No, not in the wrong, doesn’t matter where she’s from, boundaries are boundaries and you have every right to have said that, she shamed you in front of others, you shamed her in front of them too. If she can’t handle the cards she dealing, she shouldn’t be the dealer of the deck. What goes around comes around to bite you in the butt.

@littlemisstink921

Ай бұрын

I could never be friends with someone like that. It just screams insecure, immature, and possible self loathing. My best friend is absolutely beautiful and she’d never even think about saying something like that to anyone…privately or publicly.

@lunarose845

25 күн бұрын

@@littlemisstink921 exactly

@ameliamagno3279

11 күн бұрын

TV​@@littlemisstink921

NTA your friend just learned that actions=consequences. You can't run around talking smack about other people's looks and not expect them to return the favor.

NTA she’s over stepping boundaries

@anndownsouth5070

Ай бұрын

True beauty and attractiveness come from the inside, and her inside is very ugly.

When you look at it objectively she was bullying you. The reality is that she was more than willing to say derogatory things about you in front of these people so you gave her a taste of her own medicine. If she can’t take it she shouldn’t dish it out. As an aside, many models are picked because they are unnaturally thin (sample size) and tall (allows the clothes to drape well) and most have striking / unusual looks not true beauty. They have a certain bone structure that professional make up can morph. To value people’s worth purely by the way they look is terribly misguided. To denigrate people because of their dna driven looks is deplorable, especially when they are no Aphrodite themselves.

If you talk down to others, it’s time you expect the same. I’d rather people be mean than shield me from criticism and then pity me behind my back.

I've never been the bigger person 😂 honestly being the "bigger person" is just letting people bully you and you should never ever let anyone talk to you like that im happy you said she looked like a sad horse nta

Don't dish what you can't take 🤷‍♀️

anyone notice that laugh 💀

@littlemisstink921

Ай бұрын

Yes. I absolutely hate it. Even worse when it does the “ahhhh”

@Peoplecanhaveopinions

Ай бұрын

LOL YEAH

NTA. She crossed your boundaries and pushed it with her unhealthy obsession. She needed a taste of her own medicine as petty as it might sound

What the friend did certainly was not right but I feel like there are better ways to handle it, things like that can seriously mess a person up and going off the rest of the context it seems pretty clear that she’s already super insecure, it probably would’ve been better to simply drop her as a friend rather than insult her but I do agree with the comments saying to not dish out what you can’t take

If you can’t take it, then don’t dish it out. If it hurts her feelings then tell her it’s a taste of her own medicine. Words hurt and she needs to choose hers carefully from now on.

Be the bigger person if you want, but grinning and bearing it isn’t going to make her stop. She was being incredibly, and unnecessarily rude, and somebody had to tell her. I don't really care what backwoods little crevice she clawed her way out of, she should understand basic etiquette by now. I see no reason she had to pick at your body to build up her cousin, and I don't see why the cousin couldn't have said anything either.

Lmfaoooooo do it again!!!!!

classic case of being able to dish it out but not take it.

She played stupid games and won stupid prizes. NTA she had it coming.

Hope she knows that’s not a friend.

I think she was in the wrong for saying those things to you and about you. It would be wrong no matter what. Your worth comes from the Lord Jesus Christ, not from other people calling you pretty. However, i dont think it was very good to get on her level and insult her in the way she did to you. I know that she should learn boundaries but she can learn them in a different way. She may not know how hurtful her words can be to others.

Womp womp...

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