A Mother's Daughter | Aashna Hegde | TEDxAIIMSPatna
Whether its a 15 yr old girl or a 40 yr old woman, don't ask them when they are getting married or are having kids.Ask them if they are happy and if they feel loved. Ask them if they want a raise instead. Women in India have often found, thrust upon themselves the burden of taking care of the household single-handedly , an image of a stay-at-home mother tending to her children on foot-and-hand has been enshrined for generations in our patriarchal society. Aashna talks about how her mother refused to tolerate the abuse any longer, broke away and toiled hard to earn a living for her two children. The engendered role of a woman's sphere of life being contained within the sphere of the household is a myth as Aashna explains how her mother's occupational involvements never hampered her growth as a child. She is a social media influencer, KZreadr. The vivacious and charming Ms.Hegde keeps her large family of over 5 lakh subscribers entertained and duly updated about her life and her little quirks. She draws inspiration from her mother, Ms. Pakkhi Hegde, also a famous actress and will discuss her experiences that she lived through which helped her flourish into the dazzling personality she is today. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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LOVE YOU PAAKHIII AND AASHNA! The best! 🥺♥️👑
@WriterByChoice
3 жыл бұрын
Big fan🧡💙
@pragya7437
3 жыл бұрын
This was literally emotional 🥺😪
@thatlilgirl1901
3 жыл бұрын
I love them tooo😭💜
@comment6459
3 жыл бұрын
@@pragya7437 imotional😂😂
@artivilas7760
3 жыл бұрын
❤️
So honoured for this opportunity! Really overwhelmed by all the love on this video, thankyou so much ❤️
@sejalsrinivasa
3 жыл бұрын
Loved it Aashna !!very inspiring
@vgayathri5585
3 жыл бұрын
We loved it ❤️
@viramgamanetra6178
3 жыл бұрын
Love u sooo much diiii 😊😋😘😘😍😍😍 We will keep supporting you and keep inspiring to all 😇😍
@manyapahwa1426
3 жыл бұрын
Love you so much dii!♥️♥️
@pallabisantra7335
3 жыл бұрын
Love you honey.. You deserve all the love♥️♥️♥️
THIS MADE ME SO EMOTIONAL 🥺❤️ YOU ARE A TRUE GEM✨❤️
@kokasere7379
3 жыл бұрын
You are so sweet Rishu ...love uh brother ❤️😘🤗you are a true gem too❤️
@stuti__168
3 жыл бұрын
love uuu rishuuu...yessssss ashna is such a true gem 😭😭♥♥♥♥❤❤❤ashna is an inpsiration..in short she is the best frnd,sister and everything❤❤and her mom is just soo amazing and brave♥😭
@shaniashaikh3689
3 жыл бұрын
Hainnaa😭😭
@sangeetagodara62
3 жыл бұрын
Yaaa😭😭😭
@swetakushwaha7766
3 жыл бұрын
I cried listening to the such fabolous speech.
This will always remain very close to my heart ! I feel proud of u baby! Love u honey ❤️ @aashnahegde
@mahikanagar6322
3 жыл бұрын
We love you so much 🥺♥️
@sananalawade6852
3 жыл бұрын
Bravee u r! Such a sweet lady ❤
@bhupindersingh2408
3 жыл бұрын
She is that great lady
@siyaaundhekar6613
3 жыл бұрын
You're really brave!
@hiteshreeswadas
3 жыл бұрын
Gr8 work done by you mam. Appreciative
Imagine her dad now, looking at the success of his daughter and wife and regretting his actions.....
@nidhiaggarwal944
3 жыл бұрын
Yea!
@none3406
3 жыл бұрын
Who is her father?
@nidhiaggarwal944
3 жыл бұрын
@@none3406 Umesh Hegde
@nidhiaggarwal944
3 жыл бұрын
@@tanishkahargude21 uhh google and KZread
@moinuddinshaikh8381
3 жыл бұрын
Imagine kar sirf 😂😂😂pagal h ya sab k sab
When she said " I thought my dad loves me a little bit more than his alchohol " THAT HURTS 😪😪😪
@moinuddinshaikh8381
3 жыл бұрын
Chup
@adhoratripuraera7b-628
3 жыл бұрын
@@moinuddinshaikh8381 y??
@moinuddinshaikh8381
3 жыл бұрын
@@adhoratripuraera7b-628 kahani suna ne aithi ya makeup dikha ne😂😂😂
@adhoratripuraera7b-628
3 жыл бұрын
@@moinuddinshaikh8381 😒😒 camera k saamne aana hai...to thoda to makeup lage gaa... weird
@moinuddinshaikh8381
3 жыл бұрын
@@adhoratripuraera7b-628 thoda mat bol bhai pura reflection aarah aank band hogaya mera 😂😂😀
Best line ever...... I thought my dad loved me a little more than his alcohol Can't explain my feelings 😖
@pakkhihegde
2 жыл бұрын
Yeh me too😭
Now her dad must be regretting he left 3 LITRELLL GEMS (Paakhi,Aashna and Khushi)
@thefilmlookedits
3 жыл бұрын
yes❤
@pakkhihegde
2 жыл бұрын
Really hope so ❤️ coz I had loved him the most 😢
She is so soft spoken and well behaved , this shows her mother's upbringing !!!!
@Ravishka
3 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@pakkhihegde
3 жыл бұрын
Thanku so much 🙏🏻
@moinuddinshaikh8381
3 жыл бұрын
Bhai makeup 😂 isliye asu nahi nikle
@vaidehichaudhary7011
3 жыл бұрын
@@moinuddinshaikh8381 kafi jyada negative insan lgte hai aap!
@vaibhavigaur1842
2 жыл бұрын
@@moinuddinshaikh8381 maybe she is strong that's why she didn't cry I think so u really love make up makeup Kai islava kuch ata hai har jaga sirf makeup makeup
THIS LINE " In Future if you have kids TEACH THEM WHAT YOU WISH SOMEONE WOULD HAVE THOUGHT U " TOUCHED !
“Teach them everything u wish they had taught you” 🥺 Spoke my heart out.. lots of love xx
7:19 That friend,we need that kind of friend!!💚💚
The fact that she opened up about this topic is so courageous love her with all my heart 🥺❤️
@pakkhihegde
3 жыл бұрын
Thanku for the courage
OMG. Pakkhi is one AMAZING woman. The way she got through all of this all while managing her kids.. Much respect. Thank you Aashna, for sharing this with us. Wish you and your family nothing but the best.
@pakkhihegde
3 жыл бұрын
Thanku so much for these kind words 🙏🏻means world to me
I don't how how she managed 2 kids while working without anyone's support.. hats off to her💕💕💕💕💕👏👏👏👏👏
@pakkhihegde
3 жыл бұрын
Thanku so much! It was very very difficult Used to cry while I was all by myself on my shoots Couldn’t tell them ever That lot of times I was at such a place where there was no network so couldn’t get thru their numbers But I would miss them more
@kamalmakhija3377
3 жыл бұрын
@@pakkhihegde you are a gem!..loads of hugs!
@Sofia-lm6ul
3 жыл бұрын
@@pakkhihegde love u sm pakhi and congrats uve raised ur kids the best way ❤
The fact that Aashna's voice is so shakey through the video had me crying 🥺
@pakkhihegde
2 жыл бұрын
❤️hope u understand the pain that they must have n I must have gone thru
She was just 7 yrs old and had so much of understanding a big salute to u 👍👍🥺🥺
@adhoratripuraera7b-628
3 жыл бұрын
I was 5 years. Old when my parents got separate
@plakshasrivastava7918
3 жыл бұрын
@@adhoratripuraera7b-628 lots of love and courage to you🥺❤️
The sadest moment was when Aashna said I thought he loved me a little bit more than his alcohol
I love the way Pakkhi loves her children and nieces.She’s such a beautiful person inside and out.
@pakkhihegde
2 жыл бұрын
Thanku My love for them will b eternal ❤️😭 my heart weeps for them Hope to give them the best 😻
This line : Teach your kids everythng u wished somebody had tought u ... Touched !! 🙃🙃🙃 I cried after listening to the whole story ... U are really a brave girl ...
She is our Queen🙌🏻♥️🥺
O my god.... you hv struggled so much... i didn't even skip any second.... I'm speechless... my eyes filled with tears 😢
@AyshaAnis
3 жыл бұрын
Same my eyes are filled I love her so much and she deserves the world💓
@laiqasuhaanagill4763
3 жыл бұрын
Same!
@aanyasharma811
3 жыл бұрын
Same !
"Teach them everything you wished someone had thaught you" this line touched my heart
She will become the best mom ever
Omg is anyone else crying I love you Aashna you deserve the world
SPEECHLESS. CRYING. YOU DESERVE THE BEST.
Emotional. But Encouraging for all the women out in the world.
I know ur mum Ashna.I have met her in lokhandwala long time back.We had hanged around couple of times ...I know how excited she used to be even for that few hrs she came put of the house..She always wanted to get in to acting...So happy to see whr she is right now ...Bless u all.Stay happy always..This is almost more than 15 yrs back..So she won't remebr me ...We used to call her Usha
Aashnaa, youv'e made me cry . girl you have my whole heart and trust me your mother is so so proud of youu and you'll make her even more proud.
omg ashna...this is why we love u...u go girl..the way u opened about these hard situations and things in ur life...ashna u will have an amzing journey and u being my biggest inspiration i wish u sooo much love blessings and power..u literally deserve the best..i love u with all my heart and u know what u R THE BESTEST FRND,SISTER.DAUGHTER AND IDOL ANYONE CAN HAVE these sentecnes may be an understatement in front of an amazing heart like urs love u 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡
Ur story is so emotional Aashna . Your a courageous and a spectacular women inspiring all the women out there with your story .
Girl you are so so so strong.. And that's because of your mother she is so strong... Like u made me cry... Loads and loads of love 💞 Stay strong 💙💞
This is so motivational and very emotional at the same time 🥺🥺I follow Aashna now from 1 year🤞🏻I have never seen her so emotional like🥺behind that bubbly and such a happy person there's a very very very very strong woman 🙌🏻♥️♥️and of course her mother she's a super woman🙌🏻
Speechless 🥺❤️ You’ll definitely make her proud Very very soon And always be brave Thankyouuuuu for sharing this beautiful story!! Loadsof love❤️
Aashna I need you to teach me how you're so well spoken and confident and everything I look up to as a woman
You are so strong Aashna. And having gone through so much so early in life, you are still so kind. We all love and adore you for who you are!
I just realized how much I love my mom and how much she means to me. What sacrifices she did or still does for me. Thanks aashna
She is the strongest woman I know!! She opened up to us all about the topic most closest to her heart, and she did it so well. I couldn’t be more prouder to be a part of Aashgang, she deserves all the love in the world🥺🤍 She has been through so much yet still stands strong as a QUEEN! I love you so much Aash, keep making us proud!! And thankyou Pakkhi for being the biggest support in her life. I love youu both♥️ (and also a happy 5MILLION on Befikar!!😫)
Speechless, crying n so proud 😭❤️.Your mom is so brave n we all salute her bravery❤️👍.U all deserve all the happiness n success in your lives ❤️🌍.love u ❤️
The comments are enough to tell about the video but let me just tell you this is the most honest and purest video I've ever seen! Paakhi being the strongest and aashna and khushi being the most understanding children ❤ This made me so emotional.. Lots of hugs and love to you by my side 💗
😢You have been through a lot Aashna Di. It really takes a lot of courage to tell your dark past/struggle to the world. You have perfectly hidden so much pain behind your beautiful face and smile. I agree with you that "mothers should give their quality time not quantity of time".
I was searching ur ted talk in yutub bcoz I had missed it n i cant find it on yutub.. Bt finally I was able to see ur ted talk n we r Proud of ur mom..aashna ur our fav. Aashna
I could see the emotion in her when she was speaking but as she said she is as brave as her mom is.... I really love youuu and thiss made me emotional and the award part is smthng that i do even after being 15...i love youuu and damnfam
I cried while watching this!!🥺This is so brave of you Aashna, telling your life in front of all of us!!❤And the biggest salute to Aashna's mom! I mean she is the bravest!!❤❤
I have to say this, Ashna, you are also so strong and courageous like your mother. And she must be really proud of you.
This made me love &respect her more than ever!
I can't believe that behind the smile of Aashna there's a lot of bad memories, But lots of love to you aashna !! 🥰❤🥺
You were so good. No words literally man! Salute to all women. Damn brave!
Love u aashna u r the bravest person ever ever ever seen and loads of loveeee U r the best ✨✨❣️❣️
This bought me into tears!🥺
We women are stronger than we know!!Believe in yourself and go for it!
I literally started crying!!! You both are really brave as well as khushi!!! They have a really nice up-bringing!! Love you ❤️❤️ all!!!
Though we aren't people who know you personally but I am sure I am not the only one who feels really proud of you and am sure that you are one of the only people who will not only open up about family problems but also own up to mistakes you have made... ❤️🥺 We are proud to see how far you have come ❤️😭
Your speech made me cry you are amazing and I appreciate your and your mom's hardwork
Every mom need such an understanding daughter in difficult times🥰💜
Everyone thought after seeing you that , your life is so easy but after knowing all of these things ,now people can relate that every one's life is difficult. Only matters is hardwork and dedication speaks ..
You go girl👏.. This is so motivational and emotional too... I just loved you before but now i love you more and more ... More power and respect to you Aash💖💖
I can’t be more proud of this girl for doing what she did, sharing this story with the whole world
This video was in recommendation for 4 days!!I was ignoring it,but then I thought let's just watch and finish this right here!And damn,I am glad that I heard such an empowering story!❤
you and your mother are super brave.............. you are so grateful to have such brave women's around you
AASHNA, YOU GOO GIRL🥺❤️
Omg!! The 1st part of ur story sounds just like a part of my life I mean I could completely understand ur situation becoz somehow I m standing on that spot of my life ur speech gave me tears, goosebumps and inspiration I how u gain more and more success and make ur mother proud.🤧❤
I was so emotional after listening this❤️🌎and then even i got motivated❤️🥺aashna's mother and aashna you both are so strong ❤️i could see aashna controlling her tears😔❤️love you so muchh❤️🌎😘
Go ahead dear . I just literally started crying and so proud of u and Ur mom . U inspires me every time. Thank you 💜
After hearing Aashna I'm totally speechless. Aashna you're an amazing, kind, and the best inspiration for all the girls I truly admire your honesty, polite and sweet nature whenever you talk about your Mom and specially talk Khushi it feels so overwhelming and reminds me and my sister who's 10 years older to me. We both had childhood in different boarding school my Di use to come visit me all the time when she missed and mostly our Parents were in United States for making our future bright. Now that we are together she is happily married having one daughter and she's soon going to be a Mom again I love taking care of every moment of Pregnancy and also taking care of niece playing with her all the moments are really overwhelming and love this time it also reminds me when I was young she use to spend all the time with me playing, grooming me and cooking all favorites dishes. Now, I'm doing same thing with niece it's just like a blessings of God and our Parents. We are great faimly together.
Thissss is so emotional. I'm literally weeping 😭❤️. You are a QUEEN
It takes me just 2 seconds to start crying❤😭such a brave girl
By watching this video your mother feel so proud of you .... you’re such a brave girl🤗❤️
I have tears in my eyes after watching this video .
I every time wanted to know about this since i started following her. she is always the best person. The way she speaked toched my heart .
The way she represented the story is amazing in so polite manner 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
You're so humble!!!!! I have been following you since 3 years now and I just loveee the way you are. And the way you carry yourself. You, Khushi and Pakkhi are just incredibly strong women💛🌻
missed hi guys n welcm back 2 my chanelllllllllllllllllll....from her....but abt the video..i dint knew there is this version of aashna behind that bubbly happy girl..i could see you tried a lottt to control your tears di......its completely different from what we see on her channel and damnfam channel.....how bold n fierce n strong are u aashna di and khushi di n paakhi aunty...so proud...
Damn! It’s so emotional🥺you are so strong! & there’s more to come! We are with you🧚♀️✨LOVE YOUU🥺❤️ Honestly; I’m crying😩HATS OFF TO YOUR MOM & YOU🦋
I literally cried... Your story your talk made so so emotional.! YOUR MOTHER AND YOU ARE True inspiration ..! HATS OFF TO PAKHI HEGDE FOR RAISING HER OWN VOICE. FOR CREATING HER OWN IMAGE WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE SAY.. AND APPRECIATION TO YOU AASHNA DI, LIKE 7 YEARS OLD?? AND YOU UNDERSTOOD EVERYTHING AND SUPPORTED HER..!!❤️❤️❤️ SO SO SO SO SO PROUD OF YOU BOTH❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏✨✨✨ KEEEP RISING❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It chocked my breath ... Such hard was my cry . Aashna literally deserves uncountable millions ❤️
Soo respect for your mom and to you aashna...this takes alot of courage and I'm soo proud..❤️ The wrong thing should not be entertained and the decision taken by your mom was so correct and now you and khushi are so talented people in this world ❤️ Lots of love ❤️❤️
Though I’m not your friend but still I wish to meet you & give a tight hug🥺🥺🥺 I appreciate your mom’s hardwork❤️🥰🔥
@aimanfatima5394
3 жыл бұрын
Same love you Aashna Di Love From London.
Hearing this makes my too emotional 🥺🥺 I just love her so much 🥺❤❤
This is the best thing i've seen on internet today it made my heart so full to see you succeed in your lifee I love you so much and i'm so emotional and happpy rightttt nowwwww.
I always wondered about that....but now I know and have soooo much more respect for them hats off to the whole hegde fam !! 😊♥️
This video has my heart🥺🥺❤️❤️I wish I could just give you a hug right now!! Kudos to your mom for all that she has done and is doing. She has definitely raised two amazing and brilliant daughters❤️more love and power to you and your mom!!🥺
PERIODT. I love this lady so much and my respect for her just keeps on increasing❤️❤️
Emotional , I am still in tears 💕more power to you paakhi , aashna and khushi ............................................ love love love love for all of you
Aashna- Such a brave girl..❤️ love u a lottttt🥺🥰😘❤️😍
Aashna you are an inspiration ❣️ My eyes are so teary right now 🥺 Lots of love to you and your mother ❤️❤️❤️
My whole heart can't stop crying hearing this 😭😭😭
I got chills!! Very emotional!! I started crying 😭 hatts of to you aashna , and ur mother. Ur mother sets an example for thousands ❤️
@pakkhihegde
2 жыл бұрын
❤️dnt have words 😻
Omgggg...so proud of you aashna, so proud of you pakkhi maa, so proud of you Khushi, so proud of your maasi, so proud of esha di , so proud of dingy..had never came across this video before...today I saw it for the first time and I am crying..it's so true that our mom's are the best gift in our life..we are existing because of them, they never did or will never let their children down..they always cherish our success and are always there for us in our difficult situations...can't thank them enough for existing every time we need them...love you mom...thank you very very much...love you a lot...and for every mom out there...we were,we are and we will be so proud of you...we are so grateful for your existance in our life...thank you for being the person you our...thank you love you🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️
That's the only reason why I love her so much 🥺🥺❤️ . Love her with all my heart ❤️
Aashna didi hats off to your amazing mom who has stood up and become strong despite the problems she had and hats of to you for being such a helpful and courageous daughter who always stood by her. 💕
OMG! This made me cry! My motivation + inspiration + role model ! Strongest women's!❤️
My whole hearttt😭😭😭❤️ I'm soo so so proud of her
This made me cry 😭❤️ love you sach a strong women ❤️
So proud of you aashna ,you are strong and so is your mother, every women should stand for her self respect and her happiness
I was literally cryinggg AASHNA you are a GEM❤️🥺😭
I wish i could just hug you today aashna di so so so proud of you really hope to meet you some day. God bless you❤
So proud of you and your mom. This made me so happy as well as emotional, you spoke so well and I loved it. Kudos to you!
U r true true inspirational girl and handsof to your mom...... God blessed u always stay happy forever
This was so beautiful and heartwarming! I am in awe of you and your mom! Lots of love to your family!