Americala நாங்க வாழுற இந்த வாழ்க்கை Sainthavi's Perspective on Living Abroad Part 2 !

Loved your video😍 Thanks for sharing 🙏🏻

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching!

It’s been couple of years in USA. Totally we can relate. Always loved to listen to your conversations and feels like someone with the same thoughts are next to us ❤ Thanks for your time to share the thoughts

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks for the love ❤️

Lovely content, neatly conveyed. Totally relatable. 👍

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽

I cant understand why ppl always complain abt living abroad by enjoying luxury life. I stay in usa for 8 yrs. Here i can say the student education is free till 12th grade. If both husband and wife earning they will earn more than 12000 dollars per month. Instead of hiring a help they invest their money in million dollar houses. Instead of getting 1 house they buy 2 house, bmw car mostly 2 cars with high end model. In usa there is wage regulation which has to be followed. In india ppl exploit maids by giving them low salary which i feel is unfair. Moreover there is no family politics when we stay in usa. Depending on parents to pamper us i feel its unfair. Am in 30 s after babies i feel i need my personal space. Parents must in be 60s they need to be freed from our emotional turmoil. Its our life we need to take care. As well as support our parents. I see so many indian women in usa just bring their parents here to babysit their babies which i feel is vry bad

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching my video

@ranisankar2120

4 ай бұрын

Simply u want to live without inlaw 😂😂 and thats why u settled in US

@godiseverywhere2809

4 ай бұрын

​@@ranisankar2120Fyi nobody is living with inlaws in india too. Ppl keep their parents only to babysit their kids.i can say it proudly am not doing it. They spend 30 yrs to take care of us let them live peacefully after getting us married. I know so many ppl who wants to be pampered like dads little princess. Here in usa ppl doesnt depend upon others. They feel its their responsibility to care of their family. My inlaws come here to usa spend time with us. Am not like you 😌. Here i was trying to convey the creator is making the younger generation ppl scared by saying silly things like rasam, sambar, zomato etc. In usa also we have friends we provide food when they are not well and also so many homemade catering services are here to cook food. Ppl always compare dollar to rupees which is not sensible

@malinivenugopal8323

4 ай бұрын

​​@@ranisankar2120 oh, well. If you or your husband get an opportunity you will stay in India is it? To take care of your inlaws 😂 Dont judge please... watch and move on!

@revathysanthakumar5226

4 ай бұрын

Correctly pointed out @godiseverywhere, parents at their old age they need medical facilities which we cannot give here without insurance. Yes parents want child to go study earn marry and have kids. But to say that you asked for it and so be my cleaner doesn’t sound correct. My parents are happy to serve me even today at the native place where they the comfort to organize, arrange and spend. Here for everything they have to depend on us. Also if US is so bad then why stay just to elevate your financial situation. Also the husband in this video seem to little more empathetic of all the stakeholders. Wife seem to be more focused on their perspective. Also next time when making videos just don’t randomly talk about what could be happening in India right now. If possible interview 80’s and 90s born people and how they raise their family and what are the current challenges in India.

Saw your previous video too, very much relatable, good points sain

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks a ton

Thanks for sharing the reality of foreign Lifestyle our wishes and Blessings to you Both❤❤💐💐🙌🙌

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

We clearly understood what you are trying to share …it’s an awareness who is coming here newly and trying to get them ready for the struggle we are going through ….you both please ignore whoever misunderstood….thank you for you both ❤❤

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

I appreciate that, you made my day ❤️

Very useful video. Can relate to it. Love and support from Hong Kong!!

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Awesome! Thank you! 🤗 ❤️

Superb 🎉

You sound clear and honest❤

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Thanks for sharing very useful inf 🎉

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

Hi Sainthavi , I saw both your videos .. true information provided . I came to UK after marriage from Bangalore and took a while to adjust .. I dint know cooking or any house work for that matter , as I was pampered at home and worked in IT , I think it was more difficult for my husband to train me and bring me to the mindset that we have to do everything on our own . We’ve had multitude fights over this … all the parents and Girls must know the reality of living abroad , everyone thinks it is as shown in the movies , like a dream world .. but reality is different. Hope people watch this and realise and make an informed decision .

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for reinstating my point

@radhikakumar2331

4 ай бұрын

We dont think so as in movies.. You think us in that way.. Looking up to people living abroad days have gone.. .. You choose to pay your taxes to the country who made us slaves for centuries and still in the name of Congress they are doing it.. You dont hype yourself...India is a beautiful country to live inwith so many opportunities which you failed to look into..

We can relate it dear

Hi Sain, recently discovered your channel and going through the playlist .. you have done very good and useful videos .. i have a middle schooler doing second year in band . Parents here say band is a lot of work , but my kid loves it and the euphonium instrument. I want to know about the experience of parents who have done until the end of high school. Would you be able to make a deep-dive video into band all the way from 6th to 12th grade (7yrs in band) ?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Will try and get your the answer, thank you 😊

@nsnamagiri

4 ай бұрын

@@SainthavisKitchen Thanks Sain! ❤

I am Malaysian.. it's a totally different lifestyle compared to here.. just be grateful for what we have.. Happy weekend..🩷

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Good for you thanks for watching

I can relate myself with ur words

Hi Sainthavi, I can relate myself what you are conveying msg.I started working a month ago. I am happy now and helping my family financially.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

That's great

Hi Sainthavi.... both parts really good.... can totally relate all from part 1. Waiting for part 3. Please explain more in detail about Estate planning, trust, life insurance, bank account beneficiary and living will. Thanks.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Definitely I will do that. Beautiful compliment, Thank you 😊

Started watching your videos

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you

Dear Sainthavi, firstly I want to appreciate the nature of your videos and the transparency in your lifestyle (both, martial and maternal) that is refreshing to watch. Personally, I love your practical nature and inclusivity in how you and Vinod conduct your life with the boys and your vlogs are a representation of that. I loved your take on allowing the kids experience everything in moderation, having a liberal outlook on personal choices ably partnered by Vinod. In the context of this video, I see that couples who immigrate from a small town lifestyle driven by necessity cope better than people who move from Indian Metros who have been born into Upper middle class families that enjoy certain amenities and services which ends up luxury in the US. Also it is very difficult to find your village, supprt group here if you are not chasing the American dream above all else. Again, I love listening to you and Vinod as a mother of a 14 yr old and 11 yr old and so many of your experiences have educated and opened my world so much. Keep vlogging. ❤

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you so for the beautiful compliments and we truly appreciate your input. ❤️ 🥰

@vijayalakshmio7918

4 ай бұрын

very.nice

@scientistswife

4 ай бұрын

Yes urban upper class from India cannot adjust easily as they live luxurious life.Lot of sacrifice in lifestyle needed.

I agree your point akka, niraya beru over ah expect panitu vanthutu dissapoint aguranga, I got it. Athavida our extended families la etho foreign la irukanga she is well settled nu ninakranga nama avangaluku help panala apdinu ninakranga, ivangaluku enna kavalai nu ninakranga. Everybody have their own struggle nu puriya matakuthu.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Exactly!

I am sorry if you find my comment unrelatable but this is my take on it. After listening to you speak, I realized one thing. Your point is that there is cheap help available back home. It's true this is not available in USA and never will be. I am so glad it isn't either. Back home the labour laws are bad. They don't ensure people get paid minimum wage for being house help, driver, gardener.. this is so unfair. Your perspective is for educated middle class people who make more money than the common man and often seek help from the poor for less wages. But in USA there is wage control. If you get a cleaner you will pay for their work's worth, you will treat them well. That's the beauty of the US society. It's the mindset and how you look at it. I know people who came recently complain of the Canadian health care and wait times. They could afford to see a doctor back home in minutes. That isn't the case for everyone. The common man wouldn't have the funds back home to make this comment. It's all perspective. Also, if you settle for many years abroad we have to start thinking like people around us, not NRI's. I have lived 23+ years in Canada. My daughter is 18. We are about the same age group I suppose. I am not going to chase my kids to get married, have kids and definitely not going to make my life revolve around them. I feel like the younger people coming in are also very smart and are adapting well. Many of them have chosen not to have kids and are raising pets. That's new but welcoming. Social media has educated them. They can live together or separate if life doesn't work. No judgement there.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching my video

@kayk7207

4 ай бұрын

True. When people complain about living abroad their main point is labor is expensive. In India labor class lives in slums. If you believe hard working people should live a decent life your perspective about living overseas changes.

@thakshak6519

4 ай бұрын

@@kayk7207 exactly. Here we can hire people to come and clean. They have so many rules and they charge $$. I think its only fair, and its another job just like anything we do. You can hire people to do any house help, drive cars or anything in US too, only thing you will be paying the minimum wage and you have to treat them well. It always breaks my heart when people go to India from abroad and get all the strenuous jobs done by people around for so little. That's what makes this country beautiful, you pay the price or you learn to do it yourself. In India they only value academics and the people who earn through that, but in USA, your job, your education is just another designation. You treat everyone well and everyone equally and no one cares about your house or car. Only the Indian community goes around flaunting their house, car and jewellery. Americans don't really care. The funny part is half the Indian kids after seeing all this refuse to marry anyone from Indian origin. Thats the cherry on the cake.

@durairajan9825

Ай бұрын

Do not compare the maid job here and US. Here it is more than the minimumwage they are getting. Here also monthly salary paid liberally for minimum work hour. Compare the quality of work. I feel their work efficiency better in America. Here every house maid is treated as their family. Do not think they are exploited here. Boss and employee relationship there. Here everyone is treated as their family. India as always used to filled with emotional bonding not as mechanical bonding as in America. Doller is not needed. Happiness is here.

@thakshak6519

Ай бұрын

@@durairajan9825 do you work as a maid in India? how can you speak for people who are underprivileged? If they are sick and cannot come to work, how do their home owners treat them? You can give a fake story that you treat home helpers well in India, they only know so much. There is a big population under the poverty line and there is no regulation for their pay. How do you think they are treated then? Emotional bonding is worth $$$??? No matter where you live if people aren't paid well for the job they do, that's not okay. Cheap labour is a crime.

What a transparent share? Beautiful video sain

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot ❤️

Loved ur way of talking Sain. Came to US just 2yrs bk....was able to relate what u said.

@SainthavisKitchen

2 ай бұрын

Glad to hear that

Hi, nice video. I also would like to say that in most states in the U.S., to live in a nice home and to raise 2 kids to buy needed things for them and to save for college which is very expensive you need 2 incomes. 1 as a disposable income and the other for mortgage and other main expenses unless the husband is a doctor or running a profitable business. Even with 1 normal decent income , you can have only a certain life style. Plus the job uncertainty especially in the U.S. and you cannot live here without medical insurance. So, for these reasons many women have to work not because they cannot afford to stay home.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing

@scientistswife

4 ай бұрын

Well said. 😊

Contribution to the family need not be financial. Taking care of the children, family and their needs are even bigger Contribution to the family. Financial Contribution can never match this.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽

@kushpupoojam3950

4 ай бұрын

😂😂

@SummerIsFun2024

4 ай бұрын

Financial support illaama , go fund me la suthittu irunga 😂

@savithrigeetharaju1166

4 ай бұрын

Stop Bullying.

@vdr551

4 ай бұрын

Equally contributing is more important

Very useful and clearly explained you both are... super 👍🔥👍...

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you so much 🙂

I can totally relate to it. This is exactly my status now, I’m a masters holder with dependent visa and a Sahm.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Hang in there ❤️

It's true it's self adjustment last week I went through flu, though my husband tried rasam it was not actually that good so I had to order one rasam and one kulambu was 22$

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Hope you are feeling better now. Thank you for the comment

Life abroad both have to contribute in household work. Children valakarathum conscious ha irrukanum. Lonelyness irrukum.What she says is true.

There are 2 issues here.1.Having career,family and living in India ,like millions of others 2.Going abroad for higher education,career and living with husband/wife and children like a few lakhs (no.increasing over the years) In both the scenarios there are expectations , achievements to celebrate, challenges / hurdles to overcome.மொத்ததில்- இக்கரைக்கு அக்கரை பச்சை.If you want to gain something you might be ready to loose certain things .That's how life works.As rightly said ,happiness and contenment can be achived by sharing and caring with life partner. Interesting to watch your videos. Please cover specific topics each week- income-expenditure/savings,medical facilities (pros too ,not just cons), own house/reneted, school /college education etc..

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for the motivation and love. I shall definitely touch upon those details

Last episode n idhuvum full ah Pathan.Planning,understanding capacity,preparedness as u said Elam irukanam..One thing I would like to tell,ie be it girl or boy they should learn everything at least basic level.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Agreed 👍 ❤️

I completely agree with what you said in this video and the previous video. I couldn’t afford to stay at home . So working. It helps in having a schedule/ time management/ self care etc . Please include the huge daycare expenses here and the difficulty in getting medical appointments. I never knew it before coming here . I had N number of instances in which my health issues got cured by itself before the doctor appointment date . The difficulty in buying generic prescription medication from pharmacy , waiting for doctors appointment date with home remedies.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 😊

I appreciate your effort to talk about this which many can relate to their life. Can you post video on estate planning and trust?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks Praba will do

People who come on H4 can volunteer in the community in person or remotely. Even though it’s unpaid, it’s still valuable & valid work experience.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Yes they can volunteer

I understood the context of this video and previous video. So the solution would be.. Be prepared for marriage life irrespective of the country. NOT JUST ABROAD.. struggle is same.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Correct

Inflation is high in UK too but health care is absolutely free. No insurance needed at any point in time. And cost of university education is less. Even for Cambridge and Oxford the tuition fee is just £10000 per year. I think these aspects UK is better though cost of living is high.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

I know I studied, worked and lived in UK

Can you please talk more about estate planning (living will /trust)who stays in USA.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Sure will do thanks

Way of conveying is nice

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you 😊

Akka very useful advice

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot 😀

I recently came across your channel.your videos are really informative and totally relatable. I lived in california after marriage for 6 years. We have two children( first one US born and second India born). I came back to India due to my family circumstances. Now my 19 year old daughter who is an US citizen wants to go back to US. My son is now 15 and he has future plans to study and live in US. My hubby and I have no choices left but to settle in USA. Now I'm in my late 40's and have a dilemma to handle the situations that is currently prevailing in USA. Thanks to your videos. They are really an eye-opener that really sheds some light over my concerns.Keep up your good work.👌

@SainthavisKitchen

29 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing and please do what is best for your family

Though we have parents and in laws ... How many are ready to come ans support us. And more importantly you are talking about taking care of yourself and kids. Here we need to take care of elders, we are spending time, money and energy for them also.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

I know!

Few points from Indian couple (both are working).. We have domestic help for vessel washing and mopping the floor. That's what most of them have here. Very few percentage People will have cook.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Oh ok 👍

Education related post pa...detail video needed about visa what are all there

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Ok

$8 in ppp its coming around 190 rupees. Similar price range

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Oh

I am sorry, but your video is just lacking gratitude in every angle. You have a good life, something people back home don't. Don't keep comparing to Swiggy and Zomato.. it will be a few years before they realise what damage this has done to their health. Why are you paying $20 for Rasam when you are sick? What do Americans eat when they are sick? It is all about choices? Once you develop a sense of gratitude for like abroad and full immense yourself, you live life better. Your kids are not asking for rice and curry every day. They won't expect traditional connect, trips to homeland. It's all for your personal satisfaction. Its all because you want to be somewhere else. So if you are battling your happiness this is because of the lack of gratitude for what you have. You are earning in dollars. You have a better spending capacity, be thankful for that. Even today you can throw this life away and go back home and settle. Again, bbe thankful for that. The younger people coming in are way smarter. Many of them will not have kids to be a SAHM. They will raise pets as kids. Times have changed. They will sperate of things dont work out. It's all about choices. I see a lot of indian women who dress traditional, cook traditional food daily, gossip with other ladies 24/7, enjoy all the riches of the foreign world and then complain that Indians back home have it better. Like seriously?? First adapt, change yourself to accept the lifestyle. Eat healthier, exercise often, keep your mental and physical health under check. You can't sit in USA, eat rice everyday, watch Tamil movies every weekend only socialise with Indians and feel American. I am sorry this is what a newcomer would live like. Not a veteran.

@KK-sl1nk

4 ай бұрын

well said, unfortunately have seen veterans over 25 years of living abroad still are very much indian , deciding not to mingle with local american community,.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching my video

@lathanarayanan2842

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely you r right this is the first vedio am watching sainthavi’s my personal opinion is vinoth is somehow ok sainthavi is so frastated am 60 years my daughter is in seattle they r very matured both my children r in abroad only my son is in Australia our parents moved from villages n they suffered n grew up like that we r sending our children to grow better only as vinoth said correctly we r evolveing it will b thr b positive expecting better positive vedios

Hi Sainthavi, your videos are so close to my heart. I'm a domestic engineer, Some how I feel so depressed here in NJ. winter makes worst. what to do?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Kousalya, thank you your kind words. I too don’t like this cold weather. California is way better than east coast. I feel like watching TV shows like crown or some fast paced documentaries entertaining. Perhaps you could try to set the camera and talk to yourself on the camera and tell how you feel. Watch it after 1 day and you’ll feel better.

Wish you happy life

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks

You are talking about expenses. You have to talk about income also. After all these difficulties people continue there. It means there is something which worth it. Whats your opinion?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Answer is coming in a video soon thanks for watching

On an average what according to you may be a good range of salary to be earned in US let’s say in California or San Francisco or NYC to maintain a upper middle class lifestyle of a person in Chennai.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

$10k per month, rent is the biggest expense close to $3k in the cities you mentioned

U guys are lucky in our place a normal veg soup is 10 dollars

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Oh!

Very good upload. May I know which state you are in?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

California

Hi sister, saw ur both videos .no words..ovaru words um 200 %unmai..atleast ovvaru visayam kandippa link agum indha video va USA irundhu parkiravangaluku also outside USA..part 2 anna solra annaithu ennakaga solra mathri irundhadhu..(12:30 to 12:46 and 21:20 to 21:37) anna konja pesunalum correct ah solranga..thank you anna...those points I can relate myself...also worrying for that..as u said he buy what I want ..never involve myself anything..feeling very low..I'm H4 dependent so oorla ellarum job poga solranga ana EAD matter solli puriya vaika mudiyala...sister neenga sonna andha "Should prepare" ithula avalon meaning iruku I understood...Thank you sooooo much for this video...expecting more akka..keep smile❤

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you ma for the kind words.🥰 ❤️

Can you please give more info on forming trust

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

We already did I think I’ll do it once again

Please talk about forming a trust. We have done a will but wonder why we have to create a trust.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Will do

Highly recommend new comers who are planning to come or thinking to come abroad especially their parents to watch this useful frankly spoken video for sure. Thank you Saindhavi to you and your husband truly relate to every single word you spoke 🙏🤝It is definitely not a cake walk reality hits very hard that too when you are in abroad ennadhan homework A-Z pannitu vandhalum out of syllabus inga roimbavey athikama parpoim kathukkuvoim. 😊

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for the compliment and encouragement 🤗 ❤️

Talk about you settlement plan akka...? USA or India what's your plan!!?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Filmed answer to this, coming soon

At last, viewers mind: sainthavi akkavayum kovapaduthi pathityae paratai” ( patha vaechtiyae paratai) Totally just kidding sis. Love you and Anna always. Take care.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks 🙏🏽

Hello San you were 200% correct whatever you said . I don’t really understand how people correctly misunderstand such a brutally honest statement. Always some people like fake things . People please understand it’s not India vs America . It’s expectation vs reality Her whole point is to create awareness about the ground reality of US life for the new comers not for the ones who have faced all the struggles and have been successful here .many people including myself thought US as heaven like shown in GVM movies but in reality if you are starting from scratch you have to face lots of struggles from the commute via car pool, running to Indian stores n Walmart n Costco saving and counting money do your own household works etc. vs in India if you are in a middle class still you have more sophisticated lifestyle . Of course in US over a period of time when you gain experience or you get used to this kind of lifestyle then you are all set .

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for reflecting our experiences here and reiterating it. ❤️ 🤗 for standing by me.

Truly said sain,living in abroad is kind of,you sacrifice something and get something else,life is not as easy for everyone.simply i can say for ppl dream about US "That side of land is greener than this side."its been more than 15 yrs living here still i don't feel comfortble in US..wherever you go Hometown is always a best place.. Reply

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

I agree Deepa ❤️

@RamyashreeBECOMEAFINISHER

4 ай бұрын

Please don't take my comment as offence. I have heard many people like the one you have commented above that India is comfort and there is so much struggle abroad...... Then what motivated you to live fir 15 years abroad?

@savithrigeetharaju1166

4 ай бұрын

So many reasons ......One of them might be Husband is working here.I am sitting here for 23yrs just becoz he is working he loves to be here i am home maker try doing volunter just like Sainthavi.I also did part time job ....MY heart is always towards India where i grew up

Have a suggestion - it’s ok to give examples of how foreign applicants misuse the system but don’t say you know them 😊… uscis has a watch around all sorts of information.. unfortunately people think ICE or USCIS won’t investigate.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks

Here domestic help pay rises to 15000 rs. Current charge 15000 rs for 2 months.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Ok

@radhikakumar2331

4 ай бұрын

Yes.. They cant accept that.. I pay 11k every month for house keeping!!

I live here in US on my own I had to vomit today due to food some mess up. I had to cleanup washbasin after sometime when I felt better

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

I’m sorry you have to deal with it. Hope you feel better ❤️‍🩹 soon

@jayamalinivenkatasubram3679

4 ай бұрын

@@SainthavisKitchen I am good thanks 😊

@vinthiya

4 ай бұрын

Omg, how spoiled are you that someone else has to clean up after you? Honestly, you guys think help or maid will walk around you with a towel and mop?

@jayamalinivenkatasubram3679

4 ай бұрын

@@vinthiyaI think admin has to see how to keep this channel positive

@vinthiya

4 ай бұрын

@jayamalinivenkatasubram3679 I am sorry for your level of sensitivity. The admin also replies to people's comments like this. So I doubt if that's negative. 🤷‍♀️ And back to what I meant. If you choose to live abroad you have to develop a level of independence. It's this or that. I have never had someone clean my vomit. I am 40. 23+ years in Canada. So I am sorry if you expected someone else to clean up after you.

Now only I am watching your channel, I watched both videos, but after hearing all, this is the reason why hippie culture was created and same india leave family become samiyar, I don't what not able to process, as now I haven't face any of that, but one thing I can get from the video is , if you stay back n your home country with good education job Or business try grow that, be a lion in your own dent.

Hello akka. I randomly came across your videos and could really relate myself with your POVs. Felt like talking to a sister/friend. I’m newly married and I’m moving to USA with my husband who’s in H1B. Can you please put a video about setting up and starting up a life in US as a new comer.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks ma 🙂 All the best and welcome to US. A video addressing your question is coming soon

Where are you going to settle after retirement???

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

No idea at the moment. Keep following me on this channel. We shall find that out together. Thanks

Intha video last year potrudha nan inga vandhurukamaten

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

I understand, hang in there life will get easier

@vigneshwarinatarajan8124

4 ай бұрын

Why blood same blood kadha dhan.

Dry clean pattu sprees only 120 rs only in Mumbai

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Super

when your property tax is 11000$ per annum since you are having computer knowledge why not you doing some job to reduce your housband financial expences. but it is your persional option.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Adhuku dhan Vinodh pakurarey velai

Please answer my question. What makes people to stay abroad with so much of struggle when there is comfort in India?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

It’s coming soon in a video stay tuned

@RamyashreeBECOMEAFINISHER

4 ай бұрын

@@SainthavisKitchen I am in Ireland now..... Came with lots of hope, excitement and making it sweet journey..... But it is painful tiring journey..... Sometimes loneliness as well...... Please speak about expat loneliness also in your next video

@lc2620

Ай бұрын

​@@RamyashreeBECOMEAFINISHERI was in Ireland too, felt depressed, lonely although my family was with me. Then left the country.

@RamyashreeBECOMEAFINISHER

Ай бұрын

@@lc2620 I get it. Where are you from?

Finally the school fees.. namma evlo save pannalum.. mothama we are paying to school.. tution.. etc

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Yes

Why are Indian ladies finding managing home and feeding the family so difficult because we stick on to the same dosa, idly and other things where ever we go. Look around your American neighbours they don’t spend too much time on food and are healthier than most of the Indian ladies ( they can hike a mountain ) our Indian staple is not as healthy as we proudly think . Our Indian ladies will be really empowered when we learn to put proper protein , carbs and fibre as westerners( grill some fish or chicken, salad and lil amount of carbs) which can be made in 15 minutes. Most of us spoil our next generation also by giving the same time consuming unhealthy Indian food . I have two daughters and I teach them to make a healthy plate with in 10 minutes so that they can focus on their other aspect of life . If I say this many of our fellow Indian ladies get offended. I live in Uk and my girls are very happy with my healthy simple cookings and they are not particular about rasam, sambar etc 😂. True women empowerment comes when you spend less time in kitchen . My perspective

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Good for you

@akilachandru9172

4 ай бұрын

Whatever you said was totally true and close to my thoughts, could you give me some recipes ideas that would save our time from cooking and also lead healthy living. Thanks!

@savithrigeetharaju1166

4 ай бұрын

So sorry here video is not cooking cleaning both boys & girls need to learn cooking cleaning ......teach them and nowdays there is NO HEALTHY FOOD ALL OVER THE WORLD ALL GMO whatever we are eating to just survive as human.

Mam Neenga sonnadhu seriously true, woman actually do double the job when it comes to handle the family and job Epadi panraanga apdinu naa niraiya naal yosichirukken Oru silaruku family support irukkum Maid kuda vachikkalam Neenga yaen Mam India laye settle aagala? Unga old videos paakala Ninga abroad la irukka mukkiyamaana reason?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

We wanted to give our parents good comfort retirement life sooner. Family commitments were there like settling siblings etc that’s why we came here. Now kids are older and no reason to move back

@vmv1544

4 ай бұрын

@@SainthavisKitchen Mmm okay Mam But if kids couldn't take Indian culture future .....roots would be disappeared, isn't mam?

Sr parents suffered lonely only six months allowed stay there America Sr parents pedekali lot of parents suffered in India my sister had 3 sons but they suffered in India with I’ll health ( sons in us)

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Oh ok

why you speak broken english and tamil. very hard to listen

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Because I have viewers who can understand thanglish

Mam neenga sonneenga la " Enaku vera option illa baby illaya nu ketaanga adhunala babies" nu "Actually en pasanga kitta marriage pannika vendaam nu solren, ready aana mattum Pannu" apdinu Apdi thaniya irukuradhu okay or babies vendaam nu ninaikraanga avunga thappa Namma parents kaga yaarume babies pethuka maataanga Avunga solranga apdinu yaarume pethuka maataanga Maybe silar dependency kaaga apdi solluvaanga

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Society oda pressure le irundhu no one can escape which is unnecessary tension

Are you planning to come India??

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

To visit yes

@radhikakumar2331

4 ай бұрын

Look at this femlaes attitude she has..

@radhikakumar2331

4 ай бұрын

Look ay the attitude of this woman such an arrogant female dunno their family members tolerate her phew!! ¡

31:00 750 rupees ah? 14 pieces ghee idly

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Yes

Life in u s romba hastam appa kadavula 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thanks for the comment

Now a days india has more skilled worker, i know many of my friends are unable to migrate in India, becauss they cannot get the jobs, (even for the salary that they convert from USD to INR using purchasing power parity)

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Oh ok

why cant you get your EAD

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30:05 9 lakhs property tax ah?🤷‍♂️ Unga own house ah madam?

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Yes we own this house

If we stop living an Indian way in a foreign country most of the work is done for example the Indian meals and Indian pooja and other things are too complicated . I focus on my family’s health. Regular exercise and kids education. Not much of tradition followed and life comparatively easy.. look at the way English ladies are managing. They don’t spend much time in kitchen. Follow that and half of the problem is solved

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Ok

@radhikakumar2331

4 ай бұрын

Indian Tradition vendam nu sollra?? Vekkamma illa?

@vinthiya

4 ай бұрын

​@radhikakumar2331 Yen avange vekapadanom. That's her opinion. If you choose to live abroad you have to adopt. Summa culturene peyirle you can't burn yourself out. Look at the people around you. Look at local food habits. How many South Asian people are getting heart attacks in recent times. All bad food habits and lack of exercise. Ithule culture mattum pothuma?

@malarm8038

4 ай бұрын

@@radhikakumar2331 Saying goes...When in Rome, do as Romans do. What's there to feel ashamed. One needs to adapt and integrate...something that might be a little challenging for you to understand and do. FYI lot of Indians living abroad are just as traditional as back in India.

I am surprised you complain about life abroad when absolutely everything you can imagine is available when it comes to food entertainment etc. and staying connected to loved ones is so easy with current technology. There are people who came to US more than 50 years ago when even Indian grocery was hard to find and Indian restaurants hardly any. Phone calls to home country were so expensive.I find your complaints very annoying when all you have to do is shell out some money to get the labor you need

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing your opinion

Sf

It’s a shame that you are unable to handle any negative comment, you don’t have the maturity to be on social media at all. Please grow up , when will you NRI’s stop the dollar 💵 to rupee conversion and say idli costs rs.750

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Stop judging!

Are you trying to justify women should stay at home? I usually like your videos. But the two videos are really judgemental, sterotypical and conveys an ungrateful tone.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching my videos

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

I’m very grateful for your rude & judgment comment

@kokilamuniandy1945

4 ай бұрын

Came across your channel by chance,and I’m hooked. Take care 💕

@radhikakumar2331

4 ай бұрын

​Learn to respect yourviewers or else dont post by asking your husband to​ hold the camera...😂😂@@SainthavisKitchen

@radhikakumar2331

4 ай бұрын

Audacity!!! Weight headed woman!

Every expenditures are met by her husband. My husband and me are working. I can’t imagine ladies sitting in house .

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

I don’t sit all the time but stand sometimes too

@hemakrishnan3456

4 ай бұрын

Love your reply sain😍@@SainthavisKitchen

U want only benefits of staying abroad without any hardships .. every one has a choice and u made yours. Parents need not take care of your kids and help you after a certain age...but you as their child definitely have responsibility to your parents...thats the least you can do to them ...coz they will not leave you on streets or give you up for adoption like most Americans do 8f they can't afford children..

@SainthavisKitchen

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching my video

Is Sainthavi is only a home engineer or also doing job outside the house ? Her mental suppression is because of doing house engineering. She has to go for at least a small job , part time . After the children grows to 8 to 10 yrs old, she can go for job . Her husband has encourage her to go to job. How many years she is in H4 . She has to study , do courses and go for job. Women are not slaves in home deceiving themselves as engineers.

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

Thank you for your unwanted free advice

You DON'T have to lecture people living in India.. Its you who choose to live abroad for money we are content in India and we want to pay our taxes to India not to any foreign land.. India is my mother land.. Dont sit somehwere and lecture us.. You left India for your life style and money.. We arent crazy for that living....

@SainthavisKitchen

4 ай бұрын

.

@radhikakumar2331

4 ай бұрын

😂😂 you are insane! ​@@SainthavisKitchen