Are The Straights Ever Okay?

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We're back asking the question of are the straights okay? (not really)
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  • @Jammidodger
    @Jammidodger Жыл бұрын

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  • @aspenvo

    @aspenvo

    Жыл бұрын

    Three days ago??

  • @raineatscheese

    @raineatscheese

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aspenvo unlisted video, probably, or scheduled to be uploaded

  • @aspenvo

    @aspenvo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@raineatscheese ohhhh that makes sense

  • @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith

    @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith

    Жыл бұрын

    What field of science do you study? I would guess Biochemistry, how close was I?

  • @ArtsyKnox25

    @ArtsyKnox25

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith he studies gender studies and I think he might have a PhD in some things relating to that? I can't remember exactly what.

  • @eileenbutterfly7856
    @eileenbutterfly7856 Жыл бұрын

    Being a woman isn't easy. We've had to endure the suppression of pockets in our clothes.

  • @saundraschaefer

    @saundraschaefer

    Жыл бұрын

    Fanny packs are a good solution.

  • @Laura-gb1jv

    @Laura-gb1jv

    Жыл бұрын

    I have accidentally taught my daughter to rant about the lack of pockets in commercially available women's clothing, and I couldn't be prouder 😸

  • @BeautyMonster1000

    @BeautyMonster1000

    Жыл бұрын

    The struggle is real...

  • @ryebread869

    @ryebread869

    Жыл бұрын

    cargo pants are coming back into fashion our time is nearly here

  • @silverghostcat1924

    @silverghostcat1924

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ryebread869 I don't care if they are in fashion or not l love my cargo pants. Pockets galore 🤩

  • @freddiefishton
    @freddiefishton Жыл бұрын

    Here’s a joke A trans man and trans woman are at a table talking to each other. They talk about Trans things and when talking about surgeries, the trans man says “yeah I’m just glad I got that out of my chest” The trans woman responds “really? You weren’t a fan of them” He nods She then says “well I like ‘em, their starting to grow on me”

  • @lysanamcmillan7972

    @lysanamcmillan7972

    Жыл бұрын

    That was darling and wholesome. 💙💓🤍💓💙

  • @misxa6344

    @misxa6344

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice to see a trans joke that doesn't include suffering or bigotry, thanks!

  • @freddiefishton

    @freddiefishton

    Жыл бұрын

    @@misxa6344 👍

  • @jan-Pala

    @jan-Pala

    Жыл бұрын

    you're funny, i like you

  • @freddiefishton

    @freddiefishton

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jan-Pala thanks mate

  • @My_mid-victorian_crisis
    @My_mid-victorian_crisis Жыл бұрын

    If "Real Men" don't know how to sew, why does the US Marine Corps teach Marines to sew? My late dad, uber cis, Marine, used to make quilts, hand-sewn quilting. I would love to see the 18th-century ideal or even the Victorian idea of masculinity. 18th century was a heavy white base with black eyeliner, pink cheeks and lips, and higher heels. Crying and holding other men's hands in the 19th century was considered masculine.

  • @unluckyone1655

    @unluckyone1655

    Жыл бұрын

    Alot of men also wore corsets back then

  • @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar

    @therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar

    Жыл бұрын

    Scotsmen learned to knit because 400 years ago, you needed to be able to make and repair your socks, etc.

  • @blowinatranny

    @blowinatranny

    Жыл бұрын

    Real men aren't born with vaginas so jamie is not a real man

  • @KyleRayner12

    @KyleRayner12

    Жыл бұрын

    There'd be about 90% less English poetry if the ideals of masculinity we had today were actually consistent over time

  • @kayenjee

    @kayenjee

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar now it's like, fellas is it gay to be warm? 😅

  • @purple4216
    @purple4216 Жыл бұрын

    Rules for dating anyone: Don't be a jerk. Be respectful. Communicate. Be supportive of their interests. This is for all parties in the relationship, not just one side. It's a team effort, not a one sided effort. Why can't we have lists that say this floating around more?

  • @StudlyFudd13

    @StudlyFudd13

    Жыл бұрын

    Cause those posts get bigger reactions if they do something negative. Gets more views, clicks, and comments. It's all about attention.

  • @alphaomega7191

    @alphaomega7191

    Жыл бұрын

    True - admittedly I think anyone with the T shirt or sign is joking about being threatening - someone who actually was wouldn't joke about it.

  • @andrewb.9815

    @andrewb.9815

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @freddogrosso9835

    @freddogrosso9835

    Жыл бұрын

    And if you arrive 30 minutes earlier, at least bring something to eat.

  • @HG-gj9lh

    @HG-gj9lh

    Жыл бұрын

    The ABC’s of dating SHOULD be: Acceptance Boundaries Consent

  • @FitzyCify
    @FitzyCify Жыл бұрын

    "Drop the gay look. Grow a beard. Build muscles." Nobody tell them! 👀

  • @CortexNewsService

    @CortexNewsService

    Жыл бұрын

    Does this mean I have to share my beard or do I go behind enemy lines with the hets?

  • @thelogicallunatic6004

    @thelogicallunatic6004

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup... I'm silently flying the Bear Flag as well... just nodding. *silly phobes*

  • @theveganduolingobird7349

    @theveganduolingobird7349

    Жыл бұрын

    Do they not realise that some gay people, find strong men, attractive?

  • @hungrytroodontid

    @hungrytroodontid

    Жыл бұрын

    🐻🐻🐻

  • @jnl7196

    @jnl7196

    Жыл бұрын

    it’s like the transphobic people are mad that black Ariel is ruining the “entire story” when that entire story is a trans metaphor right under their nose

  • @themindofageek9790
    @themindofageek9790 Жыл бұрын

    On one hand, women are not objects. On the other hand, many people agree that Morticia and Gomez Addams have the ideal Straight relationship. Morticia deliberately cuts the heads off her roses.

  • @pineapplefrostyfruits9225

    @pineapplefrostyfruits9225

    Жыл бұрын

    I think thats mostly cause she's The Quintessential Goth and she prefers the thorns over the roses - but also those two are forever, constantly, BLINDINGLY in love and would not care if the other was a virgin or not, what's important is how they feel for each other and wish to respect and honour each other. TLDR I get your point but I like to elaborate on the nuanvlce of things

  • @sharlharmakhis280

    @sharlharmakhis280

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pineapplefrostyfruits9225 Gomez and Morticia are Couple Goals, that's just facts

  • @chaoticducks.frog1274

    @chaoticducks.frog1274

    Жыл бұрын

    Checkmate Gomez is allergic to roses

  • @Tustin2121

    @Tustin2121

    Жыл бұрын

    When you learn that the Addams family was created with the idea that they would be the exact opposite of what society expected of a family, and thus the reason why Morticia and Gomez are so lovey dovey is because that’s the opposite of societal expectations. 🫢

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    Literally is the ideal relationship because they're parents and still love each other a lot and won't be toxic to each other. Like all parents should be like that. Even if means being " darkies " and skull lovers. Rather that but sane family than average looking and weird Fucks lol

  • @Andromedaaa_
    @Andromedaaa_ Жыл бұрын

    To all the gays n trans here: no matter what the Straights™ say about you, no one's gonna change who you really are!! 💜

  • @aspenvo

    @aspenvo

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @Skyjy10

    @Skyjy10

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @therealkeithkogane

    @therealkeithkogane

    Жыл бұрын

    Preach. 🫡

  • @dxwsonsgirl.x

    @dxwsonsgirl.x

    Жыл бұрын

    tyyy ❤

  • @axxl1245

    @axxl1245

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @emilybastong3896
    @emilybastong3896 Жыл бұрын

    Also the sex cushion is pretty cringe BUT the idea is kind of good if it's being used in a different way. I'm dealing with heavy sexual trauma so sex is a hard thing to discuss... Some days I'm up for it and other days even the idea of being touched has me in a panic state. A cushion like this could signal my partner "Hey, I'm doing fine today, suggesting sexual activity won't be a trigger and I might even say yes" or "Today is horrible and please do not touch me in any way, shape or form". And yes, this could be communicated in conversation, but I'm still struggling with talking about sex or saying no, so a non-verbal way of signaling that might not even be the worst idea

  • @saundraschaefer

    @saundraschaefer

    Жыл бұрын

    🫂

  • @sonjag.3563

    @sonjag.3563

    Жыл бұрын

    I am very sorry for what you have to cope with :( I hope you have an understanding partner and hey, whatever works for you to communicate is fine, dont let anyone tell you otherwise

  • @Mirality

    @Mirality

    Жыл бұрын

    You could signal that sort of thing with differently colored cushions or anything else less blatant (and less embarrassing if you have visitors, or less triggering to look at when you are in that sort of state) though.

  • @shadowking278

    @shadowking278

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah. Recently I’ve been having nightmares about some guy don’t know. After these nightmares I’d feel incredibly sick and guilty. Just the thought of these nightmares would almost make me throw up. But the worst part is that I don’t know if these nightmares are memories or not.

  • @belleish3850

    @belleish3850

    Жыл бұрын

    Would a 3 sided pillow work better? One side for "don't touch me at all", one side for "touch but not necessarily sex", and one for "possibly sex" You could even just get a tablet pillow and some iron/sew/glue on decals that could be anything as long as you guys understand what they mean (depending on what decals you have access to, what your budget is and if the images could trigger you)

  • @noahmcdowell7731
    @noahmcdowell7731 Жыл бұрын

    My dad is transphobic and homophobic. I'm gay and gender queer and it's been really hard when I stay at his house on his weekends with me. This week my mom's friend who I'm really close to who has a gay son of his own suggested I talk to my dad and ask him if he thinks this kind of relationship will last or if I will ever want to have a relationship with him when I'm an adult. My mom's friend said that if my dad still won't open his mind that he would be proud to have me as his child. That made my life ❤ shout out to my mom's friend.

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    she's amazing and your gay friend is so lucky to have herrrrr :3 treasure her

  • @noahmcdowell7731

    @noahmcdowell7731

    Жыл бұрын

    My mom's friend is a man but other than that I agree

  • @somethinunameit637

    @somethinunameit637

    Жыл бұрын

    No one is entitled to be in your life, so if that doesn't set your dad straight (ironic) then you do not need him in your life, your mom's friend sounds like a better dad to you than your actual father.

  • @saundraschaefer

    @saundraschaefer

    Жыл бұрын

    That's got to be hard. I'm glad you do have affirming supportive people in your life. I hope the conversation goes well and your dad can come around.

  • @traceycoles1693

    @traceycoles1693

    Жыл бұрын

    Your Mum is accepting though? If not, I'll just adopt you. Xx

  • @spookyplaguedoctor5714
    @spookyplaguedoctor5714 Жыл бұрын

    I'm really glad that the only shirt my father has pertaining to being a dad says "My favorite people call me dad".

  • @ArtsyKnox25

    @ArtsyKnox25

    Жыл бұрын

    OMG thank god- at least he hasn't bought into those t shirts that are in these videos. He still has some sense in him.

  • @budling5921

    @budling5921

    Жыл бұрын

    That's a heartwarming shirt!

  • @spookyplaguedoctor5714

    @spookyplaguedoctor5714

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ArtsyKnox25 emphasis on some. Not exactly ok with me being trans

  • @missnaomi613

    @missnaomi613

    Жыл бұрын

    @@spookyplaguedoctor5714 sending mama hugs. Use as needed. 💙💗🤍💗💙

  • @alphaomega7191

    @alphaomega7191

    Жыл бұрын

    Admittedly I think anyone who is buying the angry Dad T shirt is probably joking and buying/wearing it in a ironic way.

  • @BaileyTerpstra-le4xj
    @BaileyTerpstra-le4xj Жыл бұрын

    As a trans woman who loves iced coffee I feel so validated rn 😊

  • @Cartoon-2lk

    @Cartoon-2lk

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't like coffe at all so by their logic I am a nonbinary person :))

  • @CrAziAngel

    @CrAziAngel

    Жыл бұрын

    As a nonbinary person who doesn't like coffee at all, I shall also feel validated🎉

  • @WhatWouldLubitschDo

    @WhatWouldLubitschDo

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m agender and drink both hot and (occasionally) iced coffee, so perhaps I should have been genderfluid instead 😮

  • @DragonFae16

    @DragonFae16

    Жыл бұрын

    As a cis woman who loathes coffee, feel free to drink my portion as well!

  • @captaincaspian42

    @captaincaspian42

    Жыл бұрын

    You can have my coffee haha

  • @Castkett4ever
    @Castkett4ever Жыл бұрын

    "... or you could make 6 scientists ..." yeah, or they could all 6 become serial killers. Moral of the story: become the badass scientists this world needs 💜

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    You know, I think the children have the greatest chance of becoming scientists if their mother is also a scientist. Too bad the two are mutually exclusive/s

  • @AnneOnymaus

    @AnneOnymaus

    Жыл бұрын

    @Joshua Day They're really not mutually exclusive. World-leading burns researcher & surgeon, Dr Fiona Wood, has 6 children, at least 1 of whom is also a surgeon.

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AnneOnymaus I was being sarcastic

  • @AnneOnymaus

    @AnneOnymaus

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ninjoshday Good to know. In forums such as this, a "/s" could help to avoid confusion, given some commenters would say that kind of thing seriously.

  • @advorak8529

    @advorak8529

    Жыл бұрын

    How does one make a scientist? The same way one makes a gay/lesbian/trans child? Looking at the percentage of scientists in the population … even at an incredible high rate of 1%, making 600 babies is a bit much of an ask … even if you pop out sixtuplets every time and do so every 9 months (not like biology allowed that, but just for the numbers) you’d be 100% pregnant for 75 years. And even if you were to start at a tender 10 year old, you’d be pregnant until you reach 85 … Never mind *raising* all of them. Or *feeding* all of them!

  • @malinbergvall
    @malinbergvall Жыл бұрын

    The tire thing could be interpreted as really wholesome. When you're single you're bored and spending your time cleaning the rims of your car. When you have a life partner you go on adventures together and don't need to obsessively clean your car to make time go by anymore.

  • @soundlessbee

    @soundlessbee

    Жыл бұрын

    I thought the same. As single, you have time to obsess over a car, as married, you have more important things in your life. Or if you hate being married, it takes your time away from your beloved car.

  • @bellaquijada

    @bellaquijada

    Жыл бұрын

    Aww

  • @jermfanaccount

    @jermfanaccount

    Жыл бұрын

    that's adorable!!

  • @NotVille

    @NotVille

    Жыл бұрын

    POV:Fatherless

  • @missnaomi613

    @missnaomi613

    Жыл бұрын

    @@NotVille I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @123UpNorth321
    @123UpNorth321 Жыл бұрын

    You know, in German we have got a wonderful word, called " Fremdschämen". It means to feel ashamed because of somebody else's words or actions. I really do feel ashamed about pple's stupidity which was shown in this video... But Jamie, you are just awesome the way you are 😊🤗🏳️‍⚧️

  • @theTman2300

    @theTman2300

    Жыл бұрын

    I think in english that would be “second hand embarrassment“(not completely sure tho). However it is way cooler to have just one word for it.

  • @forkless

    @forkless

    Жыл бұрын

    That would be vicarious shame in English, I prefer the German term for it though.

  • @saturnslilspace3852

    @saturnslilspace3852

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theTman2300 possibly, but i feel like the German word means more like shame, not embarrassment. But that’s a close comparison for sire

  • @b0ltun0

    @b0ltun0

    Жыл бұрын

    genauso fühle ich mich auch man

  • @83gemm

    @83gemm

    Жыл бұрын

    “You know, in German we have got a wonderful word…,” That is true of SO MANY German words. Y’all are very in touch with the human experience and weird little social moments.

  • @BeautyMonster1000
    @BeautyMonster1000 Жыл бұрын

    Jamie makes a good point about straight people constantly saying that teaching kids about queer history and such is inappropriate but them and their children get dressed in the most disgusting shirts that say the grossest things on them. Not to mention that they also are usually the same people who say that their little kids are "boyfriend and girlfriend" when they're toddlers... but we're the inappropriate ones... alright then.

  • @theveganduolingobird7349

    @theveganduolingobird7349

    Жыл бұрын

    If teaching people queer people exist makes kids queer, why didn’t I become a communist after reading animal farm? Why didn’t I kill all my friends and burn down an island after reading lord of the flys, If telling kids people that are gay exist makes them gay. Why not just teach them straight people exist and turn them back? If being gay it a taught behaviour who was the *FIRST* queer?

  • @hmnhntr

    @hmnhntr

    Жыл бұрын

    This x100 I remember all the "Is this your little girlfriend?", "Oh, who's the little lady killer?" type comments as a child. I think most are done in good spirit. But I fail to see why that's appropriate but the same thing (but gay) is somehow sick grooming.

  • @theveganduolingobird7349

    @theveganduolingobird7349

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hmnhntr a 6 year old told me she wanted to have kids. I have never heard a 6 year old boy tell me that

  • @hmnhntr

    @hmnhntr

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theveganduolingobird7349 Honestly at 6 I don't know if I'd even figured that part out yet

  • @Lady.Fern.

    @Lady.Fern.

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theveganduolingobird7349 the boy I work with 5 days a week tells me nearly every day I see him he’s going to have baby when he’s bigger, has a name picked out, talks about the things he will teach the baby and when we go shopping he stops and looks at baby toys that he thinks his baby would like one day. 🥰

  • @thestarsailor972
    @thestarsailor972 Жыл бұрын

    For that rose petal thing in the beginning, i had actually seen a response I think by a florist about how as a rose grows its best to remove a few petals to help it flourish so The Straights (TM) got that one wrong completely

  • @brianroberts783

    @brianroberts783

    Жыл бұрын

    Also, even aside from how to help them grow, whenever roses are arranged in bouquets etc. you typically remove the outer layer of petals, the "guard petals," because they're the ones that protect the rest of the bloom during transport. So those outer petals get a little crumpled and tattered, and after you take them off the rose looks nice and perfect again. This part would be a little weird to try to apply the analogy to, but it still shows that, as usual, these people have no clue what they're talking about.

  • @music_and_other_random_thi1330

    @music_and_other_random_thi1330

    Жыл бұрын

    I sometimes feel as though the intention is to keep people from flourishing and to force them into or out of things without their consent.

  • @KFoxtheGreat
    @KFoxtheGreat Жыл бұрын

    I'm a barista and one of my old regulars was a 3 times Super Bowl winner who ordered iced mochas daily. I'd really love for him to meet the "men don't drink iced coffee" guy

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    Fake Jamie scam bot ^^^

  • @zabmcauley5647
    @zabmcauley5647 Жыл бұрын

    If a person expects me to have no sexual experience on our wedding day, they will in fact be holding their own bare stem.

  • @snekysneks

    @snekysneks

    Жыл бұрын

    Nice

  • @user-mv5zt8qd9l

    @user-mv5zt8qd9l

    Жыл бұрын

    Fully agree. Purity culture is very much setting people up for potential victimisation and miserable relationships.

  • @TitularHeroine

    @TitularHeroine

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @wintergray1221

    @wintergray1221

    Жыл бұрын

    @@user-mv5zt8qd9l That's entirely the point. Traditional marriage blah-blah I own my wife (gag)

  • @pikacrafter2903
    @pikacrafter2903 Жыл бұрын

    I'm ace but with the hetero cringe removed I think the 'sex/no sex' cushion has the potential to be really sweet? Or at least a good additional communication method.

  • @wingedjellifish11235

    @wingedjellifish11235

    Жыл бұрын

    Same! It kind of reminded me of those reversible mood octopus plushies a little bit?

  • @adam2802

    @adam2802

    Жыл бұрын

    I was thinking that. It's a bit cringey but lots of direct communication is. It didn't feel harmful. Just something that could be a silly way of communicating.

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol if the couple is into talking dirty, i don't see why not! also works for gay and lesbian sex, same but with v's and p's drawings or whatever... it was the only one rescuable lol

  • @NotVille

    @NotVille

    Жыл бұрын

    POV: Fatherless

  • @Speedoodleman

    @Speedoodleman

    Жыл бұрын

    @@NotVilleyou have 57 comments on this channel and you don’t even like it

  • @DragonGirl48
    @DragonGirl48 Жыл бұрын

    I'ma share this horrific story that didn't really come off as horrific to me until years later: a female teacher teaching "sex ed" to a class of 15 year old girls, attempting to preach about abstinence by comparing women to lollipops! "Men will always choose virgin women as their wives, because no one wants a used lollipop" 😩

  • @evilturkey523

    @evilturkey523

    Жыл бұрын

    EWEWEWEW

  • @hiccuphufflepuff176
    @hiccuphufflepuff176 Жыл бұрын

    Whenever that "chewing gum"/"rose petal" analogy comes up I wish I could "reply" to the real-world poster wherever it is and tell every young girl who reads it (or boy, but they're aimed at girls) how to say "no" to any person who would compare her to a thing they want to use and not a person they want to please. Gross.

  • @theveganduolingobird7349

    @theveganduolingobird7349

    Жыл бұрын

    You can make that shitty metaphor in any way “everytime you pet a cat your rose loses a petal, don’t give your cat a stem because it’ll try eat it”

  • @DrZaius3141
    @DrZaius3141 Жыл бұрын

    Just from the thumbnail alone: Yes, being a woman is "easy mode", because we all know that in easy mode you get less money and are attacked more often.

  • @alphaomega7191

    @alphaomega7191

    Жыл бұрын

    Admittedly in Men mode the health bar is shorter - at my age I keep looking at it worriedly.

  • @DrZaius3141

    @DrZaius3141

    Жыл бұрын

    @@alphaomega7191 But that's generally a self-inflicted wound. There's the 20s and 30s where men like to be very stupid and do dangerous things, and they tend to look after themselves a lot less. Thirdly (and here I am no better myself), men on average go to the doctor less often which - again - isn't great for health. And there is a valid statement to be made to frame those aspects under societal pressure which is also in a small part responsible for the gender wage gap.

  • @alphaomega7191

    @alphaomega7191

    Жыл бұрын

    @@DrZaius3141 - Yeah a lot of factors - you are right about more dangerous behaviour but the Y chromosome is pretty major and it does seem that in general we are prone to a few more conditions - perhaps due to our larger size on average putting a bit more strain on things. Like I've said our health bar is a bit shorter and runs out a bit quicker in the game of life.

  • @theveganduolingobird7349

    @theveganduolingobird7349

    Жыл бұрын

    @@alphaomega7191 the easy mode comment it really discussing social, if we wanted to get into biological you’d have to consider menopause and periods being a massive pain

  • @alphaomega7191

    @alphaomega7191

    Жыл бұрын

    @@theveganduolingobird7349- I dont think either is an easy mode - I just noted that depending on your point of view in game terms easy mode is normally reflected in more health and longer life bars and on that front the girls are getting a win. Do I think it's a great joke - No - but it's probably menat more a s a joke than anything serious. Like the angry Dad rules for dating their daughter - an actual angry Dad doesn't wear that shirt - one who has a sense of humour about it does, someone who is joking about a father natural overprotectiveness of his kid. I think the easy/hard mode is more like that rather than anyone actually being foolish enough to believe one sex intrinsically has things easier than the others - the average man is well aware that something like producing a baby out of a psace that really doesn't seem big enough for that is not EASY, nor are a lot of other stuff like as you mentioned cramps etc.

  • @qazasdr7014
    @qazasdr7014 Жыл бұрын

    "Are they trying to say that if you want an easy life, be a woman?" I tried this, but my life just got harder. *Chuckles in depressed transfem*

  • @alexefredericmigneault5698

    @alexefredericmigneault5698

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending you love ❤️

  • @BlueTressym

    @BlueTressym

    Жыл бұрын

    *offers hug*

  • @lilypaxton6240

    @lilypaxton6240

    Жыл бұрын

    Sending lots of love and support 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈💕💕

  • @berrysnowyboy5251

    @berrysnowyboy5251

    2 ай бұрын

    🫂🫂🫂

  • @jnewcomb
    @jnewcomb Жыл бұрын

    In the states, LGBTQ+ are called groomers and all I can think about are these baby clothes... My dude, you sexualized your baby when you put them in "Stud Muffin" or "Heartbreaker" or "Hands Off, Boys!" clothes. I put a _rainbow_ on my baby and you're freaking out!?

  • @mariomaniac581

    @mariomaniac581

    Жыл бұрын

    Its the same people who post a picture of 2 toddlers of the opposite sex going like ''look at little Timmy and his gf, a ladiesman just like his dad''. My brother in christ he is 5! He just gained consciousness give him a break!!😭

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    Um, you do know toddlers can't read yet. The text is for adults to read coz it's cute/funny. Not because its sexy. Why do you queer folk keep getting things so wrong?

  • @SilverAceOfSpades

    @SilverAceOfSpades

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@dixienormous8559 It's still sexualizing toddlers and babies.

  • @tionlover

    @tionlover

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s not even remotely the same fuckin’ thing. “Heartbreaker” is not nearly as symbolic as what the rainbow is. Why don’t you tell me what a woman is? I seem to be straight and confused.

  • @SilverAceOfSpades

    @SilverAceOfSpades

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@tionlover What is a woman? A miserable little pile of secrets.

  • @TheTeamWildfire
    @TheTeamWildfire Жыл бұрын

    I'm starting HRT soon and honestly the hardest part is having to quit drinking hot coffee

  • @babs_babs

    @babs_babs

    Жыл бұрын

    well i guess you won’t be getting the T either congrats lov 🩷🩵🤍🩵🩷

  • @eloiseholmes4643
    @eloiseholmes4643 Жыл бұрын

    I guess, since I’m non-binary, I’m getting a lukewarm coffee ☕️ I’ve very recently found your channel, and being a non-binary teen, your videos have made me feel very happy! ❤

  • @AnnabethOwl

    @AnnabethOwl

    11 ай бұрын

    Ik as someone who is questioning their gender Jamie’s videos make me so happy. I was also raised Christian so I’m having a battle with learning to accept myself and haven’t told anyone…. They just think I’m weird for wearing a big baggy sweater when it’s 95 degrees out

  • @RiveroftheWither
    @RiveroftheWither Жыл бұрын

    I worked 5 years at a chain coffee shop, guys getting upity when asked about their coffee is a real thing. Its more common in guys 40+ but can come from any age. Some guys just legitimately get upset if you ask if they want iced coffee or milk and sugar, as though you're insulting them because MEN™ drink hot black coffee and anything less is "whats wrong with America". Its wild, I always made sure to have the most indifferent face I could and ask again. (They never give a straight answer at first, just complain about the insinuation that they don't drink MAN COFFEE). It gives me a little kick because I drink black hot coffee and tea with just a little sugar.

  • @seagoingberry8171

    @seagoingberry8171

    Жыл бұрын

    Guys, is it gay to drink iced coffee?

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@seagoingberry8171 idk but I'm ace and I don't drink coffee, so...

  • @AnneOnymaus

    @AnneOnymaus

    Жыл бұрын

    @Seagoing Berry81 The only thing that's "gay" is being attracted to other men if you are also a man: nothing else is "gay" or "not gay". Order whatever sort of coffee you want.

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AnneOnymaus Unless you're attracted to women too. That's bi or pan

  • @RiveroftheWither

    @RiveroftheWither

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AnneOnymaus They were joking using a very common LGBTQ+ meme

  • @MiloschaSaddens
    @MiloschaSaddens Жыл бұрын

    Just recently I was questioning my gender, but thanks to the straights I now know I AM A WOMAN because I do drink iced coffee. /s

  • @saundraschaefer

    @saundraschaefer

    Жыл бұрын

    But do you have hair legs though? 😂

  • @MiloschaSaddens

    @MiloschaSaddens

    Жыл бұрын

    @@saundraschaefer A LOT 😂😂

  • @akitokutikabanae7010

    @akitokutikabanae7010

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome to the non-binary world then 😂😂💜

  • @shadowking278

    @shadowking278

    Жыл бұрын

    Welcome my fellow human.

  • @vivalentine
    @vivalentine Жыл бұрын

    I saw a child (7-9 years old maybe) the other day wearing a shirt that said “I like younger women and older whiskey”. But go off on how THE GAYS are forcing their lifestyles onto kids 😂😭

  • @crypticlol

    @crypticlol

    2 ай бұрын

    it's all about self projection

  • @venessalizabeth
    @venessalizabeth Жыл бұрын

    “you’re a stem of a human being, just thorns” 😂😂😂 fking love Jamie’s commentary so much

  • @baguette.childd

    @baguette.childd

    Жыл бұрын

    @Jammi-Dodgerno thanks scammer

  • @lukyva7955
    @lukyva7955 Жыл бұрын

    I love that pickup artists and stuff always talk about getting out of the matrix without knowing that they are technically referencing transitioning

  • @rainbcwdream

    @rainbcwdream

    Жыл бұрын

    Same! I'm always sitting there like "oh yea, _the Matrix_ - the one that's an allegory to being trans. _That Matrix?"_ I'm curious how they would react if you told them that lol

  • @faith-by-faith
    @faith-by-faith Жыл бұрын

    dude: only women like iced coffee non-binary iced coffee lover: fuck it, I'm non-binary now

  • @JayTheGoatLord552

    @JayTheGoatLord552

    Жыл бұрын

    Ahhh I've seen that on twitter pffttt It was funny as lol

  • @Fruit_Cake_Boii
    @Fruit_Cake_Boii Жыл бұрын

    "You have hair legs, that means you're a man." Me, a transmasc: *Glances at my hairy legs* Frick yeah.

  • @damien7383

    @damien7383

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @AnneOnymaus

    @AnneOnymaus

    Жыл бұрын

    @Fruit_Cake_Boii I have quite hairy legs & I'm a cis woman: I'd love to see The Straights try to work that one out.

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    Conservatives (always): No, not like that!

  • @HG-gj9lh

    @HG-gj9lh

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m a mom to 4 and cis. My legs are hairy right now. Oh the horror!

  • @Fruit_Cake_Boii

    @Fruit_Cake_Boii

    Жыл бұрын

    @@HG-gj9lh lol

  • @leviathann6090
    @leviathann6090 Жыл бұрын

    WE SHALTH NOT STOP REQUESTING FOR YOU TO MAKE A VIDEO ABOUT ARO, ACE AND AGENDER PEOPLE UNTIL WE RECIEVE ONE!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Joy-gc9lx

    @Joy-gc9lx

    Жыл бұрын

    YESSSSS

  • @Heartstopperobsessed

    @Heartstopperobsessed

    Жыл бұрын

    I AGREE

  • @leviathann6090

    @leviathann6090

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Heartstopperobsessed THANK YOU BESTIEEEE

  • @pablozanoto5801
    @pablozanoto5801 Жыл бұрын

    I hate the fact that I was shown an national political ad about people like the ones being discussed in the video, promoting these twisted and disgusting things, before the video started. Very glad to have Jamie making my life better ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Mark73

    @Mark73

    Жыл бұрын

    I got Natasha the underworld doctor and the Beetlejuice stage musical.

  • @trumpeterswan8175

    @trumpeterswan8175

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Mark73 I got those exact adds on the last video I watched

  • @hannahk1306

    @hannahk1306

    Жыл бұрын

    The worst part is that KZread doesn't even let you report inappropriate ads!

  • @person64622

    @person64622

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hannahk1306 fr

  • @person64622

    @person64622

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hannahk1306 even videos! Bc everytime I report an inappropriate video it's still there and I'm not the only one reporting it

  • @theasexualvampire13
    @theasexualvampire13 Жыл бұрын

    People really don't talk enough about the problem of abstinence sex education and its lifelong effects. Even if your views on it do change, it's so hard for especially girls to stop questioning their value.

  • @Engardian

    @Engardian

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah I took my sex ed classes in like 2014-15 in a pretty moderate area but they still preached that abstinence crap. I identify as fairly asexual and I know that identities like that can’t be changed by force, but I do feel like I may have been kinda…I don’t want to say traumatized because I don’t feel like it was that extreme, but it definitely left an impact on me. The idea of having sex kind of frightens me, and the horror stories they told about STDs probably had a subconscious impact on that, even though my girlfriend and I are both virgins. Bugs me, makes me wonder if I might not be as skittish about it if the education system was just normal about it instead of using scare tactics.

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Engardian That's how I feel. I don't know how much of my asexuality is innate and how much is the result of growing up in a culture where sex is demonized

  • @user-yr7dp5du5l
    @user-yr7dp5du5l Жыл бұрын

    5:30 i Think it's about straight men not being able to pamper their cars like it's a new born when you're married because you have to "put time into the relationship" which is clearly awful and a chore

  • @BlueTressym

    @BlueTressym

    Жыл бұрын

    I know, right? How awful for them. And yet they are obviously all masochists, as they still choose to get married...

  • @11MissingPhoenix
    @11MissingPhoenix Жыл бұрын

    _My transphobic dad took my trans flag away so i took his airpods and hid it in a random place_ 😎

  • @daminam

    @daminam

    Жыл бұрын

    Amazin my child

  • @wjcruikshank8725

    @wjcruikshank8725

    Жыл бұрын

    You have the secret to a happy life figured out

  • @kellinquinnfeetpics

    @kellinquinnfeetpics

    Жыл бұрын

    Shoulda chucked them 💀

  • @gwendyylion4874

    @gwendyylion4874

    Жыл бұрын

    Good job

  • @katrinadaly1755

    @katrinadaly1755

    7 күн бұрын

    Hide just one… 😈 I swear to you that is wayyy worse 😉

  • @abigailkaterbergcolibaba
    @abigailkaterbergcolibaba Жыл бұрын

    That one guy saying hes gonna 'steal your girl" is not only rude and disrespectful, he is WILDLY overestimating his appeal to women 😂😂😂

  • @joebloe4734

    @joebloe4734

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, I can really see the girl going, oh, he called me a bitch and was immensely disrespectful? So turned on, goodbye boyfriend. Like, wtf?

  • @porfiriodiazcarrillo7551
    @porfiriodiazcarrillo7551 Жыл бұрын

    ask those men wearing the "rules to date my daughter"'s shirt if those same rules aplied against their sons and watch them meltdown!!!

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    Fake Jamie scam bot ^^^

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    Different horses for different courses. Women and men have different priorities when it comes to sex and relationships. Should a father not be protective of his daughter? She has more to lose than his sons.

  • @pansexualdickhaver6878

    @pansexualdickhaver6878

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dixienormous8559 you really believe that?

  • @juliamanning5050

    @juliamanning5050

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dixienormous8559 Why does a daughter have more to lose than a son? Can a son not be heart broken? Could a son not end up in a bad relationship? Or are you saying that a woman's virginity is more important than a man's? Why is it fine if his son loses his virginity (probably with someone else's daughter, by the way. I hope the father is raising his son to follow the same rules as he expects her boyfriend to.), but his daughter must stay pure? Why? Oh is it because women are constantly only valued for their "purity". That they are a father's property until they are their husband's. Meanwhile, sons are able to act independently because he has value beyond just being someone's husband.

  • @shy2infinity
    @shy2infinity Жыл бұрын

    I was watching a dog grooming video and after it ended I went to the comments, one of the comments in particular commented about how happy they were that the channel thought about the dogs' health, because in this video in particular a dog had damaged coats because of prior groomers incompetence. And this commenter had rainbow hearts at the end of their comment. A person replied with a comment starting with, "I'm not homophobic but...." and then got pressed that the op used rainbow hearts, because apparently only LGBT+ people use rainbow hearts. The OP didn't even say ANYTHING about the LGBT+ community, they just used rainbow hearts. They may not even be straight, but they do have the straight™ energy :')

  • @dannyfoxboi

    @dannyfoxboi

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't understand those people. Even I, a member of the community, know that not all rainbows automatically have LGBTQ+ connotations.

  • @ArtsyKnox25

    @ArtsyKnox25

    Жыл бұрын

    As soon as they say " I'm not ( insert thing here) but.. " their entire arguements goes out the window.

  • @ArtsyKnox25

    @ArtsyKnox25

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@dannyfoxboi exactly!

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ArtsyKnox25 ikr they try to paliate the situation but only makes it more obvious lol

  • @rainbcwdream

    @rainbcwdream

    Жыл бұрын

    Okay, but I left a comment on a KZread video once about people being blocked by famous people, and I just mentioned how I was blocked by _the Chris Hansen_ for the sole reason I engaged in tweets that were against how he handled a certain case (🧅), which obviously must mean I'm a sock account, and so I was placed on a block list - guess what the majority of the replies to my comment are about... Yeah, my profile picture. Funniest part is that it literally isn't supposed to be a pride thing in the first place, and I just view it as a fun bonus, but these people just won't have it lmfao. Edit: checked the comment again for fun, and it has over 200 replies now. Most recent reply was 5 days ago, and my comment is 10 months old by now🙃

  • @momamiandkiddokelsi9027
    @momamiandkiddokelsi9027 Жыл бұрын

    ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️‍🌈 Daily reminder; You are valid and amazing just the way you are! 🏳️‍🌈❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @aspenvo

    @aspenvo

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @mistyapple1342

    @mistyapple1342

    Жыл бұрын

    🧡

  • @dannyfoxboi

    @dannyfoxboi

    Жыл бұрын

    💛

  • @Bismuguy

    @Bismuguy

    Жыл бұрын

    I KNOW

  • @ProfessionalBugLover

    @ProfessionalBugLover

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Bismuguy 😐

  • @foxross
    @foxross Жыл бұрын

    It’s always hilarious when misogynists make references to The Matrix, completely oblivious as to its transgender themes.

  • @VelaiciaCreator

    @VelaiciaCreator

    Жыл бұрын

    It's extra funny when other maroons end up denying that because the Wachowskis hadn't come out of the closet at the time, as if that changes everything under the hood.

  • @cathleenc6943
    @cathleenc6943 Жыл бұрын

    The weirdest thing I have ever heard someone say about something not being "manly" was when a woman said that her coworker (in an office, so wearing a suit) came in with an umbrella on a rainy day. She thought men should wear raincoats, but that it was somehow feminine or gay to carry an umbrella. I was so confused. 🤨🤔

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    Was it rainbow coloured? Maybe it was a hello kitty umbrella like my daughter used to have.

  • @cathleenc6943

    @cathleenc6943

    Жыл бұрын

    @dixienormous8559 I asked. It was a standard black umbrella. I would love to have a hello kitty umbrella, and if I met a man carrying one, I would probably go out with him if he asked, lol. Nothing is more attractive to me than being secure in one's self.

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cathleenc6943 I'm sure you would.

  • @michaelsingh8487
    @michaelsingh8487 Жыл бұрын

    As a resident aroace-spec, I think an "are the allos OK?" video would be cool

  • @wraith2552_but_silly

    @wraith2552_but_silly

    Жыл бұрын

    As a fellow aroace-spec, absolutely

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    Hear hear!

  • @JaniceLHz

    @JaniceLHz

    Жыл бұрын

    As an allosexual who does her best to be an ally to aroaces, I would enjoy such a video too. Probably include examples where sex is unnecessarily projected or added, along with assumptions about everyone being horny all the time.

  • @wintergray1221

    @wintergray1221

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JaniceLHz Yes, like the media. Why is there a half-naked woman eating a burger on TV when they're trying to sell burgers? Sorry, anyone attracted to women. You're not gonna get her with your order. Instead, they should showcase that juicy, perfectly browned meat, the bubbly cheese, the toppings spilling out from under the bun and onto the plate because it's overloaded with them. Pan slowly over to the ice-cold glass of soda, slow-motion carbonation and condensation dripping down the glass. Hungry people want food, damn it, not sex.

  • @allanjmcpherson
    @allanjmcpherson Жыл бұрын

    Ditch the gay look = grow a beard and get strong? Have they heard of bears?!

  • @girlwithtehface5880

    @girlwithtehface5880

    Жыл бұрын

    The Straights (tm) tend to avoid learning... anything. Ever.

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, they shit in the woods don't they?

  • @pux0rb
    @pux0rb Жыл бұрын

    Those "rules about dating my daughter" lists really need to end. There's a common trope here in america of the dad going to meet the boyfriend with his shotgun or AR on his shoulder. By doing so, the father has conveyed that he doesn't trust his daughter to act in a mature matter, or even that she has an equal role in her relationship with her boyfriend. He's also shown that he's likely to overreact in a violent or deadly manner. Its inherently sexist and it kills all trust. What if there's a problem in the relationship and the daughter wants to consult her father for help? She's less likely to do so after that. I've seen this so many times, even firsthand with some close friends. Women who grow up having a father act like this become distant with their fathers. Its even worse when both parents act like this too. And what's weirder is that they obsess over their daughter having sex, as if its the worst thing she could be doing. Its ridiculous, and sad.

  • @home-bodyz

    @home-bodyz

    Жыл бұрын

    yep

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. Жыл бұрын

    The Straights may say whatever they want but just because someone uses sounds to make words and sentences doesn’t mean they have to make sense. A personal favourite is when you use vocabulary to define yourself or a person and they have the audacity to say “Let people be. Don’t impose labels.”

  • @TitularHeroine

    @TitularHeroine

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, don't use nouns. Or nouns with adjectives, omg!! The very thought of it

  • @theveganduolingobird7349

    @theveganduolingobird7349

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TitularHeroine Grug hate pronoun Grug no use pronoun Grug no liberal

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TitularHeroine Or, heaven forbid, _pronouns!_

  • @TitularHeroine

    @TitularHeroine

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ninjoshday Language comprised only of verbs and adverbs, tenses and conjugation hinting at who is....verbing.

  • @j.apenrose7896
    @j.apenrose7896 Жыл бұрын

    The idea of a partner being forced to confine their life into one room is so weird to me. Like, my partner and I are so hyped when we eventually get a home without other housemates so we can fully decorate. He's a geologist, and I'm going to make a coffee table that has a glass top to display all of his cool rocks in, he's excited to fill the house with all my plants and paintings, and we're working out how to set up a fun gaming room and have all our plushies on display... Like, decorating with your partner is a fun collaborative effort.

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    Rocks and plants are such a great combination. Your home will look lovely!

  • @j.apenrose7896

    @j.apenrose7896

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ninjoshday Yeeeeup it's shown up on a lot of my comments. I'm the luckiest human ever. 😆🤦‍♀️

  • @j.apenrose7896

    @j.apenrose7896

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ninjoshday Thanks! That's the goal! 😊

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@j.apenrose7896 Fortunately, it looks like the bot comment is gone

  • @shadowking278

    @shadowking278

    Жыл бұрын

    I honestly would go for anything with amethyst in it. Mainly because it’s my birthstone. But also because I think anything with purple gemstones in it looks really cool.

  • @trixxart777
    @trixxart777 Жыл бұрын

    A point I say about men wearing makeup is that often movie stars ever hyper mask ones will wear subtle makeup to cover up wrinkles ect

  • @saundraschaefer

    @saundraschaefer

    Жыл бұрын

    Yup. I can guarantee every single actor in badass shoot em up face punch fast car movie sat in a make up chair for at least 30 minutes before filming.

  • @wintergray1221

    @wintergray1221

    Жыл бұрын

    @@saundraschaefer Yes, people on camera or the stage look washed out without makeup.

  • @baileyhodges0
    @baileyhodges0 Жыл бұрын

    To the guy who compared womens sex to a rose and its petals. Just remember a bouquet of roses could be smelled by ALL the guests at the event and yet never lose its sweet scent. (Obviously i know the flowers will die, its just a metaphor to counter the stupidity of the first metaphor)

  • @-Jari-
    @-Jari- Жыл бұрын

    Regarding men with make up, there was this one guy that I kinda know, we were at the same concert and he turned up with glittery make up and false lashes and sparkly hotpants over his leggings and it was so frustrating to know I couldn't take him home with me.

  • @-Jari-

    @-Jari-

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@Jammi-DodgerIt's clearly visible that this is a different channel from @Jammidodger , stop impersonating him!

  • @kellydalstok8900

    @kellydalstok8900

    Жыл бұрын

    @@-Jari- they’ve done a runner, otherwise I would have reported them

  • @Binidj
    @Binidj Жыл бұрын

    Always prefer the wholesome videos but the "Are the Straights Okay?" series is entertaining in a burying my face in my hands and shaking my head slowly kind of way. 😸

  • @KlaviceGavin
    @KlaviceGavin Жыл бұрын

    Once again, as a straight ally, why can't straights be accepting of LGBTQ people? It's literally not hard. Just because a person is trans or a woman likes another woman, doesn't mean we can't show basic respect for them. I have several LGBTQ original characters I roleplay with for various subjects. I'm sorry Jami that those straight people give good straights a bad name. Not all straights gotta be hateful you know.

  • @samuelbarber6177

    @samuelbarber6177

    Жыл бұрын

    Because the existence of LGBTQ+ opens up a lot of questions which they’ve never had to think about before because they just accepted it when people said they were a boy or a girl. Then suddenly they hear about people who did question it and feel somewhat threatened and thus proceed to lash out. It’s probably the same reason that a lot of people who eat meat despise vegetarians and vegans. Personally I just subscribe to: “Live and let live and don’t be a jerk about it.”

  • @theveganduolingobird7349

    @theveganduolingobird7349

    Жыл бұрын

    @@samuelbarber6177 they don’t want to accept they were lied to by society so decided outliers are the villains

  • @wintergray1221

    @wintergray1221

    Жыл бұрын

    @@samuelbarber6177 Wait, some people hate vegetarians/vegans? I mean, I can see being annoyed by them if they get really preachy (but that applies to so many other kinds of people too). Anyway, if they don't eat meat, that means there's more for us carnivores to go around lol. Edit: I can't grammar.

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    @@wintergray1221 What is a grammar?

  • @simplymeowlogical
    @simplymeowlogical Жыл бұрын

    My request for aro ace and agender videos continues!!!

  • @leviathann6090

    @leviathann6090

    Жыл бұрын

    YESSS LETSGOOOOO

  • @simplymeowlogical

    @simplymeowlogical

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@leviathann6090 hey, how about you post a separate comment so that more people see this?

  • @leviathann6090

    @leviathann6090

    Жыл бұрын

    @@simplymeowlogical SUREEEE

  • @HARVEY_KING_
    @HARVEY_KING_ Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE THIS SERIES! It never ends because the straights are DEFINITELY NOT OKAY!!!

  • @Capybara-tw2ho

    @Capybara-tw2ho

    Жыл бұрын

    So is it appropriate to say to you that ‘gays are not ok’. No, its disrespectful and you would probs cancel me. If you don’t respect us, then don’t expect us to respect you.

  • @Capybara-tw2ho

    @Capybara-tw2ho

    Жыл бұрын

    @azeners yes i did and its mocking straight people. Don’t call me bro i am a girl, don’t assume my gender

  • @seagoingberry8171

    @seagoingberry8171

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Capybara-tw2hoWell yeah, saying "gays aren't okay" is bad because it's a minority, also straight people (such as myself) do it to ourselves, did you watch the video? All he did was react to the dumb shit cis straight people do.

  • @Capybara-tw2ho

    @Capybara-tw2ho

    Жыл бұрын

    @@seagoingberry8171 ridiculous thing to say, being a minority doesn’t make you free to be disrespectful to others. And being a minority doesn’t make you oppressed

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Capybara-tw2ho Jamie has made it clear throughout this series that by _the straights,_ he's not referring to all straight people, just the ones that make these posts. He also has videos of the straights being okay

  • @lucybrimstone3193
    @lucybrimstone3193 Жыл бұрын

    6:15 That’s not even where a wedding ring should sit! It goes at the base of the finger so it doesn’t mess with your knuckle!

  • @brightsmoke6106
    @brightsmoke6106 Жыл бұрын

    I'm giving myself a trans self care night. I'm a trans boy (demi-boy) and I'm in my room cutting my hair and watching KZreadrs like you and one topic Also love you, you have helped me so much

  • @zeykriid

    @zeykriid

    Жыл бұрын

    fellow demiboy here; hope you’re doing well and that your hair turns out great! whatever challenges you have ahead of you, you’ve got this man!!

  • @shadowking278

    @shadowking278

    Жыл бұрын

    Have a good time. 🥰 I really can’t do that right now because I still live with my anti LGBTQ parents. But I’m staying strong. 👍

  • @talasheart7889
    @talasheart7889 Жыл бұрын

    I think the rose-analogy is kind of fun, because it implies that you can have sex at least a few times, before anyone notices a difference. Also, there is a timespan in which you'd 'regrow' the petals, so you can reset your count.

  • @BlueTressym

    @BlueTressym

    Жыл бұрын

    Depends on what you mean by 'notices a difference'. The only noticeable difference is going to be that the person who has done it a few times has a better understanding of what they like and what they don't, and hopefully a better understanding of what a potential partner might like or not like, which you'd only know if you sleep with them or if someone they sleep with is crass enough to discuss it with you.

  • @talasheart7889

    @talasheart7889

    Жыл бұрын

    @@BlueTressym I mean, yeah, but that thought would assume an understanding of humans that goes deeper than "humans are roses!" xD I was just trying to say that the analogy in itself already is a very poor choice with the message these kind of people are trying to get across

  • @pineapplefrostyfruits9225
    @pineapplefrostyfruits9225 Жыл бұрын

    Im on my second dose of T, so I will be able to grow a beard soon! And I am getting stronger with 3 or so workouts every week, so I'm strong too! Although, I am very, very very VERY Gay. Oh well :3

  • @RunOut25

    @RunOut25

    Жыл бұрын

    Congrats!

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    Awesomeeee

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    I am not a man, I am a woman but hairy and have kind of a mustache. So we twinning lmfao And my legs are bear coat, ngl. Shaving is fr an experience with all the hair 🤣 I even have hair on my hands and fingers,when many women don't xD

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    You'll be rights as rain when your balls drop.

  • @wintergray1221

    @wintergray1221

    Жыл бұрын

    My brother just got his beard recently, too! I couldn't stop touching it lol. He was telling me about his husband helping him shave and I almost died from cuteness overload. 🥰

  • @NicoleM_radiantbaby
    @NicoleM_radiantbaby Жыл бұрын

    The dating-the-daughter thing reminded me of how recently my dad was telling a story about threatening a love interest of mine as a teen in a similar sort of vein, even taking him aside and 'telling him about a knife he had if the kid did me wrong' and I really was aghast. Like I'm 50 and long married nowadays, so it was long ago, but wow. I mean, he was even kinda bragging about it and seemed to think it was funny, especially since the boy 'never came back' after his little 'talk'. I reeeeally don't get this whole sort of thing. As you said, being protective is fine, but this is down right psychotic...

  • @72JeanYves
    @72JeanYves Жыл бұрын

    Pretty sure that a truly masculine man doesn't feel threatened by the thought of make-up possibly making him less masculine since it's about being secure in it, how ever you choose to live your life, that doesn't negatively affect others like women, kids, animals or the LGBT community.

  • @luneygalaxy5535
    @luneygalaxy5535 Жыл бұрын

    My dad used to be so against having iced coffee because he said it's only meant to be hot. Called it gross until he actually tried it and now he occasionally drinks iced coffee 😑

  • @VelaiciaCreator

    @VelaiciaCreator

    Жыл бұрын

    It can even be rather fun to make by one's self. I have a Hario V60 02(pour-over brewer) that I use, then I chill the coffee and then put into a bottle with the milk, sugar and cocoa powder, then I shake that to hell until everything is evenly mixed, topping it up progressively(I only start with it half filled for better mixing). Makes for REALLY good coffee that is comparable with Starbucks frappucinos for much less money and simpler ingredients. It also ends up stronger on the caffeine side.

  • @TCHorwood-xq7mw
    @TCHorwood-xq7mw Жыл бұрын

    If you want the rules for dating my daughter you'll have to ask her. We brought her up to be independent and make her own decisions.

  • @xd._.28234
    @xd._.28234 Жыл бұрын

    my friend : if lgbt+ has a day or month, shouldnt us straights have one too? Me : no sweetie. him after i explained : * agrees with me * (phew lmao)

  • @WishGender

    @WishGender

    Жыл бұрын

    wish I’d been able to explain that to my cousin when I first came out to her a few years ago lmao I was so nervous and still new to the community

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    @ROCKlazuLEE--Spamton-P🎵 lol Yes he agreed with me after I explained him why we have it and he luckily agreed...he is just sometimes dense minded so he says sth and thinks after lmfao

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    @ROCKlazuLEE--Spamton-P🎵 also when I told him I'd go in suit if married or to the office, he said : "wouldn't u look like a gay ass??" Me : yes. So what lol Him : fair, in the end doesn't matter how you dress,counts you are comfy in it (I'm a girl,that's why the gay part)

  • @snekysneks

    @snekysneks

    Жыл бұрын

    I grew up conservative, so i thought in a similar manner to your friends. I had a conversation about it with my friend, and he helped me understand as well. Sometimes people are just ignorant.

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    @@snekysneks understandable He is that innocent that votes far right parties because he wants the country to get better economically, bc we're struggling and ofc bitches promise it, so he thinks they're good,and for him r now left equals stealing money and he doesn't wanna ppl go poor because the high taxes and low wages etc. If baby only really listened what those say... lmao Those even attack cishets when don't accomplish their roles lol Far right thinks that should exist again(they got prohibited) kind of camps to convert effeminate men(including the cis straights) to "normal" or one for manly women and make them "proper ladies" Plus now they wanna extract water from a natural park, where Europe told them not to...if they do they're not gonna give the country millions ti keep growing or help with taxes,but more like a sanction lmao He is sometimes too innocent in politics and the fact he believes these dudes are gonna help ppl and stop making them being poor baffles me. Because they're just too occupied fighting with the communists and socialists from the government, rather than me normal and not think that gays should be sent to camps(they said it, but the government by majority denied their petition) and looked at them like "u crazy bitch o want???" Plus many are extremist religious and is like "ughhhh not again grandpa talking xD" But ofc he doesn't listen or read to all of their takes,so ofc he doesn't guess that,or maybe he doesn't even know what conversion camps are, because zinc he is a good guy, if knew he'd totally be against bc Ik him And if he doesn't I'll make sure to make him know XD bc then his angelic party will fall bc will see how they're ok in hittung or electrocuting,(and who else what knows( a bunch of minors for behaving as how they don't like In Spain has been discovered that they'd electrocutado kids to make them "normal", and infestado their mindset with speeches that have no sense or hit them or Cage them in dark rooms as punishment That's why got prohibited and is illegal now But those wanna bring it back and people in the government, better or worse, less them are like nah fam that's weird

  • @flfb
    @flfb Жыл бұрын

    These kinds of straights always seem to prioritise the potential of a hypothetical child's success over the real actual human being who already exists.

  • @kangyuui
    @kangyuui Жыл бұрын

    i'm so happy to find your videos, i've been in such a dark place and your humour in the face of negativity gave me hope that my days will be better. news sites covering trans people positively may be progressive but the comments in most of them are filled with so much hatred that made me feel like i'm risking being harassed or killed each time i go out. thank you, Jamie, for being my light in this dark tunnel... please continue what you do, and stay with me until we find that light at the end of this.

  • @HermioneDisapprovesOfJKR

    @HermioneDisapprovesOfJKR

    Жыл бұрын

    Thinking of you, you’re not alone 💜

  • @adrienstarfaer
    @adrienstarfaer Жыл бұрын

    You are like a beautiful rose: You're pretty and you smell nice

  • @Cernoise
    @Cernoise Жыл бұрын

    Well this explains why the ex I used to run an iced coffee review website with turned out to be a trans woman.

  • @Nugget_0verlord
    @Nugget_0verlord Жыл бұрын

    Cis straight ppl: Marriage is the best thing you can do, it will give your life purpose ALSO cis straight ppl: marriage is a trap it will ruin your life run away WHICH ONE IS IT?!!

  • @meilagreisberg6385

    @meilagreisberg6385

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s a strange humor dynamic, I’ll admit. I think this is mostly an American phenomenon, as my Soviet parents never joked like this.

  • @user-mv5zt8qd9l

    @user-mv5zt8qd9l

    Жыл бұрын

    @Stripes then why do so many people make those exact jokes about marriage on their wedding days? The two are far from mutually exclusive.

  • @nicole-rb4iw
    @nicole-rb4iw Жыл бұрын

    i've been watching u for at least 3 yrs & it's incredible seeing u grow so much . throughout this time i have also discovered my own sexuality & gender identity & i love this community that we've built that makes ppl feel safe to do so . thank u jamie for all that u do

  • @JuMixBoox
    @JuMixBoox Жыл бұрын

    I feel like you actually thought about Shaaba when that guy said "Imagine me, you and your girl" and then got legitimately shocked when the guy said "I would get that bitch." These people have no respect, man.

  • @queen_zj6136
    @queen_zj6136 Жыл бұрын

    Can't imagine being straight, that's so goofy 😌

  • @adrienstarfaer

    @adrienstarfaer

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol, right?? Like, all genders are so pretty!

  • @jellyowl2644

    @jellyowl2644

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah like imagine being so obsessed with sax that you wear shirts about it infront of kids and put kids in those shirts

  • @Capybara-tw2ho

    @Capybara-tw2ho

    Жыл бұрын

    So am i allowed to call gay people goofy?

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    I've heard that it's like being gay, but not

  • @FunkyLittlePoptart

    @FunkyLittlePoptart

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ninjoshday It can't be anything like being gay. Look how hard they work at being annoying. Do gays really have that kind of time? (I know lesbians do not, because we're all too busy flirting with people and then running away to ask someone else "does she like me?" as if it's permanently fifth grade.)

  • @Morghena
    @Morghena Жыл бұрын

    The guy who claims he'll steal your woman won't get very far by referring to said woman as a "bitch" lol

  • @thechaoticduck1716
    @thechaoticduck1716 Жыл бұрын

    The worst part of Jaime’s videos… Is the homophobes and transphobes in the comments, you’re the best Jaime!

  • @myawightman5246
    @myawightman5246 Жыл бұрын

    12:22 but ppl refer to vehicles as "she" all the time, like why tf did they feel the need to objectify women like that

  • @electronics-girl

    @electronics-girl

    Жыл бұрын

    So are pickup trucks trans, since they are referred to as "she", but can also have truck nuts?

  • @Just_One_Tree
    @Just_One_Tree Жыл бұрын

    2:44 this is incredibly harmful. Especially to SA survivors. Being SA’d is not sex but there’s no room for distinction when you’re told ‘if you are penetrated before marriage, you’re as worthless as a flower with no pedals’. That sort of slogan always makes me think about Elizabeth Smart who speaks out against purity culture after being kidnapped, held captive, and SA’d daily for 9 months at 14 y/o in 2001. Elizabeth was raised LDS (Mormon) and was taught in girls’ Sunday school that your virginity is like gum. And having sex before marriage makes you as appealing as a piece of used chewing gum to any man you’d want to marry. In an interview as an adult, Elizabeth recalled that after the first time the man holding her captive SA’d her Elizabeth thought, "Oh my gosh, I'm that chewed up piece of gum, nobody re-chews a piece of gum, you throw it away” and "Why would it even be worth screaming out? Why would it even make a difference if you are rescued? Your life still has no value." 💔 TL;DR: teaching children that girls & AFAB people’s value as a person is based on virginity is detrimental to their self worth & overall well-being

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    You got a point. But sleeping around is nasty coz you could get the clap, or herpes, or chlamydia or syphilis any that can destroy a woman's fertility, (pelvic inflamitory disease), and it will also make you feel pretty shitty.

  • @Milk-ck1wv

    @Milk-ck1wv

    8 ай бұрын

    ​@@dixienormous8559sex is nasty everything in the world has germs and stuff on it so technically everything is nasty and you can get sick from many things.

  • @marialiceorelli9000
    @marialiceorelli9000 Жыл бұрын

    Thought i was a cis, straight woman but I hate iced coffee, so apparently i'm a man now.. nice to know

  • @cerberaodollam
    @cerberaodollam Жыл бұрын

    "stay healthy" as a codeword for starving yourself. hmmmmm classy.

  • @Helperbot-2000

    @Helperbot-2000

    Жыл бұрын

    cant be unhealthy if youre dead i guess

  • @cerberaodollam
    @cerberaodollam Жыл бұрын

    "you hurt her, i hurt you" is something i could get behind. being protected feels good, and so does being protective

  • @saundraschaefer

    @saundraschaefer

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel that way about both my kids, and they are different genders. Really it's how I feel about all the people I love.

  • @cerberaodollam

    @cerberaodollam

    Жыл бұрын

    @@saundraschaefer I don't have kids but same about my friends ❤️

  • @elizabethking8373
    @elizabethking8373 Жыл бұрын

    That guy thinking iced coffee is only for women probably has never been in the southern US or similar climates worldwide in the blazing hot summer!

  • @lauramathews3151
    @lauramathews3151 Жыл бұрын

    I agree with the honking bit. Whether it's my kids' friends or significant other coming to pick them up. Would piss me off whether my son or daughter were being summoned like that. Come to the door, send a text, call anything else...

  • @ard45387

    @ard45387

    Жыл бұрын

    The Baltimore Doorbell still exists? I thought it went away when everybody got cell phones

  • @lauramathews3151

    @lauramathews3151

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ard45387 if only

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    When I heard that one, I was like, "I can get behind that. Pizza is good!" Took a minute for me to realize what they meant XD

  • @KathyTrithardt
    @KathyTrithardt Жыл бұрын

    The irony about the "you could make six scientists" one is that scientist became a word in 1834 when it was coined to describe a woman named Mary Somerville. From Maria Mitchell and the Sexing of Science: "He called Somerville a scientist, in part because “man of science” seemed inappropriate for a woman, but more significantly because Somerville’s work was interdisciplinary. She was no mere astronomer, physicist, or chemist, but a visionary thinker who articulated the connections among the various branches of inquiry. According to Somerville’s biographer Kathryn Neeley, Whewell’s coinage of the word “scientist” was not meant to be merely a gender-neutral neutral term. Whewell wanted a word that actively celebrated “the peculiar illumination of the female mind”: the ability to synthesize separate fields into a single discipline.”"

  • @electronics-girl

    @electronics-girl

    Жыл бұрын

    Also, when you phrase it like that, Dr. Frankenstein could probably make six scientists, too.

  • @youtubeuniversity3638
    @youtubeuniversity3638 Жыл бұрын

    5:28 I'd naively think it's "If you're single, you've got nowhere to go, but being married means you've got someone who makes nowhere a nice enough spot to keep going there, just as long as they go with you."

  • @RunOut25
    @RunOut25 Жыл бұрын

    I love and hate the straight not being ok, we get to laugh at them, but they aren’t ok :(

  • @HARVEY_KING_

    @HARVEY_KING_

    Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE UR PROFILE PICTURE SO MUCH!

  • @seagoingberry8171

    @seagoingberry8171

    Жыл бұрын

    I can absolutely confirm, we are not okay.

  • @shadowking278

    @shadowking278

    Жыл бұрын

    All hail the Blåhaj. 🙏

  • @leviathann6090
    @leviathann6090 Жыл бұрын

    They are never okay😂

  • @Joy-gc9lx

    @Joy-gc9lx

    Жыл бұрын

    True af

  • @Joy-gc9lx

    @Joy-gc9lx

    Жыл бұрын

    Hiiii kanna

  • @leviathann6090

    @leviathann6090

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Joy-gc9lx WHY COMMENTING AT MY COMMENT KANNA

  • @Joy-gc9lx

    @Joy-gc9lx

    Жыл бұрын

    Y NOT MA

  • @leviathann6090

    @leviathann6090

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Joy-gc9lx AHHHHHHHHHHHH

  • @adrienstarfaer
    @adrienstarfaer Жыл бұрын

    7:29 I'm not an easily embarrassed person, but you could not TORTURE that information out of me!

  • @adrienstarfaer

    @adrienstarfaer

    Жыл бұрын

    Holy shit, I got a bot

  • @akmrd4746
    @akmrd4746 Жыл бұрын

    I work at Starbucks and we see a lot of men who come through and get iced mochas, white mochas, coffees, chai teas, lattes of all flavors, refreshers, fraps, and drinks topped with whipped cream or various flavors of cold foam, ext. Drinks that are apparently considered “feminine”. And guess what? Many of them are in big trucks, fancy suped up cars, expensive cars, suits, uniforms, and covered in dirt. I see cops too. People who look like they do the typical masculine jobs and (at least based on gender stereotypes) are cishet. There is nothing “feminine” or “emasculating” about iced drinks

  • @adrian_hook
    @adrian_hook Жыл бұрын

    My bestie's boyfriend didn't start drinking iced coffee until he was in his 30s because he thought it was only for women.. straight people are so confusing.

  • @hockeyhacker97
    @hockeyhacker97 Жыл бұрын

    That first one, just ... just ... no, no WTF. Now I am going to take that as if it is coming from someone who still has the archaic view point of "men have to be the providers going out and working and hunting all day while women are the care takers raising the family and caring for the home and cook" but even taking it from that outdated viewpoint even that is extremely undervaluing just how much work and effort goes into those roles, I would argue that caring for and raising a child is more work than most modern jobs let alone cleaning and cooking on top of that making it a much more demanding job where the only reason it isn't valued in society is because you don't get paid for doing it because you are only looking out for your families needs and not contributing to giving work to other people. Like seriously going and working in an office or retail all day is way less work than raising a child while keeping things clean for health reasons and everything else. But even so I am assuming that is where this view point is coming from of "men have to be the providers" because that is literally the only way I can see how anyone could have this much of a delusion is by having that view point and underestimating just how much hard work that really is.

  • @ElaaraWylder
    @ElaaraWylder Жыл бұрын

    Ultimate revenge for the woman who is told to have six scientists rather than have her own career as a scientist.... give birth to six girls who go on to be amazing and field leading women scientists!

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    Or they could become farmers, then they could all be outstanding in their field.

  • @Novixus800
    @Novixus800 Жыл бұрын

    Now I know the snake bumper sticker was meant to make fun of the mom and is such a dick move, but personally I think snakes are smart and badass. Everyone should be a badass snake 🐍 I’m even planning to get a tattoo of one 👍

  • @snekysneks

    @snekysneks

    Жыл бұрын

    I actually liked that one. Maybe because I have snakes. It made me think of a badass mother of monsters like tiamat. It took me a second to remember that snakes have a lot of negative connotations and that was what the sticker was referencing.

  • @electronics-girl

    @electronics-girl

    Жыл бұрын

    Get out of line, and Mom will swallow you whole.

  • @GhostW1thTheMost
    @GhostW1thTheMost Жыл бұрын

    I keep expecting the one where he says "if we pull up to your girl she gonna choose me" to end with his own alpha-male version of wholesomeness like "dont compare yourself to other bro, keep doing you". I watched it like 100 times but i keep expecting it to happen.

  • @squeaktheswan2007
    @squeaktheswan2007 Жыл бұрын

    Jamie in pink is a whole new mood.

  • @ArtsyKnox25

    @ArtsyKnox25

    Жыл бұрын

    AND HE IS SLAYING IT!

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    he is our cupcake online friend!

  • @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith
    @Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith Жыл бұрын

    Concerning the "Social Hierarchy" meme, where do Aro/Ace and those of us who Know, but don't WANT (IE, NOT clueless, just apathetic) fit?

  • @jase_allen
    @jase_allen Жыл бұрын

    14:06 Number 10 could really come back to bite the dad in the back side. If his daughter's BF is bi and thinks the dad is hot, he could tell the dad something like "I got down on my knees and went down on your daughter until she came. So get down on yours and get to work."

  • @0verpricedcoffee553

    @0verpricedcoffee553

    Жыл бұрын

    Top 3 ways to snag yourself a DILF

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    Only if he really likes hospital food.

  • @jase_allen

    @jase_allen

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dixienormous8559 When he gets out of the hospital, he can visit the dad in prison and give him the lowdown on what he's really been doing with his daughter.

  • @dixienormous8559

    @dixienormous8559

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jase_allen he won't be doing much without his junk.

  • @imarrywhales
    @imarrywhales Жыл бұрын

    I LOVE this channel!!! Please don't leave the platform! It cheers me up that there's content for nonbinary people. I listen to it everyday. The scent I wear is called essential love. But it's not by scent bird. It's from somewhere else. I love it! I think you and shabaas relationship is so much more beautiful than what Hollywood produces!! I'm proud to be alive alongside you guys!

  • @ninjoshday

    @ninjoshday

    Жыл бұрын

    Fake Jamie scam bot ^^^

  • @Ari_C
    @Ari_C Жыл бұрын

    5:23 i think it's supposed to imply how much more the husband(presumably) leaves the house after marriage? like the whole"i can't stand to be around my wife so I'm always out" type shit? idk tho

  • @erinjeanellis5092
    @erinjeanellis5092 Жыл бұрын

    When I saw the scientist one did I think, "so become a scientist and then clone myself 6 times", got it 😂

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