"I don't want you to need me. I need you to want me" -- that's good

@naturallydee8112

3 жыл бұрын

A word!!!🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽

@emilypacheco2074

3 жыл бұрын

I told that to a guy and he still wanted some woman who couldn’t do a thing without him. I kept walking.

@ravincline5683

3 жыл бұрын

@@emilypacheco2074 good thing you walked away. Surely, he'll find a woman who needs him.

@amarantaruiz5549

3 жыл бұрын

18:57- protect- willing to die for her, die to your flaws, ego, things done your way. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 And it goes for both! Love this

@nascentnaomie

3 жыл бұрын

Sooooo sooo good ✨✅

How come being independent is always followed by “don’t need a man”. The notion that women should be starving before meeting her husband, needs to end. A lot of women are left with the burden of taking care of parents. Imagine being single with parents to take care of and all of you are “starving”, just because you’re single. Nope. Men and women need to find their purpose/fulfillment in their single lives and not be looking for a spouse to do that.

When you are fine all by yourself you find your mirror image.

@nxtchpforme9154

3 жыл бұрын

Get back to me when you fine your other.

@ocean645

3 жыл бұрын

I see your comments everywhere... Love your channel keep it up !

@Prezboy98

3 жыл бұрын

Aye bro haven't I seen you commenting on the black hokage? XD you really everywhere

@CaseyBurnsInvesting

3 жыл бұрын

@@Prezboy98 Yessir

@CaseyBurnsInvesting

3 жыл бұрын

@@ocean645 ❤️

I wish the young people would realize that submitting to someone when you're in a relationship is not just a point of you giving yourself to someone. It also means that the person that is receiving that submission has a powerful responsibility. They have to cover you in prayer, guide the family (if that's your situation) in the right biblical direction, setting the tone for the financial, physical and intellectual well-being of his family. A woman needs to feel cherished, loved and her opinion respected in the household decision making process, the children need to have the right kind of discipline and feel loved and heard. Submission is a good thing when you are in the right relationship and have a healthy respect for one another. When a person is being submissive, the person/man receiving that respect will do what is best to continue to feel that and honor his role in the relationship/family.

@DeborahBriggsDB

Жыл бұрын

💛💛

@atimnile2401

Жыл бұрын

Well said💯!!!!

@marthaimakando5489

Жыл бұрын

Wow! ❤️ this.

@thealteregoguy

Жыл бұрын

You said that perfectly 👏🏿

The “independent” mindset was birthed from women who’ve been wronged. BUT, that needs to be healed if you desire a partner. The way we were created by God means we desire partnerships. Men need women and women need men. To go even “deeper” marriage is the biggest representation of Christ’s love for the church which is why it’s being attacked.

@NeoMoses

3 жыл бұрын

Sad thing many think marriage is 50/50 and that’s not what God is saying. Your living 100/100 with Christ over both for each other, in Gods scriptures.

@alexisforteza_

3 жыл бұрын

@@NeoMoses phew! Preach! The 50/50 mindset is actually selfish when you break it down. It also implies that each person should still consider only their desires rather then becoming “one-flesh”.

@NeoMoses

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexisforteza_ big facts! 🙌 can’t have a half way thinking and think a home will stand. That’s actually allot of feminist I know saying that, and it’s getting worse! Smh

@ojames1983

3 жыл бұрын

Mostly true except for the Christ part - that's not just why it's attacked - marriage existed thousands of years prior to Christianity if we're going to keep it all the way funky and true.

@dkbullock4871

3 жыл бұрын

Independence in women was bred from feminism. And feminism is only seems to exist in modernized countries. For whatever reason, modern women have the fervent belief that "I can do better...". Odd how it's come to men being optional in the minds of women.

"A man wants us to come under him but he doesn't have anything for us to submit too" - Preachhh sister! 🙌🏻🔥

@lindahemmings6746

Жыл бұрын

Mike drop situation

Please do a Part 2 with the married couple about “sustaining your marriage” to bring everything back in full circle. My husband and I LOVED this episode! We felt like we were sitting at the table with y’all ♥️

This was such a matured , professional conversation. This needs to be seen by many and be talked about. We need more of these conversations, not the KS shenanigans.

@Thecairopractors

3 жыл бұрын

They’re literally saying the same thing that KS does🤔

@gingerfab

3 жыл бұрын

@@Thecairopractors ks is disrespectful, unprofessional. His approach sucks

@theresabarnes4940

Жыл бұрын

Aman I second that emotion

@lindahemmings6746

Жыл бұрын

Yes!!!

@fabulousswag6683

11 ай бұрын

@@gingerfab funny enough,Mr Samuels is even more professional,than they can ever be in a thousands years. For crying out loudest, please y'all should stop subjecting the masculine nature and male figure to the image of a female y'all had created in your head, that has no basis in nature and do not conform to the structure of reality and existence. The universe is a market place, and life is about people,thus relationship. Because,nature is relative and relationship is based on nature's need for value. There is a business aspect of relationship, which Mr Samuels was articulate,professional and gracious in awakening black community to,cuz that was what was needed but was lacking. There is a proposal in marriage- proposal,and that's a business term. And in religious term it is offering, which the proposition of value is:offer. The default setting or set up of the structure of life,reality and existence,is the opposites in conflict. That's what the bible conceptualised as in the beginning was chaos, and out of chaos comes order,upon which you found and build upon.

Let me get straight to the point where I say ....I need MORE of all what just played out here. Looking forward!!! Thank you Mr. O'Neal and guests.

@leadup.renatto

3 жыл бұрын

Facts!!

@liamsmith6900

3 жыл бұрын

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@hillarysnow7077

3 жыл бұрын

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@justinhills3117

3 жыл бұрын

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@oliviadavis989

3 жыл бұрын

Year ago on my first investment with expert Mr Johnson gave me a profit of £15,648 ever since then he has been the most sincere broker ever.

I am loving this type of conversation...when he said “I don’t want her to need me, I need her to want me.” That got me.

@precioushabeene2974

Жыл бұрын

True I don't need a man I want a man

@fabulousswag6683

11 ай бұрын

That statement is coming from ignorance or pandering. A woman,do not just want a man,she needs a man, emphasis NEED. Just like the subconscious mind, she is non selective and non personal,and as such don't understand the difference between the opposites in conflict nor has she the values, abilities and resources to percieve the need and problem in and of nature,to make sense of it,articulate and communicate it. Thus she needs a man to create, build and provide her a structure and identity,to be able to unlock,take or make the best choice,for her desired outcome. It takes the identity and structure of a Creator and builder to be intentional, purposeful,creative and strategic in decision and choice making or taking for a desired-outcome(vision). Women are choosers, but women are generally not good with decision making,cuz that requires a structure,purpose, process and rule(rule of construct and engagement). But women most often than not do not really know nor understand what they want and why.

He said the golden words "Being one is....Deciding to be intentional about being a team"

“Equal in value, different in function.” Woooooooooowww!

That first line!!!!! Sis. I say all the time, my GOD given role in a marriage, if I am to marry this guy, is to be a help meet. What am I helping you to meet if you have no clue? To what am I supposed to submit? She spoke a whole word in 1 sentence. Brother said a mouthful: raising their daughters and loving their sons. It's going on!

@caribanna1865

3 жыл бұрын

“What am I helping you to met if you have no clue?” that was good!

AO this is good. My grandmother taught me how to cook, clean, and she also told me that she doesn't want a woman to take care of me. Now my parents taught me how to work . Now that I have a help meet, and we are on two different speeds, I'm learning to be patient and help her , Love her and show her we can do this together

I totally agree about the importance of submitting to your spouse. The problem is men trying to force women to submit to them when the woman hasn’t chosen to submit to them and men trying to force women who aren’t their spouse to submit. It can be triggering to hear the word “submit” because literally every woman has an experience outside of marriage of a man attempting to force her submission, whether it’s in dating or in the workplace or just living life in public. So I think any discussion of submission has to be had with a disclaimer about the boundaries of submission. The bible never calls women to submit to every man. It calls us to submit to the one we choose. Too many men are demanding we submit when we haven’t chosen them...

@ChicStrands

3 жыл бұрын

I LOVE THIS👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 we can’t just submit to anyone Man, we too get to choose whom we want Submit too tfffff!!!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 great point!

@annesmith9633

3 жыл бұрын

@@ChicStrands Thank you! When I re-read the story of Isaac (Genesis 24), it totally reframed for me the concept of submission. Abraham's servant went to Rebekah's family with gifts and his goal was to woo her, to entice her into choosing to follow him. It was never to force her to submit. Then her family asked her if she would like to follow the man (Genesis 24:57-58) and she agreed to it. She was very clearly meant to have a choice...

@lynetteclay

3 жыл бұрын

You shouldn’t be submitting to a boyfriend.

I agree with everything except the postpartum depression piece. I was very fit before and healthy to still end up having postpartum depression and anxiety. Working out during and even more after birth has helped but still didn’t hit me until many months down the road.

@nnena3631

2 жыл бұрын

I agree I found her 3 "F's" kind of problematic. I don't like when married women pass the responsibility of the success or failure of a marriage onto the woman. She mentioned faith, nothing wrong with praying for your husband but he should take the lead in spirituality as well. Fitness - She mentioned a man's wandering eyes. Nothing wrong with health and fitness but too many people give husband's lack of faithfulness a pass...

@renah6249

Жыл бұрын

Right I agree with you on the postpartum & even if a man have a woman that's fit he will still look at something else.

I agree with mostly everything, but post-partum depression can happen regardless of fitness level.

I like that couples should have "successful in marriage" mentors

Whew! This too much heat 🔥 ! I truly appreciate this conversation. I appreciate the humility and I also appreciate the collaborative effort in explaining relationships keys and not jabbing at each other despite the sensitive topics spoken! I’m learning !

As a single-independent woman who was "raised" by my mother, it was very refreshing to here what I've been battling with all my adult life. Reprogramming my mind to become able to submit has been an ongoing challenge. So, thank you for these perspectives.

@bohosoul13

Жыл бұрын

I heard TD Jakes say submission simply means to SUBMIT to the MISSION. That made it crystal clear.

@nadiar.7788

Жыл бұрын

@@bohosoul13 Don't tiptoe around TD Jakes, self-appointed "bishop". Study and meditate on God's Word instead to get a clear understanding.

@fabulousswag6683

11 ай бұрын

A man makes the proposal of marriage, and that simply means the proposal is a proposition of value,aka offer. Then she accepting the offer and being binded/pair bond with the principle,value and rule of construct and engagement that marriage is founded or that proposal of marriage is founded on/upon,is simply submission. Love is value, that's what the concept of a man's proposal is.. And submission is acceptance. The dating phase is the negotiation , and that's value conversation.

Can someone please get Anthony O'neal a bottle of water!!!!🤣🤭👑

Less than 10 minute in and I’m already impacted by this level of revelation! The Word of God is indisputable.

Man I haven’t even got 5 mins in and they are speaking the truth

So shes submitting to his purpose? First time I'm hearing it like that. Great talk.

@YahToldMe

2 жыл бұрын

Correct

3Ps: Participate Provide Protect 3Ss: Stabilize Support Sustain 3Fs Faith Finance Fitness

@mramirez410

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you from an avid note taker! Lol

@katwilliams2950

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. While I'm not saying they are wrong, it is important for men and women to do these things in the way the describe it in the video, but to me I think all of these are good for both genders to follow and provide for their partners. Depending on your relationship it would vary how it'd be applied

I hear what AO is saying about needing to be needed. On the other hand, I ask why it is an issue for a woman to have her own--even if it is more than what her husband has. If they are in a partnership, the better each person does in life only benefits the whole.

@CaptPicard81

3 жыл бұрын

I think it's less of an issue now. I can't really understand guys who need to have more/make more than their partner, especially in marriage when it's community property. My wife has a bunch more degrees than me, makes a little more than me, and I'm so proud of her. There's no downside to more money coming in that I can see 🤷🏾‍♂️

Nothing but gems🔹 dropped through this whole podcast. I am forever changed! Thank yall!!!

This was THE REALEST and most accurate conversation I have heard on marriage. Being married 8 years now, it’s so important to have these conversations. I thoroughly enjoyed it

The advice in this video is amazing . This video needs to be pushed on every platform

I like how you guys gave the analogy of men submitting to their boss... who can be either male or female... they don't push back

I tried the "let me let my husband be the man, while i work to support his dream" and i ended up in debt, he abused me, I resenting him , and he cheated on me, eventually left me and took our son

@PinkSpice19

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry

@LaSheenaGordon

3 жыл бұрын

@MariaRChiJones I’m sorry that this happened to you, but I would encourage you that if you’re still here, that your story is not finished. I’ve been through a similar disappointment... and I have learned now to include of Godly community and be willing to listen to them in my decision making process. God has been restoring all that was lost. He healed the hurt of the past and I truly believe in serving Him and in my dating... I’m interviewing to see if He is not only saying he serves God, but also showing fruit as well as has a community that can verify that this is his character. I believe I have the right to remain soft hearted and won’t move unless my daddy God says ok. Praying that God sends people your way to walk you through the rest of your journey including the situation with your son. G.O.o.D. Wins dear. I’m intentional about my studying and reading as well and even for a while about staying single. I listen a lot to Dr. Conway Edwards at One Community Church in Plano, TX and Redefined Tv out of Houston, Anthony of course, and spend some time reading and in worship. It’s ok to lean into the pain so that you can get through it love. Praying with and for you🙏🏽

@MAHWL

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you both!! He left in 2005 and he ended up getting custody of our joined son while i remained with my son from a previous relationship.

@MAHWL

3 жыл бұрын

Update: I still resent him. He still has custody but that was my decision. And now that he's 18 I have bigger things to worry about .. since I'm now debt free and our son is about to go to college! Yes ma'am Or yessir my son is about to go to college.. university to be exact lol

@LaSheenaGordon

2 жыл бұрын

@@MAHWL praying with you and for you. As we are forgiven as we forgive, I ask God to reach down into my heart and take the things out that are deeply rooted. I give Him my will to forgive and ask that He takes it from there.😂🤷🏽‍♀️. Congrats to your baby boy! I have 4 gifts and 3 are grown… one is 18 heading to college too. One more middle schooler and his dad has me talking to Jesus and praying this prayer regularly😂😂❤️🙏🏽 Just remember to thank God for every day that He’s made a way and kept you in your right mind.

Anthony ans Jacent's gasps and reactions had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mark.daniel

3 жыл бұрын

seriously, right?!?

Shuuu 🙆🏾‍♀️ 🔥 🔥 🔥 this conversation was loaded and necessary 🙌🏾💯

@sharita7270

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed it was!!!

This needs to be talked about more frequently 🔥🔥🔥🔥

This was goooood. I’m slowly unlearning so much about submission.

This interview is on fire. The woman will submit naturally, easily when she see the vision to Submit to. 🎉❤

These are my people in real life! Marvin and Kiesha. Follow them for that low hanging fruit!🔥🔥🔥🔥 To God be the glory, this was so good!🖤🖤🖤🖤💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

The only complaint I have is that this is a conversation for everyone not just couples on their second marriage or singles. Can you please do a table talk that touches those subjects but keeping in mind couples on their first marriage and working on making it better? Such a good podcast!! 👏👏👏 you all had me clapping and saying amen 🙌👏🙌

Again!! What a wonderful session! Love your guest!!! I'm so glad that I happened upon your show!!!!! Please, keep up the great work.

Dang” I don’t need you to need me I need you to want me “men we have a purpose and it’s noticeable a lot of men have failed in our upbringing especially us brothas. But when you find a good man or even a man on his way. He’s got to feel wanted we have to feel like you need a protector a provider a Leader love yal sisters 💪🏾

@divathedivinegoddess8001

3 жыл бұрын

My partner has recently bought this to my attention and yet I have no idea where or how to begin to fix it. Any pointers on how to make your partner feel wanted/appreciated and make him feel like the protector?

@derrickmason7457

3 жыл бұрын

@@divathedivinegoddess8001 it’s really just letting him lead doesn’t mean you agree with all his decisions or voice your opinion. But that and also it takes both people just to compliment the small things. That damsel in distress is what we need sometimes

I had to pause and say "oop ooop ooop ooop WE STEPPIN ON TOES TODAYYYYY!!!" within the first 7 seconds of this video!

can we talk about the things you should do when you are single before you marry or remarry

Strong AND submissive - that's me! You can be both, ladies. Just find a one that will submit back. 💪🏽🖤🔥🙏🏽

6 minutes in and I'm already screaming.

This was so powerful. Great dialogue. Love how you did not interrupt or over host the conversations by letting them flow.

Im from uganda. 🇺🇬 living in the 🇺🇸.Glad to have someone represent us

This conversation right here is EVERYTHING!!!! Thank you so much. I left wanting more and more. Keep up the GREAT work AO!!

The points made is this were SO POWERFUL! I CLAPPED SEVERAL TIMES! Whew. God bless you all!

This was such a powerful conversation! Thank you so much to everyone involved!

THIS. Was everything I needed to hear today!! ALL of the ESSENTIALS we need to be made whole~ I will be sharing... Thank you, AO and Guests! Thank you!💜

This was EVERYTHING BEAUTIFUL !!!!! ♥️ I love each one of you for what you brought to this conversation!!!! What a blessing, Thank you & God bless you All🙏🏽 !!!!

This literally fed my whole soul. Thank you for your amazing content as always 👏🏾👏🏾

This was amazing!!! I just loved hearing your perspective on this subject. Everything just flowed so smoothly!

This is phenomenal. Yes 🙌🏾. I need the men to step up their game in preparation for emotional health. We need more conversations like this.

I'm going to watch this again and take notes!!! I wish I could double like. Best show ever!!!

DANG. Loved this!!! So insightful on both sides of the fence (gender) and just dang. This was amazing. THANK Y'ALL, we NEED more of this!!

This conversation was powerful and matured. I loved it.

This was AMAZING!! I will listen to this one over and over again. Thank you! As a single, never married mom, this has truly blessed me!!

This was definitely a blessing to hear. Thank you brother for spreading wealth in all aspects.

I wish Ms. LaKiesha would have addressed for the Four F's when it came to Fitness "Psychologically and Emotionally" Fit as well... you will not be performing or attracted to someone who is not Psychologically and Emotionally Fit as well... EDIT: I LOVE THAT JACENT SPOKE ABOUT THE MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL AFFECTING THE PHYSICAL!!!!

This conversation is NEXT LEVEL and totally NEEDED! Anthony, your energy bro...wow!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯

Hands down my favorite episode of this year!

Great episode, AO! This so timely for me and what’s going on in my life right now. I need to submit to God before I can ask my fiancé to submit to me. By submitting to God and pursuing Him, He will grant me the vision that my fiancé can submit to. In essence, she is not submitting to me or my vision but God’s vision for our relationship. We then are both submitting to God and falling under His orders.

I felt this in so many ways. The title almost had me pass it by.

One of many amazing podcasts--- I must admit that this one on relationship--- His way... is a gem worth saving,sharing and standing. I am inspired and encouraged...thank you. We need more of this dialogue for our community of and for all ages...I have a passion for people. Would love to learn how to help others in this way...in my neighborhood...keep doing this mandatory work!

Loved this! Please make this a series. 😊

Learnt a lot from this. Also exciting to watch how authentic Anthony is and how he makes the conversations flow so easily. Plus y'all being from the family of Faith... the best! ❤

THIS WAS MONUMENTAL!!!! This not only help me with myself in my singleness, but with my children! I absolutely loved this and the points that have now been made aware to me.

THIS CONVERSATION BLESSED MY SOUL!!

I'm truly blessed to hear this message because this is exactly what I've needed in my difficulties with being impatient in my single season.

AO keep this content coming! It’s fire! 🔥Also, I love the longer shows!

This was such a marvelous conversation! So much knowledge at that table. I could listen to them speak all day!

This convo is soooo good!!!! Keep them coming AO!!!!

Loved this! Thank you all💗

So many gems were said here!!🙌🏾

My favourite interview so far !!!! This was so good

This was absolutely extraordinary...Thank you!!

WONDERFUL! We need more of these deep conversations! God Bless and thank you!

I love her!! She is so articulate and the epitome of a queen conscious woman🙌🙌

WOWWWWW CONGRATULAIOTNS TO YOUR SISTER UNION!! LOVEEE THE WHOLE TEAM AND THE GUESSSES SO BIGGGGG!!

Wow as a single independent strong woman I love this conversation you guys sit down and had y'all sound like you all listen to my favorite Pastor TD Jakes This was very informative I really enjoyed this do it again soon please

That last piece of advice from the panelists was fire. Let me work on my purpose so I can be illuminated.

Now this is a Word!! Amen Amen Amen

I love Jacent!!!! My East African sis always droping so much knowledge and wisdom! Thanks for having her. Love the conversation in general! If I had to add anything, both men and women should be dying to their flesh on a daily bases, to be grow together while individually growing in their relationship with God. Love content like this!

I’m sending this video to everybody! I absolutely loved this entire conversation and I’m taking notes

I would like to say thank you so much this is going to help me on my journey I am single and you all had great nuggets for me to take with me I am so grateful 🙏🏽

Great conversation well needed. I loved every word!!!!

This discussion was everything!!! So many gems! My goodness. I have to listen again and take written notes because this was it for me.

great group of people to speak on this topic...this whole conservation hit different for me, especially finding myself as a man and the type of father and husband I want to be.

"I don't want you to need me, I need you to want me!"....ooowhee!

Amen! I really appreciated every aspect of this. Thank you very much!

I'm so thankful to have found this!

Thank you so much for this piece. God bless you abundantly!! Thank you for all the wisdom that was shared here. I really loved the way everything was centered around God!! Thank you so much for this blessing.

This was awesome! Seriously!!! Thank you.

This was so good!!! So many nuggets!

Great episode and discussion. I really enjoy and appreciate these relationship topics. Shout out to Marvin & LaKiesha Richardson. I discovered them in TOU and their story was so inspirational.

so much good knowledge to absorb.. as always 💯✨

I'm a widow, I truly enjoyed this conversation. I was married for 43 years and I could have used the information for sure. This is great instruction in so many of the problems that married people face. Thank you

This episode was definitely a blessing to me. It was so informative yet so entertaining. Thank you to Anthony and guests.

AO thank you for this, I gotta say I really enjoyed every moment. Thanks for all the great content you provide to us all. Bless up brother, and good luck with everything you do/need G-d willing!