Americala Setting Boundaries | Family Vs Friends Vs Work !! What do you think? Share you thoughts!

Great video! This is my personal experience only: as a person who’s has been staying at home for the last few years after working previously, people think that I’m available 24/7 & don’t have a schedule. This has been exacerbated by the fact that I’m an empty nester. Never mind the fact that I volunteer & have many other commitments. The unspoken assumption is that since I don’t work 9-5 for a paycheck I don’t have anything better to do than sit on my behind all day. Unfortunately, the people who do this are well meaning family members & friends who are very close to me. Because of this, I have had to lie or ignore them simply because they don’t respect my time & think they can cross boundaries just because of the relationship they have with me.

Much needed tip/ skill on setting boundaries it saves your sanity ,especially with people who are manipulative and toxic I set mine after lots of bitter experience . Now I’m at peace .

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Super

No expectation..No boundaries..Stay Happy!!

Ha ha…we become a lot more sensitive when we come to the USA. In India people don’t think twice to ask or tell - you look fat or dark, what is your salary, how much did it cost etc… assessing people on how much money they have is very common in India. some Indians continue to say the same here in the USA and I hear it from highly educated and salaried people too..: I think to myself - these people will never change even if you put them in mars!!! I wish I can give a strong reply and keep their mouth shut!!! But unfortunately we look bad and not them!! I really dislike such discussions 😊

Wonderful discussion

Hi Sainthavi akka. This is amazing point of view and much needed for many to set the boundaries

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🙂

Roger that 😎 And I'm being answered ❤ thanks a lot for your time 😊

I admire your honesty, brave answers and self confidence Sainthavi 😊.

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thank you Jothi 🤗 ❤️

Great tips about boundaries and expectations. But I really think its unsafe for people seeking out for help or counselling from someone who doesnt hold a professional degree. I don't think you should be giving advice or counselling over emails, phone or text. This could end up breaking relationships. If people are in stress or upset or need counselling please seek help in person where you live. Go meet a counsellor and sit down to talk. The person treating you should know your mental and physical condition before offering advice. Do not seek advice to take life changing decisions from influencers and social media people. They are strangers. This is not advisable. This can even end up being fatal. No one is going to check on you to see what happened after that. Go seek help in person, talk to people who know you better and can assess your situation with everything in mind.

@SainthavisKitchen

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing

God bless you and your family 🙏🏻

Can you please talk about kids and their gadget requirements,how do you set boundaries with gaming, which age can we introduce gaming to the kids.its become a huge problem in my family.

Past two weeks have been watching all your videos . Love your content and truly admire your confident personality.

@SainthavisKitchen

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!

Wow ! This is a kind of personal development video ❤ I am looking for ! Keep doing more videos like this ! Best wishes,Saint ❤

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot 😊 appreciate your motivation

I admire you so much Sainthavi😊

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for the love 💕

Best way 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Also you digressed from the issue by talking about the couple issue 😊

Akka vera level😘All Blessings to you❤

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thank you Dear

Very nice video sainthavi 👌

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Hey Sain..🤗 another wonderful topic from you. As I always say, you're my virtual sister. Thank you for all the inspiring and educative talks Sain.. keep rocking❤️

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

🤗 happy to see your comment ❤️

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Good topic 👍 Keep doing

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙂

Perfect 👌👌

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thanks 😊

I like all ur videos very useful🎉

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

So nice of you 😊

👌👌👏👏

Hi Sainthavi I am recently watching your videos! I like it, the way you express . You are really sharing all the thoughts, bravo 💪👏 Maybe Californian culture is different 🤔, Indian community is better than west coat?, just wondering. Your videos are very interesting and more informative. I am still curious about Californian lifestyle and and social life. I encourage you to continue. You are reflecting all my questions. Have a nice day! I am from Michigan

@Thankyouforever1

3 ай бұрын

Sorry I meant East coast

@SainthavisKitchen

2 ай бұрын

Thank you good question I’ll make a video on this

Hi Sain, I used to watch all your Videos.. Nice contents.. Can you please create a video for volunteer ship which is applicable for H4 dependent.

@SKiv7604

3 ай бұрын

Try preschools, elementary and middle schools. (Check their websites). Some big hospitals have volunteer options, ( check website) . H4 allowed without ead and without salary.

@K45883

3 ай бұрын

​@@SKiv7604Thank you so much for the input..Also please let me know whether SSN is required for volunteer ship.

@SKiv7604

3 ай бұрын

@@K45883 No. after getting work visa or along with EAD application, SSN comes.

@SKiv7604

3 ай бұрын

@@K45883 For preschools, always help needed. Sometimes you can call them and ask for volunteering. Prepare resume for volunteer, ask mail id and send them.( sometimes they accept not all times)

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@SainthavisKitchen

2 ай бұрын

Haha