As an immigrant from the Caribbean, I resonated with Becky G’s story so much. Carrying generations while trying to figure out your own life is heavy. 😢

@nataliesoutlet

Жыл бұрын

Ufff this hits home 👏🏽

@ashleyashberry2435

Жыл бұрын

I'm also an immigrant from Caribbean jamaican 🇯🇲relate so well to her

@rossy5121

Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯♥️♥️♥️

@coraltarr4480

Жыл бұрын

I’m from Peru Her family business is so relatable

As a latina, thinking of my inner circle being myself and my faith is revolutionary. Thank you 🙏🏼

@godsgirl7201

Жыл бұрын

Me too

@0722ruthy

Жыл бұрын

Saaaame!

Such a fantastic interview. Loved hearing Becky talk about her inner circle being faith, so so sweet! Such a mature and wise soul 💗

She’s so beautiful! I’m sad to hear how she talks about Sebastian and knowing how he betrayed her. She doesn’t deserve this, NO WOMAN deserves to be cheated on. Also, I don’t understand why her parents depend on her!?? Like why? They need to apologize to her and work for themselves instead of being a load on her shoulders. She deserves to be happy without worrying about supporting grownups!

@areliu1368

Жыл бұрын

It is part of our hispanic culture, please respect that. For us it is an honor to be able to serve and protect our parents. We wouldn't be here if it wasn't for them.

@leylalo4927

Жыл бұрын

They are not depend becky is just being grateful for their parents. Is nothing wrong. The only wrong think is to not care about partner that make everything for you.

@nward8806

Жыл бұрын

@@areliu1368 I’m Hispanic and I can’t afford to take care of my family and my mom her husband and her other kids. I will take care of her when she becomes elderly and all but to have them rely on me , how would I live my own life ?

@yicdwayic

Жыл бұрын

I’m Hispanic and only look after my parents out of pity, but not all parents deserve their kids to look after them, and it is a toxic generational chain that I want to destroy in my own family by never having children. Let kids be their own.

@yicdwayic

Жыл бұрын

@@areliu1368 believe it or not, not all Hispanics or Latinos agree with you.

I love that she said her inner circle is herself and her faith.

Thank you for talking about anxiety. Especially being able to ask for help as a woman. It’s important that we put boundaries and take care of ourselves mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

She's only 25 but so wise beyond her years. Im gonna be 34 and barely figuring this stuff out.

I can not believe how much I resonate with her. It's so shocking. The family style the health while being young...so much more. I feel seen. It's crazy because I normally don't comment just of f off one thing I resonate with or because I like what I watched. This feels personal . Thanks, Shan, for inviting her.

This was a great interview. You keep hitting it out of the park Shan. I love these conversations and I love that you are including more Latina women. Sometimes, I feel we get left out of the mental health/family tradition/culture conversations and this was such a good insight to the pressures felt.

@SupernaturalLove100

Жыл бұрын

“Latina women” is a bit redundant, no? Genuinely wondering why I’m seeing some ppl use this phrasing? 🤔

@TheJlyn528

Жыл бұрын

@SupernaturalLove100 I suppose I could have left it at Latinas, but following English language, I just used a specific adjective to further describe the noun. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@Felz_itis

Жыл бұрын

@@SupernaturalLove100 nothing wrong with saying Latina women! My god

This is fav episode so far, i've been on a similar journey after overworking myself and literally breaking down and then having to find my balance. she's an original, love her.

This whole conversation was incredible, so many things resonated with me. But when Becky said one of her meditations was sitting down with her younger self & telling them where they're at now & about the love they have...powerful. I'd never thought of that approach & it brought tears to my eyes. Great healing tip 🤎

Shan this is such an amazing podcast - thank you for creating it and being a great interviewer! I loved learning all this about Becky - love her music but didn't know she was so wise and had such an amazing health/emotional growth journey

This flowed so well, it was so natural- there weren’t much questions and it flowed. I didn’t think I would take to the podcast this much but Lovers and friends really highlights the guests unique experiences that are also so universal but not spoken about enough. Thank you for starting this podcast! I’ve always loved something about Becky G, I’ve followed her throughout her career and always found her to be inspirational. Thanks Shan because these last couple of episodes have been challenging me to grow out of my comfort zone and I’m sure it’s the same for others too!

@loversandfriendspodcast

Жыл бұрын

this was a beautiful compliment. Thank you for being here and spending your time with us

@la_baby_khalil7703

10 ай бұрын

@@loversandfriendspodcast👋😘 Hello! Beautiful Woman...YOU ARE AN AMAZING👂BLESSED LISTENER...NOT, everyone/anyone has that 🎁...GOD BLESS YOU...👑...QUEEN...💪🙌👏👍🙏😇🙏

Another person said it and it's literally the same thing that I was ruminating on...the idea that my inner circle can be me and God and our relationship blew my mind. I've always felt like I was "supposed" to have people who were supposed to be part of that innermost circle and I struggle at times because I don't. I have friends and really good ones and a super supportive family...I'd never take that or them for granted but I think I've been given a permission that I didn't know I needed and that is pretty cool. Thank you Shan and Becky for this talk...❤

@almacruz8592

Жыл бұрын

You took the words out of my crying soul 💕😭 Sending love!

I was looking forward to this episode since I saw the clip in Lauren's episode. I'm experiencing a lot of what she spoke about. It hasn't been an easy journey, but I am grateful for how much closer I've gotten to myself. Becky is so wise and this has made me even more of a fan.

I enjoyed this episode so much! It went so smooth. I love her music but it’s the first time ever I watch her talking about her personal life. I loved it

I love that her self care is singing covers on tiktok. Such a vibrant soul

I'm so happy she shared her health journey.😢 And refreshing to hear that I'm not alone... I'm like Becky where I want to do a lot. I'm always in survival mode... which lead to my health scares. I'm glad she managing to stay healthy and it is inspiring me to stay healthy ❤

Wow this was an amazing interview! Just found your channel. I knew very little about Becky G except my girlfriend's little sister was obsessed (4 yrs ago). She is so impressive, articulate, mature and thoughtful. I totally understand the anxiety (& ironically my 1st anxiety episode was on a plane & thought I was going to die for sure). Becky & this interview remind me so much of October Gonzalez being interviewed by her husband on his podcast Wide Open. All these hardships really do make us better & more resilient people but not everyone makes the escape. I'm super excited to hear her story and I believe a lot of people will gain hope from this interview. Thank you for this!

Loved these topics/the representation. One of her meditations being sitting down to talk to her younger self about where’s she at now and thinking of her inner circle as just her + God/ her faith were beautiful concepts✨

Omg she is literally the queen She has gone through so much and to see her standing today is a blessing and she deserves everything and she is one of the most powerful, strongest women I’ve ever heard of seen new. I love her she is amazing.❤

I love her it’s sad watching this after her fiancé admitted the cheating 😢

@coraltarr4480

Жыл бұрын

I know right! Didn’t know really much about her but this interview is so good

@xtrapgluequeenx3649

Жыл бұрын

So did she leave him tho

@kayraa98

Жыл бұрын

Wait what !? No so it's true!? 💔💔

@saiyanbrother5659

Жыл бұрын

What part did she talk bout the cheating its a one hour video im not watching all tht can u pls timestamp

@andrea001saav

Жыл бұрын

@@saiyanbrother5659 she didn’t

and thank you for sharing such a personal meditation ! loved it i'm going to use this in my practice!

Thank you! You both have a brand new fan This was amazing to hear today! Can’t thank her enough for her kind words It felt like it was for me, I’m also latina and totally understand the giving part It’s exhausting sometimes

I love her. Her strength and humility are mind blowing. She is a true role model. She brought up a disease but she didn’t use it for pity. She just used it as an example that everyone goes through things and that you either sit there and cry about it or let it empower you

@_CL

Жыл бұрын

@H She stayed with the cheater??? that's disappointing.

@honeyconlon3237

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

LOVE LOVE LOVE THAT YOU INTERVIEWED THIS BEAUTIFUL LATINA. NOT ONLY ARE WE BOTH FROM INGLEWOOD I CAN ALSO RELATE TO THE BOTH OF YOU IN DIFFERENT WAYS AND HAVING BOTH MINDSETS IN ONE ROOM IS AMAZING. THANK YOU FOR THIS. ❤❤❤❤❤ I LOVE LISTENING TO YOU AT WORK SO THIS WAS VERY MOTIVATING. AS A LATINA IN THE CONSTRUCTION FIELD ALWAYS FACING SEXISM AND FINDING CHALLENGES DAILY TRYING TO STRIVE AND BECOME THE BEST SPIRITUAL, PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL AND PROFESSIONAL WOMAN, I LOVE PODCASTS LIKE THIS THAT HOLD A SPACE FOR STRONG WOMAN AND SPEAK ABOUT REAL AND RAW LIFE

I came across you…like 6 months ago. I’m used to many coming across my feed.🤣 I heard Becky G, through an other channel. So…I looked her up. Never heard of her before. I came across this video. I’ve been on my own journey for a bit now. What I wanted to say about seeing you ladies; 1) I love seeing empowering people! 2) I find it bold & and engaging! 3) Just wanted to wish you both: the very best. 4) Thank you ladies for putting yourselves out there. 😊

Why do i feel so relatable to Becky G! I grew up exactly like you & my dream was always to be exactly where you are. Pero Dios tiene sus tiempos perfectos! Me gusta tu manera de ser y como te expresas Becky G! Te mando buenas oraciones y vibessss 💗💗💗

I think as a Latina, it all starts when our parents tell us that there’s no reason to be ungrateful because there’s people who have it worse. I understand the dangers of victim mentality but it’s OK to get help and it’s important to talk about it. Mental health shouldn’t be the elephant in the room. These phrases or sayings belittles us, they makes us feel guilty for being sad or feeling “shitty”.

@hazelp436

Жыл бұрын

This past year I had thought the same thing! I’m learning that we must take care of ourselves. At the end of the day health is wealth ❣️

@li-jalove2175

Жыл бұрын

There is nothing wrong if your parents say that because most of the time it's true maybe if some parents say that in a bad way then that's the problem but I hate it when people blame their parents for everything.

@dafnecantu9807

Жыл бұрын

@@hazelp436 Yes I completely agree! Love this.

@dafnecantu9807

Жыл бұрын

@@li-jalove2175 I’m not blaming anything on my mother. She did what she could and taught me what she knows. But that’s why it’s important to seek professional help. Going to therapy is so important. But it’s very stigmatized in our Latino Hispanic communities.

@kem1233

11 ай бұрын

@@dafnecantu9807 going to therapy is very stigmatized in latino community?? thats not true, problem ones in USA are just lazy and lost their culture

Thanks for this voice. Relating to Becky so much ! Great interview 👏🏽

your inner circle being just you! wowow! she is so insightful and articulated so many things so eloquently i really enjoyed learning more about her. wishing her only the best as she continues on in this life

Thank you so much for sharing, really helpful and relatable!

“There will be people that who now that you’re no longer serving them the ways that benefit them , might look at you different . Or might feel some type of way about that. And I had to learn that’s on them not on me. My responsibility is to honor myself in this process “ 💖🥺 I felt that

Becky is such a beautiful person inside and out, truly genuine.

I meet her at another level. I love her from another level. I needed this from both of you ❤❤❤thank you for the new perspective specially with the boundaries. It’s my new favorite word 😅

absolutely Love this podcast. Becky G is amazing and Shan you too!! I love how in depth you ladies have gotten about mental health. Im glad Becky found a diagnosis and now she can move on and be proactive in her situation. Get well Becky! I can't wait to hear your next song!! Sending you hugs and love from Arizona!!! 💓

She’s amazing, her wisdom and maturity. She deserves the peace and love she seeks after all she’s been through

I love Becky !!!! I have followed Becky for a while & This has got to be one of the most genuine , and heart felt interviews I’ve seen from her 😭🫶🏽🙌🏽 I just love her & glad you got to capture this side of her !! 🫶🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@kendallandrews8691

5 ай бұрын

She should act more.

I'm learning so much from this. Thank you.

BALLING my eyes out at the part where Becky talks about talking to her younger self about the love she found and deserves. 😭😭😭😭

@yanethgonzalez7210

Жыл бұрын

Is so sad 😭 😢😢 her fiance today admit it he cheated 💔

@slayiana

Жыл бұрын

This didn’t age well

@corporategirlprobs

Жыл бұрын

except the emotions you were feeling were not based on reality because he was actually cheating on her. Had she known that she certainly wouldn't be telling her younger self she finally found the love she deserves

@talkswithtaylor5345

Жыл бұрын

@@corporategirlprobs She can only go off what he shows her and in that moment at that point in their relationship she says it was the love she deserved. That didn’t change until she found out the truth. So from her original perspective, he was giving her the love she wanted.

This episode brought me so much peace, thank you! ❤

She’s incredible! Loved this conversation.

Such a beautiful episode! I love this so much

I loveeeed this interview. Needed this. So beautiful 🤍

❤such a beautiful interview and perspective. I respect you ladies so much 🙏🏽 thank you for sharing

This was such a beautiful interview, thank you to both of y’all for sharing.

This is going to help a lot of people. My daughter is in college and it's been an adjustment for sure.

I swear sometimes i just go to KZread to be with Becky Spirit. Something bout her she special, I feel her on so many levels even though she many laps ahead of me on my marathon in life. But still she down to earth

thank you for sharing what self love means to you and how we should hold these things SACRED for ourselves. honor and love yourself is what these categories are, practices and actions for ME.

I’ve been a fan since Becky’s rapping days! Love how far she’s come from ✨💜

As a mom of two kiddos myself, I appreciate you letting your child feel included & engaging while still doing your podcast 🥰! This moment was beautiful! 3:37

@missmarisaferreira

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree❤

Amazing conversation and thank you

Becky G is so admirable and intelligent I love this interview this is a great interview session!!!

This was awesome. So much great insight that I could fully relate to.

wow who knew she was so wise... what a great convo

This podcast really touched me personally. I love how you're getting into these deeper topics that cause me to reflect on my own life and how I've allowed people to dedicate how I spend my time.

so much can change in 4 weeks, poor becky she is really going through it... I hope she's okay right now.

Im crying🤧 I felt so connected to her

❤Thanks for being transparent

This video is very much needed, it was beautiful to see her smile and be honest about her journey. ❤

Wow! Awesome way to communicate Becky G! Very professional! Wonder Woman!

Such an incredible and interesting interview. I love Becky G, she is so genuine and a great story teller. She is my favourite artist and I’m so proud of her ❤ Love u Becky from the block!

First time watcher and definitely loved this podcast and this story Becky G gifted us.

@ive_tt

Жыл бұрын

Same very good episode

this episode was sooo good! however, all the ads interrupting kept getting on my nerves but get your money girl

A lot of people don’t know that they are living in a fight and flight response their whole life’s. I resonate with Becky G in that aspect, I lived my life in the same way. Truly finding yourself takes time for some of us who did not have the support from the people we look up to the most. And it includes the trials and tribulations you have faced in each facet of your life. You came up strong if you overcome all the bad energy and negativity, and you are doing better than ever.

I have 2 babies myself love to see them help momma with her job 😊

That swing analogy was such a good one 🌟 I'm taking that with me 💗

I liked this podcast. I did not know what to expect.

Wow this is cool. I’m grateful that I saw this. She seems like such a great person.

Im not familiar with her but after watching this I saw news about her fiancé cheating. Sucks. Hard to trust your partners nowadays. She’ll go on to greater things though

I did not like Becky before but after seeing some interviews of her this is a really smart lovely young woman.

@mariem1438

Жыл бұрын

🤨

I think she might have saved me today! My emotional health is taking its toll with my physical health and I have not wanted to go to the doctor cause they always tell nothing is wrong But she has helped me to get the courage and be seen

@iHeartUTwo

Жыл бұрын

Hope all is well with you ❤

@coraltarr4480

Жыл бұрын

Thank you very much!! ❤️🤓

@gaelles3715

Жыл бұрын

I hope you’re doing better.❤

1:45 I've been looking for the video where you were a moderator and I don't know where to find it. Anyone please can share the link?

What a BEAUTIFUL ALL TOGETHER YOUNG WOMEN💗

She’s so real for this😢

we love humble people 🤧💗

As a Latina I feel her 100 percent

I never would have imagined I would have soo much in common with Becky G

'let go of the co-dependency and just enjoy each other' ... OMG

Bring her back!! ❤

Becky G is so brave and her vulnerability is beautiful.

She has overcome many situations in her life but emotional codependency 😢😢😢😢 the way she thought Sebastian was actually her true love 😢😢😢

Aw this video made me fall in love w her

First time here! I appreciate the intro 😉

You both are my favorite women. I am so happy to hear this interview. 🎉😊

No matter what.... Becky gone have that good hair.

Wow I’m so impressed with Becky G. So wise…light bulb moments going off!!! 🎉❤

A good love makes you love yourself

so much love to Becky

Man I love Becky she is amazing and deserves nothing but the best. I always tell everyone I wish I had a girlfriend like her because she is just everything ❤

I love her sm

I resonated so muchh with this video. I started seeking therapy because I realized something in myself. Thank you for helping me 🥹🫶🏽

Love Becky G!

Love her ❤

I love becky G so much.... Dope 😮

“Serving to those around me without really realizing what it was costing me!“ that hit hard. Same for me & I’m the oldest of 4 too & grew up w/ my parents raising me w/ other family members too. Living in a fight or flight definitely will start affecting you if you don’t get help from childhood traumas and even adult traumas. Always trying to prove ourselves to our families and others and taking care of them over ourselves. Trying to protect everyone around you will break you. &&& yes trauma will affect ur physical body and I had very similar health issues as Becky! & come to find out it’s an autoimmune condition because of high stress. Emotional stuff we don’t deal with will eventually affect our bodies! Panic will start to set in and you will feel like in between! Which is like a dissociative feeling! When you don’t have a safe space your mind, body, & soul will be unaligned. Your autonomic nervous system will go haywire. “Me & my faith” that’s amazing 🥲 me too 😊 Jesus has saved me over and over. He’s my safe place. &&& remember not all these drs in regular medicine will know how to help you and it’s up to you to help your body! Find a functional medicine dr if you can.😅

Loved this. I wish you could interview Deepika Padukone! I like that you kept more of the interview than too much of an intro.

Becky G is awesome.

Sébastien fumbled big time. Becky is such a beautiful soul inside & out.

She’s recorded with Queen Karol G too ❤❤❤