100% truth. Any smart man would love a strong, caring, down to earth woman. That to me is more showing of intelligence than any degree or job. Real people attract real people.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

J.A Osario that's right! ppl like ppl of all walks of life, backgrounds and physical appearances. I think what keeps someone from dealing with someone, is for the mere fact they may be concerned about what others think. There are no stipulations on love or attractions. We like who we do and no matter what others say or think we will be with them regardless. The world tells us to like someone based off how they look or what they have.

This is what I've been trying to tell my friend lately. She swears no one will love her because she doesn't have a degree or fancy job. I tell her that a man can love her because of the person she is.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

+UnlimitedProdiction1, you told your friend correctly. She will be loved on who she is when the man that's right for her comes into her life.

150% True!!!! I actually experienced this at a young age. The guy wasnt too attractive but I looked at his behavior towards me. Too young to realize at the time. As we have gotten older he'd always tell me I made him feel good and how I had him wrapped around my finger. He treated me like a Queen. I ended up leaving him for another guy, that guy ended up getting Married to his High School Sweetheart. Hurt I Was n Young.

Great points. Nothing's worse than a stank woman who isn't even cool. You can be finer than Beyonce and truly intelligent, but stank on top of it. Nobody on Earth wants to deal with that.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

anythingisplenty, I couldn't agree with you more. These "dime pieces " are sometimes the ugliest, arrogant and disrespectful ppl you'll come across.

My former Pastor stated something to that Extent. Like when you see a Couple and one is less Attractive that other Mate makes them feel good. I say this from Experience Looks tend to take the back seat to Feelings. People Want To Feel Good in a Relationship.

Beautiful ending. This is strength, this type of kindness and intelligence. That is strength. Not being arrogant and having a superiority complex.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

anythingisplenty, that's the key! Being humble with no superiority complex is definitely beautiful.

greetings from the u.k. sis. this was soo encouraging once again. sometimes we feel irrelevant because of the lack of education, etc etc. but you are so right, if he loves you, it's because of who we are. not 'the bonuses' stay blessed xxxx.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Maya, yes queen it's a true fact that gets overlooked! When a man is attracted to you, likes you or is drawn to you for particular reasons it's not always because you have it ALL TOGETHER. We have been made to believe that "looking good" "being educates" "cleaning " "cooking" etc guarantees a marriage or a MAN. Not so! We like who we want too like REGARDLESS. In the end when it's all said and done we will date, marry and settle with whom we enjoy no matter what others think, say or feel. This is why it's so important to not feel superior over ppl or things that's looked down upon.

My dear you said a mouthful. great truth. Thanks.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

miss trish thanks beautiful queen! I hope it helps someone.

Wow this is eye opener 😊.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Yasmin Bagley, when somebody likes you it doesn't matter what others think about them. A mature person is going to date or be attracted to who they want and love who they want no matter what.

Hey I just discovered this channel an I just wanna be honest.... I may be a teenage guy but this woman keeps it real for y’all.

Lady, I admire your truth in so many ways. Because When it comes to relationships in my personal opinion I feel US men are more so pointed out in our faults and nature that women become left out as if they do not play a part just as much as we do and it then becomes unfair because NONE OF US ARE PERFECT. Thank you for standing for what is right on both ends of the field and genders. Much Love!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Broadrian Blackmon you're more than welcome. I took notice to the fact that so many women become arrogant and truly believe they're a catch because of what they've accomplished, how they look, or what they do. Those things are important but some men will still love and respect a woman that may not be completely together. When you really like somebody you overlook where they may be flawed.

@broadrianblackmon2808

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh That is so true, and thank God that its still some good men and women out here and I noticed that you happen to be one of them. You have some very good insight and knowledgeable videos that opens up alot of peoples eyes to the fear of the unknown. We all deserve the truth for those who are true and to the ones who arent, Its not too late for them

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Broadrian Blackmon that's so sweet of you to say. I appreciate you so much. What I do is tough because some people that aren't ready for the truth and self awareness get defensive and angry. Much responsibility comes with what I do but God has anointed me to speak, inspire, uplift, and give hope to the masses. I love when people like you are mature enough to understand what and why I create the content that I do. I have so much more to share with you guys. You won't regret watching this channel.

@broadrianblackmon2808

6 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh You are so very welcome and it feels good to be appreciated and Im sure you feel the same. I can only imagine the pressure of taking the time out of your busy schedule to impower others. To much is given much is required and it sounds like you have a calling on your life. Go ahead and say yes lol. I dont regret a thing thus far, nor being given the opportunity to connect with you on this level of intellect. Perhaps we could share testimonies of our past experiences if you're interested

You got it right!It is definitely not the clothes and jewelry but the woman attitude and gracefulness that makes a man love a woman.A woman that make him feel good and confident!

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

rasibou1, that's exactly right! When it comes to love there is no stipulations on being loved. When someone likes you, they like you regardless. I don't care what you've done, how you are, or what you haven't accomplished. Ppl like and fall in love with who they want.

You know what I started to realize I love in a woman as of late? One who is comfortable in her very own skin.......literally AND figuratively.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Nick Genius, I love it!! A person who is comfortable in their own skin is very attractive.

Peace Queen....you are sharp as hel!...lol.....I too have been celibate for two years now so i am feeling your presentations! Got a JEWEL for you next time....Peace & Blessings

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Ommid Jamal X Wow!!! Congrats to you on your two years of celibacy brother!!!! I'm so happy for you. Keep up the good work.

O.M.G. is all I can say...this is so true! To finally see videos where help and guidance are offered to people who have or maybe experiencing this is awesome. I can see your videos helping rebuild marriages/relationships. Keep up the good work girl.

That's right most women ignore his imperfections, indiscretions and all his flaws just to keep him content. They will do what they want no matter who or what

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Bosslady Sanders, that is so true! There are no requirements for someone to love you. Whoever came up with this mess about you having to have certain things first before being loved is a fool. A man that likes you will mess with you regardless of what anybody says or thinks. The top notch women sometimes get over looked and the bottom of the barrel women get chose because they possess something so simple but beautiful, and the man observing them likes it.

wow thanks for this info

YOUR Topics are Very specific an GREAT!!! LOVE U MOVE AFTER EACH VIDEO❤❤❤

You're right and do appreciate you voicing the truth.Thanks again!

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Percee P you're more than welcome.

I gotta problem with a woman that always calling me when she need me especially women in relationships 😡😡

@missctolbertvoh

2 жыл бұрын

Cut her off. Don't allow her to use you.

Lol.......This is pretty much really on point.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Mayakahla Ach, lol thanks. There are no stipulations on being loved. Love stands on its own. No matter what state you're in we each are worthy to be loved.

Now this I can respect.An Intelligent women outways beauty.That's my opinion.Where are the American black women like this one.

You! nailed it again with this video.. you got me crying.. I'm that humble person.. that woman think all the time they are much more desirable..

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Jananet Spivey awwwe boo don't cry. You're a woman that's just being who you truly are. Whether we feel we have it all together or not there are still some things we each need to improve. This is what I wanted the ladies to know that was watching this video.

dang, I love you, ... you are raw!!! believe me, from a male point of view, ladies, ... she just told the truth ok, she did and she's on point like crazy!!! thank you so much again and again!!!

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Tossmc thanks again honey! Love has no stipulations. When you like someone you like them and you can't it. The world has tricked us and made us believe that we must first have something in particular before we are considered to be loved. Thats the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

Real Talk!

Wow... this was right on time. Great video 💗

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

wonderbread152 thank you!

Auntie Erykah told us this in "Booty"

Thank you for posting this.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Kiara Montgomery you're more than welcome beautiful queen! Glad you enjoyed it. 😙❤

A good point indeed, and I'll say a woman that isn't constantly worried about her rank among other women can be quite attractive. Just don't take this as "I can do whatever I want, men will still want me" just stay sure to always show an equal amount of respect to your significant other

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Just some bird I couldn't agree with you more! We definitely can't do what we want but we should have an equal amount of respect for our significant other. I want the ladies to understand that.

True Statement

Amazing Video. Absolute Truth.

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Russell Turner thank you.

Imperfections and indiscretions.......so true, Key. A lot of women feel like because they are supportive, and don't trip on their man, and they sit back and let their man do whatever they are the chosen one.

@kenroyfortune3098

6 жыл бұрын

chitownsbosslady fuck that shit ...if my woman treats me good I am not going to fuck around another ....if she treats me with respect I am not going after another ........i don't want a dirty woman .......u all have to respect Each other.......you woman ......

@kenroyfortune3098

6 жыл бұрын

wvvvbnndd fun njl

Beauty an brains.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Gary Smith, thanks honey. That's sweet of you.

Wow I like you & not just because your speaking on the behalf of men. But more so how you are doing it is impressive to. Your very careful with how you deliver you messages & I really respect that also I can relate to what your talking about. I no these videos are old but they are new to me & I did just subscribe to your channel & to see more videos from you regardless of the topic. As long as my brain is being fed I'm good 😁

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Dcthgr8 thanks so much for your subscription! I'm so happy you're here with me. You won't regret it either. I try to be very careful with what I say in my video messages because many people are broken and very sensitive. I want to uplift the masses, not run them away.

This is real..

I just subscribed to your channel I'm loving your videos.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Neisha Jordan, thank you so much for subscribing! I appreciate you and I'm happy you enjoy my videos.

You on point. I see you...

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

sunworship8, lol thanks! A man will love the woman he chooses to love regardless. There is no itinerary in what you need to have in line for someone to fall in love with you.

So true

Well said ! More videos please

@missctolbertvoh

3 жыл бұрын

Will do Queen!!

preach!!!! omg hallellujah!!!

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Michael Murphy, thanks brother. I had to bring the truth from my personal observations. There are no stipulations on being loved! If somebody likes you or loves you, they will regardless of who or what you are.

So true Thank you 🍷🍷

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Nicole Williams​ you're more than welcome queen! I'm happy you enjoyed my video message.

So trueeee 🤦🏽‍♀Smh

Wow... I love this woman 👐

@missctolbertvoh

5 жыл бұрын

I love you more!

she's so good. but I wonder if she has a man? i bet that relationship is on point. lol!! I'm not trying to get nosy tho.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

ms.mary benjamin LOL no ma'am I'm single. When I do get into a relationship again it will be on point.

Amen!!!!

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Treyvon Johnson, amen again!

Good message, wake up the sisters

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

protevan thank you!

That's why it's best to study the Bible first and then listen to what the men of God has to tell you

yup, look how Jackie Christie has a good man lmao

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Bria Barrows 😂😂😂😂💀💀

One thing I haven't seen a lot in women is they don't say sorry.. at all... they think they can say sorry using sex... we don't always want sex we wanna hear it... sad most guys do the sex business but still feel hurt inside cos we don't hear the words...

@wshelby83

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to hear your perspective

I don't know about this. I'm a Capricorn. they say we marry for money lmao

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Mr Solo Dolo if a man likes a woman he's gonna like her regardless of what's going on with her. Nowadays people are putting all these stipulations on who you're supposed to be, and what you're supposed to have in order to be loved or fall in love. Not everybody cares about that. There are some people that like you just the way you are.

@mrmoe110

7 жыл бұрын

missctolbertvoh oh I agree. I was just making a joke because I see people say this and I think any man that marries for money isn't a real man.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Mr Solo Dolo it's sad and pathetic if a man or woman marries for money. I've heard some people say that also. Stuff like that crashes and burns eventually.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Mr Solo Dolo 😂😂

4:28

I not dealing no woman at all I'm foused on myself life I try to rock wit my ex gf & try to love her & care for her once again my best is not goodly enough my ex at all oh well that her lost not mine she cook for me no sex or other stuff at all

@peopleas1healingtrauma

3 жыл бұрын

Danggg

@jeromeparker2535

2 жыл бұрын

@@peopleas1healingtrauma yup

Do u think a man can tell when his woman have a next man if you with her a long time ,?

@missctolbertvoh

6 жыл бұрын

Dog Face are you asking me if a man would be able to tell if his woman is seeing another man while he's in a relationship with her after awhile?

You're So Dope....

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

ronniewishbone, thank you honey! I don't know you but I'm sure you're dope to.

@ronniewishbone

7 жыл бұрын

21 years of being with someone ive been with since i was 20 doesn't think so. We have 19 year daughter that is a sophomore at Sac State.. They dont get along.Have heard of a mom getting irate for buying her father things. Im a die hard Steelers fan. Before tha season she bought me probably 500 worth of paraphernalia. Every other morning id wake up to new stuff. Her mom started to call our daughter Santa Ĉllause. and they got into physical confrontation over it. This was in September. Shes all I Know. Im too weak to let her go. Tha thought of her with another man controls me.

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

ronniewishbone wow this is a serious situation. Have you guys considered family counseling? There should be no competition, jealousy and irritation between a mother and daughter. I believe the mother of your child may feel like your daughter is getting more attention than she is. The mom may also feel like its inappropriate for the daughter to spend that kind of money on you and that frequently. You must sit your woman down and ask why she feels the way she does. Get to the root of the problem. If in the future you and your girl can't work out your relationship you should go your separate ways. Stuff like this is toxic! Don't let fear control you if you consider removing her from your life.

@ronniewishbone

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you for all of your input missctolbertvoh​

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

ronniewishbone you're more than welcome.

Could you talk more about women who think they are better then other women and are so mean to other women.Cause I see it a lot and I think it's ridiculous.How does a women overcome this or respond to the ugliness and be at peace.

@missctolbertvoh

8 жыл бұрын

Malta Nelson yes ma'am I'll definitely talk about that and give advice. Be looking out for it soon queen.

I have nothing against IR dating but that want help either us need men need to start loving ourselves, be alone, walk this world by ourselves have our opinion and don't let nobody decide for you. Be men basically let go the nice guy syndrome and learn to compromise maybe your meant for the model type maybe the no booty fat women is meant and designed strictly for you and you only no other man can have her but YOU and at the same time maybe a "baby mama" the hood isn't so bad and also could be for you

@missctolbertvoh

7 жыл бұрын

Juan Tomlinson, you're right. I believe a man should get with the woman he feels is right for him.