He didn't even care that HIS baby was following him to the street! Didn't even look back! Disgusting

@bryannamarie7539

3 жыл бұрын

Smh

@Saimone008

3 жыл бұрын

dont blame him hes Samoan xD new islander parents dont really like these kind of things

@lenaescobedo

3 жыл бұрын

@@Saimone008 they don't like their babies?? Lol

@Saimone008

3 жыл бұрын

@@lenaescobedo no its because of the preasure (cant spell lol) and when they argue with the mum they feel something not to sure but its quite there

@alexandercrush

3 жыл бұрын

Well her father did warn her. Seems all the fathers on this show were correct.

I apologize on behalf of all Samoans for this embarrassment.

@leila8701

3 жыл бұрын

@Huley Chongan God Bless You!!

@latterdayshots1747

3 жыл бұрын

@Huley Chongan yeah nah

@frenchkiss8789

3 жыл бұрын

Accepted 🤗

@kohanstraven1550

3 жыл бұрын

My Samoan mate told me there's plenty of people like him back in Samoa.....they're called faafafine.

@kohanstraven1550

3 жыл бұрын

@Christian Mulipola Yes it was a joke, my mate was just mocking Asuelu for being a dick.

Doesn’t even say bye to his children. Disgusting

@Nicole-yy6qu

3 жыл бұрын

Alex can’t imagine...

@leahlind379

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexandercrush 11 year olds don't have sex.... Lol so no. He is just dumb.

@PULULOLE

3 жыл бұрын

Me as a poliesian he way dummer than I expected

@roxeyrobledo1642

3 жыл бұрын

You kalai you be find you boyfriend not mood right now don't leave home you wife and kids you love don't say b**** to you wife okay not good you son birthday today talk to you wife what is coming here you wife country . don't be mad you wife and her mom okay.

@DaRedeyeJedi808

3 жыл бұрын

Its the Old West again to much heat for you ❄ generations

I hate it when adults argue around kids, that ain't healthy and is so selfish

@karianajames992

3 жыл бұрын

well in samoan culture its kind of like when parents argue u try not to get in their ways especially if its a FULL samoan women. u know what nevermind its too complicated to describe

@nawfr1803

3 жыл бұрын

Are you referring to asuelu as an adult? Lol hes a child himself

@brendarobledo5137

3 жыл бұрын

Kalan be happy you son birthday okay you husband i s his own way I he will leave front his kids you wife be heartbroken 💔 you do something about this you life be find help each together Kalan you do get divorce to Asuelu for good you find someone else okay care you kids okay I hate you Asuelu you attend to Kalan it is you son birthday party coming up soon now you leave like that you are crazy.

@tupacisalive1236

3 жыл бұрын

My siblings hate when me and my mom fight,but shit happens that part of life I can’t keep my mouth shut when she’s out of line and sometimes they don’t get that

@ibendover4817

3 жыл бұрын

adults? argue? Dude barely said anything and pulled the equivalent of a kid running away from home because he got his fee-fees hurt for being called out.

I usually scream when i see a father leaving his kids like that. But this, i think is the best for Kalani and her kids

@ActiveRehabMobility

4 жыл бұрын

The Truth Hurts Username to comment ratio on point 😎

@Ariels888

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, she needs to take her children and keep moving in the opposite direction of that mamma made King baby! 🙄🤴👶

@Ariels888

4 жыл бұрын

@The Truth Hurts I think that the rest of can agree, that they are definitely more hers than his, because he does absolutely nothing "fatherly" for them. He is a baby himself, because his mother created him to be codependent and grossly undereducated and ignorant, and he is a complete narssacistic tool. I should say that the majority of us see this quite clearly.

@jamimartinez1263

4 жыл бұрын

@Jake from state farm she is a horrible woman! The way she lets her family treat him is a disgrace. He might not be the best husband but she shouldn't allow her family to treat him the way they do. Also the way she treats him is a bunch of bullshit too.

@Ariels888

4 жыл бұрын

@The Truth Hurts Calm yourself and realign yourself. You are putting words in my mouth, and misinterpreting what it is I was attempting to say. I am happy though, that you are very passionate about not jumping to conclusions and badgering him about verbally. He does have rights to see and spend time with his children, but from what I can tell, he doesn't seem very interested in them much at all. I was calling out his immature and narssacistic behavior towards his wife and others, and as a survivor of childhood abuse, there is more than one way to abuse and create issues with children from being around that 24/7. They clearly need some serious couple, and family, as well as individual counseling, because that could really help resolve these problems. I think that the majority of us here agree that her father should have some alone time with him, and set him straight! 😉👍

I feel bad for her mom crying, she was crying because she knows her daughter made a big mistake in her life 😖

@frenchkiss8789

3 жыл бұрын

Big big mistake

@gringa23

3 жыл бұрын

HUGE!!

@isitoloisaako4k402

3 жыл бұрын

I.dont 🤣🤣🤣 that's the way its suspost to go the girl suspost to do the cooking the cleaning all the house work 💀

@gringa23

3 жыл бұрын

@@isitoloisaako4k402 teamwork!! let the man and woman take turns helping each other make the tasks easier on one another.

@AltairEgo1

3 жыл бұрын

@Catherine Alexander It's different for different cultures. In other parts of the world, the man going to work and supporting his family is considered contributing to the household, as "teamwork" as you put it. To us, sharing duties means both the man and woman work, do household chores, take care of the kids, etc. Different parts of the world have different ways of doing things. It's hard for us as Americans to understand that, but it's the truth. Not everyone is the same as us.

Breaks my heart seeing the little son chase his daddy outside towards the street. Confused child, just in love with a father who is absolutely selfish. That's the worst thing I've seen on this show.

@LawnBunny777

3 жыл бұрын

and he carelessly leaves the gate oopen

@lisamariepagliei3945

2 жыл бұрын

It's is the worst thing and leaving the gate open after she told him his son was following him out, there's absolutely no excuse that he or anyone else can come up to justify. There's no justification and that is neglect of a child which is under the "abuse" umbrella so why was it tolerated on the show!

@yosefpennleon2101

Жыл бұрын

@@lisamariepagliei3945 it might be staged, but what's I think is even more disturbing is what audiences people want to watch the worst "real" behavior on "reality" TV. Ratings/views are what drive the networks to film stuff like this. To be fair, depicting family dysfunction in a healthy way is important because it is a hard reality of our world, nation, and culture. But, I think on shows like this it can dance the line on what's ethical especially when children are involved instead of a fictional scenario portrayed by properly trained/professional actors. Since we're not on the set we won't ever truly know what's real and not real when it comes to "reality" television.

@RickTheBoss98

10 ай бұрын

His a great man and Daf

“Maybe if we get married they will change” “Maybe if we have a baby they will change” “Maybe if they move in they will change” No. No it/they won’t.

@ChristAlone_

2 жыл бұрын

So glad I don’t understand those concepts 😅

@juliecastillo914

2 жыл бұрын

I think her will probably was by the time she even began to get to know him she was pregnant. And then she got pregnant almost immediately when he came to the US. So by the time she saw how bad it was she already had two kids. Problem is with his behavior she has three

@katielaginess3344

9 ай бұрын

Very true

She flirted with the world’s oldest 8 year old... that was her first mistake.

@FionaclarkClark

3 жыл бұрын

Excellent, well said. Spot on.

@bellaxbts2819

3 жыл бұрын

Ok but also don’t blame it on her when he’s being a d*ck head

@wheelzwheela

3 жыл бұрын

BellaxBTS I would blame that on him having the maturity of an 8 year old.

@ryanphifer5520

3 жыл бұрын

BellaxBTS don’t sleep with just anybody and if you do use protection

@sannekristensen1376

3 жыл бұрын

its not her mistake. its his, for being like that

This is why you need to date people before you get married or pregnant .

@BD091959

2 жыл бұрын

Yep

@ripabigfatoneforme

2 жыл бұрын

to be fair she got pregnant the same day she lost her virginity to him

@lisamariepagliei3945

2 жыл бұрын

YES!!

@NaetheNatural

2 жыл бұрын

Say it again . It’s like these women and little boys just hop on the D without any protection or strong foundation in the relationship

@mellamotina5100

Жыл бұрын

@@NaetheNatural ur acting like people don’t do stuff like this in long term relationships either. It doesn’t matter how long you commit and are with someone it matters on the choices that person decides to make.

Her dad raised her so well. So strong.

@Jaidzeka36

2 жыл бұрын

@@erikjohnson5549 I get that. I'm saying she's not afraid to speak up about how she feels.

@wollycatapillar404

2 жыл бұрын

Good girl for sticking up for yourself. No woman in my family would take that either. That's what happens when you take on, a different culture and not think about it. Green card!

@chaeun-woon8405

2 жыл бұрын

@@erikjohnson5549 she’s 31. Don’t say anything about her if you don’t know her

@Undeadsweater

2 жыл бұрын

@@erikjohnson5549 In many cultures, it’s normal and even expected for children and their parents to live together for that long. Often even for their whole lives. Yes, she made a very dumb mistake to have risky sex and then have a baby, but at least she is stepping up to take care of him, and that matters a lot. She seems relatively emotionally strong/healthy, and it doesn’t make her bad to live with her parents or only have a part time job.

@marzipantart

11 ай бұрын

And her MOM, don't ignore her.

The man who doesn’t even say bye to his children upon leaving, wanted to have more children and a big family! What a disgusting irony!

@ericseliz34

2 жыл бұрын

Almost like he was going to manipulate Kalani the way his dad used to do to his mom. She seemed perfectly ok with having 9 kids.

@limbuguy8316

Жыл бұрын

Exactly i heard he wanted 7 kids totals and say things like your not strong mother you can't do things like a Samoa woman . I don't understand what's with him he thinks that women are meant to stay home and produce babies . And yet he doesn't take any responsibility i mean ....... Shame on him to call a Men

A 30-year-old virgin on vacation in Samoa. Birth control could have made all the difference between a holiday fling and this train wreck.

@rabeccainouye980

4 жыл бұрын

The fact she wasted her virginity on him is a tragedy!!

@melisandrebennet1773

4 жыл бұрын

Dont say that, the kids are the only nice thing she got out of this

@ninahagen1145

4 жыл бұрын

Sooo true

@screeningmimi

4 жыл бұрын

@Electroencefalografista Good question, maybe she was flattered by his attention.

@soniaharrison1016

4 жыл бұрын

@@rabeccainouye980 just the thought of that makes me crazy. There is nothing sexy about this guy.

*This is why its important to know your partner before having unprotected sex with them* Sometimes people are compatible alone but as a Family, they don't work.

@kennybenjamin3230

4 жыл бұрын

So true .

@janetstoddartjohnson

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@cariko

4 жыл бұрын

It's like these people are not concerned about STDs. Esp the ones that cannot be cured

@kgb8825

4 жыл бұрын

She needs to send him to Oregon with his mom. Then they can have their 5 minute makeout session. YUCK!

@user-sy5rq1bn6g

4 жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this a few years ago 😂 but it changed my life for the better 👶🏽

How could he ignore his son like that when he followed him out the door?! Heartbreaking!! 😭 He seems very immature!

She is so gorgeous and out of his league. He should feel lucky tbh. AND she deals with his horrid family. You could not even pay me to do to that for five seconds

@transforgoku

3 жыл бұрын

An overweight single mother in her 30s with an attitude like her is hardly a 3 if not less, what league are you talking about? the below average one? they're a match made in Shrek XD

@KayDejaVu

3 жыл бұрын

@@transforgoku She is beautiful . She has accomplished more and actually behaves like an adult, unlike him who is from a selfish family. Women of her background are her weight.

@Citi2en_V41n

3 жыл бұрын

@@KayDejaVu then you go after her. You too, Jazz. If she's so awesome, then why don't you track her down? Seriously, that's the only answer anyone should give to those vapid and cheap types of encouraging, supportive statements. Seriously, according to some people, 90% of women would be called "gorgeous" or "beautiful" and rated a "10" on any type of 1-10 scale. Talk is cheap. Maybe they actually just deserve each other and can't do better....

@bhuvaneshwarij1326

3 жыл бұрын

@@transforgoku dude she will be a single mother because of him..n she s v pretty

@transforgoku

3 жыл бұрын

@@bhuvaneshwarij1326 She IS a single mother because of her choices and feminist mindset, she was delusional thinking she could change a younger man from another country to suit her needs and be her personal doormat...

Any man who runs from his problems instead of facing up to them is not worthy of being a husband. Agreed she’s better off without him.

@shandizzleclark20

4 жыл бұрын

She lied to him about a lot including the 1st pregnancy and is manipulative and brought on herself. He can still be a part of the kids life without being in her crazu family.

@fionadaniel4056

4 жыл бұрын

Wouldn't you want some time out after having everybody around you putting you down, deciding your life and not understanding you. Not a minute let up just constant nagging... I'm glad he went and had time out.. how the hell he ain't falling apart is beyond me.

@carolbostick8672

4 жыл бұрын

And he is not worthy t be called a man!

@Faalakanumba1

3 жыл бұрын

johnnyx53 you’re really right about that. But you gotta keep it to your self

@lanacastillo49

3 жыл бұрын

ALL YOU IDIOTS JUST BLAMING HIM. HE IS IMMATURE AND SHE KNEW THAT. WHAT ABOUT HER ACCOUNTABILITY? SHE PUT HERSELF IN THIS SITUATION. ASUELO ISN'T EDUCATED IN THE US. HE IS YOUNG AND HE DOESN'T HAVE THE SKILLS AND KNOWLEDGE TO FIND A BETTER JOB FOR THE FAMILY.

This asuelu guy is no different from a teenager...boy needs to grow up

@misshisokapaints109

4 жыл бұрын

He's basically a teenager. She got what she asked for. Why is she messing with a guy so much younger than her and expects maturity?

@etrebelle9812

4 жыл бұрын

Because many men at 23 are pretty mature! And women at the same age too...in many cases

@etrebelle9812

4 жыл бұрын

@@misshisokapaints109 also shes just 6 years older... how many times have you seen a 24 years old girl with a 30yo male? Many! It comes down to him being immature and irresponsible, her objectifying him as an imaginary boyfriend rather than seeing how immature he is and how her behaviour makes him feel even more useless, and both not having spent any time understanding the point of view taught from each others cultures. It could be a nice couple, with his feel-good spirit and her organised and committed attitude, but it takes work

@marylynnneill1958

4 жыл бұрын

I don’t think he knows how! Mentally & emotionally unprepared.....don’t use “ expensive words”..... silly boy. Cannot express himself,period.

@melisandrebennet1773

4 жыл бұрын

@@etrebelle9812 females are more mature than males at that age though

My heart hurt for Kalani's mom, it must be painful to watch your daughter be in a relationship like that.

@derdon9023

2 жыл бұрын

Expect Kalanis mother and father put so much oil in the fire. They are very toxic people.

I love how smart and emotionally aware she is. She is right 100%

@zylademons2459

2 жыл бұрын

If she was smart she wouldn't have got herself in this situation. She got pregnant by a man she barely knew.

By him leaving, she needs to pack his bags and send him back to his country and parents. She raising their kid's, by herself anyway, one less deadbeat person to feed and support.

@targaryangot2494

4 жыл бұрын

Facts, man child

@nancysiekierski729

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, that's what i was trying to say earlier. TY

@nancybottom1377

4 жыл бұрын

DeShab I was thinking the same thing He obviously thinks more of his biological family than his new family go on back to your country and support your family like they want you to

@leiciagarcia675

4 жыл бұрын

Nancy Bottom u really don’t understand what it’s like for him no matter what in Samoan culture u have to put family first and it was hard for him and I don’t understand why he so childish unless he was brought up a bit spoilt compared to others

@soliloquys

4 жыл бұрын

@Claudine 27 unfortunately if he gets benefits she will be responsible for him. My ex intentionally does it.

the fact he said being a mom is easy.... LMAO

@Charlie_Loves

3 жыл бұрын

It really depends on your tolerance level.... LMAO

@miaalesia8973

3 жыл бұрын

@@Charlie_Loves I'm sorry do you have experience as a mother?

@laraoliveira3689

3 жыл бұрын

@@Charlie_Loves and what a great one you must be if you call them bitches ❤️

@missjewells5063

3 жыл бұрын

What the hell would he know about being a mom when he doesn’t even know about being a dad! POS

@stadiabrathwaite4777

3 жыл бұрын

And leaving her to take care of the kids why he be able to do what he want , the irony

This woman is so beautiful, kind, and perfect in so many ways she deserves someone that’s gonna go above and beyond for her. He should be more than grateful for such an amazing woman. No wonder us women can’t help but give up sometimes

@davidv5963

3 жыл бұрын

I think shes gorgeous and tbh I would love to be in a relationship with someone like her. Guy dosent know how great he has it

@negron1874

3 жыл бұрын

She's decent looking like 5/10

@aprilmyore6809

3 жыл бұрын

We all have flaws and sorry but she is so irritating when she is a woman then why go for a younger guy and then everyone jumps on him cause he is young and childish..just saying..

@BD091959

2 жыл бұрын

What???? Icant see this

Do you really expect asuelo to be a good man when you see how his mother acts

The way he just walked pass the baby in the car seat on the kitchen counter just proves what kind of man and father he is.

@ibepoppinmycollar

2 жыл бұрын

damn i ain’t see the baby either

@vickythefist7062

2 жыл бұрын

So dangerous leaving a baby on a raised surface that's how accidents happen

“Why you use those expensive words just use the simple ones “ 😂😂😂 bro what

@SlimRedd

4 жыл бұрын

He blew me with that statement. That was a simple word being used. It ain’t like she said “beguile” 🤣

@ChiRedWhiteBlue

4 жыл бұрын

@Netiye 27 She used the word 'manipulate.' That's a common word in the English language. And she even defined it for him. The man's just a simpleton

@missperez7716

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@queenmrs.darrolyn9890

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@cariko

4 жыл бұрын

@Netiye 27 says the person randomly capitalizing words. If you think he is the victim you're as stupid as he looks and sounds

“Why you use those expensive words?” Sole Uce, her words are free Ninety-nine. 😂

@mikichan8561

3 жыл бұрын

I didn't know words can be expensive 💀

@enjoyaloha4577

3 жыл бұрын

Cheeeeee free99 da bes

@ObliqueVisualsNz

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

That’s so hard to watch :( his baby was following him and all he said was “move” not even a goodbye

@roxeyrobledo1642

3 жыл бұрын

Asuel you are stupid person you leave kalanl you kids so hard for you guys fighting,💔

That's why you get to really know someone before you have children with them.

@melisandrebennet1773

4 жыл бұрын

But the kids are the only positives she got out of this relationship to be fair

@donnyreiss1180

4 жыл бұрын

Electroencefalografista i reckon.

@juliawhite7152

4 жыл бұрын

She actually gave him her virginity 🤦🏾‍♀️

@XxArjaypheonixxX

4 жыл бұрын

No that’s not “what she gets”. They’re his kids too and he needs to grow the fuck up. Even if he doesn’t wanna be with her he can’t just walk away from his kids. No one deserves that shit

@madisonfoster9290

4 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!!

She is better as a single mother without him 🤷🏼‍♀️!

@moonaurenda4175

3 жыл бұрын

You can't live with a man when his mother expects you to send her thousands of dollars that's ridiculous why doesn't his mother get a job or his sister he's between kalani and his mother and it's never going to work

@Rc-db7mo

3 жыл бұрын

Single mothers will turn the sons into woman

@Rc-db7mo

3 жыл бұрын

SweetCheeks look what goes on in the hood

@lanacastillo49

3 жыл бұрын

ALL YOU IDIOTS JUST BLAMING HIM. HE IS IMMATURE AND SHE KNEW THAT. WHAT ABOUT HER ACCOUNTABILITY? SHE PUT HERSELF IN THIS SITUATION. ASUELO ISN'T EDUCATED IN THE US. HE IS YOUNG AND HE DOESN'T HAVE THE SKILLS AND KNOWLEDGE TO FIND A BETTER JOB FOR THE FAMILY.

@arriibacon531

3 жыл бұрын

@@lanacastillo49 chill... are you a bot? I've seen you on other comments saying the exact same thing

It made my heart sad for the little boy when he followed his Daddy to the street. 😞

“I’m going with her” points to the innocent bus driver lmao whhaaat

How could you just walk away from your kids like that without a backwards glance. Did he ever even look at them or hug them??

@ChiRedWhiteBlue

4 жыл бұрын

It's obvious he didn't care about them when he gave his son that unripened orange 🤷🏽‍♂️

@nihilismistheonlyway4680

4 жыл бұрын

ikr. those poor babies! I could never leave my little ones no matter how bad things got. it would break my heart.

@ramzdaguy9122

4 жыл бұрын

Because thats king Curtis from wife swap bacon is good for me lmaaooo I'm packing up my bags and I won't be back until Sunday good luck with her tryna chased me down with them little high heel shoes 😂🤣 hahaha 🤣😜

@nihilismistheonlyway4680

4 жыл бұрын

@missbriteyes that may be so but him walking out like that without so much as "I love you! daddy will be back very soon!" can cause irreparable harm to a growing baby's psyche! they may have abandonment issues from experiencing a parent "bailing on them" when things get rough and never turning around to say goodbye. he can be mad at her all he wants but he has to take a second to understand what the kids may be hearing and seeing during this cluster****. I really do feel bad for the kids. they never asked for this. they're completely innocent.

@23magneta

4 жыл бұрын

It's pretty common. My father did the same thing to me. Never saw him again. There are many crappy parents out there.

He's disgusting. Didn't even say goodbye to the kids...

@nakitawarahi3083

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah because you were there aye thats how you know hahahaha However he is a fucking coward of a man

@shaylacole564

3 жыл бұрын

I mean what could we expect his own mother didn’t even care about her grandkids

@justkat2608

3 жыл бұрын

All he said was “move”

@kdmbiotch

3 жыл бұрын

He's an abuse victim.

@mitchralston5390

3 жыл бұрын

I can’t get enough hugs and kisses from my little girl when I have to leave. I can’t even fathom just walking away like he did. Pathetic

Him: "being a mom is easy." Ok sir, since you want to go down that road, why don't YOU be a "mom" for a few days? You'll change your mind in a heart beat. I may not be a mother. But have taken care of 3 kids. And it's NOT an "easy" job

@someidiot420

3 жыл бұрын

so rich when they say that nonsense but then the moment the kids need something they're either nowhere to be found or asking the mom for help, if not just outright passing the kids to her

@NYD666

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it ain't like manual labor. Maybe parenting wouldn't seem like such a chore if parents thought of childhood as the time to prepare a kid for the world instead of training the child to be their ideal human

@mikeworkizer8528

2 жыл бұрын

Easy being a mom.. nah bruh, it ain't easy at all. It ain't easy being a father either, being the leader of your house, being the strength and force in your beliefs.. being a parent ain't easy period my guy. What you did? Walking out on your family? Nah.. you ain't nothing more then a child in a grown adult body. Go back to Samoa, at least there your "mommy" has her moneybags back.

Damn he didn’t care about his kids .

Dude really ate that whole nasty unriped orange bout of spite 😂😂

@alishaphilbert4754

4 жыл бұрын

Yea just to prove i'm from Samoa we eat fruits straight from the tree probably wanted to baff while eating it but could not camera was on him 😂😂😂😂

@kara1782

4 жыл бұрын

And tried to give some to his kid, who had more common sense then him not to eat it 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

@triciarecord-warren9637

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, talkin about I hope this makes me feel better!

@neatricebennett4265

4 жыл бұрын

I thought I was the only one oml 😭

@Morbidzero

4 жыл бұрын

It's okay to eat a fruit from the tree, before it comes in a plastic box "packaged" by your local grocery store. Either way I'd have at least rinsed it with water, eat fruits save bats.

OMG WHY DO SO MANY MEN ALWAYS THINK BEING A MOM AT HOME ALL DAY IS EASY

@ramonashabani4902

3 жыл бұрын

Because when those man are at home they do nothing!

@karianajames992

3 жыл бұрын

you dont know samoan men ok dont judge from a cover

@bdabz5238

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@bushidobrown2328

3 жыл бұрын

If you're a stay at home mother than yes its easy, yall bs as hell lmao I've taken care of my brothers and sisters wash clothes cook, I get groceries all the time, its time consuming not hard lmao

@chase395

3 жыл бұрын

@@karianajames992 this is not a man. This is a boy who is crying for attention. Men don't walk out and allow their toddler to follow them into the streets. Men know they have a responsibility to the their children. He is a boy. POINT BLANK PERIOD!

"Why you use those expensive words. Just use simple words." had me dieing

@livelovelaughyolo3490

3 жыл бұрын

Patric starr moment there... sponge bob's super not so smart bestfriend.

Abusive men, the thing for them to is accuse the mother of being a “bad mom” for random things. Run Kalani, Run!

@DaRedeyeJedi808

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah run please do run KALANI maybe ASUELU will fall back in love with you... But as of right now that man has no interest in loving KALANI.......

This show proves that deadbeats aren't just an American problem.

@cjsteg3623

4 жыл бұрын

No one ever said it was

@dot4592

4 жыл бұрын

It happens everywhere lmao

@Brittany-fx7yz

4 жыл бұрын

@@dot4592 I guess so! Lmao

@miguelbermudez5426

4 жыл бұрын

She had 18 forms of birth control yet she chose to get pregnant. Thats on her.

@miguelbermudez5426

4 жыл бұрын

@@Brittany-fx7yz she chose to lose her virginity and have a baby with him. If he isn't shit then she isn't for laying with him and having 2 kids by him.

She's right, the tasks that women are expected to constantly do are much harder than men doing the "men tasks" which typically involve doing something once a week or so. Asuelu is a man child who wants a mommy bangmaid. He doesn't even bring in money, but wants all the privileges of out dated gender roles. He then pretends it's the language barrier, like nah. You understand what she wants, she knows what you want, you'll just never be compatible. I don't understand why they'd get married and have children together.

@edschildphotostudio5127

4 жыл бұрын

Diana please dont segregate with this men job thing sure women has it hard but men do have to provide and work much much more then the average women. Matter of fact they choose to work part time and care for the kids. Nowadays its equal distribution of chores between men and women. And yes asuelu is horrible as a father but dont believe anything TLC is presenting its still reality tv.

@theelolicious9302

4 жыл бұрын

Ed's ChildPhotoStudio but the point is he’s not working hard or providing so what is his purpose?

@nenaelliott8058

4 жыл бұрын

@@theelolicious9302 , he only serves one purpose that I can see. The minute someone stood up to him and he didn't like it he hit the road.

@edschildphotostudio5127

4 жыл бұрын

@@theelolicious9302 its not that it was about asuelu specific but in general.

@autumnsummers6599

4 жыл бұрын

@@edschildphotostudio5127 That's not true, men don't work harder or provide more, in the past they did, not any more.

I’m a single father of a 2 year old baby girl ❤️ and have a full time job.....taking care of a child is extremely hard work

I'm so grateful her mom, dad, and sister all don't put up with ignorance!

Poor Kalani has to take care of 3 kids

@nightsky3981

4 жыл бұрын

I was about to write that! Yessss so true.

@jellyfishlotusdream

4 жыл бұрын

@Philip Robertson III Or you could just wear protection.

@lianithomasprewitt2428

4 жыл бұрын

@@jellyfishlotusdream No, this one falls on both of them. She took no precautions either. He wasn't going to use protection because he's a simpleton...even if she does get pregnant, she'll take care of them....and I think he is cognitively delayed. She didn't know this man from Adam's house cat, she should also have been prepared of she was going to go down this path. Like someone else said, first time = accident, second time, she already knew and he still didn't care.

@jellyfishlotusdream

4 жыл бұрын

@KiddRogers That could be an option, yes. Maybe she thought it was the right time? Clearly wasn't but idk.

Poor kids

@Betty-hv9fj

4 жыл бұрын

All 3 of them

@rachellopez1868

4 жыл бұрын

@@Betty-hv9fjI de

@floridagirl386

4 жыл бұрын

Ehhhhh

@KILLEMALLTWICE

4 жыл бұрын

Poor bastards.

MY HEART IS THE KIDS AND SEEING KALANI MOTHER IN TEARS 😭 SOOO SAD

“Don’t use those expensive words” oooooomg

He's to busy being a son to his mother to be a husband to her and a father to his kids.

@DaRedeyeJedi808

3 жыл бұрын

He was a son first before a father and in Samoan tradition the SONS take care of the entire family till they die their raised and taught too believe this its been going on way before you and I were alive and will continue on way after we die.....

*When the little son went after his daddy* 😥💔

"You won't find that shit in my house" 🙏🏽 serving up hella vibes

Those poor little boys! This is heart breaking. 🥺

Frankly, Asuelu might have an intellectual impairment. He seems to really struggle with more complex cognitive functions, and he can’t seem to express himself clearly. Which might be why he’s acting out

@breshannondevereaux7725

4 жыл бұрын

Huh! You may have a point! Now, that you've said that, it makes ALOT of sense! Maybe a touch on the ASD spectrum ( Aspberger's?)? Good call!!

@call-me-matthew4813

4 жыл бұрын

Also, something that I saw. When all the people met in a Tell All, when they hated on Larissa and Colt and had a big fight, this Asuelu man got up and started yelling and moving.. weirdly. Violently, like he was going to punch Larissa out of the blue.

@breshannondevereaux7725

4 жыл бұрын

@@call-me-matthew4813 I took a look at that episode you mentioned on Tell All. Boy oh boy! That IS an unusual reaction! However, in my opinion, Asuelu appears to be an UNDIAGNOSED AUTISTIC! Only people with Autism react to conflict, going on around them like that! He was having a typical 'melt down'. I have a 27 yr old Son with Autism. Social anxiety is HUGE with them! As well as communication problems, inability to take direction and or criticism and lastly IMMATURITY! It takes Autistics FOREVER to grow up! My guess is that because things are a bit more simple in Samoa, he got by just fine. In school, he probably had a learning deficit like dyslexia or had some kind of remedial classes. He's just high enough functioning that only someone who works with or was the parent of an Autistic would've caught it! It makes SO MUCH MORE SENSE NOW ( his behavior). Autistics also appear to be very selfish because of their ignorance of social cues. They pretty much dwell inside their own world until someone points out that it's abnormal to do so. I have to CONSTANTLY coach and cajole my son into communicating and considering other people's feelings! It's exhausting! I feel REALLY bad for Kalani. There's a HIGH probability that the kids will be on the spectrum, too. If they are, she needs to get them into therapy ASAP!. The later the diagnosis, the more difficult life will be! My son was diagnosed at 3. At 27, he's still not able to live on his own because he lacks not only social skills, he lacks common sense as well. As an example: You live in an apartment in December. Your heat stops working. You would call your landlord, or super, right? My son would wrap a blanket or two, around himself, FOR THE REST OF WINTERTIME, never mentioning it to anyone who could help him! It might get fixed eventually, because he'd bitch about it to his job coach probably. But it would be at least two weeks into the ordeal. They just think in the most bizarre ways and there's no way to prepare yourself for it! Good observation!!

@breshannondevereaux7725

4 жыл бұрын

I'm starting to see Autistic traits! This would explain his weakness in communication, his meltdowns and immaturity. He's high functioning enough that it would be missed by his pediatrician and teachers. But I'm almost 100% certain that Asuelu is on the spectrum!! Kalani should get those kids checked, ASAP!

@valerielauren6009

4 жыл бұрын

No it’s just the language barrier, it comes off as though he can’t find the words to express himself but it’s because he can’t full speak the English language, I’m sure in his native language he can speak and express himself just fine. His problem is just that he thought he would find a rich American woman to take care of him and his family, and that’s not what he got.

Just put a moustache and he’ll look exactly like Mr Potato head from toy story. Ngl

@lillianagelista1788

4 жыл бұрын

Hes an ugly man

@lillianagelista1788

4 жыл бұрын

@Lew sifer 😞 sorry

@gabbyperez9662

4 жыл бұрын

Dont insult Mr. Potato Head...lol

@sallyachieng8538

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂 Ritika that’s funny

@anibalbabilonia1867

4 жыл бұрын

👋😂👍lmfao!

Super cute how he packed food from the fridge

He knows exactly what is he talking about, he is just blaming it all on a language barrier

He can't afford the expensive words yet.

@devilsown1828

4 жыл бұрын

You are hot AF ..

@jasminmclaren2785

4 жыл бұрын

Nor the bus fair. Did he even pay?

"I think he's just used to subservient women." What is subservient about Asuelu's mom and sister? Asuelu is like their slave...He just doesn't respect you, Kalani. He's a kid and when you act like your kid's friend that kid will walk all over you.

@makieshabilbey2546

3 жыл бұрын

Omg!!! This is exactly what I was thinking! His sister is more of a man than he is!

@roxeyrobledo1642

3 жыл бұрын

Asuel you are LOL you are doing that you do hunt kalanl now leven you children behind and his wife like that obey her mom okay Asuelu now you going leave that for good that is not good .

@KillShot-ln6mn

3 жыл бұрын

She's really dumb as a 30 year old woman to marry & have kids from a 24 year old guy.

@EmilyElizabethxox

3 жыл бұрын

@@makieshabilbey2546 I’m wondering if Samoa is unique in a sense that ensuring your parents are taken care of takes precedent over your wife and kids. I know in some Asian countries elderly parents live with their kids, but it seems in these circumstances the whole family makes a joint effort to raise the children the best they can and the kids still come first. But here it’s like Asuelu’s mom feels entitled to come first over even the children. It’s bizarre

"Why do you use those expensive words....Use simple words!" I'm a Polynesian man(hawaiian to be exact) and I laughed my ass off when I heard that lol

He probably realized the mother was going to tell the father. So he decided it was best to run away.

@DaRedeyeJedi808

3 жыл бұрын

Kalani's father would agree with ASUELU's decision as its FA'A SAMOA

At this point, she has a problem. She doesn’t have to stay with him. She chooses to stay with him. But for what?

@starlitexo

4 жыл бұрын

Kids?

@MM-ik2du

4 жыл бұрын

Definitely for the kids, but it’s unfortunate she doesn’t make that hard decision to leave him before the kids are grown enough

@madisonfoster9290

4 жыл бұрын

She must love him. To procreate with this simpleton (twice), it has to be out of love. Good luck to her and the bed she made.

@lianithomasprewitt2428

4 жыл бұрын

Also, per the way the K-1 visa is set up, even if he leaves and they divorce, she is responsible financially for him.

@neatricebennett4265

4 жыл бұрын

Right, she has already had her kids when it was clear that she shouldn't have. But now is now, she needs to take her kids and leave before it gets out of hand and becomes more of a toxic relationship than it already is... If she doesn't? The kids will grow up to understand what's going on and that's not good. It can lead to many situations.. So yeah she better have them divorce papers ready when he get home 😌✌🏽

This relationship is even more toxic than the smelly kid’s breath in class

@janesu6617

3 жыл бұрын

HAHA

@leahlynn685

3 жыл бұрын

STOP LMFAO

Not acknowledging your own kid is beyond terrible!!

1:21 *tree full of beautiful yellow lemons* Asuelu: *jumps up and picks the greenest, least ripe one*

“ShE’s tHe oNe wHo ChOse To HaVe KiDs wiTH hiM” - you guys are really gonna blame her for the way he acts? People are up on their high horse judging her, she’s a great mom and is trying to keep the father in the picture for her kids, I don’t know how she puts up with him. Girl run 🥺

@HELLOkitty90210

4 жыл бұрын

First time, was an accident and he STILL acted like this. Second kid was on purpose so yeah... she did choose it at the end of the day. Kids don’t make a marriage work. They’re judging her cause she puts up with TOO MUCH BS and ENABLES him. YES she enables him. Would’ve had the divorce papers ready once he came back. Believe that.

@ashleynicole4523

4 жыл бұрын

But he continues to not give a crap and she's still making excuses for him and continuing to be with this worthless man child ass.

@HELLOkitty90210

4 жыл бұрын

Electroencefalografista I Hope you’re being sarcastic lol :/

@cariko

4 жыл бұрын

Yes we are blaming her. The same way your blame a woman who let's a man she knows molest kids in the house with her kids. They fucked on two separate occasions, RAW. Asuelu talks like he's slow, he acts like he's slow.. Her family warned her. Yet she did what she did. As a woman knowing you can get pregnant it's your responsibility to use a female condom, spernacide and sponge, contraceptive film, birth control, morning after pill. This isn't the 1900s BUT getting pregnant I'd relatively simple. And he doesn't do anything with his kids, he disrespects her in front of their kids. Couldn't even be bothered with his son's birthday. You don't keep a toxic parent in your kids' life just because they are a parent. DUH. Bye with your bullshit

@mithrilmoon1

4 жыл бұрын

The more I hear and listen to this guy, the less I like him. He is not husband/father material. He's deeply unattractive and insults his wife daily. He'd better get a good job somewhere, maybe back home, because that mother is going drag his a** for money forever.

Kalani, just send him on a plane back to Samoa. ✈✌

I’ve never seen someone pick up and haul ass so fast in my life, he jumps on a random city bus thinking he’s going to another state lmao

His favourite hobby is *deflecting* 🙄 I hate him so much lmao

Expensive words? He understands her CLEARLY. He could not refute her point so he blames the language....lies!

I don't understand why people involve their families into their marriage..

@juliecastillo914

4 жыл бұрын

From what I understand, her family is paying for the marriage

@leoniemlilapi1429

4 жыл бұрын

to get support

@karlylynn4676

4 жыл бұрын

because some cultures believe in supporting each other through everything. :/

@chutzpahboo

4 жыл бұрын

or the TLC

@BadTasteforguys

4 жыл бұрын

THIS. There is a difference between support and inviting someone into your relationship. You can’t tell your family everything that happens because you may forgive that person, but your family is still mad at them like they are you. It’s just not good business.

Both of these guys have a problem and its called not appreciating one another. He should thank her and appreciate all she does as a Mom and she should appreciate his effort when he tries. The thing about appreciation is that it makes you want to do something more to please the person you love, but at the moment they're just complaining about each other.

@kylatrahan7879

3 жыл бұрын

Well said !!!

He’s insecure because she’s better without him and he knows it. 🙌🏽 And he’s quite a coward who can’t do it.

I hope she gets it through her head that she's better off without him. There's nothing wrong with staying alone hun. Ure not the first single mother. U got this

@DaRedeyeJedi808

3 жыл бұрын

I guess the D too good too leave for her I guess 🤷 She just in it for the D now

Asuelu probably fell out of love with her and that is why he is annoyed by every little thing. They used to be so bonded like soul mates. Now he is treating her like a bad one night stand who can't get away from fast enough. He seemed like he was looking for a fight so he could have an excuse to leave. He probably doesn't have the guts to tell her that he doesn't love her anymore. Maybe he met someone new. Who knows. Regardless, this relationship appears to have expired for him.

@aysepersona4194

3 жыл бұрын

The issue is: once you have kids you can't just get up and leave bc you don't love your partner anymore. You share responsibility for the kids

@pollyannaprinciple5860

3 жыл бұрын

@@aysepersona4194 Maybe they can move into the same apartment complex and coparent.

@VP-kr2vd

3 жыл бұрын

@@aysepersona4194 Yes, you can get up and leave...it's called divorce, separation or just plain getting up and leaving. You cannot get arrested for leaving someone you dont love just cause you have kids. You just have to pay child support and go to court for custody sharing.

@DaRedeyeJedi808

3 жыл бұрын

@@aysepersona4194 idk what world you live in that its MANDATORY for a woman and man too stay together becauze they got kids.... They got kids thats it nothing else

Good for her, now she got just 2 kids to taking care of instead of 3 kids. Bye felicia

So sad to see a little toddler running to their Dad who is leaving indefinitely. I thought that happened in movies only.

She is rightfully concerned yet still keeps having children with him?!

@coolcat6341

4 жыл бұрын

What's her other options..

She's a grown ass woman she should've found herself a 30 year old mature man not a little 24 year old guy that hasn't even hit 30 yet

@perfectlyimperfect9129

3 жыл бұрын

It's not his age that's the problem here! Its him !

@jalapenopizza9505

3 жыл бұрын

There's lots of 24 year old men who are good fathers and husband's. It's not age it's character.

@KillShot-ln6mn

3 жыл бұрын

If a 30 year old man wives up a 24 year old girl all the women in this comment section would call him creepy for dating & marrying someone younger 😂

@Hibiscushighbiscuits

3 жыл бұрын

It isn’t his age that’s an issue, it’s his mentality.

@icvip9753

3 жыл бұрын

@@KillShot-ln6mn why are you acting like that isn't common especially on 90 days

She’s so pretty !! And smart. She can actually find herself an American good guy

Some guy told me raising 3 kids was easy as hell. I’m like you can’t talk until you’ve done it there’s no explaining you have to physically do it.

It was when he jumped up in the tree to get the fruit for me😂😂😂😂😂😂

@LexiSanat

3 жыл бұрын

...

@mrschristian5908

3 жыл бұрын

It was when she didn't notice he is mentally slow for me. 🤣🤣

@jadenkilla4242

3 жыл бұрын

Mrs Christian he ain’t, just how some Samoans are brought up

He's immature

IT'S AMAZING HOW "AMERICAN" HE BECAME WHEN HE WANTED TO BOLT!!

The way she treats him and her family ya i seen this coming a long time ago

I do not understand why they had children together. He needs to study and then work to support his family with her. They need help with the children and the housework. It is a pity for the children if he does not sharpen up and take his responsibility as well.

Asueli is a big kid with something wrong with him. How does she not see this? Yuk !! Not a gd future. Smh

@davidroberts3476

4 жыл бұрын

The dude is probably some kind of deficient in the brain dept that has a name for it.

@cwell510

4 жыл бұрын

Obviously Asuelu's father wasn't instrumental in his life either thus he doesn't know how to be a man/husband/father to his family.

Heartless father I can’t walk out of the house without kissing my baby’s even if I’m in a rush or not in a good mood just looking at them makes me forget everything

@lightingthedarkremoteviewi8086

3 жыл бұрын

He's not heartless. He was crying when his mom told him to give his money to them and there would be none left for his kids. He cares about his kids but he was cornered by her and needed to get away. She is so controlling and over bearing I would not be able to cope with her at all. I feel like he says her job is easy becuase she belittles him all the time. Being a mom is def not easy I think he knows that.

He needs to grow up!!! Kalani, never dumb down to ANYONE. You deserve better than him and all his drama and psycho family.

“Expensive”words!!! 😐

@viccmignonettedellacrema1312

4 жыл бұрын

This ain’t Jeopardy

@tysonreuter5788

4 жыл бұрын

How many languages do you speak?

@brittanynicole1177

4 жыл бұрын

🤣😂🤣😂

Who thinks this guy is just a big baby she has three kids counting him

Wow,you just left your children no kisses or goodbyes like they weren't exist!

His Mom was right. She didn’t wait to get to know him and talk everything over before getting married.

Why she continue having kids with him.. I don’t get it

He gotta go, she needs to get rid of him, I can't deal with people that doesn't even have any feeling for her or his kids

I've been in her shoes. She deserves so much better.

Eu nem consigo ter pena dela, ele mostrou desde o início quem ele era!!!

Men like Asuelo is the reason why women nag.

@fairytailgirl123

4 жыл бұрын

Men like Asuelo is the reason I love being single

@lanacastillo49

3 жыл бұрын

ALL YOU IDIOTS JUST BLAMING HIM. HE IS IMMATURE AND SHE KNEW THAT. WHAT ABOUT HER ACCOUNTABILITY? SHE PUT HERSELF IN THIS SITUATION. ASUELO ISN'T EDUCATED IN THE US. HE IS YOUNG AND HE DOESN'T HAVE THE SKILLS AND KNOWLEDGE TO FIND A BETTER JOB FOR THE FAMILY.

@unre4l_fireiron462

3 жыл бұрын

FARKIN DON'T MOCK THE GUY IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HAPPENED IN THE PAST YEAH?

@transforgoku

3 жыл бұрын

And women like Kalani are the reason single motherhood is becoming the norm.

@Jc22ny

3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately a Language barrier is a big culprit to this. Communication is something that must be taught efficiently from a very early age. The more time that pases, the harder it becomes to express yourself properly which then leads to many years of suffering and unhealthy communication styles.

Only immature run away from their problems. Running from your own children... Shame on you.

dying laughing that’s the OCTA bus i take at the end of the video XD

i dont understand why he doesn't just get a starbucks job or something, he's funny and personable. i'm sure he could do something and his paperwork must be all ready by now