I'm their mother not their friend. Hate me all you want but you will survive life safe and unharmed.

@altnarrative

2 ай бұрын

Agree with the sentiment entirely but literally noone survives life

@YEALANDS2024

2 ай бұрын

@@altnarrative then how are we here if no one survives life?

@jimmys6566

2 ай бұрын

Chesterton said, around 95 years ago, that when we stop standing for something we will fall for anything

@shannonsayshi

2 ай бұрын

Is that what you got out this? That she was being "friends" with her daughter?

@YEALANDS2024

2 ай бұрын

​her second sentence was so many parents won't speak out for fear of harming their relationship with their child. I'd rather not have a relationship with my child and have them unharmed. Maybe listen before you troll.

Thank you for telling your story. This madness needs to stop

I didnt kill myself. Because adults ignored me and my beliefs. I was given the address of who to contact and i was cross as i thought that they would help to get me turned into a man. That tgey would come to my aid. But the one think that made me so angry and disappointed as a school aged teen, is one thing i am so grateful for now. It is the way that these children are being exploited that is causing them distress. They are being told that their feelings are permanent and are offered only one way out of their confusion and feelings of being different. A final solution. Despite my knowing exactly what i wanted and not being able to be talked out of it as I was certain i would never change, never want children, i did in fact eventually change. And i have 2 children Be aware that a girl with autism will feel a wild range of craziness as they are full of fears, confusion and hate. And they have a boldness and determination to do it their way.

@jayjaychadoy9226

2 ай бұрын

Very well put!

@SangHeeCha

2 ай бұрын

Similar story here ✋ glad you made it through the dangerous Zone safely 🫱🏾‍🫲🏽

@kt1696

2 ай бұрын

God Bless you. It breaks my heart to that people like you are being manipulated for profit by evil people. I'm so happy to hear your story has a happy ending... ♥️

Thanks for sharing. It's a cult, no other words for it.

@SkunkApeMeg

2 ай бұрын

100% a cult. This is exactly how cults work.

@_munkykok_

2 ай бұрын

Mafia, fascism, collusion, corruption, scamocracy, evil, idiocy, tragedy, apocalypse, etc. There's plenty of words for what's going on. As there's plenty of f'd up stuff going on, sadly.

@garymelchisky2880

2 ай бұрын

Cults try to separate their victims from the people who actually care about them and can try to make them see reason. And that's exactly what trans activists, and now the medical profession and schools do. They try to separate the child from their parents, the people who actually care about the child. The school, the trans-activists, and the medical "professionals" only care about the child as a thing, as a recruit.....they don't actually care. It's sickening that large segments of society are falling for this and supporting this.

Thank you for sharing. I share your pain. I look at my son and I dont see him there in his eyes. It is like he is overtaken my this ideology. I pray everyday sonething happens to snap him out of it. It feels very dire but i will never give up hope that my son will return. You are an amazing mom. I truly appreciate you sharing❤

@biruss

2 ай бұрын

How old is he

Another heart breaking story. It's hard to listen to how everyone failed this loving mother and her daughter, but needed.

@mr.mclibtard5015

3 ай бұрын

Cringe

@YigalWeinstein

3 ай бұрын

@@mr.mclibtard5015 I didn't realize it was so hard to block trolls on YT. Thanks for reminding me.

@mr.mclibtard5015

2 ай бұрын

@@YigalWeinstein cringe af

@CrakenFlux

2 ай бұрын

she failed on her own acct. be a mother, darn you, the containment principle... you are not her friend. She is your responsibility.

Love to you Jude. I'm another Australian Mum in the same boat with a similar story.

@jayjaychadoy9226

2 ай бұрын

Best to you from 🇨🇦

@francishooper9548

2 ай бұрын

My I suggest you seek contact with each other and people in a similar situation. With WPATH being exposed as a activist group and not a medical organisation I can see a class action comingto pass.

@nicolepreou6754

2 ай бұрын

@@francishooper9548 I have. Very similarly to Jude. Coersion is a personality disorder.

My heart goes out to this mum, and all mums in similar situations, and to all your families. I cannot even phantom. This movement has to be stopped. Exposed.

I am so sorry that this happened to you. My own daughter went through a terrible phase of not really knowing who she was. At that time the transgender movement had not taken off, so after a couple of agonising and stressful years with mental health counselling she came out of it and is fine and happy now. God knows what might have happened to her today with all these horrible influences. I really feel for you. I hope your family finds peace

My story is so similar only that my sons (2 of 4) were already in their 20s so I was immediately cut off. I have been gagged by day one and treated like garbage by family and friends ever sense. The world is like a twilight zone and everyone has been taken by the borg. Your story breaks my heart because I am so aware at how broken your heart is. 🥺😢

@biruss

2 ай бұрын

Aren't adults mature enough to figure it out what theyare

@grixlipanda287

2 ай бұрын

Tell that to 911 victims of the Jonestown massacre. They were mature and they still drank the coolade and made their children drink too.

@LDaw_96

2 ай бұрын

@@biruss nope they are not. They are hit with mountains of propaganda, and lies on social media, Reddit, twitch… and because of cell phones and texting they don’t really know how to communicate. Many have been spiritual abused by internet porn from a very young age…. I mean look at how many people actually voted a dementia patient in as President (not counting dead people). Does it look like people are making rational decisions to you?? The new paradigm of “you do you” will be the distraction of civil society. What about being a good citizen? Honoring your family? Doing the right thing? Our children have lost all that and have become complete narcissists. Most are not having children of their own. My kids generation will cause the collapse and it will be the first to not even replace themselves. I promise…. There is NOTHING good that will come out of the trans movement. It is like a mind and heart virus.

@amyb.6368

2 ай бұрын

@@biruss Brain doesn't stop growing until 25. Most mental health issues that resolve through maturation don't resolve until age 27. So you tell me.

@biruss

14 күн бұрын

They new they had dysphoria. Not teens

Adolescents with typical problems of becoming adults are being treated as though they are needing to get weird ways of adjusting because we are always crazy in our teens.

My heart is breaking for Jude and her entire family. Adolescence is a confusing and emotional time for anyone, including the parents. I know what it is like to be unable to get the medical help your child needs, and to wait months for a doctor you have great hopes for, only to find they have no answers. I hope and pray with all my heart that Jude and her daughter are able to overcome the odds against them and that no lasting damage has been done to this poor, confused young woman and her relationship with her mother and family. Our society is sick, and we must return to sane, proven traditions that support the family or we are doomed.

What a wonderful, bright, intelligent supportive mother….god bless you and your courage to speak out 🙏

@CrakenFlux

2 ай бұрын

supportive of the wrong things. did you notice how it did not work out? Supportive of what? I thought and felt a million crazy things before mid twenties. people do not finish growing their cognitive abilities till 25. Parents are going to have to grow a pair. or accept chaos and failure.

They will discard them as soon as they question anything about this ideology.

I think the algorithm is against Genspect! I'm so sorry this poison has affected your family. I have a young family and your courage will hopefully help keep us safe. THANK YOU! Sending 💕

Mental illness is a very tough thing. It’s so hard on everyone.

Just listening to your story demonstates the love you have for your child, and fiercely fighting for her at tremendous cost to your own health....I hope one day your daughter will see the battle you are still fighting to keep her healthy and close to your family. Love and respect to you for being brave enough to tackle those who are short sighted and ignorant to the truth in the medical profession.

@samanthathompson9812

2 ай бұрын

Well said.

Stay strong. Thank you for your testimony.

This is very powerful!

Heartbreaking

Thank you Jude for telling this heartbreaking story

I would suggest to Jude that if she has the names of any of the staff whom she feels belittled her she should complain to their registration authority and she should obtain a copy of the WPATH files and provide the relevant hospital with a copy and demand a apology. She should also take the matter up with er local MP. Having worked for many years in the Australian Mental Health Services I know they are frighten of controversy particularly if a polititian is involved.

What a powerful tragic story. Thank you for speaking out. This appalling experimentation on children must stop!

@AndyJarman

2 ай бұрын

Only, experiments are devised to discover the truth, this is devised to perpetuate a lie. It's an abusive cult, a death cult.

This is heartbreaking. Thank you for telling your story. I so hope your daughter will be ok and your relationship will heal. 🧡

Thanks for sharing with us. Sounds like any anxiety or emotional problem of teenagers is link to a gender identification problem which is a very simplistic answer.

@jayjaychadoy9226

2 ай бұрын

So far I’ve noticed its a lot about the money to be made for surgery. I mean some children have bad parents, not often though.

I’ve been lucky enough to have known some great mothers over the years including my own. You are right up there with the greatest of them. Bless you. x

Absolutely heartbreaking 😢

Such a brave woman, thank you for sharing your experience.

heartbreaking, I hope you and your daughter find a way back. I don't have children, but somehow, in my small area of North London, I think I now know about 15 'trans' kids... and people don't think its social contagion - its criminal whats happening.

As a parent, what I don't get is if a doctor told me that I would think the doctor had lost its mind, I would not believe said doctor. We weren't born yesterday. I would get my child help if I feared for said child's life but not the help they're pushing.

@ArtU4All

2 ай бұрын

Easy for you to say. I have read stories where a child “separates” from their parents through the court. Parents lose parental rights. I have no idea the logistics of how (by whom?) such child would be financially supported.

I hope more people hear your story, Jude. Thank you for telling it to us.

There is so much harm being done in government funded organisations, almost especially in Australia sadly.

@_munkykok_

2 ай бұрын

Bad news, there's lots of corruption and harm being done by governments all around the world, sadly. (Condolences to Australia, but it's no exception.) #SystemicEvil, #GlobalEvil, #WorldWideGovernmentalAndCorporateCollusion

Thank you for sharing your story. Prayers for you, your family, and your daughter. Your voice is important to ending this medical malpractice. We stand with you.

Thanking God for your speaking out! Praying for restoration!

Jude Keep up the fight. The tide will change if we do not stay silent.

Thank you Jude. Your courage in never giving up on your daughter is admirable. You are an inspiration to many.

Science knows hormone blockers can contribute to depression. Sadly this mother will be one of many.

Thank you for sharing your heartbreaking story. Prayers.

Thanks!

Beyond disturbing

Thank you so much.

So if the kid transitions and still commits suicide can we blame all the fanatics and doctors?!

@M_Candour

2 ай бұрын

And the stats go up after surgical transition.

Testosterone will cause anger fits why aren't doctors discussing this? Imagine a dude taking steriods but a woman on hormones. Same thing.

@Mdaisydoodle

Ай бұрын

Not to mention risks of liver cancer, with testosterone. Bone density issues. Also being sterile, and loss of sex drive. Like they don't realize the long term consequences.

My friend has grandchildren. 6 and 9. So far no trouble. But I have put my friend on alert about what is happening in schools about t-g. The children’s mother is of sort of progressive mindset with woke friends. So, I am doing my friendly due diligence alerting my friend to keep her grandkids safe and I started sharing Genspect material with her.

@testerbend9473

2 ай бұрын

Excellent. We all have to do this. This stuff is well advanced in America so there is plenty of information online.

@ellyw7201

2 ай бұрын

Bless you for doing this!

This is the only reason I can think of that makes me eternally grateful that I was never blessed with a child even though I tried with so much desperation - I would not have a positive response to such announcements from a child of mine and things would end badly, I hope things work out for all the parents who are forced to deal with this gender ideology nonsense, it's heartbreaking to hear these stories, and all the practitioners behind this nonsense need to be stopped, with licenses revoked and they should all be prosecuted and sued and then jailed, and the entire practice of gender reassignment should be forever banned across the board

Thank you❤

I was a mental patient as a 13 year-old. I think it was a combination of a late puberty and unrealistic athletic expectations. It has been over 50 years since then. I've been through college, served in the armed forces and reserves, gotten a masters degree and had two successful marriages as well as a good career. I could not explain what happened at the time and not fully now. Some things just have to be lived through.

@biruss

2 ай бұрын

You weren't truly trans

@amyb.6368

2 ай бұрын

​@@biruss What does that have to do with anything?

So heartbreaking, I hope your daughter finds her real family and those who truly love her once again. Wishing you strength and love ❤

Wow you have been so brave everything you did to help your daughter. I had a similar experience that is our daughter at 18 announced to us that she was transgender. What a horrible experience for the family.

Maam i am so sorry. You are a great mother. Please never give up

If you have to protect someone from potentially harming themselves, what is that called?

@jayjaychadoy9226

2 ай бұрын

Love 💕

My heart is breaking for this mother. Thank you for being brave, in spite of being shamed and bullied by professionals.

Is there any medication more inappropriate for emotional instability than testosterone?

Schools are BY LAW required to AFFIRM the gender transition without PARENT CONSENT. This is a FACT.

Very similar story here with my daughter, but I held the line and reinforced my loving statement ‘I could never support the idea that you were born wrong’ she’s out of it now but says that if I’d gone along with this, she would have gone down the medical route. Rather a daughter who hates me, than a daughter who is rejected as wrong and supported in mutilation practices.

Thanks for sharing😢

Good Lord, what a barbarous approach to FOSTERING, instead of CONTAINING all the teenage angst!

What a persevering Mom. 😭 Alienation and isolation is a symptom of addiction. Is gender dysphoria considered an addiction? There are so many possible addictions. Drs don’t know much about addictions, hence many are addicted to different things themselves. Twelve steps can be helpful with addictions, but typically the individual needs to seek the help not, others for them. It’s considered a spiritual programme, but not religious. I’m in Canada, but you sound further along than me in dealing with all these issues, so thanks for speaking out. Jordan Peterson advised not to call surgery ‘top’ & ‘bottom’ surgery. Use the actual names they are called by. What do you think of that? I’m horrified by, and it is very personal to me all that is going on. Not to be flip, but I just learned that trans is an ancient concept. See: Ishtar.

I'm in Australia and as a mother, I feel your pain

Jesus Christ this is a horrific story. I can't believe what this mom and family have been through. What a terrible failure on the part of "health care professionals". Everyone who supports this "model of care" needs to listen to these stories. They are all too familiar.

Please identify her as a mother. We trans widows (channel in the name of the handle here) know that the erasure of women is woven into the "trans cloth."

Having thought some more about the daughter's obvious mental health issues, is this: Why are these issues interpreted as being caused by "being born in the wrong body"? There are people who are born without limbs, people who have lost (perhaps even worse, because they know what they have lost) limbs or senses. They rarely display behaviour like this.

Buck Angel talks to a lot of people who've changed, some very sad stories indeed.

Now that I have seen it all: What a mother! She has done what she could. As for ACON an other institutions: They are a bit like UNWRA - 100 % not impartial. That is unworthy of state (and international) institutions.

I applaud your bravery in the face of this insanity. It now has spread to all four corners of the globe.

False analogy. The self deletion rate doesn't change after medical butchery.

@M_Candour

2 ай бұрын

Actually it is higher. Harvard Medical stopped doing gender reassignment surgery 20 years ago because they said it made no difference. I believe it was from 30 years of clinical data. That really says something.

@biruss

2 ай бұрын

​@@M_Candoursource

Freedom to make an adult decision is a two way street. My parental freedom to choose to say "bye".

@biruss

2 ай бұрын

So If they have been through all the screening and other treatment and are dysphoric, you'd disown them?

@seraeggobutterworth5247

2 ай бұрын

@@biruss “all the screening”🙄 15, or even 10 years ago, sure, but now that’s a sad joke.

@biruss

2 ай бұрын

@@seraeggobutterworth5247 I agree on THAT.

What a moving, powerful recounting of the trans-nightmare your family has experienced. Thank you so much for sharing your story. This trans-cult is so far beyond anything I could even have imagined. I'm glad people are waking up to it and pushing back but it is truly tragic that our children are being sacrificed for this hideous movement.

Well spoken, mom. 😊

I wish I could hug this woman and tell her everything is going to be alright - but all I can do from here is send a comment. 🤗 This simultaneously make me sad & angry. Sad for her, and angry at the people doing this. This is all driven by activists- this is NOT about money. Anyone profiting is doing so incidentally, just by being opportunists taking advantage of something that fell in their lap. You can tell by how countries with socialized medicine or National healthcare services don’t “profit” from any of this. It costs them money, and takes finite resources away from patients who have real physical health problems. This is a mental health issue if anything- being promoted by far left activists who want to destabilize society by screwing up kids and anyone else they can. They are engaging in a Maoist cultural revolution with western characteristics. I’m afraid it’s going to take drastic, direct action against the people performing these procedures, and those promoting them. Otherwise it’s GAME OVER.

Jude Tune into a new network by Dr Phil starting beginning April. He is going to tackle this crap head on. This stuff is well advanced in America.

I hate that they have co-opted the term 'chosen family'. I was left with PTSD and other medical disabilities from my family and had to cut them out for the sake of my physical welfare and sanity. I now have chosen family and the relationships are healthy and I am loved just for being me. Not happy Jan!😡

I'm an old woman and so grateful I grew up in the days girls could just be tomboys!

❤😢❤❤😢😢

God bless this woman. I hate to say it, but accounts like this make me glad I never had kids.

Pray for your children. People today will put their trust in every thing except God. God is the best way, path. God is the answer.

I honestly think you should change this title?

Heartbreaking to hear. I dont have kids, but im terrified of the future. Especially for girls. They have no idea how disgusting this trans cult is and the real harm it is going to do for females on all levels. I hope and pray your daughter gets well and escapes this disgusting cult. 🙏

Heartbreaking. I have some questions about how their daughter was inducted into the trans cult. Was she allowed free access to the internet?

@ArtU4All

2 ай бұрын

Mother did state “she befriended a different group at school who had a few t-g”

Before listening to this, I have been thinking that mental illness leads to being susceptible to trans ideology (or exaggerated intersectional ideology). Now I am wondering if exposure to strange ideas creates or at least triggers mental illness.

@M_Candour

2 ай бұрын

You have a point. I have noticed many seem to be mentally ill but not actually have gender dysphoria. Perhaps acceptance of the ideology comes easily to someone with a mental illness because they think it gives them answers. Perhaps the outward manifestation of transition is when others are able to see the illness in a way that is very obvious. Not everyone manifests easily recognised symptoms to the average person when they are mentally ill or struggling.

@mademoiselledusfonctionell1609

2 ай бұрын

@@M_Candour I believe you are right. However, the daughter in this clip seems to have become much worse after entering into the trans universe. Perhaps it becomes a destructive spiral. The daughter of an acquaintance is autistic. Very obviously so - not just a bit square. In her upper teens, she suddenly "was trans", and risked being hurried along the path to transition. Luckily, her mother managed to convince the health system that it was just a silly idea. It is obvious that she looked for something that could explain why felt different (the reason, of course, being that she is autistic) - just anything that could be helped. It reminds me of a former (actually a great relief!) friend, who suffers from schizophrenia. In her youth, she convinced her best friend that the friend was the reason for her malaise, she has through the decades insisted that what she suffers from is depression, bipolar disorder, and (recently) bad connection to her father (my failure to understand this simply from her demeanor was her reason for ending the friendship) - anything that can be managed and carries less of a stigma. Very human. Not very helpful.

@M_Candour

2 ай бұрын

@@mademoiselledusfonctionell1609 That's what it looks like from my pov, there were already issues and the whole trans thing wasn't compatible with the real her so things got a whole lot worse. The actual stats for 'unaliving' actually go up after surgical transition so it also explains why transitioning is the answer for only a few - the few with actual gender dysmorphia.

@mademoiselledusfonctionell1609

2 ай бұрын

@@M_Candour There is a play and a film called Ångrarna, The Regretters, about two men (whose stories are real - they even played themselves in the film) who in 1967 and 1994 were "transitioned" to women but later (the play premiered in late noughties) regretted the operations. Imagine how hard it was to have a sex change operation in 1967. They underwent serious investigations before being allowed this kind of surgery. And even people from back then regret it. I am not saying it is bad for everyone. But I would like to reserve my judgement until I have seen many studies of long term outcome in mental and physical health.

It's a horrible cult.

As a parent of two young children, I have a real fear for their future. Our society has become sick and is spiralling into a reality denying cult.

@ellyw7201

2 ай бұрын

You're right about our society, but young children deeply believe what their parents tell them. If you have a boy, tell him "You are my little boy, and you're going to grow up to be a big, strong man like your daddy! It's wonderful that you're a boy, and I'm going to so proud of you when you grow up to be a good man like your daddy is! You're lovable and I'll always love you!" If you have a girl, give her a similar positive, loving message about being a girl and growing up to be a woman. Homeschool your children if you possibly can. Know their friends and their parents well. Keep your children off the internet unless you are sitting beside them and supervising what they see, hear, and read. Teach them to think critically about everything online. Don't let them have phones that access the internet before age 18; give them plain flip-phones. Keep them busy as teens with study, sports, arts lessons, and part-time jobs. If they want to hang out friends, make your house the place where the teens like to hang out, so you can hear what they're talking about. Warn your almost-teens that puberty is full of changes and mood swings and is often confusing and uncomfortable, but they can always come to you to talk and get things sorted out. Tell them that sometimes whole societies get things wrong and right now lots of people think crazy things about people being born in the wrong (boy or girl) kind of body. (Hopefully society will go sane about this again before your kids reach puberty!) Make sure your kids have other adults to talk to who agree with all these things you are teaching them. I hope these suggestions will be helpful to you. They are based on my hard-won knowledge of what's needed to keep kids out of trouble.

Oh 🐂💩!

You know there are 2 reasons for this, but I'll only mention the most obvious one. Spaying and neutering mostly Caucasian Homo sapiens for some weird reason.

First question to any specialist you take your kids should be: Secular humanism has failed. Do you see the ash and dust around us?

This woman is blaming her daughter for her son's anorexia? It seems the common denominator is actually you, Mom.

@ellyw7201

2 ай бұрын

Having a sibling as crazy-stressful as this girl could indeed make a young teen boy anorexic. It's extremely difficult for parents to completely protect their other children when one is this crazy. Undiagnosed metabolic issues cause a great deal of mental illness - read William Walsh's work in this field - but people aren't properly diagnosed and treated so the whole family suffers.

@TheaterPup

2 ай бұрын

@@ellyw7201 That doesn’t mean the parent should outright tell the sibling they are to blame.

God Bless you all, parents and troubled children. This is a wicked wicked, industry, that takes trouble children abuses them for profit.

Bless her heart. I have a daughter that is struggling with this. Hopefully we will not have to go through this. She just turned 21. She probably could get hormones if she really wanted to. She has mental health issues as well. Does everyone’s kids cosplay? Seems like this started happening shortly after. No previous symptoms of gender dysphoria

In my working-class/low middle class modest neighborhood, literally within one block, in 2018 one tall boy started dressing in pink and wearing make up, and a girl had the “top job”🫣🫢