Hi everyone! Do you unintentionally hate yourself or know someone who does? We to all some extent lack a bit of self love, so that's why this video is made to help us recognize times when we may not be doing ourselves a service. If you resonate with any of these signs, know that you are not alone. We can only grow when we are self aware. Quick favor! We're launching a channel that makes our content more accessible in Korean. But on top of that we will be doing movies reviews from a psychological perspective. If you're interested, do consider supporting us here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/gH-AzcyNipDcqcY.html on BPD. We have the English subtitles too!

@TBSG707

3 жыл бұрын

Nice

@Bobby_mc52

3 жыл бұрын

I hate myself but not unintentionally

@frontallobotomy03

3 жыл бұрын

I still can't tell I'm wondering if I'm in denial or not

@mariomaster101official

3 жыл бұрын

I hate myself and any version of myself after oct 20th

@TBSG707

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariomaster101official what happened on October 20th

Me: “Huh, I guess I hate myself now” Also me: “Don’t worry I hate you too”

@yipflomiser

3 жыл бұрын

I don't know what to say lol

@IanRD277

3 жыл бұрын

My subconscious: I guess that makes 3

@nebiat5663

3 жыл бұрын

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@Lratiobozo

3 жыл бұрын

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@setapart2serveministries

3 жыл бұрын

Lol.

When I get confident about myself, it disgusts me that I felt like that.

@moodybash7334

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I feel like I shouldn't. But sometimes I wish it to be like that everytime, so that I can be true to myself

@moodybash7334

3 жыл бұрын

@Phoenix Wolf ikr? And then talk about why we hate ourselves then help each other out

@ollienang7253

3 жыл бұрын

I get that all the time or more so that i feel my problems are insignificant in the larger scheme of things.

@rangeofthem00n45

3 жыл бұрын

Who doe QwQ I'm very confident and Happyyyyy UvU I hate sadness I would murder that emotion if I seen it . I actually wouldn't murder the emotion sadness I like it cuz well in Anime it's so dramatic and in movies it's also dramatic :))

@endergenesis2618

3 жыл бұрын

I mean there's group therapy, meeting random people on the Internet is probably gonna get someone killed like it or not

I hate myself so much that I feel like people gaslight me when they compliment me

@connorericksonmusic

Ай бұрын

Fr. It doesn’t seem real or genuine, I have huge trust issues so I feel like it’s a cruel joke that they are pulling on me.

@alpha_jasperflair1097

24 күн бұрын

Fr same, plus I know who I really am, sometimes when people try to compliment me I feel guilty and sad because that doesnt sound so much like me like thew view me differently as I view myself, I feel like if I was too honest everyone will not like me anymore and think of me as dumb, crazy or mean.

@AshleighWheatley

20 күн бұрын

I do too All the time

@KevinChinn88

19 күн бұрын

Very true for me. I always think it’s a joke, or they are just saying that to be nice. Compliments have been hard since elementary school. SMH I hardly ever know when they are genuine. It seems (in my mind) that only about 10-20% may be genuine…. I don’t know if I’m right about that or not.

@alexmaur8817

17 күн бұрын

i legit feel disgusted and lied to when people compliment me.

You're not comfortable letting other people help as you believe your troubles are yours alone and you deserve them" That one hit deep 😢

@user-sm5my8du8c

23 күн бұрын

I agree 😢

@WilyStraw

15 күн бұрын

It does 😢

@gooleomooleo5036

13 күн бұрын

Ummm ok😑

@zoemiller8388

13 күн бұрын

I never realized that until now

@Kat_cheeze

11 күн бұрын

Wow I read this right as she said it.

1. You tear yourself down - ✔ 2. You feel insecure around others - ✔ 3. You neglect your self-care - ✔ 4. You don't let yourself be happy - ✔ 5. You isolate yourself from others - ✔ 6. You put on a facade for others - ✔ 7. You're afraid to dream big - ✔ Damn, first thing I got perfect score from.

@cshuffler232

2 жыл бұрын

Oh damn bro

@clarefernandes5955

2 жыл бұрын

honestly its the same for me too

@darkrider189

2 жыл бұрын

fr 😭

@user-lj2zm2uo2v

2 жыл бұрын

🖐 high five

@Ilikebread879

2 жыл бұрын

Savage self-burn - ✅

Whenever someone compliments me, I feel like they're lying

@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything

2 жыл бұрын

they may be right in some aspect

@quantumslime7265

2 жыл бұрын

I am wary of compliments not for that reason but because i think its only a matter of time before they start to hate me or become disappointed in me.

@scissorluv4583

2 жыл бұрын

When ever someone compliments me I feel really awkward and I tell them if they are serious,then they reply with yes and then I feel depressed cause I know they're lying

@phintrobopsphintrobops132

2 жыл бұрын

What’s that

@mitskisson

2 жыл бұрын

Y’all are getting complimented?

I'm in my 40's but the voices of the 5year old bullies are still in my mind everyday ! I can't escape them.

@slowed_hits_yt

2 ай бұрын

I hope u get through it...

@mssx2022

2 ай бұрын

Hi ....your living in the past. Let it go ! Time has moved on and U should too !

@joelhc9703

2 ай бұрын

It's normal. They were not better than you not were you worst than them. We all are together in having, imperfections, flaws and weaknesses, it's shared humanity. Not even in how you felt are you different to the rest. You are not special nor are they. You are just unique and that uniqueness is what your anger tries to protect plus you feel guilty because you didn't meant to hurt or harm no one. Hope any of that helps.

@georgettea7836

2 ай бұрын

@@joelhc9703 Thank you for your reply. Its not something I think about consciously. I came from another culture and in Australia in the early 80's I was in an Anglo culture. Of course I was strange to the other children. But as a child I couldn't understand. I don't think about it everyday but it affected my confidence. But it has given me empathy for those who feel isolated and are suffering. Life is hard but time gives you perspective and I am grateful that I am healthy and have a great family. Thank you for your reply. You are very wise and perceptive.

@emerylsg

2 ай бұрын

this is why anti bullying is so important. shit like that sticks with you for years, or forever. they can quite literally shape who you are and how you see yourself. the people who don't realize this never experienced it

Oh boy do I love going down rabbit holes that make me feel terrible

@mssx2022

2 ай бұрын

Hi .....stop going down them ...

@liana_splashy

Ай бұрын

I just want to say that you are loved and it isn't a lie. I promise.

@lslc17

21 күн бұрын

@@liana_splashyi feel like u are saying that just to make me feel better

@liana_splashy

21 күн бұрын

@@lslc17 I know. I feel the same way when people say things like this to me. 😢🩷 But God really does unconditionally love you (don't worry, it's not romantic) whether you feel like that or not. Neither you nor I would ever be able to understand His love because of how great He is. I'm only beginning to scratch the surface of His reality. A song I really want to show you is Pieces by Steffany Gretzinger...LOL it's literally playing RIGHT NOW on KZread Music (I did not plan this, I promise!). I had a vision while watching it (there are pictures in the lyric video of pots that are broken into pieces and put back together) of the pots being the lives and beings of people (who they are, their stories, what they care about, emotions, etc) in the brokenness of life (I--not visually--saw unique issues that each person faced and worries that we often have...one was of a person worrying about his child and when he or she was going to come back home. With this, I saw how very similar all humans are) and brought back together--BY LOVE (which is who God is)-- into the loving hands of God where they are safe and whole. I pray that God will show you His love in general. If you want to know more, I made a video of His love and am currently working on a video of the Gospel...which I wrote out in the video's comment section. If you want proof, I recommend watching a video by Jesus Image. They don't filter anything. It's all real...and caught on camera. God bless 🩷😢

1. You tear yourself down 2. You compare yourself to others 3. You neglect your self care 4. You don’t let yourself be happy 5. You isolate yourself from others 6. You put on a facade for others 7. You’re afraid of dream big

@willgamer0849

3 жыл бұрын

The only thing I don't do is comparing my self with others, The rest I do them all.

@peculiarduckmaster1778

3 жыл бұрын

Wait- everyone doesn't do this already!? Wait I though it was normal? 💀

@kaztheterriblecommenter3229

3 жыл бұрын

@@peculiarduckmaster1778 oh yeah it's normal don't worry people are just a bit more depressed since covid-19 like you so don't worry about being different

@tuisuki

3 жыл бұрын

oh no ; ;

@HFAdelto

3 жыл бұрын

I think i don't do 6. Well it depends of your definition of a facade. My friends know that I hate myself and/or I am depressed but when I'm around them I'm trying to go along with everyone's mood and not embarass everyone with my state of mind does this count as a facade ?

Me: clearly knows I hate myself Me again: **clicks video just in case**

@yeongweunbi

3 жыл бұрын

omg that's me lol

@shuoyt3

3 жыл бұрын

Bts annoys me so no thanks (no offense to bts just not my thing)

@charlottedekievit3874

3 жыл бұрын

@@btsbutter2405 I love them but unfortunately still hate myself

@btsbutter2405

3 жыл бұрын

@@shuoyt3 It’s ok as long as you respect them:) And I hope you have a nice day thank you☺️

@btsbutter2405

3 жыл бұрын

@@charlottedekievit3874 Try digging deeper into their message and try understanding them more.

I know I hate myself. I don’t know why i’m just watching this. I just want to feel okay again

@mssx2022

2 ай бұрын

Hi ....even if u don't know why? Doesn't mean U should keep doing it ! Feel better ! It's ok.

@user-so3up7il8f

Ай бұрын

i feel the same. your not alone kid..

@S0LDIER1stclass

18 күн бұрын

Same here.

@Nezukoscat

17 күн бұрын

Same 😢

@S0LDIER1stclass

17 күн бұрын

@@Nezukoscat Ima here for you

What’s sad is that when I opened up to my friends, they all laughed and thought I was joking. The only person who understood that I wasn’t joking was my best friend, and he told me that “all of us will probably make fun of you. Stop opening up. It makes us feel wrong and awkward.” I never opened up to anyone again.

@Frombeyondthehorizon6860

2 ай бұрын

I'm a nobody on the internet, but I'm so sorry that happened. You deserved to be listened to and heard genuinely and loved for who you are.

@ferretgirl9

Ай бұрын

Sometimes I feel like I'm someone who complains or used about something (I feel like I'm only talking to friends when they need help with something, or they only ask for help). So yeah, I feel the same way.

@ferretgirl9

Ай бұрын

I also feel like everyone at my school is judging of what I am accomplishing or doing in life. What can I do I wonder to stop those thoughts/ feelings.

@Vespyr_

Ай бұрын

With best friends like that who needs enemies? They sound like a living disease of a human being.

@dropdead6969

Ай бұрын

​@@ferretgirl9 Its so deep in my subconscious I dont know how to undo the years of early childhood bullying and neglect no matter what I do.. best I can do is withdraw and stay apathetic of everyone

1) You tear yourself down. ✅ 2) You feel insecure about others. ✅ 3) You neglect your self-care. ✅ 4) You don’t let yourself be happy. ✅ 5) You isolate yourself from others. ✅ 6) You put on a facade for others. ✅ 7) You’re afraid to dream big. ✅ The test result are ready. You were right.

@randomfollower1931

2 жыл бұрын

Same here! :) I just don't think I'm important or good enough XD I'm just wearing a mask hiding me

@C0wp0ke.

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah same..

@this_channel_is_dead_3660

2 жыл бұрын

Same lol but can anyone tell me how to fix this ? XD

@biggestfan-lw2pr

2 жыл бұрын

Heck

@ftintin1

2 жыл бұрын

Hey! It's my personality!

“You isolate from others” It’s not that I hate myself, I just hate people

@aubree7524

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly tho 😂

@lenoremunoz2407

3 жыл бұрын

Haha this deserves more likes

@bringmethatcoffee5235

3 жыл бұрын

Or love. You know. XD Bc Corona.

@MeemahSN

3 жыл бұрын

Very true, very true

@chrisbova9686

3 жыл бұрын

Psychologists are stuck trying to take any action to protect yourself from society as a flaw in yourself, not the society that is perverse.

Point number 5. “You isolate yourself from others”. I have never really had any friends, I’m not outgoing enough to talk to others, so I just stay alone. But when someone finally starts talking to me, and we have a lot in common. And we end up becoming the best of friends. I start to withdraw; I self sabotage the relationship because I hate myself. Which then makes me hate myself even more because I know I’ve hurt this person. I’ve done this to so many people and I can’t forgive myself for it. I want to apologize, but I don’t want to force myself back into their lives again and bother them. Idk why I’m writing this, I just really hate myself, and I don’t want to get better cause I don’t think that I deserve it. The best I can do is help others in whatever ways I can. I really appreciate Psych’s videos, they’ve made me realize that I’m not the only one that goes through stuff like this.

@maryfields1382

4 күн бұрын

Same - especially the part in the video that used the word "intruding". I isolate because I feel like nobody really wants me around anyway.

Video had me crying at work. I always knew I had some issues with myself and I’m aware of how worse I used to be- but to find out I still have this hatred for myself buried deep down, and to act like it’s not there all this time….its just scary to me. 🤦🏾‍♂️ I know nobody asked, but I wish us all the best of luck on the journey of self-love. We deserve love. We to accept ourselves before we accept anyone else.

"You put on a facade because you hate the real you" I feel called out.

@artstudentwannabe

3 жыл бұрын

same 💀

@fearthetoast

3 жыл бұрын

me too 🥲

@rickshaw6271

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it stings.

@nickfolio34

3 жыл бұрын

its at69 likes let me ruin it

@freckles3100

3 жыл бұрын

Same

Okay, KZread, it’s starting to get personal now.

@gargiraj77

3 жыл бұрын

Incredibly personal

@peepuwu2354

3 жыл бұрын

too personal 😭

@its_mya1267

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed, but I don’t mind lol

@dimbxr

3 жыл бұрын

unbelievably personal, youtube.

@artiv117

3 жыл бұрын

So its true that you all got on recommended?

Whole video is like someone has been following me taking notes about my life

@karyne826

6 күн бұрын

Me too

@TJ-sy9is

2 күн бұрын

Me to

After a year in therapy, I really feel like I am healing from all this. It hasn't been easy, but it has been an amazing journey of self-discovery. Whoever recognises themselves in this video, I wholeheartedly recommend therapy, or self-help, that is so easily available online. ❤❤❤

the worst part is that I am 100% self-aware of all these things, yet I still do nothing about it.

@applesource8261

3 жыл бұрын

And I will get annoyed when someone tells me that I may have a problem or even gives me suggestions on how to get better. And I am 100% aware that this reaction makes absolutely no sense. Maybe thats just another symptom we have.

@harper6032

3 жыл бұрын

It's like you hate yourself so much you don't feel like you deserve to get better, so you don't try to get better. But at the same time, you feel awful and want to get better, but you did this to yourself anyway so you deserve the suffering, and on and on and on goes the never ending cycle of hell

@mirkohoble

3 жыл бұрын

@@harper6032 jajaj yes, that's exactly the whole problem!

@Mansi_19

3 жыл бұрын

Same story Bro😶😶

@noimdirt

3 жыл бұрын

Same, like it says in the video I feel like I don't deserve happiness sooooo

It’s not a coincidence that this was recommended to me.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

indeed.

@islandboybry

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go 😂😂

@omokaede

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@mariomaster101official

3 жыл бұрын

Here before this comment gets 1K likes

@bibule

3 жыл бұрын

I just got the notification

These signs explained exactly what I feel, for a long time I never liked myself, I started to hate myself more and more as time went by, it is extremely difficult for me to be satisfied with what I do, I keep comparing myself to other people and wishing I wasn't the way I am, I'm also insecure, I tend to think that the people who talk to me or who interact with me don't like my presence, and that at some point I'll be discarded, I also think that they keep criticizing me , I always self-sabotage some of the things I plan to do and I tend to isolate myself from everything, and when it comes to the artistic side, I have times when I think about giving up drawing, because I tend to think it won't lead to anything in my life. It's a horrible feeling that I still feel to this day, honestly.

Not so long ago I would relate to this video in so many ways, now after a lot of healing I’m tearing up realising I don’t have many symptoms of self hatred. I know I’m getting better and I want to sob knowing that.

7 Signs you hate yourself. This video is recommended to you.

@EltonLovesPeople

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

KZread needs to do a better job!

@EltonLovesPeople

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go yeAh-

@DY2727

3 жыл бұрын

😂😭

@pinktasticgir1

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I've learned a lot. Thank you

*Me who watches it anyway despite fully knowing how much I hate myself:* Just making sure- (Edit: I never realized I resonated with so many people, lol. I hope you're all doing well to do better and wish you good luck. Be nice to people and, well, live laugh love.)

@taehyplant4160

3 жыл бұрын

i hope you're better now!

@nowie4007

3 жыл бұрын

i wish life would get better for us!

@taehyplant4160

3 жыл бұрын

@@nowie4007 we all wish that 🥶 but it gets better!

@asvuksi42

3 жыл бұрын

Same lol, and there is literally no way to overcome this because it's a paradoxical situation where it's impossible to not want to hate yourself when you already hate yourself.

@taehyplant4160

3 жыл бұрын

@@asvuksi42 yea

I’ve never been able to take a compliment . Every time someone compliments me or my work, It weirds me out and makes me think that I don’t deserve it.

Don't need signs, I already know i genuinely hate myself

I didn’t need a sign that I hate myself. This is just the cherry on top

@Finalizor

3 жыл бұрын

same lol........*crys*

@francescaa8331

3 жыл бұрын

You already know what's going on. Learning to love yourself can be a project, but it's worth it, hope you can find some good advice here on KZread.

@Yourhopelessbookworm

3 жыл бұрын

Ahahaha can relate

@Finalizor

3 жыл бұрын

@•Honey Potter• thx lol

@lavstoybox

3 жыл бұрын

@•Honey Potter• Nagitoe but actually •Honey Potter•.. I like it.

to summarize: 7 signs you may be suffering from self-loathing 1. you tear yourself down 2. you feel insecure around others 3. you neglect your self-care 4. you don’t let yourself be happy 5. you isolate yourself from others 6. you put on a facade for others 7. you’re afraid to dream big

@riarising8630

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@ambursugar

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@resilententity470

3 жыл бұрын

o shizz 5/7 definite yes's. At least on auto mode

@alienishere002

3 жыл бұрын

3, 4, & 5. I don't trust people.

@somerandombug69isbusy20

3 жыл бұрын

Lol how’d you know what’s on my resume

This is 3 years ago, i know.. but this might actually help me so much.. i mean i feel like i *can* Improve. I feel like i have a chance! That it’s still not time to give up.. i get it that alot of things happen in life, and this is a part of life! But life doesn’t always have to be good all the time or bad all the time-this is also a message for you to learn to love yourself, not survive! But live.

i love these videos because a lot of the time they actually discourage me, because it shows i actually don't hate myself, i just am ugly and stupid. love the videos though, keep up the great work!

“She hates her life, not because it was bad but because when you hate your mind and your body it’s hard to enjoy the rest” :/

@sarau2034

3 жыл бұрын

euphoria😭❤️

@cadence4674

3 жыл бұрын

The fact that this is so true-

@Luffy-Taro

3 жыл бұрын

@@sarau2034 i didnt expect that lmao

@whoswhoo

3 жыл бұрын

But you can change how you think about yourself you can learn to love yourself . Dont compare yourself to others thinking I wish I looked or behaved etc like them .learn to accept yourself that you're ok as you are and start with little steps towards positive change ...

@youmatter8138

3 жыл бұрын

You are beautiful

It's really sad how we can be really supportive with everyone, but harsh with ourselves.

@lenie447

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you like no one knows that from the outside I may smile or look happy but inside I'm crying and just want to die

@mauriciofreitas3384

3 жыл бұрын

@@lenie447 so true

@Finalizor

3 жыл бұрын

i couldn't agree more

@kerayupp

3 жыл бұрын

@@lenie447 this is such facts. And I'm scared to tell my mom

@maxbunting8996

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I just put on a smile and try and make everyone else happy. I don't want them to feel the kind of internal pain I do...

This is genuinely one of the most relatable videos on all of KZread

Watching this was actually sad, but also a sort of relief.. Because I know I used to relate to many of these, but now I relate to less of them.. It gives me hope to know that I have improved, although, not completely. Thank you!!

@Dihydrokodein

4 күн бұрын

Same

I *know* I hate myself, I'm just fact-checking at this point

@sofiamarielsantanadavalos444

3 жыл бұрын

Lol same

@itz_unknown924

3 жыл бұрын

same

@NorielBenMiel

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@kzzra

3 жыл бұрын

same

@death_thatsme2128

3 жыл бұрын

same....🥺💔

This made me realize how far I've come. I've had these behaviors since I was little, it's how I'd survive my parents' way of raising me. I'm trying to get better and (I suppose ironically) I feel like I'm never making progress. This video made me go "I used to do that" but a lot of it I don't do anymore. I explore opportunities, feel accomplished after finishing an artwork, and don't compare myself to others. I'm glad I'm getting better, and I hope others start to feel better too at their own pace.

Thank you i haven't smiled in 9 years i have crippling depression isolated myself from the world when i was four years old this is the truly first time i ever smiled after years of pain years of depression isolation crying but now you have made me realize that i can do anything thank you 💖

i’m straight up embarrassed to around anyone bc i feel like i’m too ugly. i hate when people say nice things ab me bc i feel like they are lying but if someone says something bad about me it lingers with me constantly.

@RottenBegotten

3 жыл бұрын

Same! This girl says I'm cute when I blush and think she's just saying that to tease me. But when someone jokes about my face, I think about it for MONTHS.

@iamagirl9938

3 жыл бұрын

I had this friend I've never fought with, but once I made a joke that made her uncomfortable and for the first time in my life I heard her raise her voice, and I was the only person she yelled at. A part of me knows she is still my friend, but another part is always eating away at me because I did something to make her yell at me when she had never yelled at anybody. A part of me can't stop but think I don't deserve her friendship.

@avennie6356

3 жыл бұрын

Fr everytime I go outside I get so uncomfortable, nervous and very insecure to the point I cant focus and almost got ran over. I appreciate people saying kind things to me but I feel like their only saying this in pity because they feel bad for how bad I am lol.

@Anobluu

3 жыл бұрын

Same...

@chloegilbert6336

3 жыл бұрын

@@iamagirl9938 i bet your friend forgot about that lol we are always so critical on ourselves. sometimes if you think of yourself as a friend you’d be like “oh I would forgive them”. like we are really our own enemies

Me throughout this whole video: “I feel like everyone does that... right?”

@clammqwq

3 жыл бұрын

Same F

@unkownanon3098

3 жыл бұрын

Yes but apparently no

@laylamarin7211

3 жыл бұрын

Same.. i hate myself :/

@chibikenma

3 жыл бұрын

I mean it's pretty normal in our generation but it's not supposed to be

@boxpin8967

3 жыл бұрын

@@chibikenma that’s true. A lot of people (not all) do feel these ways because of things like school or work

I've been watching a lot of your videos and a lot of the negative stuff really explains why I've been feeling this way this one is basically everything Ive been feeling and doing for years now

The only thing i hate of myself its when i wake up, go to the bathroom and see the monster i become with the years.

7 signs you hate yourself: 1. you clicked on this video

@moonalpha3169

3 жыл бұрын

Well I guess that's true...

@APXSTUDIO

3 жыл бұрын

I don't "hate" myself I just came to check comment section

@rednetherbrick3178

3 жыл бұрын

Well yes and actually yes

@CoachDavidAdes

3 жыл бұрын

this is your inner critic. it's like a voice in your head (a part of your personality) that wants you to think that you're worthless, no good, bad, wrong, shameful. it wants you to stop existing. it wants you to stop living your life. it comes out especially when you want good things for yourself. it wants you to give up everything good, because again, you're not worth good things. it prevents your "true" self from coming out. your true self is too weak. your true self needs to match the strength of the inner critic so that you can about yourself positively, or at least less negatively. kzread.info/dash/bejne/mJ-MrLd_h8ewdco.html

@crushelnast6657

3 жыл бұрын

How’s you’d guess?!

"You don't sleep well" Me watching this at 2am : this is fine

@shtrki8334

3 жыл бұрын

me watching this at 4 AM: 🙂

@putthatjellyinmybelly9698

3 жыл бұрын

5:33 AM here..

@shtrki8334

3 жыл бұрын

@@putthatjellyinmybelly9698 it's 9 AM now and I didnt sleep all night :)

@meganbowden8651

3 жыл бұрын

i stayed up until 3 watching stuff, then i let my adhd take control, and danced until morning. beautiful.

@architaborah4496

3 жыл бұрын

Its 2:30 here

I don't have any signs of most videos made by this channel and I don't feel anything close to having mental issues, but the character, voice and the animation is so good I have to watch it

All of this could go away but my body chooses to be the loser I hate instead of improving when I ask and provide for it

it all start from clicking this video

@astupidperson3464

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh 1 minute ago

@arcsyn6379

3 жыл бұрын

Your nick is what i use usually lmao

@lock5171

3 жыл бұрын

bruh 6 days ago

@lock5171

3 жыл бұрын

btw legend sy verified people never reply to people in they reply to they comment

@lucifermorningstar3637

3 жыл бұрын

uhh

The weird thing is I get so happy seeing others being confident about themselves and will always go the extra mile to hype people up but I’d never do that for myself

@sawyerkirby8988

3 жыл бұрын

And hello my clone 🤣

@nobodycares3959

3 жыл бұрын

same

@SVT_sleeper_4v

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah that's me right there!

@kingcoins3391

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@fxnr1r

3 жыл бұрын

I hated myself. I never wanted to be happy. And I would never change that till I die. I never want to care about myself *FOREVER!*

This video made me cry so much. I can relate to this so much... I hate being like this because I know it tares down everyone around me, but I just can't. I'm trying, but it isn't enough

@mssx2022

2 ай бұрын

Hi ....Be Positive ! Things will change in time.

Watching this again after finally getting better really made me see how much I've improved myself in the span of 2 years. So to anyone that's reading this. Don't give up okay, it sucks right now, i understand, but with some efforts, one day you'll learn to love yourself again. And therapy is good too, i don't think I'll ever get here without them.

1. *"You tear yourself down"* 2. *"You feel insecure around others"* 3. *"You neglect your self-care"* 4. *"You don't let yourself be happy"* 5. *"You isolate yourself from others"* 6. *"You put on a facade for others"* 7. *"You're afraid to dream big"*

@onlyvirly2c

3 жыл бұрын

Great I hate myself.

@sk1ttlz904

3 жыл бұрын

I got everything but 7. Lack of 7 is what started this whole mess.

@onlyvirly2c

3 жыл бұрын

Mine are more of a 1 and 4 type problem

@ethel1011

3 жыл бұрын

Thank u for listing them like i didnt want to watch it again 💕😂😪

@matea443

3 жыл бұрын

I guess i hate my self ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

"you're a pessimist who's quick at finding the negative aspect in every situation." wow. way to call me out.

@breadmixer

3 жыл бұрын

strongly agreed

@gacha-muffin372

3 жыл бұрын

She’s just trying to help..

@theaverageone3809

3 жыл бұрын

Hey it's not our fault this world has sucked since the beginning of time lol

@rexeno

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr

@hidayatkhan412

3 жыл бұрын

i searched for it

Wow this absolutely answered the years of wondering what’s wrong with me..

Every time I play my favorite games I always say the most negative things when I die and I try to have fun but it's always me that makes me cry when I fail my mind fills with negative thoughts

Me: Knowingly hates myself Me: watches this video anyway Me: still hates myself

@yeshalloween

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@luminanightfall4111

3 жыл бұрын

yup.

@unknowncreatures13

3 жыл бұрын

same

@berriechuu3968

3 жыл бұрын

ikr lmao

@djgreg20

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

me, watches "7 Signs You Hate Yourself" already knowing i do: me, after finishing the whole thing: wow, i didnt know i hated myself. i must say, i am surprised.

@jennaabdeljawad9026

3 жыл бұрын

bro same

@julianocean1734

3 жыл бұрын

You must be young? When I was a teenager or in my 20’s I was in denial. When I turned 30 I accepted the fact I deeply hate myself so now I am open about it. It takes time but at some point you accept the truth.

@idkdem8667

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@lordkremit6535

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@pinkfoxboi1331

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly many of these r true for me and I didn't notice and IVe been doing self luv everyday but I guess it'll be a while till I finally luv me

This video made me cry and actually realize I have been suffering from self loathing.I have been doing this for a while now I don’t even know how I feel anymore I tell myself everyday “you can’t do this” “you can try but I won’t believe in you”. I don’t like positive energy or thoughts because I think of how many times I felt discouraged or sadness or even just hating myself to the point where I cry

Thank you for this video. I'm listening to this at 5:00 in the morning because I can't sleep because I'm just tossing and turning. Trying to think of a reason to stop worrying. Hopefully listening to this 100 more times. We'll finally sink through my head a bit. So many things I need to change. But I guess the first step is admitting it and listening to good advice❤

@anxiousandroid

2 ай бұрын

same here at 06.25 i hope you feel better

I'm a weird mix of absolutely hating myself and being totally chill with who I am. It's really freaking weird

@thevilemac8743

3 жыл бұрын

I'm learning self love but I haven't unlearned self hatred. Maybe it's like that?

@beckaronibean

3 жыл бұрын

@@thevilemac8743 I hadn't thought of that. Thank you!!

@despacito2271

3 жыл бұрын

It is man I have bad deeds I've done and regret I can't ever sleep but I accept what I've don't and try to move on but yet I still feel guilty

@Darima2

3 жыл бұрын

Same. I do my own thing and I'm very different for a female in many ways and I like many things about me. I think the occasional self loathing is due to childhood conditioning and not achieving certain societal expectations. It's confusing 🥴

@bffforlifeandafterlife8764

3 жыл бұрын

Yah like I tell people this how I am I'm proud and ashamed at the same time wtf

Anyone else feel tooo damn tired for life? Like even maintaining a small thing as a discussion with someone is draining for me

@diamondeyes1031

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I'm tired of the same routine everyday..

@seanbean5915

3 жыл бұрын

Ive cutted myself too many times,and when i was doing it,i thought i was a attention seeker.

@leonzrihen1682

3 жыл бұрын

I haven’t cried in so long but I really need to and I am tired life and just want it to end

@murtza_6640

3 жыл бұрын

Come speak to me if you have discord. Chickenmaster#4237

@Robot10000

3 жыл бұрын

@@murtza_6640 thank you , you kind soul i dont have discord thugh

Points 4, 5, and 6 really hit. I got chills because they fit me perfectly.

when I am alone I show little to no emotion but with people around I show to much

you know sometimes i wonder how does it feel to be someone who loves themselves and or like genuinely happy

@lasvegaslincoln1769

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@olafgurke4699

3 жыл бұрын

It's a mystery, ain't it?

@DisturbedGeneration

3 жыл бұрын

Pfft. It's about a big a mystery to me, as what's beyond death is to science..

@bedheadren7893

3 жыл бұрын

Oml, same-

@akaiyukihana

3 жыл бұрын

Seen that kinda person tho... They're like a different specie...

I knew I hated myself, but I didn’t know I hated myself to the point where I relate to absolutely every point in this video

@lul3093

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely "hate" myself but I can just cover it up with "Every person might differ from each other but at the end the grave is all we get"

@ruyaki7057

Жыл бұрын

I relate to this video by 80% i hate myself alot :/ but i dont isolate myself

@ilikeice450

Жыл бұрын

Same bro.. Ahahahhaah- sobbing

@arianne1206

Жыл бұрын

Same 😗🤚

@florence.066

Жыл бұрын

relatable

i do every single one of those things, watching this video made me cry. i really need to bring this up with my therapist

@moonknight-ti5kp

10 күн бұрын

sending a hug...

I hate myself so much that I’m eating away at myself and I don’t know how to stop. I don’t take care of myself at all, and it shows to the people around me. I’be come to a point where I truly don’t believe that I shouldn’t be in a relationship because I don’t want to transfer my negativity onto my person. Also, I just don’t want my flaws to be exposed to them. I’m not smart, mathematically-wise. I’ve struggled with mental math ever since I was a kid. I’m 26 now, and still struggle with doing basic arithmetic in my head. I’d hate for my partner to see me struggle with that. It’s already embarrassing when my parents see me try to do mental cartwheels to try and figure out what 56-32 or something like that is on the spot. That’s just an example, because there are many other things I’d rather him not see. I hate how I panic easily during situations where I shouldn’t panic. I hate how selfish I can be without and with knowing. I hate how I don’t even know what I want anymore. Genuinely. I used to be so sure of myself when I was a kid, but now, it’s like my priorities aren’t even there anymore. One day I say that I want something and am so sure of it and then the next day I change my mind as I’ve become a totally different person. It ain’t normal. I hate myself to the highest degree, and I feel that I’ve been In this state for so long that a part of me has made this my comfort state. Like a part of doesn’t wanna leave it. Especially since when I do have a spike of happiness, it’s temporary and then I’m back down again.

Me to my friends: I hate myself Them : oh no you need to love yourself "Well why didn't i think of that"

@lestranged

2 жыл бұрын

you mean you don't have a lightswitch on your skull where you can just flip it and become an entirely different person instantly? oh that's right, no one has that. People love to give simplistic advice for things they have never experienced.

@angeligomu1543

2 жыл бұрын

@@lestranged Tell me about it!!

@user-wt9ti2yn7d

2 жыл бұрын

@@lestranged out of all these languages, this dude choose to speak "facts"

@footballvideos5183

2 жыл бұрын

@@user-wt9ti2yn7d and you chose to speak “copy”

@footballvideos5183

2 жыл бұрын

ok

This entire video really said: “this you?”

@SEHLACE

3 жыл бұрын

My response is: yes.

@darkfame1499

3 жыл бұрын

What's the name of your profile

@Imsomeloner

3 жыл бұрын

Everything except the 7th

@hxneyoats

3 жыл бұрын

@@darkfame1499 it’s “hxneyoats” the hxney part means honey. so just read it as honeyoats. I just thought it would look better with an x. I hope that made sense lol😭

@insertusernamehere8575

3 жыл бұрын

Who dis

Thank you for this video.

Thank you I appreciate you making this video

I literally don’t remember what it feels like to love myself and I’m genuinely curious how people do it

@mikepiccoli6378

2 жыл бұрын

just realized i never have …every time i tried someone called me cocky and made me feel like shit

@jout738

2 жыл бұрын

It feels okay. Loving yourself makes you more intrested to have great sex and love some other people. I dont blame my body for anything, when nothing is my body fault and I dont blame myself also, when to hard situation in life to get was not my fault, when others screamed over me to tell how their always 100% right, so I never myself felt guilty in anything, when I had not any annoying childish prideful personality that made me do something to feel guilty.

@laifyo

2 жыл бұрын

same, like how do you not notice all the flaws in your body or personality and just ignore them- i dont think thats possible

@takestwo8331

2 жыл бұрын

I feel constantly feel like a doormat for everyone’s emotional need. I used to love myself but I don’t know anymore. I just sometimes have strong urge to just die so I don’t have to feel so much all the time

@enjyali3359

2 жыл бұрын

maybe start by complimenting yourself everyday when looking in a mirror. do it even if it feels weird or too egotistical.

i'm not even joking when I say that this video has literally summed up my whole life

@hopefulfox4931

3 жыл бұрын

mine too

@Mar-rg1cq

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@goodmusicman5254

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@damian8267

3 жыл бұрын

Dang

@ClayLud

3 жыл бұрын

I think A LOT of people feel the same way. Hell, ALMOST EVERYBODY, if we were to truly admit it. That's why life is such a challenge my friend.

This whole video was 💯 accurate on every point of how I feel and see myself 💔

This video is so spot on.😢

"I'm a blackbelt when I'm beating up on myself, but I'm an expert at giving love to somebody else."

@awsomepeep

3 жыл бұрын

This song actually gets me out of my negative mindset. Especially when she says “all the times I went and fucked it up, I wonder if I love me was enough?” It’s so true though! I feel like I self sabotage and tear myself down before I even try but I give everyone my love and support. It’s like “why can’t I take my own advice already??!!”😂😂😂

@dia4805

3 жыл бұрын

@@awsomepeep i know right! i feel like i always give advice, but never use that advice upon myself! 😂😂 i love that song, and i love demi :)

@zayna8517

3 жыл бұрын

No kidding I listened to that song the entirety of Quarantine cuz I related so much lol. My friends tell me that I'm great at giving advice and even if that's true, I suck at taking it. I truly wonder when I love me is enough 😂

@RosheenQuynh

3 жыл бұрын

This is an amazing quote

@dia4805

3 жыл бұрын

@@RosheenQuynh ahaha it's a song lyric from demi levato's song "i love me"!

I hate the fact that I hate myself but I can't do anything about it because I feel like I deserve it.

@pluto3194

3 жыл бұрын

I feel this comment. I hate myself but feel bad that I hate myself, especially if I mention it because I feel like I'm doing it for attention and that I'm not worth worrying about.

@kenemesay

3 жыл бұрын

@@pluto3194 this is why I don't tell anyone about anything about myself

@zulaikhailhamm

3 жыл бұрын

I hate myself and I feel sorry bcs I feel like I’m being unfair to myself. But I think I deserve it. So yeah

@plumpushenchman8871

3 жыл бұрын

@@solux902 Yeah, I feel good about my hatred for myself too...I know that’s bad but who honestly gives a crap?

@sanariyadilman1114

3 жыл бұрын

Hating myself has became so much of a habit it feels normal at this point I do it because everyone has worse and I deserve it Everyone else is more popular than me because they aren't overrated unlike me Everyone else is more talented than me Etc

You know i fit in these all points very well I am crying right now

This video perfectly describes how I feel everyday... I relate to all of these

“What’s going on?” “I’m in this photo and I don’t like it”

@seanbean5915

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing with me,i deleted all of my pics of me on my moms old phone that she gave me

@komadaze

3 жыл бұрын

Litteraly me

@zivakrasna3534

3 жыл бұрын

no, I hate it. Its not just not liking

@smilemar8272

3 жыл бұрын

Same I don't have photos of my self on my camara roll because I always think I look ugly😊

@IntheMOMENT22173

3 жыл бұрын

When I first read this I saw, "I'm a potato and I don't like it" lol

Finally a test even I can get full marks on!

@mitchellbarton7915

2 жыл бұрын

God, this actually made me laugh a little through the tears. I'm glad people with humor like you exist. Thank you.

@vickigoguen9398

2 жыл бұрын

😂. Thanks I needed that.

@kohji_y

2 жыл бұрын

Heads up to the both you above this, shit'll get better for all of us, eventually ♥

@mitchellbarton7915

2 жыл бұрын

@@kohji_y I made the sad mistake to give up hope and it led me down a dark path. I'm still slowly working on myself and piecing things together. I don't have all the answers, but at least with the internet; it's up, it's up forever. There will be that mark for everyone to see we tried. We can slowly become the majority of true empaths and see a world where no one will be misunderstood. Even if I fade into obscurity afterward, I can rest knowing I either helped ignite the spark of change; or I died trying.

@coloradostatesenatorsteven7443

2 жыл бұрын

@@mitchellbarton7915 pathetic

This video was a punch in the gut. This described exactly how I've been feeling lately...

Hey thank you these videos have helped me so much

Me: *definitely hates myself * Also me: Hey, let's watch this and feel called out AF

@ctslss7672

3 жыл бұрын

Damn straight

@ishika.r

3 жыл бұрын

samee

@blackclover3360

3 жыл бұрын

So true

@tylerl4768

3 жыл бұрын

Right like this video Is just the epitome of calling us out

@sapphiresworld6327

3 жыл бұрын

Same

As my Mother would say "It's all in your head, now stop crying and get a job"

@truches7509

3 жыл бұрын

Now I can relate. My mom never said anything like that to me, but my him(he doesn't deserve a title like that) always asked me: hey jay what happened? U looked so cute when u were young and now ur this.... Like if he hated how I looked. Or hated how I did my hair. He'd even yell at me to stop crying when he yelled. Like thats what a kids gonna do cry.

@xeno_christ_blackout

3 жыл бұрын

Just start listening to $uicideboy$ and spam her facebook with their lyrics and see how she reacts.

@chriswright1825

3 жыл бұрын

Dude, I internally tell myself that, I sent my problems because I don't want to face them

@whateverhappenshappens.5525

3 жыл бұрын

I have a job and I’m still crying

@SnowtrooperTW-5102

3 жыл бұрын

@@whateverhappenshappens.5525 At least you're a Jedi...

Yeah i started to self loathe after being bullied in elementary,middle and highschool. By the time i got to college i was so interverted and kept to myself i found the world to be scary and hurtful. im not good at speaking to strangers i dont know. And its slowly killing me inside from the isolation ive created for myself. Im almost 30 and havent even been on a date cause i dont think im good enough.

Hating yourself is just motivacion for becoming who you want to be

"7 signs you hate yourself" 1) The KZread Algorithm knows

@aaryhanasingh

3 жыл бұрын

literally lol

@CoachDavidAdes

3 жыл бұрын

this is your inner critic. it's like a voice in your head (a part of your personality) that wants you to think that you're worthless, no good, bad, wrong, shameful. it wants you to stop existing. it wants you to stop living your life. it comes out especially when you want good things for yourself. it wants you to give up everything good, because again, you're not worth good things. it prevents your "true" self from coming out. your true self is too weak. your true self needs to match the strength of the inner critic so that you can about yourself positively, or at least less negatively. kzread.info/dash/bejne/mJ-MrLd_h8ewdco.html

@entertainmint3030

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@Hubba_Hubba9

3 жыл бұрын

It has become know

@ThePooper_

3 жыл бұрын

I gotta keep my eye out for these peoples watching me play among us

It’s like what they always say: “you can’t kill what’s already dead”

@Michelle_Zeus003

3 жыл бұрын

FNaF Afton family vibes..

@rainobi5346

3 жыл бұрын

"You can't kill me, I'm already dead inside"

@michellenichols1190

3 жыл бұрын

Aka, my self-esteem

@BlueRGuy

3 жыл бұрын

You can kill a zombie though

@SunLarkBG

3 жыл бұрын

yep

Wow, these are so relatable.

A lot of self hatred is our not liking ourselves

FOR THE PEOPLE WHO JUST WANT THE LIST 1. You tear yourself down - quick to blame yourself, don’t commend yourself, too hard on yourself 2. You feel insecure when around others - you’re constantly comparing yourself to them 3. You neglect your self care 4. You don’t let yourself feel happy - you take others’ criticism to heart but don’t really take compliments 5. You isolate yourself from others - struggle to make friends because you don’t consider yourself good enough to receive love, you believe that your presence is holding them back 6. You put on a face for others - You hate who you are, you wish you were someone else 7. You’re afraid to dream big - it scares you, you think you’ll never be able to achieve them so what’s the point

@rachelsimbhu4383

3 жыл бұрын

You've described me to the T ! Thanks very much !

@paulaliepark2230

3 жыл бұрын

3, 5, 6 that describes me well, and as for 2 I could say half and half

@NAMINE0306

3 жыл бұрын

Yes to all of the above

@_yellow

3 жыл бұрын

_Inwardly harsh, outwardly forgiving_

@aqmareesyaanuar4105

3 жыл бұрын

All of those Match with me!🐻

Whenever I talked to my friends about my problems, I instantly regretted it, because I knew it was uncomfortable for them and I was putting too much pressure on them to help me. I know I'm not good at lifting someone up with my words, so I feel awful for not being able to help them in return.

@alexdaniel5641

2 жыл бұрын

if you need help go talk to your friends, family and people you trust, life can be great and will get even better after the pandemic ends so do not waste it and life have a lot of good experiences and memories that are gonna make you think it was all worth it, a lot of people who tried to end their lives remember that they changed their mind and are happy to be alive, if necessary search for help in the internet and if you can afford it call a therapist "ending your life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem" also do not be shy to call for help

@kennethmeyer3961

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't read all of it but it sounds more to me like you need to rethink who your Friends are if your friends care they care and they want to listen they want to be there to help

@mrdino3050

2 жыл бұрын

@@alexdaniel5641 Some problems aren’t temporary my guy

@mrdino3050

2 жыл бұрын

@@kennethmeyer3961 True

@treble_exists

2 жыл бұрын

Well , I understand that and it's really sad . There r many people out here who support u . If it gets 2 overwhelming, feel free to talk about any of ur problens on these comments 😁

KZread, you have once again blessed me with this on my feed.

@moonknight-ti5kp

3 күн бұрын

sending a hug...

@KaleHayden

3 күн бұрын

@@moonknight-ti5kp thank you :)

@moonknight-ti5kp

3 күн бұрын

@@KaleHayden Of course...❤️

The 7 signs are: 1. You tear yourself down. 2. You feel insecure around others. 3. You neglect your self-care 4. You don't let yourself be happy 5. You isolate yourself from others 6. You put on a facade of your face for others. 7. You are afraid to dream big. ( They gave so many signs..we didn't even see the signs..only swifties can get this 😂) Thanks for the likes ! Also it hurts me to see so many people disliking themselves...just change whatever YOU dislike about yourself..not OTHERS..♥️♥️♥️

@multicreativeartist6579

3 жыл бұрын

All of these are true except 7 because I dream every day of becoming a movie director

@baphometwingsof666

3 жыл бұрын

I have 1,2,5,7.

@NickRHT

3 жыл бұрын

I guess some of us really don't see the signs 🤷‍♂️

@susux9558

3 жыл бұрын

I got 1, sometimes 2 but it's getting way better, 4 (sometimes), 5 sometimes

@feet71

3 жыл бұрын

@@multicreativeartist6579 Same for me. I wanna be an engineer or soccer player but the rest are definitely true for me

This make me confuse: Hate yourself - everyone loves you Being yourself - everyone hates you WTF!!!?

@YAHOQ

3 жыл бұрын

Wait but im both... 🤔

@thermostatlord2205

3 жыл бұрын

This whole world is a contradictory bad joke

@iimimiplayxx8754

3 жыл бұрын

Ppl are just too offensive nowdays and get offended easily. It's annoying if u ask me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

@eternity828

3 жыл бұрын

balance my friend , balance ☯

@clowdyglasses

3 жыл бұрын

@@iimimiplayxx8754 actually literally 1984

I know i kinda hate myself but something that worrys me a little is that i dont wanna improve, like i love hating myself more and more...

Me: **Relates with everything mentioned in the video** Also me: *_"This is fine"_* 🙂

I don't HATE myself, i'm just not comfortable being myself. Edit: I've met life. looked it right in the eye and discovered: Looking in my mirror is hell. To put it in words most people will understand, i hate myself.

@Imln_Sight

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@sylviemichelecwajgenbaum6872

3 жыл бұрын

Oh boy, I probably should not have, but your comment made me laugh. Kind of cute really...not comfortable. Take care.

@just_cattttt1620

3 жыл бұрын

As a trans person, that’s how I feel every day

@thewildhealer541

3 жыл бұрын

@Lis I believe that is derealisation.. You should google that.

@officialy.a.weirdo5868

3 жыл бұрын

Me too I'm close to hating my self