Such A NECESSARY TALK

@michellelewis6822

4 жыл бұрын

This was a necessary talk indeed - truly a gem. I enjoyed every moment & every minute. Thank you both for having & for sharing such a candid conversation!

Please make a podcast!! 💛

“If you’re breathing right now - you have time.” 💗

I realized in high school that because my mother's father and mother passed away before she turned 14 that I subconsciously had a fear of wasting my time. It is my most dominant love language, "quality time". Not in the context of romantic relationships, but in everything that I do and want to achieve.

Yep... well I was born in 1999 but my biggest fear ever is not having enough time (and spiders come right after but anyways). It’s specially tough when I look at my school friends and see that they’re all almost graduating college and I am here in the other side of the world trying to learn a hard ass language to be able to get a chance to go to college here and I feel like even tho I’m 19 I’m already too old to not have certainty of what I want for my life. I’m walking baby steps and I know sometimes I over exaggerate but I think most of the 90s kids and now the early 2000s kids go through this. Let’s just keep in mind that we all young and we all have time and you’re not the only person worrying about it.

I am definitely afraid of running out of time to do everything that I want. I dont mind getting older, but I hate that each year I have less time in front of me. Which is ridiculous because I'm only 25, but I can't help it.

@alinemonteiro8283

5 жыл бұрын

Lo Omg , this is exactly how I feel. I’m going to be 25 next month and every time I think about the things I wanted to do before 25 and I haven’t done yet, and all the things I wanna do in the future, I get so anxious. I tell myself that I don’t need to rush, that I still have time, that I can do things on my own time and not when society thinks I should do them, but I don’t always believe that. It’s like you said, I can’t help it.

LISTEN... when friend hit you with the $25,000 question at 5:05! 🙌🏾 I have been beating myself up over the last 1-2 years about how I make others my first priority, leaving zero love and consideration for MYSELF. (Which always stunts your success in hindsight!) Yes, “who IS going to take care of you?!” You strolled all up and THROUGH my business! Needed that!

It’s interesting that the our biggest fears are time considering we’re the only beings on earth that count time lol we do this to oursleveesssss. It’s capitalism y’all

@erikaa.3030

5 жыл бұрын

Aurora Mendoza FACTS !!!

I love you and Jo’s energy 💛 it’s so welcoming and inspiring! I love this video

When I was younger, I felt proud and secure in knowing what I wanted to do with my life and the time it would take. Then at 18 I felt I'd wasted so much time bcuz I wanted to follow another path (SO many panic attacks). Now I'm realizing that I'm ok and i have the time to make my life how I want it as long as I'm here 🥰 Thanks for sharing this chat ladies 💕🙏🏿💕

What's crazy is I have both of your biggest fears basically as my biggest fear. Like if you were to smoosh them together essentially. It's so relieving knowing that even people like you and Jo who are kicking ass, still feel like you don't have enough time to do more. I also can completely relate personally Mosako. I started my KZread channel and everytime I tell people that I have one I feel awkward and fake because my quality isn't the best and I don't really know what I'm doing yet. I also am pretty self concious and that's another huge fear of mine, being judged on my physical and non-physical characteristics. But that's part of the journey, figuring it out along the way and not letting anyone stop you because who knows what the results will be if you keep at it? Thank you and excellent video as always girls! 😁💕

That convo on running out of time is so real!!

As a cancer, I can relate with Jo sooo muchhh. This kinda conversation is really what most of us need sometimes ❤️

I wasn’t ready for it to be over in 15min 😂💕 You guys have amazing skin and gorgeous hair I can’t even. I love all your discussions/conversations together ‘cause I can always relate, I’m a cancer bby as well. I’ve been starting to do things lately that I’ve always been afraid to do and it’s a constant battle because I have anxiety but I usually just remind myself that I’m doing this for me and for those people who’ll be inspired as well. Even if nobody cares at least I’m doing it for what it means to me. Love you both! Keep making videos! 💖👑

Good way to feel a little better on a sick day!

This video is divine timing y’all. I haven’t even watched it yet and I already know I’m bouta be blessed with some wisdom😭 I feel like I’ve been scared my whole life. Ever since I was young I knew deep down that a 9-5 life under other people wasn’t for me. But i didnt know if it was possible or realistic. I wanted to travel and learn more about the world through adventures and languages (which is why i love shutupandgo!) and creatively direct and be apart of projects like film, fashion & modeling. I’ve been even more scared recently because I booked my first small modeling shoot through a friend and it went so well but not knowing where to go from there scares the shit out of me. I’m practicing being more present, trusting the universe, believing more in myself, & surrounding myself people who vibrate positively & creatively💓

@erikaa.3030

5 жыл бұрын

That's beautiful much love and good vibes to you on your journey 💕💕

@christinac4472

3 жыл бұрын

sending you love on your journey 🙏🏾💗💗

I'm afraid of what time will do to my mind/mental health/mental capacity, because the human brain is not build for how long our lives are now. We used to just live into our 30s and die. But now we've evolved to live a lot longer-80s+ , but our brains didn't evolve enough to handle that. So I'm terrified I'll lose my mind and who I am as a person and become someone I hate. Because time can make people bitter and hateful and I really don't ever want to be that.

And this guys, is why KZread has been created for.

I find that my biggest fear is getting to old age and having unused potential; having more to give. I believe this fear came about once I became aware of my own mortality, only a couple of years ago... I'm 21 now. Prior to this point, I had seen loved ones pass away, but I don't know, one day it struck me that "I" would pass away. It was at that point that I realized the importance of doing what one wants in life, what one desires, and dreams of, and to do so in spite of any fear. Using that fear to push you to do whatever that thing is anyway. The longing one has to be outside in fresh air when one feels sick on a bright sunny day is the same feeling you'd have when you're old and sick on those bright sunny days. I'd rather life fully, making everyday something to look forward to now, instead of regretting the many spent sunny days when I am old and unable. I rather live with remorse over dumb decisions than live with regret over the things i never had the courage to do.

Definitely think the fear of running out of time is super common especially now. I'm similar to Jo as in I've had that fear since I was really young and I only got over it by realizing that the only way I'm gonna get where I want to go the quickest is to start RIGHT NOW! Like you said time is passing anyway.

Love when you two do videos together! This was a great talk!

my two favourite people!

Girl I needed this video!! Thank you for being so open about your fears

So much wisdom in this video! I think fear of running out of time isn't just generational, it's universal, but the flipside of that fear is the fire that motivates you to do what you want to do most while you're still breathing. I related so much to what Jo said about writing, putting your insides on a page for others to judge is a hella vulnerable scary thing, but equally if just one person has a shift in perspective then it's worth it, and like you don't have to be fearless you just have to be a tiny bit more curious than afraid to achieve what you most desire in life.

Why is Misako still not over 10k at least? I'm mad. These videos are gems 👌🏽

Misakkkkooo - your take on your fear of time, the thought that “it’s too late” hit the nail on the head of something I’ve been feeling (but didn’t know how to articulate). It flipped a positive switch on a mental block I’ve been having lately. Thankful for y’all touching on this subject!

About that bit about running out of time, i feel that immensely as well. I read somewhere that its cause as females we have a biological clock thats ticking. This is in terms of birthing. Unlike men, we might unconsciously (maybe even societally imposed) think we have to “get it all together” in terms of careeer, self development and maturity before we end up becoming mothers cause if we dont get our shit together, problems pass on to the next generation and the cycle continues. Not too sure with the basis of this but it kinda made sense. I think i read it from Jordan Peterson but i didnt get to dive deep into other sources. Just wanted to share! 👋🏻

100% afraid of running out of time.. im only 22 and just finished college and feel like I’ll never be able to travel and do the things I wanna do because I’ll always be in debt 🙃

@rachelprocaca

4 жыл бұрын

I’m also scared that I won’t make a positive impact on this earth. I sometimes feel guilty for wanting to travel when so many other people are less fortunate and are struggling. Like I seriously am scared of what will happen to this earth in my life time. My parents and grandparents think it’s stupid to be worried about climate change but it’s SO REAL

I was literally thinking of how I could overcome fear the other day and then this video showed up. Perfect timing. Thank you for sharing your insight!!❤️✨

This video could not have come at a better time #gems

So much wisdom here! Y’all are amazing 😊

this video couldn't have come at a better time. I have all the fears and anxieties that you guys mentioned in the video, and even more. I don't know if one day I could say goodbyes to fear for good, but this video gives me hope and advice that I'm going to use to combat those fears.

"In the end, you're not living for them"

Thank you Misako and Jo! I have my first ever professional audition tomorrow and I'm a lil nervous 😓 but this video helped a lot and has inspired me! Keep making great videos! ❤️

I definitely feel like I'm running out of time. Almost like at this point in my life, I haven't done as much as I feel I should have.

got me thinkinnnnnn.

Such a deep & insightful conversation...talks like this are what we need in society..it would be such a better world for us all. Genuinely beautiful ladies..thank you for sharing!! ❣️✨

It's not a generational thing. I'm 53 years old and I get it. I feel like I'm not going to become fluent in Spanish before I get too old to use it.

skincare routine? & what are your diets?

Thank you 🙏🏽

Misako gives me life!!!

Love this. 🌻

so important to continuously evolve

I needed this

I needed this right now! I'm moving to Australia in two days. Fear of running out of time to do the working holiday visa definitely pushed me to do it.

This is beautiful 💕

Definitely have a few fears driven by not having enough time

I’m afraid of changing my major and leaving “what’s practical” for what I enjoy.

awesome video and perfect timing because I’m about to go take my road test !

@kaielyse9313

5 жыл бұрын

I passed!

Ive always felt like time is way to fast and I wont have the resources or chance to accomplish my dreams at a fast enough rate either. I dont believe it comes with the generation though I think its just the circumstances that people are born in and seeing people around us struggle or "fail".

I really miss this type of videos in youtube this days.

4:40 hahahahah too good same here

I needed this! Thank you. So afraid to start my podcast. Go figure that the comment right under the one I'm about to write says, "Please make a podcast." Okay God/Divine, I hear you. :)

Hey girl, please hire someone to to put captions on your videos. I’m not deaf or hard of hearing but I know a lot of people are. I know there’s the free auto generated captions but those don’t work well enough for deaf and hard of hearing people to fully understand the conservations or what you’re saying.

Cancer energy yasss

Does anyone have any book recommendations on overcoming fear?

Jo note on the side PQ VC NAO TEM UM LIVRO, WORKSHOP ETC ETC "I HAVE A BULLET ON MY BACK" ???? right nooowww