be good to people (not your typical advice)

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The Hippiearab Podcast --- S1 E26
you see people every day... I hope. How do you treat those people? What do you think of them? What would you do if they mistreated you? The idea of showing goodness to others for nothing in return has been misconstrued to mean that someone is weak in their character and is not able to stand up for themselves. But it does the very opposite, it shows strength and firmness in a person's character to respond with goodness.
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  • @isapurnell9213
    @isapurnell92135 ай бұрын

    Salaamu alaykum, sister. I just wanted to express my gratitude to you for making these videos not only to speak on issues that impacts society, but to broaden them in a way that highlights ayats and hadiths mentioned in our Qur'an. It's truly remarkable how you're able to accomplish that and I simply wanted to reciprocate that in the best way I know how. I know I'm not obligated to do this nor am I doing it for attention. The good in me just couldn't resist, my bad. Jazakallah khair

  • @fishbarbeque8540

    @fishbarbeque8540

    4 ай бұрын

    Mashallah!

  • @meds0390

    @meds0390

    Ай бұрын

    May Allah reward you in kind

  • @ryangahwa
    @ryangahwa5 ай бұрын

    video just started, i’m not gonna act like i watched the whole thing but guys please listen to the title 🙇🏻

  • @hayaat9236

    @hayaat9236

    5 ай бұрын

    👍

  • @Idekatthispoint0000

    @Idekatthispoint0000

    5 ай бұрын

    Fr

  • @circumcisemyloveforyou

    @circumcisemyloveforyou

    5 ай бұрын

    OMG RYAN YOU'RE HERE HIIII

  • @KryzysX
    @KryzysX5 ай бұрын

    This woman is genuinely something

  • @Haya_0707
    @Haya_07074 ай бұрын

    Money can never repay for the wisdom and love that you share in this platform but here’s a humble amount to hopefully help a little bit to keep you making dawa videos. Please keep making us feel uncomfortable because truth is way better than comfort. Lots of love.

  • @hassanhazrat3615

    @hassanhazrat3615

    25 күн бұрын

    Thank you for her ❤❤

  • @neptunians
    @neptunians5 ай бұрын

    I just can't explain how the timing of your videos is always on point for me Farah. it is a sign from Allah, for sure. I am in my late 20's and I just had a semi-mental breakdown 20 minutes ago because of betrayal/hurting I got from some people and told my mom on the phone, that I don't want to be nice to anyone anymore because no one deserves it and they betray you and treat you like sh.t as if you were stupid just because you are 'good'.. and even if they deserve it, you can never know it, so maybe the solution is not to be nice/good to anyone at all instead of looking who deserves it or not (which I never did anyway, I was nice because that's who I am and wanted to be). And now seeing this video.. helps me to make up my mind. ps: also your 'unfriend them video (since I am still watching your video right now and you mentioned it), you literally uploaded the video when I was thinking about cutting ties with some of my 'friends' and after I watched it, it was so clear for me, it was a sign from Allah again, I cut ties with them and I feel so peaceful! I really like this video!

  • @user-ge3ut2bk5l

    @user-ge3ut2bk5l

    5 ай бұрын

    If you genuinely feel peace when certain people leave, and are concerned that they take advantage of your kindness, then you will benefit from that newfound time alone that you can spend with Allah SWT. It could be a sign that He wants you to spend time with Him and build your relationship with Him instead. While doing that, you can pray for good/pious Muslim company and insha’Allah good people will come into your life. Sometimes they pop up out of nowhere. People come and go, that’s the nature of this world. If good people come and naturally leave/drift apart/move somewhere too far, appreciate your relationship for what it was and move on (insha’Allah you’ll see each other again in Jannah). If bad people come into your life and leave, thank Allah SWT that He kept you away from them. And sometimes you wonder why fun friends left you, only to realize later they weren’t very good people. Trust Allah SWT and remember Surah Ash-Sharh. Verse 5: فَإِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا English translation: “So, surely with hardship comes ease.” Losing friendships might’ve been difficult, but insha’Allah better things will come to you. If you make a difficult choice that is better for your iman, you’ll be rewarded insha’Allah.

  • @neptunians

    @neptunians

    5 ай бұрын

    thank you very much for your effort and time writing this. It really made me feel better. I think that way as well, I trust Allah and won't change my attitude about being nice or good, I will just distance myself from people who use them. @@user-ge3ut2bk5l

  • @MEO18997
    @MEO189974 ай бұрын

    Al baqara "establish the prayer, give charity, be nice to your parents, and talk nicely to people" Prophet Muhamed (pbuh) : "If a person believed in Allah and the day of judgement, he should talk for good or stay silent"

  • @alise4377
    @alise43775 ай бұрын

    Recently, I literally cannot stand anyone and it feels like a chore not to snap in people's faces, I don't know why I'm like this

  • @laial_habil1960

    @laial_habil1960

    5 ай бұрын

    In the end we’re human and everyone has their limits . Maybe u need some time to focus on urself . May Allah help u 🫶🏼

  • @niqabi-.

    @niqabi-.

    Ай бұрын

    stress?

  • @alise4377

    @alise4377

    Ай бұрын

    @@niqabi-. No, I'm just pissed all the time😂😂

  • @HIPHOPRNBBABY
    @HIPHOPRNBBABY5 ай бұрын

    I love this woman so much. You have alot of wisdom Farah I could listen to you all day! I needed to hear this and everything you said, you said beautifully. God bless you and your family Farah Love all the way from Auckland, New Zealand 💜

  • @sh-en2gy
    @sh-en2gy5 ай бұрын

    19:14 save the entire world for eternity ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @aasiyaonize
    @aasiyaonize5 ай бұрын

    1:20 Nobody tests your patience more than your family and government employees 😫

  • @MA-sl5mg
    @MA-sl5mg5 ай бұрын

    You don’t understand how much I needed this video

  • @kayleekim9762
    @kayleekim97625 ай бұрын

    According to Usama Ibn Sharik (may Allah be pleased with him), we were sitting with the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم as if there were birds above our heads, no one among us spoke. Then came people who said, "What is the best thing that is given to a person?" The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said, "Good behavior."

  • @KryzysX

    @KryzysX

    5 ай бұрын

    ❤‍🔥

  • @bcmamira9599
    @bcmamira95995 ай бұрын

    This came at the time that I am so desperately disappointed from people around me, I don't know how to be good to them. It's like I can't handle them any more, I tried to see good but they show me the opposite. I felt idiot trying to jutify their actions with good intentions.... leaving in peace is the only option indeed 🙏

  • @parwinimuffin6570
    @parwinimuffin65705 ай бұрын

    being too nice too people is not good. Thank you for this message. I needed to hear this. God Bless.

  • @soedkaa
    @soedkaa5 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much ,sister! This video is exactly what I needed,I was on edge of thinking that “ well people suck sometimes” . But when you talked about how people sometimes are so beautiful, i almost teared up man!May Allah guide us all and grant us with Jannah by His Mercy😌

  • @ozges1755
    @ozges17555 ай бұрын

    I loved this episode so much, it came in the right moment! I'm overthinking a lot why people mistreat me, hurt me with their behaviors and think stuff like "I wouldnt say/do that like this why do you do that"..its easy to be good in a moment but its so hard to STAY good when the circumstances become harder and I think thats the real trial behind this. There is so much wisdom in this. Even this is a test.. how to stay good even if people here and there mistreat you and so on.. amazing topic to philosophize over!!

  • @MuslimahTiktok
    @MuslimahTiktok5 ай бұрын

    Love your content it is now part of my Jummah.

  • @yasminfatema2033
    @yasminfatema20332 ай бұрын

    Its actually really nice hearing someone say your thoughts out loud. Thank you!x

  • @iivasu
    @iivasu16 күн бұрын

    i’m in tears, this video found me when i needed it most. thank you farah.

  • @kaidorade1317
    @kaidorade13175 ай бұрын

    A lesson we all need in these trying times! As Bill and Ted say: Be excellent to each other

  • @RooftopClubPodcast
    @RooftopClubPodcast4 ай бұрын

    Legit my first thoughts after hearing everyone of your episodes is just like "Thankyou seriously thankyou for all those words"

  • @Nitewolflegend
    @Nitewolflegend5 ай бұрын

    These podcasts are such a blessing, alhamdullilah😊 I like the background it has a vibe to it📚

  • @shootingstaran
    @shootingstaran5 ай бұрын

    Soo happy u posted !! I'll watch this video later I just felt like leaving a comment cuz ure one of my fav notifications

  • @Cinnoman777
    @Cinnoman7775 ай бұрын

    Indeed, sometimes we get caught up in thinking that people or the world are bad, but as you said, yes, there are bad things, but there are also good things too

  • @khadijahbilal5087
    @khadijahbilal50875 ай бұрын

    The part about Allah knows of our feelings and He knows if someone hurt us or He would know and care if we hurt someone really felt like a hug but gave me goosebumps at the same time thinking of the accountability Love your work Farah ❤❤

  • @Eseibeeme
    @Eseibeeme4 ай бұрын

    "We both had our dark moments"

  • @MA-sl5mg
    @MA-sl5mg5 ай бұрын

    You are a blessing

  • @RienHammoud
    @RienHammoud4 ай бұрын

    I love her so much 💗

  • @natalielubikova1873
    @natalielubikova18735 ай бұрын

    I love your sense of humor

  • @asmaalbriky7251
    @asmaalbriky72515 ай бұрын

    Love your podcast and how you get to the point in such a beautiful way wish you will ❤

  • @Sluxlife
    @Sluxlife5 ай бұрын

    Loved this episode please make more episodes on how to become a good person

  • @Haya_0707
    @Haya_07074 ай бұрын

    Mashallah tabarak Allah. You are such a noor to this dark age my dear Farah. May Allah reward you immensely for these reminders that we all need.

  • @noonewarefe
    @noonewarefe5 ай бұрын

    I just click the video because of the background and now watching the books... wanted the library tour

  • @kaidorade1317

    @kaidorade1317

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes please!

  • @samihakhondoker2456
    @samihakhondoker24564 ай бұрын

    see the good sides in people to bring out the best in them

  • @uzaydangelenkedi6212
    @uzaydangelenkedi62124 ай бұрын

    20:11 I have an atheist friend who rarely shares things on her ig stories, and guess what she shared the other day when all the people around the world is talking about Palestine. She shared something about protecting panthers. I was literally shocked that she was so proud about herself to do that.

  • @user-ju2kt2xu7v
    @user-ju2kt2xu7v4 ай бұрын

    I feel so close to you watching your podcast Thank you I really appreciate your reminder May Allah grant Jannah to you and to your family

  • @AllahsServant12
    @AllahsServant125 ай бұрын

    The timing…. Subhanallah. Really needed it. Allah is the greatest ❤❤❤ Jazakallah khair.

  • @userisout
    @userisout4 ай бұрын

    Much of love and respect to you farah ❤️❤️

  • @ItsHusna528
    @ItsHusna5285 ай бұрын

    i love these videos they have been so engaging and helpful. literly they have helped me grow a person i love it keep it up sis

  • @Alxza111
    @Alxza1115 ай бұрын

    Hi farah you know this episode came at right moment when i needed to hear this reminder again..because a lot of peaple have wronged me ,insulted me but i kept quit for the sake of my moral ethics and islamic teaching but i know it deeply disturbed my peace thank you for this video i know allah promised for justice in this duniya or the akhirah. Peace be upon you

  • @dzhiae
    @dzhiae5 ай бұрын

    ❤ thank you for another amazing episode 😊

  • @AmnaYousafSani
    @AmnaYousafSani3 ай бұрын

    Jazak Allahu khair, it's like a big sister advice ma sha Allah keep sharing with us.

  • @fazsaid
    @fazsaid5 ай бұрын

    The books ATE

  • @myr2145
    @myr21455 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @Abrahim-my1fj
    @Abrahim-my1fj5 ай бұрын

    I love this girl

  • @manelmanwella2688
    @manelmanwella26885 ай бұрын

    19:14 _ 19:22 you have no idea how many times I repeated this beautiful part Farah😂❤❤❤!

  • @eminebeyzayigitturk907
    @eminebeyzayigitturk9074 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video it touched my heart 🫀🥹

  • @ZuzuSyuhada
    @ZuzuSyuhada5 ай бұрын

    Saw the thumbnail and my reaction was, "whoa, she's legit" in my language. And when the video started she actually said it. 😂

  • @224gh3
    @224gh35 ай бұрын

    thank you so much , l really needed it , and i hope it was longer i still want more on that topic please make a second video about this topic

  • @mostafaehab4277
    @mostafaehab42775 ай бұрын

    Thank you Farah, this video really helped me to rearrange my mind and my thoughts, جزاك الله كل خير

  • @yunusemre550
    @yunusemre5505 ай бұрын

    Pakistani Scholar Attaullah Shah Bukhari often used to say that prayer begins outside the mosque When desire and God's command meet face to face (see Surah Mariam Verse 59)

  • @sarakato1811
    @sarakato18115 ай бұрын

    You’re a real influencer, keep going💕💕

  • @ramr8596
    @ramr85965 ай бұрын

    Thanks

  • @xbzainab
    @xbzainab5 ай бұрын

    thank you for uploading🤍

  • @diamondsaf5064
    @diamondsaf50645 ай бұрын

    6:15 funny and cute barakAllahu feeki 😊🥰🌷💖 and good reminder jzk. be good to everyone and think good of others

  • @Ray-by7xo
    @Ray-by7xo5 ай бұрын

    But that's why some things are preferable, to not disregard human emotions..

  • @Sab.86
    @Sab.865 ай бұрын

    I absolutely love you 😂 you’re the best ❤❤❤

  • @RealNourr
    @RealNourr5 ай бұрын

    جزاك الله خير يا فرح💞💞💞💞

  • @falasteen2723
    @falasteen27235 ай бұрын

    First of all Hayeti I love you for the sake of Allah. Ur videos are always directly connected to a life situation SubhenAllah. I will watch this video tonight with my children, 10 and 8 years old ❤

  • @esetayubova5475
    @esetayubova54755 ай бұрын

    Как всегда в точку Фара!🤩

  • @itgetsworse601
    @itgetsworse6014 ай бұрын

    Farah I'm listening to this outside and I'm laughing like lunatic at the intro

  • @isrouush1458
    @isrouush14585 ай бұрын

    We literally have each of those books in our library too 😂❤ thank you so much for this Farah, may Allah bless you ❤

  • @dixieibr6710
    @dixieibr67105 ай бұрын

    لا اله إلا أنت سبحانك إني كنت من الظالمين ❤

  • @Reyio
    @Reyio5 ай бұрын

    hey Farah,never stop posting i-i really.. idk what to say...some of your words really hits me like sometimes I feel like Allah is coveying what I need through you.May Allah bless you abundantly and I wish I got a friend like u yk letsbee friends in jannah jazakkallahu khaiiiirrrrr!!!!!!❤

  • @Muslim_Student
    @Muslim_Student2 ай бұрын

    1:57 That was so unexpected, I think I died but came back just to finish he video

  • @dixieibr6710
    @dixieibr67105 ай бұрын

    سبحان الله وبحمده ❤سبحان الله العظيم ❤

  • @sh-en2gy
    @sh-en2gy5 ай бұрын

    Love your channel may allah reward you

  • @Iamsylvie.30
    @Iamsylvie.303 ай бұрын

    FARAH YOUR VIDEOS MAKE MY DAY BUT I AM BROKE AND I CANNOT SEND THE DOLLAR THINGY ANYWAY I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS

  • @Fathurandhikaputra
    @Fathurandhikaputra5 ай бұрын

    Subnallah Masha Allah

  • @ledisesuhenda3033
    @ledisesuhenda30335 ай бұрын

    Farah thank you so much for sharing these valuable reminders for us through your video, May Allah always bless us❤

  • @enchanted2meetU
    @enchanted2meetU5 ай бұрын

    May Allah bless you and ease your affairs in the dunya and akhira

  • @user-pc6if8vm3z
    @user-pc6if8vm3z5 ай бұрын

    NOT THE BARBARIC PART LMAOOO

  • @Lol592
    @Lol5925 ай бұрын

    Not even watched the vid yet, but reading the title made me remember the fact I made Dua about this is a few days ago سبحان الله

  • @Youssprecious
    @Youssprecious4 ай бұрын

    Thank u, Allah yjezik ❤

  • @sarahabusnober3116
    @sarahabusnober31165 ай бұрын

    😍💙 Mubarak the new office

  • @zeynebzinep3952
    @zeynebzinep39525 ай бұрын

  • @ammrynn
    @ammrynn5 ай бұрын

    may Allah bless you Farah, for sharing kindness and light

  • @tahsinchowdhury8488
    @tahsinchowdhury84885 ай бұрын

    Assalamualaikum. I am Tahsin from Bangladesh.I am probably the biggest fan of your podcasts. Keep up doing the good work. Thanks and kind regards, Md.Tahsin Sadeque Chowdhury.

  • @lojiennlatiff
    @lojiennlatiff5 ай бұрын

    Best content

  • @farukmukhtar
    @farukmukhtar5 ай бұрын

    the unfriend them part was sinister

  • @kcsplanet
    @kcsplanet4 ай бұрын

    Beautiful video sharing 👍 New friend ❤️

  • @fishbarbeque8540
    @fishbarbeque85404 ай бұрын

    Mashallah.

  • @Voltaire24
    @Voltaire245 ай бұрын

    Nice❤

  • @user-rg2uo5lv4w
    @user-rg2uo5lv4w5 ай бұрын

    Bro u need to post more videos I've watched them all

  • @user-pc6if8vm3z
    @user-pc6if8vm3z5 ай бұрын

    I love you farah ur amazing

  • @mairaasim2306
    @mairaasim23065 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @illelnihlls6538
    @illelnihlls65384 ай бұрын

    I love you farah❤

  • @jvghibli
    @jvghibli2 ай бұрын

    Farah, thanks a million for this very insightful video. May Allah (SWT) bless you and reward you.

  • @mebymyself2343
    @mebymyself23435 ай бұрын

    I love uuu

  • @soukainaelmhamdi1134
    @soukainaelmhamdi11345 ай бұрын

    What a background ❤❤❤❤❤❤ you will learn all of these books inchaellah llahoma yassir

  • @TheSeventhAcaba
    @TheSeventhAcaba5 ай бұрын

    We are allways alone amongst people you can of course stay with the bosses and listen to their bs

  • @abirelouafadjellali5534
    @abirelouafadjellali55345 ай бұрын

    i love u farah thanck u so much for this beautiful vedio

  • @safwanhameed6753
    @safwanhameed67535 ай бұрын

    ♥️good content

  • @ShadiaSylvania
    @ShadiaSylvania5 ай бұрын

    ❤❤

  • @auntshelly
    @auntshelly5 ай бұрын

    The people love you girllllll 🩷

  • @hermionegranger9354
    @hermionegranger93545 ай бұрын

    The wow grape sound caught me off guard

  • @imahmedgad
    @imahmedgad5 ай бұрын

    تصرفات الشخص الصالح بيحكمها الدين والأخلاق والمنطق لكن في ناس خنا زير في المجتمع مهما إتعملهم خير برضو مؤذيين ومش مدركين ولا بيعتذروا لما يغلطوا والأسوأ لما بيكونوا في مكان مضطرين نتعامل مع قرفهم فيه الطيب بيستحمل الأذية وعشان عنده ضمير عمره م هيتغير ولا يبقى زيهم

  • @acheroncarnation
    @acheroncarnation5 ай бұрын

    farah, I have watched your videos a lot and please you are a wonderful person which your knowledge it's anything but beneficial for me!! Farah, I have a humble request for a topic to be talk. It's about past mistake and the consequences which nigh whilst we are moving to repent

  • @aasiyaonize
    @aasiyaonize5 ай бұрын

    Shameless commenting as an early viewer 🤧😂 love you 🫶

  • @dixieibr6710
    @dixieibr67105 ай бұрын

    لا اله إلا الله ❤

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