Now that you got your comments back, we had to come thank you again, here! It was such a pleasure working with you and we hope to see you again!

@Ella-fv4hm

3 жыл бұрын

We love you guys!!!

@sagasjogren2994

3 жыл бұрын

absolutely love you guys!!

@MomMom-kc4ee

3 жыл бұрын

This video of you two made my day, and reminded me to stay positive which I have a hard time doing at times. Please do your best to ignore mean people.I am 68 years old and have never ever understood meaness.

@andieluke1366

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed! Was so happy I could finally comment on this video. You guys make me go awwww haha... love your channel too!

@calypso7636

3 жыл бұрын

I went straight to this video to send my support! I'm subscribed to you guys, your channel is so fun!

"She just has a way of making me feel like I'm sixteen again" That's so sweet and genuine.

@neveragetv

Жыл бұрын

Very positive Vibes

@alejandromoreno5056

Ай бұрын

that was totally corny

My wife is quadriplegic as the result of a car accident in 1984 - we just celebrated our 30th anniversary this summer. Watching this young couple makes me smile - my hopes for them are for as rewarding a life as a married couple as my wife and I have been blessed with. God bless 🙂

@sisterindeen8333

2 жыл бұрын

Youre very positive please start a youtube channel if possible

@melissacarthy5896

2 жыл бұрын

Gorgeous Charrisma

@GabbyTTran

2 жыл бұрын

Dunkleguy, wow, that is amazing. Kudos to you sir congratulations to you and your wife, as a disabled person who was born this way, this is a extremely beautiful video, I am so happy for Cole!

@TrulyYoursKelly

2 жыл бұрын

Wow. 1984 is a very long time ago and 1984 is the year that I was born and I am almost 38 years old.

@yvonneanders8547

2 жыл бұрын

❤️

This woman is GORGEOUS. She is so happy, so positive. What an inspiration this lovely couple is!

"She's cool..." With the blush. Oh my days he's still so smitten 🥰🥰🥰

Charisma is so beautiful. Her and Cole's whole union is just absolutely beautiful, they both seem like amazing people. I wish them the best of everything!

@cluster5116

2 жыл бұрын

They're so wonderful Keep it the way God ordained it to be. Love you both.

@neveragetv

Жыл бұрын

Beautiful couple..

My brother became a quadriplegic from the neck down at 26 yrs old and on a vent. (Bc his diaphragm was also paralyzed) I was his nurse and sister depending on the moment. When he saw this beautiful relationship, it gave him a lot of hope. They truly inspired him to want to try and live. He started doing much better after watching their channel. Sadly, he suddenly and unexpectedly passed away 2.5 years ago. We were extremely close and I miss him every day!

@ralucanelson5686

Жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss! Brakes my heart knowing, that he started to be hopeful, and than he passed away! I’m truly sorry for your and your families loss 😢🙏🏻

@farapipsqueek636

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry.

@woleysmoley3007

Жыл бұрын

I’m very sorry. He sounds like he was a good guy and deserved the best

@Purpleiciousbabe

Жыл бұрын

😮 hugs x! I am glad he had hope x

@motorheadforlife9431

Жыл бұрын

​@R Voit- She was talking about a ventilator machine. Her brother couldn't breathe independently due to the severeness his spinal injury. That's why he needed a ventilator or vent to help him breathe.

I just love how big they smiles get when they r thinking about each other

@RKupyr

11 күн бұрын

That's a really lovely observation .... and comment

Do not let ignorant people damage your relationship. I have been happily married to a ‘white man’ for 45 years! We have been racially slurred on many occasions, but LOVE prevails.

@madeleinempondo5682

2 жыл бұрын

Cole and Charisma, do.not let jealous people destroy your relationship they see deeply love light and many opportunities in your both life and they try to pull you guys down, be very careful. I love you guys ,l wish good luck.

@SaloniSingh19

2 жыл бұрын

amen

@sb416

2 жыл бұрын

People are hurting inside and that’s why they hurt others. Pay them no mind, 45 years is a long time to be together and your love for each other is beautiful 💕

@IkesPimpHand

2 жыл бұрын

Don't ever let people stand in between you and your love

@CeliaTyree

2 жыл бұрын

That's horrible and it sucks you have to go through that. Sending you lots of love and good wishes for your marriage xx

I'd disagree slightly on 'normal relationship' - it is very unusual to see so much mutual respect and such a deep connection between partners. I would call this an 'ideal relationship' instead... This really made me happy - diversity is indeed a blessing. Thank you for sharing your story guys! All the best

@omardatheyusfyusf3686

2 жыл бұрын

Dathe

@jeanineberna8458

2 жыл бұрын

Why can’t it be a normal relationship? Please update me on what’s normal? Normal is what the couple or individuals feel comfortable with. I absolutely know this because I am married to a quadriplegic & we met when he was already injured. Our love is ‘normal’, actually probably better than other ‘normal people ‘. So, 42 yrs later, I can brag about our life , it IS NORMAL!😜👍🏻💥🤗 Wake up, humanity!🤓

@TK-pm9mx

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeanineberna8458 as i said, it looks way too good to be ’normal’ - that’s why i named it ideal. At least i would like people to see something like that when i and my spouse interact and look at each other.

@jeanineberna8458

2 жыл бұрын

@@TK-pm9mx I am sorry, I think I misunderstood your comment. However, we can ask, what are normal relationships? They’re normal to the ones experiencing it!

@TK-pm9mx

2 жыл бұрын

@@jeanineberna8458 Jeanine, no worries and thank you for your kind reply! It is definitely true that we all define ’normal’ differently (or have different connotations) - for me, it is something average. And I would wish for everybody that their relationships be much, much better than that. Perhaps I also should be clear that in my opinion, disability definitely isn’t an obstacle for full, meaningful, compassionate and loving relationships.

We don't fall in love with a body- we fall in love with a soul. And that's a good thing because our bodies are constantly changing as we grow older each day and at any time any one of us can have something happen that impacts our body and renders it different then it used to be. Cole and Charisma are two beautiful souls that fell in love. They both have such a beautiful humility about them it is a pleasure to see such a lovely, kind and caring relationship!

@angeladavis1570

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@TheCalico72

2 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@rachelroberts2955

2 жыл бұрын

@@angeladavis1570 we ujm to

@walekengwira3468

2 жыл бұрын

Amen

@joycedominguez1828

Жыл бұрын

So very well said. Thank you.

Im 35 with the same injury as Cole (injured for 20 years), they remind me of how great life can be with the right person. Thank you 😊

@elip241

2 ай бұрын

may I ask how you got your injury? I hope you have found, or find, your right person. you deserve to be loved

@Kinmoonify

2 ай бұрын

@@elip241 I did the same thing cole did in a way, i dove in shallow water and bad stuff happened. Thank you for the love appreciate that

Bro I can’t get over how attractive they both are. Such gorgeous people

"Everyone is deserving of love" and they are so in sync and adorable

Shes truly one of those rare sweet people. She deserves all good things. Shes truly a kind person.

I love how hes throwing little jokes in there too. "I thought I just hit a nerve wrong. I did hit a nerve wrong, my spinal cord nerve." Idk why but that made me giggle the way he worded it

@OneMoreRedNightmare

2 жыл бұрын

I love when someone has the ability to laugh at themselves. It's good therapy, kinda frees you in a way.

They can’t keep their eyes from each other, this is what ‘in-love’ looks like, just beautiful!

These people saying that she couldn't have had 'any other white man if not a disabled one' and that 'he wouldn't be with her if he wasn't on a chair', HAVE THEY ACTUALLY LOOKED AT HER??? Girl looks like a super model, both of them are ridiculously good-looking..

@reedabrat1165

2 жыл бұрын

Wows so there’s ppl in these comment that are mad that she’s with a white man

@Kakwasi

2 жыл бұрын

Charisma is very pretty and intelligent

@pinkladybathbody1127

2 жыл бұрын

I think persons are trying to understand why would someone that’s perfectly ok get married to someone who is a quadriplegic. I guess that’s why they say the things they do. I think the questions might be a bit offensive but naturally curious on their part.

@lix1916

2 жыл бұрын

Envy for sure

@reliza93

2 жыл бұрын

@@pinkladybathbody1127 who cares? He’s deserving of love too. Some people are just hateful and jealous.

Her name being Charisma is just the greatest thing, it suits her SO WELL!

OMG!!! He has the most beautiful, adorable laugh I've ever listen. He's soooo handsome, and she's GORGEOUS!!!!

Love this couple. They are so cute, so real about everything. I am saddened that Charisma is treated so horribly by ignorant people. I feel racism will never go away and that is a sad commentary about our world today.

@genevievenguema682

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@Yutah1981

2 жыл бұрын

I don't even think it's about racism. It's just that there are people who like to see dirt everywhere. These people insult everybody. If she was white, they'd be still slurring her, they would just choose something else to pick on.

@Gabtube252

2 жыл бұрын

Bitter losers like to hit down on vulnerable targets, best to not pay attention to them as their opinion stems from spite and ignorance.

@amorxlntwa8

2 жыл бұрын

To Karisma: Do you really believe if the "shoe was on the other foot," you would be taken care of and treated the same? "GET OUT!"

the way they just visibly light up with love and admiration when they talk about each other is so pure and beautiful to see. i wish them all the happiness

Their love for each other is contagious

This is my third comment but- I admire so much the intentional listening Cole and Charisma practice , never speaking over one another, listening intently, smiling and nodding proudly. It’s a beautiful and inspiring thing to see. I’ll be taking this lesson to practice in my own life. Thank you both

@Grace-el1qq

6 ай бұрын

👏👏👏👏❤exactly this.

20 years ago I had a 2 year, live in relationship with a man with the same level injury as Cole. He also had a diving accident. He was a handsome and charismatic man - all the women carers fancied him. Sadly he died at the young age of 47

@coralee7801

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry for your loss.

@neveragetv

Жыл бұрын

Positive Vibes

The way she looks at him absolutely melts my heart 🥺

I HAVE LOVED THIS COUPLE FOR YEARS AND STILL DO!

It's kind of amazing that this couple, dealing with the racial and disability issue have such a better and healthier relationship than couples who deal with neither! God Bless you two always ❣️

Most honest and authentic interview ever. They love each other deeply.

She is beautiful and it's inside and out. She is an empath and you can trust her she is an old soul. God bless you both. Have a wonderful life.

Charisma has such a innocent and genuine vibe. I also understand why Cole love her lovely smile.

You can see the love hearts around these two

I look at you guys and my eyes water cause as a disabled person who feels like she has had nothing but failures in the romantic department, i want something like what you guys have. It's palpable, the love and ease you have with one another. It's so encouraging and makes my heavy heart feel lighter.

@BrandNewBlueShoes

3 жыл бұрын

You'll find it dear, believe me, you will. Work on loving yourself and love will eventually come to you (this is the same advice I give to myself). I know it must be hard to have had so many disappointment but one day you'll meet someone who will make it all feel worth it 💛

@nashdome

3 жыл бұрын

@@BrandNewBlueShoes thanks for the encouragement. Lots of internet hugs your way! 💕

@kikiwyls

3 жыл бұрын

There is someone special out there for you… Work on loving yourself. Loving God and accepting yourself for the beautiful treasure you are. Love will find you when you least expect it 💕💝

@aaronjames3228

3 жыл бұрын

As a guy in a wheelchair, I can relate

@melissadove4013

3 жыл бұрын

Never give up on love ❤️ you deserve it just as much as anyone!!

The love these two share is so pure and beautiful. Two souls who came to this Earth together to find each other. Meant to be. ❤️

@Carolina-cb6hp

3 жыл бұрын

What a beautiful poetry you wrote, pretty woman.

i'm blushing just seeing these two have a conversation, seriously wholesome how both of them seem to be just as in love as the other, pure love!

They’re so darn cute!! The fact that she openly confessed she googled wheelchair weddings is cute!! When there is a connection, you’re literally excited to learn everything about them. They’re sucha strong couple! Love this!

Even if she were his patient that's okay. My partner was my therapist at a rehab and we fell in love. We never dated until she no longer worked at that facility. We were essentially freinds for a year first. We celebrated 15 years together in March and I'm still as giddy as I was on our first date. We bought our first home her in Cali in 2014 and have 2 dogs and 2 cats. I struggle everyday, but her love has truly made it all worth it. I still struggle with the fact I have a disability and I don't tell anyone really....but I have love and my family. I have it all. Oh ya, she went on to get her LCSW and is a professor at a university and executive director of a wonderful non-profit serving impoverished women and children. She also created an art therapy class that should be in every school. She is the kindest person ever. In 15 years she has never been unkind to me. Never. I didn't even know that was humanly possible lol.

@FatiFleur-jn7ky

3 жыл бұрын

❤

@auntdottie1

3 жыл бұрын

Oh you are so blessed. Thank God daily for her constant love and try to be worthy of it. So glad for you both!

@SGofLagos

2 жыл бұрын

How do stop crying when I read lovely write ups like this one ? There are truly kind humans… we should all be your partner… send my love to her. Bless you both

@stacycampbell1314

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful!!!

@ingridhenryherbert330

2 жыл бұрын

God is so good. Thank you for sharing your story. So beautiful.

This video is so sweet. "People in love know." Glad Cole has felt so much meaning in the wake of such a trauma.

@storydates

3 жыл бұрын

That said, I go to a new instagram friend's profile and like a bunch of their photos all the time... maybe I'm giving them the wrong idea. ha.

How sweet...so glad that Cole and Carisma can have a dream marriage. Ive had Cerebral Palsy since birth and am 62. I have a wonderful caregiver and feiends. So thankful.

I absolutely love Cole and Charisma! They are such a cute couple! I wish them very much health and happiness in life!!❤❤❤

Cutest couple ever!

It is so refreshing to see couples so in love with each other. May God bless you abundantly with a beautiful life together. Wishing you love always.

Omg how can anyone not see how gorgeous Charisma is both inside and out!! Both of you have striking good looks and personalities! Racist and judgemental people are worthless in this world! Keep being wonderful people!❤

@my_handle1999

6 ай бұрын

You said this so well. They are wonderful people. I remember thinking they are such a good looking couple; those dimples, blue eyes and both have beautiful smiles, but I also noticed they are beautiful on the "inside" too! 💞😊

Their relationship is so pure and cute😭🫶🏾

They are both so good-looking! And I appreciate them expressing the intersection of the different barriers and discrimination they both face.

I was blessed with an amazing daughter In law who is black, and have me an amazing granddaughter who now has 2 beautiful girls. My family accepted them so sad people are prejudice, God is not prejudice. ALOHA

@eu3057

2 жыл бұрын

I hope they ACCEPTED your family, too?

I love Cole and Charisma ! I've followed them since before their wedding. What they show in this video is who they are! Their love is palpable, easily seen with just the looks between them and the smiles on their faces. Throw in their dialog and it's a win win relationship. I love you two ! Thank you SBSK for featuring them !!

I just loved this interview, Cole and Charisma are an absolute delight, …… just so beautiful …. The love truly shines through❤️…

They’re a beautiful couple! I watch them on here! Cole looked so shy lol cute!

Charisma is beautiful inside and out 😊🤗

I am white my late husband was African American. It was challenging at times. It was worth it! We were together for 25 years before he died this past Sept. The racial stuff is crazy but God is able

You two are so awesome..❤❤❤❤

The very first thing I thought when I started watching this video was how cute they were and how hard it is to find a relationship like that. You can feel the looooove, the happiness, the willingness to be with each other. They made me feel happy just by looking at them.

@kevinmurphy4946

2 жыл бұрын

They have such golden heart not a lot of people have that perspective on love. I’m in a wheelchair and hope to find something similar to them🔥

This video has helped me tremendously. Thanks to the both of you and SBSK for sharing this story. I've been so worried about my upcoming battles and surgeries from complications from radiation and breast cancer and that my husband will be my caretaker for the months to come and possibly for the rest of my life. You guys are amazing, inspiring and you've made a huge impact on my mental well-being. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

@kittenbraden9800

2 жыл бұрын

Wishing you all the best, hodge podge! You got this.

@thegreatshaking

2 жыл бұрын

Blessings.

@dasgelbevomei1

2 жыл бұрын

This is real love. The two of them bring the best in each other. How glorious is this? They are growing together with extreme love for each other. Blessings eternally.

I absolutely LOVE seeing the way they talk about each other and the way they talk WITH each other too, it's so beautiful!

@annezamor5078

10 ай бұрын

Great interview

Gosh…. I just cannot stop watching these two lovebirds glowing. The world is a better place with their mission in mind.

Such a beautiful couple! I'm so glad they found one another!

Thank you for addressing the issues you face because of racism as well as challenges of being in an interabled marriage. I once thought we lived somewhat in a post-rascist society. It is better to discuss the issue than to sweep it under the rug. Blessings to all of you!

@neveragetv

Жыл бұрын

Thank you..

Cole’s moment of honesty when he says all the things he’s not stoked about is so refreshing.

I see 2 young adults who love each other ,I don’t see colour or disability . This is a beautiful relationship and cole and charisma are soulmates, meant to be . 🥰🥰

The intersection between racism and ableism is sooo hard to talk about and process. I'm usually the only POC in a relationship, and the more disabled one, which makes it really hard to get my partners to understand all the aspects I'm battling. While it's hard for both of you, there's probably a good chance to both understand each other because you both have your own experiences with isms, and you're both feeling effects of both isms (so he is experiencing how racism effects you both, and she is experiencing how ableism effects you both), which is an important thing for your relationship. i'm so glad you're talking about this.

@malinia.20

11 ай бұрын

This exactly!

I can’t say enough good things about Charisma. What a woman of character!

Beautiful couple, and Charisma really has a name that reflects her personality, here's the definition for that word: "compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others". It was a pleasure to listen to you, I wish you the best.

The way he looks at her! Wow. You really can see all the love he has for her. Same for her also, but his eyes are more expressive

Awww what a beautiful love they share awwww it's awesome

These two are SOOOO cute together!! Obviously perfect for each other. It's rare to see people so head over heels for each other! Just wonderful!!

What a beautiful relationship do you two have. Powerfull and loving.

I have Followed Cole and Charisma for a long time and it bothers me that people are mean to you guys - especially racial slurs towards Charisma ! She is pure positivity and love ❤️

I saw the beautiful wedding as of now. God is great. He is magnificent. The two of you are marvelous. You have his blessing in your life together. Congratulations on your union together. Continue loving one another. Jehovah God will continue blessing the two of you. Thumbs up 👍😻🤩💕🌹

What?! Charisma & Cole are on SBSK?! I'm loving this🥰....two of my favorite YT channels seriously! I love learning about this awesome couple and seeing a spotlight on OT...such important work.

Such a sweet loving couple! So upbeat and optimistic. Charisma's lovely dimples and Cole's beautiful blue eyes. I wish you all the happiness you deserve...

So glad the comments are back!! I wanted to express just how cute this couple is when I first watched the interview. 💗

what a beautiful couple, you can see in their eyes how they love each other. god bless them

I love how much they love each other and that Charisma is so loving when she helps her husband Cole.

It's beautiful to see the way your eyes light up and the way you smile when you talk about how you met and fell in love. I watch those videos over and over.💞💙

Thank you Cole and Charisma for sharing your relationship with us! Love you both!

A match made in heaven ❤️😁Thank you both for being so brave and so kind at the same time🙏!

Pareja hermosa, sigan adelante con sus decisiones. Bendiciones.

Your relationship is so inspiring! Thanks for meeting with SPSK - I love these 'extra' interviews because we get to learn about y'all at a deeper level. Thanks for being so open! You're so inspirational!

Charisma..... Amazing...... I can't even...... What a big soul

People feel they can say anything because they are anonymous . It is so amazing to me to hear what is being said to you guys. Your life is so great sometimes i am jealous. Keep on doing what you do. Your love shines through.

this was such a sweet episode. he shared how people make assumptions but his life is fuller than he ever could have imagined.

I watched them when the video came out about a year ago but it popped up again and I had to say just how much they make me smile. They're a beautiful couple.

I follow this couple and they make me smile. I always feel inspired after watching them.

What an adorable couple. You can feel the deep love they have for each other ❤️❤️❤️

Man, 20 seconds in and I want to marry this couple myself. What beautiful, beautiful people inside and out. Cole has a wicked sense of humour too, that quip at 4:12 got me good. Edit- okay I think this is my favourite SBSK video. After my last serous relationship ended 4 years ago, I haven’t dated anybody. I now realise after this video, that I am letting my internalised ableism and beliefs that I’m not loveable because of my disability stopping me from looking for love. I’ve got self placed blinkers on. This video just lifted them in one go. I’m now following Cole and Charisma. Thank you so much Chris, Cole and Charisma ♥️

Dude Cole I’m glad you’re okay.. your story is wild. You and Charisma deserve all the happiness.

This beautiful couple made me so happy and smile seeing the love they feel ...true soulmates ☺️🥰💗💕❤️

I absolutely love your outlook on life, your attitude, your positivity. People can learn so much from you both. I wish you a long wonderful, beautiful, truly fulfilled and blessed life.

Thanks guys. You both just gave me a better out look on my own life. I will always keep the positive energy from this video in my heart and remember all the great things I learned from you both. Thank you both for sharing your life’s with all of us. Hope you are both doing well.

The deep acceptance and love from Cole has moved me to tears ! 🥰🙏

they are so sweet, what he have endured and the way he had come out of it is just amazing

Thank you so much for your channel. You both are great. You hit it on the head about love. It is there or it isn’t. I am 79yrs young and have spent over 54 of them with my wonderful wife who is the love of my life. Based on what I see in your eyes when you look at each other I expect the same for you guys. You two have taught me a lot about excepting things I can’t change. In the last two yrs. my health is going into the basement, however I intend to stay positive. I may be in a wheelchair myself soon. I am learning from you guys what that may be like. Although there are so many things I used to do that now I can’t, the things I have learned from your channel lets me know I can still do things and not to feel sorry for myself. Let’s stay positive together. Don

It's seriously awesome how happy he is, all of the positivity that came *after* the injury. Like a whole new different world opened after that.

YES!!!! I'm so glad you guys met. Absolute legends.

I watched this video several times. I really love how they are both honest and open about their life. I'm a subscriber to their channel and just enjoy watching their vlogs.

She’s so animated happy… animated… good4her gd luck to both x

Omg, they’re so freaking cute. They’re the perfect couple!❤

These two are the real deal. They're so sweet to each other. I hope they stay together forever. ❤