9 Tips on surviving long distance relationships in 2024

These Long distance relationship survival tips make Long distance relationships a little easier to bear. Remember to share it with your other half.
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00:00 - Intro
01:45 - Survival Tip 1
03:00 - Survival Tip 2
04:24 - Survival Tip 3
05:35 - Survival Tip 4
06:48 - Survival Tip 5
07:36 - Survival Tip 6
08:34 - Survival Tip 7
10:01 - Survival Tip 8
10:58 - Survival Tip 9

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  • @guitar_genius
    @guitar_genius Жыл бұрын

    1. Sharing pictures of how are spending your day. 2. A call in the morning - don't bring any arguments here. Just talk as to what's for the day and wish I each other a great day. 3. Keep your data on at all times. - Depending with if you go to work or college, you may have different rules and regulations towards the use of cellphones. However, make this known to your partner. 4. Making them a priority. This connects with the previous point as depending whether phones are supposed to be off till you knock of or what. But make it possible that as much as others might not reach you, your lover should still be able to. This keeps the connection between both parties very well and can erase the issue of insecurities. 5.Then also your night talk. This is where you discuss everything, whether it's laughter or arguments or whatsoever, this is where you discuss it all. But make sure you always end on a positive note. Like remind them you love them,.. 6. Prayer. After your night discussions always end with a prayer. This keeps both parties together as regardless of how much you fought during the day... So the key thing is communication and connection. Being available for each other at all times is key. Just adding up on what Jessica has discussed in the video.

  • @yambikes
    @yambikes11 ай бұрын

    My long distance relationship was almost about to end. And i followed your tips. It drastically improved our relationship. On addition we started playing some couple question games like lovify. It helped me get deeper understanding of my partner. I was able to share my feelings and expectations in a fun way. Thanks for this video. Really enjoyed it :)

  • @nancynyanchoka4724
    @nancynyanchoka4724 Жыл бұрын

    This is video is for me, I'm in a long distance relationship may God see us through

  • @MADINAHHOODTV

    @MADINAHHOODTV

    Жыл бұрын

    You're not alone

  • @ahaomalilian9119

    @ahaomalilian9119

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen o

  • @christerphercollins189

    @christerphercollins189

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @stevebertrand9606

    @stevebertrand9606

    Жыл бұрын

    Best tip for a long distance relationship is don’t bother with them

  • @davidhidalgo8465

    @davidhidalgo8465

    4 ай бұрын

    How is your long distance relationship going?

  • @kimlito251
    @kimlito251 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve been in a long distance relationship for over a year now and it’s definitely not for the weak. My boyfriend and i have truly grown individually and together within the past year. Our communication has improved and our love has deepened. God truly gets all the glory for it✨ Great tips💙

  • @loversstreet

    @loversstreet

    Жыл бұрын

    Same as me dear. definitely not for the weak

  • @RiceMan88
    @RiceMan88 Жыл бұрын

    I swear Jessica is stalking my mental relationship struggle. Literally every video is what I’m currently dealing with. Kinda scary! 😆

  • @user-ug3ew8lb6k
    @user-ug3ew8lb6k5 ай бұрын

    My name is Curtis this is my first time in a long distance relationships so far so good is going good.yes our trust in each other perfect we have a good understanding between us.thank you very much 😁

  • @pemsyblackgold4812
    @pemsyblackgold4812 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jessy have been waiting so long for you to do this video

  • @MADINAHHOODTV
    @MADINAHHOODTV Жыл бұрын

    Thanks a million! Jessica I am in Long Distance Relationship. ❤️

  • @svobama1423
    @svobama1423 Жыл бұрын

    Jess you are God sent.

  • @marlonmeggie7226
    @marlonmeggie7226 Жыл бұрын

    You're simply amazing Jess,.....undeniably so...

  • @kwanelesbonokuhle6111
    @kwanelesbonokuhle6111 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this advice thank you 🙏

  • @jidezinho23
    @jidezinho23 Жыл бұрын

    Wow thanks Jessica From the comments session on your previous videos, I remember that I requested you to make a content relating to this and you did ...You shall receive more Gods blessing

  • @idictak9591
    @idictak9591 Жыл бұрын

    You are doing extremely well! Sunshine Girl ❤️

  • @gwynnielsen5081
    @gwynnielsen50816 ай бұрын

    I agree. It is important to touch base with the person almost daily. Technology definitely helps. I have been carrying on with a man 3,000 miles away for 4.5 years now. But at some point, someone has to compromise. I'll be moving out to him in a couple of months because I can. He can't move due to the nature of his job. I also have other loved ones out there as well. So in the end, the move is probably more about me, but I am glad I made the decision. Long distance can never be a forever thing.

  • @ulyanamomotova04

    @ulyanamomotova04

    5 ай бұрын

    So happy for you!!

  • @gwynnielsen5081

    @gwynnielsen5081

    5 ай бұрын

    @@ulyanamomotova04 Thanks. We'll see how things go. I'm not too hopeful since we don't aren't necessarily "relationship" people.

  • @ALIBABA-vw1rp
    @ALIBABA-vw1rp Жыл бұрын

    My Relationship Therapist.. This one is for me❤️❤️❤️✍️😎

  • @toksthoughts
    @toksthoughts Жыл бұрын

    you always make sense Jesse, you are doing well

  • @enocah292
    @enocah292 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this thanks Jessica 💓

  • @solomonsamuel4325
    @solomonsamuel4325 Жыл бұрын

    I'm the second person to press the like button 😂😂😂😂 Weldone Jessica I need this 🥺🥺🥺

  • @joelmatthias536
    @joelmatthias536 Жыл бұрын

    Your videos are always on point

  • @keishabrenda47
    @keishabrenda47 Жыл бұрын

    Thank You very very much. Coz am in long distance relationship for 3 year now. This video is for me

  • @keishabrenda47

    @keishabrenda47

    Жыл бұрын

    @Sakinah Idris Yes darling and today it's our anniversary

  • @ALIBABA-vw1rp
    @ALIBABA-vw1rp Жыл бұрын

    Jessica is the best.. ❤️

  • @thelmajones8521
    @thelmajones8521 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica you are so right✅

  • @user-cz8wb5qn4y
    @user-cz8wb5qn4y Жыл бұрын

    you put me to sleep trying to listen lol you have a great narrator voice. I woke up at the end and now im starting over the video.

  • @richardmulindwa4392
    @richardmulindwa4392 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jess you've been great you have been delivering 😊😊😊all true

  • @Coastal_band1
    @Coastal_band1 Жыл бұрын

    long distance relationship can tremendously thrive on communication and trust. once communication dwindles, that's the end of it.. Thanks Jessica for the great tips

  • @Emstereobi
    @Emstereobi4 ай бұрын

    This is a great relief 😊❤ thanks Jessica os 🙏

  • @captainbosingwa7226
    @captainbosingwa7226 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you madam Jessica through this video I have found out there things need work on.

  • @isatukoroma2483
    @isatukoroma2483 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks sis for sharing this particular video we benefits a lot from it i from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱 watching ❤❤❤

  • @ritalewis7466
    @ritalewis746611 ай бұрын

    This is great advice. I’m in a long distance relationship now.

  • @lilianthuku-zf3hm
    @lilianthuku-zf3hm8 ай бұрын

    Wow...these voice is so soothing...Am new here and I just stumbled on these video but I got stuck because of her sweet voice.

  • @Only1luchy
    @Only1luchy Жыл бұрын

    This tips are awesome and would really help Thank you

  • @catherinepresto7217
    @catherinepresto7217 Жыл бұрын

    hi Jessica thanks for sharing this video this helps me i am on LDR with my Fiancé .

  • @MrRozykush
    @MrRozykush Жыл бұрын

    Thank you!!!! Great tips

  • @kloberiemanuella9977
    @kloberiemanuella9977 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Jess I've being following you quite some days now and I totally relate with your videos, I'm in a long distance relationship and he is an artist. I really needed this

  • @Gisa395
    @Gisa395 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Jessica

  • @PinoTheGOAT
    @PinoTheGOAT Жыл бұрын

    Thank You Jessi🤙

  • @dhking27
    @dhking27 Жыл бұрын

    I need these tips. Thanks☺️

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi76978 ай бұрын

    Wow... this is for me.thanks for enlightenment ❤

  • @tabokadube4424
    @tabokadube4424 Жыл бұрын

    These are very profound tips thank you

  • @yasemin_ceyiz_evi
    @yasemin_ceyiz_evi Жыл бұрын

    Great stuff. I'm in a rut here though. You say before starting any of this, the spouse must end the affair. So in my husband's offense, it's ended but he still talks and texts the woman because they still work together and it's only about work and he no longer has feelings for her😥. I keep trying to make him understand all the above that you mention about my hurt and everything but he doesn't take empathy or compassion in my pain. How can I make him understand that keeping her around is pretty much making me replay the infidelity over and over again and I was able to move on with the help of *Brian Hacks* when he give me access to the text messages.

  • @Jessica_OS12

    @Jessica_OS12

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for getting me access to my partner phone safe. Working under you is a pleasure, an experience that I will truly treasure, honestly we need more people like you. If we had an army of people like you, we could stamp out these total loss in no time all kudos to you Mr BRIAN

  • @lesleymasiiwa802
    @lesleymasiiwa802 Жыл бұрын

    I have learnt something thank you so much for the tips

  • @ellesartelcontar153
    @ellesartelcontar153 Жыл бұрын

    Best tip anyone can give you is, making a long distance relationship a short distance one, as soon as it is possible. No other way around it

  • @Kelvin_game190
    @Kelvin_game190 Жыл бұрын

    You're the best ❤️

  • @user-jl5cd6eo6u
    @user-jl5cd6eo6u5 ай бұрын

    2:56 Thank you Jessica, you are the best relationship Coach.

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo Жыл бұрын

    What helps to make a long distance to, not just survive but to THRIVE, is COMMUNICATION!! Getting to know your partner all over again ❤️❤️

  • @christopherehiaghie5371

    @christopherehiaghie5371

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Nathalie

  • @ericbankobeza4622
    @ericbankobeza4622 Жыл бұрын

    You know what Jessica! You made this video too late, mine has already broken☹️. But as always nice video and nice tips,this will help many. Big up from +1

  • @t4tariah

    @t4tariah

    Жыл бұрын

    Totally agree with you. I called off mine just last weekend because of the many red flags. A breakdown in communication really accelerated my decision to end it.

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    Жыл бұрын

    😔😔😔

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    Жыл бұрын

    Sad to hear

  • @sakhileradebe4939

    @sakhileradebe4939

    Жыл бұрын

    Ahh there is no communication here,😑. I'm tired of long distance relationships.

  • @stanleytrillz6255
    @stanleytrillz6255 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you dear 💘

  • @inspirewithella
    @inspirewithella Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing beautiful 🥰

  • @kusisvlog466
    @kusisvlog466 Жыл бұрын

    My partner is moving to the UK I needed this

  • @arayamiyata6684
    @arayamiyata6684 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica you are the best in helping crewless guys like us to understand women who are not into us thank u for the powerful wisdom which is unique. I met one cute girl now she shows signs which u state at all times of many options and I wonder if she hasn't met the one and I was to invest in love now I thought of waiting for her varieties to manifest .lastly pliz u are the world best top advisor.all thumbs up

  • @tuvordzidefo3163
    @tuvordzidefo3163 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful 😍. Sending it to my partner ASAP.

  • @mohamedgassama5061
    @mohamedgassama5061 Жыл бұрын

    Tx for this jes

  • @gabyhemlok4490
    @gabyhemlok44906 ай бұрын

    okayyy eyebrows!!! ❤ they are beautiful! Also great tips lol

  • @michaelchitsaka9477
    @michaelchitsaka9477 Жыл бұрын

    Back again for the Content

  • @officialgabriel7535
    @officialgabriel7535 Жыл бұрын

    This is the situation am know,,, actually it's too hard but i believe God will do it

  • @kennethyoung4892
    @kennethyoung489213 күн бұрын

    This was very helpful and thank you

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    13 күн бұрын

    You're welcome!

  • @pabiphofa335
    @pabiphofa335 Жыл бұрын

    This was such great advice thank you so much. I’m about to start a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We met in a different country other than our own countries and he’s moving back home but because I’m working, I can only follow him after my contract ends. 😢

  • @footb.
    @footb. Жыл бұрын

    Nice 1 Jessica os ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹

  • @mosesmwangi4479
    @mosesmwangi4479 Жыл бұрын

    👍👍Good stuff......

  • @user-nb2tu7re7z
    @user-nb2tu7re7z2 ай бұрын

    It's my first time to hear from you and to see you here thanks for your messages I'm also in the long distance relationship but but your tips are going to make me a winner thank you so much ❤

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    2 ай бұрын

    Best of luck!

  • @AshKetchum09
    @AshKetchum0910 ай бұрын

    the hard part about my LDR is that he's in Australia and I'm in England. he's in school I'm in summer holidays starting school in two weeks. we had been together 8 months almost seeing each other every day (we used to attend the same school until he was sent to boarding school) I will admit, I did want him go at all as he was possibly the only person who was always there for me whenever I needed someone. we genuinely fell in love in a matter of weeks and only got together after a month. its been around over a month since he's left and I'm struggling so hard because I'm scared ill loose contact when I start school again. but the video has helped me be more confident in our relationship. thank you :)

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Жыл бұрын

    Each point very valid, each highlight even more engaging... But the truth has no substitute and cannot be hidden no matter what. Thank you Jessica for always sharing life changing tips that help our society to go the distance, the right way. Your knowledge shared is greatly appreciated and never taken for granted anyday thanks for always releasing videos on a very consistent basis. You are the best Jessica and a winner in my book anyday.

  • @malalampakani6252
    @malalampakani6252 Жыл бұрын

    Jessica you're a relationship saver thank you 😊

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    Жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome 😊

  • @morrgash
    @morrgash10 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much :)

  • @xecutioner0117
    @xecutioner0117 Жыл бұрын

    I Love The Conversation! Thanks to *BRIAN HACKS* for the opportunity to hear his conversation and for this giving me a clearer picture of what I Am seeing in my Architects mind's eye and how to turn my imagination, and creative visuals I have and take it home and start the unimaginable text he has with his fellow instead of without Their intellectual equity in mind. I Am grateful for this purposeful information. Love Light and Life.

  • @ChenchenChinayVlog
    @ChenchenChinayVlog11 ай бұрын

    Thank you ❤️🌷

  • @AsperiaKWogabaga
    @AsperiaKWogabaga Жыл бұрын

    Gal send me those 4k Subscribers,you remain with 800k.you are super great Jessica,my inspiration,I have learnt alot from you..seeing you grow ,makes me confident that I will do it some day.. I'm so happy for you.. Thank you for inspirating us ,❤️❤️

  • @dianaaddison1
    @dianaaddison1 Жыл бұрын

    I met him online 2 months dating now n still strong but then trust issues, truly love him, he lives in Ghana n me in England, will meet up soon in November……

  • @achysyl
    @achysyl Жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @Nya9091
    @Nya90912 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much Jessica, I have relationship anxiety and it hasn’t been easy especially in my long distance relationship, your videos are calming and help me to see things logically 💓💓

  • @Mabinty.S.Kamara

    @Mabinty.S.Kamara

    2 ай бұрын

    Same here 🥲

  • @Mabinty.S.Kamara

    @Mabinty.S.Kamara

    2 ай бұрын

    Same here 🥲

  • @Mabinty.S.Kamara

    @Mabinty.S.Kamara

    2 ай бұрын

    Same here 🥲

  • @rodericko9534
    @rodericko9534 Жыл бұрын

    Thank u Jess

  • @ChristabelOpokuBoadu
    @ChristabelOpokuBoadu Жыл бұрын

    Love coach ✍️

  • @philipodallo7950
    @philipodallo7950 Жыл бұрын

    Well in....👍👍👍👍👍

  • @bismarkaddison2345
    @bismarkaddison23457 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @emperordagacomedy871
    @emperordagacomedy871 Жыл бұрын

    I literally can't wait to start having my one-on-one sessions with Jessica. Every video just draws solutions to all the relationship problems am having and clearly it's working. Jessica I want you to know you are touching lives all over, I am a Gambian and I love what you are doing. Thank you so much.

  • @ajm_star
    @ajm_star Жыл бұрын

    Educational as always, coming from a guy in a long distance relationship for two years and counting... Bottom line, every relationship can work if you want it to. It's not all smooth but they all work.

  • @consisticfady
    @consisticfady4 ай бұрын

    WOW so lovely

  • @boakyeyiadom4204
    @boakyeyiadom4204 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @sonofbosse
    @sonofbosse Жыл бұрын

    Great advice Jessica! I’m in Sweden and my girlfriend lives in Accra. We have already practiced many of your points

  • @kwamelemuel5853
    @kwamelemuel5853 Жыл бұрын

    I have been in it for five years It has not been easy But God is getting has through

  • @kennethehigie4463

    @kennethehigie4463

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @GGGG1040

    @GGGG1040

    Жыл бұрын

    Do you have plans to move together ? I just started dating in UK but I have to go back to the USA - I’m worry about it because I really like this man and I’m not sure If we can make it work.

  • @jivonstephen6677
    @jivonstephen6677 Жыл бұрын

    I choose harmony over compromise once you understood dat den anything's possible we have paper planes to cover distance , keep it rolling when we land , stay here where we'd meet and Jess take off again.

  • @user-mg2qn7qx2d
    @user-mg2qn7qx2d2 ай бұрын

    I am currently in a long distance dating phase and we are going to become an official couple. I am going to fly down and see him again in several weeks. I am very excited.

  • @keishabrenda47
    @keishabrenda47 Жыл бұрын

    Am in long distance relationship for 3 years now coz your first video on long distance relationship but but no any call or recording on watsup just typing. After first I was tooooooo hurt and it was too harder for me. I take 3 to 4 months without hearing his voice. But coz of your video Jessica I had to endure and fight and work harder for myself incase when I go home when he is not serious. I get where to start and continue with life. Thank You very very much once again my darling . You taught me how to handle everything situation in all ways. Much love from me and 🇺🇬

  • @JessicaOS

    @JessicaOS

    Жыл бұрын

    You're welcome

  • @keishabrenda47

    @keishabrenda47

    Жыл бұрын

    @@JessicaOS Maybe the Watsup number dear coz it's too hard for me to get a credit card. Even I wanted to join one on one but I failed coz of credit

  • @khalidomar1381
    @khalidomar1381 Жыл бұрын

    Great video as always, though wish I had this a few months ago..But definitely great lessons for the future and all round great advice

  • @kennethgithinji5631
    @kennethgithinji5631 Жыл бұрын

    I have a feeling this is what ill do in the future

  • @yahosephbenyisrael917
    @yahosephbenyisrael917 Жыл бұрын

    Hey Queen Jessica

  • @winfredkavesa6914
    @winfredkavesa691410 ай бұрын

    New subscriber

  • @Ak.adanofficial
    @Ak.adanofficial Жыл бұрын

    Love u jesi ❤️

  • @lilkimo2081
    @lilkimo2081 Жыл бұрын

    The distance makes me miss my lover much 😔❤❤🔥

  • @MichelleTheBlessed
    @MichelleTheBlessed8 ай бұрын

    My husband is naturally too quiet, and it's worse having a long distance relationship because he calls me just to be silent on the phone, i asked him to contribute more to our conversation and he started crying what do i do

  • @eteneshhiluf284
    @eteneshhiluf28425 күн бұрын

    I LOVE Your voice so much. i wanna hear it moer

  • @edemkwamegasu9360
    @edemkwamegasu9360 Жыл бұрын

    I agree with all the pointers you’ve given. Being in a distance relationship is a lot of work. Time zone makes it harder to make plans. Virtual dates, watching the same movie in the cinema or Netflix, etc Jess can you please make a video on how to transition from a distance relationship to leaving together. Say marriage.

  • @Introvertedalpha

    @Introvertedalpha

    Жыл бұрын

    Great idea for a video!

  • @chichifedi
    @chichifedi Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for these tips 👍👍👍

  • @meka8733
    @meka87339 ай бұрын

    I meant someone on Facebook and we started a distance relationship but currently I'm thinking to go off it.

  • @goodluck8113
    @goodluck8113 Жыл бұрын

    Good morning everyone, I'm 22yrs, there's this girl I like so much, but but I found out when we went deep into the relationship that she is just 16yrs, I have tried to let her go but the hard I try the more I like her. Recently she told me that she is the only child of her parents and her parents are not in Nigeria and that soon she will be going to meet them over there. Since the day she told me that I have never been myself, it's just like I lost the most valuable thing in my life. Everybody I meet to seek for advice always say the relationship will not work out I should just let her go off my head, I tried but couldn't help let her go off my head. Ma I have been watching you video recently, so I need advice on what to do from here. Please don't judge me I just can't help it

  • @Ebenezer_barbers
    @Ebenezer_barbers Жыл бұрын

    I am the First to view

  • @josephchileshe6037
    @josephchileshe6037 Жыл бұрын

    This is for me

  • @user-sb4vz3vt2e
    @user-sb4vz3vt2e7 ай бұрын

    Same im in one but i made some few mistakes and i wanna rebound it with my parner

  • @siyathuse8389
    @siyathuse8389 Жыл бұрын

    I've been in long term distance relationship for 12 years, and we planned that from the beginning and I'm about to finish my CA degree and get close to her, we have a 7 yr daughter together

  • @francisjames1377
    @francisjames1377 Жыл бұрын

    We both were only 3 states apart, me in southeast New York, her in western kentucky.