Nta, step parents like that need realize that their step kid might not want that kind of relationship, and they shouldn’t push for it
@pheonix1336305 күн бұрын
NTA: Just because Sam is alive and in OP's life as a step-parent doesn't mean he can dictate how OP feels about him or sees him as a family member. Your Dad and Daddy *chose* to bring you into their family, they went through the journey of becoming parents together and would have happily raised you together if Daddy didn't sadly pass away before OP was born. Biology isn't the problem, it's Sam feeling entitled to being OP's parent because they married OP's dad and seems to want to completely take over OP's Daddy's place and using the fact he's dead and 'not your bio dad' as a 'reason' why OP should do what Sam wants. Emotional connections are never that cut and dry. Sam seems to want to completely take Daddy's place and is angry with OP for standing their ground and not letting Sam trample their own wants and wishes to please him. Sam is the AH, OP is in no way *obligated* to be adopted by someone they don't feel a parent/child connection with and it's telling that Sam brought this up to pressure OP when his Dad wasn't there. OP should tell their Dad what happened and how Sam's pressuring for the adoption and putting down Daddy's memory because that is all kinds of not ok. Putting down someone's *dead* parent because you want to replace them is sick and twisted.
@PaletiChinmayiChangkatch-do3do5 күн бұрын
Nta Sam need someone other than op to explain the situation so it can help but I think Nothing can change him
@Weirddragonpuppet5 күн бұрын
NATHA
@chopmoosey174 күн бұрын
NTA and tell your dad what sam keeps saying to you
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Nta, step parents like that need realize that their step kid might not want that kind of relationship, and they shouldn’t push for it
NTA: Just because Sam is alive and in OP's life as a step-parent doesn't mean he can dictate how OP feels about him or sees him as a family member. Your Dad and Daddy *chose* to bring you into their family, they went through the journey of becoming parents together and would have happily raised you together if Daddy didn't sadly pass away before OP was born. Biology isn't the problem, it's Sam feeling entitled to being OP's parent because they married OP's dad and seems to want to completely take over OP's Daddy's place and using the fact he's dead and 'not your bio dad' as a 'reason' why OP should do what Sam wants. Emotional connections are never that cut and dry. Sam seems to want to completely take Daddy's place and is angry with OP for standing their ground and not letting Sam trample their own wants and wishes to please him. Sam is the AH, OP is in no way *obligated* to be adopted by someone they don't feel a parent/child connection with and it's telling that Sam brought this up to pressure OP when his Dad wasn't there. OP should tell their Dad what happened and how Sam's pressuring for the adoption and putting down Daddy's memory because that is all kinds of not ok. Putting down someone's *dead* parent because you want to replace them is sick and twisted.
Nta Sam need someone other than op to explain the situation so it can help but I think Nothing can change him
NATHA
NTA and tell your dad what sam keeps saying to you