confidence 101

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The Hippiearab Podcast --- S1 E24
confidence baby- but not like you know it. Our society loves talking about the outside appearance of confidence, forgetting the inner work it takes to reach true self-confidence. I also discuss the idea of 'internal confidence' as well as 'external confidence' and how the two complete each other in every step of our lives.
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  • @auntshelly
    @auntshelly6 ай бұрын

    I adore you. I am a Muslim now! Your channel has really helped me.

  • @gladynemerone8358

    @gladynemerone8358

    6 ай бұрын

    IM SO PROUD OF YOU JazakAllah Kahiran. May your journey be filled with ease and peace.

  • @nourhatem6260

    @nourhatem6260

    6 ай бұрын

    Awwww that's so pretty may allah show you the right path always , jazakallahukharan welcome to Islam!!❤️❤️

  • @Noramemorycard

    @Noramemorycard

    6 ай бұрын

    hope for you the best in your journy may allah make it easy for all of us . the impact a person can have is really amazing dont you think !!.:3

  • @Ll_jfdk

    @Ll_jfdk

    6 ай бұрын

    Enjoy the journey, may Allah bless you on it and grant you goodness, may He give you the highest paradise. Ameen

  • @ShutterMurgh

    @ShutterMurgh

    6 ай бұрын

    May I know your call towards Islam I'm a Muslim myself but I am curious to know how the heart is moved towards guidance by Allah..

  • @MahamMaqbool
    @MahamMaqbool6 ай бұрын

    I see Farah's podcast notification...I click... I am a simple human😗

  • @riana902

    @riana902

    6 ай бұрын

    🗿🥂🗿

  • @R35574

    @R35574

    6 ай бұрын

    Mee touuuu

  • @iStandWithUyghurs

    @iStandWithUyghurs

    6 ай бұрын

    #FreeUyghurs

  • @Yasmin-xt2rj
    @Yasmin-xt2rj6 ай бұрын

    Instead of working against yourself, work alongside yourself. Criticizing your performance, appearance, or style amounts to self-abuse. Constantly berating yourself, labeling yourself as unintelligent or worthless, creates an environment of internal abuse. Focus on collaborating with yourself. Address what you perceive as flaws without relentless criticism. By working on areas you’d like to improve, you pave the way to inner peace and self-acceptance. My take of the podcast. Thank you for the perspective change ❤😊

  • @nourhatem6260
    @nourhatem62606 ай бұрын

    Let me tell you it's you after Allah that helped me rebound with my deen , you are the catalyst for me stoping music for the sake of Allah , you helped me wake up for fajr everyday , i can never stop thanking you, may Allah grant your pretty soul with whatever you wish for ❤❤❤❤ Very much missed btw

  • @MadamDar

    @MadamDar

    6 ай бұрын

    It’is Allah that is helping you wake up for Fajr everyday. Perhaps Farah has inspired you, Alhamdulilah 🤲🏼

  • @nourhatem6260

    @nourhatem6260

    6 ай бұрын

    @@MadamDar , I said it if you have noticed in the beginning thats it's her after Allah , sorry my idea reached you in a wrong way

  • @simplyfira568
    @simplyfira5686 ай бұрын

    I am gonna write this for everyone.... Watching this episode only once...IS NOT ENOUGH

  • @sonofaclown826

    @sonofaclown826

    6 ай бұрын

    Just finished watching it for the 1st time and i agree

  • @cookiemonsterrr5116

    @cookiemonsterrr5116

    6 ай бұрын

    True

  • @offlicense6097

    @offlicense6097

    6 ай бұрын

    Watch 4 the second time

  • @izyans.j1285
    @izyans.j12856 ай бұрын

    38:02 . "They have what they have for a reason. And I have what I have, for a reason" Thank you so much for this...!

  • @mademysterious
    @mademysterious6 ай бұрын

    "What is meant for you, will find you." Like this video found me when I needed it the most.

  • @neko_chaima5132
    @neko_chaima51326 ай бұрын

    Farah is the friend we all want, she's the best 💕

  • @samridhitamang07
    @samridhitamang076 ай бұрын

    Just simply love her

  • @ALEMRADHIA-th9ko

    @ALEMRADHIA-th9ko

    6 ай бұрын

    Same:')

  • @0MLML0

    @0MLML0

    6 ай бұрын

    Fr

  • @sayidahabirahmohdsalehan5991
    @sayidahabirahmohdsalehan59916 ай бұрын

    This reminds me of a thought I had a few days ago about the kind of self talk we need to give ourselves as muslims. During times of low self esteem, we need to continuously remind ourselves of the pride we should hold as muslims and the responsibility of being chosen by Allah to do certain tasks. This goes to address that there’s a bigger world and bigger picture beyond what we know and that it needs our contribution and if we don’t do our part we’re only going to fall lower. Being chosen (meaning when we’re given opportunities to do something for his sake) to do something that’s bigger than you is an honour given by Allah indicating that He trust and knows we’re capable of accomplishing what he wants us to do with it. And we should deal with this responsibility with a sense of honour and pride so that we can hold the weight of responsibility. On the other hand, people who deal with arrogance within them, we need to continuously remind ourselves of our humble status in front of Allah. And that He’s greater than everything in this dunya AND akhirah. This can go as far as us saying to ourselves and reminding ourselves that we’re nothing but a speck of dust in the world and that we’re nothing if not for Allah. Some would say that it would somewhat sound degrading and belittling of ourselves but in actuality js a constant reminder of where we stand in front of our Lord. So Islam really provides us with both perspectives and suggestions that we need to implement in our lives. And from this, we should also understand exactly when and what we need to hear in times of vulnerability. Both arrogance and low-esteem is susceptible to the Wass-wass of the shayateen. Something that’s also a reoccurring theme within Islam is balance and boundaries. Everything has another side to the coin and we need to maintain the balance and create boundaries so that we’re not settling for the extreme sides of the coin. So I really love how I came to this realisation just as this topic for the podcast was released. This really affirms of my contemplation of this issue. Alhamdulillah and barakallah to you Farah 🫶

  • @aliyamaartk5681
    @aliyamaartk56816 ай бұрын

    The more i listened to Farah's podcast the more comfortable i am being uncomfortable hearing her words. At first it's just almost pissed me off at some point in her talks but after grasping it for awhile i was like "wait... i think she's right" it happens in a multiple episodes and now i'm waiting for her new episodes to get even more uncomfortable lol. Hope that make sense 🧍🏻‍♀️

  • @nochonacho6883
    @nochonacho68836 ай бұрын

    Hey Farah ever since I subscribed to your channel and I’m a muslim brother you really helped me to become close to Allah because I’m going through a-lot I’m depressed and anxiety i dont have the motivation to go out at all my parents and no difference they dont understand stand me what i am going through my life is rough sometimes

  • @_idk_1538

    @_idk_1538

    6 ай бұрын

    May Allah make it easy on you

  • @nochonacho6883

    @nochonacho6883

    6 ай бұрын

    @@_idk_1538 thank you

  • @PowerGurhl

    @PowerGurhl

    6 ай бұрын

    Seek help from Allah! Truly he always hears you while you also try all that you can yourself. May you feel better soon brother! ❤

  • @nochonacho6883

    @nochonacho6883

    6 ай бұрын

    @@PowerGurhl thank you so much

  • @annonymously1778

    @annonymously1778

    6 ай бұрын

    same broo🫂💗

  • @user-vc9fc3pg3t
    @user-vc9fc3pg3t6 ай бұрын

    It felt like a decade I was waiting for new video so much 😭

  • @danielballard3364
    @danielballard33646 ай бұрын

    Once u have internal confidence (self esteem actually as you mentioned as well, often something that only comes with time, maturity and life experience and having life's questions figured out) there's no need for any confidence training stuff whatever.. you simply exhibit confidence in anything you do.. as simple as that..

  • @mal8125
    @mal81256 ай бұрын

    Farah for real we miss you one month no posting You’ve changed my life tremendously and I’m so grateful for you. I’ve never ever been that close to allah and find peace and positivity and creativity in my life that’s because God then you Please keep making these episodes

  • @shelmithseth7645
    @shelmithseth76453 ай бұрын

    I am a christian, and I love your videos, any one can learn from them, regardless muslim or not, doesn't matter:) thanks for sharing Farah

  • @ora_nge09
    @ora_nge096 ай бұрын

    شكرًا فرح! شكرًا شكرًا شكرًا من الأعماق. أحببت صدقك وصراحتك في هالحلقة، وكيف كنتي تخاطبيننا بكل أريحية وبلا حواجز. الله يسعدك ويوفقك ويكتب لك الخير دائمًا 3>

  • @tamaraeliscan6258
    @tamaraeliscan62586 ай бұрын

    Аллах послал мне твоё видео,это то что нужно❤

  • @mahirah9937
    @mahirah99374 ай бұрын

    Wallah I love you for this. I started wearing the hijab and your videos really affirmed me in my decisions. May Allah reward you ❤

  • @madebym5359
    @madebym53596 ай бұрын

    To me, internal confidence is to feel and experience, your essence, your true self, your spirit, your unshakable faith in your being and in your relationship with Allah. If that is hard to attain it can be a work in progress and it starts by developing yourself as a person and a human of a faith. To pray and meditate. To tell yourself of your worth and your kind attributes and ur incredible potentials, whilst also staying humble and gracious and having humility. Confidence externally is to me, mainly emanates from internally tbh because if u love and respect urself and are kind to urself, u show that to others no matter how “awful” some people can be. God has created everyone from the same source so whatever u dont dislike in others is what u dont dislike in yourself. You accept people as they are right now in their life even if it doesnt live up to “you”. If you love yourself enough you’d see the good soulfulness that is within others too. We are all a product and creation of God not just the goodness in us, but the bad qualities that are also placed, to teach and grow us all collectively into positive manifestations.

  • @godsstrongestmagicalgirl5217

    @godsstrongestmagicalgirl5217

    6 ай бұрын

    Beautifully written 😭😭 it’s like your ego Vs your true self

  • @Geronimo_Stilton
    @Geronimo_Stilton4 ай бұрын

    girl !! you really help me ! thank you so much may allah grant you your ultimate goal

  • @user-xw2nr5zj1h
    @user-xw2nr5zj1h6 ай бұрын

    She is my favorite comfort podcast. I'm always relaxed and calm after listening to her.

  • @Sab.86

    @Sab.86

    6 ай бұрын

    Yes so true Alhamdulillah ❤

  • @emanshwaihne8595
    @emanshwaihne85956 ай бұрын

    I think that we are looking up for يقين I don't know what describes it in English but it suits this podcast اليقين that what's meant for us will find us and as Muslims اليقين بالله is the external confidence booster 💗

  • @fariari1384
    @fariari13846 ай бұрын

    Honestly, this is exactly what I needed. One of my goals this year is to be more confident...

  • @trishasofian2172
    @trishasofian21726 ай бұрын

    You delivered this with perfection, dont doubt it

  • @shyshakirah
    @shyshakirah6 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad to see a video from youuu 🤭 It's been a while...I hope you're doing good!!

  • @styxroasteris
    @styxroasteris6 ай бұрын

    I cannot like this video enough i wish we can like videos multiple times in a row. Thank you so much

  • @an0nym0uspersn
    @an0nym0uspersn6 ай бұрын

    This is the best video I've seen about confidence. Its the way you pictured it that was making the whole idea clearer. Tysm Farah for this video

  • @mariamahmad4304
    @mariamahmad43046 ай бұрын

    I love hearing you talk, Farah, and I love you so much. Thank you for every word you say! ❤️

  • @hana_hd246
    @hana_hd2466 ай бұрын

    I wish I could listen to Farah talk for hours 😭 it's so therapeutic to me

  • @selqwu777
    @selqwu7773 ай бұрын

    i love you so much, thanks for this video farah

  • @rzmrdn7025
    @rzmrdn70256 ай бұрын

    Dear Farah, I get so excited every Friday just to wait for your new video. Unexpectedly, it’s finally here today which actually comes at the exact right time! Thanks!

  • @iwashere583
    @iwashere5836 ай бұрын

    Your episodes are always needed Allahumma barik! Truly inspiring this generation frfr

  • @gabrielaalvarez5263
    @gabrielaalvarez52636 ай бұрын

    40:41 Thank you for seeking this as your calling, these podcasts help me feel closer to the journey of becoming a better person, these get me very emotional and I truly enjoy these episodes.

  • @chibicretster
    @chibicretster6 ай бұрын

    I just was needing a video like this and you just send this. Jazakallahu khair

  • @kaidorade1317
    @kaidorade13176 ай бұрын

    “Farah is going to have a podcast from this day to this day “ the key is that the choice to start the podcast was still in your hands. I’m glad you chose to follow this plan

  • @Nnnooo1
    @Nnnooo16 ай бұрын

    Salaamu Alaikum

  • @PowerGurhl
    @PowerGurhl6 ай бұрын

    Yay Farah! New video for the new year ❤ 😅I love how she is the most relatable human and it has nothing to do with what she is wearing or looks like etc. it’s all just the knowledge she possess. Thank you Farah you truly are a light in the algorithm.May Allah (swt) bless you ❤

  • @FaridaAisah-yh7kk
    @FaridaAisah-yh7kk6 ай бұрын

    girllllllllll I've been waiting for you to upload the new podcastttt. Hope you're doing well

  • @mrjlad6625
    @mrjlad66256 ай бұрын

    I watch ur podcast, feel hope in life, I go to ur instagram and lose it, cycle goes on. When I listen to your podcast I connect to the point I feel you are that one good friend that makes my negatives positives and changes my lifestyle, but then I find that friend doing exactly the negative things I learned not to do just crushes me

  • @sinus90
    @sinus906 ай бұрын

    another amazing video Farah, i've dealing with this topic seriously these days.. and you're video just came up on yt was like a message from god

  • @curry6957
    @curry69576 ай бұрын

    thank you farah for this video! this episode really helped me to confront the topic that I'm currently struggling at, may Allah give you barakah for this my sister.

  • @tahiyaasra
    @tahiyaasra6 ай бұрын

    alhamdullillah.... i was just in a crisis about confidence in general and how am supposed to improve it.. but alhamdullillah i found your video and trust me it was eye opening... It is like i know about all these but was not aware of it... just had to organise those thoughts and idea. i thank you very much for this video. really needed it.

  • @linautenova8967
    @linautenova89676 ай бұрын

    I agree to what you’ve said, God bless you!

  • @simplyfira568
    @simplyfira5686 ай бұрын

    istg thankyou so much for talking about what u talked about which was not confidence but confidence...but through self esteem....like ahhh how come that never crossed my mind....THNAKYOU

  • @user-gm9br4fo4k
    @user-gm9br4fo4k6 ай бұрын

    Alhamdulilla.May Allah make your all duas come true

  • @aryk2199
    @aryk21996 ай бұрын

    homie girl is back with the best advice

  • @thembelihlet.tmahlalela6490
    @thembelihlet.tmahlalela64906 ай бұрын

    I am so glad to have come across this video and your channel. You are doing what you are meant to be doing! Thanks for the wisdom you share :)

  • @saraxa2129
    @saraxa21296 ай бұрын

    Farah, you are amazing!! بارك الله فيكي ❤❤ و جزاكي كل خير the best podcast

  • @natalien1485
    @natalien14856 ай бұрын

    You changed my perspective about what confidence is. ❤

  • @sallypastriesug4649
    @sallypastriesug46496 ай бұрын

    Yeii Finally! We're happy to have you back!

  • @RM-sj8oc
    @RM-sj8oc6 ай бұрын

    FINALLLY YOURE BACK!! WE MISSED YOU FARAH!!

  • @zsuzsitakacs4595
    @zsuzsitakacs45956 ай бұрын

    I was just listening to one of your pod casts love you ❤

  • @rurus22
    @rurus226 ай бұрын

    have been waiting for you😭😭

  • @lara_pagiola
    @lara_pagiola6 ай бұрын

    miss farah here giving coach vibes like always (in a coach way that is *actually* good) love ur videos, truly 💖

  • @l.b.5023
    @l.b.50236 ай бұрын

    Omg I was just thinking of you today. 😂❤

  • @user-zl6qi9cc9y
    @user-zl6qi9cc9y6 ай бұрын

    this lady has made me cry too many times

  • @bestcuit
    @bestcuit6 ай бұрын

    I'm so happy u're back!!

  • @omniaelsersawy9803
    @omniaelsersawy98036 ай бұрын

    girl, we love you so much

  • @maxito7463
    @maxito74636 ай бұрын

    Oh ye congrats on 200k sister

  • @MathPhysique-cl3vo
    @MathPhysique-cl3vo6 ай бұрын

    24:20 this question will change everything, it's like the resume of mindset

  • @dixieibr6710
    @dixieibr67106 ай бұрын

    لا إله إلا الله ❤

  • @fishbarbeque8540
    @fishbarbeque85406 ай бұрын

    I LOVE YOU!!!!!!! (Im not sus, I just love how you're more relatable that my own family.)

  • @Akhiadnan
    @Akhiadnan6 ай бұрын

    Was waiting for u❤

  • @angelesmartinez1615
    @angelesmartinez16156 ай бұрын

    I think that having weak boundaries dampens the level of confidence we’re able to portray.

  • @sarahhimrane2198
    @sarahhimrane21986 ай бұрын

    I love your ideas please please develop more the last idea it really hit me when you talked about accepting what happened and focusing on what is in your control and not Killin yourself when something go wrong that was amazing thank you so much ❤❤❤ and yes the ideas was received you were right

  • @rrahuii
    @rrahuii6 ай бұрын

    I MISSED YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!

  • @ManelMimi-ev2bn
    @ManelMimi-ev2bn6 ай бұрын

    This is really important and true, not many people realize these facts!! Such a good podcast alhamdulilah

  • @zubiya68
    @zubiya686 ай бұрын

    5 mins into the podcast i am like i wanna have thattt confidence thing she is talking aboutt lovee yaa

  • @mariums6155
    @mariums61556 ай бұрын

    18:07 I'm an architecture student 😅. Have been struggling with both confidence and sense of purpose and felt that Allah sent me your video. Thank you Farah❤️

  • @khatijakhan7857
    @khatijakhan78576 ай бұрын

    Farah, Habibi, it is with great love and adoration that I write to you. I eagerly keep waiting for your videos, I have watched every single one of them multiple times and I'll say it, it's like a therapy. You're my bestie and you don't even know it. Perfect wisdom + your sense of humour is Chef's Kiss. Jazakillah for your work Habibi. Please make a video on how to deal with heartbreaks. ❤

  • @Nnnooo1
    @Nnnooo16 ай бұрын

    PLEASE DIVE DEEPER LOVED THIS EP

  • @ousmaneba8931
    @ousmaneba89315 ай бұрын

    Very inspirational and deep in meaning, as usual. Keep it up!

  • @hasansitinur
    @hasansitinur6 ай бұрын

    Thank you Farah, thank you really for this podcast😭😭😭

  • @zaynabwantstoscreaminyourears
    @zaynabwantstoscreaminyourears5 ай бұрын

    i swear u release videos right when i need it

  • @cookiemonsterrr5116
    @cookiemonsterrr51166 ай бұрын

    Wow...this is the best talk ive heard on this topic...thanks Farah❤

  • @Amira-Hassan647
    @Amira-Hassan6476 ай бұрын

    Truly missed you girl

  • @neptunians
    @neptunians6 ай бұрын

    Farah, you literally post videos whenever I need them or whenever I have or think about the same issue lol, it's a sign.

  • @amna-ec5xe
    @amna-ec5xe6 ай бұрын

    Glad you're back❤

  • @user-ns2fg1bu7v
    @user-ns2fg1bu7v6 ай бұрын

    I love you xbbti I was so happy to see another video of yours!!!!! May Allah bless you❤

  • @freyavogel2650
    @freyavogel26506 ай бұрын

    Hi Farah! I listen to your podcast a few month now an i really love it! I am a liberal christian from germany and i like to hear your thoughts from the islamic perspective a lot, because it helps me understand the essence of it and i almost always recognize that there is much more we all have in common than many people think. We should open our hearts and thoughts much more to listen and understand instead of judging each other. People are always offended nowadays and i think, that we should stop that and use our ability to see things with a distance to our ego and more humor. Wish you all the best!

  • @milanas1529

    @milanas1529

    6 ай бұрын

    Ich mag ihre Videos auch gerne:)

  • @jia17729
    @jia177296 ай бұрын

    Please do post more Farah, your podcasts really helps a lot❤

  • @simplyfira568
    @simplyfira5686 ай бұрын

    i am sitting in my room mind blown....like literally. I dont have my brain right now, i dont....it has been blown away.... i am just sitting

  • @Sab.86
    @Sab.866 ай бұрын

    Love these videos sis ❤

  • @owaishkhan3324
    @owaishkhan33246 ай бұрын

    Love these

  • @Wadii24
    @Wadii246 ай бұрын

    Yay!!!! Another video

  • @tuanayilmaz2076
    @tuanayilmaz20766 ай бұрын

    glad you are back

  • @maftunaabdullaeva3625
    @maftunaabdullaeva36254 ай бұрын

    Watching your podcast feels like facetiming a long distance friend, who really gets me🤗

  • @neusiacossa
    @neusiacossa6 ай бұрын

    Happy new year Farah ❤ I missed your videos ❤

  • @sophie-db1wj
    @sophie-db1wj6 ай бұрын

    love you farah ❤

  • @maurizipan
    @maurizipan6 ай бұрын

    I love you for the sake of Allah, Farah. This was so highly needed! Jazaakillah khayr, sis❤ 24:20 I always say those words as well! I am my own best friend and no one else could ever achieve that ❤

  • @LaBillVillage
    @LaBillVillage6 ай бұрын

    This topic is best learned traveling the world by self

  • @Abdalla.97
    @Abdalla.976 ай бұрын

    I liked your podcast a lot . Keep the good work up !

  • @mohamedchliyah8335
    @mohamedchliyah83356 ай бұрын

    Your metaphors are hilarious 😂

  • @evronnie
    @evronnie6 ай бұрын

    Your podcast is the best thing on KZread and my motivation to learn English ❤

  • @shamenyeasirsoikot1455

    @shamenyeasirsoikot1455

    6 ай бұрын

    Really

  • @ayamifaroud1021
    @ayamifaroud10216 ай бұрын

    Thank you Farah, may Allah increases you in guidence,knowledge, health and wealth (all of us too Amiiin)❤

  • @ariii3795
    @ariii37956 ай бұрын

    I’ve missed you so much, welcome back, hope your doing fine Farah 💞

  • @sallyatef487
    @sallyatef4874 ай бұрын

    that was mind blowing 😅

  • @rzmv_a
    @rzmv_a4 ай бұрын

    I really wanna get/ watch a new podcast today as a sign😭❤️‍🩹

  • @killer0200318
    @killer02003186 ай бұрын

    Modest confidence 💠🔥

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