What's your favorite Netflix series? Comment below!

@sceptre80

4 жыл бұрын

The OA but it's discontinued. Thanks for asking. What's yours?

@josh7763

4 жыл бұрын

BoJack

@rainbowyoutuder

4 жыл бұрын

family guy B)

@notinuse926

4 жыл бұрын

not netflix but i love the handmaid's tale

@grizzletstudio6625

4 жыл бұрын

Stranger Things.

Can’t be with the wrong person if you’re not even with a person in the first place

@MidnightSky1821

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@Vichov3

4 жыл бұрын

200 IQ

@miss.conduct8083

4 жыл бұрын

Truth💣💯

@po-prostapoziomica5559

4 жыл бұрын

Sad and True

@mukta3185

4 жыл бұрын

Andy-Matter IQ 3000

*When you* - Feel drained on energy, instead of being invigorated - Don't sense any passion, instead more like a friendship - Ask yourself "Are we compatible?"

@cece1758

4 жыл бұрын

Woah, how did you read my mind?

@kittycatkiss530

4 жыл бұрын

woah you just exposed at lot. Thank you

@SonyaKhanOfficial

4 жыл бұрын

Really needed to see this, thank you once again🙏🏼

@gregflor3523

4 жыл бұрын

How do u tell him/her w/o any heavy feeling

@elizserg4116

4 жыл бұрын

My ex told me he felt like we were just friends. Most painful thing ever. Hurt so much I ran away when he said it and never spoke again.

when you feel chronically misunderstood. I'd rather be alone than feel lonely in a relationship because the other person just does not understand you

@Neko_Shufflin

7 ай бұрын

Stuck in a relationship like this currently

@kubra6036

7 ай бұрын

Omg samee

sign you're with the wrong person : you're doubting it by watching this vid.

@shidoshi088

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahahah yup

@mayraaliciaglz1046

4 жыл бұрын

):

@bryannaneale

4 жыл бұрын

Lightsai :/

@bleepgloop

4 жыл бұрын

Don't call me out like this 🤣😭

@roach_grrl

4 жыл бұрын

Or your like me and have clinical OCD

1- You’re constantly unhappy 2- You’re experiencing high levels of stress 3- You’re expectations aren’t being met 4- You knew there were problems at the very beginning 5- Your gut tells you something is off, but you can’t seem to pinpoint it 6- Your partner doesn’t seem very conscientious 7- You're too similar

@ashleypearce6090

3 жыл бұрын

6 out of 7

@daniellem578

3 жыл бұрын

Yep all boxes checked.

@jvolc

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@TorahObservantUnitarian

3 жыл бұрын

Thx

@TorahObservantUnitarian

3 жыл бұрын

6 out of 7

Sounds like I shouldn't be with myself anymore. Well...

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like a plan. ;)

@danger.noodel9163

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@grrb5929

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go This sounds darker than you think

@Ben-lm4dq

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go don't know if you got that the right way 🤨

@joonapuurunen5602

4 жыл бұрын

Same.

me: _in a happy and healthy relationship with my boyfriend_ my anxiety: *p r e s s*

@cashapp9973

3 жыл бұрын

Inbox Mr. Andrew now on +14782730478(WhatsApp ) or text him on (631) 912-4899 to caught you cheating partner, he is good and legit

@cherraybomb4833

3 жыл бұрын

Me too ahahaha

@lana-bu8jt

2 жыл бұрын

me but with my gf

@erichmaeracela5173

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

I relate to the first three ones, but the problem is me creating problems and scenarios in my head and being too idealistic. I wish it could stop.

@marthapadillam92

4 жыл бұрын

Same, I think I don't deserve love.

@charching1199

4 жыл бұрын

@mélo same.😔

@charching1199

4 жыл бұрын

@@marthapadillam92 same.😔

@tamarakandic1579

4 жыл бұрын

oh me too 😔

@daisonend

4 жыл бұрын

Same!

"Did you enjoy this video?" Why of course, I enjoy suffering.

@raphaellavelasquez8144

4 жыл бұрын

Who doesn't?!

@nami_archives

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@tiktokersbeauty3044

3 жыл бұрын

Those signs is me😔

@heartandmindmatters

2 ай бұрын

😅

@Bumps-rm6uq

Ай бұрын

😆😆

8. You can’t see yourself marrying them or wanting to marry them. This becomes a huge one when you can understand the spiritual logic of marriage.

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

That's a big sign. Did you want to elaborate on the spiritual part?

@TJ-oo5mx

4 жыл бұрын

@Psych2Go The spiritual aspect is deep... While much of our modern society tells us everything is only by chance, I, being Christian, disagree. I believe there is an attachment in people that goes beyond what's physical and even what's psychological....ig a good word for it is *soulmates*

@vittorja

4 жыл бұрын

These days I'm taking my time to decide whether or not I should give up on my relationship. I have issues with some of the points mentioned (and personal issues as well) , but not with this one, and it's really messing me up. Even if I'm only 21, I can clearly see him as the father of my children. I honestly have no idea what the next step should be.

@FlufflyKitty64

4 жыл бұрын

Vittoria V. When you marry someone, It can’t just be about if he’s father material, you need to also think about weather or not you’d be genuinely happy spending the rest of your life with him. Being married to someone that doesn’t make you happy is one of the worst things you can do to yourself (and your future kids if it comes to that.) think about the amount of issues you have with him and question if it’s something you can live with for the rest of your life. If the idea makes you cringe or give you any kind of a bad feeling, it’s a sign that they’re not the one and that it might be time to cut them off before it’s too late.

@FlufflyKitty64

4 жыл бұрын

Psych2Go to put it simply, a happy marriage only works when a couple have a genuine friendship with each other. If you want a long lasting relationship then you can’t just date someone just to say that you’re dating, you need to make sure if the person your dating is someone you can be happy spending your life with. Couple’s that have strong friendships with each other can normally talk about marriage comfortably with each other. If that’s not something you & your partner are able to do without conflict or if the idea of marrying them makes you cringe at all, then that’s a big sign that they’re not the one.

I think it's important to note that doubt is normal in a relationship, especially after the honeymoon stage. You will see your partner's flaws and have to decide if you can learn to adapt to what you perceive as shortcomings. Also, for those with anxiety, it can be hard to differentiate generalized stress and anxiety from your relationship. A lot of the times, our anxiety targets our relationship because our loved one is at the forefront of our mind, not because there's anything wrong with the relationship. Step back and look at the facts; don't rely on intuition.

@diegoanimations9504

2 жыл бұрын

This is my problem I have general anxiety, and I cant tell if the anxiety that I'm feeling towards the relationship is justifiable or not. I wasn't thinking of this but it hit me halfway through watching the video

@gtgrandom

2 жыл бұрын

​@@diegoanimations9504 Yeah. I notice that when my anxiety is particularly bad, it inflames my relationship doubt, simply because my partner is on my mind so much. After three years with this person, I know that I'm in a very healthy, happy, and stable relationship, but I have to be careful not to make any rash decisions or judgements when my anxiety spikes. I think it's important to recognize how normal that is for people with GAD!

@ericadiaz1551

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I was worried cause i have both anxiety and ocd which targets my relationship constantly and it's really hard to trust my instinct or "gut" cause it says whatever it wants at the moment.

@JasmineBM913

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this

@aubreyc.4597

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for saying this. Seriously.

its hard when you have growth mindset and your partner have fixed mindset and no willingness at all to grow

@sriv418

3 жыл бұрын

That's a huge one but highly underestimated

@kurleegurl

3 жыл бұрын

This... wanting to grow is not somethings everyone has.

@carlo.notcarlos

3 жыл бұрын

U just described my relationship.

@dassi1565

3 жыл бұрын

Most of the time people claiming that they have a growth mindset and their partner don't, are just complete delusional assholes.

@Emily-rj1ij

3 жыл бұрын

PERIODTT!!!!

I want to trust my gut. But my gut also be like "I think you too crazy sometimes, you need to relax" lmfao 🤷‍♀️

@nightsingotham3899

3 жыл бұрын

this!!

@ashleymartz6066

3 жыл бұрын

Same... people have told me I over think. So is it the relationship or is it me? Or is it both? I need help =(

@karuymaru

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashleymartz6066 honestly I feel that. Have you tried talking to your partner? Lol I always try to but I don't think he understands it

@ashleymartz6066

3 жыл бұрын

@@karuymaru Yea, he is the best at creating a safe open communication for us. At first I was hesitatant because my ex always made me feel awful for being open or sharing my feeling. There are times I get anxious and worried. I have no idea what's going on. It just spirals out of control. I'm trying to manage it.

@karuymaru

3 жыл бұрын

@@ashleymartz6066 stay strong 🙏💙 hope you can resolve this dilemma

HER VOICE IS SO SOOTHING.

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

Glad you love her voice! She's our main VO!

@mariam-sz4jo

4 жыл бұрын

Psych2Go kaizjdhdyiwiskxjjz yeesssssss

@Lexmorningstarnz

4 жыл бұрын

That’s so interesting. I find it quite irritating. It’s no reflection on her but it reminds me of ASMR and I find ASMR has me scratching up the walls.

@mariam-sz4jo

4 жыл бұрын

Lex Morningstar same i hate asmr too but i love her voice

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

@@Lexmorningstarnz Could just be that ASMR is not your thing =/

*7 Signs You May be with the Wrong Person:* 1. They put Oreos on Pizzas

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

ANYTHING ELSE? ADD TO THIS LIST GUYS.

@minervaloves

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. That’s a deal breaker!

@melissajacobs5822

4 жыл бұрын

Daaaamn 👀 What kinda heathens you dating over there?!

@melissajacobs5822

4 жыл бұрын

@someones_takako *backs away slowly* 😂

@PGOuma

4 жыл бұрын

*_Nah, thAT'S THE RIGHT PERSON!!!_*

I left my husband last week. I know I made the right decision, but I’m still in so much pain 😔

@1x56

4 жыл бұрын

Well done, that can't have been easy but the healing can start now. I hope you have support around you x

@minervaloves

4 жыл бұрын

K-Alkali-Metal 19 thank you for your kind words

@alokpatra4210

4 жыл бұрын

Well you took a decision..You got to stand by it or else you will be doubting yourself

@billfromEtown

4 жыл бұрын

i did with my SO as well

@apaloniavargas5333

4 жыл бұрын

i hope you’re doing okay.

You’re with the Wrong Person if you’ve watched 5 Psych to Go Videos, like I just Did.

@zraebiel1673

28 күн бұрын

Same lol

@yeef3493

25 күн бұрын

Dang

We have to listen to our gut when we innately feel that something is just "off". If we are constantly unhappy or stressed out, it's not worth it. We can find someone new eventually, or enjoy time with ourselves that is peaceful.

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

Do you suggest starting over is better than hanging on to something that you know is no longer worth it?

@saleapingahead

4 жыл бұрын

Trust your gut? Some ppl are paroniod trust their gut and are totally totally wrong about what they think and feel and still believe they are 100% sure right and true. But way off due to paroniod

@GotGhost1970

4 жыл бұрын

I completely agree. We should listen to our gut and not let anyone tell us how we should feel.

@danielaung691

3 жыл бұрын

The society we live in now where its easier to replace something than put some graft into it....

@irenemanfredi

Жыл бұрын

@@saleapingahead But then, don't you think that, if the doubt keep up inside a person in the couple, it'll ruin the happiness of the couple itself in the long term? If you try to overcome it and eventually can't.

Two key, salient points: 1) BEFORE any relationship, we need to be the right person for us first! In a perfect world, right? Nearly impossible. And most of us can't wait 'til we're healed, conscious, emotionally intelligent, evolved, self-loving, etc. For a lot of us, that would be when we're in our 50's and 60's. Or never! 2) Another point: trusting one's gut is something we hear all the time, and the premise sounds good and makes sense. But we also all know the saying, "garbage in, garbage out. Data in, data out." If one has low self-esteem, had a wounded childhood and/or has lots of issues, is negative, fearful, angry, etc. that may color one's so-called "gut" and "instincts." It may be biased, colored, slanted, skewed, and not in a healthy, beneficial way or a way that's fair, rational, in touch with reality. Oh, our pesky egos creating all kinds of selfish, biased realities! (You can check with your family and friends for a "reality check." They know you, love you, and know your partner, hopefully, and are much more objective about it all. Ask them...and pay attention. Their guts may actually be a better barometer of what's really going on - with you, your partner, and your partnership.) Good luck! (And fair, or not, luck actually plays a HUGE role in whether you find/end up with the "right" partner. I have found that it's often chance and the luck of the draw for people finding the "right" person. Fate. Though we can certainly be proactive and do our best to prepare ourselves for these opportunities of good fortune...and I would strongly encourage all of us to work on that! Again, good luck! :-) )

@babymochii5999

4 жыл бұрын

I felt like I could relate to everything u Said.. after being in a couple toxic relationships I began to be more sceptical and expecting that anyone I'd date will hurt me again even tho my current boyfriend the nicest most respectful guy I've met My gut is quite confusing me rn

@davidnyro19

4 жыл бұрын

@@babymochii5999 Yes, it's complicated, especially if one has been burned a few times, especially if your instincts weren't in synch with reality. Hence, another layer of meaning to the term "gut check." Pay attention to those little voices, but also question with healthy skepticism. How much is truly accurate and how much is your skewed, fearful bias? Yes, perception often rules our lives. People live entire lives based on perceptions, flawed and otherwise, without ever pausing to try and change the channel, or their hard-wired script, or however you want to define it. I don't have any hard and fast answers, and advice is dicey, but try and write stuff down and look at it and ask those questions of yourself: "What am I feeling, and why? What reality is it based on? Mine? My partners? The reality "on the table?" Could I change my perception? Should I? What would that look at? Get feedback from trusted, safe friends, family, and maybe a counselor, if you have one. Here's hoping your current guy is the real McCoy and you don't throw the baby out with the bathwater, maybe the best baby you ever had... Good luck!

@babymochii5999

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your help this is exactly what I needed to hear

@bachsdmacncheese1182

4 жыл бұрын

This made me feel a lot better but conflicted at the same time. I got into my first relationship (I’m 19, hes 24) and I’m constantly questioning our compatibility. I have a feeling we aren’t but considering this is my first relationship I don’t know if I’m just creating a problem when there isn’t one. Ive also struggled with mental illness for a while now and it’s difficult for me to be happy on my own. I don’t always feel satisfied by being with him but I love him and I want to try until I know for sure this isn’t right. It’s difficult for me to decide where the root of my doubt and dissatisfaction comes from. Whether it’s from the fact that it’s my first relationship and that I struggle with a mood disorder or if it really isn’t right. I don’t went to spend time in a relationship doomed to fail. But I don’t want to leave and then realize that I’d actually be better off with him. Relationships are hard.

@davidnyro19

4 жыл бұрын

@@bachsdmacncheese1182 Relationships ARE hard. Even the best ones; though I will say that two people who really care about each other, and aren't "in love with being in love" - a very common "affliction" in our society, especially (thanks Disney/Hollywood, pop songs, etc.) - are at least beginning to have some sense of their true selves, and can make best efforts to communicate, have an easier time of things. BUT, I've had partners leave me because they believed, mistakenly, that "true love" should just "flow," with no speed bumps. Yes, there is "flow" and "synchronicity" and all that, but there ARE speed bumps...and more! Just ask any couple that's been together for decades!!! You're 19. He's 24. You are both very young. Cut yourself some slack. Give yourself permission to have doubts. Question things. Really think about yourself, about him, your relationship and your life. (Which it sounds like you're doing already.) Do your best to be honest with yourself and him. You mentioned feeling conflicted. It's okay to hold conflicting feelings and mindsets. That's normal and healthy. Anyone who doesn't questions things is the one in trouble, in my book. (Not to be confused with faith. That's powerful too. We can be conflicted but have faith in certain things.) It's very brave of you to acknowledge your mood disorder. Good for you! Be grateful you're aware of it. Now, you can deal with it, and he can too. Take it from me; as someone who's had a proclivity for choosing partners with mood disorders and the like (bi-polar, borderline personality, narcissism, etc.), I'm a bit of an expert on this. It sucks, but it's treatable, actionable. Consciousness around that, and everything else, is KEY! It sounds like you're doing well in that department, which isn't always the case for people, especially young folks like you. So pat yourself on the back there. As for whether or not you're both the right match for each other, only YOU can decide; hopefully, a decision you can make together. But it's a never-ending process. Relationships are never signed, sealed, and delivered. It's a garden, that needs and takes tending, for a year or seventy years. Again, just ask the old folks. If you want to explore more about "match" and compatibility, permit me to make a few reading recommendations (and you may already have read some of these): "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. Any of the many books by John Gottman about relationships. "What Makes Love Last" is excellent. "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" is also strong. Gottman, with his famous Gottman Institute, which is based in Seattle where I live, has applied science to the mysteries of love and his deductions, conclusions, and solutions are pretty incontrovertible. Harville Hendrix is another great relationship guru who believes that most healing work for ourselves can ONLY be done in relationship settings. So, if you've got the right, open, willing, empathetic partner, you've got a real chance. "Getting the Love You Want" is a good starting point. There are tons of relationship coaches (of varying quality) online too. My favs are Alan Robarge, Stephanie Lyn, Dr. Les Carter, Thais Gibson, to name a few. I sure wish I'd known about the five love languages when I was in my relationships. Everything might have turned out differently. I know couples who swear it changed their lives and saved their relationships! I've seen it. It works. Knowledge IS power. Obviously, many hundreds of entire books have been written about this, so there's no way I can come close here with all the ins and outs of this. You are so very young. So much life left. Though one never knows what the future holds...There are no guarantees, right? I've known couples in their 80's who married their high school sweethearts and have never looked back with a single regret. Well, maybe a few "what if" musings here and there. For some. But I know at least two couples who swear they never had any doubts. Lucky, lucky them, I say! Conversely, your true destiny could await you out there somewhere. As you said, this is your first relationship. Doesn't necessarily mean it's the wrong one, but it's a VERY valid point to question one's decision-making without more experiences. It IS limited. Like buying the first car you drive, to use a kinda crude analogy. BUT, some people are perfectly happy buying that first car and driving it as far as they can. I will tell you that one of the true, insidious, creeping evils of our society, with its advertising, "you-can-have-it-all," consumerism mindset, is this idea of "The Grass is Always Greener." It's not. 998 times out of 1,000, it's not, I have found. Hence, the lessons of so many books and movies. "The Wizard of Oz." "It's a Wonderful Life." "The Family Man," etc., etc., etc. Here's the good part; the scary, daunting, good part: YOU get to decide. I personally believe the choices we make are the most important things we do in life. Our choices ARE our lives! When I was your age, I didn't ask my family or friends for advice. Or, if I did, I pretty much ignored it. If it's one thing of true value I've learned in the fullness of time is ask for their advice and listen to it. They know and love you. They are not so close to things, and emotional about it all. They will give you loving, objective, valuable advice. I promise you. Doesn't mean you have to follow it. Again, that's your choice. But choose to ask. And think about this for your life: Einstein once said the single most important decision we make in our lives is whether we see the universe as a friendly or a hostile universe. You get to decide. Good luck! (Oh, and btw, luck has a lot to do with everything and most of that we have little to no control over. All we can do is have faith, appreciate how truly lucky we are - we don't have cancer, aren't in a wheelchair, aren't toiling in a diamond mine, etc. - and prepare ourselves for when luck brings us opportunities!)

Worst part is when you're unsure if you're just a self sabotager or if theres something actually wrong. I wish I had clarity over which one it is.

I believe that being too different should be added or having almost no things in common

@elizabethsanchez3193

4 жыл бұрын

I agree

@kill3rclown690

11 ай бұрын

Me and my girl we only have mental health issues in common and I worry about our future so much it would hurt me so much to let her go😢

@salisasmeditation4012

7 ай бұрын

Yea.I come from a stable loving home and I’ve never had to struggle for anything but I’m dating someone who has been disowned by her mother, abandoned by her father, been in abusive relationships, and has had to struggle. We bump head a lot because I don’t understand where she is coming from and vice versa. It’s really hard but if you are too different then you will clash

i have a feeling i'm with the wrong person, he doesn't reach my expectations and it causes me a lot of stress

@cashapp9973

3 жыл бұрын

Inbox Mr. Andrew now on +14782730478(WhatsApp ) or text him on (631) 912-4899 to caught you cheating partner, he is good and legit

@lidia9283

2 жыл бұрын

What did you do? Do you have any advise?

You could be with the right person and still feel all of these things. Just came out of a break up with my most intimate friend - the one I loved over everything and everyone else; and that was the problem - I loved her more than I loved myself. As a result, I completely unattended other aspects of my life that made me happy, including myself. I started feeling dissatisfied with my personal life and extremely disconnected from myself - I had no personal friends, hobbies, passion projects, etc. I started feeling some of these surface-level symptoms that are mentioned in this video. I call them ''surface-level symptoms'' because they all point towards deeper reasons that are individual to each one of us. I understood nothing was wrong with her, but rather with me - I needed time and energy to balance myself. What a painful decision. I love her so much, but I need to learn how to love myself too before loving her (or anyone else). A quote I've held dear to my heart throughout this process is: ''You can't pour from an empty cup.'' I hope our paths cross once again, my love.

@aubreyc.4597

2 жыл бұрын

Growth can happen in relationships. Especially if you’re self aware enough to identify the problem.

@jesusgonzalez6751

Жыл бұрын

Man! I identify myself with your situation, I have a very nice girl, she's one in a million... but I want to be single, I need time for myself in all aspects.

@DonAdnan123

Жыл бұрын

You could have worked on yourself with that person.

@hummingbird4934

6 ай бұрын

Focus on yourself within the relationship and it will grow. You do not need to love yourself more than the other other person this is a massive misconception

The "right person" can only be the right person when it's two people choosing each other

Who here is single as a pringle? Comment below. You might just find your next love.

@azha_world9606

4 жыл бұрын

I'm single

@eriklehnsherr5784

4 жыл бұрын

Solo as a Rolo. Cant get a date.

@deadaccount8054

4 жыл бұрын

I'm the definition of single but i don't care lol i like being single

@crazykookie2339

4 жыл бұрын

Me 😧

@jugemujugemugokonosurikire4735

4 жыл бұрын

I'm single like a pencil

I'm with the wrong person, but I don't know how to end it. She's a sensitive girl-- so am I. I hate the idea of upsetting her, and we share practically all our friends, I'm scared I'll end up losing them in the process. I was so confident in us, but then i left the honeymoon phase and I've seen her flaws and I've tried, yet haven't been able to compromise. I'm struggling with this and I don't know how to go along with it.

@CGPepper

Жыл бұрын

2 things: honeymoon phase will end with EVERYONE. There are uncompromising flaw with all partners. Fear of hurting the other person might actually be the "love"

@Number4lead

Жыл бұрын

I was in this same boat knew it was wrong, then let my pushy parents and religious leaders push me into marrying. I had reservations before the wedding, and knew something was not right all through the honey moon. I know it was wrong and am waiting to move on. Until then it hasn't been what a relationship could or should be. I even started to think a true love wasn't possible, just lust. Now I have learned that true love exists and is possible if you are with the right one, but there's nothing I can do about it right now.. Don't run out and get married if too many feelings are missing. Its a not good to settle. And don't people push you into getting married if it isn't right.

@noobfolife1206

Жыл бұрын

I'm basically in the same boat as you. But rather than ending the relationship, have a proper heart to heart conversation with her. If you both love each other then I'm sure you guys can find a place to mend your relationship. Cause I'm thinking of doing the same thing. I love her too much to let things end. There are times when even a slight hi from her makes my day. But there are times when I feel like she's partially to blame for why my day's going rough.

@Sona77.

Жыл бұрын

Better to end it now than later. It will stop wasting time. You can’t worry about what others will think

@ogs6628

Жыл бұрын

I agree with Noobfolife. I was recently in a relationship and he was unable to communicate his feelings and issues in our relationship. He didn’t express these issues and feelings and he just ended the relationship. My biggest advice is COMMUNICATE. Do NOT end things before toh talk. Give it a week after you talk- if nothing changes then break it off. Good luck!!

Here's another sign: Your partner starts becoming too clingy initially even when you're not putting any effort into the relationship

@aditopguy9785

2 жыл бұрын

How is that a red flag though?

@chapdattext3167

2 жыл бұрын

@@aditopguy9785 just so that you could spoil her in the future. And she does this initially without her doing her part in supporting you in life whether its goals, cooking and other wife activities. So basically, she trying to turn you into her sugar daddy

@aditopguy9785

2 жыл бұрын

@@chapdattext3167 i think you’re right maybe they do it to get you hooked. my gf was really into me in the beginning. She became less available as I became more invested. It took a huge toll on me mentally and I had to end it a few days ago. It’s difficult to let go because we did share a lot of good memories together but it’s the right thing to do

@holaturtless

2 жыл бұрын

@@aditopguy9785 wow as im reading your comment I'm going through the exact same situation. Im very interested & put in all the effort in the relationship but then they became less available & busy as the weeks went by. It hurts & I'm not sure on what to do.

@aditopguy9785

2 жыл бұрын

@@holaturtless i ended it last week. It’s a toxic situation. I suggest you read about narcissistic partners. I don’t know about your situation but this was the situation that I was in. A relationship is meant to make you happy. If it’s not making you happy you should end it. For me, ending the relationship was the right decision; the hard part is letting go but it’s for the best. Since I’ve ended it I’ve become a lot happier and my mental health is way better than before. I wish you the best :)

I had this feeling of no butterflies since the beginning and it bothered me so much but I was told this same thing - it’s just the absence of anxiety. I dated the guy for a year and ended up breaking up because I could not get over the fact that I didn’t feel excited around him - and it very quickly led to physical attraction fading away . Maybe not all butterflies are anxiety

@__Aiden__

11 ай бұрын

Omg that’s literally what I’m going through like I’ve never had any butterflies in my stomach really but I thought it was just cause I was over love or something but now I realize I’ve made a mistake I think

@damiakinlaja6164

8 ай бұрын

@@__Aiden__have you broken up with them now? 🥺

@__Aiden__

8 ай бұрын

@@damiakinlaja6164 yeah

Who came here even though you don’t have a lover 😂🤣

@eriklehnsherr5784

4 жыл бұрын

👍😉😊😑😔😢😭

@crazykookie2339

4 жыл бұрын

Me lmao 😂

@simon_pender

4 жыл бұрын

People love me but I don't love anybody lmao

@EchthelionII

4 жыл бұрын

Me, I have never been in a relationship before, and being/feeling alone and lonely is a terrible feeling/thing.

@lushbear04_old

4 жыл бұрын

Obviously me lol

I didn't realize these signs before. In my previous relationship I felt quite trapped, anxious and very sad, although I did not know why, the boy I was dating was very good to me and did not give me any bad reaction, but something deep inside me told me to move away, we just weren't compatible. Keep it up, I love watching your videos, they always help me a lot to get more information ✨

@amasion2882

4 жыл бұрын

It could be that, subconsciously, you picked up on “small things” that “weren’t right.” Often it’s the little things that impact relationships over time. Another possibility is that you were out of your comfort zone in a relationship. This is probably very common. Many people are raised in single parent households and healthy intimate relationships aren’t modeled for us by our parents or families. We’re biologically programmed to be social beings and desire good quality mates but we have little or no “training” to 1) find a good mate and 2) build a good relationship with him. It’s normal to feel uncomfortable when you don’t know what you’re doing. Third...Some people just aren’t right for you. It’s not about a person’s good character and qualities or how well you’re treated. They’re not right for us on a biological level. Women are generally more sensitive than men and use their sensitivities in accepting or rejecting partners. A man’s body odors, his voice and the energies he directs at you are either comfortable or not. It’s not about good looks or sex appeal. Women can literally perceive a good (or bad) biological match. TLDR; don’t second guess yourself and trust your instincts and intuition.

@TwentynePilotsthatcrazyfangirl

4 жыл бұрын

Denhoz hey, I’m going through the same thing right now and was wondering if you had any advice because I’m kind of feeling stuck in my relationship. :(

@alokpatra4210

4 жыл бұрын

There is a saying first love is the true love and it is also a mistake...It kind of makes you ready for future once you get over with it...But it is also a fact that you can never forget your first love but it does not hurt anymore...

@lalalaalol

4 жыл бұрын

I’m experiencing the exact same things. My boyfriend was sooo good to me, but I knew deep down we weren’t compatible and my gut was telling me to go. The hard part is breaking up and finding a good reason for them as to why you are breaking up... Nobody wants to be dumped and hearing that it was “their gut telling them to do so”...

@sigcinondlela8385

4 жыл бұрын

@@lalalaalol just tell them you didn't feel a connection. Energy and connection is very important to me and when those things are off then clearly my body and mind are trying to tell me something

Another thing to note is that the problem could also be yourself. If you find yourself consistently unsatisfied in relationships, there may be something wrong.

All of these signs apply to my ex. I'm finally ending it & I feel relieved, it hurts more to be in an unhealthy relationship than being single 😞

@BrightAnwar

2 жыл бұрын

So did u ended up with him? It's been a year now....

@4TLOL

2 жыл бұрын

How are you doing now????🌹💓 Hope you're happy and healthy!

I have an issue of falling too hard and too fast for someone that i feel shows genuine concern and affection for me. Im also overall genuinely too caring. I have an undying loyalty for people i know wont change from their harmful ways and stay with them anyway. 😔💔

@C00Ldude619

3 жыл бұрын

Same broski

@kevinharries9513

3 жыл бұрын

This sounds like Codependency. I have similar traits and am learning to set boundaries. I always get destroyed if things dont workout because Im more invested ,too soon than my partner. This can break relationships even before they start.

@Mr.LittleMeat

3 жыл бұрын

@@kevinharries9513 Im working on it. It’s a hard process but learning from codependency to interdependence is hard.

@kevinharries9513

3 жыл бұрын

@@Mr.LittleMeat Yes its a difficult road .Im same . Also check out > HSP- Highly Sensitive People and Empaths. Sensitive nervous system people can tend to be condependent also. I know Im HSP and get anxious under stress. At 60 yr old soon , now as I age Im even more HSP than even more.. Maybe Im just got old enough to wake up to who I should let into life. Better late than never I suppose. And Also get you T levels checked out.

@weenheehee5211

3 жыл бұрын

same, i hate itm

My ex emotionally cheated on me within a month, she came to me and was talking about how there's this cute guy in her class. An engagement and five years later with my high-school sweetheart she ended up leaving me because of emotional cheating. The guy she ended up getting with though had a girlfriend, he just smashed and passed so I'm not too worried about it she got what she deserved.

i dont think im ever gonna be with the right person. i have a really loving boyfriend,and i love him too, but it just doesnt feel right..

@stephanieh5478

4 жыл бұрын

I feel the same. Something has been off since we met.. but I always took it as just being nervous, we've been together over a year and I still sometimes have that "off feeling".

@zoeh9322

4 жыл бұрын

When I met my Boyfriend, I was really happy but i also had that "off" feeling, I thought it was just that I don't know him that well and over time it will get better but it didn't. He was also very loving an everything but apparently he felt the same and we broke it off. It hurt a lot but now I am kinda happy because I doubt it would have been a happy relationship in the long run

@husseinfaiz3397

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephanieh5478 is it down to your own anxiety or lack of self esteem?

@stephanieh5478

3 жыл бұрын

Neither. We weren't a good fit. Broke up 2 months ago. I miss him. . However, something tells me we wouldn't be happy if we kept trying! Specifically because his personality is the opposite of mine.

@danielaung691

3 жыл бұрын

@@stephanieh5478 why werent you a good fit?

I'm happy in my relationship but sometimes question whether I should be with them. We think fundamentally different about core issues (politics, religion, philosophy, spirituality, etc.) yet we otherwise get along, have a lot of common interests, and enjoy each other's company. It's hard, because sometimes I feel like we can't even have certain conversations due to the possibility it will result in an argument.

@AshMaTashNYC

4 жыл бұрын

CZ I’ve had similar thoughts and experience in the past. I always ended up thinking it would probably be more appropriate as a friendship. Just a thought.

@nousernamehere3994

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe you should try to talk to your partner about it.If it's true that you enjoy each other's company maybe they'll not change their beliefs but will try to accept yours and appreciate you for you(plus you'll feel relieved).It's just some advice though, just do what seems the best thing to do from your perspective :)

@ac0rps32

4 жыл бұрын

that's y i didnt wanna click on this video ajdjfjejjf my partner makes me happy but there r some things im concerned abt

@paty1688

4 жыл бұрын

@@ac0rps32 same.

@misspriss2482

4 жыл бұрын

Core issues are some of the most fundamental parts of a relationship. A lot of the major life decisions that the two of you will make are heavily influenced by core values. Longtime you guys are not going to be able to make that work. You can't spend your relationship tip-toeing around major topics to avoid an argument.

The sad thing : i experience all of this even without having in relationship!

@jugemujugemugokonosurikire4735

4 жыл бұрын

Love yourself before loving someone else. It's the only way.

@Etincelleart

4 жыл бұрын

@@jugemujugemugokonosurikire4735 Then we'll be alone until the end of universe because it's been 20 years I try to love myself. YEY

@getpsyked

4 жыл бұрын

@@Etincelleart Love Spider-Man , He never leaves u alone , He will web and crawl into ur room if u feel alone Waiting for ur reply

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

I see. What do you plan to do to change that?

@chandan-shinde

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go for now i try to engage myself into other activities like listening to music n all....also try to stay connected with friends.

In the past 25 years of my life I haven't met a person I was attracted to, because one of the big things I needed from a partner was to be understood. I finally found someone who relates to me and we are very similar, they bring me so much peace and love that I'm going to be there with them forever, even if our relationship doesn't work out, which I don't see happening.

I think you also need to be careful and not attribute feelings of unhappiness as a direct cause of your partner. The less you expect from a relationship the more 'happy' you'll be. Don't consider another person as your source for happiness - you'll be dissappointed 99% of the time at some point in the relationship.

@naimabala8078

2 жыл бұрын

I know of a great powerful love spell caster that can manifest your ex back within 48hours without no delay

@naimabala8078

2 жыл бұрын

十𝟮𝟯𝟰8139934468⏭⏭⏭⏭_^_;

It takes work. Me and my boyfriend were very different people and so for a year we were deciding if we would go forward. In this relationship it was so hard to adapt, but we would communicate everything. I would question if we were even right for each other so many times. In relationships you learn, and you put in the effort if you really want something to work out, if we didn't even try we would've cut it off long time ago. I really think it depends on if you're willing to put in the effort and change parts of yourself to fit with the other person.

@user-js4mt1nr2y

2 жыл бұрын

Was it from the beginning easy tho? That seems to be the main advice I hear that you somehow need to have at least a year of honeymoon easy fun times.. Which sounds impossible to me. I learned things never go easy and I have been shaped in a way that can't be fixed easily I've had therapy already a lot. So I believe there need to be room to have insecurities, make mistakes and to learn and grow with eachother. Especially if you are very different things will be difficult before you find ways to grow to eachother I imagine. How did you guys meet?

@marcbenoite6481

2 жыл бұрын

Still together?

@kithalie

2 жыл бұрын

@@marcbenoite6481 yes :)

@marcbenoite6481

2 жыл бұрын

@@kithalie honestly you can't imagine how stress relieving that answer is (even if I fully understand it doesn't mean much for my couple itself haha) thank you for taking the time out of your day! I truly hope everything continues to go well in your relationship and who knows, maybe that mindset can spread to mine as well 😊

@divya_sancheti04

Жыл бұрын

We r willing to put effort but idk what effort should I put :(

When they start to scream about *putting the body lotion inside the bucket/basket...* Call it a hunch.

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

Any other key signs that you guys feel should be added?

@melanyancat5687

3 жыл бұрын

Or they get mad about putting bodylotion on my hands in bed...

@STMARTIN009

3 жыл бұрын

When it threatens to hurt Precious. Don't hurt Precious!!

Im still with my boyfriend. But i do have alot of unhappiness and depression because of the incidents with my parents

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

So like unresolved issues getting into the relationship?

@aaronninjahunter2213

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go yes.

@carsoncavanaugh780

4 жыл бұрын

Username and comment checks out

@aaronninjahunter2213

4 жыл бұрын

@@carsoncavanaugh780 ??

@TwentynePilotsthatcrazyfangirl

4 жыл бұрын

Gamerbro me too! I don’t know what to do because I don’t know what’s the right choice to make :(

I used to binge your videos because I knew deep inside I was with the wrong person and after I finally broke up with him, I actually met someone who makes me feel the opposite of what all your videos say. ☺️I’m so happy and he is perfect in every way

I really liked this video as I’ve just entered my first real relationship and keep worrying about this topic. I don’t really relate to all the points and still feel confused - would love a video talking about the difference of being with the wrong person or someone just overthinking! Or maybe some tip videos for people that just started getting into relationships as I’m very confused as what to feel when and etc. Love your videos and can’t wait to see more!

@SheilaDeLugo

4 жыл бұрын

Im going through that right now ! Im a very anxious person and ive felt doubt in all my relationships. I have a phase where im constantly asking if its right and right now its that phase and thats what sucks is that i dont know if im over thinking and being anxious or if its really not the relationship for me. Being quarantined has made my anxiety soooo bad so i want to say its just that but them im like well is it? Or is it more. 😔😔

@gum3602

2 жыл бұрын

I wanna say this is me aswell. It's only been barely a month, but I'm yet to feel that special feeling of "Yes I wanna be with this person for the rest of my life" other than that I love spending time with her, doing activities, I'm really attracted to her, but I'm waiting for the feeling and idk if we just need to be together a bit longer and maybe the feeling will come up. Someone please reply with thoughts on this, thanks 😊

@aubreyc.4597

2 жыл бұрын

@@gum3602 that feeling is something you build. If you’re with someone you like, and you treat each other well, make each other better people, and are compatible, that feeling will come. Give it some time.

Sign 1: They don't play Minecraft

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

What else? LOL

@nikkinorman4254

4 жыл бұрын

Loool 🤣👌🏽

@minecraftstation6422

4 жыл бұрын

@Érrør Àlex cracked Minecraft?!

@fredericmoresmau4303

4 жыл бұрын

I know I suffered badly, but I was in the wrong place in the long run........ was it worth it? no...

@alofii6106

4 жыл бұрын

**screams**

I'm starting to think I'm just too messed up to feel happy. Instead of feeling happy and excited i feel sad and always worried and stressed. I'm sure it has to do with my childhood abuse i went through and it's sad to think that i will never feel happy. Relationships and love in general just triggers my anxiety :(

@Chrissstinanana

3 жыл бұрын

I can relate to you. I am experiencing the same thing. I guess the way we are brought up messes us up a whole lot. Hugs!

Just hearing your voice eliminate half of stress and anxiety, your friends are so lucky to have you around. !!!

1. you have to ask them to love you based on your love language 2. they don't want to learn your love language 3. they use what makes you feel loved as a burden 4. they tell you they cant love you because you don't love them how they want to be loved (selfish) 5. they don't compromise anything for you but will compromise everything for anyone else 6. they use their negativity as a sign of power in their own life and try to use it on you 7. they belittle your existence and need for love "because you're a man and men can't ask for love" 8. they get defensive when they are being held accountable for their negative behavior 9. they carry a grandiose demeanor about them. If they do one thing for you, you owe them 100 times over 10. they don't take your words with skepticism but take everyone else's word as gospel 11. when you take the time to read and learn and they dismiss you because you're not a specialist 12. when they say your kid is a mistake 13. when they pay someone to do their degree for them and then brag that they work hard knowing it was ill gotten 14. when they hold on to bad times in the past and refuse to grow as a defense tactic to avoid acknowledging they are the issue in present time 15. when you say you are not feeling loved and they get mad when you show them proof 16. when in the bedroom, they are lifeless and unenthusiastic and say, "at least you get something" 17. when they place more value in inanimate objects than actual love and affection 18. when you can count the number of days the love will fade after you bought them something and they revert back to their normal self 19. when they have a drug/alcohol problem 20. when they speak openly in front you to a friend that they are jealous of their sisters family life because they live in paris and now you feel poor 21. when they are concerned more of the outside image of the marriage when inside the house, they are nasty and judgemental 22. when you try to guide and lead the family away from ignorance and they respond with "what? you're not perfect" 23. when they use the word "perfect" as a guise to hide that they understand that they are being ignorant but would rather try to put you down 24. when they refuse to grow emotionally 25. when they refuse to understand what it means to grow emotionally 26. when they would rather you leave the marriage and break up the family than to learn and comprehend what it means to love someone 27. when they have expectations of you being there for them when they cant be bothered to be there for you because they dont have an interest 28. when they are lazy but blame you for nothing exciting happening in their life 29. when they think they are not responsible for loving you when they are married to you 30. whey they assume they don't have to love you because you are married together and effort does not need to continue past this point 31. when sex is only initiated when they want it but when you want it, they cant be bothered 32. when you're only staying in the marriage because you don't want to leave the kids 33. when the kids are too young to know how toxic their parent is but when they get older and see it for themselves, you stress in trying to figure out what you will tell them so they too don't grow to hate their parent even though it is inevitable 34. when your first marriage was better than your second 35. when you cant get them to comprehend that being loved is ok and there shouldn't be so many rules in place when you just want to say "I love you" 36. when you cant bring yourself to naturally say "I love you" because you don't love their behavior 37. when you don't feel they are deserving of the things they have because they are not grateful beings 38. when you know they dont want to to be in the marriage but lie to your face which brings you false hope that maybe you two can learn something to last 39. when your in laws are even more ignorant so even if you do gain ground in connection, you run the risk of that being removed because your spouse changes when the in laws are on the phone, in person, or just in thought 40. when you are blamed for the lack of relationship between your mom and yourself because they were abusive and because of that lack of relationship, your spouse gives up on loving you since your mom gave up on loving you 41. when you are trying to break the mold of toxic male-isms but your spouse is so conditioned for it that she challenges you as to why you're NOT like that 42. when you worry that your child will grow up to be as ignorant as their mom so you stay in the marriage to be that last bit of hope to raise them right or at least be a filter to block that toxic female-isms The list can continue but you get the idea. After years of being married to a person, if you still have to ask to be loved in a manner that actually makes you feel loved because you've only experienced it for a short time in your life since you were abused and know what is good and what is not for YOURSELF, and they don't want to entertain that because its a burden to them, they are NOT someone you should be with.

@abbeyjanegreen703

2 жыл бұрын

Hope get a divorce ❤

@melisabel7137

2 жыл бұрын

Numbers 2 and 4 are a little contraditory... I believe both should learn each other's love language. Number 2 says that, but in number 4 it seems that the other part also wants to be loved by her language, but tou say It is selfiness... Didn't get this part... :/

I’m here because I really want to make sure my man isn’t unhappy with me but then I remembered how we just hung out recently and he told me I looked good. He looked happy. He put his arm around me . He texted me after we both left to make sure I was home safe and he touched me under my chin which is his sign of affection. He has gone out of his way to make me happy. Im just worried about how I impact him. I just want him to be happy.

@AstridMartin666

4 жыл бұрын

Are YOU happy? That's what's important. I spent two years trying to make my guy happy and in the end I realized I didn't have that power. Frankly I don't even have the power to make myself happy but I surely don't have the power to make someone else happy. If he isn't happy he'll let you know. In the meantime work on making yourself happy because if he leaves it will be easier for you to hold yourself together instead of falling apart

@danielaung691

3 жыл бұрын

Talk to your partner about how you feel

This video helped. I am studying psychology. Sometimes bias gets in the way and it’s hard to get out of your own head. I am an over thinker and an introvert lol. It’s great to have this pocket psych book on common occurrences in society. Keep it up. You are doing great

Your videos helps to stay relax in relationships. I’m acknowledging my flaws and turning them into a beauty. Meaning learning from them, thank you.

All 7 signs match... My gut feelings tell me that I am with wrong person since 4yrs

My friend told me she got engaged just now And I got this notification and I am single 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Been having a hard time deciding to go for a couple of relationships. There’s a lot of backstory and convoludedness to it but there has been tons of doubts running through my head. This fortunately gave me a reason to finally say “no.”

Really enjoyed the vid. These are all the emotions I was feeling before I broke up with my ex. I just never knew how to articulate them. Thanks so much!

but im wayy too unforgiving and i do love her its just idk sometimes i feel like theres someone out there thats a better fit for me

@lidia9283

2 жыл бұрын

What did you do? Do you have any advise?

I don't even think about having a relationship but I still watching....

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

So.. what did you learn from this video?

@NourHan

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go i maybe learned that you shouldn't always have hopes for someone before 100% knowing they are the one

I was in an abusive relationship for 2.5 years (I’ve been out of it for over a year now and with someone else that makes me extremely happy) I connected to almost all of these points looking back, and honestly really wish I had seen this back them. Definitely would have saved me years of depression!

@Linuxtjej

Жыл бұрын

I can relate to that. I wish I would’ve broken up with them sooner. It would have saved me much heartbreak and stress, and mental health issues. I suffer from trauma today.

Just the voice of this channel is so relaxing 😌 thanks so much for all of these tips physchtogo!

My therapist gave me a really helpful exercise. Write down all the benefits of staying in the relationship, and all the negatives. Then write down all the benefits of leaving, and the negatives. Then write down if these are short term or long term effects. Obviously you're just making your best guess, but it really helped to put things into perspective

I would wonder if this is something that might be applied differently to those of us with anxiety. I started out this way when I was dating my now wife. I have come to realize with that was that part of my anxiety with her and other people I was with in the past was because I was comparing them to an unrealistic perfect person in my head as well as my unrealistic expectations of how blissful I thought a relationship should be. As time went on though and as I communicated with her, I worked through my negative thought processes and I decided to marry her. I still get anxious thoughts when we have disagreements but at the end of the day, when my mind is at ease, I know that she is the one. So my take away, question your feelings and see if maybe you can see if there is something going on with you other than the relationship, if you are anxious like me, working through those emotions with your partner rather than tossing the whole thing might help you find the right person. Because that is exactly what happened with me. Best of luck :)

@jenchapple89

9 ай бұрын

Perfectly describes me and my now-husband. I’ve found that having a schizophrenic mother lead to much relational anxiety later in life, but I knew I was with the “right” person when he was willing to work with me on those anxieties.

With the similarities, it’s a little more difficult than that imo. My fiancé and i are similar, but we also grew up differently and have different insights on some things. I also see him as my best friend because we can be silly together and have fun, and we both keep it open, to where we can express ourselves, even the negative

You guys post at the exact time I need it, thank you💕

Her voice is so comforting! I could listen to it for days😩😍 Awesome topic, I feel like those signs will help me, cuz my guts have being telling me a lot concerning my relationship! Thank you💯 Not to be sloppy but I like to believe that the fact it was published on my birthday means it was some kind of message from the universe for me!

I recently started dating someone and he’s been wonderful but the change has brought up a lot of my past trauma, my low self-esteem, and my insecurities, and it’s also making my anxiety spike. It’s really hard to distinguish my mental illness thoughts and my genuine feelings toward him.

Just be conscious of your repressions. Plays a huge part in behaviour and attraction.

@emilyjones9401

4 жыл бұрын

True

@Ultimate23Dragon

4 жыл бұрын

Doesn't really help you're always forced to repress how you feel about literally everything in your life because no one gives a damn about how you feel. You're supposed to be the way the world wants you to be. You're not allowed to have different opinions, be yourself, vent when you need to, or dispute others behavior towards you.

@TomWatkinsTV

4 жыл бұрын

@@Ultimate23Dragon repression are not forced. They're a natural ego defence mechanism to give you a false sense of protection. You can definitely get through your repressions, through mindfulness, psychedelic therapy...

@PGOuma

4 жыл бұрын

@@Ultimate23Dragon i relate to this

@PGOuma

4 жыл бұрын

@@TomWatkinsTV forcefulness can turn into this after a while because you start losing yourself and don't know who you really are anymore and since you've repressed so much and thinks that the world hates who you are, you turn into a different person while repressing your first identity. If that makes any sense. But I'm also just speaking from experience

Thank you. I was in a dilemma whether i have taken the right decision or not even realising he was a nice person. YES, i was with the wrong person. I found it earlier and saved both of us. Good luck and keep faith everyone ❤️

can you guys make a video on how couples can end things off on good terms? And the types, example: if the person is toxic (And to avoid that toxic person seeking retribution), sensitive, or still a good friend (but with no romantic feelings), etc. Great videos as always!

I experienced a few of these with my ex, we were very similar in terms of lifestyle, food, hobbies, fitness etc. but we were very different on core values such as money and kids. I think we could have been great friends but we didn't tick the boxes needed for a relationship, which resulted in me having to end it

My gut instinct and my intuition is spot on. I just left my girlfriend last night because she gave me the worst gut feelings and im not the type to really be jealous or insecure. She also was very combative, If she wanted to talk to me about something it was nice and easy but if I wanted to talk to her about something, instant arguing and defending herself. Add in a handful of shady situations that made my stomach curl and I couldn’t take it anymore. She didn’t respect me and I kept pushing the relationship because I wanted to make it work. Now she is begging me to stay and saying she will do better but its too late. Should have tried hard before the relationship getting to this point. Im hurt and its hard but I know this is the right decision

Great video; great advice. I really needed this right now; I knew it was true but I had to hear it from someone else to truly believe it.

The person narrating this sounds so calm . Awwww 💕

"The perfect couple can only be made from a sadist and a masochist" ~unknown

I broke up with my bf yesterday as I was getting through these things for a month and now I feel a lot better.

@maevependragon

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you. I broke up with my husband 3 days ago. Hugs and light to you. I was in the same place.

@anche_yumuk

2 жыл бұрын

@@maevependragon Thank you! ❤️

@lidia9283

2 жыл бұрын

There are things my bf does that don't let me picture myself with him forever. But he is a great person and I don't know what to do :c any advise?

@anche_yumuk

2 жыл бұрын

@@lidia9283 Ask him all the questions to know all the answers you are scared to know and then decide what is best for you!

This was very helpful, thank you!

putting this on recommendation while I'm having doubts is already a big sign ma'am

One crazy important thing is: please, don't trust your gut if you're mentally unstable. Anxiety has a couple million ways to completely fuck up a relationship. Work on communication. Open up, tell them about your anxious thoughts and let them help you in the healing process. This way you can have a strong and honest foundation for a beautiful relationship.. or find out that your partner isn't right for you.

I love this! you said "if you feel unhappy even with them" , due to my adhd i sometimes feel unhappy and depressed, but not when I'm with my bf something about him makes me feel better, I've actively tested this 😂❤️ Also the similarity one we're not similar to each other, but we understand each other in deeper levels to the point sometimes people around us don't get what we're saying 😂❤️

I broke up with my boyfriend last night, i've thought about it for a long time and this video really help me realise that this isn't healthy. I'm constantly anxious around him. I've never felt comfortable. I can't be myself around him. We never fought because i never bring up anything negative that might lead to an argument. I felt so trapped

I've been relating to almost all of these signs for years. I needed to see this video 20 years ago.

Bold of you to assume I'm in a relationship

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

You don't have to be! You can still learn for all kinds of relationships.

Her word: Listen to your gut Me: I want to stay single, virgin, and more loving my self.

@simransingh918

4 жыл бұрын

Same

Thanks guys! Please keep up the great content!

why do I love this channel so much because of 1) cute anomations 2) good accurate captions 3) relatable like srsly 4) helps me in life 5) very helpful

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Your feedback means a lot :) What else do you think we can improve on?

@justgwen3036

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go To be honest, this channel is already perfect for me 💯✨👌

Always waiting for your videos. ☺️

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

We're always waiting for you too.

8. The idea of leaving your partner, as hurtful as it might seem, feels liberating.

@itsCapria

Жыл бұрын

Definitely does

Great content. It totally validated my decision to end an unhealthy relationship. Thank you.

This video helped me confirm it. Thanks!

I love someone, but we're not together, because he doesn't feel the same way 🤷🏾‍♀️

@Psych2go

4 жыл бұрын

Unrequited feeling is also a sign .. sometimes it makes more sense to just focus on self and move on to someone else..

@eadc2158

4 жыл бұрын

Same same. Finally let go a few days ago. So difficult. More difficult than my exams.😁😬😁😬😁

@misspriss2482

4 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I know, but I can't avoid him and he won't let me go.

As an overthinker, I agree with every single one of these because in the beginning and during of my relationship there were red flags. I'm kind of afraid to be open around my partner at times based on how he was mean in the beginning. He's okay now but I honestly feel unappreciated and unhappy... and at the same time I feel bad if I were to break up with him because of the relationship I'm in with my mom where she's a narcissist and I'm having the fear of being alone with her because its hard-to-find good people you can be with nowadays who accept you and your situation and will be there for you always... 😥

@lidia9283

2 жыл бұрын

Im currently with my boyfriend but Im thinning of breaking up with him. Like you there were also red flags in the beginning, but got better (because I talked to him about it). But every now and then there are thighs about him that piss me off. So I think I'm going to break up with him, I'm tired of trying and I think he's just not the one. However he is a wonderful person and loves me very much. I really don't want to hurt him. Am I overthinking all of this?

I am unhappy, stress, my expectations not being met, I knew it was issues in the beginning, I cant pinpoint, this is how I feel.

Thank you for the extra tips

I think the thing about expectations is a little bit harsh. I understand small things like someone taking time out of their schedule to talk to you or go on a date with you once a week or something, but stuff like expecting another human to be ready for a big life change the same moment you are isn’t fair or healthy. We need to realize what expectations are healthy and what ones aren’t. I think the video should have made that comment.

I guess mine would be that I feel alone, I’m always the one texting first everyday and we basically just say how are you and how’s work. One day I didn’t text at all and we actually didn’t talk for two days so I guess we aren’t really anything.

@bribamboozle

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry.

@africanwilddog6685

3 жыл бұрын

that’s exactly how i feel. i don’t have anyone to talk to about this, and i don’t really know how to stop it without hurting feelings ;-; how did it go with you?

@pepelele3226

3 жыл бұрын

African Wild Dog mines going well, we did talk I told him that I felt like he was very distant and I told him how I felt. He’s easier to start a conversation with now than before, but he does like he’s space so I try to be away and patient. He’s actually started calling me to talk and we do keep a nice conversation. I think it’s just that he had to get more comfortable with me. But he still likes to have space not much of a cuddle though sometimes he will come to me for it. Try to see things he’s point of view to better understand

@africanwilddog6685

3 жыл бұрын

Pepe Lele tysm and im glad things are going well!

Love is wonderful when you do all the right things for the right person. Not the wrong person.

her voice is extremely soothing...thankss

I’m currently 22 years old. (turning 23 this year). I’ve had a 3 and a half year relationship (that got toxic towards the end) and then half a year later I got into a 2 year relationship that I’m still in currently. With this one I have doubts if I’m “falling out of love” with him. Or if my mind is just saying I should be alone for a while since I’ve been in serious relationships since I was 16. Interesting that despite the previous toxic relationship, I didn’t have these doubts... 🤔

@dulanisiyara5684

Жыл бұрын

Same happened to me, i think if you ever feel out of love then it's the time to end it

@sandulramanayaka1661

9 күн бұрын

​@@dulanisiyara5684are you sri Lankan

Be with yourself. That way, you always are with the right person!

Thank you this has been very helpful