I found my birth mother and she didn't want to meet me. True story. She hid the birth from her 8 kids and xhusband. Glad I have such wonderful parents who adopted me.

@truthseeker5109

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad to hear that you were adopted by wonderful and loving parents. It is too bad that your birth mother doesn't want to meet you. I hope that you won't ever think on that with any negative connotation to yourself - she is living out her own pain and trauma, which doesn't have anything to do with you, it's about her limitations and struggles. I'm sorry that you had to experience that loss and her rejection, but I hope you won't let it make you feel down. Someone who doesn't care enough to meet you, you are probably better off without, anyway. I'm so very grateful to loving individuals who offer love and genuine care to children, even if they aren't 'biological' it makes all the difference in the world. I wish you all the best.

@robbiesharp311

2 жыл бұрын

@@truthseeker5109 Thank you. Yes I was in my late 20s and my sister called her. I was crushed for a day. She has since passed. I didn't even cry. Im married now and have many many perfect days.

@truthseeker5109

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad to hear that you have a family of your own and have happiness. Thank you for sharing your experience, I think the world becomes a better place when people show empathy and share their stories so that we all know we aren't alone when life gives us pain. I haven't experienced what you have, but had cousins who were adopted, so I saw some of this from the sidelines. I hope for you and your family every blessing!

@carlafulton2473

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry, it may have been for the best. You ended up with loving parents and family.

@redleaderone8429

11 ай бұрын

I have a boy that doesn’t want to know me

Like Holly, I always knew I was adopted. My adoptive parents told me everything and even gave me my adoption papers with names of my birth parents and my one brother. When I was 14 I got a small motorscooter and got around in the city beyond my usual haunts. I started to be mistaken for someone in a particular area of the city. My brother was a year younger than me. I told my parents and they cautioned me that he might not know if he was adopted. I got someone to introduce me at a public swimming pool to him. After a few other times he took me to his house. His adoptive mother had passed by that time. When I walked in the house with him, his father almost had a heart attack. As my brother and I played board games, his father kept watching me. After I got home that night I got a phone call. All I heard was, "You're my brother!"

@MsFoxy2011

Жыл бұрын

Oh my god!!!! Don’t leave us hanging. Then what happened afterwards? What an interesting story! I want to hear more..

@bryanlb4987

Жыл бұрын

@@MsFoxy2011 We spent many good times together for years. He passed away a few years ago from diabetes. He had different interests than me. I enjoyed sports and he enjoyed geology. One time we were playing baseball and he was on first base. A ball went by him without him noticing. He was looking at something in his hand. I walked over and asked what he was doing. He showed me a small rock he'd picked up and told me what time period it came from. After that when we were together it was either going to the movies or swimming at a local pool. He was the best man at my wedding.

@julianpang9999

Жыл бұрын

@@bryanlb4987 that is an incredible story. im so glad you found your brother, may he rest in peace!

@rebeccamace1534

8 ай бұрын

What a beautiful story. I’m so happy for you both that you were able to build a close relationship and made wonderful memories together ❤️ may your brother rest in peace

@rosewife495

3 ай бұрын

May he rest in peace

She looked so so young yet was so mature for 15. Bless you

@charlesmorg5677

Жыл бұрын

What a beauty

In such grim times, this story truly brought tears to my eyes. Rarely does life is filled with such beautiful people.

This is one of the better adoption stories that I have heard since 4 ever ago. Kind and inspirational.

@TRIPYXmusic

Жыл бұрын

Same here

I could never. My son is my everything he's 2 months now so glad I waited to have a kid @28. Glad she gave him up tho n not throw him in the trash like some other crazy mothers do smh

What a beautiful story! 🇨🇦

I hope my son comes to find me one day. I know where to find him but that’s not my place.

@simplyp5521

Жыл бұрын

As adoptees we don’t feel that way. I know it’s scary but only you know why you placed him. We want to be found and know our first mothers cared about us. 💕

@sweetypie9711

Жыл бұрын

Contact him. You will be the missing piece in his life he may be searching for. God bless you both x 🥰

Such a great story, brought tears to my eyes.

This is sooo touching. Praying for them to get acquainted.

I loved another story where a hospital nursed adopted a 14-year-old girl in foster care and her baby, Like this woman, she had no means of a way to support her baby but did not want to give him up, she did not have to. She legally became his sister.

Knowing I will be separated from my granddaughter has broken my soul.. but some day we will find each other again God willing ❤… love and protect your children please

I was adopted, born June 7th, 1983 if anyone knows anything. Long shot but I have no info so I put it out there on here every now and then.

@DoctorSuezz

2 жыл бұрын

@Jkword DNA TESTS CONNECT FAMILIES

@zzzroxyzzz

2 жыл бұрын

@@DoctorSuezz I know, and I will eventually do it, it costs around a hundred, right now I'm a foster mom to two boys from an unconventional emergency situation so every last dime I have is going to them. When things get back to normal I planned on doing it.

@j.g.t7006

2 жыл бұрын

Try Ancestry DNA Sometimes they are having sell

@bloomthrive9179

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you💜💜💜🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💐💐💐💐💐

@zzzroxyzzz

2 жыл бұрын

@@j.g.t7006 yeah I know they do it a lot around Christmas so I'm hoping this year I can swing it.

❤🙏⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘💞💜💜 I'm glad these families fan and then I'm glad these family came together as one because they were taken away when it was the babies there is broken hearts and they would thicken the families away in their children and then when they was a little babies this is not right in this is still going on lot of missing children is missing still this day we need to fight for our rights we need to fight for our children and we need to stand up for the government and then stay there and we need to fight all the way the Spring Court they believe in yourself God bless you and God be with you God bless and upon you don't go back where you came from stay and with your mom and dad and build a wonderful relationship and lots of love does people really hate people they kidnap children and you don't care they kidnap the tiny babies awesome so I wish they go to prison the rest of their lives and never get out even the clientele we need nothing now who's and did this they need to find out who kidnapped them have them all arrested prosecuted in prison I just want to say gratulations to the mother and also the son in the father innocence wife and children grads Elations to you lots and celebration and lots of wonderful love to give it to each other lots of tears and happiness and Glory remember have the Lord in your heart don't let him down don't believe in whatever people say because I'm so great grateful your son got hold this

So glad we didn’t adopt out my 15 year old’s baby girl. She’s been the best. I raised her but her mother is in her life too.

Beautiful ❤

stories like this makes me proud to be prolife

Anyone seen the musical bright star. this is just like it.

“Very since we discovered the truth…we’ll we just pretend one particular day inside a broom closet after a long shift never occurred”

God bless and in his timing they were reunited. I am assuming with the Google search his phone number was available with the Google search? It's a good guess of her to assume that it was a good current phone number?

your mother is the one that raised you.. your grandma, your aunt, your big sister.. whoever... raised you is your MOTHER! Thats the kind of respect they deserve for raising you!!

@peachygal4153

Ай бұрын

If you watched his you would Know his MOTHER was happy for him to meet his birth mother because she had empathy for the young teen giving up her child because at 15 she had no means of a way to support him; the same girl who had picked her out of a list of people wanting to adopt to be his mother. I believe you must be projecting your own insecurities here.

I would get mad tbh

Has he met his biological father. Obviously she didn’t have the child by herself?

But nobody gives a f... about biological father and I would love to know who he is because she was 15 and pregnant

@meahdahlgren6537

10 ай бұрын

❤

women really suck, give up your kid then come back after someone else raised them, if a man did this they would call him a deadbeat.

@truthseeker5109

2 жыл бұрын

But every situation is different, sometimes it might be the wrong thing to do, and in other situations it might be the right thing to do. If it helps with healing the adopted person's life, then I'm all for it. I watched my cousins go through similar situations. To one it meant so much to them to find out what their story was, and to understand what happened with their birth parents - it helped them with their identity and showed them that it didn't have anything to do with the biological birth parents 'not wanting them' but more about how circumstances were very difficult, and I think my cousin gained a deeper appreciation for their adoptive parents through the experience. And another of my cousins had no desire to meet their biological parents, and that is perfectly fine, too. I'm just grateful that if an individual (or couple) knows they can't make a life for their child, that they have the option of adopting them out to someone who will love and care for them. It's not an easy situation, but hopefully it is better than some alternatives.

@RealJudyi

2 жыл бұрын

There's also fathers who never knew they had a son/daughter and or were never even given a chance to decide anything for the babys future

@gingergail7849

2 жыл бұрын

Such a selfless act, placing a child for adoption, that they may have a proper upbringing; and the ultimate gift to parents seeking to adopt.

@sgtmian

Жыл бұрын

i think what would suck would be to keep him knowing you couldn’t give him everything he deserved. a deadbeat is someone who just walks away and doesn’t care. doesn’t matter if it’s the mom or the dad. she lovingly placed him with someone else because she wanted him to have everything. there’s nothing deadbeat about that.

@junglesuperstar9270

Жыл бұрын

@@RealJudyi do they know about condoms