“Narrowed eyes show that the other person may be threaten or suspicious of you” .......it’s not like that, I just forgot my glasses

@joelsantiago47

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂... Or asian✌️

@Phewmandarin_

3 жыл бұрын

OMG I CAN RELATE TO THIS ON A PERSONAL LEVEL and people just look at me funny 😂

@ana7icia

3 жыл бұрын

joel santiago im asian and forgot my glasses

@antiusinferno9396

3 жыл бұрын

Nah comon I know that isn't the reason I stopped squinting long ago because it does absolutely nothing for me when i don't have my glasses... Oh wait I'm projecting my apologies carry on.

@joelsantiago47

3 жыл бұрын

@@ana7icia I'm Asian too 😚😉

-Why did you break up with him? -He didn't return the shopping kart.

@Nick07900

3 жыл бұрын

Pppftt

@poojabhandaari

3 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/kX9ly8Vwc5OspLA.html done that

@jamesgrey13

3 жыл бұрын

I'm not in the market for people who don't return shopping karts!

@RADI0_STAT1C

3 жыл бұрын

@@poojabhandaari Don't advertise. iz rood.

@kaeleykerns43

3 жыл бұрын

Who steals a shopping cart. And how do you fit that thing in a car anyways

You forgot the most important one: how they treat their "loved" ones. It's easy to be nice to a stranger for a moment. But how do they treat people behind closed doors? That's what I'm looking for.

@autumngalix4616

3 жыл бұрын

@@tokyo7012 Not necessarily, people who are extra nice to you just like you as a person. It's when they make excuses for hurting you or others that you can tell weather or not they are a good person.

@zobius9191

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissism, look it up, learn about it, you won't regret it.

@moubhattacharyay6891

3 жыл бұрын

Yaa...💯% Rit That, How They Act In Their Own Den😏

@gurleengill3961

3 жыл бұрын

So true, I know people who seemed so nice when I met them once or twice and then when I saw how they talked to their partners and family and yeah I think I developed trust issues.

@happygal1974

3 жыл бұрын

the closet one will be the one who really make us realise what kind of person we are

1. Body language 2. Social Media 3. The way they dress 4. Taste in music 5. How they treat strangers 6. How they make eye contact 7. The shopping cart theory

@pariot7953

3 жыл бұрын

I am finding this comment thanks💜💜💜

@felipeconejeros5874

3 жыл бұрын

@@pariot7953 im finding the same jej

@catnotmylastname1545

3 жыл бұрын

I love how this advises us to casually stalk people on socials for insight about them.

@HoneyBadgerVideos

3 жыл бұрын

But I don't like music at all :(

@IshaSharma11

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

"The way they dress" Bruh then I'm giving mixed signals everyday

@Purple_kiwi_

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao same

@ericaholloway1751

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@borderlinerecluse

3 жыл бұрын

Saaame

@leilam.6794

3 жыл бұрын

I dress like a princess then goth then tomboy then to slut goes in a circle

@laurab.8247

3 жыл бұрын

I was like that in high school. Keep 'em guessing! :D

You forgot one: how they treat animals. An animal abuser is a deal breaker for me

@nixand_brennt

3 жыл бұрын

I knew my boyfriend was Right when my cat chose him. How people relate to animals is so important.

@citizensnid3490

3 жыл бұрын

Nixand Breant yes indeed

@BlueStar4040

3 жыл бұрын

What if ur a bit shy bc animals are kinda unpredictable but still like to pet them? :3 (totally asking for a friend 😅)

@nixand_brennt

3 жыл бұрын

@@BlueStar4040 Then I can tell you're shy but probably nice. X3

@BlueStar4040

3 жыл бұрын

@@nixand_brennt the thing is im not shy to people at all But there's this one cat whi always hissed at me bc she ONLY trusted the owner... Thats why im kinda intimidated XD My friends cat LOVES me tho

Important to note that body language doesn’t express the same way in everyone. For one person a closed position may be defensive, for another it can be self-soothing/comforting, which has in itself nothing to do with being defensive.

A note about eye contact: People with ADHD, such as myself, MAY sometimes find it difficult to focus on what your saying if we are making eye contact rather than looking elsewhere or looking around. This is not true for everyone with ADHD, however it is true for some, so I just wanted to let you all know that, just so you know there are other causes for lack of eye contact.

@maritabotha

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. I also find that my Aspergers friend doesn’t make eye contact, yet is fully engaged in the conversation. I found this uncomfortable, but once my friend was diagnosed, it made perfect sense.

@dawn-from-the-lab

2 жыл бұрын

I have ADHD and I struggle with knowing how much eye contact is too much. It feels weird after a few words and I need to look away, but you’re right, it can definitely be easier to focus when not directly looking at the person talking to you. I do the same thing when finding veins on patients in the hospital. I rarely look at their arms and hands until I clean them and actually go to stick. My fingers feel the veins easier when I’m not watching them. Lmao

@eveesucubus653

Жыл бұрын

I came here to say that this works only in neuro typical people, with people ADHD and people in the autistic spectrum you might confuse the lack of eye contact with lack of interest. I’ve learned to mostly mask this, but I’d rather not look people in the eye, so actually I have less eye contact with people I’m more comfortable with and I mask it so well that people I just met no longer notice this

@Realgenelive100

Жыл бұрын

I lack eye sometimes, but still listen to what the person is saying

@gabrielamaturana5516

Жыл бұрын

I think this is very important to say. It may be difficult to make eye contact for people with ADHD and/or people on the autistic spectrum. Please take this into account, it is not a sign of not paying attention or lack of interest.

Their favorite soup can tell you a lot about a person, for example, it can tell you what their favorite soup is Edit: this is the first popular comment on this account and every reply is a notification oh god oh fricc

@dannyboygregory-mccormick9157

3 жыл бұрын

*GASP* why have I never thought of this???

@myflymkultra268

3 жыл бұрын

Psychologists: that'll be 200 bucks

@aztec9651

3 жыл бұрын

So inspirational

@AnApple-xg8lm

3 жыл бұрын

What if you don't like soup

@ulrikke5951

3 жыл бұрын

@@AnApple-xg8lm Death.

Hold up, y’all don’t return the shopping cart? There’s people who don’t do it?

@angelus_solus

3 жыл бұрын

I see it all the time. Lazy bastards who either leave them in the car park or on the pavement and just walk away as if it's a normal thing. It makes me want to plant my foot in their ass and make them do it, or take the trolley they left and slam it into their car so it doesn't happen to someone else.

@fredericmoresmau9194

3 жыл бұрын

i ve been kind to waiters until I noticed that in years it was worth nothing and none was nice to me back......

@angelus_solus

3 жыл бұрын

@My Subliminal Results If you're too dense to extract your answer from the wording of my reply, it would be a waste of my time to make any attempt at explaining it. Your "lmao" itself shows you really don't give a damn as to any real reason, you just wanted to ridicule me and find something to use as ammunition. Well...forget it. Laugh until your head falls off for all I care. Your ceasing to exist would be nothing but one less puss filled carbuncle on the ass of society.

@rubyxcube3081

3 жыл бұрын

The carts are inside my supermarket, and nowadays the spacing is too small to be able to walk through all of the people with more carts while theyre waiting, so my mother tells me to leave it in a place where someone else can take it while shopping and it wont be too too inconvinient for others to move around. Even though this isn't the best reason, at least i havent seen a cart left by someone else or my family in the middle of a spot where lots of people walk around

@lojjane

3 жыл бұрын

I dont do it because workers always help me load stuff into my car and they just take it back with them

I really like the shopping cart part. As a child, I always wanted to return the cart and now as a teen I still wanna return the cart. I find it really fun if I’m honest.

@user-we7go7ed3l

2 жыл бұрын

ever tried shopping cart curling? its so fun.

@bucket_moss

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-we7go7ed3l ngl no idea what that is

@madeofhope9265

2 жыл бұрын

I return the cart just so I can run with it and crash it into the other carts lol

As a senior citizen w a handicapped sticker for parking, I consider it a God send to find a cart nearby to help assist me to walk into the store.

“The way you treat strangers...” We’re all looking at you, Karens.

@Tauney

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@waitwhat6056

3 жыл бұрын

@SlovesL You made me laugh so hard I snorted 😔... _Thank You!_ 😁

@Shanaevaz

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 stop it lol

@oceanxwaves609

3 жыл бұрын

This is the funniest comment i have ever seen *likes

@poojabhandaari

3 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/kX9ly8Vwc5OspLA.html hahaha

I'm really loving the plant thingies on the characters' heads

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Want the plush?

@kiki-rx8ww

3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@NewGrowth23

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I do!

@user-xf7fy1gc3k

3 жыл бұрын

Its so cute right 😆

@claireshim7313

3 жыл бұрын

@@pastorjoelosteen8488 let me guess you're a scam bot

Just keep in mind, these are opinions. People do these various things for several reasons, i.e. the crossing arms, doesn't always mean defensive, it can also be boredom, or just self control whilst waiting, as the person doesn't succumb to their child like desires to have to be entertained or engaged at all times, it's a great way to keep from touching things in a public place, which is something most people should learn to practice.

Long story short: If you're an INFJ, mimic yourself. We're hard to get to know, but in a fun way (said as an INfJ). We're weirdos, not unfriendly.

@sahar1213

2 жыл бұрын

im an infj too, how can i mimic myself if in already myself?

@sheilalopez3983

2 жыл бұрын

Laura, I prefer to think of us as UNIQUE. Have a good one Laura.

@lauraburk4304

2 жыл бұрын

@@sahar1213 Honestly, I read this back and have no idea - I was in the hospital when I wrote this and on an opioid for pain. I'm thinking I was super out of it. lol.

@sahar1213

2 жыл бұрын

@@lauraburk4304 lmao

@sandrapatriciaoriguarios4589

2 жыл бұрын

@@lauraburk4304 😂😂

Watching this makes me feel like an alien studying for an exam on how to be human.

@tyrantkekeke

3 жыл бұрын

Didn't need to call me out like that

@ryanb1874

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha that's hilarious.

@streaming5332

2 жыл бұрын

What does it mean if they have a slick American accent

@lewis9535

2 жыл бұрын

YES!!!

@naomipasswaters577

2 жыл бұрын

Truth

The way you treat strangers is such a huge indicator of character. The world would be a better place if we could all be a bit kinder.

@add2console163

3 жыл бұрын

Yes Nicole!

@margaug5984

3 жыл бұрын

true

@karenamanda1958

3 жыл бұрын

Nicole Durango I agree 100%.

@adrianboight4222

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely 💗

@prodsuga9482

3 жыл бұрын

When your awkward and shy in public it's harder to even make eye contact with strangers lmao

Some people smile for no reason, even if they're talking about something terrible. It's bizarre. Look at people's eyes and ignore their mouths, to tell if they're really smiling.

@user-ie6ei5rh2e

2 жыл бұрын

Yea I have a habit of smiling when I'm talking about something sad or experiencing something sad/bad and people often get sketched out.

@sibilansnel

2 жыл бұрын

My dog died and when I found out I started smiling. Of course as soon as I was alone, I started crying.

@JohnSmith-td7hd

2 жыл бұрын

@@sibilansnel Why, though?

@sibilansnel

2 жыл бұрын

@@JohnSmith-td7hd im not sure myself but maybe it has to do with blocking pain or just not wanting to cry in front of parents. I felt more empty than sad though.

@ash-xc9hs

2 жыл бұрын

@@sibilansnel I have the same problem, I hate being an open person ESPECIALLY to parents, I just act surprised then when I’m alone, I let it out, I thought nobody was like me lol!

You can learn a lot about someone when they’re going through something tough, such experiences usually require you to drop whatever persons or phase you’re in and show your true self

"If someone is rude to a stranger, is a mean person" Me: a Karen.

@karenamanda1958

3 жыл бұрын

Not this Karen. 😇😘

@delia2161

3 жыл бұрын

my mom does that oof-

@AlkaKumari-il1fh

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@anidiotpassingthrough1632

3 жыл бұрын

@Starla Barr An Entitled person I think

@OUigot

3 жыл бұрын

@Starla Barr - "a woman perceived as entitled or demanding beyond the scope of what is appropriate or necessary. A common stereotype is that of a white woman who uses her privilege to demand her own way at the expense of others"

Me: “why am I always the weirdo who returns the cart?” Psych: cause you’re a decent person 🤗

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Of course. Here's a hug :)

@LaLunaMedium

3 жыл бұрын

You’re awesome 😁

@auroraperez4299

3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate you

@amethystwhite5803

3 жыл бұрын

You are “decent kind and courteous!” ☺️

@ovomarlen3806

3 жыл бұрын

Always thought I was the only one :)

I'm usually not really talkative and I tend not to interact with others if possible but when I'm really into something that someone is talking about I'm very talkative,confident and I go straight to the point. A lot of people say that I'm loyal and stuff but I'm really just a human being.

With prosopagnosia it's also typical to be more attentive when not making eye-contact. When other people think that it is because of a lack of interest, life can get more difficult. It's a quite recently discovered phenomena which about 2.5% have but most still don't know it. (Prosopagnosia = Face blindness / the inability to recognize someone (only) by their face)

Actually crossed arms is common misconception to be defence, when it's self-soothing (self hug). It doesn't have to be defensive really.

@randomsquircle8895

3 жыл бұрын

exactly it makes me feel safe and comfortable

@zuko5651

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah its a comfort to me

@alicevondor7864

3 жыл бұрын

Depends what the facial expression is

@midnightdoodles

3 жыл бұрын

For me it can send REALLY mixed signals. I’ve had friends who’ve used it to comfort themselves but my bully uses it as a way to say that they don’t care about what I feel and as way to try to compel superiority.

@missstorme2771

3 жыл бұрын

SO TRUE!!!

Anyone else think Amanda's voice is so soothing? 🧘🏾‍♀️

@melc7516

3 жыл бұрын

Hadn't thought about it!

@salvadorcastro4773

3 жыл бұрын

Such a dreamy voice

@randomredditor6265

3 жыл бұрын

yes

@xyzzzabcc5234

3 жыл бұрын

Yess that is why i mostly listen to these videos in night at sleep time..

@k10may82

3 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! She also did a guided meditation video for psych2go as well

I LOVE the waiter rule!! You really can tell a lot about a person by how they treat waiters, house keepers, massage therapists!! :) ..and it’s soooo hard for me to keep eye contact too long!! I lose my train of thought if I’m talking! And I LOVE the shopping cart test!! Spot on!! LOVE you guys and this beautiful channel!!!! You are planting seeds of kindness!!!

@m.kastro591

2 жыл бұрын

This is true , went on a job interview and he kept harassing the waiter this and that. Too needy IMO

@melodythemassagetherapist6957

2 жыл бұрын

@@m.kastro591 soooo sad!!! Can’t we just all go back to kindergarten and be kind?? Hey happy new year!🎊

@Jackgritty28

2 жыл бұрын

If body language counts,it shows a persons intentions,an insight into the human psyche,what you wear what you say how you act,shows what you are influenced by,why people are shy,it's recognisable,if their kind or not,the first impression could effect the relationship💥💲❌

@melodythemassagetherapist6957

2 жыл бұрын

Hi@@Jackgritty28!! Beautifully said!!

@femke1418

Жыл бұрын

Do you ever see people not put back their shopping cart? I have never come across someone who did not put their cart back in my entire life.

"There is nothing to gain from returning a shopping cart" . Sure there is : 1 euro.

@user-we7go7ed3l

2 жыл бұрын

mood

Narrow eyes may also suggest that the sun is in their eyes and a different conversation spot is preferable.

@tokyo7012

3 жыл бұрын

but what if they're indoors

@user-qf3df6jz7m

3 жыл бұрын

@@tokyo7012 the light is very bright

@tokyo7012

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-qf3df6jz7m yeah for sure it is

@thelivingkazoo5331

3 жыл бұрын

@@tokyo7012 they lost their glasses, have (a) weak eye lid(s), hate you, hate someone else, has a habit of narrowing eyes etc. Lol

@tokyo7012

3 жыл бұрын

@@thelivingkazoo5331 ... why wouldn't they buy new glasses, platypus

This was helpful, beacuse it's hard for me to interact with people

@shutupmalfoy2544

3 жыл бұрын

Same here bro

@sonamc7723

3 жыл бұрын

right?

@kermitthuglife4190

3 жыл бұрын

That is Kinda sad

@the1nf3r10rone

3 жыл бұрын

Shut up malfoy me tooo ;-;

@lamyaelamyae9726

3 жыл бұрын

Saaame💔

This is accurate to a point. Lots of potential for totally misreading someone if you don't leave a lot of room for variables.😉

One of your criteria has been one of mine for a long time. How someone treats wait staff or anyone in a service sector position. It also shows thier empathy factor in subtle and not so subtle ways.

Lack of eye contact in my case means: autism. Please don't think I'm distracted >.< Looking people in the eyes is just the bane of my existence.

@siekste

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhahahaha saaaame adhd here

@andrewjames1366

3 жыл бұрын

I am afraid that this video was created by neurotypical person who has good intentions but doesn’t have a clue about people who don’t fit the standard pattern.

@juliaswag1757

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@ice-consumer

3 жыл бұрын

and I'm not blinking/ keeping my eyes narrow because I'm nervous or suspicious, the air is just dry and keeping my eyes closed lets me focus more on the person speaking to me

@lolsz1

3 жыл бұрын

happens to all of us

Great Quote: "A person who is nice to you but rude to the waiter is not a nice person" -- Dave Barry, Author. 😀👍👍👍👍

@vindi167

Жыл бұрын

Woah emojis

@vindi167

Жыл бұрын

A lot

@ProjectAlienIsCoolest

Жыл бұрын

My friend well- ex-friend was like that

my head always goes down when I'm either really thinking about something or I'm just remembering those embarassing things I did in the past

#5 is so completely true! I've always utilized this to see how people really are. If they're rude to servers in any way shape, form, or fashion then I'll never go out with them again because I used to be a server. I know exactly how hard that industry is! So when I see a server I see myself and professional colleagues. I cannot stand to go out with ungrateful entitled rude people! THAT is the quickest way to make me stop hanging out with you and just dealing with you in general. My bad. I didn't mean to make a hard left turn and start a rant. I'm deeply passionate about #5. That's all. Take care. (Smile)

"I'm not giving you a dirty look, I just think really hard." My facial expressions won't allow me to hide anything. I give dirty looks without even realizing it.

@chaseykaluha3040

3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@jysethia

3 жыл бұрын

Same, I gave a resting bitchface

@harfangdesneiges6680

3 жыл бұрын

No! I just really need to pee/shit really bad so can we end this conversation!

@poojabhandaari

3 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/kX9ly8Vwc5OspLA.html

@nez01

3 жыл бұрын

Tauney omggg factssss!!!! Like I say so much with just my face and I don’t even realize

“The picture they post or share can tell you a lot about what they like” I guess I don’t like anything then

@priscillajimenez27

3 жыл бұрын

Or if they post their whole life means they have no life.

@scarletshield009

3 жыл бұрын

What if its all a lie. What if its not the whole story.

@fishsticks5462

3 жыл бұрын

Some like to keep their stuff private and don't bother posting stuff bc there's no need

@arturovega6522

3 жыл бұрын

Social Media is not really a good indicator. Most of what people post in social media is not real life.

@smolmoru

3 жыл бұрын

I'm not willing to share that much because it's non of strangers business and especially non of long time stalker ex's business. I have my close frens to share everything with

I love and respect this channel so much! has lot to learn about life. this channel has educated me so much. thank you so much, psych2go!

Each vibe of each song in you playlist all together describe who you are or who you want to be personality wise Same for your art and doodles

"the way they dress" im too broke to wear what i really want 👁👄👁

@zionnatangi7463

3 жыл бұрын

Relate (T ^ T)

@gretch23yearsago74

3 жыл бұрын

Lol im just too fat XD

@Janlynn04

3 жыл бұрын

Almost all of my clothes are from the thrift store. You never know what you find. I almost always find something in great or new quality, sometimes with tags still attached, for a mere fraction of the original price! This way I can also explore the styles I may like without the pressure of purchasing something so expensive. Keep an open-mind! Have a wonderful week, hon!

@lieselbrehmer

3 жыл бұрын

Fat mood. That or your environment

@user-my8qj

3 жыл бұрын

Sameee. I really like funky sporty wear style, but all I wear is jeans and random basic shirts

"But those who often break eye contact are nervous, uncomfortable, or distracted" *im autistic* update: I got diagnosed with adhd as well

@lavenderoarfish68

3 жыл бұрын

Yeeeeeep, I think some bad eye contact comes from certain disorders. -I’m a bad eye contact ad(h)d person

@melmanalaysay4654

3 жыл бұрын

me looks away cuz im distracted or I'm not interested

@krissiastrash5781

3 жыл бұрын

I was looking for this comment I SWEAR.

@Dancestar1981

3 жыл бұрын

Autistic individuals are different

@grayolsen8769

3 жыл бұрын

I have PTSD and also can’t do any of those things. Guess I am not worthy of love 😅

Body language and irrational behaviors can also be signals of deeper issues, of pain ect. This video is great for signals of possibility but more important, I believe is an overall pattern. The irony is not lost on me of impression though, I took care of people in pain for thirty years and now have chronic back pain. I have had people literally confront me with being "restless" in my seat when I am actually shifting because of discomfort. Several days of chronic pain can also seriously affect mood. I have been on both sides of this one now. But overall if people I took care of had a good disposition their sharpness was never horrible and regret usually followed. I have definitely found this one to be true for me.

The only way I’m social on media these days is by commenting stuff on KZread and for now I really like that

summary: 1. Their body language 0:54 2. Their social media accounts 1:42 3. The way they dress 2:17 4. Their taste in music 2:56 5. How they treat strangers 3:35 6. How they make eye contact 4:19 7. The shopping cart theory 4:55 Recommend watching to learn more 🖤

@fozziebear5351

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the handy recap.

@hopesprite3526

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

@kenny-nk5db

3 жыл бұрын

hope & sprite no problem 🖤

@rishiverma8682

3 жыл бұрын

What about the hip hop person?

@hopesprite3526

3 жыл бұрын

@@rishiverma8682 i thought i was the only one thinking about this😶

"People are complicated"---that's why so many of us keep our interactions limited to cats and dogs.

@danielesteve8359

3 жыл бұрын

Complicated people are a hobby for me, evil people not at all.

@MrJoon360

3 жыл бұрын

Daniel Esteve That’s an interesting hobby! Can you explain what you mean? 🤔

@ahhwe-any7434

3 жыл бұрын

It means to study your pets brains bc psychology. Who else is less annoying to keep around to do that to? Duh

@aonaohafa

3 жыл бұрын

Animals are complicated too.

@kiki-rx8ww

3 жыл бұрын

True, my dogs are easy to understand.

Your voice is soo chill it calms me down

Some of this is Generalized and more subjective than anything

I’m terribly shy most of the time. I have heard from people that I come across as stand off-ish or antisocial when in reality I just don’t know what to say.

@kiki-rx8ww

3 жыл бұрын

I feel that way too.

@Wolfpelt24

3 жыл бұрын

People also sometimes think you're being arrogant when you're really just shy

@angelus_solus

3 жыл бұрын

Please don't use the word "antisocial" in this context any more. "Antisocial" is what sociopaths, psychopaths and punk rock anarchists suffer from; the condition where a person consistently shows no regard for right and wrong and ignores the rights and feelings of others. Introverts are "asocial"; people who have a lack of motivation to engage in social interactions and activities, or have a strong preference for solitary activities.

@angelus_solus

3 жыл бұрын

In short, learn what words really mean before you use them.

@Wolfpelt24

3 жыл бұрын

@@angelus_solus i think 'antisocial' is being used correctly here. They aren't describing the way they feel about social interactions, but the way they come across to other people. When you're shy, it can come across as being cold/disregarding other people's feelings and rights. At least, that's how i read it

3:36 The most important people you should be nice to are the waiters, servers, anyone who's less than you in their work or financially. They needs respect more than anything. Always smile to them, say thank you, help them with something. This little things aren't little and have such a great impact on them. Be a nice person and always be humble. Make a good thing in someone's day, have a good impact y'all❤️

@chaseykaluha3040

3 жыл бұрын

Amen to that. They have to put up with a lot and rely on tips.

@halliewp3278

3 жыл бұрын

Well, that isn't something 100% real. At least in my case. My dad is a god man with waiters and is very friendly with them, but he was a shit with my mom. Manipulator, lier, etc. Soo, yeah, be careful

@user-my8qj

3 жыл бұрын

Nevaeh osi osi Definitely not everyone treats them nicely are necessarily nice people (my dad is like that too tho!), I was just saying as a reminder to be nice to them bc it really matters.

@halliewp3278

3 жыл бұрын

​@@user-my8qj Yeah, i really understand ur point. I only said that for any person who take it literally. Btw, i think that it matters too

@kayniee

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah. They can mess with your food. But for real I agree lol. That's one of the worst things you can do to make a first impression

How do you make all these illustrations and animations? I am in complete awe

4:55 well, here in germany you actually get some money back that you earlier had to put in the cart to use it, so that doesnt apply. But i generally love the every-day exaples you give, very nice

Reading body language, nonverbal ques and eye contact goes right out the window when you're on the spectrum.

@dannyboygregory-mccormick9157

3 жыл бұрын

This right here! I'm on the spectrum and I cannot do eye contact to save my life.

@shadowsightliker

3 жыл бұрын

I'm on the spectrum, and I can more sense from their demeanor than body language.

@LoveFitsAll

3 жыл бұрын

thank you for that piece.

@swatisaini6447

3 жыл бұрын

@@shadowsightliker spectrum means??

@thatonedoge6394

3 жыл бұрын

@@swatisaini6447 Autistic.

Video: their social media Me: well I never post so does that mean I’m boring?

@Zoe-ft7in

3 жыл бұрын

I would say it makes you more interesting since people really need to discover everything about you by themselves instead of looking at your social media :). I find the people who rarely post the most interesting ones at least

@liluhaas

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe it depends on if you’re fun to hang out wit

@taurment5849

3 жыл бұрын

I disagree, it doesn’t make you interesting nor does it make you boring, it just means that you don’t necessarily give as much of a fuck about that social media.

@sleverlight

3 жыл бұрын

I dont even check my social media

@djkaibaxter419

3 жыл бұрын

I barely ever use social media.

This is very informative. Thank you for taking the time and effort of uploading this video!

so far, the one i connect with most is definitely music. I can be described as one of two things, depending on the subject of the description. "Smart, but unwise", and "Loud, but articulate". My favorite genres are classical, metal, and rap. lmao

"the shopping cart theory" *I'm sorry, is this some sort of American joke I'm to European to understand*

@ventoefoglie

3 жыл бұрын

Ahahahaha, I was thinking the SAME! 😂😂

@julem.2439

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes, true

@glowormrdr6183

3 жыл бұрын

That's funny. It's not a joke, just a little thing easy to notice because it's out in public. There are similar things like picking up litter, waiting your turn in line or conversations, or lately, Wearing A Face Mask.

@astrotsiga

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, here we have put a coin into the cart if we want to take one with us for shopping, so we obviously take the cart back in the end.

@Lilyium

3 жыл бұрын

Aldi be like: want your coin back? go and return the trolley then

Psyctogo: things that can tell you about a per- Me: the different head flowers Psyctogo: no that's not- Me: *the. Different. Head. Flowers*

@mooniight5871

3 жыл бұрын

Lol😂😂😂😂

@Yi-kl3xw

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@user-nb2bm6jl3z

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@angelus_solus

3 жыл бұрын

Get off of the drugs. Either that or get back on the ones you're supposed to be taking.

@fredericmoresmau9194

3 жыл бұрын

you know whats funny: half the public is bored during the whole concert, and when they play fantasy impromptu for an encore they areenlightened :) except the elite listeners who are bored because its bla....

i really love this channel! thank you so much, i discovered your videos a lot and they were really helps me so much. keep your great work ❤️

I really like the shopping cart theory. Straightforward and easy to apply.

@Cyberwolf9999

10 ай бұрын

Not so straight forward in our country, we have car guards, which you normally tip and they will take the trolley back, so this depends highly on the country and the customs they have. Animal abuse on the other hand will be a no no in any country. Though declawing cats is also a different thing in the UK and Usa. To me it is wrong

@mirrov246

20 күн бұрын

In my country we don't have car guards as the person above said, but I have never once seen shopping carts randomly scattered around supermarket exits / around their station. It's just a public order thing everyone does

5:26 “There’s nothing to gain from returning your shopping cart.” *well... if you’re in Europe you’d also be losing some money*

@alicemay3977

3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Thank you😂 We need some other example instead.

@share_accidental

3 жыл бұрын

same in singapore. you have to use either the old $1 or the new $0.50 coin to unlock a shopping cart. well, we call it a trolley. i heard there are people who use sharp objects to forcefully push the coin out of the trolley. not only do they get their money back, they also don’t return the trolleys. therefore, it’s common to see them in housing estates.

@amagdonal9365

3 жыл бұрын

@@share_accidental i have once see a cart on the side walk when walking to school

@rhondaflesher8313

3 жыл бұрын

@@amagdonal9365 near where I live there is an apartment complex a short walk from a major grocery store and on the other side of the apartment complex is a creek that runs through town. And you can probably guess where this is all leading to - for some reason there are a few shopping carts down in the creek near the apartments. I wonder how they got there....

@rhondaflesher8313

3 жыл бұрын

Here Aldi's has their carts set up similar (for a quarter). I have noted that occasionally some people are lazy enough that a quarter means nothing to them and they still will leave the carts out in the parking lot. Which is fine for me - I just gather up their abandoned cart and make an extra quarter.

“The music they listen to” Me as a person who listens to hard rock, metal and goth music 👁👄👁

@dashippo4372

3 жыл бұрын

METALLICA!!! 🤘🏻😂

@Tauney

3 жыл бұрын

And your user name is Red Forman. You sir, are a contradiction. I like it. 😄

@bellaw4882

3 жыл бұрын

damn you seem rad

@Diane_666

3 жыл бұрын

Me, who listens to _everything_ from the hard rock to some light pop music: 🗿

@nixand_brennt

3 жыл бұрын

Yeee good stuff. What if my favorite artists are Rammstein and Lady Gaga??

YESSS SHOPPING CART TEST!!!!!! It bugs me SO much when people don’t put it back, and I’ve never even worked at a grocery store. It’s just such a simple thing to do and is common courtesy. I yelled at a dude one time and his excuse was he’s gotta watch his kid. I replied, “great, now your kid just gets to watch you be lazy, inconsiderate, and unaccountable. Didn’t your mother teach you to PUT BACK what you’ve used after you’re done with it, it’s common decency and respect.” He said ‘F U’ and drove off. Surprisingly he came back 5 min later and said, “ I thought about tilt for a minute, and you were right.” (Felt good to be right😏) but I was more impressed he came back just to put the cart back 👍🏻

@sahar1213

2 жыл бұрын

that was a good intention but makes you look like a karen

Thanks for always making interesting and informative videos, myself and many others appreciate and love your content!

Some people know those things gave them the image of a “good person” so they do it even though deep down are awful. It's so hard to really trust people

@0MissNemo0

3 жыл бұрын

That's because they are cold and calculating. Take them out for a drink or allow them to get confortable and see how their true personalities surface. Nobody can keep up the charade for long.

@XxBlindxDimexX

3 жыл бұрын

That's y I don't trust ppl who say "I'm a nice person" or when you get to know a bartender and learn they are nice to customers just to get a better tip even tho they are annoyed with them

@past3ltrash

3 жыл бұрын

the bartender one is different. Its their job to be nice to you even if you annoy them.If they express they find you annoying they get fired. They are just doing their work.

@mamooni

3 жыл бұрын

TalkWithAngelX3 you are absolutely right! you have to trust bartenders no matter what. They have the alcohol 😏😂

@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892

3 жыл бұрын

@@0MissNemo0 And is THAT why so many people want us to believe they can hold a bottle, glass, can in thier hands, and/or set it on a table?? Weird af. Anyway, just spend time with people, a first impression is always just that! Eventually, you will get into some kind of setting that just isn't all comfortable for anyone involved (nope don't do ther hairdresser's expedition to the Everest ;)) - when people are more concerned then about how to cooperate, and/or find agreement, rather than believing they are the most important individual, and/or only keeper of "the truth" on this planet, that is certainly a start to figure out how they actually tick.

Them: “Their taste in music” Me: Well then I’m all over the place aren’t I?!

@kareneveler9658

3 жыл бұрын

Control freak

@smartcookieanimates

3 жыл бұрын

@@kareneveler9658 _Thanks._

@smartcookieanimates

3 жыл бұрын

@@akaunderdog4223 *Thank you!*

@tokyo7012

3 жыл бұрын

then ur all of them xd

@sameerakhan7455

3 жыл бұрын

Same here😂😭 But another comment had a reply that said that we're open emotionally and to new experiences and I kinda agree with it I guess 😅

Please don’t stop making videos I LOVE THIS CHANNEL SO MUCH by the way new subscriber

A body language expert once said that crossed arms don't always indicate defensiveness, but can be a self-soothing technique. If someone feels uncomfortable, they may cross their arms to give themselves a sense of security. So, it's not always a bad thing.

According to the shopping cart theory literally everyone in my neighborhood is all nice, empathetic, kind people but I highly doubt that lmao

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

@bonnienedza55

3 жыл бұрын

It just shows character - a person who will do the right thing even when not being watched. Shows nothing about how nice, kind or considerate they are, IMO

@Diane_666

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe it's just because they're used to doing it? Like, if everyone around you is doing something, you're very likely to do that too. So if everybody in your neighborhood always returns the shopping cart it can turn into an unspoken rule that everyone follows without thinking about it.

I think the most important thing is how kind people are and how open they are to help others. I know some people who are extremely helpful and they are awesome!

@iwilldefeateverysinglejust3826

3 жыл бұрын

Brains Applied it really depends dude....it really depends.....

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

What are some ways to tell if someone is truly kind? Leave your thoughts ;)

4:30 I’m a very anxious person who constantly can’t make eye contact because of shyness or distraction (because of my ADHD) but when I find someone attractive I will either have trouble looking them in the eye or make excessive eye contact, sometimes with an emotionless expression, so it comes off as creepy

Do you guys ever want to know the person you are thinking of is the type of person that they are? Hope this video helps you.

@sybellegoff5356

3 жыл бұрын

This helped me

@rosa5559

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@kenny-nk5db

3 жыл бұрын

ily and your videos ❤️❤️ they help so much

@MalikAli-sn2xr

3 жыл бұрын

Yaaay

@platiipusgaming6475

3 жыл бұрын

100th Like on this comment :) probably

"Listening to someone personal playlist can give you a glimpse into their inner world" Me who listen to different genres:🤔

@tessielee21id

3 жыл бұрын

It's about the majority of your playlist. You can listen to many types of music, but there is always something that you draw you in more than the others.

@eeaotly

3 жыл бұрын

Me, who listens to rain sounds and bird chippings... :-)))) Go, analyse that!

@eddyirategekanya336

3 жыл бұрын

@@eeaotly easy

@stephenrichie4646

3 жыл бұрын

Dunno. I VE got everything from Beethoven to Buck Owens, Enya to B.B.King. Missing: plastic contemorary country, rap, hard metal. Oh, well, that says something, I guess.

@bananapy7278

3 жыл бұрын

*identity crisis intensifies*

Love the shopping cart theory! I almost always return it unless I'm tapped out emotionally and focused on what's wrong in my life.... or I have my daughter already buckled in, out of necessity she had to be restrained lol, I will leave it for the lot attendant at that point. All great tips for sure!

@maryl.g.3959

2 жыл бұрын

Don't feel guilty you already paid for the service & the store has a person specific for this job. This should not even be included in the list.

@pamelaminor696

5 ай бұрын

The shopping cart theory has not worked for me until recently. I don't own a car & if my bike was parked in a rack, I'd have to unload my stuff unto my bike & leave it to return the cart. Seemed like a good way to have my stuff stolen. Now very few stores offer bike racks so I park my bike at the shopping cart stall. Problem solved!

Thank you for making things clearer.

I just wanted to say for the eye contact too sometimes people who fall under the ASD spectrum also have trouble making eye contact but that does not mean they are being rude.

shopping carts in Germany need a coin to unlock, so everybody returns them

@kahaboebs

3 жыл бұрын

where i live too! (toronto, most places)

@ebusive

3 жыл бұрын

American here, Shopping carts strewn about a parking lot are as American as baseball and obesity. They're building an Aldi near where I live and I seriously doubt that a coin will be enough to deter this much ingrained laziness and apathy.

@USNBLUE

3 жыл бұрын

ebusive it works were I live. And these obese welfare queens shop there.

@andreis3416

3 жыл бұрын

Same in Spain and Romania, and probably most developed countries

@williamveronika9124

3 жыл бұрын

Same in many countries in Europe (Poland for me). Also if you don't return it and just leave it people make stinky eyes at you and prolly plan your murder so you can finally go to hell where ypu belong. Ah. Such a lovely place

You guys are so cool! I love watching your videos! Keep up the good work!

I love these videos I’ve been watching for about a good two or three years possibly in body language is very important to me because most of the things people are saying aren’t coming out of their mouth

I hope nobody takes this too seriously and think they can read other with these tips. Some may be fair assumptions, but we are not as simple beings as this implys.

Always listen to your gut! The subconscious is always picking up on signals that we should not ignore :-)

@add2console163

3 жыл бұрын

Agree

@NenaLavonne

3 жыл бұрын

add2console ♥️

@BluDrop5

3 жыл бұрын

So.many.facts.

@msharic85

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I won't go against it again.

@BioTheHuman

3 жыл бұрын

Ehm,not really. Even if sometimes it's the better to follow the guts, this doesn't mean that they're always right :)

The shopping cart theory is a metaphor for life and extends to basic moves such as opening a door for someone or stopping to see if someones okay.

@matilda1505

2 жыл бұрын

Good observation. Agree.

Yassss ty and I live your voice it’s so calming

6. How they make eye contact *Neurodivergents have left the chat*

@xXmillionairesFan13Xx

3 жыл бұрын

As i Neurodivergent human bean i can say that this is accurate

@katphish30

3 жыл бұрын

THIS

"The music they listen to," What about me who enjoys a wide variety of musical genres (I like to listen to video game music and Musicals)?

@brianb8060

3 жыл бұрын

I've got a few game soundtracks. Red Dead Redemption 1 and 2. and I recently bought Horizon Zero Dawn and The Witcher 3.

@Alex-gn9cx

3 жыл бұрын

Could mean that you're high in openness and emotionally available for new experiences, which is a great strength to have 🤗

@eatsomelunch

3 жыл бұрын

I think there's different rules for unicorns

@bigscarysteve

3 жыл бұрын

What about classical music? Dr. Edward Dutton (the Jolly Heretic) has a video on why intelligent people like classical music.

@Alex-gn9cx

3 жыл бұрын

@@bigscarysteve i think classical music is the most complexe and sophisticated type of music. I still listen to many different genres, though! For me, classical fits a particular setting, like studying or reading :)

I want to improve myself. My mom had a high IQ (she died from cancer) and was mean to people. She always thought other ppl were idiots. That's not true. Just because someone doesn't know what you know doesn't mean they're an idiot. I catch myself thinking like her sometimes and I don't like it.

I recently learned by myself, that trying to read a person is not such a good thing and it leads sometimes to misunderstanding. Maybe I read wrong, :-) but sometimes it is hardships, just to look and make an assumption, because maybe he is in that mood, but because of an different subject. As they said in the beginning, we humans are complex. So for myself I learned, I need to ask more question to people, to really understand them! And also I learned, that I need to learn myself better! With love David from Munich/ Germany

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2 жыл бұрын

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Really love your guys vids they really helped me

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Glad we were able to help!

Those of you humans that haven’t returned your shopping carts I’m very disappointed in you

@amilkshake3843

3 жыл бұрын

I once came across somewhere and in the grass was a shopping cart, I instantly started thinking about Fortnite.

@debbiec6253

3 жыл бұрын

You know those convenient shopping basket with a handle and wheels? I've seen people going on transit with them... (hardcore judging those people)

@voidofalltrades

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry...? Usually we'd put it at the side

@RosheenQuynh

3 жыл бұрын

@@voidofalltrades Why not just put them in the return where they belong? If you don't put them in parking spaces, great! 😁 👏 That's nice of you! Now people don't have to get out of their car to move it. But you're making the caddie's job harder by not returning them where they belong. They don't belong on the side. The caddie is supposed to collect the carts from the returns and use their machine thingy (I dunno what it's called but it creates a cool Slither-like chain of carts!) to put them back inside the store. Think about how annoyed they would be to have to run a marathon across creation to find lost carts. Especially if it was raining! I don't know if they ever do this in the dark but that has to be frustrating, too.

@RosheenQuynh

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I silently judge them. I get that people have pain or something like ADD, but as a person who struggles with both, I have not once neglected to put carts back in the return. If it's possible for someone like me who has to sit down every few steps while in the store due to pain to put carts away, it's possible for everyone else. 😊

Many people have commented as to how someone treats family is a tell tale sigm too.My parents bicker and nit pick at what others would consider normal like wanting to meet a friend for lunch, coming home after sunset, wanting to go out after sunset, choice of clothes isnt religion appropriate etc.This makes me want to avoid conflict and agree with what they say.However,in other settings am not meek.So I guess the context varies too.

Definitely the shopping cart theory. I'm guilty at times but I know when I see others take the time & effort, they're decent people in my eyes

I just wanna thank the Psych2Go team for making this channel! I am a 12 year old who wants to learn more about psychology and this channel really helps me with that! Not only that, but you are also helping other people with their issues in general! Thank you. ☺️

@ash-xc9hs

2 жыл бұрын

Same!! I am 12 too, I also wanna learn more about psychology since it’s something I look forward to the most! glad that somebody is like me!!

@sohakhalid6054

2 жыл бұрын

Me too!

@maddiemae73

2 жыл бұрын

Same!!! But I’m 14 lol

@rowan2086

2 жыл бұрын

same, im 14 and this channel is super helpful

@milo2079

Жыл бұрын

update: i am 14 now and wow, i used to be way more polite lmao

"There is nothing to gain from returning your shopping cart" me, a German: Uhm, yes there is, I want my 1€ back

@user-fh3gl2zc5i

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaoo relatable

@prapanthebachelorette6803

3 жыл бұрын

Genau so lol

@Laura-qd3cz

3 жыл бұрын

Echt so haha

@crestfallensunbro6001

3 жыл бұрын

i was looking for this XD

@HoneyBadgerVideos

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr, but even if not I would still return it. People that don't return carts are not to be trusted.

Thanks for the informative and lovely video, I love it

I love your videos because they always give me the deep satisfaction no other videos could do :)

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I just noticed that I drooped my "friends" that would talk back to other teachers, waiters or other workers, they would always be nice to me but not other people.

All this taught me is that I'm a happy and sad, closed-off person. And I'm very shy Aaaannddd I'm very kind. The perfect ingredients for a doormat.

@radilime

3 жыл бұрын

f

@hahano61

3 жыл бұрын

._.

@randomguyontheinternet8253

3 жыл бұрын

You Wanne be my doormate ? xD

Whomever is doing these videos, you have an amazing voice for up-close, personal speech. It is for this reason I think you should do some ASMR content to explore how self-help and such content changes people's perceptions and thoughts on the material you're covering, very closely.

When I meet someone new, I usually explain that when I don’t make eye contact, it doesn’t mean I’m not listening. Looking at something else actually helps me to focus on what they’re saying. If I’m making eye contact I’m probably fidgeting. I mean I have adhd soooooo I guess that means I probably am different to some of the things you say. But that’s ok 👌🏻. Love your vids, they’re so helpful and interesting. 🙂

It's been 10 minutes and someone's already done a summary, BLESS YOU

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed! Grateful for those! :)