Five years ago I hit rock bottom on all metrics of what's considered a normal life. I was broke, homeless, alone and desperately clinging to every bottle of alcohol I could find. For the past two years I've spent almost all my days alone and at home. I literally separate myself from everyone. Today, I am healthy, have more money, exercising, reading novels, learning French alone, listening to music, gardening, cooking, etc. My point is this, being alone is a gift I gave myself for which I am eternally grateful. I won't be alone forever, but now I know the value it holds for my life.

@ayumisae6864

26 күн бұрын

It’s so true. Nowadays if we are not careful with our time and focus, people will just devour our resources and attention robbing us of time we should be spending on bettering our own life and wellbeing. People generally want to involve others in their drama which adds nothing valuable to that person’s life.

@mrnice7570

26 күн бұрын

Well done man, turning those losses into wins , one at a time

@hdhdhd-4935

25 күн бұрын

Ily i pray you have good days

@osteolewis

25 күн бұрын

Congrats to you. You've done all of that yourself, you should be proud. If you need a French conversation partner, I'm trying to learn at the moment too!

@te9591

25 күн бұрын

What work did you find?

2 years ago I decided to completely isolate, leave all my social media except youtube and dedicate fully to myself. Learning languages, musical instrument, gardening, meditating, exercising, connecting to all elements and only watching videos thatd teach me something positive but mostly being offline. I started to feel so peaceful and happy that I’ve been keeping my life this way, only allowing back a few old and new friends that are contributing to that vibe. 🙏🏻 my dog is my best companion fs 😂❤

@oumeima5718

Ай бұрын

Hi good for u really but how do u entertain urself, cz from ky experinec if i dont i end up having a burnout, nd like u i want to prefer to work on myself in so many things so i wanna know that and how did u programmed ur schedule . Thanks

@wsupwitit

Ай бұрын

@@oumeima5718 There's this idea that you've been living with hyper-stimulation your entire life, and so now it's harder to keep yourself "entertained". The very need to be entertained could be similar to experiencing withdrawals. Our reward circuits are just fried because we're so used to short-term gratification. Find pleasure in small things, and comfort in stillness.

@SlicedSlappy

Ай бұрын

Then you start to age. Slow down. The novelty wears off and you end up with no friends.

@SlicedSlappy

Ай бұрын

@@Dan_Yerlll You're too young to understand.

@Mr.Meowgical

Ай бұрын

@@SlicedSlappy No friends is better than fake friends. No point in spending time around people that you have to pretend around just to maintain the illusion of connection/friendship with people who can't appreciate you for who you are, _or_ vice versa.

According to the Bhagavad-Gita, a sacred text in Hinduism, isolation is an essential characteristic of wise people who continuously seek supreme wisdom.

@clarecorcoran8585

13 күн бұрын

Also in Christianity. Several times, Jesus is quoted as going out into the desert, getting away from the crowd. Some monks and religious sisters continued the tradition, inherited from Judaism. Even today, the practice of retreat prevails, whether to a convent or a monastery, a walk (like the Camino) or an period of solitude, away from unwanted influence. It may also be the case that this desire to follow the best path in life could also be contributing to the growth of single households in parts of the west. This stage is temporary for many and, with prayer and trust in God, can foster a stronger path than previously.

Solitude has been my healing of attachments that drained my life force and soul. I am now ready to take l year to be with me. I whole year solo to me. Dropping addictions, sabotage, depression. My year gift to me.

@TheSafariman101

23 күн бұрын

I think this is what I need. I've been thinking I should live with my brothers and be close to family but I'm longing to gtfo and away from all of them. I just want to be at peace.

@carrieoff

20 күн бұрын

I am doing the same. After having had a massive mental health breakdown (now healed) and not stopping I am now taking an enforced year off because of a recent cancer diagnosis. This year for me is a blessing and is very much needed.

@MadBadSadAndGlad

12 күн бұрын

Goodonya!!

@jimmyj8161

9 күн бұрын

Exactly what I'm doing ❤

I’m really sick of most people. After going down this road and getting my life back, I’ve noticed just how many people who claim are our friends are anything but. I don’t even want too many “friends”. People are NOT what they portray.

I was wandering in the vast universe of the internet and found you. I believe I was meant to find you. Your content is absolutely enriching.

@mariaelenabartesaghi6322

Ай бұрын

OMG SAME!

@laoch5658

Ай бұрын

everything you find you were meant to find your sub concious led you here

@Pieter2360

Ай бұрын

Nay, it’s the YT algorithm that brought you here 😂

@denboy666

28 күн бұрын

There is no you.

@Nisowyd

25 күн бұрын

The algorithm brought you here

4:05 you must limit the influence of what you don’t want and increase the amount of what you want in your mind. Until we are burning bright enough we must not allow any influence that will overwhelm our efforts of trying to change

There are no coincidences. I needed this message. Thank you for posting.

@ortegaproductions7513

16 күн бұрын

Fr. I literally just deleted all my social media (except youtube obviously) like a few days ago. Stopped talking to people and have just been deeply studying and working on my future

@Melinda8162

14 күн бұрын

@@ortegaproductions7513 Hi, hope you are doing better, I have a question. Do you know if you 'delete' your KZread....can you reactivate it and it will all be the same. ?? I have been trying to find the answer to that. I mean, not start with a 'new name' and everything. Will it go back to exactly where you left off...in case you might know....THX

@ortegaproductions7513

14 күн бұрын

@@Melinda8162 As long as you have your login and password information still, you can just delete the app itself from your phone and when you are ready just install it again and log back in. I'm not sure if you can delete your channel and get it back

Im very glad the KZread algorithm and the universe put you in my path today. Thank you for speaking calmly, not too fast and no loud bells and whistles etc😬 I wish more content creators would adapt this format. 💜🇬🇧

@Gogo-pp9ek

13 күн бұрын

Yes his way of expressing is unusual and a god send

@abhijitksinha8296

6 күн бұрын

I also feel that ways.

Yessss! Yesss!!! It’s the only way to silence all the voices and to listen to the ONE voice that matters: our OWN! Sitting in our own energy, getting to know who we are deep down inside - away from everyone and all things is not only a healthy thing to do, but a necessary one! I just LOVE your posts !!!!! Always always fantastic reminders on here and teachings 🥰

@angeladallimore8079

24 күн бұрын

AMEN

I needed this. I've been ruminating on the idea of distancing myself from my friends, for a while, and as much as I love them, and it hurts to say, they are a distraction to my life goals. I'm not saying it in a pompous self-righteous way, but, they do not share my same ideals, and outright asking them to is futile. It's better to follow that path and be a role-model. I just hope they understand.

@miagasparovic3689

2 ай бұрын

Hey, if they understand and love you, then your needs matter to them :) and it's actually quite interesting to test the strength of your friendships by adding distance to them

@johnglynhughes4239

Ай бұрын

The sad truth is generally speaking people are a problem and will always let you down. I have a great many associates, however have come to realise I consider none friends.

@Chsbobcat1

Ай бұрын

Hey. I don’t know if this helps, but I was one of the friends that was distanced from. My high school best friend disappeared from everyone he knew when he graduated high school. I didn’t hear from him again until 4 years later, and that was for him to just check in. He wasn’t trying to be friends again. It hurt, of course it hurt. I was sad for a long time, of course. But when he came back four years later, I only asked him how he was doing, how was his new life, and if it was worth it. He said yes and that was that. I didn’t dwell too long in the time he was gone. And today years later, I know he did it for him and I hope he’s well. I say that to say, you’re unfortunately going to hurt some people. And not all of them will stick around, but if this is what’s best for you then it’s what’s best for YOU. And you’re the only one that you have to answer to at the end of it all and determine if you did the best you could and everything you wanted to. Anyone else will either have to understand and wait for your return, understand and remain completely distanced, or not get over it and have you live rent free in their heads. But you still have to do what’s best for you, random internet stranger. Coming from someone that lost their best friend to the very same thing. :) Good luck! P.S. for anyone wondering if I’m glad he reached out or if I wish he hadn’t. I wish he hadn’t. I was happy to hear he was safe and sound, but it reopened the wound I worked hard to close. It would have been different if he reached out in the name of friendship, but he really just wanted to check in and disappear again (which was a known fact. No wishy washy stuff or false promises.)

@shawngibson7514

12 күн бұрын

Absolutely, same here. These so called friends of mine aren’t heading in the direction I’m going so I will leave them behind.

@cacampbell3654

10 күн бұрын

Be careful of that hope for understanding. That hope can hold you back, waste your energy. How people react is their choice. Respect their right to feel however they choose to and stay focused regardless.

"Solitude for me is a fount that makes life worth living. Talking is often torment for me, and I need many days of silence to recover from the futility of words." C.G. Jung

I can’t hear my own voice when I’m constantly Lito everyone else’s. Solitude is necessary for the self to be heard and to grow.

Incredible. Thank you. I have a birthday party coming up (family’s birthday...) and I was just thinking how I don’t want to go. I can’t relate with those people, showing smiles and acting so nicely but then talking bad about everyone behind their back, including me... I can’t deal with it at this moment. I know I won’t feel comfortable there. I decided I have to put myself first. I am on a path of self growth and dealing with them now is going to mess it up, I can feel it, I know it’s going to affect me. I believe there are no coincidences, this video didn’t show up for no reason today, it really helped validate my feelings and decision. Oh, the universe...! Thank you!

Don’t forget enablers who see you making a change and try to drag you back where they can control you. That’s when you learn what it’s all about.

You are so correct. All my friends and family are gone. And it is happening to many of us, when we change. ❤❤❤

3 minutes in, and I immediately subscribed…..there is something magical about this man!

@jimmyj8161

9 күн бұрын

I thought exactly the same ❤

Concur. Isolation therapy is especially more important and more relevant than ever, considering we live in a characterologically psychopathic culture. I took a few years off to get my head straight, and it was the best thing I ever did. I find myself not particularly motivated to mingle with status quo, unaware zombies...because it feels pointless/boring. I'm there, and they're in fantasy.

Well said. Sometimes we have to go away, becasue we are not ready for the next step, and need time to shapen the saw, get our own fire burning more intensely.

This was excellent thank you. Glad to see a fellow stoic out there that understands the power and necessity of solitude 🙏🏻

First time I have watched your channel. Thanks and appreciation from London. The stoics are a source of timeless wisdom, ( many of its tenets are to be found in the major religions and philosophies of the world) which you inculturate for a contemporary audience with intelligence. I liked your analogy of the junk food and how that can be a symbol of every aspect of our lives in terms of peer pressure to continue in ways that are unhelpful to us. You have a very pleasing manner as a presenter. Self effacing but authoritative.. I have liked and subscribed. Here's to "the bliss of solitude" as Wordsworth said.

This came at the right time, I have been searching for an answer to the restlessness in my being amongst familiar, frequently on-rotation options but this, the way it’s been communicated, makes total sense. Thank you.

It's true that we must at least entertain antagonistic attitudes without accepting them; to self-exile is a mark of discipline. I hope and pray that this is a time of solitude and not an isolation.

The fact that this video was suggested by KZread, I now understand where I stand in life🙂

@shubhamsa4457

23 күн бұрын

Me too 😅

@DharitriMahanta30

23 күн бұрын

Same here

@tawnytirado143

20 күн бұрын

Healing journey ❤

@ahsanshoaib962

18 күн бұрын

Same

I really needed this today. I had an ego death experience a few months ago (a sober one!) and when I came out of it, I had such a hard time holding on to the wonderful parts of myself I had found. I knew it was necessary to regain some sense of ego and some psychological defenses just to navigate the world, but I was shocked how poorly people responded to what had happened to me and how quickly a number of people around me treated me very badly for not conforming to their idea of how I should be in any given moment. I had to cut off a number of people just for the sake of my own heart because I couldn't take the pain of their cynicism and disdain. Since then, I've felt bitterness creep in. And I've been working my way through it, but I felt like I had failed at something. But realizing now how new and fragile my mindset was, it's not surprising that I regressed somewhat. I felt like someone who finally quit smoking after a lifetime and was constantly finding myself in rooms filled with toxic smoke. I've retreated from the world quite a bit, but I felt ashamed for doing so. It made me feel like it was impossible for me to live in the world anymore because I was just too fragile. That all the people who seemed to be insisting that their negativity was "normal" and the only sensible response to living in a chaotic world were actually right. I began to break faith with what I had come to learn and know -- namely that there is a better way to live in the world. This video helped remind me that just because I haven't strengthened myself fully yet to navigate in the great wild world doesn't mean I won't be able to one day. And that I still have the chance to overcome my bitterness and disappointment and shame.

@adiesi9555

21 күн бұрын

Keep going!

This is what I needed to b reminded of that what I'm doing isn't actually wrong. I have this close friend of mine whom I use to do certain things with and now I let go and haven't seen them for a while because I don't want to keep on reliving on the past and doing the same old things. I do appreciate them with the fact that we have gone through several difficult times in life, but it doesn't mean that I have to still live with that person and share my life with them. It was a good times and bad times but I've been done reliving and doing the same old things because of them. They don't understand about moving on and seeing things fowardly which dissapoints me because I know I had to let them go and never see them again . All they do is just bring me down with them. Thank you for making me feel like I have done the right and not feeling like I just abaonded them. I do pray for them and hope for the better and change. Its one individual who has to make the change for their own good. Again thank you for this message Im sending blessings, guidance, and protection your way angel 💗

@SF_Native

24 күн бұрын

I have a similar friend I have known since college. We used to party together, and continued to until last year (college was many, MANY years ago, so it was a while). During Covid he began to sell this substance and made it very easy for me to obtain. I had to cut him off completely, block his number and even delete my social media. I asked him to leave me alone for a while and I haven’t heard from him since. We had been through a lot together but I can’t go down this path with him. I can never be friends with him again. I have been on the straight and narrow since and have finally found my true self. Good luck to you on your journey. Some people aren’t meant to be in our lives forever, just temporarily so that we can learn a lesson and move on.

@gabriellebolton3297

23 күн бұрын

@@SF_Native 4:11

This is the exact way I have been living the past 3 years. I could not have put my choice this into words any better. What a useful video. Thank you

I was ready to hear this today. I needed to hear this today. I've been absent for some months now and I'm starting to get the urge to reintegrate. I'm not quite ready though, I need to hold out a little longer until I'm in a mindset where I won't regress.

Abstinence makes the heart grow stronger

I agree for the most part with what you’re saying, especially with what we consciously choose to consume, but from a humanistic approach - what if that so called ‘toxic’ person is also going through his/hers ups and downs and maybe (or most definitely), we are the strength and support he/she needs. Even though it’s invisible at first - the good influence we do, but I believe that all acts of love and compassion heal people in mysterious ways. I was writing this while thinking about my friend with pretty severe chronic depression for quite some time and no real actions to get help.

Half-way through the video and it feels like a sign from the universe. I'm healing and getting better 💪

This information is good but people should be careful not to misinterpret this and use it as an excuse for not being the best person you can be and want to be. Ultimately you are the master of you no matter who you are surrounded by. There is a lot of victim mentality being promoted nowadays. Don’t fall victim to that

@AlvinaGachugu

25 күн бұрын

Was looking for this 💯

@mr.ricochet8603

24 күн бұрын

True, but I don't think this video can be misinterpreted that way, it would require some mental gymnastics.

@kerfluffle

23 күн бұрын

The assumption here is that the listener of this video is already doing their best to live by their virtues despite not being perfect. People have their own traumas and triggers and sometimes even codependent relationships they’re struggling to break away from. The “master of you” you speak of is the exact goal these people want to achieve, and if they already were that, they wouldn’t be struggling so hard. Self-compassion is what he’s speaking of here while continuously working on yourself.

@Jay-bw3fl

22 күн бұрын

@@kerfluffle …which is why I said don’t misinterpret what he is saying…

@kerfluffle

21 күн бұрын

@@Jay-bw3fl While a valid concern, I don’t believe you have much to worry about. The video sets some excellent context for the main message. To echo what @mr.richochet8603 said, it would really take some kind of mental gymnastics for someone to twist the content and turn it into a victim mentality POV.

There's a balance between influencing people to make a bigger effort doing something interesting together through leadership and charisma, and accepting their flaws out of gratitude for their presence.

@edenkathleen4718

29 күн бұрын

very well said

Thank you. I really need this type of message right now. I'm exactly doing just that: going absent for a while, and hoping to come back better.

Oh I was suppose to hear this, living alone is so rewarding these days, thank you 🙏

One of the most balanced, well tuned approaches to this topic. Well done. :)

Thank you so much handsome man! 💖

Thank you for everything you are doing!🙏 I am currently taking some space from some family members that do not align with me and my inner peace and all the work I’ve done. This video came at the perfect moment for me. “If you want to change what your mind is, you have to change what your mind wants” love love ❤

Thank you so much for this- I have been dealing with an internal struggle between the path I am forging and the sometimes limiting influence of friends . I’m not sure… but I think it comes down to knowing what’s important to you, your own values and beliefs - and the courage to hear/accept differing beliefs from those close to you 🙏

Just scrolling through and stopped on you,thanks for sharing i really appreciate your help

This video came to me exactly when I needed it. I have extremely needy people in my life and have felt it was unkind to not be there for them. But I just came to a stop. Today I am feeling like it is time for me to go on a solo journey. Feels weird but I feel like it is time to be with me and nourish my soul.

hello !! I found you randomly I feel like finding you is one of the important things that happened to me to serve my growth thanks a lot!

I am new here, accidentially your video got into my feed. I am religious, what you speak of is written in the bible and kabbalah principles. The eyes, ears and mouth are feeding the spirit and soul this can either elevate your soul or distort it and have a negative impact. Thank you for sharing.

Exactly. Agreed in total. I've been just going through the process. I've been absent for a while...

Thank you so much. I really needed this. You speak to my soul

Loved your peaceful, slow-paced, value-packed advice. Thanks, man! Will give my best to implement it right away.

I made this mistake in a big way. Long story short I moved in with my girlfriend and her children. I thought I could raise them up. But they took me down terribly. It's been 7 years that was over and im still feeling the affects. I grossly overestimated my strength and ability.

@holsen8269

10 күн бұрын

Good on you for trying. Take the experience for the learning gift it can be, you tried to do a good thing, give yourself some credit and let go of the hurt. Bless your heart.

This is absolute truth and so well said 🙏🏼😊✨

It is very difficult to walkaway from influences especially from your close friends after transforming and choosing a new path in life with new habits integrated into your lifestyle. It is better to isolate yourself and let the fire blaze up enough to burn away the temptation and influence.

Just a recent graduate. 2/12 months in without any social media other than my work acc, YT, and Pinterest. Planning to do creative arts and learning the things I didn't have time to learn back then.

this channel is creating a huge impact on my life. i watch your videos daily and practice some of your ideas in real life they are extremely helpful in todays generation

Incredible that this video appeared on my thread, as I just recently became quite sick in a scary way and I want / need to make a drastic change of lifestyle but was scared to fail dreading the loneliness that will unmistakably prevail in the next few weeks. So thank you for reminding me it’s the right path and I can be strong enough to get better 🙏🏻🦋✨💙

This is such an interesting take on life. So many toxic friendships and relationships that leave you feeling less than, and wondering why you keep going back for more. Thank you I had never thought about things in quite that way before. New subscriber. I love the short videos, to the point and incisive.

Very well articulated . Excellent content . This world needs people like you . Keep up the good work 🙏 A sapling needs fence till it becomes a tree . Nurture and persevere. I liked the example : You are with someone if u r in the company of a tv show or a podcast . How true . Going a step further … In fact we are with ourselves ( our mind ) even if we r in solitude sans all social media . We r never alone per se till the time we master our mind. / thoughts .

So on the money, such grounded advice. Aligns perfectly with all I've been learning for years, through many esoteric spiritual teachers, yet your approach is undeniably very accessible to the mainstream audience, with the same pithy insight. Unreal, thank you, may keep burning bright 🙏

This analogy makes more sense than your other video on the topic. I'm all about taking ownership of situations but I'm stuck in a hostile work environment. I NEED to get out of that. The concept that it's me because I can't deal with stress made go hmmm. Not that I didn't ponder your advice. But this applies to my situation. When I step out of the situation, I recover. When I go back to it in a few weeks I'm on my face again. Thank you for revisiting this topic.

Hey bro, Just thanks for this video, it helps out greatly. For past 4 months nothing makes sense, life is like a rollercoaster going up very little and going down 10x of that, my mind just isn't in its right state anymore, I feel like there's this fog inside my mind and I can't think clearly, zoned out, overthinking, ruminations most of the time, it's very very shit, my friends they're good but the things they say sometimes as " joke ", being in my lowest state, these type of words hits like a knife, I see myself having alot of potential, but I feel it all being wasted day by day. Your video and the things you said is maybe just what I wanted to hear, complete disconnection from the world and focusing on my goals and achieving my ambitions. Thanks.

wow thank you, thats exactly what I needed. I am not anymore pulled to the persons that I once spent my time with. For at least now several months. And by that I mean my family too. The last days it was for me so hurtful, because the people around me cant understand my viewing point and often I thought I act wrong and egoistic. I get always reminded why I am on my way to the next chapter. I am ready for it, for new people, for people in a higher consciousness and for an upgrade version of me ;D thank you for reading

Random but you look so majestic, your energy is so refined, your aura is shiny and down to earth. Your thoughts are so helpful, the accent everything perfect. Universe truly loves you. Thanks for videos like this. I believe in spiritualty and these guidance definitely work.

Well Said. Your tone of voice encourages. Your own experience shows you know what you’re talking about. Thank you for creating your channel.

Stumbled apon this by chance, just what was needed, thankyou.

The most helpful advice I could have received, at the time I need it most.❤

I have to say this makes complete sense to me! Thank you for these powerful words.

Absolutely wonderful message. Been living that way for quite some time. It’s a challenge to be so different than most people who associate with just anyone. But the end results have always been worth it, including developing the self control to say no to people and situations that have no potential to make us soar. Thanx for the video, and many of your other ones.

As so many others have commented, this video resonates so much with what I've been feeling. As u were talking about people changing thier eating habits, i was like 'wow'..I'm doing exactly that: giving up eating garbage' Glad i saw this video. Thank you!

Damn you’re right i thought i was crazy after going out while chasing my dream. Im still chasing my dream and it doesn’t feel too good going out right now while i know i have business to do. Now i have money in my pocket but i still have business to do and my spark isn’t bright enough. Unfortunately i will have to cut ties with two people that are very important to me but those are the same negative people fading my spark feeling i had while being fully focused on myself and what really matters, they just dont have the same urgency as i do and i dont have time to waste. I really needed to hear this man thank you so much! Will be Making my moves soon

So much gratitude for this content, for your words, for your energy, you shine bright and resonate deeply.

This is so well said, logical and true. Thank you

I came across your KZread video today...I consider myself to be spiritually strong and definitely self reliant....and your words definitely impacted me....thank you.

This is the mindset that Ive been having trouble with. This opened my mind about it more. Thank you.

I feel like I not only need to go away more frequently but that I just feel better by staying away. Love the way you think!

Yes I've realised at certain point some of them drained my energy like an energy vampire just because of am an empath. But something made me to realize that I need to vanish for sometimes so I did that exactly for two years. I am always and forever alone ranger. I felt I can survive all by myself. After knowing the power within me. It's a blessing to be alone

What a right time to see this. I need this one. Thank you

I'm currently struggling with this. I've developed a horrible habit of going on the internet and pretty much purposefully looking for stuff that I know will make me feel depressed and incredibly anxious. It's an addiction at this point, and it's funny that it is because engaging in this doesn't offer any relief, it just makes me feel terrible. It's stopping me from progressing in my life and making the positive changes I know I need to make.

@KennMsn

2 ай бұрын

A big tip for getting rid of bad habits apart from the one in the video: try to make it as hard for yourself as possible to do the thing. For instance: set an app time limiter.

@diamonddust3518

Ай бұрын

@@KennMsn Thanks. I am going to try to do this!

@Diogolindir

Ай бұрын

Ive been in similar situations, not about the internert. Im doing better now, it takes time and effort. Don't neglect your body, move and lift heavy stuff. Eat natural food and face nature.

@weekendatbernies2265

28 күн бұрын

IT has a name: Doom Scrolling

i am glad that i found your channel 💜, i was trying to break some bad habits but the environment, place, people were making it harder and harder so i decided to get away. everything changed for the better but i started questioning my decision to leave and your videos are helping me to stay focused on my progress and not go back to this environment again.

@mennahisham4359

Ай бұрын

but is it okay to go back to the same environment when you are stronger?

Greetings ! First time viewer and I couldn’t have asked for a better narrative. Completely on point with a voice of authenticity. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. ❤

Thank you very much for sharing your reflections, I am glad that your channel appeared to me, it makes me curious how I began to reflect on something and in one of your videos you comment on a reflection that helps me understand what I had in mind! I feel like it's amazing and very healing, thank you again for creating this channel!

you spot the exact thing happening to me again and again. Thank You ❤

Each video is invaluable content to be consumed. Once to be felt. Twice to be heard. Thrice to take root. Again, as needed, to be humbled. I thank you for the lessons.

Just subscribed this video really resonated with me im currently cutting alcohol and smoking out of my life and been going gym every day, feel absolutely amazing now, great video thank you excited to watch your other videos ❤

it`s brilliant, very true and reflects somehow everything that`s happening in my life right know. I like that this way of thinking of success and friendships/entertaiment is not about "toxic productivity" like in most influencers in social medias. very comforting

Just found the right thing on the right time. Was thinking to get out of everyone life and got this just in a while.

thankyou, i see your words as God sent, this is everything i needed to hear today to validate the next step of my life. Thankyou for being the medium of this message being delivered to me

Solitude helps me enjoy my own company.

Blessings and thank you for this words 🙏🙏🙏

I was currently thinking about just isolating and going back into myself and giving to myself. I feel myself fizzling out and falling into a depression. But something in me felt a certain obligation to the people and factors around me , I didn't feel like I was allowed to that it's selfish and dramatic so I decided against it. Then this video pops up at the right moment and it's made my decision that much easier. Thank you for this

There is one influence above all others and it is the hardest to escape. 8+ hours a day 40+ hours a week. You need it to pay the rent and pay for groceries. It's your job. Everything else pales in comparison. Every social media any friend even any lover has little influence compared to the time and energy required by your job. So yeah ditch your friends. Ditch the screens. Go away. But oh do you have enough vacation time to really get to the point where you are burning bright again? For a lot of us no because we know we'll have to go back to the job that is destroying us snuffing us out day by day hour by hour.

@ICanTellIt

24 күн бұрын

Facts

@jillymills1

20 күн бұрын

True and it’s scary to leave the security

@lockandloadlikehell

18 күн бұрын

lol you're projecting

@bubalewey800

11 күн бұрын

@@lockandloadlikehellyou’re interrupting 🤷‍♀️

Thank you🙏 This is exactly my topic. I just deleted all the subscriptions on KZread that fuel my thought loops and hey presto I came across your confirming video. Great metaphor of the 2 coals. You're subscribed 😇

Keep changing keep adapting don’t limit yourself to your fears or negative thoughts clean them and change like the flow of water . 🌊

Isn’t it amazing how the universe works Just last night I decided to take myself out of the lives of some people who I know have just drained my energy and self worth I am inherently a massive introvert and know in my heart of hearts that I need to spend some time now alone While I work a lot and a lot of my work involves speaking to people, I do it from home and have managed to really carve out a niche for myself in my profession. This keeps me more than fulfilled. But I cherish solitude and I just know that this is what I now need to find my centre again and to clear out all stagnant energy. Coming across your video lays it all out so clearly Thank you

Perfect timing to find your message. Thank you ❤

This aligns well with the monk mode trend. Never tried it but perhaps some utility in it

This is the phase I am in now and this was very reassuring to hear. Thank you for your wisdom.

Thank you. Very nicely stated. Refreshing and concise.❤

It makes perfect sense . Thank you for giving me this insight.

Love how to KZread algo can spit out just what I need at the right time when I'm moving things in the direction I want to. Thanks for the reminder. very fitting. New subscriber.

Very helpful. Just what I needed at the moment. Thank you for posting. 🌟 🧡

As a Christian this was given to me right now for a reason. I’ve been feeling this message strongly now via the Holy Spirit 🙏❤️

I found you by happenstance, seemingly. You are answering the question I've been mulling over for months! I am currently in isolation.

Refreshing to hear about this topic.