Happy Sunday! We're so grateful to be part of this 9 MIL journey with you! If you're new here, comment where your'e from. We love to know.

@hyunjinies_dumpling

2 жыл бұрын

Hi!! I send love from london

@AnNguyen-si2ws

2 жыл бұрын

vietname baaaby

@Olliver666

2 жыл бұрын

New Zealand 🇳🇿

@He4d1nTh3Cl0ud

2 жыл бұрын

Hello from Germany! :)

@G7ac3ytfan

2 жыл бұрын

UK :)

Things I do, when I'm attracted to someone: try to avoid them

@MissTiffthegreat

2 жыл бұрын

Why is this? 🤔

@FathiaRezqy

2 жыл бұрын

Same 😭

@weirdscorpio7817

2 жыл бұрын

@@MissTiffthegreat cuz I'm always attracted to straight, taken women and also I'm awkward

@larakasem9695

2 жыл бұрын

Meee

@moon-vi7jr

2 жыл бұрын

SAME IM JUST SCARED TO BE IN THEIR PRESENCE AND BE NEXT TO THEM

Things I do when I like someone 1: look at them 2: look away 3: don’t talk to them 4: walk away 5: avoid them at all costs

@Cherish_srish

Жыл бұрын

🤣

@ilovetrippieredd1400._

Жыл бұрын

me

@shereeclaire

Жыл бұрын

😂

@Sev.N982

Жыл бұрын

Sammee

@labajojeharahminguito5369

Жыл бұрын

Hahahaha sooo trueee

2 signs I am attracted to someone : - Avoid them - Do everything in my power not to show it to the point where they might think I hate them 💀

@Turk3yFilms

Жыл бұрын

why?

@vagabonde9254

Жыл бұрын

@@Turk3yFilms I think it's because in my head there is 0 chance that the feeling will be reciprocated. Low self esteem plays a huge part I must say.

@caterinadelgalles8783

Жыл бұрын

Meee toooo!!!

@thedragonofthewest5789

Жыл бұрын

my crush does this to me, is it really true?

@Pxffle

Жыл бұрын

​@@vagabonde9254 same except I don't want my crush to be reciprocated

There's only one thing to pay attention to. Their effort in talking to you, and seeing you. A person's effort shows their interest in you

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!

@thomaspowerlifting

2 жыл бұрын

damn

@meghansullivan6812

Жыл бұрын

Totally. If someone wants to see u, they will

@theQueen.

Жыл бұрын

But body language is a better indicator. Some people come off as cold or uninterested when they're really actually hella nervous or don't know what to say to you. They can lie about something too or be a little mean (for some reason some people are mean to hide their feelings. It's no excuse for treating you wrong though.) Some people are scared so they don't even look at you when you're looking at them. People are complicated, follow your intuition and watch their body.

@jojon.270

Жыл бұрын

@@theQueen. yes that is true to. But we're talking about what they do when you're not around, how eager they are to see you. In person body language sure does the talking

8 things that make me feel better after a long day 1. the narrator's voice 2. the narrator's voice 3. the narrator's voice 4. the narrator's voice 5. the narrator's voice 6. the narrator's voice 7. the narrator's voice 8. the narrator's voice

@slimjim5274

2 жыл бұрын

Same though

@nzoge

2 жыл бұрын

Same lol

@udontevenwannaknowbruv

2 жыл бұрын

Her voice is so soothing, it’s like a much needed cuddle after a long day. Or drinking a cup of tea that’s at just the right temperature while listening to soft jazz. Or your cat purring on your lap. Or looking at pictures of -Jake Gyllenhaal- Danny DeVito

@markusguadalupe2461

2 жыл бұрын

@@udontevenwannaknowbruv lmfao

@SuperCabrito14

2 жыл бұрын

Facts. Here she is giving us advice for the girl we're simping for meanwhile the girl I'm simping for is her

Side note: friendliness ≠ flirting. Mirroring behaviour and distraction can be signs of ADHD or spectrum behaviour, and open/enthusiastic body language can be caused by masking or excitement about a conversation topic or relief at fitting into a social interaction. The best way to know if someone is flirting with you is to ask if they're interested

@SpinalWall16589

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha… N o .

@HectorManuelHuertaReyes

2 жыл бұрын

Of course im gonna do that!! NOT!

@AJ-lz1em

2 жыл бұрын

If you don't want to ask then all you can do is guess and that's your choice 🤷‍♀️ Just don't be presumptuous because what you may consider flirting might not be flirting at all and if you don't get an outcome you want then don't feel lead on

@t.q.quinn25

2 жыл бұрын

Tfw both you and your crush are on the spectrum:

@t.q.quinn25

2 жыл бұрын

We went to a movie some months back and we just kept repeating each other somewhat. Right now we’re still just friends and I’m okay with that but I’m glad to have made a friend with him

It's sad when that person is no longer attracted to you and already moved on because you kept on ignoring and avoiding them even though you like them back.

@leafkefn3774

Жыл бұрын

Thos sounds like female problems cant relate with that luckely

@lucy_lle

Жыл бұрын

Obviously? Being avoided like that hurts, people won't chase after you forever

@itslapisnotbob8368

Жыл бұрын

I didn’t think about that for some reason, I need to start being more obvious about it

@kaylahmatano1749

Жыл бұрын

Felt this🥲 it’s basically self sabotage but working on not doing that shi. Cuz it ruins a lot of chances

@RealLifeStories99

Жыл бұрын

returning and being humble while contacting back is always a welcome move in such matters

Things I do when I like someone 1. Laugh a LOT 2. Say wack things 3. Text excessively but only when they text first 4. Stop texting and talking bc I think you hate me and I’m making them uncomfortable 5. Avoid touch and apologize when I reactively touch them

@Saar114

4 ай бұрын

Same :D

@Phinsup-mw2cn

9 күн бұрын

nice

*Monke*

@joepemberton9031

2 жыл бұрын

I'm ugly on the inside!

@The_Top_J

2 жыл бұрын

@@joepemberton9031 how do you mean exactly?

@yyxmi

2 жыл бұрын

Are you still w that girl?

@The_Top_J

2 жыл бұрын

@@yyxmi nah bro she changed school and moved to another city :/ Edit: big L for me Ig

@spongebob6622

2 жыл бұрын

Hey I read your story and it was wholesome💜

*8 Signs Someone Is Highly Attracted To You* 0:49 1) Mirroring Behavior 1:28 2) Physical Flirtation 2:06 3) Belly Button Alignment 2:44 4) Open Body Language 3:32 5) Eyebrow Flash 4:27 6) Voice Changes 5:22 7) Inward Leaning 6:10 8) Distracted Behavior :)

@AuthorSharuru

2 жыл бұрын

Very useful, thanks.

@zer0skillz725

2 жыл бұрын

7 out of 8 for me and 6 out of 8 for her

@goddessrick8734

2 жыл бұрын

These list are convenient but discourage ppl from actually watching the video.

@StrawbearXD

2 жыл бұрын

@@goddessrick8734 yeah but if Psych2Go didn’t like it they would say something

@verowel

2 жыл бұрын

Not me behaving like this front of my crush-

I find it easier to just assume no one is attracted to me in any situation. It's a safe bet that prevents a lot potentially awkward interaction lol.

@wanishuk6489

Жыл бұрын

exactly!

@KreeZafi

Жыл бұрын

I've got quite poor social skills and part of that is I'm very oblivious to flirtation. Unless someone outright tells me that they find me attractive, I always assume they're just being friendly. Just recently my mom and I went to buy stuff for my apartment and afterwards my mom said that the guy who helped us in the store was flirting with me and I just??? What???? I thought that was a regular conversation wtf 😅

@sofycolt27

Ай бұрын

​@@KreeZafi same. I never understand when someone is flirting. That's why when I have a crush on someone, I always assume that he doesn't like me back

@KreeZafi

23 күн бұрын

@@sofycolt27 "Luckily" (?) I'm never interested in anyone myself so at least I don't miss out on what could have been reciprocal feelings lol

I used to get so excited whenever I saw these signs in a crush. Then I learned attraction is just phase one. A person might be attracted to you, but that doesn't mean they have feelings. Feelings might grow with time, if you're both willing to spend time together. If you both want something beyond the physical. If you both share and keep an emotional connection. However, a lot of people leave at phase one... I think we all deserve so much more than those physical language signs. We deserve our significant other's presence in our lives, their concrete gestures, their love. Attraction is amazing, but it is just a piece of a greater thing.

@RealElequist

5 ай бұрын

I'm still trying to get to phase one lol

@user-dr3rv8sg6b

4 ай бұрын

Same here🫣

In case you don't relate to all of these signs it's okay dude You're lovable , you're worthy and you're great and enough , it doesn't matter if the people we love aren't attracted to us or even normal people what matters is the way you see yourself not others . Have a great day ❤️❤️❤️ Omg i didn't expect all these likes

@JAMESLORDTHE7TH

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks. Won't stop me from making fun of myself though. I have fun with my life either way

@yasmine5538

2 жыл бұрын

@@JAMESLORDTHE7TH saaaame!! XDDD

@tom-is-grinding

2 жыл бұрын

@@JAMESLORDTHE7TH have to agree with you on that one man I don't know if I'm good enough for her tho

@yasmine5538

2 жыл бұрын

@@tom-is-grinding okay let's suppose you're not good enough for her, that doesn't mean that u ain't enough in general idk what am i saying XDDDDDDD

@wiseguy240Winston

2 жыл бұрын

True but men gotta make the first approach usually and work on themselves to be desirable. It's ok to love yourself but if you don't have any luck with women It's best to improve yourself while still being u at the core. I think sometimes saying you're good enough is masking complacency.

3:48 I love how you included Luisa and Mirabel from Encanto in the video! So adorable! ☺️

@len974

2 жыл бұрын

Omg I just noticed too! I was like wait a minuteeeee

@StaneLessShorts

2 жыл бұрын

I know right! so cool!

@spacenako

2 жыл бұрын

Yeahh that’s cool ^^

@n.y9726

2 жыл бұрын

Yesss, omg I just saw "Luisa's eye twiching"!

@mesmerizingstars

2 жыл бұрын

I was just about to comment that the characters looked like them!

I always just assume everyone is purely friendly to me because who could possibly be attracted to me? and then when I like someone, I suppress my attraction to the person and try to act purely friendly to them because rejection is terrifying.

@breakingthepage3805

Жыл бұрын

Took the words straight out of my brain, good to know it’s not just me lol

@angelam.e.richardson3501

6 ай бұрын

So what if someone is really attracted to you and never would reject you? Would you just crush them out of fear?

@sofycolt27

Ай бұрын

Same. Glad to see that I am not the only one

It's hard to pretend that you don't love someone when the truth is you are so in love with that person🥰

@SquidCena

Жыл бұрын

It's hard to tell if the person you love, loves you back.

@esthervip

Жыл бұрын

​@@SquidCena if they really love you, they're gonna show it to ya!!…🤔🙆🏻‍♀️

@amadousambadoucoure

7 ай бұрын

It sounds interesting. Could you please relate your thoughts for more understanding?

@angelam.e.richardson3501

6 ай бұрын

@@SquidCena Because if you act avoidant how can they know how you feel, so how can they feel safe to show that they like you?

The inclusion of the “Hi, stranger” guy at 5:45 caught me so off guard that I screamed a laugh. 😂

@taurustourstarot9564

2 жыл бұрын

Thank u for saying that. Hahaha! I had a great laugh too!

@marielucieschindler

2 жыл бұрын

i was like "wait. what was that?" 😂

@phyllis9463

2 жыл бұрын

@@marielucieschindler My thoughts exactly 😂😂I’m a child in a grown persons body. Why do I find this so funny😆Glad I’m not the only one 🤣🤣🤣

@s.f6851

2 жыл бұрын

Same I missed that guy

@uesugikenshin386

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

Personnally ive seen myself do the exact opposite whenever im attracted to someone i try to never meet their eyes or to stare the less possible at them because of the fear of getting them to feel uncomfortable. I also respond to them rly coldly to not let them see any of my emotion... and i always realize it after it happens its so frustrating i guess im scared that i might be seen as weird or that i dont like being vulnerable, 😔

@gingerbreadmen5401

2 жыл бұрын

This is so relatable 😩

@terkamerka1

2 жыл бұрын

same, i cant even look at him

@LTMotions

2 жыл бұрын

yea, i think more introverted and/or socially anxious people tend to double-think this kind of thing and do the opposite in order to not show their feelings

@ryanfailanga3350

2 жыл бұрын

Same with me,, and its freaking hard to show off

@LegoCityFilms

2 жыл бұрын

There's this one guy who's hard to look at in the eyes because his eyes are super blue, it feels uncomfortable

especially as a queer person it's hard to tell whether someone is just being friendly or flirting

@spicywolfsongs

Жыл бұрын

lol love your user name

@leedaniels7196

Жыл бұрын

That is so true!.

@Princey0976

8 ай бұрын

I’ve been talking about this recently. Lots of grey area.

@changingmind2522

6 ай бұрын

Story of my life!

watching this so I don't make it obvious that I like my crush

@ethanloch3802

Жыл бұрын

Same here 😂

@Velvetina88

Жыл бұрын

Oh gosh, I’m doing that too! But, I have a feeling my crush may know already…👀

I tend to distance myself when I'm crushing on someone, and brush off a conversation when it starts to go outside of just work stuff. It's not about them - I just hate the feeling when people notice that I like someone (especially if they're his friends), which is something that I know I should not mind but I do.

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

is there a reason for that or is it irrational?

@NumberFiveYT

2 жыл бұрын

@@userm180 I don’t like the attention it brings when other people notice, and that’s the problem cos then I miss out on getting to know the person more 🤷🏻‍♂️

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

@@NumberFiveYT but how do u know they even notice u like them?

@NumberFiveYT

2 жыл бұрын

@@userm180 I don’t, because of this habit which I do to myself. I am aware that it’s restricting me to develop a relationship and it’s something I need to work on

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

@@NumberFiveYT have you tried continuously telling urself that no one notices? "brainwashing" yourself works most of the time

I'm a grown man and I've only just recently begun to pay attention to body language as I've been pretty much oblivious all my life. I missed some opportunities either because of that, or because I rationalized my way out of it. "I must be imagining things," or "Nah, it would never work out." The mind is really good at that it seems, haha. It's true that paying attention to body language matters and whereas people lie, the body rarely if ever does. There are a bunch of books on the topic. But, if you're a fellow over-analyzer, it's best to let it filter into your subconscious and not to obsess over it.

@Rosannasfriend

2 жыл бұрын

Oh yes, you describes me to a T.

@_Themis_0896

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you on the 'not obsessing over analysing body language' part. But i think that non verbal communication can be faked. Humans have always used deception at some point in their lives to establish better relationships. It may sound morally corrupt but we all have done it consciously or unconsciously.

@raheemcamal998

2 жыл бұрын

👏👏

@fruityblue9784

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. It’s good to pick up on signs to give clues, but they are not good to obsess over like you said! I used to be obsessed with body language to the point where I would read into things incorrectly. It’s a good guide if you want to pick up on peoples’ moods, but you can’t know exactly what is causing the person to be in such a mood and they could just have a unique baseline for expressing those moods!

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing!

9. Her ankles are next to her ears.

@Marlin123

22 күн бұрын

💀

@santiagorivera6944

17 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

I think when someone is always looking at you and then when you notice it, they will look away, you can somehow tell that they are feeling something about you

Just a reminder to not be too hard on yourself. Life is hard, it’s more than ok to relax and give yourself a break. If you are going through a tough time I wish you the best. Things will get better. And your stronger and more powerful than you’ll ever know😁

@xoZakiya

2 жыл бұрын

youre right! same to you, thank you ☺️

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

yes!

@realityutubetv8846

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks you too

@sandrahbradley1511

Ай бұрын

Thank you.💜

The mirroring is 100% a sign that someone is so attracted to you. I noticed this a lot.

@esthervip

Жыл бұрын

(your) example?

@DestroyerLV-ix8lc

Жыл бұрын

@@esthervip Like if you are using a Kraken gaming headphone. Then she suddenly used the very same brand of gaming headset and model product the next day. And she may also imitate your laugh and your body language a lot. 🙂

A little reminder: Love will come to you no matter what, even if you think you're unlovable. Stop actively looking for love and it will come to you when it has to and when you least expect it. We all deserve a little love in our lives. ❤

@jazchuuuuuv

7 ай бұрын

@@bbysootsprite I used to think the same way you do. I thought i was unlovable and that i'd never reach happiness outside the academic field - which didn't even fulfill me that much. It took me years and lots of therapy to reunite the strength to get out of bed and do any basic chore. My perception of myself was also hideous. I would look at myself in the mirror and cry nonstop because i thought i'd never feel beautiful or liked. It took lots of strength and determination to get out of such a bad mental state. I know this sounds cheesy, but loving myself was the way. Of course, i was very privileged to get the help i needed and i have always had supportive parents by my side, so this was easier thanks to them. I'm so, so sorry you feel that way. You deserve to be happy and loved and anyone who told you or made you feel like you didn't is wrong. I'm sure you will find happiness and love in your life.

@TheGreatSalsaMan

7 ай бұрын

30 years old and I’ve found no one. My window to try has closed and it only gets harder from here on out. You’re full of lies and false hopes. Just stop

@danieltalebi1040

5 ай бұрын

​@@bbysootspriteVictim mindset, from the Drama Triangle. Affirming this will keep you in a cycle where you believe you're unlovable and others are as well. It's not just how it is, it's how you've made it to be.

@MrBrewman95

4 ай бұрын

I've heard this advice for over 10 years now and since I stopped even attempting, it has gotten worse.

@jazchuuuuuv

4 ай бұрын

@@danieltalebi1040 !!! This

Don't know why this is in my feeds. But for everyone out there, just remember that you are good enough. If the person you're attracted to doesn't see that, it's their loss. At the end of the day, love yourself and forget about those who don't deserve you. Attraction is one thing, but it means nothing if the heart is trash.

As an Introvert I realized I'm highly attracted to everyone I Talk.

@Jt-hn6lp

2 жыл бұрын

SUS

@Antonloll

2 жыл бұрын

Even 9 year old girls?

@haywoodjblome4768

2 жыл бұрын

@@Antonloll Especially 9 year olds

@jinjjaeonnie448

2 жыл бұрын

same 😬

@whippedforbangtanftjin5106

2 жыл бұрын

Same bruh

Here are 8 signs: 1.Mirroring behaviour. 2.Physical flirtation. 3.Belly button alignment. 4.Open body language. 5.Eyebrow flash. 6.Voice changes. 7.Inward leaning. 8.Distracted behaviour. Hope this helps😊 Have a good day💙

@weirdyy249

2 жыл бұрын

Thx!

@StaccatoRedFox

2 жыл бұрын

Straight to the damn point, THANK YOU

@creeperYT9824

2 жыл бұрын

4.open

@arianator5358

2 жыл бұрын

@@StaccatoRedFox Happy to help:)

@bongoswongos5942

2 жыл бұрын

@@creeperYT9824 where does It go?

I never understand why showing interest in someone is embarrassing for most people, like why can’t we just be flattered someone finds us attractive and capable enough to possibly envision a future (wether long or short term) with us.

@KreeZafi

Жыл бұрын

It's the awkwardness of rejection

@Nola5427

Жыл бұрын

Ya but if you don' t take a chance and/ or say how you feel you' ll never know! And what' s the worst thing that could happen?.....Laughing in your face? If a person did that they are pond scum and they don' t deserve you anyway!

@karolinastachowiak1629

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you, my husband let me know right away when I first met him that he was interested in me. It avoided unnecessary hassle of waiting and wondering if he is into me. I told him that I liked him too. It’s better to try than just wait and see what happens.

@Nitu_S.C.

11 ай бұрын

It's ego related...

@andrewbees5705

8 ай бұрын

Agreed although I understand why sometimes it is embarrassing I feel like women more than men have this fear. And they like to act like making a move should be a gender specific role when it shouldn’t be at all. I think it’s super cool when a women That’s into me shows it or at least makes effort to talk to me rather than act like they hate me or reserved.. The truth is if flirting/making the first move had. 100% success rate women would find the idea of making the first move being a men’s job as barbaric and so old fashion.. but because it can be embarrassing and at times hard they don’t want anything to do with it and say it’s a man’s job

What I do when I like a guy: 1. Talk to him 2. Laugh at his jokes 3. Tell him what I am currently struggling with 4. Protect him in fights 5. Try to get to know him better 6. Try to find really subtile if he has a gf Okayy so I wrote this 10 months ago when I had a crush on my bsf but now I have a crush on another guy and we're not really friends so I don't do any of the things above, buttt he likes me back yay

@shishi3549

Жыл бұрын

Same with me

@Nitu_S.C.

11 ай бұрын

"4. Protect him in fights"...what? 😂

@nataliaaa18

11 ай бұрын

@@Nitu_S.C. tbh I have no idea what I meant with that 5 months ago 🥲

@lively2242

6 ай бұрын

​@nataliaaa18 u probably meant defending him...like if ppl are talking shit abt him ,u normally defend him and say that he doesn't act the way that they say he does

@nataliaaa18

6 ай бұрын

​@@lively2242 yeah

my favourite one is the eyebrow lift micro expression. whenever my boyfriend sees me when he’s not explicitly expecting it, he does it and his face lights up and rushes over to hug me it’s really cute.

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

THATS SO CUTE!!

@andrewbees5705

8 ай бұрын

As a man who came looking for subtle signs women dk when they’re attracted to someone I have to say the eyebrow one is real at least for me .. some girl I work that is so fine my eyebrows just raise when I see her especially if she catches me by surprise it’s kinda embarrassing

@ladyteebugluv

8 ай бұрын

@@andrewbees5705 lolll maybe you should confess haha 😮‍💨😉😏😏

Food For Thought: Just be yourself, someone will eventually find your uniqueness attractive.

@MargauxNeedler

2 жыл бұрын

I have had to find out who I want to be over time though

@dannysiragusa2000

2 жыл бұрын

I hope so. It's been 22 years and I've yet to find someone who thinks my "uniqueness is attractive".

@alexandraghita7239

2 жыл бұрын

@@dannysiragusa2000 you will find someone, trust me. I did even when I was depressed and weird af, so don't worry about it.

@lyrux5750

2 жыл бұрын

And I thought no one would love me being a serial killer 😔

@MargauxNeedler

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexandraghita7239 that's just lucky.

Things I do when I like someone (i'm a girl): When it's a person i don't know: I try to be in the same room as them. I stare at them and look away when caught. I laugh really loud to catch their attention. When it's someone i'm friends with: Hug them a lot Give compliments Bully (in a friendly way ofc) and following them around. This is just sum stuff i do lol also stalk their profiles on social media heheheheh >:)

3:54 did anyone else think that that totally looked like mirabel and her sister from encanto???! Like when her sister was singing that song ab pressure and she pretended to be fine...

@Cup1dzzz

6 ай бұрын

that’s because It is them😂

@Bunnix01230

6 ай бұрын

Yeah…Thats the point lol

dont do that, dont give me hope

When I am attracted to someone - I show them, but never tell/admit it unless they confront me.

Just last night, my wife was telling me a story about when she first introduced me to one of her childhood friends. That entire time, she noticed her friend's voice was higher pitched than normal whenever she was talking to me. We never met that friend again after that, lol. But it's interesting how some people's behavior literally changes like that.

the fact that this video has been recommended to me at the right time. this is a sign.

I don't even suspect that someone is attracted to me. I'm only watching this so that I can somehow convince myself that I'm not as ugly as I think

@emilyh9679

2 жыл бұрын

God's got a special someone for u!! You are beautiful or handsome just the way u are!

@darkhero2114

2 жыл бұрын

I'm certain you're great the way you are. Don't be so hard on yourself. You have great traits others don't, I guarantee you.

@hugannoy4751

2 жыл бұрын

Not everyone is attractive and still found a partner. Im a normal looking female human being. Just be yourself. Find hobbies or do stuff you like. Someday you will find someone who likes the same things and you can bond over these. Look around yourself. Most girls date whoever meets their standart. They dont have to be attractive. Someones standart could be: can cook for me, is romantic and likes cats. So look for someone who you think meets your standarts and hopefully you meet theirs. Good luck 👌 (My grandma found herself a new bf after a horrible marriage with her abusive husand. Its never too late ❤)

@mitalisamdariya6084

2 жыл бұрын

same

You know this actually helped a lot and it boosted my confidence a little

One person in my dating history had an unusual habit of fake yawning whenever someone he was attracted to was around, or when he was having to deal with a discussion about anything emotional (such a his crush talking about their love life or walking by with their partner, or even just seeing his crush), or any time he felt tempted to blurt out an admission of his attraction. He would also get fidgety hands, whereas he is normally not a fidgety person. If someone is constantly yawning or clearing their throat when you're around, and you aren't talking (so you know they aren't yawning because you're boring them), it might be a sign of interest.

@Isipeasylemonsqueezy

Жыл бұрын

I yawn when I’m lying 😂

@yos.5684

Жыл бұрын

How would you interpret someone who admitted in the past being strongly attracted to you and has been avoiding you for years because of that reason, fidgeting with a beer bottle in your presence when not talking to you -and when I say fidgeting I mean FINGERING the bottle opening with his thumb or other fingers? Because I asked somewhere and they mocked me for being delusional, but never in my life never seen a guy (not this one either) dig his whole fingers in a half full beer bottle while watching a show. Actually noticed because I found it slightly gross 😆 It needn't be he wants to finger me but sounds at least like a bit of a strong pacifying behaviour lol

Fun fact: if u feel ugly and feel like nobody likes you… well that’s a lie because there is ALWAYS someone in ur life that has a crush on you ALWAYS

@hamster2213

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe for women

@tablelegz

2 жыл бұрын

I would say no but its always when i least expect it i get asked out

@manu9370

2 жыл бұрын

No, it's not true. At least for me 😔

@oh8613

2 жыл бұрын

@@hamster2213 for men too.. trust me there is atleast 1 girl that likes you TRUST ME

@oh8613

2 жыл бұрын

@@tablelegz see know what I say

Thank you for acknowledging that platonic attraction exists! :)

@Laila-md1xs

2 жыл бұрын

they're gay

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@jackmemphis3203

Жыл бұрын

that would no longer be platonic at that point

@theQueen.

Жыл бұрын

What does that exactly mean?

@autumn_leaf8441

Жыл бұрын

@@theQueen. It's when you really want to be close to someone but not romantically. The best examples would be when you want to be really close friends with someone (Because they are cool, fun to be around, you look up to them, etc.) or if you have a long lost relative and want to regain that close bond with them. Even trying your best to be acknowledged by someone you deeply respect would count.

Why am I watching this when I don’t even have any friends

Emotions are difficult to gauge and are always subject to change. As someone who doesn’t always recognize when someone is showing me interest, the easiest way I’ve found to break the ice with someone I feel may be interested is to simply say “I have a hard time recognizing affection appropriately, are you interested in me? Or simply just being kind?” Both are rooted in positive intent and often your honesty will be appreciated. If you’re wrong on your assessment then that’s okay too. It doesn’t devalue you as a person or mitigate your self-worth. Honesty has a higher success rate in forming strong emotional bonds than simply trying to be something you are not at your core to please others. I will find love as will you. We deserve it.

@LM-qv7cy

Жыл бұрын

I'm interested in you lol 😁

@AMOREopal

7 ай бұрын

Hey there... so how did it go?

@isotory

6 ай бұрын

who let bro cook🔥

@seadragon8417

5 ай бұрын

That was a solid way to bring up that question to someone, and also shows maturity.

most dude even myself know that it's been years since we felt the touch of an other human being

@chrism3425

2 жыл бұрын

So what we get hella high I’m like so what

I have had people "mirror" me most of my life. Only started to see and understand it in my early 30's. I also discovered I do it too. Usually when I catch myself doing it it's while having a conversation that is interesting. When I lose myself in a topic I like with someone.

this channel’s videos are so comforting

This video hits home to me because I have liked this girl for over 2 years now and she is rlly pretty and my best friend. She would copy and mimic my mannerisms and I myself wouldn't even notice until my friends told me. I had a feeling she liked me but I was too scared to ask her out. So instead I asked her out to prom as a friend and she said yes and she even called me her prom king lol. Idk how I didn't get the hint. Then instead of going to prom I went travelling to the US and basically left her prom less (tbf this was during covid so I just assumed prom wasn't happening). Anyways 6 months later, I'm at a different school and I'm still thinking about her and with the help of my friends I call her and do it. I asked her out. She said no. I was pretty heartbroken but I stayed friends with her and understood. 4 months later, I've still kept in contact with her I've pretty much lost my romantic interest with her and then I meet this other girl who was toxic to me. So i rant about this toxic gal to my best friend. She gives me pretty good advice and then she texts me saying... 'yk when you called me, I was going through some hard shit in my life but if it was another time I would've said something else on that phone I'm not even joking'. That gave me happiness but extreme sadness at the same time. Because I played it so safe I never got a chance with her and when I asked her why she said its a '4 am type convo'. I never realised asked her if she liked me still and here I am 4 months later, Im still friends with her, she admitted to liking me in the past but I don't have a damn clue if she likes me now but screw it. When I feel better I'm gonna have a talk with her and ask her again because I rlly do like her. Pray for me fellas 🙏

@SomethinSweetShop

Жыл бұрын

You sound like a catch, I wish you luck!

@SquidCena

Жыл бұрын

How has things been?

@ivymellemoscoso2141

Жыл бұрын

Please, update us!

@joaquimstar7630

Жыл бұрын

@@ivymellemoscoso2141 Just found this thread again lol. Basically this girl is kind of a prick and I hate her now. I moved on from her cus she said she liked me a year ago and that I was too late. And she didn't want any relationship and then 2 months later she's dating my best friend which I was mad at for like a month but now I dont really care. The whole situation taught me just shoot your shot and don't hold onto the past cus I wasted my time thinking about her when she basically used me and never really cared about me. Anyways now I'm just focusing on myself some women have shown interest in me the past few months but I fumbled lmao. I do have hope for this new year that I can find someone good for me as I graduate from high school in 5 months. There is this girl I like she's really hot but very quiet like me I spoke to her once like 6 months ago lol and she found me funny but ever since then haven't said much. I just know she really likes music and she's in a band and all that. So I'm debating whether I should make a move or just leave it.

@bladegriggs4090

Жыл бұрын

How are y'all doing now?

Always remember that you're worthy.

@pablozamalvide5196

Жыл бұрын

Some of us just aren't. By definition, not everyone is special.

@ik0n6

Жыл бұрын

@@pablozamalvide5196 But you can be special in your own way. We may not know, but there are people who see your worth more than you do.

It’s like you read my mind on what I wanted to know about someone rn

@blairthandi7058

2 жыл бұрын

Me too man, me too.

I love the narrators voice, it’s is so pleasant and calming

Every time I try and align my belly button with my crush, all I hear is “put on your shirt”, and “that’s not a belly button”.....Love is hard

I love how the animation is different every video

Here are signs how i express my crush: I run away from them I avert eye contact as soon as they look back I tend to hate them to try and get over it I bully them So yea, it's not healthy but i never display these signs when i like someone because of my attachment disorder. I'mso aware of myself i do the opposite. So not everyone that likes you can be so open and inviting. Some are horrendously mean, but that shows they can't cope with those feelings usually

@enterprisingbiosphere3933

2 жыл бұрын

how i express i have a crush: tell them i have budding romantic feelings for them and then immediately either run away and actively avoid them, or block them if i'm not around my crush much. 🙃

@hallie8252

2 жыл бұрын

@@enterprisingbiosphere3933 How I express I have a crush: I start off by observing their every move from afar and then I take notes, eventually throwing them out and sometimes talk to him. If I'm not talking to him, I'm sitting alone, staring from afar and if I catch him noticing, I look away quickly.

@bobafett6579

2 жыл бұрын

How I express I have a crush: I dont have a crush

@hallie8252

2 жыл бұрын

Actually, last Friday I told them I liked them. Unfortunately though, I don't think they feel the same way about me as I do of them 😭😭😭

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

It's good that you've noticed this. First step to improvement.

I saw some of these signs from my crush so I told him how I felt. Unfortunately he didn't feel the same. But at least now I know.

@welldelinyufuria2508

Жыл бұрын

It's okay, girl. At least he knows that you are a cool girl🥰❤

@snowhite427

5 ай бұрын

Kudos to you, you are brave and honest!

Things I do when I have a crush: 1. Do nothing 2. Don't notice it 3. I'm aroace How I react when Somebody else has an crush on me: 1. Pity them 2. Feel bad for them 3. Ignore them

@angelam.e.richardson3501

6 ай бұрын

How unpleasant. So if someone likes you you despise them? You don't deserve them then.

@AestheticallyUnalive

6 ай бұрын

@@angelam.e.richardson3501 I rarely get secret admirers, and I never even liked them. Plus I'm aroflux or aroace, making me overall not interested in a relationship. And I also feel weird whenever somebody has a crush on me, because I don't like it when people catch that kind of feelings for me.

I'm definitely an eyebrow flasher when I see someone attractive, I can't help it 😯 that one had me cheesin like "damn they're onto me!" 😂

"Open body language" Me, who has a split second panic attack around an attractive man and crosses my arms to feel secure: "Oop"

but mirroring someone can also just mean that you are comfortable with a person! I personally catch myself mirroring all of my friends and familiy members all the time

Thank you so much and I learned so much. Great video by the way.

Okay now I know some people think they can’t tell if someone is attracted to them because maybe they don’t feel good looking enough or pretty enough. But people who are oblivious AND attractive, we have it just as bad actually. I can never tell if someone is attracted to me and I have to rely on a third party intel, or a best friend in order to catch on with these things. I couldn’t believe how air-headed I can be when someone does find me attractive I just never assume it will happen or I look at it as whatever. But than a friend of mines told me “You have a very calculating way of showing ‘interest’ in someone.” Now I’m just very self aware with these things ever since I’ve been told. I always just assume someone is just being extremely nice to me and than I slowly realize before it’s too late that . . . You get the point I’m trying to make.

@oceanrosethatsailsacrossth3466

Жыл бұрын

I feel the exact same way as you .

The number of videos you've made is astonishing, in a good way

I loved the graphics.. Loved them ^_^

Your voice is very calming 💗

I was thinking about my crush while watching this video (to remember if she did any of these) and then I realized I literally did all of these when she was around. Although it’s hard for me to retain eye contact (inward leaning) with her because I always think it would be obvious I liked her if she could see my face.

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

You can start by being friends and building confidence around them

Everyone is so kind and beautiful in their on way so if someone dose not like you back you still know deep down in your heart ♥️ your awesome and beautiful!

Love the disclaimer

I get shy and try to avoid them but by doing so I think I hurt her and that is not my intent I’m working on this to be better at it and just talk to her ❤

@Nola5427

Жыл бұрын

Yes you hurt them very much I can tell you that, good thing you recognize this and work on it though!

So that’s why my friend who is now my lover does everything I do

He’s fine around other girls bc he hates them but he likes me and is happy to talk to me, he gets kind of all quiet and shy when talking to me when he is really extroverted. I’ve caught him looking at me in class and sometimes we just have eye contact for like 5 seconds. When we do look at each other we usually smile. I think he’s into me (I really hope so!) so I’m gonna confess in July and hope he feels the same way, wish me luck!

I watch your videos just because of your voice. It's so soothing. But yeah, good content.

Number 8 feels v true for me. My bestie and I can never get anywhere and have to turn around pretty much every time we drive somewhere because were both always so attracted to each other’s energy and the conversation. Hard to focus on directions when the convos just so engaging haha. Oddly before this video i felt funny about that, but this made me just feel very happy to have her as a friend. Thanks :)

My voice definitely softens up when I like somebody and I smile more. I tend to be shy.

Thank you so much for all the things you help all of us with!

@Psych2go

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your extra support for our channel, Matthias! You're very welcome. We're so happy to share message around!

Woah. I tested some of the advices many times and it really helps to at least having a sense whether someones attracted to us or not. Physical touch i think is one of the most useful guidance to see genuine/reflex responds

@shanegonzales1178

2 жыл бұрын

And do you ask the person if he/she really is attracted to you?

@maudyyulia1089

2 жыл бұрын

@@shanegonzales1178 Sometimes, when i feel sure about it. I tend not to ask when i feel like receiving mixed signals. So yeah very intuitive😅

@shanegonzales1178

2 жыл бұрын

@@maudyyulia1089 there is a someone who I have a crush on. She greeted me on social media and said "happy birthday, mate". Im so confused. I saw some of these signs when we have deep talks.

"Mirroring behavior" No wonder my grandparents act like each other ☠️ they fight so much

As someone who went and used their videos and now has a S/O I’m thoroughly happy. Wishing good luck to all the buds out there wanting to couple up!

That last one hit hard, I literally came late to class late several time cause I just followed my crush without realizing “oh wait, he’s going to his locker, classroom’s the other way”😂😅

@welldelinyufuria2508

Жыл бұрын

Hahahahah this is so funny and cute at the same time!! 😂❤

These visuals/ animations are sooo good

@peanutbuttercup5561

Жыл бұрын

And funny! Haha

I finally met someone I had hopes for, and these videos are finally interesting to me and I don't skip them like I used to with the thought of "Oh, I have neither a relationship nor have I had"

Me trying to figure out if my crush likes me in the same way i like her by watching these videos.

"have you ever wondered if anyone is highly attracted to you" Me: no, who would?

These animations are adorable

I love the animations as much as the information 💜

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Well... I show love and care through touch, I touch everyone I care for (not inappropriately). Even though I show love through touch, I never touch anyone I have a romantic interest in. It's not because I don't want to give them a pat on the back or a hug, it's more that I don't want the affection to be one-sided or make them uncomfortable. I don't know why, but I tend to avoid my crushes...

Nice tips as always, keep it up!

Two more to add to the list, similar to the eyebrow flash: 9. When a person is attracted to you, their pupils may dilate when they first see you. 10. When a person is attracted to you, their lips will slightly part when they first see you.

@esthervip

Жыл бұрын

why the 10.

@bluegalant

10 ай бұрын

Do we really get close enough to notice pupils? I don't

I love this style, it's so sweet! Nicely done, Azélie!

You guys are so aware of your undertones. Thank you. I love your videos! 💞

... Life is too short for these games... If you're attracted to someone, just tell them... Take the risk even if you get rejected... You only live once... Go for it!

@tasyfan.314

2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't have said it better

@dramakingnyc937

2 жыл бұрын

@@tasyfan.314 .. Yay🎊

I've caught a few of these signs but between my ex and the person he was attracted to. That's why seeing those signs again is low-key like a "trauma"

@welldelinyufuria2508

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear that :( hope you heal from that trauma and find your new lovely person who can give you that unconditional, real, pure, and genuine love🥰 you better prepared when it comes! Sending you love and hugssss❤❤

Me: *experiences the opposite of all these signs* I'll make fun of myself till the day I die. Thanks for the video. Good night

The things that were mentioned describe my situation so much haha, the eyebrow thing just happened in the Cafeteria. I walked towards him, and when I saw him I began to smile, and he raised his eyebrows on me. In this moment I thought, that this was so cute, and it fits so well to what you said haha

Gotta love your content. Thanks for making this year a little bit better. ❤️

@coolbeans5992

2 жыл бұрын

YES FR

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

Glad you're enjoying!

Can we just take a moment and look at this beautiful art style

I Shut Down when I'm around someone i am deeply attracted to. But i am very social and talkative with people i am Not attracted to.