Daydreaming Your Way to Success | Dolly Singh | TEDxManipalUniversityJaipur
Dolly Singh is one of India's most versatile social media influencer. She is a senior content creator at iDiva, a KZreadr and a feature packed fashion blogger. She speaks about her struggles with imposter syndrome and how she overcame all the hurdles in life with positivity and optimism. Dolly Singh is the India's most versatile social media influencer. She is a senior content creator at iDiva, a KZreadr and a feature-packed fashion blogger. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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The only reason I came here was to appreciate how well she's pulled off a saree with a full presentation coat
@akanksharaj1454
4 жыл бұрын
Ditto😅😂
@Earthling108
4 жыл бұрын
She’s pretty lol it can happen
@senoritadash1337
4 жыл бұрын
M also 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@jodjethalal5531
4 жыл бұрын
same
@sobiaayub7099
4 жыл бұрын
Same😂😂
“Even a compliment can feel like an attack.“that’s how sad the world is !!! 💯
@shristimohanty3492
4 жыл бұрын
it shook me too!
@itoocanmakeadifference5838
4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@hambonefakenamington69
4 жыл бұрын
thats happened w me. im used to telling people if I like their dress or if they look pretty. they get so uncomfortable if its not coming for their friends and they kinda start thinking you're cringey and weird
She gives so Phoebe buffay vibes. I think she’ll be the perfect Indian artist to play that character if ever attempted.
Teenage yrs of a girl are really weird but then later on we realise that we needed such experiences to develop ourselves from within ♥🤩
@Suhaniv3
4 жыл бұрын
True
@hanji1041
4 жыл бұрын
What's with that emoji
@shaniabalkhi2106
4 жыл бұрын
You're soo right !
@aravindsooryakant8318
4 жыл бұрын
And your name is Dolly too
@NehaSingh-ty2vk
4 жыл бұрын
Right
When she says "When you finish a struggle and another one just pop up and you have to face it that's the beauty of life" i felt that
Ok I cried. I was feeling down and this video felt like a warm hug. I love her so much
@kawaljeetkaur8029
4 жыл бұрын
Felt the same ♥️
@itoocanmakeadifference5838
4 жыл бұрын
The story felt realistic to me
@aayushivasnik
4 жыл бұрын
@@kbshrivastav8539 hahahah good luck with your delusions Mr insecure
@nandini3025
4 жыл бұрын
@@kbshrivastav8539 Do you have something good to say about? If not, then get lost
Ted talks is bringing real people to whom we can relate too
@punam7380
4 жыл бұрын
True
@missrelaxed3872
4 жыл бұрын
Truth
@downtowngirl8953
3 жыл бұрын
I have uploaded my first video pls like n subscribe❤
Dolly is amazing. A self-made small town girl who is a thinking, intelligent and honest person, and a bona fide social media star.
@damaniyashita
3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
I thought she is talking about myself but what I realised is this is the story of every next... yes I am a daydreamer too
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
Hello fellow daydreamer
@b32komal91
4 жыл бұрын
@@dollysinghofficial 💙🌼💙
@varshaLS0506
4 жыл бұрын
me too.
@sleepsmartsmashstress740
4 жыл бұрын
I am a daydreamer too
@missrelaxed3872
4 жыл бұрын
Me too
Same que... By me to my parents "can i be a fashion designer?" My parents - "tailor bnna h?" Such a weird feeling came! 😅
@beheshtasiddiqui900
4 жыл бұрын
Tailor phir b acha sound karta... Mere tau kehte hai k Darzi banne hai.
@Vatsal_dwivedi
4 жыл бұрын
@@beheshtasiddiqui900 INDIAN PARENTS H BHN... KUCH NHI KR SKTE...
@vinushathakkelapati5523
3 жыл бұрын
Same question was asked, "do you want to become a tailor?" And I reminded them, our tailor asks for minimum of 4k for any garment she makes, and we can save money... Now I am in second year of fashion designing 😂😁
@Vatsal_dwivedi
3 жыл бұрын
@@vinushathakkelapati5523 hayee 😍😍😍
@Vatsal_dwivedi
3 жыл бұрын
@@vinushathakkelapati5523 sach bolu to sun k achha lga...wrna yha to sbko doctor engineer n IAS k alawa to kuch bnana hi nhi h bachhe ko 😑
It was so relatable to a girl like me. I daydream because i find it more interesting and happy than the reality. And at this point in life i was clueless about what I'm gonna do in life but this video made me feel better. It's ok to be clueless sometimes and definitely one day we are all gonna figure out in life what we are best at .
@woodsofchaos
4 жыл бұрын
Google "maladaptive daydreaming". Check out the reddit community, you might find kinship and empathy like nowhere else. Also check online if you have ADHD symptoms. One more thing, just because something makes you feel better doesn't mean that it's good for you. Think about that.
@bansivekariya8348
4 жыл бұрын
I too do that....and t want to change my imagination into reality...
@Aclinicalperspective
3 жыл бұрын
@@woodsofchaos correct
@penny5011
3 жыл бұрын
@@bansivekariya8348 same here...
@glossnotes3280
3 жыл бұрын
@@woodsofchaos exactly....I was like that (still I am may be). I used to think that it makes me happy,I do not care about others. But then I saw this term on twitter and them Boom!!!!! Actually it was the main reason of most of my life problems. So, basically my coping mechanism was more problematic than my actual problems. Now I am working in this,trying to overcome this💜
"Day dreaming is a way to attract things" Even Abraham Hicks says so!
@downtowngirl8953
3 жыл бұрын
I have uploaded my first video pls like n subscribe❤
I used to think I am the only person who has not figured out my purpose/career/goals for this life, but now I know that I want to pour the beauty of this world into my own life, and bring my authentic self to my career/goals/day to day life.
She must be a CBSE student..... We had that chapter. I studied that chapter this year but , I didn't remember the name until she said.😂🤣🤣
@akankshajoshi8788
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah she was my senior in MLSBVM, Nainital.
@joyeesarkar
4 жыл бұрын
I studied it too
@Ieltswithpreet
4 жыл бұрын
I studied too
@bansivekariya8348
4 жыл бұрын
heyy,,true dude...😂😂
@bhoorvchauhan6983
4 жыл бұрын
@Sneha _P going places
Love the Sari and Blazer combo!
Though I dont really like her content apart from Raju ki mummy, I really like her as a person, i like to see her interviews more.
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I like the honesty :)
@blackforest1132
4 жыл бұрын
@@dollysinghofficial :)
@Anjaliknwar194
4 жыл бұрын
@@dollysinghofficial I love you dolly ....You are great!
I didn't knew about her existence..before watching her video about her school life....and that was so damn relatable.....and yes I'm in love with this girl now....so inspiring, never felt like this before for any celebrity
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
That's so kind of you Pritika, thank youu
@pritikachauhan4352
4 жыл бұрын
@@dollysinghofficial thank you mam for replying....you made my day ❣️🤩😍
The only girl with whom i relate so much on the internet. She is so down to earth she still reply my all comments on her Instagram not like others ♥️
Love her story and her personality. She’s such an inspiration to all the youths out there.
Just love her; so brave to come in public and talk about all her insecurities; a real inspiration
While my English teacher was teaching Going Places and told us how bad day dreaming is,my heart beat was rising.... He was talking exactly about me!
@aakritisrivastava7785
4 жыл бұрын
Sameeeee
@kishmish2703
4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo sis sameE
@chhandamitaroy739
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
Good to know there are people like me who can daydream and talk with the bathroom items like the people in a board meeting 🤣
I love Dolly for who she is.
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺💛
@MousumiBirajMB
4 жыл бұрын
@@dollysinghofficial 💜💜💜
I just love tha way she love her self. Sach me khud ko pure sach ke sath apna pana muskil hota h . Thanks sharing story with us ❤️❤️ love u
9:14 I feel like she's saying exactly what's happening in my head all the time I really have no idea what my life would be in upcoming years
Every girl can relate to her .... very down to earth yet cut above the rest 👍
I came to watch it coz of her dressing sense...But it's really awesome...And so much relatable...
i looove dolly singh, theres something about her that radiates so much positivity, and i love all her characters especially guddi bhabhi and raju ki mummy
That's true when I compliment someone they got shocked coz they thought I m doing with some hidden purpose... reality of the world
You're the most genuine person I've heard on internet
Just started the video..and I love what she is wearing!
Love the way she speaks ...and I'm sure she inspired everyone over here..!!! ...me too a daydreamer..with lots of dreams and...and I want to..make my self ...to stand their where the crowd we is for me..!!! ''Standing in the crowd is not my motive rather the crowd for which one is standing is to become me..'' a 15 yr girl ...Roshni****
Don't we all love dolly singh❤❤
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
I love you
@gapoochigapoochi
4 жыл бұрын
@@dollysinghofficial Dolly I love you more you have no idea how you cheered me up with your comment when I am going through a low time. You always find ways to inspire everyone 😭❤❤
@youtubecommenter3407
4 жыл бұрын
No
@downtowngirl8953
3 жыл бұрын
I have uploaded my first video pls like n subscribe❤
@namiellame4488
2 жыл бұрын
No
And here's to the Daydreamer's 💜 Wow, I know it sounds cliched but I can relate to this so much on so many levels 🙌🏼😘. Thanks a lot 😭😭❣️
"I was 22 and still clueless" i felt that.😑
Such an honest speech @DollySingh! I have always adored you for the honesty you never stepped back to show. You may have passed a friendless childhood, so did I more or less but because of that, you could give a lot of company and support to your subscribers who are suffering from the same reasons once you did. Lots of love and more power to you. Love from Estonia and Bangladesh as I am a Bangladeshi Living in Estonia now!
she is wearing one of few fusion saree dress that i like....keep shining gurl
@downtowngirl8953
3 жыл бұрын
I have uploaded my first video pls like n subscribe❤
Daniel Radcliffe ..imaginary bf...🙋(my whole teenage life)
@nilanjana7776
4 жыл бұрын
Yes me too
@ggdd8666
4 жыл бұрын
I think he is imaginary bf of every 90s girl
@anupamaxo9367
4 жыл бұрын
@@ggdd8666 and early 21st century girls too.
@sukanyaparashar9474
3 жыл бұрын
Well, it's Draco Malfoy for me
She is someone with whom I can relate to atleast at this point of time in my life ❤️ You are an inspiration Dolly 🤗A warm hug to you and you don't fail to remind everyone that "Each one of us deserves our own love and hugs"
Yes I know entire chapter " going places , Sophie is a girl who remains unpractical and indulges herself in day dreaming .
@tabasumiman8552
3 жыл бұрын
Can i get the whole story
@CTusharTyagi
3 жыл бұрын
@@tabasumiman8552 😂
@CTusharTyagi
3 жыл бұрын
Here
@tabasumiman8552
3 жыл бұрын
@@CTusharTyagi 😂😂😂😂
@tanvygupta9181
3 жыл бұрын
Impractical*
I must say her story is damn inspiring! Feels so relatable and honest❤️
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
💛💛
YOU'RE A GEM OF A PERSON, Dolly! I love you a lotttttt❤️
We love you Dolly 😭 You're an amazing amazing person.🌼Never ever let anyone say anything about you or define you. It's not at all related to you but themselves. A lot of love to you and anyone who feels alone. Be your own hero! You got it buddy!♥️
For the first time in my life I came across someone who implied life on brushes just as me ❤ relatable!!
she is just so relatable!!!🤯 the bathroom talk; the harry potter imaginary boyfrnd; being born skinny & dusky; being shy & introverted (don't have many frnds😂)🤯🤯🤯 currently even im seeing to be a fashion designer; also the self hugging part 👀..,why do i have so much similarities with her🤯 How will i sleep tonight?🤯😂
@vaishnaveeee3870
3 жыл бұрын
Yaa
I want to become PM of India With utmost sincererity, I would travel every suffering part of the nation and fire or Shame the corrupt officers. I am fastidious in some aspects, it cannot be helped. But it's very difficult position, I still get laughed at for saying this welfare stuff. Because truly even NGO's can't be much of help that the PM could provide. Am I thinking too far, I am still 17. Don't dare to judge me by my age.
@Soundaryar09
4 жыл бұрын
So you are going to compete with me.. well I like competition 😜
@joy-ow4ey
4 жыл бұрын
Dim P You could be sincere, but there is lot more politics involved...Than just travelling to suffering parts of nation and shaming corrupt officers.
@parmeshwarisharma3718
4 жыл бұрын
Hey brother I can relate so much to you. I am Just 18 however I think on these issues deeply.
@riyachhabra4940
4 жыл бұрын
Dude you have my vote, no sarcasm
@vamsi7091
4 жыл бұрын
There are a very few teen who would dream to be so You are strong may you wish come true I ll wait till you become one You have all my good wishes
Beautiful speech..i can relate and understand..stay beautifilul and blessed..
The reason I have so much respect for her. Loads of love.
What a beautiful talk! Love you Dolly Singh! Thenk yoeewwww!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘
my goodness, this crowd is a nightmare.
Her speech was so comforting.. I could see myself in her..I too was very insecure but now I don’t care less about others opinions..
She somewhat taught us the art of self love.
Wowwww what a fabulous speech. So so proud of you.❤️ More power to you. You're a inspiration. 🥺💕✨
I saw one of her blog. She's from small town but the confidence she carries and the way she presents herself always..even the girl from Delhi like me doesn't have that...in fact all those girls who achieved so much without much support..kudos to them..kudos to her...appreciated
I am not really a big fan of Dolly Singh but I really appreciate the way she shared her story. In a very honest and raw way. 🙌
What an amazingly talented person she is. And sharing that journey is an inspiration for so many out there. That certain honesty in her makes her more adorable. Lots oc love Dolly
The last thing she did was so heart touching 🥺
Even I am dating Daniel Radcliffe (as in hallucinations) !!! You are so me!!! I am not the only one
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
Hahah
IG explore used to show her posts but I never cared to actually see it but then one day there was a post about her childhood and I was touched. Since then, she's always been a very inspiring lady for me.
Have been waiting for this Ted Talk for so long now.. finally watching from your Instagram swipe up link and this talk is heart touching, so real and inspirational... always admire you Dolly Singh
The topper was back...i really need this
It was really nice to know you. I could relate to your story so much.. from the deep heart love for Daniel Radcliffe to the imposter syndrome, even though i don't know if i have the syndrome really but, i do get this feeling most of the times that whatever i have today i don't deserve any of it. It felt good to know your story and to know that it's okay not to know what you want in life even as a grown up of 23 years old. Well, I'm 25 now and I'm yet to figure that out about my life, I hope your story will help me in my future decision. Thank you so much for ted-talking about it. :)
Influencers like her .and komal pandey etc are real Influencers....and motivation speakers
Going through a period of transformation myself, after listening to you I feel that it'll take time but every thing will be better than before, life will come to a full circle for me and any person who is watching this as well.
Such a beautiful talk. Very real, honest ( so much that you let go off those grammatical errors and enjoy) and crisp in her story telling. A smooth delivery about daydreaming with different aspects of life -mental health, depression, self confidence basically taking care of ourselves. Loved it!
The last line where this lady suggested everyone to hug oneself was so damn deep and full of acceptance.... hits right in the feels 😍🌈
The only influencer I love.....❣️❣️💃
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
Love youu
The way you told your story was wowsome .. I am happy that I heard it at this time .It made me feel powerful 🌈❤
You're so inspiring and such a beautiful person in and out. You deserve all the happiness in life 🥺❤️A big hug to you🤗love youu❤️
Dolly singh have her own channel,, love you ❤️❤️
Much needed.🌈 Thank you so much Dolly. Love Love ♥️
I was feeling really low and you put a smile on my face. Thank you Dolly for this honest sharing. God Bless.
there are less no. of person like her nd she is one of the gem always encourag us like alwayy 💕
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
Love you Shikha
You're an ideal for a reason! Just amazing❤ loved your speech!✨ more power to you!
Thank you Tedx for Dolly Singh! I love this wonderful woman.
i do relate to this so much..bt only frst part..i still didn't find any work which i really like😂😂
Everything is possible ! Three cheers to this wonderful and beautiful lady adds value to her life everyday ! A lot of appreciation and love from this side ❤️ You deserve an ocean full of love and care Miss Dolly Singh. You are the best !
Beautiful said… greetings from Sanfrancisco!❤️
Totally agree with her I too daydream to escape the reality this was too emotional
Awesome, I love you dolly. And I just wanted to let you know that I am a person who is just like you.😘
You know what i just felt asleep .. Bcz its so me . i am telling you my past... It's so feeling good to hear and feeling so confident.... And think i just have to compliment bcz it's so worth it. Love you dollyy... You are such a inspiration for us.... Whenever you felt low. Just remember there are 20k people really love you to watch who the really you are... 😘😘😘
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
Love youuuu
I do relate to this so much.
Thank you so much for talking of this argument and sharing your personal story. Very inspiring.
@dollysinghofficial
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the love
Her dressing sense is so unique
Oh my God, Dolly you are very inspiring. I really loved watching this video. Thank you so much for sharing. Love you Dolly.
I was there at Manipal and attended your show. Ur amazing😍
Love you Dolly! You're an inspiration
I am actually starting to like this girl more and more now
I'm 30 years old and I still don't know what I want to do in my life...
@csml4519
3 жыл бұрын
thts ok u shld start doing small things what if you find something you like,trial snd error works a lots... dear do it know..
@shekhargarhwal9516
3 жыл бұрын
you r far better than these tedx losers
@m11nt
3 жыл бұрын
And, that's completely fine.
I’m 25 still don’t know what to do with my life??!!! “CONFUSED ME”
@tashilhamu4510
4 жыл бұрын
Do you like cooking, art craft, home decor, singing, dancing, fashion, etc?
@tashilhamu4510
4 жыл бұрын
What are you subconsciously attraced to? What kind of games you play online?
@tashilhamu4510
4 жыл бұрын
Anonymous Assassin hmm like i already predicted that you are not academic. So what is free fire about
@tashilhamu4510
4 жыл бұрын
I see its a shooting battle kinda game. Any thots about joining the police or army? You dont need einsteins brain for that
@tashilhamu4510
4 жыл бұрын
Anonymous Assassin i think you might wanna join the army police kinda thing
It takes a lot of courage to speak of your struggles... More power to you Dolly!
dear you deserve all great in life ..Thank you very much..honesty with self ..yes v imp accepts self and world ..Take care
You're a gem Dolly! Such a real person you are!!❤️
How can someone's story be so similar to my situation in life..
The best part you said was " that's beautiful" God bless you😇
Dolly, so well said and you look beautiful!
"GOD 🙏🏼BLESS 🙌🏻"U DEAR ❣️💞💕♥️
This actually gave me some hope.
Am so glad this video was on my recommendation list. Hello Dolly....My fellow Daydreamer Loved Ur cheerful persona
Wonderful speech...