If your "honor" is more important than your daughter's well-being, you have no honor.

@Gypseygirls

4 жыл бұрын

they just have thick egos.. that's it!

@harrisn3693

4 жыл бұрын

How can they when they got taped by britian...

@misstt25

4 жыл бұрын

He really could have saved his daughter but vanity was more important.

@antwto8784

4 жыл бұрын

And you've failed as a parent. who chooses honor over their own childs wellbeing. you think people would have their own mind but sadly no

@ljmcdonald2703

4 жыл бұрын

And shouldn't be a parent. Period.

My abuser(ex husband) abused me from day one after I married him & came to U.K. I’ve come from a middle class family. I’ve been to good school & colleges. Also, fluent in English. But this wasn’t enough for my abuser. He used to complain how I don’t speak in British accent. I don’t work hard in his family business & generate good profits for him. This man went to heights of abuse when I was expecting his child. That was it. I had to leave him. Since then I’m living my life in peace with my child.

@KV-db9gw

5 жыл бұрын

Wow. You're a hero. 💙

@basicbase749

5 жыл бұрын

So happy for you❤️❤️❤️❤️

@namikazeminato36

5 жыл бұрын

Glad that you finally left that abuser. More courage to you and your child.

@LDuke-pc7kq

5 жыл бұрын

You never please an abusive man, they will always find something else to use as a excuse to abuse, they are all Cowards. So glad you got away, your child will be greatly blessed to grow up with a mom that can now be healthy, strong and wise without a toxic home life. You are Beautiful!

@shithappenedwhatnow3028

5 жыл бұрын

Now how many women can you help sister? You are a brave warrior on the front lines of domestic violence awareness and support. Bless you! Be the light :)

I am from Northeast India (Meghalaya) and we practice matrilineal tradition wherein we do not have dowry. Post marriage a guy has to stay at a girl's house. Thanks to our Ancestors 💕

@wabwobarolex6088

Жыл бұрын

A man lives in the bride's family house ????🙄🙄🙄🙄 that encourages laziness

@amrita5988

Жыл бұрын

@@wabwobarolex6088 It was the culture in kerala too-I come from the same tradition.Unfortunately because of the invasions,the people are having a Mughal and colonial mindset and hence the dowry and patriarchial traditions came.Its heartbreaking too see those being adopted by people around me....

@pratikshavichhivora7952

9 ай бұрын

by that logic women going to the man's house should be called laziness as well, but its not, its called duty, just how it is, culture, ancient practice. Dont be stupid@@wabwobarolex6088

@tasi4372

Ай бұрын

​@@wabwobarolex6088 Nope. In Northeast India and even in minority groups of Bangladesh, the matriarchal system dictates everyone to work. It's not free food from in-laws. The men have to earn for the children and women earn for the household. It's an equal system. Only in patriarchal households, the in-laws won't let their live-in sons-in-law work because of so called honor.

That father saw how his daughter was suffering and still he forced her to stay with her abuser. He's responsible for her death. For all ladies never stay with an abusive huaband. Divorce is a good solution for such marriages.

@meg-iv1sw

4 жыл бұрын

He will blame himself 4ever..he never savedhis daughter....where is honour wen his daughter is dead

@rp7159

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, every girl should be free to marry who SHE chooses to marry. Old backward religious dogmas should be discarded IF the girl's personal freedom is at stake. What her father thinks is not of importance, it's what the girl thinks for herself is important.

@ColonelFluffles

2 жыл бұрын

You're right, but it's she didn't stay with him she would've been single for life. Ending up alone when she's old. Like, literally.

@thandiwejambawa7827

2 жыл бұрын

I'd rather have a divorced daughter than a married dead one

@alipennington3764

8 ай бұрын

@@ColonelFluffles At least she would be alive, that’s far better then the alternative. Not to mention as an Australian citizen she potentially wouldn’t have to conform to her cultural standards and be socially punished for being single woman like back home, she had a great career, the woman had options. Also she’s was so beautiful, believe me, she could have found someone who actually deserved her and loved her if that monster didn’t kill her.

It's better to be single than being married to the wrong man

@AdamSahr-cj4kf

5 жыл бұрын

It's not about "being married to the wrong man", but rather being married into a primitive culture...

@jascintarebello3234

5 жыл бұрын

ROBIN WILLIAMS MUST HAVE SPOKEN HIS HEART When he said ' I use to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. Its not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone

@ShikhaSharma-qw4px

4 жыл бұрын

Yup. It's very hard to find a good person in marriage to be arranged.

@susanverspagen1974

4 жыл бұрын

I love being single!

@nemoniente5844

4 жыл бұрын

...or to the wrong woman, for that fact...

I remember some years ago a girl who canceled her wedding because the dowry demands were becoming outrageous. It made international headline news. She was a strong independent Indian girl and her family backed her up. I hope this becomes a trend.

@arxsyn

6 жыл бұрын

Anne Boleyn l would like to know about these demands. I imagine they increasingly escalated. They agree on something but the other party would come back and want something else or other

@beckykeeler1789

5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha that's hilarious!

@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202

5 жыл бұрын

I would like to hear about that.

@mustaqahmed9812

5 жыл бұрын

That's a big business in lot of countries, apparently selling a girl with money, money you have to pay to the buyer. It's a slavery in different form. Not only men are entirely responsible but also groom's mother & sisters are as well,another thing is social pressure. That's a very critical structure been nurturing for centuries. Sometime I wonder will it be abolished at all. Dowry, where human become a product.

@evelinholmes6401

4 жыл бұрын

Becky Keeler why do you find that hilarious? I think it is sad and I agree with the bride.

I m glad that I rejected a person whose parents wants money for marriage. I literally told him that ur parents wants to sell u n m not ready to buy u..go sell urself in an open market.. now m lucky to have a beautiful partner in my life..

@beebumble3289

4 жыл бұрын

You told him to go sell himself! hahahah..Savage! Good job.

@shadows4419

3 жыл бұрын

Geetika Tibrewal good for you !!

@geetikatibrewal1381

2 жыл бұрын

@THE ZOLDICS by ur reply I cn think u r very much ready to sell urself in the market.. beta male...

What shocks me is that she's an Aerospace Engineer who worked for Boeing in the US and she was treated this way. She's an intelligent and courageous woman, and yet she's defined by the cowardice of her "husband." I'm stunned. They should be paying her!

when will this society understand that their daughter is more precious than social stigma?

@vickieminhas6592

4 жыл бұрын

Not in this generation

@pemfimrs1419

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah get with the program India

@antwto8784

4 жыл бұрын

not this culture. people are still brainwashed into thinking daughters are a burden i'm from a pakistani muslim background and even though Islam says women are just as important as men, sadly due to the cultures backwardness people still celebrate more and seem happier when a son is born but when a daughter is born they are like oh.... ok i guess. even in my family they are like this even though they call themselves modern!

@samreenfatima2551

4 жыл бұрын

Not any time soon.

@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856

4 жыл бұрын

vickie minhas you mean our parents generation coz this generation we will not care

As we now say in Nigeria, better a living divorced daughter than a dead married daughter.

@ti_writes2818

4 жыл бұрын

My dear. It's far better. Our families don't have issues accepting their daughters back. Highest we return the dowry

@nasreensaher

4 жыл бұрын

I swear!!!

@jeetk5663

4 жыл бұрын

We r Indian , we say better a dead daughter then a living divorcee Don't hate me for this , I feel sorry for this + I m at the recieving end , m a woman!

@nasreensaher

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeetk5663 Women are capable for fending for themselves!

@bismillahir

4 жыл бұрын

@@jeetk5663 i understand

How foolish to let your daughter go through abuses,atrocities and finally got murdered in the name of family dignity and honour .

“Pease don’t divorce her. Be together, stay together and be happy” how was that gonna happen if he straight out told the father he wants divorce?? The father failed his daughter, period!! The second story 😯

I will not marry a person who wants my parents to pay him to marry me.

@mosesyang4222

5 жыл бұрын

In my culture we have a "bride price" where we must pay the price to the parents of the bride...typically $5000 but can be more based on the purity of the girl and educational background

@caritogarcia24

4 жыл бұрын

@@mosesyang4222 where are u from??

@ShikhaSharma-qw4px

4 жыл бұрын

I m not yet married (in 30s) because of dowry and as I am working, in arrange marriage groom's family want that I will pay their loans :(

@ShikhaSharma-qw4px

4 жыл бұрын

@Rahr I am considering it now but seems quite difficult

@evelinholmes6401

4 жыл бұрын

Moses Yang totally wrong. You should marry for love and build a live together, not rely on the bride s parents. If you live in western country abide by there customs.

"Where will she go? " this is why you should make your girls independent.

@SelvaKumar_1992

3 жыл бұрын

I second that.

@dyawr

3 жыл бұрын

@Daniel Mendozkevich Yeah, like this guy protected her, right? 😂🤦‍♀️

@dyawr

3 жыл бұрын

She was a qualified physician, she had where to go, as far as employment goes. She could afford to live independently if it came down to it..

@dyawr

3 жыл бұрын

@Daniel Mendozkevich It's not.

@abbymelcoffee1813

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

Deepshika’s father is just as guilty as the vile “husband”

@juliebrothers6033

3 жыл бұрын

Trisha Hopkins sad. After... the fact. Culture is upside down .. needs to be husband pays for woman... lucky to have.. a woman. 😡

@ameliaweights

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

@lilbarbie5263

3 жыл бұрын

At least he loved her. So many baby girls murdered or thrown away but he actually loved his daughter. He was worried for her future because of society and culture. He’s obviously broken from this

Why are there so many spousal murders in the Sikh community? When I was younger in the 80s, I was in love with a Punjabi girl. We liked each other very much and there was so much romance in our relationship. We knew each other from secondary school in a City in Malaysia and it was mutual attraction. After my STPM, I went over to Singapore for work, we kept in touch and we were very much in love. We had been together for almost 5 years by then. When I asked her parents for her, they refused and said that they'll only get her married to a Punjabi guy. I begged her parents, begged her family and finally begged her to leave her family and come to me. She refused and said that she will never hurt her family for anyone. I went through an emotional crisis. I had my whole life planned with her and for her. The fact that we will never be together, broke me apart and I could not imagine her living with someone else and bearing him children. I could not imagine another man touching her. She was my dream. She was my princess from the Fairy Tales. My GOD .. she was so beautiful and she was supposed to be mine. The thought of losing her destroyed me. They got her married to a Punjabi guy. We lost touch for many years and those days in the 90s, there was no Facebook and there was no social media. While it was difficult as I was still in love with her, my parents convinced me to marry a girl of their choice. The last I heard about my ex girlfriend was that she had divorced. She separated from her husband due to family conflicts it seems. Her husband was a business man from India and I am not sure what prompted the separation. If she had married me, I would have taken good care of her, I would have ensured her happiness. While I did get married and have been faithful to my wife of 25 years, the pain of my break up with my ex-GF and the memories I had with her still linger deep in my heart. I know that there is still a part of me that loves her. She was my 1st love and she was my celebration. A celebration that ended but still remain in my heart. A celebration that will never cease no matter what, a celebration that will be celebrated for eternity.

How can this father excuse himself for not bringing his daughter home when he went to visit, he KNEW the danger she was in but note he is far more concerned about saving HIS reputation.

@ShikhaSharma-qw4px

4 жыл бұрын

He is more concerned about his reputation in society rather to save his daughter

@ms.whitefolks1223

4 жыл бұрын

He seems very remorseful.

@ricebeansrockroll882

4 жыл бұрын

@@ms.whitefolks1223 no he dosent, remorse would include him accepting the roll he played in her death. He never even hinted at that at any point.

@nimcoyacqub5497

3 жыл бұрын

It is not such a small issue...marriage is something that is big and hasty decisions can really impact their lives and probably he hoped that they would settle and live a good life of understanding each other

@jennypillay9288

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true his image and status was more important than his daughters well being he shd not be crying now when he had the chance to do right by his daughter he chose not to but instead he asked his son in-law to stay with his daughter wht kind of a father does that sad and pathetic is wht he is

Arranged or not this family was more concerned about social norms than his daughters safety.

@riyabejoy5158

2 жыл бұрын

It's about saving face, an Asian thing.

@nadiabairamis3854

Жыл бұрын

In her fathers eyes- he was trying to save her from being shamed and ostracised by society.. the power of societal pressure is devastating. He paid the ultimate price for it.

@alicechase9290

5 ай бұрын

​@@nadiabairamis3854 No honor in murder

And it's really great to see Australia is raising these questions regarding the dowry and deaths

" When in Rome do as the Romans do ". Put simply, when you leave home, leave your garbage behind.

I don't want to sound cold hearted but Indians should stop these arranged marriages stop making your girls to feel like a burden let people fall in love

@1mikon

5 жыл бұрын

Vannuge Jiiko Not all Indians have this practice.. in the North eastern states there is no dowry. In fact. The brides are given jewelry and gifts by their new families as to honor them..

@stephaniejade7056

5 жыл бұрын

All cultures give gifts.

@atifkhanthegreat

5 жыл бұрын

In India dowry is taken even in love marriage

@1mikon

5 жыл бұрын

atif khan like I said , ask an Indian from the North Eastern region. You will be laughed at. Do not lump all of them together.

@atifkhanthegreat

5 жыл бұрын

1mikon who cares about north eastern. They treated like Chinese in northern India. Northern India dominate all

If you don't love my daughter anymore,shes coming home with me until she can stand on her own again!i don't care what anyone else will think or say!

@openwindowz

5 жыл бұрын

Yes that's how every man should react on such situation. Women are mentally stronger than men, they just need a someone to stand by them. They can change the world

@mihaelaneagu7800

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly, I've spent years of my life bringing up this gorgeous and smart woman so that an idiot could look down on her and abuse her?? OMG! The things I would do to him!

@deniswasacase6235

5 жыл бұрын

Question if the real Iesus arise would you give your son to Iesus to help change this world ? Sorry God has ask me to ask one of you

@openwindowz

5 жыл бұрын

@@deniswasacase6235 yes sure from my side I will never stop my child to do anything good and helpful to the society.

@deniswasacase6235

5 жыл бұрын

In the 1800's there was no letter J there was an I so basically lesus is Jesus so he will come in this name lesus and he will say I am not Jesus I'm his brother he is walking on Earth right now and he not a white man and what brought him out is the prayers of women and the children of the world and the mother earth will bless him first, you are blessed now because I shared this you Amen

In Nigeria we do have dowry but we called it “Bride Price”, the man have to pay lump sum to the bride’s family as a traditional compensation that the mother lose her daughter to inlaw family. Rarely to hear in the social media - no killing or fighting each other between the Nigerian bride’s family and In-laws.

@SVijay-st9ch

Ай бұрын

Man is paying dowry to his daughter 😂

Dowry is illegal in India. When someone asks for dowry or “gifts” that itself should be a red flag. Parents that agree to pay dowry are also equally at fault for the fate being met by their daughters. Unfortunately they only come to the realisation when it’s too late and that is a shame.

@rp7159

3 жыл бұрын

Correct.

@tulsipatel9758

2 жыл бұрын

@THE ZOLDICS two wrongs don't make a right.

@aquariusa2421

2 жыл бұрын

Lots of illegal things going on and by bribing illegal things become legal there.

"Reputation and honour" = death of a woman.😭

How can you pay a man to sleep with your daughter, give him children, and take care of him and his home. It should be the other way around. 🤦‍♀️

@celebratelife217

4 жыл бұрын

india is country of fake cases at current situation, laws are used , misued for settling scores. All gender laws designed on bias thought that women is always innocent and men and his family are considered main culprit. Indian Goverment made situation of men as third class citizen of country , in context of judicial issues. Goverment of india spending billion of doller on women empowerment and same educated womens are misusing laws for personal gains and money. It is sad situation for coutry like india where materlism engulfing family values , i think after a decade or mid of decade indian men and his family will completly stop marriage of his son. If you check sucides of married men in india , it will be eye opener for the reality of the men's situation in country.

@anti1training

4 жыл бұрын

That isn't the point of the video

@segarinnajohnson4092

4 жыл бұрын

@@anti1training so what's the point? Because the video is telling me women pay men large sum of money to marry them. 🤷‍♀️ So please educate me what other point is there.

@segarinnajohnson4092

4 жыл бұрын

@@anti1training in Africa a man save up to marry a woman because she is going to give him a new generation, be his support in life, love and take care of him and his children.

@anti1training

4 жыл бұрын

@@segarinnajohnson4092 The point is about the death that dowries bring. The problem isn't who gives who money. Either way, greed and social status contributes to these tragedies.

Update on the second case: The husband was finally arrested and charged with her murder in 2017

In most of the cases, none of these parents deserve a girl. I know this to my core, that if these girls asked their parents to marry her off to someone of her own choice, these same people would shame these girls. They'd rather marry her to someone on the word of someone else who doesn't know the first thing about the guy or the girl. With the web of lies too good to be true, the guy would be portrayed as the nicest being on the earth, who doesn't have a bad habit, is educated this and that. The girl would always be portrayed someone who would chauffer her husband and oblige to him as it's her duty. Even when the girls start to speak up, these parents are the first one to leave her to die. First they push her into the pit, then make sure to tell her that it's her duty to be there. How sad it is that it takes death of their childern to make them actually regret this decision. High time that fathers to teach their daughters to be strong and mothers to teach their sons to respect women.

No one is pointing the fact that MOST of this dowry related crimes and violence are perpetuated or inspired by the mother of the groom. Should we not then educate those mothers so that we can avoid tragedies like this? It's like the mother of the groom is taking revenge to the bride for the sufferings she experienced when she too was married off to an unknown man!

@11thirtynine

7 жыл бұрын

Fuck the mother in laws, they're too old to learn anything. Educate the young wives and daughters. Educate the young husbands and young boys.

@shabnamrafique3638

7 жыл бұрын

latesukiyaki problem is do they want to be educated on this matter.

@khanmaida

6 жыл бұрын

latesukiyaki they most definitely are perpetuating the cycle of abuse. They suffered and feel the need to make their daughter in laws suffer.

@nishakuttan2822

6 жыл бұрын

The mothers are very controlling and are very involved in their sons life. The sons pride somehow still rests with the mother, most men are not able to say no to their mothers, when they tell them to follow old traditions. A newly wed wife is literally alone in this situation.

@succubus20y

6 жыл бұрын

their culture is the worst within the family and socially

As a Parent I would rather be ridiculed in my community and laughed at and teased than to sell mu daughter off!! Too much pride!! all comes down to Perceptions of others taking precedence over the life of ones own children

@javaranova2164

5 жыл бұрын

Yep, seems that other's gossip is way more important than the daughter you've raised for all those years. Such is the pressure of cultural 'norms'. Makes the mind boggle!

@Mas0808

5 жыл бұрын

They're ignorants. Lack of education is the problem and their misogynistic culture for sure

@carmelpereira6003

5 жыл бұрын

That is exactly the issue with the Indian culture. They are obsessed with gaining everyone's approval.

@susanapollo284

4 жыл бұрын

Absolutely Anne. My own blood. Never

@gayatrimelkote6822

4 жыл бұрын

Abusers are the same everywhere. They are never worth living with.

The only drowry i and my parents asked from my in laws is blessings... I just cant imagine more big than blessings. Material things doesnt bring happiness... Blessings from elders do bring....

I’m from kashmir same story of mine ....only dat night when they plan to kill me I run out of the window bear footed for help .....I’m living with my child yaaa it’s tough but I’m happy with my child we are safe n there is no body who hurts me n beats me.....

I never understood why the girl had to pay for the man. After all she's really the price he is getting a beautiful bride who will take care of him and one day give him kids like wtf? He should be made to pay not the girl!

@KS-cl8br

7 жыл бұрын

Sandra Jefferson . Yeah in Islam the groom has to pay the bride not the bride's family. Unfortunately in many places in India the guy gets paid by the bride and her family.

@fijianplaya11

7 жыл бұрын

Sandra Jefferson i

@anukal1205

7 жыл бұрын

In the old days, a father gave his wealth to his children in two ways: to his sons, the land and estates that were to be equally distributed among all the male heirs (unlike the English system where it was only passed on to the eldest male heir) and to his daughters he gave his wealth either in the form of liquid cash or gold i.e. a dowry. A dowry, therefore was a daughter's inheritance. And a man was considered a weak provider if he touched his wife's gold or money because that was messing with her financial security. However, this has been twisted by sad pathetic people like the one in the video to harass and swindle good women. In India, no man who really considers himself a man would touch his wife's inherited wealth. EVER. These are extreme cases of arseholes. They exist in all societies.

@summerbreeze3358

7 жыл бұрын

Anu Kal Sorry, but this issue is quite common in India where the groom's actual family expect dowry and gifts from the bride's family. They force the bride to be their slave and worker often living with the in-laws to work and care for them as if they own her. Especially within Hindu culture.

@anukal1205

7 жыл бұрын

Summerbreeze it is quite common in India. I'm not denying that. But that's because abuse is common. The difference between what you're saying and what I'm saying is that this is not considered as a morally acceptable thing. No man who considers himself a provider and and who is respectable would do this. It's not a cultural thing, it's a societal problem. Do you have any idea the kind of cultural respect that is given to a woman? It is immense. But that has been twisted by society to enslave her. You get what I'm saying right? It's like in the West.. Where women face so much societal pressure to look good that they inject poison and go under surgery to make themselves into a picture of beauty. That's because they feel they are valued more of they are pretty. But that is not the official culture. You get me? The ones in this video are extreme cases. That doesn't mean those cases are not common. So when you say 'Hindu, culture' you are not entirely accurate. Again, such arseholes exist in all societies. For instance the highest rate of pedophilia among racial groups is found to be among Caucasian men. They are by far the largest number of customers involved in sex tourism where underage girls are exploited in countries like Philippines. Now, don't get me wrong, sexual slavery is present in India too. But by and large, it's with mature women. Again, that's not to say children are not involved, I'm saying taking into account population size and prevalence in percentage points, by far the highest rate of pedophilia is among Caucasian men. That's not a reflection of your culture, now is it?

How are the police not sure if the second guy killed his wife?? 😕😒 1)He was the only other person there with her. 2) She called the police just before, for help. 3) He's threatened to kill her multiple times. 4) He was physically, mentally, and verbally abusive. 5) She was about to divorce him So then why oh why, would she suddenly decide to set herself on fire, & then run outside? 💭😑😡

@blackcallalily6540

6 жыл бұрын

Kk Hh ..yes.. very sad.. God bless her 🙏🏻

@misterguy2929

5 жыл бұрын

The hard part, as hard as it is to believe, fire is one of the things that hardest to prove who did it. There have been people who have set themselves on fire in protest and died. Though circumstantial evidence points to the husband being the perp, there would be need to be more proof than that because a good defense lawyer could easily claim that yes he was abusive and yes she felt threatened but while this might make the husband a terrible person what in fact happened was in her despair she set her self on fire in protest and to escape. It could create enough doubt to atleast result in a hung jury. Though I would like to think a good detective and forensic team could have atleast taken the husband in to detect if he had any traces of accelerants on his hands or clothes. Or had purchased the accelerant prior to the incident. At the very least I would think he would be charged with manslaughter though not sure how different AUS law is compared to the US.

The father seems more concerned about his feelings than his daughter's safety and security even after his daughter died!

Strange, his daughter wanted to leave the marriage many times and the parents kept pushing her back. When she’s gone, they blamed the authorities instead of his son in law.

I've been single for more then 10 yrs, after getting out of a abusive, controlling, jealousy relationship. I couldn't be happier being single. My choice of course.

@trishahopkins6574

4 жыл бұрын

Ronda SunShine good for you 👍

@crohniequeenab

3 жыл бұрын

Good for you 💜

@saltysoul73

3 жыл бұрын

Me too. 🥰🌺

@Signal_light_instructor

3 жыл бұрын

What about when you miss a man's company

@cynthg9547

2 жыл бұрын

I been single for 2 years I really enjoy it. /Hope for the best for you /enjoy your life/

So this woman is literally burned alive, the only other person in the house at the time is her husband and no arrest has been made, yeah ok?!?

@gokarengo

5 жыл бұрын

..and who sets themselves on fire these days

@kiwimuslima9661

4 жыл бұрын

@@Mas0808 oh please tell us where these "No go" zones are

@Sadidesifamily

4 жыл бұрын

Australian laws need to catch up and be updated

@christyassid8871

4 жыл бұрын

Wake up, Australia! If these women were Australian women, you would be outraged, making all kinds of efforts, to provide safe havens for these women, and harsh punishments for their abusers. These women are human beings, and Australia is a modern, civilized country! There is no excuse for allowing these horrid atrocities, to continue! Shame, shame, shame on you!

@LaRossaSelvaggia

4 жыл бұрын

Australia the fair . . .

Arrest this old man first. He deserves it before arresting her husband. People fail to understand "A divorced daughter is far better than a dead daughter"

Australia should deport the family who burnt this young woman to death over greed of money & dowry payments by her husband & his family .put them in prison in india

Shame on those parents who thinks saving marriage is more important then being happy or even though being abused also fine, what's wrong with the family. 😡

@msjanegrey

5 жыл бұрын

Its sort of funny that hippies were so bewitched by India.

@aquariusa2421

2 жыл бұрын

It's going on since ages. It became culture there. And if one person, parents raises voice and bring their daughter home, the whole relatives, friend circles start start talking bad about them. They starts losing family name, respect. They care about their honour more than anything.

@LoveyK

2 жыл бұрын

All cultures cling to the belief that saving the marriage is crucial. Read the marriage vows, “honor & obey, til death”.

@LoveyK

2 жыл бұрын

@@msjanegrey Hippies? lol

@Lakridza67

2 жыл бұрын

@@LoveyK on point!💯

That lady psychiatrist lay a lot of blame and responsibility on Australia’s door, but it’s really a result of a deep rooted misogynistic Indian culture. Even India doesn’t have a handle on this, so how can a foreign government?

@romb4649

5 жыл бұрын

@@aleekaamor9097 BS.. what do you, call it!?? You can't sugar coat this.

@quintaeco

5 жыл бұрын

@@aleekaamor9097 its backward culture not just culture!

@cam0987

5 жыл бұрын

I'm indian girl i agree

@WindDancer435

5 жыл бұрын

@@aleekaamor9097 What then is the proper word? It is part of the Indian culture and the mores of that society. It may not be written down, but it is part of the expectations of that society and that is a part of culture.

@Nndggdcgc

5 жыл бұрын

@Lolly you hit the nail right on the head. Nobody likes to say it out loud, but it’s the truth. I’m a brown girl myself.

There's no "honor" in letting your daughters getting abused, knowing about it and doing nothing. These people! Smh!

I have never heard a dowry-related death among the more than 1 million Indian community in Malaysia, be it among the rich, middle-class or the poor in my entire life. Bravo to the Malaysians!

Somehow, I don't understand why the father didn't bring her home, when he had the opportunity to. He talked about the disgrace of divorce......now she is gone. Sad.

@irenexoxo8175

5 жыл бұрын

Now he has to deal with the "disgrace" of a murdered child and an orphaned grandchild.

@comictube1831

4 жыл бұрын

Thi Huynh if you don’t understand a social setup you can’t be able to understand fathers decision, one marriage means one husband till death No rights of divorce, personality abuse and family abuse A women carry lot of baggage on the shoulders of a girl

@Trini2dbone868

20 күн бұрын

@@comictube1831idiot man and idiot stupid comment!

@Trini2dbone868

20 күн бұрын

Yeah cause he’s an idiot. Some people should not have been blessed with children period!

Pimping is Illegal but you put Tradition on it and it's legal ?

@kimmulakshmi

4 жыл бұрын

Finally, someone who thinks like me. It's modern day prostitution.

@lowboonkiat73

4 жыл бұрын

Ancient + tradition + culture + parents = Command respect

@marylee4553

4 жыл бұрын

@@lowboonkiat73 it's not Respect where is the Victims Respect " Respect is earned not given ' If you're a good parent you don't have to ask for Respect it will be given it's Control " But I know what you're talking about

@blueshoes5145

4 жыл бұрын

@@lowboonkiat73 ancient tradition isn't the epitome of truth. In fact our ancestors didnt have quarter of the knowledge we have now. This is what you call ignorance and blind acceptance. No one with half a brain would practice problematic traditions aka ones that allow violence or other form of harm to another. India is known to be ahead in education since ancient times but how can an innocent tradition to gift their daughter become twisted over the years to become a gift to the husbands family? Wtf

@piamadison5539

4 жыл бұрын

Good point

Poor families im so sorry for everything that theyve gone through and im sorry for their loss and i pray that god helps the families through these horrible tragedies and i hope the girls are at peace now in heaven

I have suffered from this. I stayed in comma for 9 months but I was lucky enough to have life again. I don’t have relation with my family.

If a man demanded money/gold to marry me, my dad would laugh in his face and tell him to get a job. I suppose it's tradition. India It's time to evolve.

@user-qo5oi6py9x

3 жыл бұрын

People who have everything, and are socially and economically doing well demands the most... Even lakshmi mittal an indian business tycoon gave each visitor a car as a gift.. This is deep rooted evil.. Its the family that pushes it... 😣😣

@CA-bw9kc

3 жыл бұрын

Dowry is not compulsory. Traditionally a parents give to their daughter will start new life. Old time actually mens are bring dowry. 20th century people suffering with this dowry. So many girls are hard time to get marriage. Still going on...

@alinakrem6089

3 жыл бұрын

It's actually banned in india ...bit just bcoz it's banned dose'nt mean it's stoped..

@agrawalanu2933

3 жыл бұрын

I have two older brothers. One of my brother recently got engaged and my father refused for dowry which made me feel that things are changing in better way 😀.

@neilknapman4974

3 жыл бұрын

If a man demanded money/gold to marry me, my dad would laugh in his face and tell him to get a job. I suppose it's tradition. India It's time to evolve.

During my sister wedding i have seen her in-laws Fighting / bargaining for $700 more like purchasing vegetables from local market.. In my village farmers have to sell off their land to fulfil demands of bridegrooms family... Dowry is Prohibited in Our country by legal means but silently 99.99% people practice it... 😞

@Sunil_KumarDas

4 жыл бұрын

I mean yeah! most peoples do! No matter educated or non-educated! Also, Even brides look for rich groom! I can say, dowry is more common though other way around is also popular!

@theekshanamaparathne1906

2 жыл бұрын

@THE ZOLDICS shame on your mentality. They don't live for free now. Women do jobs you know?

@rashmii_kashyap02

2 жыл бұрын

@THE ZOLDICS free , how can say that a woman lives free in her husband, a woman do all household work ,look after children, how can say that...? ur mother live free in father hpuse?

@satyendrsingh6071

2 жыл бұрын

@@theekshanamaparathne1906 87% of tax is paid by men, you know? Check tax department reports and 85% money spends by women without earnings, you know?

@antipyramidal8526

2 жыл бұрын

@@satyendrsingh6071 This is a pure hindu vision of women. In islam its the opposite husband must honnor his wife and give her jewelry and clothes and pay for every thing .

Such a sad thing, thanks for covering this

This “father”cares more for the stigma than his daughter’s safety and happiness. In India and China parents they trying to have boys! If they have girls is like a curse for them ⚡️🔥⚡️🔥

Deepshika's Dad didn't love his daughter enough, if someone tells me that they don't want my daughter, i will be the one going to that house and pack all her stuff myself to hell with honour, my babies comes first and it ends like that.....

@hamidhamiyanji

6 жыл бұрын

.

@rotiboty7224

6 жыл бұрын

Mab Mash in pakistan living as widow or divorce is hell.

@liberty6987

6 жыл бұрын

Mab Mash yes

@kayy4511

6 жыл бұрын

That was a hard lesson he had to learn later

@amberturner8579

6 жыл бұрын

I feel that the families have to stop allowing what others think and protect their daughters. How these women are viewed as failures because the marriage didn't work out. Not just in India but globally. Women are not a burden or property

Why parents feel the need to arrange marriage? So their child's life would reflect their own? "He lives in Australia and works in a bank. That's a good impression." Is that all it takes to give your daughter away? Sadly, there's nobody to blame but the parents. I bet if they have another child, they would still arrange another marriage. This tradition will still continue as long as society can not accept the fact that women can be single, happy and healthy. And "society" starts with each of us.

@vtecpreludevtec

6 жыл бұрын

Fibbles G SPOUSE FFFN VISA!its a way to get another one out.

@ZoolanderG

6 жыл бұрын

Fibbles G arranged marriage had nothing to do with what happened here. Arranged or not, if a man is not respectful to his wife and abuses her, the girl's parents should support the girl and get the couple divorced. I know ample happily married couple who had arranged marriage and ample broken marriages which were love marriages. Also, many single girls and boys who would be completely be ok with arranged marriage.

@unboxlaw2300

5 жыл бұрын

u understood it well bro ur totally correct, this law has ruined many husband and their family, this law is framed in assumption 80% cases are false and fabricated to trouble the husband and inlaws.

@basicbase749

5 жыл бұрын

Sadly, YES!

Glad I'm born in a country with no crazy tradition like this.

So sad make me cry😭 Heart broken what her parents going trough♥️

when honor is more important than life.

@JJ-mn8md

6 жыл бұрын

Bebe Ramallosa right!

@swanlilly100

5 жыл бұрын

"honor"

@eddierosa250

5 жыл бұрын

TRUTH!!!

@cam0987

5 жыл бұрын

There's nthg honorable in dis

@jessicalt4121

5 жыл бұрын

Bebe Ramallosa weird how they talk about honor but we need to call it something else. There is no honor to any of this.

I got phone call that your daughter is no more. but at least she's not divorced right? why else would u tell your daughter to stay with an abusive husband

@HopefulInterventions

5 жыл бұрын

shasya ryna that’s what I was thinking 💭

@Lostinmyhead23

5 жыл бұрын

She left and look at the outcome

@scentgasmsbyleila6057

5 жыл бұрын

Right? Your daughter has been murdered by the man you pandered her out to. But hey...at least you didn't suffer the shame and dishonor of a divorce and/or failed marriage. At least now she'll never be able to let you down, eh pops?

I left my marriage of five years,it was so stressing and abusive I couldn't take it anymore so I just call it quit 😢😢😢😢😢😢

You're so strong and a warrior.

The families of these women need to take responsibility for NOT taking action. They sit on their hands for months knowing something is wrong. Hoping that things would magically work out.

@sunandank

7 жыл бұрын

Mrs. Rivera better to be an orphan than have parents like this.

@nabatazijamida942

7 жыл бұрын

Mrs. Rivera the seems ignorant fear divorce see it as an outcast but life goes on

@koezkoez1939

7 жыл бұрын

Mrs. Rivera Marrying a stranger and cash upfront,what could go wrong?

@pammmeee9055

6 жыл бұрын

Mrs. Rivera She divorced him though.

@atifkhanthegreat

6 жыл бұрын

They were outside India, Australians dont understand these thing as arrange marriage is alien to them

The father pleaded with her husband to keep her.. In my eyes the father murdered his daughter also, as well as the husband R. I. P

WTF, i thought the dowry was for the woman. You already took my daughter, now you want money too? smd

@olwenloud9704

4 жыл бұрын

Seja Salina I believe in Muslim families it belongs to the woman and if they divorce, she gets the dowry..

@ruxaa2224

4 жыл бұрын

@Seja Salina, in a culture where families see daughters as burdens they want to get rid of it's only natural to have opportunists show up.

I don't understand this crazy concept of the Bride's Family having to give anything to the Groom. in my culture it's the Guy that gives to his Bride, but even that is what He can afford, People don't go crazy about it, if You can't afford, You can't afford, no One dies over it, let alone a whole Family trying to scrape it all together for You to be able to propose and marry. that's beyond crazy.

My ex fiance and his family were asking for dowry and comparing with my aunt's dowry and we refused and broke up.i would never ever agree with dowry.if that man is not capable enough to make money for himself then why should marry to that looser

@somnukmektakul6163

4 жыл бұрын

Good on you.

@9400lilly

4 жыл бұрын

Very smart girl. Go another step and forget marriage altogether. Invest in you, education, job, hobbies...that culture is medieval and predatory on women. Open your eyes wide open.

@reenajoyram5471

3 жыл бұрын

youtubelover exactly girl

@9400lilly

3 жыл бұрын

@being human One of the big glamourized fantasies of humans is that all parents want the best for their kids. It's simply not true! Sorry to burst the pink bubble. History showed countless times that parents sell their kids for eveything under the sun that gives themselves advantage; money , prestige, fame, personal hapiness, using the ancient tactic called FOG (fear, obligation, guilt). Many even today prefer to marry their daughters to rich families which kill them, just to be well accepted and envied by the comunity. They use the powerless and naive youths for personal gain taking advantage of them and when things go awry the majority categorically refuse any blame. Remember, independently if it is you or others that make decisions over your own life , the consequences will fall on your head. Carve your own path. It's you who get to make your big personal life decisions. Probably your mum doesn't want to let go of control over your life. Tell her off. Or even better, tell her she's right and do your own thing on your terms without anyone know it, stop telling her your "stupid fantasies". Be strong, be careful and meticulous about your decisions, set plans in motion and set free. You're capable, good luck.

@sitifaizah9908

2 жыл бұрын

You go girl!

*I would NOT be willing to die for any man’s hurt pride...* 🤷🏻‍♀️

@AussieBrit

4 жыл бұрын

The point is, your will is irrelevant.

@chandanapathak1602

2 жыл бұрын

It's inevitably the women in the grooms family who encourage and carry out the torture

These parents knew what they were doing when they pleaded her husband to say married to her. It's very sad to see people putting their reputation above their daughters' happiness and wellbeing.

Such a sad and complicated situation. Rip poor lady💔🙏

don't understand the dad begging the husband not to divorce his daughter when he said he didn't want her and wanted more dowry blah blah. if my husband said that my dad would take me straight home and get a lawyer for me to divorce. he'd spit in anyone's face who treated me like that. Dunno how they put 'honour' before their own childs welfare. disgusting.

@Sueloveschoc

7 жыл бұрын

Serena unfortunately in traditional North Indian families once you're married, you can't come back home to your parents. Once you're married you're part of your husbands family and not welcome home. It's like the parents responsibility is done.

@serenaDM

7 жыл бұрын

Sueloveschoc but why raise a daughter for 25 years and love and educate her only to send her off to a husband who treats her like dirt? how can parents do that? my parents would have too much pride to have a husband marry me only to get money and dowry for me. if a man didn't want me and was threatening divorce I know my parents would tell him to f**k off and help me to come home. where is their dignity in allowing someone to walk all over their daughter? I just don't get it.

@shahzad5835

7 жыл бұрын

there is a thing called societial respect or something like that or may be family pride or dignity because of that he don't want him to divorce her,because if he do most of the people think that girl must be bad because most of guys don't divorce their wives over dowry thing but instead they do it when their relationship is not going the right way .If he divorce her it makes her labeled as a bad wive and then mostly people avoid marrying such girls.i hope u get it now.

@DivaNino

6 жыл бұрын

Serena, you will NEVER understand that, because you're NOT Indian or Pakistani.... In Western culture, divorce is like "HI"! But in some countries divorces is simply NO!!! The divorced women are treated like they don't worth nothing and no one respects them in the community.

@DivaNino

6 жыл бұрын

kuch khas Nahi ha bas gee raha hain, Well said. I understand that well. My mom NEVER divorced my dad, coz 1.She didn't want to hurt her family and 2.She didn't want to be a divorcee = bad/ easy woman in society. They are still together and their marriage is much better. I'm so proud of my mother !!! BTW, I'm from Balkan - Macedonia! Peace =)

There's one thing I fail to understand here about her dad.... Surely if your child comes to you and says her husband is being abusive YOU DON'T SEND HER BACK to get abused more! -_- if you go to your parents with a problem, especially one this severe, they should help or in the least take care of you and not make you suffer further.

@brayo144

7 жыл бұрын

Thats the problem with shame based cultures! The father was more ashamed of what people will say than his daughters safety.

@harishaneef26

6 жыл бұрын

brayo144 exactly ! I felt really sad for the dad . Poor man he lost his daughter but he made a major mistake by sending her back and asking him to stay. The problem is the shitty culture in India where people just like to bury their problems and pretend like all is good and this is why he send her back .

@hamidhamiyanji

6 жыл бұрын

Areefa Khan may b u dont knw evn if girl is protected from death point but shes told to go back to inlaws its not just astory it fact.so lots of girls dont coup with parents.thr lifes r lik hell.this clip hav brought out true stroys but still girls hide from puplic police the dont make shows

@nishakuttan2822

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, the girls family expects their daughter to fix the problem herself, give in to the wants of the new family and to not make a show out of it.

@MHCE444

6 жыл бұрын

How do you know he himself didn't abuse hiw own wife? It's such a prevalent custom that they are havinghard time getting rid of it in the year 2015! How do you know everyone in Indian wasn't following it vigorously even 20 years ago?

He married his daughter to a stranger. He should feel guilty.

It’s so interesting how the opinions from others about the family, matter more than the value of a safe life/marriage. That girl literally died because she was too scared of bringing shame to her family. That’s so sad. No judgment, just very interesting observation

I don't get this whole dowry system. If a guy wants to marry a girl and if he's into her then why would he demand that her family pay him to marry her? That's like me going to a store, seeing something I like and demanding the store to pay me to take that thing.

@dancepro67

7 жыл бұрын

Its for men who are successful. No bum off the street is going to ask for a dowry and succeed. Indians understand that australia is a good country which can provide a better future for their kids so marrying their daughter to a guy who has a decent job etc seems like a good idea. In their culture the man is number 1 marriage wise while in western countries women are.

@duckman12569

7 жыл бұрын

Traditionally the man is the moneymaker, so the wife will be a financial liability, so payments are made by the family for him to take care of her financially

@suppeople9987

7 жыл бұрын

JTN 저스틴 right. first time I heard it I thought the man paid the womens family

@ZiaulHaqAdnan

7 жыл бұрын

Ya, that's happen in Muslim community where it is required legally for the man to pay a dowry/gift to the bride at the occasion of marriage. However, some muslim men also demand a dowry from the bride side which is not a legal requirement. They demand it directly/indirectly through cultural pressure because muslim marriage law does not require that. In some countries, it is illegal to ask the dowry from the bride's family. So far I know, in Hindu society, it is religious requirement to pay a dowry to the man from the bride's family. Our hindu friends may verify whether it is a legal or cultural requirement.

@Ppppi4

7 жыл бұрын

They literally explained it at the begining, plus these are arranged marriage the guy has no say in it really, he might not like the girl but he is marrying her because the parents accepted the offer the girls parents made for them to take care of her and accept her as a bride.

1 woman killed every hour!! Omg that's crazy and so sad for these women!

@lateshpatil5307

4 жыл бұрын

TBH more exaggerated imo

@jellyrun1

4 жыл бұрын

Not that crazy out of more than a billion people....sure more die by bike accidents !

@jellyrun1

4 жыл бұрын

It s really not that much out of a billion people !..

@celebratelife217

4 жыл бұрын

india is country of fake cases at current situation, laws are used , misued for settling scores. All gender laws designed on bias thought that women is always innocent and men and his family are considered main culprit. Indian Goverment made situation of men as third class citizen of country , in context of judicial issues. Goverment of india spending billion of doller on women empowerment and same educated womens are misusing laws for personal gains and money. It is sad situation for coutry like india where materlism engulfing family values , i think after a decade or mid of decade indian men and his family will completly stop marriage of his son. If you check sucides of married men in india , it will be eye opener for the reality of the men's situation in country.

@vinumnr2339

4 жыл бұрын

Thats a bullshit statistic..

Misunderstand Love & Marriage its priceless

I feel crying seeing the father the pain of losing his daughter 😢

a message to the indian women n her family "stop judging a man by his wealth, judge by his character". u can save a lot of women

@jareenf483

6 жыл бұрын

Or his 'degrees' ratta marke koi bhi pass hosakta hai, but academic achievements doesnt mean the man/woman is of good character or nature and this something that brown parents in not only India but also Bangladesh need to understand, All sound Asia to be honest.

@sampathkumarsunkari94

6 жыл бұрын

Well said bro

@uncleruckus5121

6 жыл бұрын

its the girls family that gives the dowry

@Rohankumar-dd2ss

6 жыл бұрын

Uncle Ruckus its her family who choose the boy

@unboxlaw2300

5 жыл бұрын

ur rite bro, indian men knows how badly they are suffering and tortures of wifes.

You cant blame Australia for how they handled this issue. You guys have to stop freaking Dowry, stop blaming others and start fixing our culture

@senoracheapee1864

4 жыл бұрын

They probably have to walk a fine line between respecting Indian culture and implementing Aussie law

@mayankjha7444

2 жыл бұрын

We fixed it legally but we cannot visit everyone's house to stop it. This is true and sad unfortunately.

Heartbreaking ..

Thank you......sad.

I’m an indian (Sikh) and on my marriage my in laws never asked a single penny from my parents. Lucky me! And where I come from these norms are changing fortunately

@shonamanju1244

2 жыл бұрын

Same for me. In my region some people started this trend where girls parents refused to marry to a person who demand dowry even they spread these words within social circle like this boy family is not good as they are asking for dowry. So it is like shaming them so it would hard for them to find girl . If person ask dowry on marriage day then they will cancel it and involve local newspaper and police.

@bebe1057

2 жыл бұрын

Same here

@satyendrsingh6071

2 жыл бұрын

@@shonamanju1244 and of girls parents asking for money from men, what you say we should involve police and newspaper, like any financial help should not be asked from men.

Surely the police should have followed the abuse claims more. The father’s love extended only to the honour of the family NOT his daughter. His pain and anguish, not hers 🥺😡

@hannagibson9970

4 жыл бұрын

You are so right ☹️

@sakbhu001

4 жыл бұрын

True. It is honestly the situation with many (if not most) parents here. They think more of the family's so called honor than their children's future.

She was worried about their reputation but they obviously didn’t care she stayed in danger enough that it killed her 🥺

Can't stop my tears watching the father weeps

Where will she live???!!! Oh my God...

@omyomar8468

6 жыл бұрын

Amy Hassan I was like that too oooh my

@lahela4917

6 жыл бұрын

Amy Hassan Ikr? Just shows how much faith they had on their own daughter. Poor woman.

@mcraemctaggart4396

5 жыл бұрын

Amy Hassan Are you backward? In Australian she could live in a shelter until they got housing for her. Women here are not reliant on a man to provide for them. She would be educated and able to get child care to assist her. I brought my house after divorce, no ,an has ever taken care of me. Put on your big girl pants and grow up. Seriously, I do not understand women who don't want to be independent. If the marriage is good you have double success, if not you can move on independently

As a father of 3 girls, this is so hard to watch. May the peace of the Lord be upon these poor families

Dowry is like paying someone to marry your daughter... I will never allow my parents to do so...

It’s a very sad situation for both women, they are both so beautiful and deserved the best in life but it’s very unfortunate that they have met and married monsters. May their soul rest in peace 🙏🏽

My daughter knows an indian guy who's a drug addict and his parents let him get away with everything. He just entered an arrange marriage. The bride's family just gave him a brand new car as part of the dowry. Poor girl, hell awaits her with that drug addict.

@bangerville20001

6 жыл бұрын

Sure he is not your daughter's dealer?

@TheIlikepie911

6 жыл бұрын

Usually drug addicts aren't dealers since they take all the drugs for themsevles

@lotus-Rani-Singh108

6 жыл бұрын

bangerville20001 lol

@HoneyDubey23

6 жыл бұрын

Why don’t you anonymously send her a message or letter? You know important information, why not save that woman’s life? You will be a better person for it.

@lakebaikal5

6 жыл бұрын

Realist LittleIdealist why r u crying over here? Go tell that girl. Idiots

This system is so nasty... Dowry system is one of the most shameful system in India. Indian women should not marry a man who asks dowry...

@user-sn1vd7ih9y

6 жыл бұрын

boxer boxer I agree with you

@INatalkaI

5 жыл бұрын

My guess is a part of it was that he was a resident (or citizen) of Australia. They want one of their family members to get married, go there, get citizenship, then help the rest immigrate. So they pay the man to marry her, but I guess it wasn't enough for him.

@nasimasultana6923

5 жыл бұрын

it happens to hindus only. dowry is not part of islam

@universaltraveller263

5 жыл бұрын

@@nasimasultana6923 murtaza hassan Islamic marriage is a prostitution and a sexual slavery contract where the guy buys women, enslaves them and humiliates them. In hinduism, dowry is the girl's share of her father's property. Marriage is considered sacred. The concept of dowry changed because of poverty arising from Islamic and British invasions of India.

@syaifuddinidris8923

5 жыл бұрын

@@universaltraveller263 islamic marriage ?

My dad is Indian, and he knew a couple who married off their daughter. Mom didn't want to, since we live in a modern country, but the father insisted. She got married and got physically abused by her husband, endured it for many years for "honour", but eventually she got a divorce when it got too much. By then, her father had already passed so she moved back in with her mom in her 40s, and is still there to this day. My dad broke tradition by marrying a Chinese woman, and eventually my extended family opened their minds and hearts stemming from his decision. Now half my cousins are married to non-Indians and we are so culturally diverse. At one of their weddings, the emcee joked about how half the people sitting at the family tables weren't even Indian. And you know what? I think it's beautiful to marry for love.

@AltamishQurashi

2 жыл бұрын

Right

God Bless these woman, they need voices and strength and these abusers and outdated horrible “traditions” need to be punished and stopped

You should not do dowry and arranged marriage. You should not marry someone you don't know!

@TheAjay2211

5 жыл бұрын

Jacqueline Larsen By the time woman hit their adult they must have changed 4-5 guys in life and still thousands women remain single n keep sleeping around under the excuse of new relationships Specially we noticed this in white womens or western culture

@SubhashreeMishrasweetsubha

4 жыл бұрын

As a girl living in India I can say Indian men are sick. Even my friends who are doctors and engineers say that they will take dowry

@dontthinkso8533

4 жыл бұрын

And someone you don't love.

@lateshpatil5307

4 жыл бұрын

@@SubhashreeMishrasweetsubha well hope they get sued under IPC article 304

I am sooo lucky to be a single woman

@vickieminhas6592

4 жыл бұрын

Unlucky!

@annavalentine7555

4 жыл бұрын

vickie minhas better to be happy single than unhappy in a marriage

@vickieminhas6592

4 жыл бұрын

@@annavalentine7555 no not really, u can work on a marriage, there is no point in being single!

@FS02012

4 жыл бұрын

@@vickieminhas6592 i love being single i am in charge of my own life! Not a man

@Gypseygirls

4 жыл бұрын

me too...

The Father " I agreed to the marriage, I accepted his proposal" Stop arranging marriages on behalf of someone else, who are you to dictate someones life.

Yes the father actively partook in his daughter's death by begging her abusive husband to stay married to her even when he knew it would have probably ended the way it did😭😭He miserably failed the poor woman😭

i don't think dowry matters ultimately, these men are totally psychotic... abusive and controlling... no mater what amt. is given, these men are insane and sick

@11thirtynine

7 жыл бұрын

It starts at a young age. Need to educate the young boys and girls while they're still young.

@sunandank

7 жыл бұрын

11thirtynine i would like to see the father in jail : for offering dowry, acting like an ostrich while his daughter went through hell and crying crocodile tears after she is dead.

@MeltedPearls

7 жыл бұрын

11thirtynine The fathers are the ones who decide, clearly. It has to come from them as men.

@ARTISINGH-yo8uq

6 жыл бұрын

i totally agree with u

@kashmirha

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree, I think he had a borderline personality disorder.

The sad thing about this whole thing is that in Deepshika's case, her family would've STILL left her with him, so long as he didn't actually kill her literally, but just abused her. As long as she was alive, she would have to stay with. They would've probably disowned her if she had managed to successfully divorce him or worse still convinced her to go back. As much as they tried to save face by leaving her with someone abusive, her death did nothing from saving them from "shame" either, because the same people they were trying to save face from are the same people who will shame you for raising a daughter who couldn't keep a happy home. They are more saddened by the loss of that animal's life than they are about her life and blame her for her own murder. Where is your honour now?Humans never learn. They do what they want and ignore red flags hoping it will all somehow fix itself, only to then have all the regret in the world when shit hits the fan. Fix it people.

@user-vt5uy4rc9f

6 жыл бұрын

Dowry is not most important for marriage in most already developed country ,love , care,character are key point for couple .

@tatendarudziva8993

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah I thought the same thing but you know what, now sadly he can tend to her grave/shrine for the rest of his life. But hey at least her reputation remained intact and untarnished to the end.

Wow! That's crazy!!!

Not being funny this ppl will sell their grandparents