8 Unexpected Gifts Of The ENFP Personality Type

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  • @ainekelly5252
    @ainekelly52522 жыл бұрын

    Needed to hear this. I’m so sick of people treating me like I’m an idiot or weird because I don’t spend my time focusing on things they consider important but I find boring.

  • @suheylanoyan

    @suheylanoyan

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true

  • @spannycat2

    @spannycat2

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same. People keep telling me I don't act like a 28 year old. I was like do you want to act like a 27 year old 24/7? Do you want to act like a 50 year old 24/7 when you're 50?

  • @angellombness4371

    @angellombness4371

    2 жыл бұрын

    In my 30s. Completely my experience as well. There was a Serena Williams commercial about accepting that we are crazy... the world may look at us as weird or crazy because they can't see our perspective. Once we start identifying our values and explain to people in simple terms, as Heidi Priebe explains, those who listen have a treat coming. 😉

  • @autumnpendergast9151

    @autumnpendergast9151

    2 жыл бұрын

    High 5 kiddo! (I have no idea how old you are, age is fake). Never ever stop being you!

  • @autumnpendergast9151

    @autumnpendergast9151

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@spannycat2 I'm 50 next year, in a month I am heading off with a bell tent to go everywhere! I decided to do this 2 months ago. Growing up is a myth created by people with no imagination.

  • @hanes2
    @hanes22 жыл бұрын

    I love you enfp people. My one weakness as a INTJ. 😨

  • @semiprofessional8470

    @semiprofessional8470

    Жыл бұрын

    I can't resist them either 😂. ISFP

  • @cynthiaforsythe8989

    @cynthiaforsythe8989

    9 ай бұрын

    Wish I’d found an INTJ at the right time.

  • @DarkLight-Ascending

    @DarkLight-Ascending

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you. My spirit brother is INFJ

  • @user-pk5pl7ox1e

    @user-pk5pl7ox1e

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@semiprofessional8470oh that's interesting

  • @user-pk5pl7ox1e

    @user-pk5pl7ox1e

    7 ай бұрын

    What are you doing about it(

  • @altynaiabdrakhmanova9173
    @altynaiabdrakhmanova91732 жыл бұрын

    OMG! That sound so true to me. 1. The ability to navigate uncertainties. Probably sometimes I look for those uncertainties in my life. 2. The ability to observe the mind and it’s mechanism. Psychology is my passion! 3. Questioning convention. I remember myself as a questioning child into questioning person. 4. Spiritual sensibility. Sometimes I do not hear it but I’m working to always hear and follow the inner voice. 5. Messy empathy. Sometimes I force myself to not empathize too much into others people life. 6. Critical thinking. Yes to complex way of comparing things and building a system in my head. 7. Influential about our passions. Following my interest yes. 8. Down to earth communicator. Speaking and sharing ideas brings me so much joy. Thank you for explaining, sharing this information and making this video!

  • @jammingdan
    @jammingdan2 жыл бұрын

    In my twenties I was really depressed after a youth meeting. Everyone had to write each other feedbacks of good personality traits they appreciated. I received about 15 to 20 “ you are really cool” and “funny/happy”. I was really sad about these superficial feedbacks and felt very misunderstood and not really seen!

  • @zalfadaulah4890

    @zalfadaulah4890

    Жыл бұрын

    i get that too

  • @nautica00

    @nautica00

    Жыл бұрын

    I always think about how people don’t really know me. They know extroverted action me but not how I think and what leads me to my crazy actions.

  • @qeela4523
    @qeela45232 жыл бұрын

    Messy empathy reminded me of when me and my friend helped this one girl. So the story is this girl got scolded by a teacher in front everyone she knew for doing something very shameful. Afterwards I noticed that her friends would ignore and wouldn't talk to her which made me mad. Later that day, I saw her sitting alone and took the chance to approach with my friend. I told her that even if things dont look okay now, it's gonna be better and she looked up sobbing and asked how would i know and me being a troublemaker and had my fair share of shameful experiences just said that I just know it with a smile. I invited her to join my friend group (which was just me and my friend lmfao) since i know being alone with ur thoughts aint the greatest feeling but she declined and said she just wantef to go home. Was pretty reluctant at first but i understood she still needed more alone time. Fast forward to 2 years later, that girl and I are still friends but since we weren't classmates we weren't that close "close" per see and i kinda forgotten i helped her cuz lmao my memory sucks sometimes. Anyways, 2 years later im finally i the same class as her. She was doing better, she was one of the smart kids now and the teachers adored her. It's great n all but the thing is...she was so nice to me like fr super nice, she would hv this exasperated expression every time I forgot to do my homework (i always asked her to teach me cuz she's super good at accounts) or just me doing something silly. I was hella confuse why she didn't hate me for being annoying or to just straight up ignore me (like most do) so i asked her one day when we were paired up for a group project about why she was so nice to me? She smiled and said remember 2 years ago? You and (insert friend's name) really helped me back then. You guys were the only ones who talked to me that and Im very grateful for it. ...Bruh i felt like crying a little cuz that was the first time someone said that they were thankful of me so flipping sincerely 😭 And im still friends with her even after we both went our seperate ways. The end :) (This was long so thx to whoever read all of this

  • @aless7038

    @aless7038

    8 ай бұрын

    omg😭 i feel you on such a deep level, tanks for sharing your story

  • @prajwalvishwanath4072
    @prajwalvishwanath40722 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely agree with all of these! I remember comparing being an ENFP to the other types and feeling extremely lacking several years ago. But over time, I came to see how powerful my mind really was. It's like I'm seeing a totally different world than most people, just weaving my own tapestry of the universe. Felt good to be reminded of my gifts! Thanks Heidi

  • @angellombness4371

    @angellombness4371

    2 жыл бұрын

    100% what I went through as well as an ENFP. My low point was very recent; learning about my cognitive functions, as you state, has given me a healthy self-regard. Life saving.

  • @overit.4013

    @overit.4013

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes yes me too ! And also , I went to India on a whim christmas 2009 . I got stuck in Mumbai , got a sunstroke in Goa and almost didn't make it back home. I love your country , 10/10 would go there to get stuck again ❤ Edit because : Hugs from Norway!❤

  • @itsmoebra8976
    @itsmoebra89762 жыл бұрын

    Wow. After being criticized by my family for my whole life about things like "not being able to follow a step by step plan" or to "be consistent in doing 1 thing", this video actually makes sense to me and makes me feel better about myself. Thank you ❤

  • @malek6610
    @malek66102 жыл бұрын

    #4 Sensitivity with doing the stuff that we hate. It's like our future self telling us that we will regret this decision later in life✅

  • @sagnikhaldar3229
    @sagnikhaldar32292 жыл бұрын

    Some of our highly self critical mates really needed to here these good things. Thanks Heidi.

  • @dronicx4002
    @dronicx40022 жыл бұрын

    she does a thing... that I do too... all the time. I've only recently become aware of it myself, but now that I've noticed it about myself I see it in other people as well. and that is... there's these moments during her explanation where she ends the more complex sentences with "right?". I - as an ENFP - do this all the time and I genuinely think it's because we take great care in the fact that the other person follows along and are still with us while we explain stuff we're passionate about. I'm quite happy to have run into this video. thank you so much :3

  • @danieleoduro3829
    @danieleoduro38292 жыл бұрын

    This whole personality subject confirms to me that we are "Spiritual Beings", im getting started in this personality journey as an ENFP and its crazy how there is a lot of "me" out there, and how this test Is super accurate, its like we are somehow wired or something!! This makes me happy as a christian :) i believe we were all created in a special way (and not products of chance) to impact this world in meaningful ways..lets go ENFPs!!

  • @marlemsepulveda7592
    @marlemsepulveda75922 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t know how much I needed to hear this until today. THANK YOU. Some days I really felt utterly alone and like nobody in the world ever understands how I feel and how I think. It’s comforting to know that I am not alone and there’s actually a lot of people like me spread all over the world. I see you and I understand you ❤️.

  • @cynthiamcclare9493

    @cynthiamcclare9493

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes 💯

  • @dkelly6492

    @dkelly6492

    Жыл бұрын

    Hello me

  • @overit.4013

    @overit.4013

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you and right back at you ❤

  • @marianzefferer-nlp
    @marianzefferer-nlp2 жыл бұрын

    Awesome content. Thanks for the really deep information! The eight strengths of ENFPs 1. Handle unexpected things -> very flexible (sehr flexibel, kann exzellent mit unsicherheit umgehen) 2. ability to observe the mind (mindfulness & selfawareness) -> fast pattern recognition (vernetztes denken, mit stetigen vergleich der eigenen denkstruktur) 3. Questioning Convention -> Question everything (Hinterfragen Strukturen in ihren Grundfesten) 4. Spirital Sensitivity (Gutes Gefühl für die richtige Richtung) 5. Messy Empathy - Healing on a soul level (Fähigkeit die Dunkle Seite in jemanden zu erkennen) 6. Critical Thinking (kritisches Denken, alle neue Information wird mit allen bisherigen Verbunden) 7. influential in their passion (Sehr einflussreich, wenn es um ihre Leidenschaften geht) 8. Down-to-Earth Communicator (Fähigkeit komplexe Dinge einfach ausdrücken)

  • @kaliah1494
    @kaliah14942 жыл бұрын

    I'm an ENFP with an ENTP best friend and I feel like ENTPs are another highly misunderstood type.

  • @malek6610

    @malek6610

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @silentgrove7670

    @silentgrove7670

    2 жыл бұрын

    It might be the Ne, we see the world very differently than others. I feel completely misunderstood even by people that have known me for awhile and I feel very close too. In fact when the experience of being close to someone and they don't seem to understand me is very difficult to navigate. I feel N dominants might be susceptible to what I now call gaslighting by tribe. ENFP.

  • @caguilar51505
    @caguilar515052 жыл бұрын

    This is a really good list. I was complimented for #8 yesterday. I often get complimented for explaining things in a way that is easy to understand but without making them feel stupid. I didn't realize that was a gift

  • @silentgrove7670

    @silentgrove7670

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have had this (#8) told to me by people that have taken my communications workshop. I didn't even know it was something I would even know how to do until a few years ago. Its nice to hear about our gifts because I find many people don't get me. ENFP

  • @eloelotube
    @eloelotube2 жыл бұрын

    I am happy that you brought up our critical thinking. I often see ENFPs' critical thinking and logical intelligence being underestimated a lot. We might not always be brilliant in school but just because we are so aware of the things that we really want to do ( and even more the ones that we really don't want to), that we find so difficult to go on a path that was chosen FOR us ( I am thinking of a classic school system). It doesn't mean that we are not logical, academically smart or lack criticism.

  • @kun_kue
    @kun_kue2 жыл бұрын

    I hate my inability to complete tasks I'm not passionate about. I usually use my inner barometer to check when I should tweak a task or change course to align with what I'm good at. You put it in a way that I can appreciate. To me, it branches over to people because if my brain says no to interaction with certain individuals, I can't force it.

  • @angellombness4371

    @angellombness4371

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hate it too... I am starting an affinity / employee resource group at work to focus on 'learning' to understand Trust, Hope, & cognitive functions. One thing at a time. Ugh

  • @ENFPerspectives

    @ENFPerspectives

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’ve found I can almost make any task fun for me if I change my outlook on it. Ex: adding insulation to my attic, it was hot and my protective glasses kept fogging up, so my son and I pretended we were underwater (don’t recall the rest of our pretend story, but we just added to it as we went, making a long, silly story). 😋

  • @theruffledbunny2675

    @theruffledbunny2675

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @joel.pimentel
    @joel.pimentel2 жыл бұрын

    Heidi thank you for helping me feel seen. I cried watching this, specifically the "Spiritual Sensitivity" part and where you talked about your personal experience trying to fight yourself to do a job you weren't aligned with. I'm currently in this situation at a really well known tech company and have really been struggling with hating what I do for the past 3 years and thinking something is wrong with me because my body/mind feels like it physically cannot perform anymore. I've been worried I'm just resisting work and something is wrong with me when I see all the people around me performing well in their 9-5's despite their complaints.

  • @joel.pimentel

    @joel.pimentel

    2 жыл бұрын

    Would appreciate any more videos on this, and how to listen to this voice.. or any more detail on how you made that jump to that field you like every morning

  • @reyne8424

    @reyne8424

    Жыл бұрын

    I want to thank you for your comment! A few years ago I did a web dev and python bootcamp, enjoyed it, and then got offered a part time job as a low code dev. Fast forward a year and a half, I have now been told repeatedly that I should consider studying IT, as I seem to be very talented and german companies prefer to hire people with degrees. A part of me wants to do it, for the security, the pay, the praise and the feeling that comes with being good at it, but another part is kicking and screaming at me to run the other way. Just like you, I feel like there is something wrong with me and that I should just be grateful and not waste the opportunity. How have you been this last year? Have you made a change?

  • @joel.pimentel

    @joel.pimentel

    Жыл бұрын

    @@reyne8424 Thank YOU for reminding me about this post. I actually quit my job last August and have been pursuing content creation for the past year. I'm a lot happier and realized that there was nothing wrong with me and it was less about just "hating work" and more about hating the work I was doing. (I have now found myself working for hours straight or late into the night while still being excited to do it). I wouldn't necessarily advise everyone to just quit their jobs, but what I would advise is to listen to yourself!

  • @sanaechaan
    @sanaechaan2 жыл бұрын

    I love that when you talk about the last gift, you clearly love to talk about all this, and the way you word it so careful and simple and digestable for the viewer, it just shines through. Its a full circle moment for sure 😀 also its sometimes frightening and mesmerizing at the same time how someone can just know how you work, to the CORE. I feel so exposed 😀 but i just love the way we ENFPs (and everyone else honestly) think, it just fascinates me! Love the video, i resonated with everything you talked about.

  • @angellombness4371

    @angellombness4371

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah! Build the ENFPs club. Healthy knowledge & self-regard learning.

  • @mytypeofmind

    @mytypeofmind

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey Im trying to spread love to all ENFPs. As a fellow ENFP, I made a love letter to celebrate those who might be just like me kzread.info/dash/bejne/oYiaupOliZzYj7Q.html

  • @MDanimations44
    @MDanimations442 жыл бұрын

    When I was teaching animation, I always felt that I explained things like I was explaining them to a child, I felt bad about it but also felt that there would be no other easier way that it could be explained, so they would definitely get it. I always got into trouble by management for not filling in paper work based on everyones performance, but in my head I knew where each student was at and when to push them or leave them alone. I always helped them reach the finish line though. This video has made a lot of sense of why I naturally did things that way! Also the messy empathy is whole heartedly how I approach people who arent doing well, or just need someone in their corner! Great video Heidi!!

  • @ENFPerspectives

    @ENFPerspectives

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @autumnpendergast9151

    @autumnpendergast9151

    2 жыл бұрын

    When I was teaching ballet to 3 year olds I would explain things like they were the wisest most intelligent beings on the realm. It is the same philosophy. They were so magnificent! I didn't want them to lose that, it is squashed out of them by "adults" in kindergartens and schools. I would have loved your classes (I am a visual artist too of course).

  • @MDanimations44

    @MDanimations44

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh cool!! I'm so glad that you teach that way, because yes you are completely right, they deserve to be treated well and given the best chance of success and to enjoy themselves why doing it! Well done for doing it that way! Haha aww thanks, that's really cool, I hope you're going well with your career and creativity 😁☺️🙏

  • @noellapaulinetaaka7841
    @noellapaulinetaaka78412 жыл бұрын

    Spiritual sensitivity resonates so much!

  • @chizera9931
    @chizera99312 жыл бұрын

    Gift 2 & me seeing a therapist/mental health professional Me: ...so this is how I function and I think the reasons are *blablabla* Them: That's very insightful... (why are you here??) Me: 👁️👄👁️ I don't know for some reason I'm still a mess

  • @SNILSS0N

    @SNILSS0N

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hahah so true!!

  • @shiny_x3

    @shiny_x3

    2 жыл бұрын

    Omg SAME! I wonder sometimes if I go in circles because I always seem to be getting new insights about myself, but then my life doesn't change.

  • @thesoundsofearth4454

    @thesoundsofearth4454

    2 жыл бұрын

    Literally!!!!!

  • @saudaldoseri207

    @saudaldoseri207

    2 жыл бұрын

    TRUEEE

  • @angellombness4371

    @angellombness4371

    2 жыл бұрын

    There's just "madness" in our methods. ENFPs might enjoy... kzread.info/dash/bejne/ipeBlKqxZd2td5M.html

  • @kenjiletada
    @kenjiletada Жыл бұрын

    These gifts are on point. Thank you for making this video.

  • @wardaxoxo
    @wardaxoxo2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for this vid. As the only ENFP/NE dom in my family I struggled with acknowledging my strengths for many years. Now that I have developed myself, I am very happy :)

  • @andreashetterly8415
    @andreashetterly8415 Жыл бұрын

    I once got a complement that I am free spirited yet so calm and reserved at the same time. I don't know if this is because I consider myself a shy enfp, but I do think a strength of an enfp is seamlessly going from wide (NE) and deep (FI). We can be free spirited and unconventional which sometimes translates as bubbly, crazy, weird, master brainstormer, yet in the next breath we can spout out these deep thoughts about life, love, and what makes the world ho round. It's like we can hang out on the shore for awhile but eventually we're going to step foot into the ocean and go deep, but we won't drown.

  • @otakumomma2196
    @otakumomma21962 жыл бұрын

    🥰 I love ENFP’s. You are awesome 😎 -This INTJ

  • @rockNdoII
    @rockNdoII Жыл бұрын

    I love the part about having the ability to not need to change the messy feeling.. to just meet it and let it be okay to feel things! I often tell friends it's okay to feel what they feel and share undertsanding rather than saying "don't feel that way"...

  • @celinefrancesca114
    @celinefrancesca1142 жыл бұрын

    You speak in such a way that is so eloquent and makes SO much sense !

  • @TNord.
    @TNord.2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Awesome insights. Totally resonates with me. I’ve am a point where my passion isn’t valued by people around me, basically I’m raising my son. He’s 12. I have pH.D. in Chemical Physics, but I left academic to follow my wife to medical school and now to volunteer on organic farms with my son all over the world. I play guitar with my son on uke for his grandparents almost daily. My wife makes a very good salary, so I think just being around, cooking, cleaning, teaching my son is what I should be doing. I catch a lot of flack and disrespect from her, SJ type, she doesn’t see the value of what I’m doing. I would like to start a new ambitious project, but I don’t want to do that at the expense of my family. She thinks I’m lazy and unmotivated, but I can’t just turn the hamster wheel for no good reason. Your video helped me see this dynamic a little clearer. Thanks 🙏🏻

  • @purple.-.turtles5840
    @purple.-.turtles58402 жыл бұрын

    THANKS 😁 I have had an idea in my head that has bothered me for a long time, and it is that many people around me seem so willing to do everything they "should" do, and I am not. No matter how much I punish myself and blame myself for not doing "what I should", if I really don't see a point in it, if it doesn't represent anything meaningful to me, no matter how important that duty is, I just can't. Today this video has made everything clearer to me, which is something that usually costs us hahah Cheers!! 🤗

  • @nobodynowhere21
    @nobodynowhere212 жыл бұрын

    You're an inspiration. I needed every minute of this. Thank you, Heidi.

  • @MsDomomuffin
    @MsDomomuffin2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this! It’s so encouraging and definitely lifted my spirits today. ♥️

  • @kathrynfriedlund3280
    @kathrynfriedlund32802 жыл бұрын

    Really love the positive way you presented this! A confidence boost for this ENFP who sometimes feel I'm floundering or feel guilty. Thank you!

  • @liascott2014
    @liascott20142 жыл бұрын

    Amen to that sister!!! So good!!! You’re the best ENFP coach out there!! LOVE it!! I feel your inspirational energy radiating through the screen as you talk!! Thank you!!

  • @biancaaustin5859
    @biancaaustin58592 жыл бұрын

    This was so wonderfully done! I feel so understood. Thank you ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @mariagilje6941
    @mariagilje69412 жыл бұрын

    You said a lot of what I really needed to hear today . Thank you, From an ENFP

  • @jessicaeddins1935
    @jessicaeddins19352 жыл бұрын

    Agreed so much with this! I think you are so spot on. This is the time for ENFPs to shine.

  • @Thus_said
    @Thus_said2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Heidi. I enjoyed this educative yet interactive video! You remind us, someone out there gets it!

  • @thesoundsofearth4454
    @thesoundsofearth44542 жыл бұрын

    Heide, thank you. The world needs us, and we need you 💙 thank you for being a light.

  • @naomih4206
    @naomih4206 Жыл бұрын

    I feel so seen I want to cry. Thank you so much for putting words to these gifts!!!

  • @52darcey
    @52darcey2 жыл бұрын

    Heidi - thank you for making this incredible content….for inspiring us and making us feel heard! 🙃

  • @audrey-annegaumond2045
    @audrey-annegaumond20452 жыл бұрын

    I relate to this so much!!! Your videos are always so accurate it feels good to understand why we are the way we are 🥰 - ENFP

  • @lesleystone7801
    @lesleystone78012 жыл бұрын

    in full agreement - 'doin' what comes naturally' ... very descriptive of the very core me and even the extraneous me - also aligns with my Human Design type. love this video. Best you've ever done imo :)

  • @angelawanjiru805
    @angelawanjiru8052 жыл бұрын

    You have no idiea what your videos mean to me! I literally weep everytime I watch you cause I feel so understood and seen. Really appreciate and love you and your mind and your passion Heidi! Thank you for making my existential crisis a little softer.

  • @westcoastswingmusic
    @westcoastswingmusic2 жыл бұрын

    Just finished watching this video for the third time. Love it! Helps me appreciate those aspects of myself too like being disruptive by challenging the status quo and presenting unconventional solutions rather than sweep things under the rug. Thanks for being a deep thinker and going beyond the type stereotypes. ~INFP

  • @krazydave6594
    @krazydave65942 жыл бұрын

    Well said! This is 100% true and I believe it defines who I am. I'm so proud to have these gift and it's so life giving for me to express them in my own relationships and career!

  • @victorianunez9755
    @victorianunez97552 жыл бұрын

    I´m not getting used to commenting videos, but I decide to do this because while I watch this video, a lot of things that I reproach myself for, such as spiritual sensitivity or the questioning convention, just hit difference for me. I can´t express with words how deep the "love these things" and "appreciate them" made me let out a lot of feelings that were deep and locked out inside of me. This video really help me feel less shit (for saying in some way) about myself with things I hated of me, because they made me struggle in life, even with my family (they are all thinkers, so you can imagine how rough is for me to not think in weak or stupid for feeling things deeply and personally). thank you so much, for helping me.

  • @TheCaptivatingDancer
    @TheCaptivatingDancer2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. You really highlight the gifts that ENFPs undermine and undervalue. This was a refreshing and in-depth take on their natural key strengths.

  • @SuperWarbringer666
    @SuperWarbringer6662 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU!!!!! THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED RIGHT NOW!!!!!

  • @neethy1836
    @neethy18362 жыл бұрын

    You are so beautifully eloquent!!! Thankyouuu

  • @westcoastswingmusic
    @westcoastswingmusic2 жыл бұрын

    This is deeply insightful and encouraging for me as an INFP.

  • @JoshuaDb_The_Witness
    @JoshuaDb_The_Witness2 жыл бұрын

    I am a little floored. I stumbled across your work - just today - and I had no idea about your work with myers brigs - but I so resonated with what you had to say regarding limerence - that I took the test - and Im an ENFP. Im 51 - at 47 after four misdiagnosis and one hospitalization in my teens - I was properly diagnosed with ADHD. Which changed everything - for the better - but now - sooo many questions - as I was starting to suspect that I was on spectrum - due in part to these gifts you are talking about - so much to process... thank you. so much of this validating on so many levles.

  • @dawnstrauss856
    @dawnstrauss856 Жыл бұрын

    I love your videos about us AND feel totally empowered after watching them! ❤

  • @erinb9647
    @erinb96472 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video. Thank you, Heidi for providing all these compliments... (cough, cough) I mean a list of strengths for the ENFP. I loved them. - A Fellow ENFP

  • @MichaelJLambie
    @MichaelJLambie5 ай бұрын

    #5 messy empathy - one of my favorites to give when I'm given the opportunity. I've never heard it articulated like that. Thank you!!

  • @elihaylevi6569
    @elihaylevi65692 жыл бұрын

    might be the best channel on youtube!!! love and appreciate you and your work so much!

  • @angellombness4371

    @angellombness4371

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreeeeeeeee, especially for ENFPs.

  • @marimokid9985
    @marimokid99852 жыл бұрын

    damn this is so cool. suddenly, i remember that i usually can analyze what's needed in a certain scenario, what else is missing or what else is gonna make a project work effectively, guaranteed. i think it falls under the critical thinking, also with the messy empathy since i tend to think of all the characters involved, all the roles or categories necessary for the project and kinda assume that role/idea, similar to stepping in the shoes of other people only that its not limited to just people but even concepts as well, and really fully understand what it contributes to the goal and how to make it work. that kinda blows my mind everytime i think of it, but being concious of it has allowed me to use that in many situations. this is so cool, it made me learn more about myself!

  • @mytypeofmind

    @mytypeofmind

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey Im trying to spread love to all ENFPs. As a fellow ENFP, I made a love letter to celebrate those who might be just like me kzread.info/dash/bejne/oYiaupOliZzYj7Q.html

  • @heavenstoke420
    @heavenstoke4202 жыл бұрын

    Jeeeeze, you amazingly explained all of that! I loved every word

  • @paradoxinmotion
    @paradoxinmotion Жыл бұрын

    you're so well spoken thank you heidi! i enjoy your videos so much

  • @solgast
    @solgast2 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring and motivating as always Heidi, never stop creating!

  • @lennywinbox1734
    @lennywinbox1734 Жыл бұрын

    I gotta put some of this on my resume! need to be reminded of my strengths, this is just great!!

  • @barbarahallowell2613
    @barbarahallowell26132 жыл бұрын

    Gift 4. Sooo THAT. I was not listening to myself in a job that I worked hard to get, spent 3 months in training, and after less than 2 weeks of actually doing the work I broke out in horrible hives Sunday night before having to go into work. 3 days out of work, total anxiety. I listened to myself then. I called in and quit the job. Hives disappeared in less than an hour. It was so against anything that I would consider authentic to myself. Lesson learned.

  • @christineoconnor5846
    @christineoconnor58462 жыл бұрын

    AMAZING I love this, thank you!

  • @brettgibson2988
    @brettgibson29882 жыл бұрын

    I've been waiting 20 years to hear validation like this. I'm so thankful that I found you, Heidi. Keep shining that beacon for ENFPs around the world. Also, loving the tanned brunette vibes!

  • @jreamscape

    @jreamscape

    Жыл бұрын

    U should get that validation from yourself bro

  • @emmyt9304
    @emmyt9304 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my, I could share my experiences on each point, but all I'll say is %100 Heidi on all of this!

  • @sayuritube
    @sayuritube2 жыл бұрын

    Heidi, this was incredibly insightful. I'm an ENFP-A, and every single point you made I have felt throughout my life. I never had a word for number 4, but I can tell you that the intuition is so strong and I've felt this my whole career! So refreshing to hear that point. Slowly, like you have said, it has brought me closer and closer to what I really want. One thing I have also noticed is that because ENFPs like growth and progress and lifelong learning, I also think it's possible for them to sabotage getting the exact thing they want, because our minds will then ask "ok, now what?" "what comes next?" "will I be satisfied if I get everything I have ever wanted, or achieve a dream?" So instead, it's easy to go for the thing that's ALMOST what you want, so as to delay getting the actual thing you want. Does that make sense? It's something I have been struggling with in terms of career - it seems to be hard to be truly honest about what you want, and sure that if you get it, you will be satisfied.

  • @Mrrp_huh
    @Mrrp_huh5 ай бұрын

    Made me tear up at a couple points honestly. I felt seen, heard and understood. A lot of these gifts have been things I’ve noticed sets me a part from a lot of people in my circles and has made me feel like an odd duck. I realize I’ve internalized and analyzed to the point of almost shame of qualities that I truly love about myself. Connecting with your page and seeing more feedback from ENFP and ENFP appreciators really has healed my perspective and opened my soul to more joy and acceptance of myself. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and views and creating this community ❤

  • @cynthiaforsythe8989
    @cynthiaforsythe89899 ай бұрын

    You have encouraged me more than you can imagine! I’m looking back over my life and seeing how intimidated I’ve been by those people who want to wipe the shine right off of you As they tell you you’re “doing it wrong.” That last point blew my mind : combing abstract and concrete. I actually did that with a year long book project. It was a historical coffee table book about a mega church celebrating 100 years. My church actually so I felt emotionally invested. I had to use critical thinking to determine what to include and what to leave out - of 100 years. The church had excellent archives fortunately. I time travelled, man. You can see how as an ENFP you’d have to do that, right ? so I had facts, tons of facts. But there was the abstract, crucial spiritual element in the storytelling. God helped me use this particular ENFP ability to see the patterns and write out of both sides of my brain. It took everything I had and then some. Now I’m seeing patterns of my life connecting, a life I’ve been thinking hasn’t been so useful. THANK YOU !

  • @zannadana
    @zannadana Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this series. As a ENFP your content make me feel sure of what people considered weird (like always needed to follow my inner feeling even if it’s not profitable) is not something I have to change but to trust in. And feeling confident of what we wanted to offer by heart is needed in this world. Thank you thank you thank you

  • @mytypeofmind

    @mytypeofmind

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey Im trying to spread love to all ENFPs. As a fellow ENFP, I made a love letter to celebrate those who might be just like me kzread.info/dash/bejne/oYiaupOliZzYj7Q.html

  • @uniqueLeo08
    @uniqueLeo082 жыл бұрын

    Your bookends !!!!!!! I love quirky stuff like that. I feel seen, heard, and appreciated in this video. Thank you.

  • @shrutitevatia3019
    @shrutitevatia3019 Жыл бұрын

    Love you bro. Just needed this. I thought, I am the only one being completely useless. Got to know how to harness my tools. More power to you!

  • @eshant94
    @eshant942 жыл бұрын

    This is just perfect and helping with my views on myself.

  • @traceydrake8013
    @traceydrake80132 жыл бұрын

    I just started dating an ENFP. I'm INFJ and see every one of these in him. Thanks so much for this! I love a lot of your attachment stuff, as well!❤

  • @UndrgrndTy

    @UndrgrndTy

    2 жыл бұрын

    What are you some of your similarities and differences that you can think of?

  • @irenesazer
    @irenesazer Жыл бұрын

    I am so grateful for your expertise. I’ve recently taken the Myers Briggs test and I feel like your talking directly to and about me. !! This is wonderful. ❤️

  • @angelawanjiru805
    @angelawanjiru8052 жыл бұрын

    Would love to see a breakdown of the cognitive functions: acknowledging the strengths and weakness of our doms and cultivating/growing our inferior functions! I have a hate/love relationship with my Fi, super confused about my Ne and have no clue clue about the other two :(

  • @Jonesy3461

    @Jonesy3461

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agreed, would love to see this too

  • @wilson9213
    @wilson92132 жыл бұрын

    anybody else just love these videos for the complement high ?? .. i leave here feeling like yes Heidi we are the shit .. much love fellow ENFP x

  • @justinboulianne5926

    @justinboulianne5926

    Жыл бұрын

    We are non conformists who ask tough questions, the corrupt current structure doesn't like that. I find almost any job I'm in, I tend to be a boat rocker, I can't help it.

  • @angelasheppard7112
    @angelasheppard71122 жыл бұрын

    Agree with all of this. You are so amazing at speaking what im feeling. Thank you!

  • @erinb9647
    @erinb96472 жыл бұрын

    😊😊 I love your videos so much!! It is like you know me so well! 😆😆 Well, we are fellow ENFPs. Fantastic video, Heidi!

  • @sandraoettle1476
    @sandraoettle14762 жыл бұрын

    Oh hurray! I AM awesome! I knew it all along. High five to me. And you to you Ms Heidi. You're awesome too. Thanks for making these videos 😍🎉

  • @ibinitschlecht

    @ibinitschlecht

    4 ай бұрын

    Yes you ARE awesome ❤🎉😄😉

  • @kevinwilson3726
    @kevinwilson37266 ай бұрын

    This video has been a blessing to me today. Thank you.

  • @stevenungester927
    @stevenungester9276 ай бұрын

    This was so affirming for me as a classic ENFP! almost brought me to tears, hearing that this is a good quality to have! I question and analyze and search for patterns in EVERYTHING!!

  • @amandalee2930
    @amandalee29302 жыл бұрын

    I deeply feel everything you say in every video! Thank you for all the amazing wisdom❤

  • @styleprescription1348
    @styleprescription13482 жыл бұрын

    Heidi, Thank you! I needed to hear this today.

  • @gowdmc
    @gowdmc Жыл бұрын

    I just realised with your video, i knew exactly what and why i was teaching the job I was working on earlier in life. It was my drive. Connecting abstract theories to reality while adapting to my audience. Thanks for that!

  • @temwithboba2457
    @temwithboba2457 Жыл бұрын

    this video makes me absolutely the happiest. Thank you.

  • @exoticblondestripper
    @exoticblondestripper2 жыл бұрын

    I cant wait to register in ur Boot Camp! Not just because most of the advices out there don't work for me, but I get like big doses of Heidi 😍😍😍😍😍😍 I have a girl crush on u, and I'm addicted to ur voice. The way u describe our brain functions is absolutely genius 🙌 👏 and I think that's exactly 💯 what I need as an ENFP studying medicine in a foreign language 😅

  • @malek6610

    @malek6610

    2 жыл бұрын

    Go for it girl!! You will defiantly be one of the most intelligent students that the medical department has ever had.

  • @exoticblondestripper

    @exoticblondestripper

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@malek6610 ahhhhh such a sweetheart ENFP, youre awesome 👌 thank you so much 💗

  • @malek6610

    @malek6610

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@exoticblondestripper you are most welcome🤍

  • @jenniferwood78
    @jenniferwood78 Жыл бұрын

    So interesting. I'm actually in the INFP/INFJ range, but when I'm happy, mentally healthy, & feeling energetic, I can have a lot of ENFP traits as well. As usual your detailed & specific explanations are so much more enlightening than the usual generic descriptions.

  • @faheemabid9646

    @faheemabid9646

    9 ай бұрын

    Your enfp?

  • @PursueWhatMatters
    @PursueWhatMatters2 жыл бұрын

    Heidi, thank you so much for these amazingly insightful videos! I just found you yesterday and I can't wait to sign up for the bootcamp. As an Enneagram coach and MBTi enthusiast I haven't spent too much time understanding my own cognitive functions as an ENFP. I've had so much typing everyone else. Now its my turn :D

  • @ishanorth

    @ishanorth

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am an ENFP too and have no psychology background however for the obvious reasons have huge interest in people and helping them see themselves. I saw your comment about Enneagram Coach, how does one become that? I think it is a one step ahead research on the MBTI and cognitive functions, am I right?

  • @pennycurry2791
    @pennycurry27918 ай бұрын

    This is one of my favorite videos of your looks.. you look great in the darker hair❤

  • @littlefrog6288
    @littlefrog62887 ай бұрын

    i was having a really rough day and feeling hopeless, and you made me feel understood :) deep inside i know i have all these good things about me, but it's so rare for other people to put them into words like this

  • @penguin34567
    @penguin345672 жыл бұрын

    LOVE this so much! You so easily describe these gifts, particularly our version of empathy, that I would be able to only vaguely explain..and some of them I didn't even know I had until I heard you explain them! Can you do a video for us "N" types that live in a predominantly "S" world? How can we better communicate with these types within our families, workplace, etc (without feeling like we're going crazy!)

  • @angellombness4371

    @angellombness4371

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes please.

  • @dancesingsmile
    @dancesingsmile2 жыл бұрын

    SO GOOD. love "messy empathy" and very much relate!

  • @michaeldizmang8276
    @michaeldizmang8276 Жыл бұрын

    I love your channel… I am ENFP and just now awakening… this in very helpful. Thank you!

  • @mcee555
    @mcee5552 жыл бұрын

    This video made me buy the ENFP soul bootcamp course :D

  • @mahoganywinters
    @mahoganywinters Жыл бұрын

    OMG thank you so much for pointing these out!! I srsly relate to all the gifts you talked about ❤

  • @johngladwell7504
    @johngladwell75048 ай бұрын

    Great stuff !! Thanks , Heidi 🎉🔆💫😎

  • @iamstaceyrobinson
    @iamstaceyrobinson6 ай бұрын

    This was so validating. Thanks so much❤

  • @syzygy4365
    @syzygy4365 Жыл бұрын

    And yes! I completely connect with all of these traits. Some of them I'm learning now like fake enthusiasm. I'm learning the difference on how things are sold in intentions to sell, and others that are created in the thought of real issues and within their moral code and individual strength. You and your product can't be everything to everyone. What sets you up for a moral productive path is recognizing your weaknesses and working with it. You evolve beyond limitations from there. Let your passions and love from new life propel your directional growth. ❤

  • @JinMoo1
    @JinMoo12 жыл бұрын

    I rarely comment but now that I’ve found another person who articulated so well what I have been thinking, I felt the impulse to pause the video and leave a comment: I’m an INFP, and I felt depressed at my previous jobs. Of course my SJ type family member would just think I inherited the vulnerability for depression that runs in the other side of the family, but I always thought that’s not really a vulnerability, but a sensitivity for lack of fulfillment. It’s truly a gift rather than a weakness. It urged me to get out of what was not right for me and now I think I have found a right career direction for myself.

  • @sagnikhaldar3229
    @sagnikhaldar32292 жыл бұрын

    Love your new look girl!! 😁