A Psychologist's Thoughts On Love and Marriage (Part 3)-Sadia Khan

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A third Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Sadia Khan, a psychologist in London and Dubai.
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  • @sadiapsychology
    @sadiapsychology24 күн бұрын

    Thank you for having me ❤

  • @westernpigeon

    @westernpigeon

    24 күн бұрын

    very nasty woman you are with fake qualifications. fake diplomas and fake certificates you have. you’ve already been exposed. i hope you’re letting Mark atleast pound you at least so he gets something out of these interviews. we all see right through you

  • @Gram820

    @Gram820

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@sadiapsychology get over yourself, you fraud

  • @joyrn7663

    @joyrn7663

    23 күн бұрын

    I really appreciated your insight.

  • @holistic.health

    @holistic.health

    22 күн бұрын

    Thanks for this... great interview, great information, ignore the haters!!!

  • @yomibrown

    @yomibrown

    19 күн бұрын

    You are knowledge, blunt, direct, intelligent, well spoken and beautiful and unapologetic about it. I feel your beauty does not define you, but I feel you don't deny or hate it. That is a good balance. Most beautiful women who are smart professionals tend to reduce their beauty somehow to be accepted as smart. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and experience.

  • @user-mw6ws3qz2d
    @user-mw6ws3qz2d13 күн бұрын

    She is a rare specimen. Just as smart and well-spoken as she is beautiful. The top .01% of the population in my estimation.

  • @shyamlynn243
    @shyamlynn24323 күн бұрын

    A lot of great gems were dropped here. This one can be rewatched many times. Thanks guys.

  • @janellenevarezgomez3935
    @janellenevarezgomez393523 күн бұрын

    I like her. She’s opinionated and well spoken. I can imagine she gets hate because she’s so attractive and well put together and that angers some people.

  • @priscillalayman2938

    @priscillalayman2938

    23 күн бұрын

    Yep, she's beauty and brains. She intimates men and women just by merely being herself.

  • @smegheadGOAT

    @smegheadGOAT

    23 күн бұрын

    HA HA HA HA AND NOT BECAUSE SHE IS A FAKER

  • @Mmmmkaaay

    @Mmmmkaaay

    23 күн бұрын

    There's truth to that, but it's not the entire story. She pushes for the trad wife life, but has a career. That's called being a hypocrite.

  • @voice88out

    @voice88out

    23 күн бұрын

    The hate cam from some women 😅/ feminist

  • @shirinspring1310

    @shirinspring1310

    22 күн бұрын

    I like her channel and content. She's on point!

  • @jeff1130
    @jeff113024 күн бұрын

    I think the problem is we live in a stressful world and people have to learn to be more patient.My wife and I used to argue all the time.... I keep on telling myself be patient before you become a patient.

  • @nickrichards8516

    @nickrichards8516

    23 күн бұрын

    haha basically and everyone has to work harder and harder to have a normal life with inflation from a broken money. But then again the 1% dont really see or experience this.

  • @cubicqe

    @cubicqe

    11 күн бұрын

    @@nickrichards8516 Totally agree on that.

  • @susannaschulten168
    @susannaschulten16824 күн бұрын

    Dating seems to be dehumanizing. We become a commodity. Men are getting valued by Money and Power. Women are judged by youth, beauty and their sexiness. This is all so swallow and fleeting. Looks fade, money and power can be taken away. Mature Love is a choice for another human being. Kindness and Integrity are better values.

  • @daliasoto3685

    @daliasoto3685

    23 күн бұрын

    This is true for the majority of people. This woman clearly states that she is only talking about the one percent top earning men and top one percent beautiful woman.

  • @ruffrider2626

    @ruffrider2626

    23 күн бұрын

    That may be the worst, most dehumanizing perspective on dating. Total waste of time to spend time thinking about things like this. Dating is all about going out of your comfort zone and meeting people for who they are. Make a friend, see if you want to spend more time with them. Go from there.

  • @leneo1731

    @leneo1731

    23 күн бұрын

    @@ruffrider2626 Yes, for us regular people this may be a bad way to look at dating. At least for people over a certain age. However look at the younger generations. The boys and girls aged 18 and up to 25 in today's society are extremely about looks, status, money and power. Much due to social media, and TV series like Love Island and other dating shows where everyone is handsome and beautiful.

  • @JustDatBoi

    @JustDatBoi

    21 күн бұрын

    Women still judge men on money and power, yet when they entered the workplace not as many men can have money and power. You can’t have it both ways.

  • @alyzak.8997

    @alyzak.8997

    18 күн бұрын

    marry me xD YESSSS 100% AGREE

  • @kdeloris2225
    @kdeloris222524 күн бұрын

    I love hearing Mark talk about his parents. Especially his mom, you can tell he misses her.

  • @jennifercallens9872

    @jennifercallens9872

    24 күн бұрын

    You can 100 hear the emotion and love for his mom In his voice. 🙏❤️

  • @alyzak.8997

    @alyzak.8997

    18 күн бұрын

    Awww

  • @JessieEmile
    @JessieEmile23 күн бұрын

    I think people resent her because she's beautiful

  • @1stone379

    @1stone379

    23 күн бұрын

    Beat me to it. She's clearly a trigger for some because 1) she's married and 2) they already decided a woman like this will never go for them so they try and discredit her statements or outright attack her personally. Get over yourselves. Life is short. You better enjoy it while you have one. Get out of your own head

  • @jennifert.

    @jennifert.

    23 күн бұрын

    She isn't really beautiful. Bad skin, too much make up and kinda long mannish face

  • @herebyhandcock3316

    @herebyhandcock3316

    23 күн бұрын

    She's gorgeous ❤❤

  • @EddyG0rdo

    @EddyG0rdo

    19 күн бұрын

    I dunno…the whole Muslim thing but she wears tight clothing that shows off her curves is off putting. Beauty doesn’t have anything to do with it.

  • @alyzak.8997

    @alyzak.8997

    18 күн бұрын

    Perhaps. It is difficult to not feel like an ugly git as a woman when I see Sadia XD. But I do not assume it is because there is smth wrong with her so i do not resent her but I can definitely see some women being consumed by self-doubt to the point of extreme jealousy. I can also see men being intimidated by her beauty and rejecting her mentally before she can hypothetically reject them because they feel like she's too hot for them, ya know?

  • @thepragmatist
    @thepragmatist23 күн бұрын

    Wow! Sadia Khan is hitting the nail on the head with this interview.

  • @anuttaradenlay1178
    @anuttaradenlay117823 күн бұрын

    I watched till the end. It was insightful, funny and refreshing. I’ll be sharing it. Thank you Sadia and Mark.

  • @_KMAC_
    @_KMAC_23 күн бұрын

    Let's go Sadia is back! She had the best interviews on this channel.

  • @waakdfms2576
    @waakdfms257617 күн бұрын

    This conversation was so absolutely refreshing to me I can't tell you. The polarization and toxicity is over the top these days. Thanks for being real, shining light on the difficult stuff, and reminding us how to love each other, Mark and Sadia. Each person and couple is on a spectrum and needs to write their own story. Real love knows real love....we can do so much better my fellow humans.

  • @maisenbrown196
    @maisenbrown19624 күн бұрын

    "Create love by making partner happy" very true statement

  • @7mariepierre
    @7mariepierre23 күн бұрын

    I always like it when she is invited. Thank you for putting words on what I believe too!

  • @56Spookdog
    @56Spookdog24 күн бұрын

    I think she’s she’s right on initial attraction but I think many if not most have found a less attractive person more attractive given time.

  • @genesises

    @genesises

    24 күн бұрын

    yes this happens non romantically too. and with literally every person you interact with. it's more noticeable with superficial relationships like at work etc, but we definitely change our perceptions of people given time. if anything this should serve as words of wisdom NOT to act on initial attraction, because that is not reliable. our minds are not 100% reliable, and our emotions definitely are not.

  • @samalsobrook6196

    @samalsobrook6196

    22 күн бұрын

    falling in love with personality takes time but lasts longer. falling in love with looks is instant but can only last so long. deeply rooted emotions vs surface level.

  • @illmeeillmee9373

    @illmeeillmee9373

    17 күн бұрын

    @@genesises You are a liar. To tell someone their emotions and minds are not reliable is gaslighting. You are basically invalidating someone because youre mad nobody friends you attractive.

  • @kellegeez

    @kellegeez

    17 күн бұрын

    Agreed!

  • @debbyshark1596

    @debbyshark1596

    10 күн бұрын

    ​@samalsobrook6196 so many ppl out there are just surface level people

  • @user-vj4ri6nt5g
    @user-vj4ri6nt5g23 күн бұрын

    Love Sadia and her knowledge and expertise on these topics. Thank you for sharing!

  • @FeliAli
    @FeliAli23 күн бұрын

    I absolutely adore sadia, if you take the time to listen to a lot of her videos other than just on soft white underbelly you will understand a lot more on her point of view. The majority of people that are interviewed on soft white underbelly are the struggling 1% so when you see a beautiful woman who is talking about the top 1% and how those relationships function people are ready to throw themselves on the ground. But are so quick to enjoy watching a drug addict on meth falling over while being interviewed. I enjoy that mark has a range of content from people that are the struggling addicts or homeless or sex workers to people with a masters degree that can talk about THEIR experiences with THEIR clients. It’s crazy that out of everything she has said most of these comments are saying “basically go find a rich man”. It shows how absolutely ignorant some people can be.

  • @Trecesolotienesdos

    @Trecesolotienesdos

    6 күн бұрын

    Nah, she just pushes her views and morals as clinical practice. people aren't really triggered by her overall, just she can't handle legitimate criticism of her views. which is what she should or anybody should expect when they offer viewpoints online.

  • @RubyClementi
    @RubyClementi23 күн бұрын

    The truth hurts- and you can tell from these comments. I’ve gained a lot of perspective from Sadias insights, even the ones I don’t fully agree with. This understanding has helped my relationships. Thanks for having her again Mark.

  • @Liz-uj2ot

    @Liz-uj2ot

    22 күн бұрын

    ❤I agree 💯 Nicely said. I also have learned from her experience,expertise and knowledge. I feel she is passionate about what she speaks about which also leads people to question her words. I personally appreciate this information from the interview!

  • @Trecesolotienesdos

    @Trecesolotienesdos

    6 күн бұрын

    is it? or is she being critically engaged? nobody is exempt from criticism and anybody who offers a viewpoint can have it critiqued.

  • @nnekadbp5730
    @nnekadbp573022 күн бұрын

    It is refreshing to hear a clear candid professional woman speak fluidity. These are the issues we go through daily thank you Sadia thank you Mark

  • @bingflosby

    @bingflosby

    19 күн бұрын

    If you added beautiful you would have all the reasons for why people hate her

  • @kylekane5727
    @kylekane572724 күн бұрын

    I know I've said it before but I would to see her and Orion together talking on these subjects. I love both of their views. Thank you Mark

  • @darrenXparker
    @darrenXparker23 күн бұрын

    Relationships are so complex and there are so many variables, it’s impossible to just paint a broad stroke and cover everything.

  • @sj122s

    @sj122s

    23 күн бұрын

    Bam... You hit the nail on the head.

  • @rdrenth

    @rdrenth

    22 күн бұрын

    Bam. That why she said that herself too repeatedly

  • @shiningstar5919

    @shiningstar5919

    21 күн бұрын

    Guess you're one of those porn addicts hey bud?!

  • @carolcanny4778
    @carolcanny477823 күн бұрын

    Hello, Sadia is extremely knowledgeable on relationships and just PEOPLE in general and she’s EXTREMELY honest and insightful and simplifies the complexity of male female mindset and BEHAVIORS. Thank you SHARING for the greater good of ALL people !!! You are AMAZING !!! Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @davidbanner9344
    @davidbanner934423 күн бұрын

    I said it once and I'll say it a million times. This incredibly Gorgeous Woman (Sadia Khan) 💯 spot on, each and every time. I am completely shocked of how much hate she gets. Who cares if you're part of the one percent or not, if you are Human then you can understand and relate to what she is saying. I think if her haters stop focusing on her beauty, then they could actually hear what she is saying. Sadia you are absolutely brilliant and I thank you Mark for bringing her on again. I can never get enough of this Woman. Thank you both!!!

  • @shiningstar5919

    @shiningstar5919

    21 күн бұрын

    Well said. These folks are so insecure and jealous, and the same haters hate the only fans women too. Any gorgeous empowered woman is a massive threat. Great interview. Mark is getting better with every interview.

  • @davidbanner9344

    @davidbanner9344

    21 күн бұрын

    @@shiningstar5919 Exactly! Thank you!

  • @Swed813

    @Swed813

    18 күн бұрын

    Oh David... are you aware she's wearing a literal mask? Take away the nose job, the false eyelashes, the hair extensions, the extreme contouring, the foundation, the concealer, the setting spray, the lipstick etc. Without all of that you would never recognise her if you passed her in the street. She's also unmarried and has no kids - in the Islamic religion we are advised to never take advice from a person who has not walked the path they're advising on. She's literally wearing an image and contacting people to have her on their platforms. On Instagram she makes fun if people and bullies Muslim women who disagree with her. She a strong advocate for men having access to their kids with no safeguarding - so she disagrees with women who dont let fathers see the kids even in situations where the kids dad is a pedo or drug user or domestic abuser.

  • @michaelwhitaker5882
    @michaelwhitaker588223 күн бұрын

    apparently the "haters" do not like her exposing them for what they are.

  • @joyrn7663

    @joyrn7663

    23 күн бұрын

    💯

  • @DaDaLFG
    @DaDaLFG23 күн бұрын

    Always good to see her back on this channel

  • @nattsvart199
    @nattsvart19923 күн бұрын

    So funny to read all the comments. She is right on so many things and people can’t stand to hear it.

  • @rachelx230484x
    @rachelx230484x20 күн бұрын

    I could listen to your chats together allday. It's fascinating and so interesting to me!

  • @bennyslazer
    @bennyslazer23 күн бұрын

    All the talk about hate in the beginning and everyone’s still hating!😭 She has so much experience based knowledge I wish people would just open up a little and listen, thanks for sharing Mark!

  • @RadRedhead222
    @RadRedhead22224 күн бұрын

    So true! The haters on Reddit made a whole Subreddit about hate for Mark. They literally know every word he's ever said, every video he's ever made... It's actually kinda sick and obsessive.

  • @liber7773

    @liber7773

    24 күн бұрын

    Yet you’ve been there to read it and came back to tell us about it. Like you didn’t partake via reading it.

  • @mr.stasis

    @mr.stasis

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@liber7773 Who's more likely to be obsessed. The one casually reading a thread dedicated to a man they don't know, or the people who spent far more time gathering, watching, analyzing and creating the reddit dedicated to the man? Come on, stop it. You already know the answer.

  • @genesises

    @genesises

    24 күн бұрын

    @@mr.stasis yes what is important is that we separate people into good guys and bad guy, so we can point our fingers at the bad guys and feel good about our useless opinions. come on now.

  • @mr.stasis

    @mr.stasis

    24 күн бұрын

    @@genesises there has to be black and white, for gray to exist. Remember that.

  • @shiningstar5919

    @shiningstar5919

    21 күн бұрын

    They've got no life and nothing better to do

  • @LisaPiza
    @LisaPiza24 күн бұрын

    When she said she watched doctor Phil every weekend that explained a lot. 😐

  • @Cutebutnotpetable
    @Cutebutnotpetable24 күн бұрын

    I find great value in her content and Mark also adds insightful comments. Thank you both.

  • @matt_milack
    @matt_milack24 күн бұрын

    Man, what wouldn't I do to be that delusional to think that every time someone is disagreeing with me he/she is hurt and triggered by what I'm saying because everything I say is absolute truth.

  • @sarahalderman3126

    @sarahalderman3126

    24 күн бұрын

    So true! 😂 How convenient😉

  • @joanofarcxxi

    @joanofarcxxi

    24 күн бұрын

    But here you are. So, did you spend the entire time listening to her? What are your credentials? Because you seem to think that she is delusional. I wonder what criterion you rely upon for your assessment.

  • @TheFireproofWitch

    @TheFireproofWitch

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@joanofarcxxi you're her with a fake profile.

  • @matt_milack

    @matt_milack

    24 күн бұрын

    @@joanofarcxxi Read my comment over and over again. Maybe you'll get it. Since, based on what you wrote, you didn't.

  • @smegheadGOAT

    @smegheadGOAT

    24 күн бұрын

    1:49 to 1:54

  • @ellenselin1664
    @ellenselin166423 күн бұрын

    Besides sex and service in a marriage, what about sharing conversations and mutual interest? How about intellect and personality as part of your attraction to your mate?

  • @michaelregan427

    @michaelregan427

    14 күн бұрын

    She doesn't talk about any of that. I've had long term relationships (not married) to girls ranging a little bit in beauty. You just click better with some people than others. Sadia makes a comment about how a man needs to love his woman slightly less than she loves him....ehhh you can love her just as much just know how to play the game a but. You can absolutely show vulnerability but you need to look like someone who could thrive even without them there. If a girl thinks you can do better than her, she won't want to leave you. Suggestion for men is to have a few strong male friends who also have gfs and be willing to talk about life and your experiences and help each other. You can absolutely be vulnerable to your woman but there is a time and a place. I was a college athlete and all of my friends were fit, good looking athletes. Saw almost all of my male friends cry over a girl, but then go do something positive for yourself and get your strength back.

  • @Laluzkeo
    @Laluzkeo23 күн бұрын

    I LOVE HER!!!! IM SO GRATEFUL SHES HERE❤️

  • @kc6384
    @kc638421 күн бұрын

    Love when you have Sadia on. Always an eye opener.

  • @ahimsainthekitchen
    @ahimsainthekitchen16 күн бұрын

    I love her honesty. She is not wrong. I did not see part 1 and 2, I need to watch it. Very interesting.

  • @voice88out
    @voice88out23 күн бұрын

    As always fascinating episode! What I like the most is Mark engegment with sadia 👏👏👏

  • @evelynbarton6349
    @evelynbarton634924 күн бұрын

    Flowers for her, gorgeous, articulate & special insight. ❤

  • @ReggieWynn15
    @ReggieWynn1520 күн бұрын

    Absolutely love this woman. She’s spot on and speaking the truth.

  • @miguelacosta7564
    @miguelacosta756419 күн бұрын

    Qualifications Sadia holds a BSc in Psychology, Master's in Education and Developmental Psychology, Qualified Teachers Status, and Diplomas in Psychotherapy, Advanced CBT, Psychoanalysis, and Inner Child Healing. Her academic training and extensive practical experience allow her to offer well-rounded and evidence-based guidance. All documents are presented upon booking

  • @illmeeillmee9373

    @illmeeillmee9373

    17 күн бұрын

    Oh please. She is a manosphere quack. Her qualifications are also sus.

  • @thedarkestsummer
    @thedarkestsummer23 күн бұрын

    Didn’t know about her until she started showing up on your channel I like what she has to say! ✅

  • @sarahalderman3126
    @sarahalderman312624 күн бұрын

    Lol... if covid has taught us anything at all, it's that being "qualified" as an "expert" means absolutely NOTHING at all🤣😂🤣

  • @user-sk2px6ox7m

    @user-sk2px6ox7m

    24 күн бұрын

    Everyone turned into a expert and a scientist 😂😂😂

  • @sarahalderman3126

    @sarahalderman3126

    24 күн бұрын

    @@user-sk2px6ox7myup!

  • @Chopper140

    @Chopper140

    24 күн бұрын

    Except she’s not even qualified

  • @melissarivard7238

    @melissarivard7238

    24 күн бұрын

    @@Chopper140wym?

  • @theageofgoddess

    @theageofgoddess

    24 күн бұрын

    She is qualified 💯she’s educated plus has actual experience, but you choose to judge her by appearance so you tuned her out 😂

  • @FitnessBitness
    @FitnessBitness17 күн бұрын

    I so enjoyed this one. Mark, you gave me hope that there are still men out there who are really looking for the one, beautiful inside and out, with values and intelligence. So many men just settle or are blinded by the shiny object 💜

  • @atrainexpress0110
    @atrainexpress011012 күн бұрын

    This was a great interview. I’ve listened to it twice

  • @VeronicaNicole4778
    @VeronicaNicole477824 күн бұрын

    I like her. Strong women aren’t intimidated by other strong women. I learn a lot from her insight.

  • @theageofgoddess

    @theageofgoddess

    24 күн бұрын

    Exactly 💯

  • @sadiapsychology

    @sadiapsychology

    24 күн бұрын

  • @joyrn7663

    @joyrn7663

    23 күн бұрын

    🎯

  • @VAL702

    @VAL702

    12 күн бұрын

    💯

  • @kylekane5727
    @kylekane572724 күн бұрын

    love her, she's such a great voice of reason ...

  • @donnahserra3087
    @donnahserra308719 күн бұрын

    thank you for uploading this content, this not only brought me peace & comfort as a woman but an eye opening experience in my own personal relationships with others and myself :)

  • @BlessedDivinely
    @BlessedDivinely24 күн бұрын

    Good conversation… Some valuable insight was provided.

  • @MilahanPhilosophersCorner
    @MilahanPhilosophersCorner20 күн бұрын

    Lots of great points.

  • @westportsmouthohio
    @westportsmouthohio23 күн бұрын

    Hahaha...she is 💯 accurate. She's gorgeous, intelligent, witty, charming and probably rich. Of course she is threatening to those that are insercure.

  • @westportsmouthohio

    @westportsmouthohio

    22 күн бұрын

    I've been thinking on this and I've decided on the female front maybe more like 99% right..in my opinion 😁

  • @katherinenekrasov4209

    @katherinenekrasov4209

    21 күн бұрын

    Totally agree ! Most people feel better with messed up people but she’s well put together and gorgeous ! Good for her we need to see more of that as an example .

  • @shiningstar5919

    @shiningstar5919

    21 күн бұрын

    Absolutely 💯 spot on!! Humans are so insecure.

  • @sheepnomore8063
    @sheepnomore806317 күн бұрын

    I love her and her wealth of knowledge. I find everything she says to be true when it comes to my experiences.

  • @marials9245
    @marials924523 күн бұрын

    Well, I don’t know, but psychologists do not give advice or answer questions their patients may have. We help patients to make the changes they need to achieve a healthier state, we help them answer their own questions and to question themselves. She acts like a coach, maybe, but definitely not as a psychologist.

  • @petralea

    @petralea

    15 күн бұрын

    She is not a psychologist, maybe that would be a hint, i am not sure why they kept regarding her as one, she was a teacher of psychology but not a psychologist

  • @caseyhenshaw
    @caseyhenshaw23 күн бұрын

    if she is admitting to catering to the top 1% of the dating market then she must be able to see that the advice won’t be applicable or realistic for most of the viewers, that’s where the critique is coming from. it strikes me as disingenuous to claim to be aware that your advice is really only relevant for the top 1% of society and in the next sentence begin to talk about how any criticism stems from jealousy and obsession. near all of people viewing her content are not 1%, so why is she fluctuating between talking in a way that seems to be generalising people as a whole to then highlighting that she specialises in elite relationships.. slimey

  • @Chid098

    @Chid098

    17 күн бұрын

    Then don't watch, you clicked on the video, you've typed a whole essay about someone you consider "slimey", why are you here?

  • @henrystillman6122

    @henrystillman6122

    11 күн бұрын

    I agree, she knows just enough to be extremely dangerous when giving out advice. Giving out two sentence tiktok-able psychological advice for complex psychological issues is just not that simple..

  • @caseyhenshaw

    @caseyhenshaw

    11 күн бұрын

    @@Chid098 ill give you the benefit of the doubt that you really ain’t that slow bruh. i hadn’t heard of this girl before so yeah i’d need to watch the video to be able to make a comment on what she’s said, that’s why i’m here🤣 i won’t be watching anything to do with her again so don’t worry! use your head a little more next time

  • @caseyhenshaw

    @caseyhenshaw

    11 күн бұрын

    @@henrystillman6122 yup she’s should know better but like many others she cannot resist the temptation of being famous online. she knows damn well that the views she gets on tiktok etc are from young to middle age women and maybe a small percentage of younger men too, NOT from her “area of expertise” which she admits is catered to wealthy high rollers living in places like dubai aka the 1%. oh well she will reap what she’s sown

  • @Trecesolotienesdos

    @Trecesolotienesdos

    6 күн бұрын

    @@Chid098 the point of youtube comments is to relay things about a video. and?

  • @lomotil3370
    @lomotil337023 күн бұрын

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 *🎙️ Sadia Khan discusses the simplicity and difficulty of maintaining love and relationships.* 01:07 *🌍 Sadia Khan addresses her focus on the top 1% in her therapy practice due to practical limitations and the criticism it attracts.* 02:16 *📜 Sadia Khan defends her qualifications, emphasizing transparency about her credentials and the criticism she faces.* 03:25 *💔 Sadia Khan reflects on the tendency of unhappy people to seek out content that triggers them, regardless of the source.* 05:59 *💼 Sadia Khan highlights the importance of therapy for mental health and the flexibility of BetterHelp in providing professional support.* 07:20 *🤔 Sadia Khan discusses the perception of her and Orion Talmay's content as triggering, attributing it to their neutral observation of human behavior.* 09:15 *💬 Sadia Khan advocates for understanding and meeting your partner's true needs to maintain healthy relationships.* 10:38 *🔄 Sadia Khan acknowledges the rarity of significant changes in clients and emphasizes the importance of compatibility from the start.* 11:36 *💞 Sadia Khan distinguishes between love and attraction, emphasizing that love is a skill that requires removing ego and meeting your partner's needs.* 13:16 *🗣️ Sadia Khan advises couples to improve communication by honestly expressing feelings and providing solutions rather than resorting to attack or avoidance.* 16:04 *🎩 Sadia Khan shares insights into men's appreciation beyond sex, emphasizing the importance of feeling appreciated.* 17:55 *💰 Sadia Khan discusses the dynamics of relationships within the top 1%, highlighting the focus on sexual gratification over traditional relationship values.* 19:30 *🌟 Men's taste in women often changes as they become more successful, prioritizing surface-level qualities over deeper connections.* 22:59 *🧠 Women tend to have a better understanding of men's behavior and motivations compared to men's understanding of women.* 25:31 *💔 Identifying emotional disconnection and porn addiction has become more prominent in relationship coaching.* 27:49 *🔄 Some individuals are attracted to inconsistency due to underlying self-esteem issues, but consistent love acts as an effective anti-depressant.* 30:12 *⚖️ In a relationship, it's often beneficial for the woman to like the man more, as it tends to lead to longer-lasting relationships.* 33:10 *🚀 Pursuing personal fulfillment outside of a romantic relationship can alleviate pressure and make one more attractive to their partner.* 34:48 *💼 Entitlement in relationships should be reserved for a select few, as it's not universally effective and may not work for average individuals.* 36:53 *💰 OnlyFans presents complex moral and psychological dilemmas, with subscribers being a more significant concern than content creators.* 38:59 *🚫 Subscribers, not content creators, are often the real issue in society, especially regarding platforms like OnlyFans.* 39:55 *📖 The abundance of choices in partners due to the internet can lead to unrealistic expectations and perpetual loneliness, particularly influenced by excessive pornography consumption.* 41:16 *💔 Overreliance on pornography has led to men's self-isolation and distorted desires, contributing to dissatisfaction and loneliness in relationships.* 44:45 *💭 Overanalyzing and victimizing oneself due to childhood trauma can hinder personal growth and progress in relationships.* 48:29 *💑 Understanding and humanizing women beyond sexual relationships is crucial for healthy connections and avoiding objectification.* 52:11 *🔄 Pornography has led to a distorted view of masculinity, encouraging behaviors like voyeurism and infidelity, ultimately damaging relationships.* 55:56 *🤝 Taking pride in monogamy and fidelity can foster stronger, more fulfilling relationships, challenging societal norms that glorify promiscuity.* 57:34 *🙌 Maintaining faithfulness despite external temptations demonstrates a deeper commitment and resilience in relationships, even amidst online exposure and fame.* 58:17 *🎯 Remaining faithful and true to personal values, even amidst fame and exposure, is something to be deeply proud of.* 58:59 *🌟 Finding pride in a simpler, more mundane life can be a reflection of personal growth and contentment.* 59:55 *💡 Advice on relationships shouldn't solely come from married individuals; insights from observing various marriages at different stages offer a more comprehensive understanding.* 01:00:22 *🔄 Recognizing cultural and religious similarities can foster understanding and compatibility in relationships.* 01:01:05 *👩‍❤️‍👨 Mutual respect and boundaries are essential in any relationship, regardless of cultural or religious backgrounds.* Made with HARPA AI

  • @VIP-ry6vv
    @VIP-ry6vv9 күн бұрын

    I like her. Glad the audio quality is better in part 3

  • @leviathania
    @leviathania22 күн бұрын

    17 Minutes in I can confirm everything she says so far. I lived a lot of that what she experienced with people in therapy. I was a human stress relief and was becoming less and less treated like a human being with own needs and an inner life and he wasn't of the 1 % but worked his way up middle class.

  • @boqueronsocarrao696
    @boqueronsocarrao69624 күн бұрын

    Guys, we basically have a conservative muslim who's lecturing people about what's best for them when it comes about dating and love life choices. She says exactly what anyone that's lived a little would expect: Get married (possibly after having earned a truckload of money), procreate, have a family, follow traditions, go to the temple every sacred day, avoid doing anything original/whimsical/off the beaten path because all the other ways of living are wrong and childish. And if something goes south it's always your fault. All of that while living the life, dressing and speaking however she pleases, without experimenting any of the grievances a regular (poor) muslim woman would go through in any repressive eastern religious dictatorship. I don't know you but I'm taking no advice from her.

  • @HippiePajon

    @HippiePajon

    24 күн бұрын

    Word..

  • @alexatkins9515

    @alexatkins9515

    24 күн бұрын

    Ugh so true!

  • @Gram820

    @Gram820

    24 күн бұрын

    Right on!!

  • @carolmartinez7825

    @carolmartinez7825

    24 күн бұрын

    Your contradicting yourself first you say she’s a conservative Muslim then you go on to say she’s living , dressing and speaking however she wants 😂. Make it make sense. You don’t know what she has and has not been through , you don’t know her background or any of that so your comment has no justification . It just shows your a racist and thats about it .

  • @Flamingolif3

    @Flamingolif3

    23 күн бұрын

    Easy, Bitter Spice. It's opinions like these that make it very difficult for people to speak honestly when there is so much judgement and rudeness. When you make shallow comments like that, with almost 0 facts about a person, makes it pretty obvious that you are unhappy about your own career, appearance or your spouse....maybe all of the above. I imagine you aren't living up to your potential, and for that I feel bad for you. I also imagine you aren't financially satisfied, and for that I can relate. I wish you well. I hope you achieve everything you deserve in life. Karma suggests putting people down for their circumstances or beliefs ...that you know virtually nothing about.... won't have a positive impact on your life (quite possibly the exact opposite). It's just not good for the soul to be bitter and resentful. Be well.

  • @oldschoolisnewschool
    @oldschoolisnewschool24 күн бұрын

    She is so beutiful. She also tell it how it is. That takes from her beauty. I will watch this again with the sound off next time.

  • @Solitaire427
    @Solitaire4274 күн бұрын

    Wow! Her explanation about the women liking the man more than he likes you was great. Such a great point as to why that works better. I always thought it was the other way around.

  • @LHChristopher
    @LHChristopher18 күн бұрын

    Love Sadia... She knows her topic and is honest about it... Stay Gold!!

  • @belvedear6007
    @belvedear600723 күн бұрын

    Im only 5 minutes in, but i think listening to someone you "hate" or disagree with can actually be pretty beneficial. I follow and watch content from people who have very different views than me. Also, podcasts are definitely entertaining enough to play in the background. A therapist accusing one person of having an affair in a couples therapy setting is crazy. I dont know how to feel about thia conversation but i enjoyed listening anyway.

  • @ImranAnsari1234
    @ImranAnsari123424 күн бұрын

    She is all over the place, 5 of my best podcast shows hosted her in the last 6 days.

  • @sarahalderman3126

    @sarahalderman3126

    24 күн бұрын

    Gee, I wonder why🤣

  • @abby29605

    @abby29605

    24 күн бұрын

    She said at the beginning she was in the US to work. She’s probably going from show to show like meetings

  • @leneo1731

    @leneo1731

    24 күн бұрын

    Why are you saying that like it's something negative?

  • @rachelrae860

    @rachelrae860

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@leneo1731 she's speaking way to fast and this is my opinion but anyone can spew what she's saying. She's all over the place

  • @Mr-Angelo0U812

    @Mr-Angelo0U812

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@rachelrae860i very much agree

  • @tinawilliams919
    @tinawilliams91916 күн бұрын

    What's there not to trust ❤❤,here is a human being who speaks straight from the core ,truth, and honesty from a perspective that can be truly beneficial for one's needs and listen attentively .

  • @tt-redd
    @tt-redd24 күн бұрын

    What is with all the comments saying "she is talking too fast" "she talks to much?" Like she is in an interview for one. She is answering questions! Lol She is also listening and responding. Talking fast is also natural for alot of us women. Lol like some people just talk like that.. its not nefarious or evil... its just anxious energy and lots to say in a short period of time. I think ya'll are just used to strungout druggies falling asleep in interviews. Haha. She is def jaded but I actually like her overall and she had some very real, honest and good takes on things. Communication, honesty and compatability are very very important.

  • @Mscat410

    @Mscat410

    24 күн бұрын

    Maybe everyone is used to hearing broken depressed people speaking slower. She speaks normally folks

  • @theageofgoddess

    @theageofgoddess

    24 күн бұрын

    She speaks just fine and is very on point, people are just jealous because she’s both hot and smart 😂

  • @Mr-Angelo0U812

    @Mr-Angelo0U812

    24 күн бұрын

    Like 4x 🙃

  • @KareSmith433

    @KareSmith433

    24 күн бұрын

    @tt-redd Well said! I talk fast too & you explained it well. I think some people may need more time to process each word. All these negative comments, you can tell they pretty much enjoy it, & most likely is the only time they comment. I've been watching for 11 minutes & agree with everything she's said so far.

  • @Mr-Angelo0U812

    @Mr-Angelo0U812

    23 күн бұрын

    @@KareSmith433 boo boo bee doo. Have a decent weekend

  • @yolie6602
    @yolie660224 күн бұрын

    Quality over quantity is the key to a good relationship ❤

  • @lauragibb6014
    @lauragibb601419 күн бұрын

    I'm halfway through the video and I love Sadia. She's pretty spot on on most of what she says and I could look at her all day 😂

  • @user-fu8nj7gs2d
    @user-fu8nj7gs2d22 күн бұрын

    Sadia is truly outstanding! I just wish she would slow down in her responses. She has so much valuable information to share.

  • @RosaRodriguez-rl6rd
    @RosaRodriguez-rl6rd24 күн бұрын

    I’m just a normal person my mother’s caregiver. I find Sadia very interesting in her professional advice. I respect her. She’s a gorgeous woman who have so many people who do not like her because of her beautiful being and her smarts. I say continue what your doing 💪

  • @hopecollins3961
    @hopecollins396123 күн бұрын

    Hey Mark, just a suggestion, how about interview a relationship therapist that doesn’t serve the top 1 percent? People that work their asses off all day every day and still find themselves needing help and wanting to make it work. Like people that go to work in scrubs or steel toed boots. I’m sure the insights would be completely different and more relatable for most.

  • @therealpyrocinical96absolu69
    @therealpyrocinical96absolu6923 күн бұрын

    Hey I just hop on this video to let ya know I saw all the drama and I just wanted to say you are the bigger man and make me wanna try to people skills for a job. U a gooood dude

  • @CitizenChemical
    @CitizenChemical23 күн бұрын

    I am not into islam or Dubai or whatever.. but she is SO spot on everytime! Knowing she is muslim but has this clear objective view of how the world works at a relationship level in 2024, everything she says is just the hard truth. I separated for the reasons a woman should separate. She confirmed that i did the right thing so my ex can at least find someone that fits better with him now. But my God how I don't want to get back into dating anymore in this decade 😕 I agree to focus on a career.

  • @boqueronsocarrao696
    @boqueronsocarrao69624 күн бұрын

    This interview is the perfect example of how important it is to express your opinions with self confidence and solid oratory. Many of the points of view she lays down have no solid foundation or coherence, but she does it with no hesitation whatsoever that being the reason why most people watching this behold her with awe and cheer. If they took ten minutes to break her discourse down thoroughly they'd find out they disagree on so many points.

  • @genesises

    @genesises

    24 күн бұрын

    yes and it's almost terrifying how effective it is.

  • @prodbyfrank74
    @prodbyfrank7424 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your psychologists thoughts. Your glimpse is seperate from reality and the dependant on moments that occur at the time. Every moment is a new moment.

  • @edgar6638
    @edgar663824 күн бұрын

    i’m not hating, but she justifies her qualifications by saying she has a masters. I thought you needed a doctorate to be an actual psychologist?

  • @BlueAlien2

    @BlueAlien2

    24 күн бұрын

    No. She has clinical experience. Unfortunately, she talks so quickly that her insights sound glib, She might do well in a specific enviroment, Not mine.

  • @sarahalderman3126

    @sarahalderman3126

    24 күн бұрын

    @@BlueAlien2you realize that her "clinical experience" is talking to rich playboy's with pedophile preferences... ie men in Dubai.😂

  • @user-sk2px6ox7m

    @user-sk2px6ox7m

    24 күн бұрын

    I think a psychiatrist needs a doctorate

  • @rusty_rockets

    @rusty_rockets

    24 күн бұрын

    Is her Masters degree even in psychology?

  • @highlordstevious

    @highlordstevious

    24 күн бұрын

    She's hot. Just let it go.

  • @A-C1997
    @A-C199724 күн бұрын

    Such a good talk

  • @dominicratcliff8196
    @dominicratcliff819624 күн бұрын

    Mark dissin on The Love Boat 😂😂😂

  • @melissarivard7238

    @melissarivard7238

    24 күн бұрын

    Right?! lol 😂

  • @rachelrae860

    @rachelrae860

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@melissarivard7238so true lol 😆

  • @dawnervin48

    @dawnervin48

    24 күн бұрын

    I use to love that show....exciting and new 😂

  • @Mr-Angelo0U812

    @Mr-Angelo0U812

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@dawnervin48lol me too 😂

  • @simoncina3578
    @simoncina357823 күн бұрын

    I would never choose her as my therapist

  • @alejandramarquez6804

    @alejandramarquez6804

    18 күн бұрын

    Why ? Me neither. But like she said. Her clients are rich.

  • @Nevernotinjcrew

    @Nevernotinjcrew

    4 күн бұрын

    You can’t afford her.

  • @BillyJupiter
    @BillyJupiter24 күн бұрын

    Preach! *came to mind around the 13 minute mark.

  • @Sabrina-LosAngeles
    @Sabrina-LosAngeles24 күн бұрын

    I have listened to interviews with Sadia Khan on a few channels. Part of me thinks she is brilliant and on pointe [being European myself, some of her stances def resonate] Looked at the comments that are more critical, I feel that too but always prefer to look at myself as to why certain people don't sit right with me. Often has as much to do with yourself than the person one is triggered by.

  • @UserName-iq7uu
    @UserName-iq7uu21 күн бұрын

    Sadia is proof you can be beautiful and intelligent simultaneously. Very well said 💜

  • @JoJo_XIII99
    @JoJo_XIII9923 күн бұрын

    She's not wrong i agree with everything she says

  • @Chief_KP
    @Chief_KP6 күн бұрын

    One of the best interviews on this channel…Heavenly Father please protect this woman and her family by any and all means and measures! Amen!!

  • @Sunnyday069
    @Sunnyday0697 күн бұрын

    Enjoyed this one ❤

  • @emkenobi
    @emkenobi24 күн бұрын

    This is not a real psychologist. She has no licenses and did not complete any doctoral program to become licensed or board certified. A simple google search to her own website shows her lack of credentials. You are not a psychologist if you have no license to practice. Disappointed in you for this one Mark.

  • @genesises

    @genesises

    24 күн бұрын

    to me she comes off as a social media fame fiend who thinks bullshitting their way to success is the way to go, she also seems pretty greedy and materialistic for someone who claims their thing is helping people and psychology.

  • @nenadmilutinovic4752

    @nenadmilutinovic4752

    23 күн бұрын

    She comments on this on 1:50

  • @StillJess-wg6yb

    @StillJess-wg6yb

    23 күн бұрын

    @@nenadmilutinovic4752 she comments, BUT- she doesn’t reply to Marks statement, confirming or denying.

  • @jenniferweber2673

    @jenniferweber2673

    23 күн бұрын

    Simple google search and SHE IS A PSYCHOLOGIST .🎉Guess haters need to hate 😂

  • @panda59043

    @panda59043

    22 күн бұрын

    true! pretty nice face. she's smart.

  • @heatherh.197
    @heatherh.19724 күн бұрын

    This gal is beautiful, intelligent, kind, and sweet by nature I feel

  • @theloniuspoon
    @theloniuspoon10 күн бұрын

    I think part of Sadias credibility is also that she is an attractive woman herself so it almost gives her knowledge on how men view beautiful women etc and what it’s like to be treated a way cuz of the way you look

  • @Trecesolotienesdos

    @Trecesolotienesdos

    6 күн бұрын

    pretty women are scummy, so they bring it on themselves.

  • @Prissve
    @Prissve20 күн бұрын

    Stunning! Shes an inspiration

  • @MugambiAkin
    @MugambiAkin24 күн бұрын

    Only here for the black and white photo😅

  • @quandaharding2977
    @quandaharding297724 күн бұрын

    Hello fellow 99%. She said she is talking about the 1 %. Thats not us. So shhhhhh 1%ers are talking. Just take notes and move on.

  • @kweekeni6962
    @kweekeni696220 күн бұрын

    Oh she is good this is why my major is psychology the study of human behavior is absolutely amazing and fascinating to me

  • @sebestyenszaby
    @sebestyenszaby14 күн бұрын

    It would be interesting to listen to her talking about the modern day relationships, terms like: situationship, swingers, poly, ...

  • @suefantastic4584
    @suefantastic458423 күн бұрын

    She's so pretty, I just dont think she understands what regular people face. Good on her.. Good luck with the rest of society.

  • @HiGlowie

    @HiGlowie

    23 күн бұрын

    Agreed. If she came from money she’s incredibly disconnected. That being said, I’m sure she has some knowledge.

  • @shiningstar5919

    @shiningstar5919

    21 күн бұрын

    She definitely does not need you, believe me

  • @kendallstark4302
    @kendallstark430223 күн бұрын

    Why do they refer to women as females, but they refer to men as men, and not males? Why can't women be women?

  • @gemmageminii
    @gemmageminii23 күн бұрын

    All soo true thank you 💞

  • @Spaceymusicusa
    @Spaceymusicusa21 күн бұрын

    This woman is speaking nothing but facts People who disagree just lack knowledge and/or experience in dating wide ranges of people

  • @Luxuryfoodexpert
    @Luxuryfoodexpert23 күн бұрын

    her husband is saudi, common now, shes literally speaking to clients who have done the same thing she hs done, bagged herself a wealthy guy.

  • @dainty3254

    @dainty3254

    19 күн бұрын

    How do you know her husband?

  • @VAL702

    @VAL702

    12 күн бұрын

    You just proved her point! People that are intimidated or triggered by her will try to diminish her qualifications, her lifestyle, her appearance. Thank you for confirming her theory.😂

  • @Onnitfan1
    @Onnitfan12 күн бұрын

    Another home run interview. Two guest suggestions: John Joseph McGowan and Mark Sisson.

  • @icychap
    @icychap24 күн бұрын

    I don't agree that the foundation of a relationship should be need fulfillment. Needs evolve throughout your life. I would say the most important elements to have are bringing a complete person to the table, courage enough to be honest about difficult things, and liking each other.

  • @isabelcorreia740
    @isabelcorreia74023 күн бұрын

    Food for thought…..I agree with her

  • @MrPnew1
    @MrPnew124 күн бұрын

    Mark is so easily hoodwinked I'm afraid to say

  • @Lewis94YouTube

    @Lewis94YouTube

    24 күн бұрын

    He's a poon dog melts for the females

  • @ashassassin

    @ashassassin

    24 күн бұрын

    We figured that out after that awful Orion guy. 😖 he was the absolute worst!

  • @sirwalksoftly

    @sirwalksoftly

    24 күн бұрын

    @@ashassassin Why was he the worst?

  • @heatherh.197

    @heatherh.197

    24 күн бұрын

    I think you're wrong. I WOULD appreciate hearing from a therapist who speaks to the other 99% of us

  • @slylockfox85

    @slylockfox85

    24 күн бұрын

    I want to see the contrast between what the commenters say about her and Orion because at least Orion is an actual doctor. This lady is just a grifter. Her strategy is obvious. Use looks to appeal to men and give them reaffirming advice, but only put the burder of performance on men. Orion is far more balanced in his approach on relationships.

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