American on Moving to Thailand, Battling Addiction & Loneliness

Join us on an eye-opening journey as we sit down with Ed, an American expatriate who has spent the last 19 years in the Land of Smiles, Thailand. In this candid and enlightening KZread video, our guest shares his compelling story about why he made the life-changing decision to move to Thailand and how it transformed his perspective on life.
Discover the true cost of living in Thailand through the eyes of someone who's been living the dream for nearly two decades. But this video is not just about numbers and budgets. It delves deep into the cultural dynamics between foreign men and Thai women, offering thought-provoking insights into the complexities of these relationships. Our guest also explores a sensitive subject - the ethical and moral dilemmas some foreign men face when they make Thailand their home.
Prepare to be enlightened and engaged as you watch this fascinating conversation that transcends borders and challenges preconceptions. Subscribe now to join the conversation and expand your horizons! #movingtothailand #costoflivinginthailand #relationshipsinthailand
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00:00 intro
01:09 why I moved to Thailand
04:09 battling addiction in Thailand
09:42 cost of living in Thailand
12:05 foreigners views on Thai women
16:26 foreigners cheat in relationships here
20:05 my unusual hobby in Thailand

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  • @ThairishTimes
    @ThairishTimes8 ай бұрын

    Check out Ed’s channel here: youtube.com/@edwardgrand?si=GoEVPyfEUfAXQvqW

  • @kevinp8108
    @kevinp81088 ай бұрын

    Expats are only lonely in Thailand because they refuse to learn Thai! Thais are very social people and it's nearly impossible to be lonely in Thailand. As a foreigner, it is imcumbent on you to learn the local language, not the other way around! A person can reach fluency within two years or sooner depending on their effort.

  • @AlreadyShort

    @AlreadyShort

    8 ай бұрын

    u mean like How much you give me?

  • @kevinp8108

    @kevinp8108

    8 ай бұрын

    @@AlreadyShort - My water buffalo is sick.

  • @truckerfromreno

    @truckerfromreno

    8 ай бұрын

    Then you can talk about rice with them.

  • @shabbos-goy9407

    @shabbos-goy9407

    8 ай бұрын

    @@truckerfromreno Hello Hansum Man Where You Frum?

  • @petersutherland1985

    @petersutherland1985

    8 ай бұрын

    Talk about som tam, heat, rain, the neighbours, lakorn ha ha most Thais have nothing interesting to say. My mrs teaches it and I still cannot speak it after 29 years😊

  • @bobkrogh1670
    @bobkrogh16708 ай бұрын

    He is trying to be authentic and doing pretty well at it. He is just like the rest of us trying to figure out what it is all about.

  • @ThailandThomas
    @ThailandThomas8 ай бұрын

    Like Ed I drank a lot during my youth, at one point your body does not recover that fast from drinking and you realize your are going to die at a early age if you stay on that path. Great to hear Ed's story. Some times I ponder what my life would be if I chose to stay in Thailand 25 years ago. Getting ready to retire me and my wife are building a home in Isan near her family. I am not sure I can live there. I start getting lonely after a few weeks when we visit with her family.

  • @garyl8175

    @garyl8175

    8 ай бұрын

    I can relate fella..built a modest home in a village and after a few weeks realised I couldn't live full-time with the poverty of activities and abundance of drinking which is so common in isan. would recommend early uptake of a regular exercise regime and networking at every opportunity! good luck with your relocation.

  • @annhans3535

    @annhans3535

    8 ай бұрын

    I can relate. I am looking to move to South America next year. We are going to live there for about 6 months to see how I like it and if I can live there long term. My husband loves the idea but we will see. We are also going to build a home there if I like it. My husband said, it up to me. So, hopefully I will like it and not miss my creature comforts too much.

  • @billyburi-baps
    @billyburi-baps8 ай бұрын

    Been here 17 years myself and a lot of what Ed says resonates with myself. The alcohol, loneliness out in the boonies,, Thai women, bar stool Mr Thailands. Still a great country to retire to.......

  • @garyl8175
    @garyl81758 ай бұрын

    thanks Pete: great interview as always and Ed's views resonate with anyone who's spent serious time in Thailand.

  • @johnpaul8293
    @johnpaul82938 ай бұрын

    wow congrats on the 40k subs!.....100k here you come..

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    Thank you mate, onwards and upwards

  • @anthonygraham1872
    @anthonygraham18728 ай бұрын

    Good interview, really candid and interesting view of his life in Thailand.

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    Thanks🙏

  • @MrSfein1
    @MrSfein18 ай бұрын

    Another great interview, thanks. Of all the people you have had on, I think I agree with him the most on Thai women, culture, etc. It's hard to believe I have been living here for 35+ years when my only original goal was to skip a winter.

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    If you’re interested in telling your story let me know 🙏

  • @michaelchristophergutierre7244
    @michaelchristophergutierre72444 ай бұрын

    You can go anywhere with a smile on your face and you would be amazed how many friends you make. But learning emergency or conversational Thai is helpful. When I was in the DR, I knew survival spanish, then joined a gym and picked up a little at a time. Its amazing how much of the basics can help you make friends. If you can get fluent its better of course but not neccesary to make friends. As far as lonlinesss, depends on your needs, give me an internet conncestion, flat screen tv, a good gym to train at, a church or temple to go to and some good places to eat and Im not lonely...Also buy a puppy, they give unconditional love, always happy to see you (and puppies are chick magnet LOL) Best to ED on his journey. Here is a qoute "Life is hard put on a helmet"

  • @thinktwice4227
    @thinktwice42278 ай бұрын

    I'm Thai. I don't agree what he mentioned that 'minor wife' is part of Thai culture. Most Thai see it immoral as it's against Buddhist teaching. 😮

  • @_Alfa.Bravo_

    @_Alfa.Bravo_

    8 ай бұрын

    ... if not the culture then of its tradition?

  • @luceinbattaglia9425

    @luceinbattaglia9425

    8 ай бұрын

    👏😉🔝🙏💙🇹🇭

  • @711riddler

    @711riddler

    8 ай бұрын

    I'm from America as well. I totally disagree with all he said about woman. Like all woman just want security. When was the last timd you saw a 25 y/o in the west with a 50 y/o? Im married to a Thai woman, they are different.

  • @franbrinda

    @franbrinda

    8 ай бұрын

    Absolutely. He’s been away from U.S. for some time. Western vs, Asian I find quite different. Everybody wants security in a pertner male or female.

  • @petersutherland1985

    @petersutherland1985

    8 ай бұрын

    Gambling, drugs, lying, drinking and animal cruelty are against Buddhism, but it's widespred😊

  • @mangostickyrice555
    @mangostickyrice5558 ай бұрын

    Thumbs up 👍 Pete & Ed

  • @jimmyboysmovies1972
    @jimmyboysmovies19728 ай бұрын

    Ed and his Fungus 😂😂 fair play to him. He was right about how some people’s ethics change when there aboard . Well done he knew he had an issue and recovered 👏. Also about people being lonely , the amounts of times I gone for a walk and seen guys in bars and just alone looking lost it’s such a shame it happens . Another great vlog Pete 👌

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    Cheers Jimmy

  • @joanncoopertroupe3506
    @joanncoopertroupe35068 ай бұрын

    Hi Pete rnjoyed this Interview. HAVE A WONDERFUL REST OF YOUR WEEK i have been sick for a few Days.. God bless you..Jo Ann Age 65 North Fla..

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    Hi Joann, I hope you’re better now and thanks for always supporting the channel

  • @kwokweng76
    @kwokweng768 ай бұрын

    Great video Pete....... Keep it up with these videos

  • @donjordan8174
    @donjordan81748 ай бұрын

    Hi Pete… good one.. keep them coming

  • @bendyloco
    @bendyloco8 ай бұрын

    Great video!

  • @johndeane5864
    @johndeane58647 ай бұрын

    He dodged that question about his relationships !

  • @pg.travels
    @pg.travels8 ай бұрын

    Maybe the shrooms have kept him young? I know it was a soft focus on the camera but he looks a few decades less than his age!

  • @annhans3535

    @annhans3535

    8 ай бұрын

    I was thinking, he looks very young.🤣

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    That’s very plausible

  • @promovebangkok1669
    @promovebangkok16698 ай бұрын

    great content Pete! hope all is well for you mate

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    Cheers Jonno, all is good made. Over your way soon

  • @gertdrok
    @gertdrok8 ай бұрын

    A Very Realistic Story. 🙏

  • @shane0traveller451
    @shane0traveller4518 ай бұрын

    Top Guy and great interview and all those roles!!

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    Cheers mate

  • @dannyho6786
    @dannyho67868 ай бұрын

    Thairish times ! Good one, thanx man !

  • @robertamcmunn3642
    @robertamcmunn36428 ай бұрын

    Okay, he may have given up alcohol but he does seem to be partaking in some of his mushrooms, and not for their nutritional value or taste which is none. So he now seems to be a "Mushroom Dealer".

  • @carlyndolphin
    @carlyndolphin8 ай бұрын

    I like this guy

  • @baz69er13
    @baz69er138 ай бұрын

    He sounds like a Fun - Gi.....😅

  • @ksmithpmp
    @ksmithpmp8 ай бұрын

    Most men are as faithful as their options. Many more options here in Thailand. And if you can afford it and bring high value, most women anywhere will be ok with having multiple women.

  • @michaelh878

    @michaelh878

    7 ай бұрын

    We found the Tate simp.

  • @patrickrussell6216
    @patrickrussell62168 ай бұрын

    Very cool fellow, Unlikely he would have been happy and content if he carried on drinking ❤

  • @MickSchwager-gu5wp
    @MickSchwager-gu5wp8 ай бұрын

    Hi

  • @Neednoy2
    @Neednoy28 ай бұрын

    I feel he has a lot to say. Might need a part 2.

  • @rockypalmer6779
    @rockypalmer67798 ай бұрын

    Looking forward to a video about the differences between Penis Envy and Koh Samui shrooms.

  • @josephsonoftheuniverse5541
    @josephsonoftheuniverse55418 ай бұрын

    Gray

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    Are you Limerick Joseph?

  • @liamburns8554
    @liamburns85548 ай бұрын

    Thai women are different in the extent they are different culturally from another country. Just like men

  • @sociallypatterneddefect9580
    @sociallypatterneddefect95808 ай бұрын

    Hell ya fungus is great

  • @YuChiGongG
    @YuChiGongG8 ай бұрын

    FARANG KI-MAO! Hahaha!!! Of course, Farang also means GUAVA. So....Drunken Guava?

  • @annhans3535

    @annhans3535

    8 ай бұрын

    🤣

  • @jamespatrick74
    @jamespatrick744 ай бұрын

    You cut this guy off very quickly, he was quite an interesting guy

  • @neildutton8077
    @neildutton80778 ай бұрын

    He seems like a fun-gi Pete...😊😅😂

  • @mikedezo424
    @mikedezo4248 ай бұрын

    I hope he is fluent in Thai language after 19 year there

  • @petersutherland1985

    @petersutherland1985

    8 ай бұрын

    Why

  • @rockypalmer6779
    @rockypalmer67798 ай бұрын

    800B a day? That's 10 big bottles of Chang. LOL.

  • @lfg6215
    @lfg62158 ай бұрын

    Wtf, this bloke should get back on it, amateur

  • @drirene57
    @drirene577 ай бұрын

    He traded one addiction for another.

  • @bengoodrick
    @bengoodrick8 ай бұрын

    "All women are the same, there's nothing special abt Thai women" 2 mins later "Thai women are mummy, lover, guardian, secretary, grocery shopper, cook" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @menhera2
    @menhera28 ай бұрын

    The big problem with western immigrants is that they already have mental problems before they arrive in their new country. After the honeymoon period is over the original problems resurface 😭

  • @Sa7biUK

    @Sa7biUK

    8 ай бұрын

    You mean white western immigrants

  • @rogergr5019

    @rogergr5019

    3 ай бұрын

    I have to admin this is exactly the case. I talk from my own perspective. I went back to my own country to solve my mental health and improved my financial situation. After that I went back, stayed at a temple for 6 months, learnt your language, found a job....and now I am living a happy single life in Chiang Mai. I got many Thai friends which I prefer over farang actually. 🎉✌️

  • @HburgMMAInstitute
    @HburgMMAInstitute4 ай бұрын

    As far as a person's ethics going "flying out the window," speak for yourself bro. Sounds like a personal character flaw than anything to do with the country.

  • @santheburmese
    @santheburmese8 ай бұрын

    Pitiful 😥

  • @dannyho6786
    @dannyho67868 ай бұрын

    he probably found some fungus where he didnt want to !

  • @GUITARTIME2024
    @GUITARTIME20248 ай бұрын

    He wasnt born in America. I can hear it.

  • @petersutherland1985
    @petersutherland19858 ай бұрын

    Nicer than that loud mouth Steve Rosse you had on, yanks do like to talk about themselves😅 15 mins from where he is to KSR, id like to see that😂

  • @graememackay1718
    @graememackay17188 ай бұрын

    You're lonely cause you choose to be

  • @richardawells7110
    @richardawells71108 ай бұрын

    understand

  • @ThairishTimes

    @ThairishTimes

    8 ай бұрын

    Great