7 Reasons Why We Don't Fight | Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo

Join Kingsley Okonkwo & Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo as they talk about 7 Reasons Why We Don't Fight.
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  • @bettydiana701
    @bettydiana70110 ай бұрын

    I love how when pst Mildren is always allowing pst Kingsley to lead whenever they are holding a conversation together. Submission is so natural for her❤

  • @johnokonkwo9729

    @johnokonkwo9729

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes, she is living what she preaches, she is real, so just doesn't just talk. I think a lot of Nigerian women have a lot to learn from following her life style. She has a way of just letting PK to lead, even when PK ask her to lead, he still has to beg her... She glows both outside and inside

  • @ernestgillam9992

    @ernestgillam9992

    9 ай бұрын

    She actually said in this video that submission was not natural for her but that the Holy Spirit had to help her to learn how to submit to Pst K.

  • @solacecooper
    @solacecooper11 ай бұрын

    Pure truth.. I’m married. We didn’t fight when we were dating and we still do not fight in our marriage. We disagree, we even hurt each other. But there is always a reasonable way we go about it. Thank you PK and PM.

  • @gladysnagumsi
    @gladysnagumsi11 ай бұрын

    Ps Mildred is a whole mood😂😂

  • @yemim8246
    @yemim824611 ай бұрын

    The way you two are smiling at each other❤❤❤

  • @ZillionaireHomeTv
    @ZillionaireHomeTv11 ай бұрын

    Following you both as a single lady helped me and still helping me in my home today. God bless you two.

  • @priencesjoy8376
    @priencesjoy837611 ай бұрын

    The help of the HOLY SPIRIT, submitting to the leading of the HOLY SPIRIT , honoring GOD in marriage, international about not fighting Thank you so much SIR/MA God bless 🙏🏻💞

  • @TheAlphaTimesGlobal
    @TheAlphaTimesGlobal11 ай бұрын

    Pastor Mildred is bright🎉

  • @jessicajohn6172
    @jessicajohn617211 ай бұрын

    Dear Holy spirit, as i pray and work towards being the right woman for my husband, also give me my own man who'd be intentional about making us work! Especially in this era where people easily give up and walk away... Please give me a man who'd stay and work towards making us work peacefully 😢

  • @ugonnanwaiwu2272

    @ugonnanwaiwu2272

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen! This giving up is so common I feel a victim, 😊

  • @biancajanet2199

    @biancajanet2199

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen🙏

  • @jessicajohn6172

    @jessicajohn6172

    11 ай бұрын

    @@ugonnanwaiwu2272 Realizing your mistake is a step to being better...Nice one 👍

  • @ofobuezechidera927

    @ofobuezechidera927

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @Abishaiah

    @Abishaiah

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @anitaocansey9010
    @anitaocansey901011 ай бұрын

    Pastor M’s voice is different 😢 Aunty are you okay? Maybe just my ears but i pray if you’re feeling a bit under the weather, speedy recovery and may you be rejuvenated by the Holy Spirit.

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph11 ай бұрын

    You are like me, I like to find out why things happen to avoid it in the future ❤

  • @herfreedomjourney
    @herfreedomjourney11 ай бұрын

    That listening to the Holy Spirit part should never be taken for granted, because He knows better, it can be truly hard to yield when we believe we are right, but the outcome is always beautiful

  • @yusufmonisola9543

    @yusufmonisola9543

    11 ай бұрын

    Hmmmm, personality aspect, my spouse is always troublesome, even when I decided am not going to fight he will always make it happen except if we don't talk😢

  • @nomthailoetv
    @nomthailoetv11 ай бұрын

    13:10 “Why are you smiling “had me smiling too😅aww😊

  • @nkechiezeala
    @nkechiezeala10 ай бұрын

    This is a whole counselling session in less than an hour!! God bless you P.Kingsley and P.Mildred, may God continually keep you both and your marriage in His embrace in Jesus name. I receive and believe this for my marriage, my marriage would be blissful and bring glory to God and His kingdom in Jesus name, amen.

  • @iweajunwachiamaka5285
    @iweajunwachiamaka528511 ай бұрын

    My mama...always looking beautiful 😍 I love you both ❤❤

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph11 ай бұрын

    Quarrelling can be avoided indeed, thanks for this, as most people are making it look as if quarrel is part of marriage❤

  • @enemuogabriel1650

    @enemuogabriel1650

    11 ай бұрын

    Very educating and Spirit filled

  • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439

    @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439

    11 ай бұрын

    Stms it's semantics. I've seen people disagreeing say they were fighting

  • @oyinomo
    @oyinomo8 ай бұрын

    The point, '2 of us can't be angry at the same time' is soooo valid! You hit the nail on the head.

  • @euniceonu7794
    @euniceonu779411 ай бұрын

    Wonderful ❤

  • @omobolanleadegunwa
    @omobolanleadegunwa11 ай бұрын

    spitting cold hard facts as always!!!! 🙌🙏💪

  • @timelessintel
    @timelessintel11 ай бұрын

    Thank you Jesus for Pastor KM. ❤❤❤❤❤. Too bad some of us easily allow negative influences - bad marriage, bad careers, bad personalities - to show us how to live life when deep down we want and know we can have a peaceful, prosperous, happier life.

  • @proudmom1022
    @proudmom102211 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @jareya
    @jareya11 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video ❤

  • @folababs7442
    @folababs744211 ай бұрын

    The regret word nearly broke mine but God intervened at the 11th hour and the Holy Spirit enlightened me.

  • @emmanuelauwakwe2143
    @emmanuelauwakwe214311 ай бұрын

    This blessed me a lot. ❤️

  • @_adenike
    @_adenike11 ай бұрын

    This has truly blessed me Thank you sir and ma

  • @bolarinwaopafunso584
    @bolarinwaopafunso58411 ай бұрын

    This really blessed me ❤

  • @yemim8246
    @yemim824611 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏 thank you for the prayer

  • @julianahkedienhon6330
    @julianahkedienhon633011 ай бұрын

    Amazing !!! Thank you so much for your wisdom 🙏❤️

  • @chinaelemujunwa1373
    @chinaelemujunwa137311 ай бұрын

    Amen. Blessed by this

  • @veronicabutler5516
    @veronicabutler551611 ай бұрын

    Awesome message thanks guys!!!

  • @lindaabah9826
    @lindaabah982611 ай бұрын

    Powerful message, God bless you

  • @giantonamission
    @giantonamission11 ай бұрын

    God bless you for sharing your wisdom with us!

  • @praiseokechukwu4021
    @praiseokechukwu402111 ай бұрын

    More blessing to your Union pk/mk❤️💯. Thanks for sharing

  • @sylviaamaefuna6132
    @sylviaamaefuna613211 ай бұрын

    This really blessed me, help change my perspective on so many things.

  • @rachelowhonda2913
    @rachelowhonda291311 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Pst K and M

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare11 ай бұрын

    Amazing message ❤

  • @Queen-Abio
    @Queen-Abio11 ай бұрын

    Wow... I pray my husband works on himself early so we can enjoy marriage the way God propose for us.... Because I see prospects in us.

  • @emmanueligbe2203
    @emmanueligbe220311 ай бұрын

    Thank you Pastor K & Pastor M. You both are such a blessing. Gracias!

  • @consistanceplace8031
    @consistanceplace803111 ай бұрын

    Wow. I love this couple. Blessed listening to you both share

  • @truevine2548
    @truevine254811 ай бұрын

    Yes, I was blessed! God bless and keep you ever strong.

  • @unfazed4975
    @unfazed497511 ай бұрын

    Message was a blessing. Thank you Pastors.

  • @edunohemmanuel4479
    @edunohemmanuel447911 ай бұрын

    This is a very nice topic, i have grown up in such a home where my parents are great, they never quarrel for years but hey, there was this one issue that i will never forget although, it ended well... 😂

  • @iyeneomianderson618
    @iyeneomianderson61811 ай бұрын

    Gracias

  • @runderbongfenepsemiki8210
    @runderbongfenepsemiki821011 ай бұрын

    This has blessed and challenged my heart. Thank you all for sharing, Sir and Ma. Amen and Amen

  • @josephineabah9190
    @josephineabah919011 ай бұрын

    my God bless you all

  • @okaforcynthia5166
    @okaforcynthia516611 ай бұрын

    Thank you once again my marriage mentors...I have learnt alot from your teachings

  • @olasayotomisin5056
    @olasayotomisin505611 ай бұрын

    Thank you PK & PM

  • @munozmunoz1105
    @munozmunoz110511 ай бұрын

    Everything said here is so true.. we must be aware that the fighting action in the relationship, is the evils tool that we must stay away from. Thank you for this important and interesting message 🙏

  • @crystalfaith5834
    @crystalfaith583410 ай бұрын

    Wowww this blessed me

  • @trinityrelationships
    @trinityrelationships11 ай бұрын

    Thank you Sir and Ma

  • @elizabethjatta3638
    @elizabethjatta363811 ай бұрын

    Awesome advice Pst K and Pst Mildred. Thank you 🙏❤️

  • @ofobuezechidera927
    @ofobuezechidera92711 ай бұрын

    I totally agree

  • @OUMOUKONE-kg9in
    @OUMOUKONE-kg9in11 ай бұрын

    Amennnnn! Wow! I'm blessed by that message. Thanks so much Sir and Ma. I really love you and I can't thank enough God through the Holy Spirit, that connected me to your KZread . I'm grateful. God bless you richly in Jesus name!

  • @miracledamian
    @miracledamian11 ай бұрын

    Thank you PK and PM. We are learning

  • @MennieFit
    @MennieFit11 ай бұрын

    Thank you pastors for such an insightful conversation 🙏🏻 God bless you both

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa701711 ай бұрын

    Thank you PK & PM for this instructive message. It's so insightful and informative. 💯🔥🔥📌 God bless you both and keep your home. 🤗♥️♥️♥️ Amen to your prayers!!!! 🙏 🙏

  • @dennisabeks5009
    @dennisabeks500911 ай бұрын

    Love is sweet.. It just to marry right 😢

  • @terhemengabriel9491
    @terhemengabriel949110 ай бұрын

    Thank you PK and PM for this video. ❤❤

  • @ChideSam
    @ChideSam11 ай бұрын

    I love you both❤❤❤❤❤

  • @yusufmonisola9543
    @yusufmonisola954311 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much pastor, God strengthen your ministry more.

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld607211 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing 😊❤ God will continue to keep and strengthen your marriage ❤🎉

  • @GeorginaAmadin
    @GeorginaAmadin11 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed watching this with my husband and we have definitely gained a few things

  • @adewoledamilola9046
    @adewoledamilola904611 ай бұрын

    I’m definitely sharing this with my husband 😊

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor202711 ай бұрын

    This is very instructive God bless you pastor K and pastor M🎉

  • @gracendunge9212
    @gracendunge92127 ай бұрын

    The first time I heard Bishop Oyedepo say that its possible to have a problem free -marriage , I thought to myself how is that possible? Seeing people live this reality proves that marriage is really God's will. Can't wait to get married.

  • @weyibukun3956
    @weyibukun395611 ай бұрын

    Thank you PK & PM. I have learnt so much from both of you ever since I started following you. I believe that, with the help of God and my commitment to put to work all that I have learnt, I am in for a hitch free marriage. God bless you for constantly being a blessing.

  • @boseakinlade4518
    @boseakinlade451811 ай бұрын

    Very insightful and impactful. Thank you sir and ma ❤. God bless you richly

  • @Victory2012.
    @Victory2012.11 ай бұрын

    Amen 😇

  • @adwoaaidoo5656
    @adwoaaidoo565611 ай бұрын

    I tap into ur blessed marriage….u guys are very intentional about things

  • @nwakamaryrose6901
    @nwakamaryrose690111 ай бұрын

    This really blessed me. Thank you so much My pastor. I've made the decision tonight, I must have a fight-free relationship. Thank you so much

  • @ChiamakaOkonkwo-np4yy
    @ChiamakaOkonkwo-np4yy4 ай бұрын

    Am giving this a 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @susaneguasa4500
    @susaneguasa450011 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @willietreasure5249
    @willietreasure52498 ай бұрын

    This blessed me🙏 .. thank you PK and Pastor M❤❤❤

  • @paikieghaebiowei5855
    @paikieghaebiowei585510 ай бұрын

    I really enjoyed watching this video.. it is so funny and refreshing. Pls Pastor K and wifey should do more videos together

  • @teddysteady19
    @teddysteady199 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @veraokereafor5335
    @veraokereafor533511 ай бұрын

    I believe you guys joor

  • @sandrasamuel9286
    @sandrasamuel928611 ай бұрын

    Please im in Port Harcourt, i wish i relocated to Lagos

  • @dennisabeks5009
    @dennisabeks500911 ай бұрын

    I love how Pastor M looks at are Man

  • @brightsekoni
    @brightsekoni11 ай бұрын

    Yayyyy

  • @goFootballgeek
    @goFootballgeek11 ай бұрын

    I pray that God prepares your life partner to be just as he is currently preparing you so you both will both be on the same page of growth and happy to be together🙏.

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph11 ай бұрын

    When someone marries someone who is not their husband or wife it can be hard to live together in peace❤

  • @okeekpere4134

    @okeekpere4134

    11 ай бұрын

    How do you know..?? When someone is not ur wife or husband after you have been married

  • @modupeolarewaju486

    @modupeolarewaju486

    11 ай бұрын

    I disagree with this point of yours. There's no one man or woman for anyone. A marriage works when two intentional persons want it to work. Some unbelievers have good homes because they follow the principles of marriage. Marriage requires intentionality and commitment.

  • @nifemionatoye1733

    @nifemionatoye1733

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@highroadwithcharity I disagree with you, respectfully. The Samaritan woman simply was living from man to man, and so, the man she was with at the moment ,(based on precedent), was also not her man. God has given man the will to choose good spouses. That is why we have The Holy Spirit. After the fall of Adam, Man has been choosing his own partner. Therefore, we cannot blame God if our marriage fails. As Adam had blamed God saying "It is the woman you gave me who gave me the forbidden fruit." As long the individual serves God and is also a believer who is ready to make the marriage work and you both share similar values and are in agreement. This is what matters. A man "finds" a wife, and he says it is a good thing and obtains favour in God's sight. (God then blesses the union). If we go by your logic that there is someone ordained for each of us, what happens when that person marries another individual, would we be single for life? There would be chaos. There are 100s of thousands of people you can be compatible with in this life, yet if you both are not intentional and do not give optimal commitment in your marriage, it will fail... This is why marriages fail, 2 people who have killed agreement, or one of them has. Ever wondered why some unbelievers have good and happy marriages? Because it is decision, a fight and an agreement, that "this marriage must not fail"....

  • @nifemionatoye1733

    @nifemionatoye1733

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@modupeolarewaju486Yes! This is the truth. You are right. Commitment and intentionality, everyday you wake up, you choose to make your marriage work. Love is a decision. I am married and I've come to this.

  • @Chisom293

    @Chisom293

    11 ай бұрын

    @@highroadwithcharity I kindly disagree with you on this. I believe there is no one person for anyone. Why then do people after they lose their spouse remarry and the marriages still works? Again, if there is one particular person for any one, what are the chances of meeting them out of billions of people on the earth? Marriage is about making choices from start to finish...You choose whom you marry; you choose whether or not to love them despite their shortcomings and choose whether or not to remain faithful and committed to them. I also believe the reason there is no one person for any one is because we marry mostly from our own race and tribe. Imagine that that one person for you is from another race or continent...how would you locate them? I know God directs our steps and orchestrates events but not everyone believes in God and some people who don't believe in God have better marriages than some of us who do believe. So our immediate environment, where we have our education and work usually present as the first places from where we choose our spouses. Also, if you read Matthew 22 from 23 down, a woman could marry another another husband if she loses her husband...The Bible approves of remarriage in the event that one loses their spouse. So there is no one person for anyone. I also think you quoted that passage out of context...Jesus told her that the man with whom she was living was not her husband. He didn't imply they were married and she married a wrong husband. They were not married. They were having a sinful affair.

  • @fodaymtaweh7582
    @fodaymtaweh758211 ай бұрын

    😊

  • @michaelmedubi8273
    @michaelmedubi827310 ай бұрын

    Sometimes you are both clearly tired and sleepy. Hugs. ❤

  • @margaretahogberg6869
    @margaretahogberg686911 ай бұрын

    My fiance and i have tested each other since we started dating on distanse , we have realized we have a bond that nothing can break , so we have stopped argueing about a lot cause we dont need to do that anymore❤

  • @pdoglobaloutreach
    @pdoglobaloutreach9 ай бұрын

    We also didn't fight for over twenty one years and we made up without third parties when we had disagreeable moments. We had checks and balances.

  • @byrnenoel6317
    @byrnenoel631711 ай бұрын

    You can disagree, but you don't have to fight. 1. We are friends 10:39 2. The Holy Spirit 13:29/17:37 3. Honor God 19:47 4. Our Personalities 26:13 5. We are intentional about not fighting (conflict resolution). 30:02 6. Can't be angry at the same time. 34:54 7. We must be mature-- Practice forgiveness, kindness, and encouraging words. 30:18

  • @ndiamanda5653
    @ndiamanda565311 ай бұрын

    Good day PST K and PST M please what is fighting in a relationship? Is it physical fighting or words or...? What is considered fighting

  • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
    @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo143911 ай бұрын

    Backgrounds matter. Some people are raised with fights and quarrels and cursing. So they actually do all these and still believe their marriages are okay

  • @lughanomunyenyembe519
    @lughanomunyenyembe51911 ай бұрын

    How do you encourage a phlegmatic to be driven?

  • @anazodoifunanyac
    @anazodoifunanyac11 ай бұрын

    Your husband's shirt looks good on you.

  • @samuelidowuolorundare1258
    @samuelidowuolorundare125811 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this eye opener @PK and PM... But it is really bad for one person to always let issues slide rather than talk about it that will lead to heated arguments? Which may also lead to an extent where you will start using terrible words on each other... Am asking based on the 11 to 1 research you talked about.

  • @AfiDeSouza-qf6nf
    @AfiDeSouza-qf6nf10 ай бұрын

    Thats right too lazzy to fight.

  • @sandrasamuel9286
    @sandrasamuel928611 ай бұрын

    Pastor Mildred's face has changed alot..Why

  • @metalambano7921

    @metalambano7921

    11 ай бұрын

    It's the hairstyle

  • @Nonjabulo_Malinga
    @Nonjabulo_Malinga11 ай бұрын

    Satan is the enemy

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