1) Share this video with friends, family and groups. This way, you help bring this content to everyone! 2) Become a member of the Armored Wisdom channel and help us significantly 👇 kzread.info/dron/ShCW-2zBGrmaQyyNf4e-gQ.htmljoin 3) Also, comment and make suggestions! We would love to hear from you! Thank's a lot! 🙏💪

@bernadettegarcia298

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing. Worth listening.

@joannedomingo2398

6 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤ I needed to hear this. I’m emotionally wounded by a man that has used me.

@sylviazeh4659

6 ай бұрын

Wow! Mind-blowing. The window to the heart ❤️, mind and soul of the expert Narcissist exposed. Even their ulterior motives behind their thoughts, actions and dark intentions.... and their deepest secrets and intentions with their loved ones and others. Very dark. 😵‍💫😨😳 I resonate with a lot of what is written here. The question is: Do they know what they're actually saying....and the manipulation , lies, and games they play? Do they feel any guilt? Regret? Sincerely? Is there no love lost there? So they don't have any love within! Can Narcissists ever change in their lifetime? Willingly? Or through therapy? I can't believe so many people are Narcissists! 😬🙄 When you come across one, somehow you meet more....I suppose "like seeks like"....... They don't realise that their actions will cause them to have a huge amount of karma to pay off....... A lifetime of karma coming their way. Esp when they meet a Narcissist who treats them like "dirt" in their next life....🤔🤥🫢 So sad....🙄🤯 ❤😊

@user-tk3nm2ul1e

5 ай бұрын

SAve this vidieo! This how i was targeted by tbis person! To be used ! I walked away to save myself! Lesson learned The most debilitating experience!! No one should Have to go thru this!!!!

@KimonSheri

5 ай бұрын

Makes sense

Finding people that are nontoxic to associate with has become more and more challenging in these times.

@Susan-lf2hl

5 ай бұрын

Because narcissists are on the increase. Culture has radically changed for the worse sadly.

@samanthaq3422

5 ай бұрын

Am non toxic❤❤❤,

@gracepoint3

5 ай бұрын

But available… check your vibe and NEVER SETTLE.

@chanelxrenee

4 ай бұрын

Extremely.!!!!

@BellatrixLestrange-un2pt

4 ай бұрын

I totally hear you and affirmative now that you mention it I notice it too. sad but true.

Stop setting yourself on fire just to keep someone else warm.

@somaya..

15 күн бұрын

❤

The best thing about Hard times is that you get to see everyone's true colours .

4 ай бұрын

When people show you who *they really are,* believe them!

@JJoy422

4 ай бұрын

💯 You learn a lot about yourself & everyone around you in a crisis

@Lioness_of_Gaia

3 ай бұрын

Absolutely true!

@YuyiLeal

3 ай бұрын

Spot on!

@braniefanie4938

3 ай бұрын

“You will know them by thier fruits”

Lack of respect is a big one. When they consistently disrespect you, it's time to end that relationship.

@BearBuilder89

4 ай бұрын

I agree but I'm not saying this to a specific person I'm simply making a statement respect is only returned when given and is earned not just givin u wouldn't like someone without getting to know them like wise u wouldn't blindly respect a person who u don't know u might give it if it's given to you but don't be blind eather I have made similar decisions and was wrong for it but hey stay positive and I hope the best for all

@dark7angel456

4 ай бұрын

It's hard because when it's family it's hard to let go of them but if they're toxic then

@ladyday3320

4 ай бұрын

@@dark7angel456 Yes, it is hard to let go of some family members, yet some of them are the worst "disrespectors"

@dark7angel456

4 ай бұрын

@@ladyday3320 or no empathy when needed...

@aliciareese6395

4 ай бұрын

Yes, and they will demand respect because they are deserving of it.

_#15: Failure to fulfill promises_ _#14 Diminishing or disdainful comments_ _#13 Unilateral benefit_ _#12 Disregard for your feelings_ _#11 Emotional manipulation_ _#10 Lack of genuine support_ _#9 Constant competition_ _#8 Absence in critical moments_ _#7 Lack of reciprocity_ _#6 Gossip and breach of trust_ _#5 Selective availability: You are available, they are not_ _#4 Making you feel guilty_ _#3 Lack of personal interest_ _#2 Superficial closeness_ _#1 Persistent lack of respect_

@peternall6566

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for making the effort doing what you have here. It's very much appreciated. Bless you.

@sephiwejoycesithole6118

2 ай бұрын

Thank you❤

@EmilySteller-um4jc

Ай бұрын

I feel like I'm being jerked around. Like a carousel...round in round but go nowhere.

@EmilySteller-um4jc

Ай бұрын

I'm sorry if I promised something and haven't followed through but I'm not sure how to. I'm just trying to survive

I'm that tree that stands alone. No more narcissist family contact. I'm better without them.

@kimdavis5403

5 ай бұрын

You will be astonished by the peace you get!

@barbiebeck9531

5 ай бұрын

You are not alone. Kind humans are your family.

@BellatrixLestrange-un2pt

4 ай бұрын

you stay strong my friend and always remember that you matter ! and your feelings and what you believe they matter too.

@kelliemanygoats9369

4 ай бұрын

This is a story of my daughters. They’ve manipulated and demanded that I be on call 24/7, but are not there when my older self needs them.

@gracejackson-seivwright3880

4 ай бұрын

Agreed

"The best revenge is not to be like your enemy." - Marcus Aurelius

@johnludwig8448

5 ай бұрын

"The best 🍑 Is young 🍑" Some pedo

@marliegay4888

5 ай бұрын

Negative interactions isn't a good thing.

@julianagy2918

5 ай бұрын

Best thought I've heard

@westphillyrock

5 ай бұрын

Factz

@clairelouise4045

5 ай бұрын

Enemy is a STRONG word !!

This is pure gold! Send to every empath you know. Cheers everybody, let's make 2024 Narc free!!

@jacqueline4365

5 ай бұрын

Yes!!!!!!! 🙌🏽

@knowledgeseeker6123

5 ай бұрын

Cheers. 🎉 working on it.

@pam8962

5 ай бұрын

💯 amen 🙏 🙌 to that

@conickasparks3746

5 ай бұрын

I want 2 get out 2 I feel so ugly drained and used 😢

@jacqueline4365

5 ай бұрын

@conickasparks3746 I am all too familiar with this feeling. I am so sorry, sweetheart 😔 I miss him, but WHY??? He was horrible to me and only told me what I wanted to hear, love bombed me, when he wanted or needed SOMETHING. It is so difficult for me to wrap my head around a character like that. It's incomprehensible to me. After over 5.5 years, and that's all he was after? The gall!!! I pray for us 🙏🏽

Whenever someone has caused me to feel intense negative emotions I immediately start cleaning my home or car. It’s a great outlet to clear your mind with busy hands and body. Then when you’re done you see that you have done something good for yourself and as you relax in your newly cleaned space you have a great sense of pride in having turned a negative into a positive for yourself. The more you do this the easier it gets.

@PaulaW-wq1kh

3 ай бұрын

True, I do that too.

@AntonioPeralesdelHierro

3 ай бұрын

Now I gotta get a home and a car. Much appreciated. 😮

@annadonahue4119

3 ай бұрын

And by the time you get done, you know how to proceed with that toxic person 😁👍

@lisafrequency55

3 ай бұрын

Yea clear your head but don't blame someone else for how you feel.

@Goawaypleasenow

3 ай бұрын

@@lisafrequency55 exactly!!

I now know why I am so drained after interactions with some people. ❤

@hapijen4828

5 ай бұрын

Energy Vampires.

@savedbygrace5977

5 ай бұрын

Otherwise known as a succubus or incubus.

@sandraolweny5727

4 ай бұрын

In my scenario the moment I feel drained … I don’t return that’s already a red flag

@user-xn8hu7hp7d

3 ай бұрын

You can’t blame them tho because it’s always YOU that pours the narc a full brimmed glass of your goodness

@hapijen4828

3 ай бұрын

​@@user-xn8hu7hp7d Why should goodness be open to abuse?

I’m completely surrounded by people like this. For 2024 I’ve been slowly cutting ties in a respectful way.

@user-yc7jr7of9y

5 ай бұрын

Same here!

@jackdobson1992

5 ай бұрын

Subtract those that do not add value to your life.

@Spark_Iskra_z_Polski

5 ай бұрын

Narcissism is being instilled via different media nowadays on purpose to sever intimate human relationships and control the society. They want to dispose of the obedient and easily manipulated when they are no longer useable. Hence the term of a useful idiot. The world is run by narcissists. You can see the masses of useful idiots everywhere where people look for idols, experts, leaders, best ever presidents and scientists that promise a longer life and a more perfect body or mind, and lebensraum by way of depopulation and taking over what you have not worked for.

@user-ef6rf4zb3d

5 ай бұрын

Me too! Cutting ties from here on out

@ijonuigbo7417

5 ай бұрын

Same here!

"The key to a peaceful mind is to detach ourselves from external outcomes and focus on cultivating inner tranquility." - Marcus Aurelius

@Clevelandsteamer324

6 ай бұрын

be attached to nothing and open to everything - Wayne Dyer

@delroymurray9077

6 ай бұрын

❤

@hawaiigirl8089

5 ай бұрын

That’s non applicable in today’s world 🌎. I lean on God not marcus

@justallah2785

5 ай бұрын

🔥

@justallah2785

5 ай бұрын

​@@hawaiigirl8089He came pretty close😊

15 Attitudes…#15) Failure to fulfill promises #14) Diminishing or disdainful comments #13) Unilateral benefits #12) Disregard for your needs or feelings #11) Emotional manipulation #10) Lack of genuine support #9) Constant competition #8) Absence in critical moments #7) Lack of reciprocity #6) Gossip & breaching of trust #5) Selective availability: you are available, they are not #4) Making you feel guilty #3) Lack of personal interest #2) Superficial closeness #1) Persistent lack of respect

@catherinenzungnjume7822

5 ай бұрын

Thank you dear

@maloudelosreyes661

5 ай бұрын

Truly appreciate your kind effort ❤️

@meta_mm

5 ай бұрын

I've had a guy check all the boxes in that list above. Every. Single. One

@madelinebigio7565

5 ай бұрын

@@meta_mmme too and a business interaction recently a superintendent too! 😮😮😮

@lisaagyemangduah7336

5 ай бұрын

I know a person who check all the boxes

I knew one person some time ago who pretended to be a friend. We interacted on the phone. After the conversation ended, I felt so bad that I burst into tears. I said to myself, I Cannot Be Around This Person Anymore!! And I dropped that person like a hot potato! I felt So Much Better Afterwards. Ahhhhhh! Relief!!!

@mirandadavis2730

5 ай бұрын

🙏🙏👍

@BijanCelestin

3 ай бұрын

Nobody comes into our life by chance so we have to pray for them and realize they need healing more than we do and they come to us seeking help love and insight

@Slightb5l

3 ай бұрын

Same. And my former friend still thinks the victim and spreads to the entire uni when I didn't do anything but to cut our connections. That former friend still demands to treat her in the expensive restaurant when that person didn't care about what I was going through back then. Depression, ab**e, & more. Meanwhile, I was there (paid for everything and tests). So, I'm done & took responsibility for the consequences when I cut our connections. Idc if she had portrayed me as the bad guy in our community. Not as my true friend. But I hope they won't do the same to the next person.

@sandraholmes4541

3 ай бұрын

This video hit on ALL cylinders! I needed this!

@professordumbledore369

2 ай бұрын

When you feel people around you are slowly turning against you identity the person who is stirring them against you, isolate them and your life will be much easier than ever. Now I'm at a stage where 99% of the people are acting out against me and act like as if they are acting in my best interest. But god has given me clarity to find out who the stirrer is so I can easily tackle these problems out on my own.

In the last days the love of many will grow cold - Matthew 24: 12

@patriciaglover442

4 ай бұрын

When exactly are the last days?? We are in a great AWAKENING and knowledge and truth the age of Aquarius.. all falsehoods are being #EXPOSED #PERIOD. only last day people are gonna see is when it's that person time!!! Stop using old regurgitated bullshyt words 😮

@Justabluebirdsinging

3 ай бұрын

Without a warm heart/ love existence is worse than death itself

@lukesutton4135

3 ай бұрын

Ain't the Father of Evil, Jehovah, promise love? Wonder how that turned out for the son he couldn't lift a finger for. If he can needlessly sentence his son to a horrific death because he can't take responsibility, just wait until this "just god" comes for you non-sons whom he's never loved unless of course you're evil, "god" blesses evil, simply look at any and all governments and the people who work for them.

@patriciaglover442

3 ай бұрын

So just when are the last days?? We been told that bull crap 💩 😤 since all can remember. You mean the end of an Illusions and falsehoods!!!

@StatiCRjm

3 ай бұрын

You don't understand the Bible or probably didn't even read it. Humans being have free will.

WHEN I HAD COVID ONLY ONE PERSON CALLED. ME NEARLY EVERYDAY, SENT ME BOOKS TO READ, LETTERS OF ENCOURAGEMENT. WHEN I HAD FOOT SURGERY THIS PERSON CALLED ME. NIW THATS A REAL FRIEND

What makes it hard and difficult is when you grow up in a family like this. It also sets you up for a lifetime of seeking out connections with people who continue to treat you this way

@gypsymetallics

5 ай бұрын

I came here more for relationships and realized my own parents have treated me like this my whole life so no wonder im struggling in my life and career. sucks

@natalie73animals

5 ай бұрын

Indeed, growing up in a family like this is like boot camp to groom you to be mistreated by their kind in the world. You unfortunately have been trained to put up with it.

@deebee4622

5 ай бұрын

Mom mom checks off all of boxes described in this amazing video. She’s 86 years old and still trying to compete with and use people. She loves gossip and habitually engages in character assassination towards those she is jealous of. She annoys me but can no longer hurt me since my identity lies in Christ Jesus. Greater is He that is me than he that is in the world. Spiritual warfare with users can be exhausting so we must put on the full armor of God!

@lorrainedevlin6409

5 ай бұрын

Yes its true,it does,I used to seek out connections with users and abusers,but studying psychology and y I used to do what I did,was a game changer for me,it helped me spot the users/ fake men and recognise the good guys.

@lorrainedevlin6409

5 ай бұрын

Its parents also be it mum or dad,who put up with being a controlled door matt,that are also teaching their children how to have zero respect and care for their own wellfare.

We all know or met people like this. I learned to just keep to myself. Even if I feel guilty for doing so, I find I'm more at peace. I don't have people constantly In My ear, no unnecessary drama, no getting dragged into shit. It gets lonely, sure. You learn to get used to it. Its really hard to trust that people nowadays have your best interests at heart.

@patsiebentley111

4 ай бұрын

Nicely said 🌺

@MzWillsdbeautiful

4 ай бұрын

Agreed

@c.g.joseph2388

4 ай бұрын

Toxic relationships should be avoided, and this serves as a good guide to measure the toxicity of a relationship. However, being social by nature as humans, prolonged social isolation is another extreme with damaging long-term effects. In relationships, do not avoid altogether, trust - but verify.

@ShushaSofia

4 ай бұрын

Sorry you’ve had such experience.

@helco2856

4 ай бұрын

@@ShushaSofia happens. I don't hang my hat on it. I keep it pushing, learned from past mistakes and keep toxic people at a distance.

This describes my ex exactly. It was the sickest, most toxic, unhealthy relationship I've ever experienced in my life. So glad I left. The emotional manipulation was unbearable.

@ihavethedocuments2580

5 ай бұрын

The fact that many men in the Western Hemisphere are walking away at this present time is not an anomaly.... History repeats itself Only this time around it is going to happen very very rapidly. Way to much bullshit in mainstream "reality"

@tanzeelamariam3421

5 ай бұрын

Same with me. He left me emotionally, financially and physically broken. And the only thing I am left with right now is my optimism that I will get back on my feet.

@lisaagyemangduah7336

5 ай бұрын

You will get back on your feet and thrive. Believe it!

@Darkness-ie2yl

5 ай бұрын

but who really cares about anyone? even mothers are frequently only self interested...

@anark3072

5 ай бұрын

I’m still real struggling with the aftermath, any tips?

Never walk the way your opponent wants.

@RJK1647

3 ай бұрын

😊😊😊😊😊😊

"Associate with people who are likely to improve you." - SENECA -

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!

@tsadaq144

5 ай бұрын

This sounds exactly like the mentality of what the video was warning against. There is no more real friendship in this world... because of this mentality. How about associating with people who you can improve, and be willing to set an example of what a decent human being is and does?? Hence the dilemma that humanity now finds itself... and the collapse isn't even here yet. The great culling is part of God's plan.

@marliegay4888

5 ай бұрын

Some of us have never met with these types of people our whole life so who isn't put to use others in some way shape form or fashion whether sex or money or status. Let's get a true fo focus on things here everyone uses everyone for something. Work money sex. Status. What ever things so easily get misconstrued.

@AubreyJordan-lt5wp

5 ай бұрын

It's like the jackass who was usually found in the company of thoroughbred racehorses. One day one of his other donkey pals took him aside and asked why he rarely kept company with his own kind. "Just Who died and was named Head Guy around here?" he was asked. He answered the other fellows by saying, he KNEW he was just one of The Herd, but determined that if he could follow the Examples of The Winners, He could be like them one day😂❤😅

@robertknowles1495

5 ай бұрын

E​@@ArmoredWisdom

Isn’t it funny how the toxic person will label EVERYONE else as toxic?

@IfeartheLord198

Ай бұрын

True that... It's called Matthew chapter 7 verses 3 thru 5

@Sar-ahG

Ай бұрын

@@IfeartheLord198 ooh - I don’t have that memorized- please feel free to elaborate 🙏

I identified several family members, a friend and two ex partners! I am alone and i will remain so now.

Years of being a victim of #1-15. Enough was enough. Alone became my sanctuary, my peace, allowing me to discover my boundaries, my self worth, my strength. Choosing to remain alone for years, gave me the ability to remove my blinders and see people for who they truly are even when they pretend to be something they we're not. I see truth, finally. My self worth now allows me to walk away right away and be completely ok.

Wow. This really lifted the veil. Every one of these attitudes resonated with the energy I felt from my last partner. I hate I stayed so long hoping for a change and being depleted on every level. Don't ignore your feelings & don't ever second guess how someones actions or lack thereof make u feel. Don't give them the chance to lie and change the narrative. You know what love feels like even if you haven't felt it in a while. Trust yourself. Trust what u see. Trust what they show u consistently.

@ArmoredWisdom

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment!

@etiennebunbury1285

6 ай бұрын

A lot of talk! Getdafuckoutt that’s the answer. Have greater self worth or value. Nobody has power over you only what you give them. The answer is to leave.

@user-dv1dm5dx3z

5 ай бұрын

Amen to that!!

@lisaagyemangduah7336

5 ай бұрын

Harsh but true word's

@eugenieholmes5769

5 ай бұрын

My last was like this but I wise up quickly and didn't give him the chance to drug me through the mud. I ran the hell away and watch him trying to come back in my life. Hell no.

Go on meditation walks. Don't talk on the phone, or distract with what's infront. Just walk and let the negative emotions flow through. Apply stoic understanding to it and mindful non-judgement. Anytime anyone wrongs you. Start with being grateful for them bringing YOUR feelings to the surface. Then ignore them until you've resolved it or go be better without them

@doglover9902

5 ай бұрын

Love this advice. Thank you

@pa7281

5 ай бұрын

Hemanti Realtor

@ciprianos2

5 ай бұрын

Not sure why that works well for me 😅

@umm7063

5 ай бұрын

Walking only works when there is an ability to do so. There needs to be a development of processing in an immobilized situation.

@Kay.in.FL.HI.SA.JP.OZ.NZ.RIO..

5 ай бұрын

​@@umm7063On can walk in other realms beside in the physical body; by using a wide varitery of aides and methods like music, visualizations, guided imagery, meditation, lucid dreaming, Astral projection, and/or using spiritual texts, chanting, mantras; and creative endeavors like painting, sculpting, writing, singing, etc.

I only can imagine how my life would have been different if I was taught these lesson as a child . Priceless wisdom , Thank you!!!

Live your best life and don’t expect anything from anyone.

@miriamlandau1207

4 ай бұрын

We need to expect things from others. That is the only way to be discerning. As the saying goes 'don't throw the baby out with the bathwater'. There are still good people out there and our job is to be with those types of people. You have to have expectations and become good at discerning who meets your expectations and who doesn't.

@ShushaSofia

4 ай бұрын

We are live beings, not robots.

@warrenramey4229

4 ай бұрын

No there is nothing you have to expect from others but the more you expect the more you will be let down that is a Guarantee

@AdaptsToChange1900s

3 ай бұрын

​@True.warrenramey4229

As soon as I can tell there's no reciprocation from other people I just back out of the relationship and it doesn't go any further because I know they're just someone that's going to try to use me and I know better..

This is THE best video I've ever watched on narcissism and you didn't even mention the word. Thank you for painting a clear picture.

@kcbh24

5 ай бұрын

He didn't mention the word because not EVERY bad trait stems from narcissism.

@maryannleighton

3 ай бұрын

I beg to differ

@klankie1

Ай бұрын

it can be autism as well, or a combination of both. The main difference between them is that an autist doesn't harm you intentionally and is not interacting with you for self gain. However, you can feel the same at the other side of the relationship and think the other person is a narc.

@chiaraA.

Ай бұрын

not always a narcissism - can be severely damaged folks who are avoidant - just as damaging, but their intent is to self-protect and therefore it's just as selfish, leaving their partner out in the cold

Describes everyone one I know, family, acquaintances. 'The more people I meet, the more I like my dog' *unknown*

Listening to this and remembering my last relationship … if you are listening to this and you find yourself in this situation, please get out of it as soon as possible before you are broken to the way of no return

When you are someone who didn't receive the necessary love one requires to understand their value & worth, they fall victim to people like this. "We" have to learn to study everyone from hello to goodbye. Everyone has intentions whether they confess it or not. The key that I'm just learning at 42yr old, it that everyone doesn't deserve me or my space. I want everyone to be happy or receive some sort of happiness & people from this video prey on people like me. Now, it's a purpose that I have to internally accept & challenge myself to rid harmful entities that want to take advantage of me. Thank you for this - truly ❤

@BijanCelestin

3 ай бұрын

We are healers we are here to transmute energy time and space. Don’t be afraid to take up space one your power and authenticity we are chosen.

@patjohnson6147

Ай бұрын

Have you read 'How we love'? You want others to be happy. You might be a pleaser. I find the book most interesting. I'm a vacillator. ❤

I am grateful that this teaching found its way into my feed. I have been forced to see clearly that my oldest daughter has a streak of cruelty I can no longer ignore. I have tried to re-engage with her every time she reaches out to me only to experience the ugliness she brings to all her relationships. I finally told her there will be no more interactions - ever. Now I understand why I always feel miserable when we interact. Thank you.

Yep, i have a "friend" like this. I keep my distance most of the time. She continually wants to make plans, then says that she "forgot" that she had plans already on that day. So me and my other friend, rarely invite her out with us any longer, she became so ridiculously undependable that we do not bother any longer.

@yvonnebaker5174

5 ай бұрын

Those types are,always,waiting for,a 'better' offer.

@christinerodriguez3976

5 ай бұрын

@yvonnebaker5174 yeah, and I cannot stand that.

@barbiebeck9531

5 ай бұрын

It all comes back to them .

@susanparker9877

5 ай бұрын

She'dl cancel at the last minute, so something I've looked forward to, or planned my week around, is something I get to do by myself, or not at all. Yes, truly, I stopped asking. We are not friends any more....., and that is just fine by me.❤

@Donna777

4 ай бұрын

Maybe she has ADHD

Only every “friend” I’ve ever had. They really like and enjoy the attention, time and money as long as they’re in the receiving end but when it’s my turn, I have a crisis or need it’s crickets and the thought doesn’t even cross their mind to lift a finger to even text or call. Then they pretend they are “surprised” and “don’t know what they did” when I finally give up and quit giving them attention 🙄

These attitudes have allowed me to clean house literally and distance myself from people including family who are only takers

Thank God I got out of my emotional manipulative marriage.

It's really bad when the very same person that brought you into this world puts you through it! Welp! What doesn't kill you makes you stronger!

@nolashiflett635

6 ай бұрын

Or it can be a person you brought into the world like a daughter.

@francesjeanlouis9285

6 ай бұрын

@@nolashiflett635 Welp, if you happen to be this person or hang with them personally just do better! Because it's a terrible feeling when you're at the receiving end!

@francesjeanlouis9285

6 ай бұрын

@@susanhamilton8288 And you telling me to do better means what exactly! I'm a male! You thought you'd find a female to patronize in the comments right?! Sorry for you!

@susanhamilton8288

6 ай бұрын

@@francesjeanlouis9285 sorry for me for what..for giving you a advise...if you are this thin skin...then maybe you are the problem..for a man you should be ashamed of behaving so weak..a man is suppose to be strong and you sound a bit weak..you might not have to release your gender...we all have the same problem you face be it male or female...i don't get weak about it...

@user-jl7wn5nn7p

5 ай бұрын

I am. Strong as. Steel and sharp as a arrow. All my. Life. Has. Been. Hard. Sharpening me. For the. Future. We are to. Learn. From our. Experience s to be a better. Person. Love knows no. Boundaries. Bob13

Unfortunately I’ve been in every one of these relationships. And I’m still here stronger then the day before. Can’t keep me down!

@francesjeanlouis9285

6 ай бұрын

Best revenge!

@Spark_Iskra_z_Polski

5 ай бұрын

The 15 points are often one relationship :) or a whole society of narcissists.

My entire family now no longer my family. You describe them. Otherwise known as a narcissistic family cult.

@williamchevalier2224

4 ай бұрын

Blood don't make family. Respect, trust, loyalty, and fidelity mutually exchanged makes family.

@MI6-W

Ай бұрын

Same ❤

I was experiencing this with a four year relationship I was in. Broke it off last month. This describes him completely but it took me 4 years to realize that he was using me. Oh well. Live and learn and I did.

@randybyrd4444

4 ай бұрын

I'm going through a 4 year relationship myself and am at the crossroads of want to stay or not stay.

@feenarvaez65

4 ай бұрын

Same here, it took me three/four years but since I married him and we have two kids together... So the separation will be a lot, but so worth it.

@almabyars6614

4 ай бұрын

could have been much longer CONGRATULATIONS

@laurenjordan5470

Ай бұрын

I just ended a relationship recently that went on for a decade though I should've been ended it

Some people have a real flair for using others up completely, then they cast you aside like you're worthless. I trust absolutely no one in this wicked, cruel world! Brilliant video!🌹💜🌍

@johnhughes6205

3 ай бұрын

Do you still feel the same way now ?

@sarahhurst701

3 ай бұрын

@@johnhughes6205 Ya know what, friend? I appreciate your question, & I took some time to think about it. And my answer is "yes," in a one way, but no, not so much in another way. Lol I'll explain. Yes I still do believe that my original post👆up there sadly remains the truth as it is has happened & still is happening to many people. But I personally no longer feel like a victim to it & others' usury for example, as my original post might've likely conveyed. Lol. Hope your day is going famously, my friend. Blessings...✌️🌹💜🌍

@johnhughes6205

3 ай бұрын

@sarahhurst701 I could sense the anger and hurt, I have in the past felt like you did. I was so angry I wanted the whole world to witness what had happened to me then soon after just like you came to realise I was making myself the victim. It took a lot of time to work it all out and I'm still working things out. I'm a lot older and a bit wiser but now I take the time to breathe, l look at the world differently, I take in the beauty and the wonder of it all . I stand up for myself now without aggression. The short story is that life gets better and its true its the small things that when put together make it all worth it. I hope you find the peace you deserve and thanks for your reply and honesty.

@sarahhurst701

2 ай бұрын

@@johnhughes6205 Thank you so much friend for your awesomely kind words. Hope your having a wonderful day.✌️🌹💜🌍

@johnhughes6205

2 ай бұрын

@sarahhurst701 good afternoon Sarah the sunshine is just winning the battle with the clouds of rain and that's not a metaphor haha, and thank you yes I'm having a great day, how are you,how's your day ?

I had a "best friend" of 20 years. It took me a while to understand what was happening, but I eventually worked out exactly how toxic my association with him had become. I promised myself I would get rid of him, and one day I did just that. From that moment onwards my life grew stronger and more enriching without his toxic poison and influence. It sounds cliche, but it really was one of the best decisions I have ever made. The years passed and this is now over 20 years ago since I cut him off. I am so glad I had the courage to get rid of him.

@christinerodriguez3976

6 ай бұрын

Sometimes even though it might hurt at the time, it is best for you and your emotional well being. I've had to do that a few times.

@eedr5404

4 ай бұрын

You miss the relationship you thought you had, not the actual relationship, so, no. @@BrandynAF

4 ай бұрын

Sometimes people just grow apart, and that’s ok. What’s not ok is if they start acting like jerks regularly.

@MI6-W

Ай бұрын

Same. Best friend parasite for 20 plus years.

Block and keep moving forward, these people seldom if ever change

@MI6-W

Ай бұрын

They do change. They get worse with age.

"Associate with people who are likely to improve you." Seneca

@edith4334

5 ай бұрын

Some of us need to be surrounded by people who sharpens our intellect.

My mother used to say love cannot exist without respect. You cannot love someone you do not respect, not truly. I totally agree with her.

Although the word narcissist is not used in this narrative, this narrative is the best education I've ever heard on the behavior patterns of people who are highly narcissistic. I think it's very kind that you did not mention the word narcissist, since most narcissists are not diagnosed as such. But these common behavior patterns are recognizable by anybody if you are aware of them! This addition should be listened to by everybody who wants to learn more about how to love and get along with others.

@ScorpionMaiden75

6 ай бұрын

💜💕🦋🔥👑🔥🦋💕💜

@hellbentholland1008

6 ай бұрын

This ! 🙌 stay safe out there yall. The struggle is real. I used to think nothing or nobody could hurt me, that I'd love my people and destroy my enemies. Turns out my people were often the enemy and my enemies had more respect for me. Then I had to see that my lack of self respect made me prime to not have real love from my people. Got to give me what I tried to give them. It's lonely but never as lonely as being alone surrounded by my supposed people. They'll be angry at you because you're taking away their toy! Like a child or puppy would be... only deal with people who are mindful and there aren't that fcknmany, sadly.... the majority can't even apologize when they're wrong, they don't care. It's harrowing... only to those who haven't built a solid with themselves though. I've had to learn that. Don't ever let anyone have that kind of power and if they do, may you find the gas to go again differently. 🙏

@mxxx3591

6 ай бұрын

Sadly some adult children think it's ok to be like this toward their parents.

@jeffhogueison1656

6 ай бұрын

Absolutely narcissist behavior is described here from experience. Yes most of today society is very narcissistic

@deonaeddy7749

6 ай бұрын

This would be people who are narcissist, have narcissistic personality disorder, sometimes the son or daughter of a narc, or a couple of other disorders that overlap NPD and look just like NPD. Not everyone you think are narcs are

Living like a Stoic involves setting clear boundaries to protect your well-being. Learn to say "no" when necessary and prioritize your time and energy. By defining your limits, you prevent others from taking advantage of your generosity and maintain control over your own life.

My friends are all in love with "positivity".when they feel bad run to me and ask me to summon their lifes back from tge underworld,but when i feel bad or just wanr to discuss something i am regarded as "negative" and ignored.we talk only about them and i will give them al my positive energy ofcourse wondering after why i am drained and depressed.

@ellanashumpert7212

5 ай бұрын

🙏🏾 keep remembering how you feel/felt. Your cup deserves to be refilled as well. Peace 💚

@LilM0ke

2 ай бұрын

Yeah it's quite shocking once realized

My mom and sister makes me understand 100 percent of this video ! Shame I can’t live another 34 yrs this way!

My friend of 50 years is always being sarcastic and sometimes quite sanctimonious, I now have very little contact or time for her, she keeps trying so hard to make out I’m the “sister” she never had - bs, I don’t respond, I won’t be playing into the game, so over it

@LeeJahn-ih9xu

5 ай бұрын

@@BrandynAF MYOB

@debbieatkinson6072

18 күн бұрын

Good for you 😌

I think these wise suggestions and sayings have saved me from forgiving a master manipulator for a 4th time. I cannot believe how slowly this person morphed from kind and generous to insulting, lying, gaslighting thieving wretched monster.

The biggest thing for me is when they only contact you when they want you to do something for them. Outside of that you never hear from them at all. No more yes and more nos from me. Setting my boundaries are self respect.

@LilM0ke

2 ай бұрын

This is why to never involve them in responsibility or something of value because then they use excuses.

I've had no friends for a very long time now. I don't feel used anymore and can count on myself not letting me down. Its ok, I'm pretty introverted anyway.

@user-ef1sl4yl9e

Ай бұрын

I think it takes courage to go little or zilch close friends for a while until we can find those gems. Also BIG Thank you for this wise content! I had a "friend" I risked my health and life for, all the while the friend saying how I was like the family this person never had and pledging to be friends forever. They had been a mutual friend before this for years and seemed to understand reciprocity and have maturity. Once I helped them to a better place, they distanced and ghosted. Be careful of those who pledge you are like family to them: make sure the person is mature enough to understand what loyalty and healthy family obligation means. It's easy for someone in desparate need to promise you the moon and maybe convince themselves they are sincere about you. If you choose to risk your life, and do so, be wary until this person shows reciprocal devotion. They could just be desperate. Be careful for your own health for your own loved ones who truly care for you and may truly need you, too. Someone who comes from an unbalanced family life may not be able to understand reciprocity, loyalty, or gratitude simply because they were never trained around such things. See if you can find them resources other than yourself. I put a lot into this person, like the legacy one gives to one's child: just know the person may be childish in their reciprocity and may be immature. Your gift may be simply to God to help someone helpless, and you will receive your reward in time from Him.

As I walked out of a relationship just like the descriptions of this audio, 4 months ago, I studied narcissism for hundreds of hours. And here I found one of the best, although this great speech doesn’t even need to use the word… most sincere congratulations and gratitude!

It's very bad when the person you brought into this world, love and cared for, plotted with another to put you down by their lies, stealing from you and saying you are sinile

@Maria-du9mf

2 ай бұрын

Sorry, for you hurt and pain. May God heal you.

Upon arriving at the darkest and lowest point of your life, when you look around and find maybe one, or two people still wanting to speak to you...only in that moment you will know who respects and still cares for you. If nobody is there, thats ok. Because nobody worthwhile is there to tell you you recovery is a failure. Believe in that person you were before everything went wrong. Because that person is still there, looking at you in the mirror.

@StefaniaM-gx8sx

3 ай бұрын

Powerful words!

@iyamwhoiyam61318

Ай бұрын

I'm there now. Living in my car with my dog in the woods. Not one person got one family member, not one stranger. But I know I'm a good person and I'm kind and compassionate, perhaps to forgiving and giving. I'm tired of being hurt and lied to and being cheated on

I’ve recently been missing my abusers and self- blaming. Thank you for these very much needed reminders. I’m saving this to listen to on repeat as I often continue to self-blame. I wish I could get myself back sooner. It’s taking forever.

After 6 years I understand what I was dealing with. In James 3:16. For where envying and strife is there is confusion and every evil work. I had so much confusion and it was just so maddening at times. It is all over now. I pray it will never again be repeated

It's so weird how as soon as I started realizing my ex was doing this to me I started getting these videos in my feed. It's like my phone is even telling me that I'm on the right train of thought. Thanks for explaining this twisted mindset for me I was dumbfounded when It all clicked together. ❤

@peggylittle1979

5 ай бұрын

I've had that same experience with my phone. Unsettling, but I am grateful for it. I spent 6 months immersing myself in programs on narccism and somehow was "graduated" into this next higher and essential level. And like others who have commented, it dawned on me as this program ended that it is specifically addresses to victims of narccists, although oh so subtally. ❤

@Its-Frosty

4 ай бұрын

@peggylittle1979 atleast I know ai wants me to do better lol I guess it paid off to treat my technology kindly 🤣

@tammekremer2138

4 ай бұрын

Beware off algorits

@Its-Frosty

4 ай бұрын

@@tammekremer2138 what's that?

This was my mother for 45 years of my life! I wish I could sue her for the damage she did to me & my sister! My sister ultimately took her own life due to my mothers narcissistic abuse!

@lorindaswann5797

4 ай бұрын

I m so sorry that this happened to your sister, and I understand where you are coming from, because I have been going through the the same thing, and still is with three people, and that's my mother, sister and a so call friend which is a man I live with. All they ever try to do is use me, but I decided to get from amoungest them, because they don't have my best interest at heart at ❤. I pray for you and I know you miss your sister ❤️ my heart is broken 💔😢 over what happened to her. But know this, you are going to see her again, she is in heaven with God, he knew what she was going through, and never believe anyone, if they say that people that takes their life will not see God FALSE, it's a lie and it's know where in the bible, because😢 God knows what we are going through in this world we live in. Remember and keep in mind that you are going to see your sister again. She up there in heaven looking down in you, and she is with you in spirit 🐥🙏and just know this, when Jesus was on the cross about to die for our sin, a man that was next to him asked him, Lord, remember me when you get into your kingdom, and Jesus said to him, surely you will be with me in paradise. Your sister is ok, and she wants you to be ok. I know it's hard, and God is giving you the strength to get through. Remember, you are going to be with her in Paradise 🙏🌎

@ls-pe1ny

4 ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss.. praying for your mental strength🙏

@plumbqnearly2292

4 ай бұрын

Very sorry for your loss. I'm married to someone like this, but I thought it was borderline personality disorder. I cannot imagine it coming from my mother. Good luck to you in breaking free from all the toxicity and trauma of your youth.

@amymayrose6210

2 ай бұрын

I am sorry for your loss. My mother is the same a narcissist. Sending blessings your way, and I wish you the very best ❤

@truthylucy7068

2 ай бұрын

@amymayrose6210 Thank you so much for your kind words! Narcissistic mothers seem to be abundant, which is truly scary! 🤗

Wow, best explanation I have heard about a narcissistic relationship. Every point hit home with me.

@marykent2024

6 ай бұрын

I hear you. I wish I had come across this knowledge before I had married!

Before you get chummy with anyone,ask God to reveal them. Acknowledge God and he will direct your path.

@percyjones8376

5 ай бұрын

Imagine that actually worked? You wouldn’t be watching this..

@humilis42

5 ай бұрын

@@percyjones8376 It just did. See how God revealed to the OP who YOU are? Others aren’t as easy to detect.

@percyjones8376

5 ай бұрын

@@humilis42 haha what are you blabbering about?

@gentlestormwyatt

4 ай бұрын

Agreed 🩷🩷

@jessiebarker3510

2 ай бұрын

​@@humilis42it does work to ask God to reveal people to you especially if believe and trust in Him.

Amorored Wisdom I shouldn't share this video with friends or family. This video describes them perfectly. For that reason alone. I use selective availability, because my time is worth more to me than my money. I am not anyone's EMOTIONAL TAMPON The word NO is a complete sentence, and silence speaks volumes

Spot on lack of respect....

Been through most of this and the move i made was to distance, drop them out and never return to them as a ear, a friend, a family memeber a nothing, pure silence and distance! I am so at peace now and I also want to thank this content for feeding me the info I need to continue to move on with out people like this and also to know what to look out for even more vivid! 2024 HAS A LOT OF GOOD BYES OR I SHOULD SAY, MORE GOOD BYES! Cutting people off is my best flex of all times in my life! I am happy I can do this without feeling guilty like so many others feels when they do this move in their lives! Thx again!

@johenderson3742

4 ай бұрын

But how to find genuine people when isolated?

@brogers1559

4 ай бұрын

​@johenderson3742 best to clear the slate first. Then rebuild on a solid foundation.

I used to have someone who used me like this. Thank God I’m not with him anymore.

This behavior I am currently experiencing from someone I absolutely love and adore…but sadly everything said in this video aligns with how I am being treated…so disheartening 🥺

@voiletwhitehorse

5 ай бұрын

Know how you feel ,being used is awful ,and when you get on and do well without them,then let them know your doing well ,they get jealous trying to compete with you ,

@chelles77420

5 ай бұрын

Same going through it with the person I am with at the moment.. but he won't leave...my heart is hurt all the time. I pray for him to be awaken by his behavior and acknowledge how damaging it is and heart wrenching. But I don't think he will ever take responsibility for his behaviors I need to find a way out where he can't find me 😢

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZread channel 9 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,641 subs and > 1k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

@cameronstewart5959

6 ай бұрын

thats awesome keep rocking forward!

@nathananderson8720

6 ай бұрын

@@cameronstewart5959 Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my KZread channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a KZreadr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this KZread thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)

@nathananderson8720

6 ай бұрын

@@cameronstewart5959 Whoever you are, I don't know you personally but I can say that you're one of the non-judgmental and open-minded people who is not fixated on tangible or external factors in order to learn from someone like me. Just because someone doesn't have a piece of paper as a credential, doesn't mean that person is not entitled to share personal experiences with the hope & intention to inspire others. Keep up with whatever it is that you're doing to improve mankind or improving your life even to a slight degree each day. This is just one part of a bigger puzzle for creating my KZread channel about holistic health. I literally could have died back when I was 14 years old due to major depression but here I am right now replying to you, a KZreadr, who's full of fulfillment and dedication to help others to be a better version of themselves. I ain't better than anyone else but my old self. That's all that really makes this KZread thing more meaningful and enjoyable. Thanks so much for your support! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)

Wish I knew this years ago. I was with a narcissist musician. I used to LOVE to sing but he would criticize my singing, sing over me, never encouraged me. I see now the problem was him but damn how he hurt me for years.

@nolashiflett635

6 ай бұрын

Sad!

@lisaagyemangduah7336

5 ай бұрын

Rekindle your love of singing

@Wispywhisker

5 ай бұрын

@@lisaagyemangduah7336 Thank you Lisa, as my name is Lisa ❤️ I'm learning how to be me again, doing better than I was.

@richardstevens7547

4 ай бұрын

I hear ya. When I met my Narc, I was playing guitar in some clubs. Nothing big or fancy, just acoustic guitar and singing. I stopped playing while we were together and haven't picked it back up since. That was 6 years ago. I try playing but the feeling isn't there anymore. I am trying to fix this.

@Wispywhisker

4 ай бұрын

@@richardstevens7547 Here's to the warmth of the coming season to rekindle some tunes again. I got myself a little amp & mic and sing in my room. 😂 Simple pleasures

Sometimes the damage they cause isn't on purpose.. as such.. some people are SO damaged they are genuinely solely focused on themselves and their own needs. They have no head space to maintain a relationship with another. Only the beginning part 😢

@ArmoredWisdom

3 ай бұрын

Great reflection! Thanks for the comment!

A fool knows not that he knows not. A fool that knows that he knows not, he's a wise and teachable man. A fool lies, deception are their mantra. The curse.

Whoever wrote the monologue deserves an award. So beautifully written.

Actions don't match words gives you the answer truly basic mathematics .

This was beautifully written... I've been speaking against people acting as such for decades... Sometimes it feels as if I'm living in a world full of adult children... Ego rather than inner self... Gain over sacrifice for the greater good... When the sad truth is that these efforts are effective on weak people... Thankfully,,, I'm strong enough to remain stoic... Unaffected... Focused on my personal war with remaining humble... And not kill them for being evil... Rather attempt to look forward and imagine that just maybe,,, down the road someday,,, they will break free, and be the best people I could ever meet... Just not now... Not yet... Wishful thinking... But it keeps me cool...

He is describing being involved with someone who is a narcissist or other parts of the dark triad. His narrative is perfect in describing not only the behavior of the person but also conveys the damage from this type of relationship. Being able to accurately help someone understand why they react and feel the way they do is of more value than describing the interaction traits of the abusers. If we could see the true reason for someone to use our emotions to this degree,we would realize they view our intellectual ability equally to a trained animal. Manipulation of this degree often can happen to young men and women who are mature enough to walk away. It can happen to any age person, but even the elderly falls prey. Now here's the kicker sometimes the elders especially men will allow this in order for gratification of their physical needs,and when they find one they like better, they become the manipulater.

I ended a friendship this morning for all the reasons you have mentioned. I grieve but I am much better for it. A man with 10 friends is a fool A man with 5 friends fortunate A man with 1 friend is wise.

This is one of your best videos. You've touched on fundamental areas. Thank you❤ This one is a keeper.

Left two internet contacts like this, a week ago. I'm dead inside and afraid of humans now. Every word in this video is true. In my case they had been diagnosed with borderline and antisocial personality disorder. The borderliner was a woman and the antisocial a man. Save this video and listen to it when you wonder if breaking off the contact was the right thing to do. I thank you deeply for this video, all its beautiful pictures and voice full of wisdom.

@NamesZKP

6 ай бұрын

So if they're sociopathic then there's a reason they are. Perhaps understanding that reason can help you form a deeper connection with them. Typically people developed that disorder because they've had some type of trauma in their life. Don't hate them for it. They're not evil people.

@cutechiangels

6 ай бұрын

​@@NamesZKP This is good and kind advice. And, if one can, one should give people a chance! But... I've often been very kind, empathic, helpful, understanding, etc. Only to be totally drained, confused, sadned, and alone because others don't want to be around those people. Millions of people have huge personality issues or disorders, nowadays, alas. Emotional intelligence should be taught at school. As modern society makes children stay at home longer, with single parents, (imbalance, no other references, from elderly or so), are not or less responsible, and are very immature. That can go till late in age. Everyone has gone through some kind of trauma, in life. It's no reason to become wierd or a sociopath of any kind. But, these modern illnesses are very frequent, alas. I'm out of those type relationships, have to focus on myself now. And I pray and wish for healthy, kind and very caring, honest relationships, now! 🙏🤍

@peggylittle1979

5 ай бұрын

Very well said.

This video is of ABSOLUTE WISDOM QUALITY in EVERY SINGLE EXAMPLE expressed. I myself recognized IN EACH EXAMPLE GIVEN, a passed lived circumstance lived some myself or having seen or having whitenessed them done on to others. EVERY EXAMPLE IS OF EXCELLENT GOLDEN WISDOM. *EVERY SINGLE ONE.

@johenderson3742

4 ай бұрын

Me too. This was the story of my sad life.

I found this video so helpful, thank you. Unfortunately I was raised in a family with many of these types and as such didn't think much of being treated badly by others outside of my family either. Thankfully in recent years I've learned a lot and I'm now able to see these patterns more clearly and no longer take responsibility for other's bad behaviour or tolerate it. I've recently had to distance myself from some family members. It hurts but the temporary pain is better than the ongoing detrimental effects to myself. This video has helped me be 100% certain of what I perceived in them and that I was right to remove myself. 🙏🏼

@anthonybrown9986

4 ай бұрын

Experience is a teacher.

Thank you. I've been battling all which you said with men I've been dating. When I have pointed out these behaviors I've been called crazy, bugging out, and anything to distract me from what I've observed. Once I pulp back then they would do things to get my attention and once I decide to give in and fall back into them they would perform all these behaviors again. This causes me to question myself or feel insecure or believe I am bugging out or assuming when in reality I'm not. I exposed them to themselves so to remove the heat off them they need to mentally manipulate me until I am back questioning myself. So thank you for the video. It really help me until in full term what I already knew but self doubt.

@estrianatasharossle

5 ай бұрын

This happens over and over and over again with these men. Yuck. 🤷‍♀️

Sounds like exactly what my ex did to me. Then told everyone I did was she was doing.

@nolashiflett635

6 ай бұрын

Sad!

I blame my parents for sheltering me from the world. At 70 years I just learned a valuable lesson. I was just recently a victim of a USER.

@sebelzahntigerkind3923

6 ай бұрын

Oh please! You are complaining that you have been sheltered from the evil of this world and met your first user aged 70? What is there to complain about?? Sounds like a very priviledged life to me!

@FlipYourCarIntoTheTornado

6 ай бұрын

​@@sebelzahntigerkind3923being naive for 70 years is a handicap, not a privilege. Although she has had plenty of time to address this before now if she had used some self awareness

@nolashiflett635

6 ай бұрын

You have been a very lucky person whose parents loved you.

@joycenash1202

5 ай бұрын

I only wished I had listened to mine 😢

@angela776

4 ай бұрын

Your parents understood that this world is full of wicked people and such and it sounds they did everything they could to protect you from these parasites! You coming off as ungrateful for their protection doest sound right! Most of us have had a lifetime of dealing with parasites and you have your first at 70?

❤ becoming more Stoic and recognizing users. I am done with that.❤

This detailed description applies to a large portion of politicians!

I have experienced users all My life with little reciprocity. Its nice hearing the same as such defined astutely put ancient wisdom. ❤

Great points & presentation, thank you! ♥ VIDEO NOTES: 15. Failure to fulfill promises & commitments 14. Diminishing & distainful comments. 13. Unilateral benefits 12. Disregard for your needs and feelings 11. Emotional manipulation 10. Lacks genuine support 9. Constant Competition 8. Absence at critical moments 7. Lack of Reciprocity 6. Gossip & breech of trust 5. Selective Availability 4. Inducing Guilt 3. Lack of personal interest 2. Superficial Closeness 1. Persistent Lack of Respect

@theoryofpersonality1420

3 ай бұрын

Thank you. This helps me follow along better.

@americandad4864

3 ай бұрын

Thank you

@Kay.in.FL.HI.SA.JP.OZ.NZ.RIO..

3 ай бұрын

​@@theoryofpersonality1420 Your welcome! ❤

@Kay.in.FL.HI.SA.JP.OZ.NZ.RIO..

3 ай бұрын

​​​@@theoryofpersonality1420 Tip: I often slow (or speed up) the "playback speed" so I can follow along at my own pace. How: Just click the gear symbol "⛮"on upper right of the video, then click "playback speed" and scroll up/down the speeds. Hope this helps! ❤

All Humans, need to connect to Love. We Are all like this Man, Woman and other Identified beings forms and substance.

01/23/2024 Armored Wisdom. Thank you. I have experienced these behaviors throughout my journey with various associates. I take these lessons from the beginning of my journey as I came across Stoicism. It is equipping me with more attentiveness and boundaries in my life to stand stable and equipped especially when encountering new people and past associates trying to resurface back into my life. 😊

Thank you Lord and I claiming this message in Jesus Name Amen 🙏

Absolute truth.Ive experienced all of these from people my entire life.

10 minutes in and you've perfectly described my former best friend, my former step dad, and my current boss..

The best response to such people is to show them the mirror. It might be hard sometimes, especially if the relationship is important to us in some way. In which case, we need to constantly strive to improve ourselves.

This really hit home & wise words were understood...... in a different light ❤

Best advice, when realizing someone doesn't care about you then you need to no longer care about them. Walk away and never return to them bc it will only happen all over again

This has been eye-opening af for me... I realized to my dismay that I have been a user in most of my relationships, and was so deep in denial about it... This is wrong, I am wrong, I can't even justify it to myself... I need to change. Thank you for shedding light on my blind spot.

Narcissistic relationship in a nutshell. Great summary! 👏👏👏