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0:33 Living another person's dream 1:22 Marrying the wrong person 1:42 Having a baby with the wrong person 3:20 Not getting over your issues 5:20 hanging out with loser friends. 5:38 Abusing drugs and Alcohol 6:20 Crappy diet and lack of excercises 6:56 Chasing money and possessions 7:30 Bad credit 8:07 Being unable to take a risk and fail 8:54 Ability to say No (Learn to Say NO)

@te9591

Жыл бұрын

All true.

@hblanco530

Жыл бұрын

Where can I learn more about money/credit (last point)?

@julian2wavy875

Жыл бұрын

W summary guy keep doing these comments

@joeleek9976

Жыл бұрын

​@hblanco talk to someone that works in finance. Either cars or houses. Those folks know how to repair credit.

@siyashilla6885

Жыл бұрын

@@julian2wavy875 oops missed the other ones

1. Living someone else’s life 2. Marrying wrong person 3. Having a baby when your not ready 4. Not fixing your issues 5. Abusing drugs, alcohol, etc 6. Chasing stuff over hunting for intrinsic happiness 7. Bad Credit (Not understanding money/finances) He lists more than seven honestly 8. Not being able willing to take risks and fail 9. Learn to say NO

@Nikstar112

Жыл бұрын

You’re a legend!

@antoniosomera

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@mr.anderson3288

Жыл бұрын

Marriage and kids is number one danger if you are a man

@SubZero-pi4jr

Жыл бұрын

@@mr.anderson3288 facts 💯

@KRDP

11 ай бұрын

@@mr.anderson3288 exactly marriage and kids are the number 1 suicide in a man's life alpha is litterally the 4th guy to confirm that women are bullshit waste of time that'll destroy a man's life so after hearing andrew tate and 3 other guys including alpha say it then you know as a man you need to make Dire changes in your life

Experienced divorce attorney here. I agree that marrying the wrong person could ruin your life. I see this every day in divorce court. I have also seen guys totally derail their lives by having a child with someone who they do not plan to marry or co-parent. You will get dragged through the child support and child custody courts when the time and money would be better spent building a great life. Bottom line: focus on becoming the very best version of yourself. Make good decisions. Stay safe out there!

@KRDP

11 ай бұрын

Jc bro , thanks for saying it , i heard andrew tate straight up say that women are bullshit waste of time , i heard 1 other guy say dont persue women or you'll destroy your life then bedros keullian said Dont the same as you and alpha said , now i know women are 100% bullshit waste of time im gonna do what andrew tate said ima program myself to be in mind of i dont give a damn about women and society , so im gonna pass up and no longer waste my time on bullshit women unless i wanna destroy my life then dont get married and have kids

Thanks Alpha! 💪 Words of timeless wisdom! 👍

Preach!!! This got me fired up 💪

Honestly I struggled with abusing substances during my later 20s, and chasing anything over looking at myself internally, HOWEVER, recently I've STOPPED my consumption of alcohol entirely, it's been 3 months Aaron! 💪

Always love to see a new video, even if I'm a few days late. You do a great job at making the world a better place! Eventually, I'll be able to help people as much as you do, and maybe even get to meet you. Keep up the good work Alpha!

Love this video Alpha!

Your 100% Correct!!

Alphas post prod is getting to a next level…kudos sir

Hey Alpha M! Your videos are always great, and this one might be your most current Coup de Gras! Keep up the great work!

I needed this!

Hey Aaron, nice content! Loved this video .. much needed.. Love from India!

I like your BRUTAL HONESTY MA G

I appreciate your advice

THIS is the content we need!

just wanted to say , I have only been watching you a few months but love the content and the realness of your statements. I have just made 44 and wish I had seen alot of your advice 10 yrs ago . But never to late for the correct changes and I appreciate your advice

@rollingon6358

Жыл бұрын

What changes are you planning to make? What do you think is missing in your life?

Another great video alpha 👏 🙏

Alpha, I feel out of all your videos, THIS is the most important post you've ever made. It hits deep for why men are insecure. Every single subject you have talked about can be summed up by the list in this video. I hope this video both energizes men and also pisses them off because if they're angry, it just proves how correct you are. Bravo!

Good afternoon Brother. I appreciate you

Damn alpha you hit hard with this one… Great advice as usual!

Great stuff alpha man

more vids like these alpha, good stuff

Had to comment as soon as you said “LIFE’S NOT FAIR FOOL” 😅🔥

Hey alpha m I just came across your old videos I was watching you since I was a teenager you taught me a lot of stuff I'm a subscriber till this day recently I was not watching but keep it going Alpha

When always a Great Day When Alpha M Uploads 💯

You are awesome and i have a question are you from New Jersey?

Nice one

This is awesome.

You are the first channel I ever subscribed to... 8 years ago❤

I appreciate you so much brother. You are the mann

He went all in on this one. He did his job it's up to us now

Love the last point. Financially ruined, anxiety is kicking in and today just said im done. Need to make a change

0:33 1. Living another person's dream 1:22 2. Marrying the wrong person 1:42 3. Having a baby with the wrong person 3:20 4. Not getting over your issues 5:20 5. Hanging out with loser friends. 5:38 6. Abusing drugs and Alcohol 6:20 7. Crappy diet and lack of excercises 6:56 8. Chasing money and possessions 7:30 9. Bad credit

I stopped smoking and decided to try it again recently and immediately regretted my decision and havnt since! Love your content brother!

What brand of hair color do you use?

You are helping men to grow the fuck up! Good luck! 👍👏

The 1st 30sec is hilarious 😂

Everytime you slap in the marketing , im like 'next video'

Really well done. Should be played to all high schoolers in Health Class.

This was a slap in the face but i needed it ... Have three ishues but im gonna fix thuz shit garenteed

Beavis and Butt-Head explained what an alpha is. They roasted the shit outta Alpha M this morning on their show . 🤣

Yo Alpha, big fan! How do you feel about being in beavis and butt-head? I just saw you on there 😂😂

I love this guy. The way he talk ❤

The last point is so true. Should also note: I honestly feel like the last point and the first are highly similar. The two have a lot of overlap in my experience.

This was pretty solid advice everything he said is legit

Want to live your dreams? complete your goals first, each and every single day. Thanks Aaron!

yup lost my friend group of almost 8 years cause i wanted to just focus on myself than caring for others

I absolutely agree with everything I just have one issue. And I know I sound like a smart ass however alcohol is a drug like all others. I hate that it's always "stop abusing drugs and alcohol" as if alcohol is something you have to say extra because it isn't one. It's not. Alcohol is a drug and should be handled like one instead of being as socially accepted as it is.

Buying $80 polo shirts. Can you drop the price?!

My life is apparently ruined. I married the wrong person when i was super young, and we ended up having 2 kids. The rest i am doing ok, but #2 and #3 are the worst! Never again. Mind you i have embraced being a father and really am super amazing dad (according to my kids and friends)

@rollingon6358

Жыл бұрын

What’s next then? You cannot ruin your entire life with just 2 mistakes. Don’t let that define rest of your life that is ahead of you.

@KRDP

11 ай бұрын

bro as andrew tate would say , Screw the bitch and dont waste your time on bullshit women and you'll live a hell of a healthier life

@KRDP

11 ай бұрын

@@rollingon6358 youre right , though we cant ruin our life with 2 mistakes , my plan is this , program myself to get in the mind set of 1. i dont give a damn about women and society 2.Dont waste my time on bullshit women do this and as males we'll live hell of a damn good life

"Wow, what an eye-opening video! The '7 ways a man can ruin his life' really hit home for me. It's crucial to acknowledge and address these destructive habits to prevent their long-term consequences. This video serves as a powerful wake-up call for all men, urging us to take responsibility for our actions and make positive changes. I appreciate the thoughtful insights and practical advice presented here. Let's commit to breaking these harmful patterns and striving for personal growth, happiness, and success. Kudos to the creator for shedding light on such an important topic!"

@vahjyna994

Жыл бұрын

Did you use ChatGPT for this

Just seen you on bevis and buttheads new episode lol

For once a video i quite like from this dude🎉

Currently going through a divorce… and let me tell you… I was pressured into it, and I did it to live someone else’s dreams, and because I thought it was what I was supposed to do. I didn’t have the self confidence to say I wasn’t really ready at that point, and that I wasn’t going to commit to anything until I felt 100% ready… Things I’ve learned… NO ONE under 25 should get married… period. Your brain chemistry and very personality will be TOTALLY different at 18 then at 25. It’s a dice roll that you and your spouse will even like each other later! Also, I’ve been beginning to notice another woman these days, and I firmly believe that the women you need to be going after are the ones you never really thought you’d go for, but also somehow make you want to be a better person. Don’t know if she’ll ever like me, but wish me luck, gents.

@amadukamara9606

Жыл бұрын

Gud luck

@KRDP

11 ай бұрын

good luck bro , and in case it dont work out for you remember andrew tate said "Dont waste your time on bullshit women , dont give a damn about women and society or your life is ruined"

Damn right bro

The ability to say NO

I honestly don’t comment on many KZread videos. I can heavily relate to a lot of the things said in this video and it’s depressing as 💩. But if it doesn’t kill you it makes you stronger? I’ve failed at a few things this year but I have to take the back end of the year and make the most and smash into 2024.

Saying NO!!!

Yup

I just love this dude

It’s not about happiness but I agree with everything else.

Wrap it before you tap it!

Amen

I love you alpha

Unfortunately everyone making these mistakes doesn't realize they're making these mistakes UNTIL it ruins their life. We all make 1 of them, can we make the required changes or not is the only question.

Great content my man!! More men need to hear this and grow the F

I'm happily married with 2 kids!! got out of an unhappy relationship and found the right one 🙌

I see it this way, if you don't break up with her sooner, she will.

Mine is marrying the wrong person, like u said shes a sweet person, but at the same time it makes me depressed and im 39, been married for 9 years so far, had to get away and moved out once but ended up moving back in after 2 years. And now im thinking of a way to leave I just need the willpower to do it. I feel like im just in a rut, we are just not compatible or have anything in common.

@rbfarrell1

Жыл бұрын

Most guys are going to find out that most modern American women are not compatible with them. Because Modern American women are in their masculine energy and most straight men are not going find that attractive. Men and women need to stay in their lane. Be the best man if you are a man. Be the best woman is you are a woman. Stay in your F-ing lane and things would be way better in this world.

My fav therapist is Aaron himself 😄 damn I need to talk to u someday .

Bad thing happen to good people.... bad things are fuel to fix youuuuu.... so your better

I can't able to say no .

I've been listening to your advice , and I apply it, keep it up, I'm single man by choice, I'll meet this woman someday, thanks. Ps, living my own life.

From personal experience, Alpha is right about it all 😢

9:10 Note to Editor: I appreciate the Little Alpha randomness.

You the shark tank guy 😲

Married and living #2.

Alpha made beavis and butthead! Congrats!

Don’t get married guys!

Love from India. 🇮🇳❣️

I have a friend like that. Drugs, alcohol, gambling, and everything else in between ruined his life and its always everybody’s else’s fault…

I lived my father's dream until I was 35. He guilted me into making myself second to him. Bad move

I've Been in therapy all my life for a horrible up bringing and I don't wish my childhoid on anyone. Some of us will never be ok. Thats not to say we don't try. Erasing the tape feeling shitty about trauma pr PTSd isn't always easy.

Talk about COOKING, or HOW to be a better cook as a man.

The real alpha man, no this new shit of sigma, this is helpful

People can be someone for a day but noone can be you😂lol Sir!

Janice went through so much in this channel 😂

when meeting people who don't have the same sense of humor as you

I don't need this guide I've already ruined my life

I did every single one of those…..every…..single…..one

Getting a wrong partner is more dangerous than any of the above.

I am not getting your notifications. 0:43 and something in my mind tells me to "F" what they think YOU GOTTA LIVE YOUR LIFE! so i am gonna put the alcohol, freebase protein, creatine, and AWESOMENEDS!And like the wonderful Dimond Dallas Page learn that the problems that i have is a good thing. I can grow and learn from the negative things! I am ready to Make My Life AWESOME Again! MMLAA! Please credit me for this! And i could use a few thousands of dollars for that too! So to the gym i must go!

I don’t want to toot my own horn, but I smoke the devils lettuce, and I’m doing great in my job, and I’m paid handsomely. Everyone is different, there’s no rules that apply to everyone. People are individuals.

If you have money to pay bettterhelp you dont need help 😂

0:01

I agree with marrying the wrong person and having children. Glad I never married or had children as looking back it would have definitely been a huge mistake.

Damn. 8/9

This man made it to Beavis and Butthead. Respect.