhealed_soul

Жыл бұрын

@@NiteshKumar-mb1ni agreed

@happysoul_97

Жыл бұрын

On point mam

@reshmaraj3203

Жыл бұрын

What ever you said is 100% true. But sad thing what ever opposite person says they only don't keep their word. Especially in men case or I can say in my life.

@punittiwari212

Жыл бұрын

@@reshmaraj3203 even gals dont keep their words

Men aren't less emotional. Men have greater self control because of the training since childhood. Of course it can sometimes become too much in an unhealthy way.

@user-mv9tg4fe1f

2 жыл бұрын

but women tend to pretend even more about their emotions and desires

@sunnythakur6342

2 жыл бұрын

That's why they suffer from heart attack

@amishrawat9753

Жыл бұрын

@@user-mv9tg4fe1f data says otherwise.

@user-mv9tg4fe1f

Жыл бұрын

@@amishrawat9753 Even if such data exists, it pretentious.

Thanks Very Informative For Tennagers And Youngster's

These clips are so good♥️ thank you ranveer

I like the way she has been so precise with what kind of conversations couples need to have before getting married. Really enjoyed the show.

This I did in my marriage. And always advise my siblings and others to follow this. Be clear with each other about each other expectations before getting into marriage.

Dating multiple people when u r teenager , means u r killing the tendency of staying loyal to one partner from childhood itself . Also , Means u r dating people not to be with them for love but to know how can a gender behave in future . So u r from day 1 having something in mind that this person is just a tissue paper or a timepaas . Even in friendship all what they r saying can b learnt , one need not date and play with someone's emotions.

@jayeshchakravarty5379

Жыл бұрын

Agree with you brother but nowadays mostly girls only don't want serious relationships. That's where the term nibba nibbi 😂 came in. At this stage when they have not understood life, how will they understand love? For them love is just physical intimacy.

@akshaytawar1294

Жыл бұрын

@@jayeshchakravarty5379 parents are to be blamed here that when a child becomes teenage parents are supposed to teach them things more important than just bookish knowledge and make them humans than just ATM machines ... I don't know what has happened to people, if we say child is a naive but are the parents also naive....

@tushar5332

Жыл бұрын

True 👍

asking such questions won't help .. since females are emotional decision makers .. they will change their decisions whenever they feel like. So, as long as the female has respect for their partners .. they will stay around .. So, its best for males to maintain their respect by not tolerating bad behaviour and following their goals and ambitions

@sreevaishnavikommuri4253

Жыл бұрын

Ok your are right they should follow their goals and ambitions and their partners can't tolerate and leave them because they can't see themselves in your goals.

@hinduGigaChad951

3 ай бұрын

​@@sreevaishnavikommuri4253then be the better person and earn more than him

@truthtriumphs6744

2 ай бұрын

Really good point, however I believe we also need to deeply learn about the woman's past. It is extremely important, especially for hard working, well cultured gentlemen who wish to build a happy life with a good lady. In a hell lot of cases, really good men get stuck with absolute 3rd class W**res who have been screwed left right and center by random F boys/ bad boys during their youth and as soon as they approach 30s they want a 'WELL SETTLED, INNOCENT GENTLEMAN' to suck up and ruin his life with their used and abused bodies and mind🤢🤢🤮🤮Typical 'EMPOWERED MODERN WOMAN' in a nutshell

Still in our society saying All Women are good human,they will do no any mistake.. I heard many times in my town.

@MySonu17

Жыл бұрын

But in metro cities many says that only few womens are good

Marriage doesn't guarantee happiness & getting married at a young age don't guarantee happiness at all....

There is Formula & it starts with Understanding & Staying Calm !

Hey Ranveer...thanks bruv. Your work and the kind of things you're bringing to us...its social service, brother. God will bless u in Infinite ways.

Not against women but the ultimate reality is only women, children and pets are loved unconditionally men will have many conditions to get love😢

I am 20 yrs older than you but I agree with all conversation ….. hats off …. GOD Bless ❤❤❤

No dating is the worst idea of all Get to know ur self first And know what u want and u can look for someone who matches with it Dating and living in before marriage is the most stupid idea

@preetsuri5604

2 жыл бұрын

I agree dating is a waste of time and money. Rather do hook ups

@upscworld8474

2 жыл бұрын

Bhai aapke to persnal law jindabad aap tension mat lo

@sanjayshorey4225

Жыл бұрын

Bhai tumhare Islam me to kulle langde ko bhi 2-3 aaraam se mil jaati hai. Tum mast raho. Hamare Hinduo me ladkiyo ke nakhre hai ab. Jitna freedom hai girls ko utna hi headache bhi.

This was one of the best things I heard about relationships. Irrespective of a man or a woman's perspective

I have passed long away from my teenage, you are next level bro, this podcast applies to not just before marriage, but also after. kudos to you!

Most of the times everything was made clear before marriage, but after marriage anyone can make a U- turn, there is no estoppel.

What she said was just COMMON SENSE!

@KingKhan-123

2 жыл бұрын

Most people lack it.

Life always surprise to both. Whatever clarity you make with partner, it changes time to time and how life goes. You cant say men are not emotional.

there is a difference between being less emotional and showing less of your emotions

It's about the evolution of the culture. More people are adapting the western culture , the hook up culture and they're thinking it's cool. They're thinking having multiple partners is cool, they're thinking cheating is cool. So many people end up destroying their relationship and regret later.

@wbcsexammentorship

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly my thoughts

@Himanshu_K17

2 жыл бұрын

Spot on! And, it's not just "Western culture" it's the movies and "Woke Virus" of people which made it so. As a relationship is a trend for people nowadays, they get influenced by Social media personalities & celebs, then try to follow their principles of life. Which makes it difficult for them. However, most people in India think, "in the west, it is normal to have hookups" tbh, it is to a very large extent. But, in many parts where Orthodox Christians live, it's a "NO" from them on these things too.

@chakravartin369

2 жыл бұрын

Let's take sanyas together bro !

@ROMI909

Жыл бұрын

Date for (1 - 5+ years) and check if the person is right for you, with time we change, now at the end of that dating period we start doubting the "compatibility" and other shit, break up, find another one, date, this time we get married, after marriage when it takes real work to make it work, one or both chicken out, divorce and cycle goes on. How stupid waste of time. Hold hands and never leave, accept the person with their fault. Live a sweet and sour life, nothing is linear. It all takes commitment and lowering the expectations.

@chakravartin369

Жыл бұрын

@@ROMI909 but in this materialistic and intolerant world who is going to tolerate ? all are just running behind money and comfort. they divorce people to stay in peace for future but regret it later.

Superb podcast sir.... I learnt a lot...

She's very right. One needs to lay it all out *before* marrying . If there are major differences in expectations, it's better to step back. But despite all such efforts, problems can occur after marriage. Chahe jitna bhi pehle dialogue kar lo, there is always the lottery factor. Make all efforts to resolve differences. misunderstandings, but if major issues remain , its better to end things, cordially if possible. Its very important to be be fully aware when the relationship has no happy future rather than continue & live in misery. And, wait till the relationship has settled down before having a child.

No one told me this that DATE WHEN YOU ARE YOUNGER, I’m really agree with this we get to know what we want and what we do not want from relationship And I haven’t thought of dating as well, maybe because in my mind it was fed that it is not good, so I stayed away from dating/relationship It is so sad that I got to know at this point 😔

@kdjoshi726

9 ай бұрын

I dated. And I suffered. Welp atleast Ik now that I need to improve on my communication. And actions. But I did realized that dating isn't for me I really need a long term relationship. Also I usually try to be myself when it comes to dating, maybe that's what pushes people back? Idk

Good points you mentioned it is important for both the person to discuss and then decide you want to be together

How many questions ask your partner before marriage. Nothing will change your fate. We all are chosen to suffer unique and extraordinary fate. So Don't worry.

for all the problems mentioned in this video: read the following books 1) "The Rational male" series by Rollo Tommassi. 2) "The Red pill handbook". 3) "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover. 4) "The Ape that understood the Universe" by Steve Stewart-Williams 5) "Models" by Mark Manson 6) "The way of superior man" by David Deida

@psaiprateek1417

2 жыл бұрын

2nd one is most important

@redguitarwarrior2179

2 жыл бұрын

@@psaiprateek1417 true👍

@sumitsaurabh1137

2 жыл бұрын

yahi t issue h, u guys live in an Indian setting yet rely on western thought. 🤦‍♂️

@terencedsouza2885

2 жыл бұрын

@@sumitsaurabh1137 woman psychology is same everywhere

@thecontrarycontrarian4230

2 жыл бұрын

Lots of books on the fraud of feminism

When is the full session getting uploaded. Need more such talks

The problem is not that a man wants to support his parents in oldage & stuff. The problem is that a woman's in-laws treat her like outsiders most of the time & still expects every physical labour and house chores from her and not their son. Women know this situation very well & so they mostly want not to stay with her in-laws

@TheMrchillz

Жыл бұрын

That's one aspect and not general assumption

@kabirsingh9028

Жыл бұрын

If she is a housewife , why not ?

@Fashionblogger247

Жыл бұрын

@@kabirsingh9028 means you want a maid disguised as housewife?

@kabirsingh9028

Жыл бұрын

@@Fashionblogger247 and you want a free atm disguised as a man ?

@Fashionblogger247

Жыл бұрын

@@kabirsingh9028 I didn’t put across my opinion. On what basis you are asking me that question? Have the guts to answer the raised questions when you put your OPINION on the table. Be answerable rather than just being opinionated. Question for a question doesn’t work , sir

Never ever neglect red flags.

RANVEER..very good..plz make extended episode of this podcast...lot of emotional well being is at stake right now , may it be of man or woman..this episode is like education pre-marriage , which everyone needs

Relationships are too complicated these days. Whatever you do to make your love happy, it's all end up in sadness and suffocation. Someone please comfort me with something, coz I'm sick of love!

Great 👍.... It's never a men and women it's only about right or wrong which could be done by anyone just fight back

Marriage is a big gamble for both men and women. But always check if their actions match their words. And how they treat people around. Never rush into any relationship or marriage. Give it a couple of months.

This mam has always been taking a great initiative for us middle class innocent victims of *Violence from WOMENS*

I really like your podcast . The guest are always somebody very incredible and have great knowledge of particular aspect . Related problems and their solutions. . You do fantastic work . Your podcast are really amazing

This is eye opening points, each and every man and women should talk and think this way.

Communication is a very very very important thing in any relationship.. So we need to talk about things instead of assuming that she or he will do as you want... Might not be all but most of the problems might be solved just like that...

All relationships cannot be stereotyped. And everything cannot be planned on paper when it comes to human relationships. People evolve, and relationships also evolve. The baseline is to be self aware. When a person is aware of their own patterns and behavior, it's easier to understand others. But when they're not aware of themselves, it becomes difficult to understand others. At the end of the day, a marriage works only because 2 people refuse to give up on each other and they have the conviction to make things work. Choosing the right person depends on our own energy at any given point.

@akhileshsaxena9499

10 ай бұрын

Completely agree 👍

@sreyanshuchaterjee3962

7 ай бұрын

All these words are fine, but the legal system makes it impossible for a man to breathe if the woman wishes to. I dread the day a man stands nothing to lose and will take drastic measures.

@vasudevsarvam6912

5 ай бұрын

​@@sreyanshuchaterjee3962 You are operating from a place of fear. One should strive to operate from place of love and compassion. Also, start making personal relationship with God. "ONLY GOD" actually loves us, no matter what. And the good thing is, he has everything in control. Trust amd surrender. Let go.

@sreyanshuchaterjee3962

5 ай бұрын

@@vasudevsarvam6912 it's not fear. It's about devoid of emotions and operate like scorched earth. Not all men grow up with the luxury of ease but a legacy of suffering just to keep things going. To be treated as a wallet and a means of social mobility, only to be destroyed over the whim and fancy of a woman, does permanent character change in a person. At such a step a man stops caring anymore. A society where men don't care about consequences is what you get in present day Afghanistan.

My life without children is empty and meaningless. You may think that your career is important, but the truth is that your job can fire you without a second thought. When you're past 50 with no grandchildren, living alone in a house while your friends are surrounded by their families, you'll realize that the few extra Gucci bags you could afford won't bring you true happiness. I attended my grandmother's 93rd birthday and was struck by the fact that she had nine children, who in turn had many more children. There were 70 people in the room, all descendants of one woman who dedicated herself to being a good mother and wife. Nobody cared about her career or her hobbies; what mattered was her family. Women who have children and a husband to support them are the happiest people on earth, I guarantee it. Just ask your own mother if she regrets having you. I bet she'll say that you're the best thing that ever happened to her. Now, you're going to end your own bloodline just because you don't want to sacrifice your selfish desires. Your ancestors survived the dangers of the past just to ensure that you could have a comfortable life, and you're wasting it on strip clubs and beach vacations. It's an insult to your entire bloodline and all the struggles they faced. You should have kids and continue your family's legacy.

Never lie .. make that as a condition...then only trust will grow within a relationship Give importance to open talk without hesitation... Have patience and be a good listener..both of them should be like that It takes time to know one's character

People like Deepika are like a ray of hope for many suffering men out there and I am glad she's stood by and supported so many of them, Kudos to her spirit, and I also appreciate all her open point of views and helping men have clear directives of do's and dont's one needs to keep in mind before committing to any relationships to avoid long term issues later on, Deepika , Lots of respect to you.

Thanks for bringing up deepika mam' here, only unbiased lady and have so much of insights of the actual problem in society. I believe she should hold a place in politics and should get power to rectify the system and take country to the right direction.

What’s said in podcast is absolutely correct but while sitting on the negotiation marriage table, one should not be putting too many straight questions about life after marriage, rather, the partners should judge the mind set of the other partner as in whether the partner is open minded, flexible, dynamic, is respectful etc. because with time people and their choices evolve. What was agreed before marriage might not be adhered to after marriage due to changes in circumstances and it can then become a point of clash. I would have just one advise for people getting into a marriage… Just have an open mind for your partner, respect them always, show some love and a lot of care❤️ Genuine Love and Care can only lead to everlasting happy marriages not formulas and rules! From a Happily Married Person 😊

In a relationship it’s necessary to prioritise things and let go the ones that isn’t the priority at that moment, instead if we look at it as a sacrifice that’s like sowing a seed of unhappiness. It’s amazing to see young women to be clear about what they want and all, at the same time how to prioritise things and the fact that prioritise do change is something both men and women of today can learn from the women of previous generations.

Thank you for posting this one 🙌❤️💯

Great points! Create a safe environment as well-sometimes parents give untold pressure to get married and girls chose to say yes despite feeling like saying no. This is not a man's responsibility BUT unfortunately both people do not benefit from this interference by parents

Being spiritual will really important to your mind & other person as well as their mind

@rajeshwarivasandani8305

Жыл бұрын

Spiritual =brahmacharya start of the problem

Great clarity..

In my case I asked upfront if she is ok to live with my parents. That time they lie to get married. 5 years and even my son is not able to see my parents. Pathetic world.

Just ask a girl if she knows to cook ...all your doubts will be answered 🤘

I'm very grateful for my partner. For we have already discussed these questions in our first year of our relationship itself.

@ad8128

Жыл бұрын

But still be careful my brother. She might change her colours in ur bad times... I never trust women...after everything they did with me. Plz be safe my brother 🙏

@sidindian1982

Жыл бұрын

Bhai trust a snake 🐍 not a materialistic lady 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲

During dating time, everyone will show their impressive part... your real picture comes only after marriage

These i learnt over the years.. though as a woman and being a high achiever i keep rather overtly demanding things bt that helps me avoid wasting time on ppl with whom there is no future so to say.. in the end we have so much time only..

I'm thankful I'm not married and don't plan to be married via a contract for life. I'm open to a live in relationship which suits both parties and this way we are truly truthful in the day-to-day relationship.

@ROMI909

Жыл бұрын

Yeah. Great idea till you're young enough and your needs have not changed/evolved. We validate our present needs but future will be one day a present too.

@Veej77

Жыл бұрын

@@ROMI909 The future is a paradox. Only the present moment is real. With meditation; if you persevere, life will take care of future life 😉😊

@aena5995

Жыл бұрын

@@Veej77 idk if I want a kid but the whole biological clock thing is crazy

@aditya-ml6km

9 ай бұрын

Live-in relationships = marriage Many matrimonial laws such as DV, Crpc 125 are applicable to live-in relationships. Plus, a girl can also charge you with rape and a false promise to marry. LOL Are you self aware?

@Veej77

9 ай бұрын

@aditya-ml6km ok, I'll pass on the live-in relationship. 😎

this is a serious talk totally agree with her🙂

all the best for our man i am with u with all respect and love ❤❤ stay strong always💪💪

Most most and most valuable and important video for this generation.🙌🙌

marriage can be the best or the worst thing a person can do in their lifetime

Honestly upfront conversations don't help always. I had those conversations before marriage many times to get the assurance from the other person. The other person lied then outright and after marriage she turned into a very different person, a person that I don't know even. She wanted to get married to leave her job because her family didn't want her to leave job prior to marriage. Her family was the real culprit who just wanted to move out the problem from their life and now I am completely ruined.

These are some very important things to discuss!! Actually!!

Why are women wanting a partner who earns more than them? Where is equality ?

@yoginagowda7410

7 ай бұрын

Why men alws look fr young , slim, bful girl as partner??

@gaurav8267

Ай бұрын

​@@yoginagowda741090 % men want intelligent , sensible , cultural and spiritual partner.

Awesome content. Thanks Ranveer for bringing such quality content to us. This is really very informative and eye opening for many of us. Keep up the good work and wish you all the best.

I think...many many times..ppl don't exactly know what they want... like they aren't lying... just clueless about what they want.. who they are.. I have found we ourselves don't often want to live with the consequences of the life that we have chosen!

Great words... Ranbir 👍🏻👍🏻🙏🏻