Ladies Need To Stop These 10 Things | Kingsley Okonkwo
Join Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo as he speaks to the ladies, he is talking about 10 Right Things Ladies Do At The Wrong TIme.
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Pastor is talking to me directly. I am 34 and still not married. I have learned a lot from this. I have done almost all the mentioned points. God is ready to give me a new life.
@Dee.nmaaaa
9 ай бұрын
Gloryeee🙌🏽🎊🎉
@Ayimifaithful
9 ай бұрын
Amen
@eunice9574
9 ай бұрын
I hear you sis, we're going to be alright ❤
@adegokeoluwaferanmi1776
9 ай бұрын
@@eunice9574Amen
@dzahbertha9573
9 ай бұрын
Sometimes being single @ 34 seem scary and disappointing but trust me we will be fine. Our most concern should be that we will be focus and dependent on God that we may not loose ourself worths and become miserable at @60 , but rather we put ourselves together in the word and do exploit in other areas of life and at 60 we will not look back and regret 360. At least something to be grateful for and something to be known for. A lasting impact on others. It’s overwhelming sometimes trust me but we should not regret 360.
I was like this before😭 I was always praying to date this guy( I fasted and prayed even sowed seed) for a guy that doesn’t know me. Fast forward to 2023 God finally answered my prayers and i and this guy started talking and we went on a date😂 after the first date😂 I understood why God took a long time to answer my prayers( he was trying to protect me) anyways I blocked this guy everywhere and I prayed to God to never make us cross-paths again 😂. These days I don’t even pray about a particular guy again😂 if it works toor if it doesn’t toor😂 let me not bring misfortunes to myself. God is always protecting us. He sees what we don’t see❤
@ahoneveda2191
9 ай бұрын
😂
@vuyokazindungane4270
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂most of us women believe that we can make a man love us with prayers
@lilianifebueme2171
9 ай бұрын
😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃😃
@FavourChidinma1
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@eunice9574
9 ай бұрын
😂 the biggest testimony is "what I used today I don't do it again"
Ladies, don't leave your career or location for the sake of a guy who has not married you because if the guy leaves you for another woman, you might become loveless, jobless, and hopeless. 🙂
@ChefPrudy
9 ай бұрын
Pk destroyed all tables 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nwaokikegrace
9 ай бұрын
😂
@helenfanuku9112
9 ай бұрын
You're right
@nca4794
9 ай бұрын
I would say homeless, not hopeless.
@AnnieKatenje
9 ай бұрын
Words🔥
No real MAN that loves you in relationship or courtship will put you in a position where it is unclear where you stand
@Ayimifaithful
9 ай бұрын
The Holy Spirit thought me this somedays ago
@pagieshalom5551
9 ай бұрын
This is so true😅
@uzoma_may
9 ай бұрын
Exactly
@ewurabynahowusuah986
9 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@gertrudemensah2607
9 ай бұрын
😂 very true the part that weak me more was when he said you will be fighting and fighting till they pour acid on you and disfigure you. A man that never loved you even when your face was intact how much more when you are disfigured? 😅 am happy I watched the video to the end tho full of wisdom.
I just don't know why good people, both men and women, have difficulty finding true love. God, please help us who are in this situation and bless us with the right person. Thanks for the video, sir.
@ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
9 ай бұрын
Some virgins were foolish
@chiamakaobodozie2741
9 ай бұрын
Thank you, sir. I've added to my knowledge bank. I now have things to what out for. God bless you, sir. I'll be expecting the next video.
@jeniffernjerinjoroge1261
9 ай бұрын
This is an eye opener...much love from Kenya
@helenfanuku9112
9 ай бұрын
Asked that again
@gabriellaagyarko4154
9 ай бұрын
This hits so hard yet so factual. The good people in life seem to get the short end of the stick often than not but I guess life isn’t created for us to be sorrowful all time
SUMMARY: 1. Praying for a stressful man (a man that"s not interested in you) to change. 2. Staying no matter what (having a do-or-die mentality). 3. Wild sex (sex before marriage). 4. Leaving your church for his. 5. Changing your career path or location because of him. 6. Giving him your money. This should be in marriage and not in relationship or dating. Keep your money aside, it makes breakup easy. 7. Total submission. You're still under your parents authority not his. Submission is specifically for wives in marriage. 8. Overfamiliarity with In-laws (overly jovial, overly playful). Properly conduct yourself. 9. Learn to call out what you can't and don't accept before marriage. 10. Fighting for love. You can't fight for relationship or dating. You can fight for your marriage but not fighting for your place during dating and relationship. Thank You Pastor Kingsley!❤
@virginiechristinemangaonan3012
8 ай бұрын
Thanks to you
I'm almost 40 yet single and significant. Hopefully I'll get married according to God's original plan soon🙏 Thanks Ps Kingsley
@eunice9574
9 ай бұрын
Soon, God is faithful my sister
@ogeobianuju
9 ай бұрын
AMEN
@Canie-chronicle24
9 ай бұрын
Amen this year will not come to an end without us meeting our significant others in Jesus name amen
@SandraOkafor-rc6xh
9 ай бұрын
Amen
It means see finish 😁 oyinbo is familiarity breeds contempt
This is a timely message for I have struggled with accepting when someone doesn't want me thank you holy spirit I needed this word as I prepare to enter courtship
I can't even pray for any guy. God thank you for not answering my prayer and opening my eyes quite early, I for don see shege by now
Women who married good men are still struggling, yet some women want to marry a man who doesnt want them. 😢😢😢😢😢
@carolinenjoroge1195
9 ай бұрын
Imagine that
@utibe-chantal
9 ай бұрын
That's so sad May God help us ladies and give us wisdom
@ghanaina12
9 ай бұрын
May the Lord dorect our paths!
@paulzerina
9 ай бұрын
It's a serious matter!
I really couldn’t keep a straight face while watching this video. Pastor Kingsley is too funny 😂
PK really be making me laugh today 😂......... "now you're jobless, loveless and hopeless"😂😂......Deep, real stuff here. Thank you Pastor
@Dee.nmaaaa
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 she lost on every side😂😭
@Beautebysb
9 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@oyinao3600
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
God bless you sir, your massage makes me cry 😭 bcos this was my character and I thought I was doing the best I did know I am doing the wrong thing at the right time, God bless you sir, How wish you can come to Delta state and preach for us, how wish I have the the money to invite you, I would have loved to bring you to Delta state, Sapele
This blessed me even as a guy. Thank you for sharing sir. More grace and glory.
I did change my location without any proper plan, all what the guy said, he changed. Finally we didn't get married and I was jobless, loveless,hopeless,etc just as PK said. Thank pastor K
I love what he said at 16:04. Don’t do things that show you don’t have authority figures in your life. You need to be accountable to someone. When you’re 21 and you’re already moving into your boyfriend’s house; or you get pregnant by someone who your parents haven’t even met talk more of marriage, it just shows you lack accountability to someone. It makes you look cheap. Isn’t there someone in your family that you respect to the point that you won’t do foolish things?
Wow this is awesome I'm a victim of almost all but with this now I must be a change person God bless you man of God 🙏
Yes sir. If there are women who are fighting for their man before marriage, then the winner is still the loser 🙌🏽
Please lecture the single men that their girlfriend's body doesn't belong to them while dating/ courtship. Please let's encourage the men not to be pressuring young ladies to head to bed before they can decide if they want to marry. It's a very sad state of affairs, what some of these men do to innocent ladies during courtship, taking advantage of innocent young ladies. Smh.
@oluwatobiayomide389
8 ай бұрын
LADIES SHOULD STOP BEING NAIVE TOO. CHOOSE TO HONOUR GOD!
I think the most important is for us ladies to learn how to control and put our emotions in check. And also to be able to flee from anything that can and will stir up our emotions
Hmmm pastor k ,did you hear my prayers to God😂. I literally have let go today before I turn my Bible to charm 😂. Thanks so much sir for your words today ,some hard decisions was made after this video . God bless you sir .
When you have an IDOL in your heart you already set yourself up for disaster
I learnt this one with you, sir. Another right thing that ladies do at the wrong time is giving husband benefits ( cooking, washing, cleaning....)to a boy friend.
@Tomiwa101
9 ай бұрын
Same thing goes for men who spend on their girlfriends.
@chiomamadueke5618
8 ай бұрын
🤣I'm speechless@@Tomiwa101 .
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂..."what can separate me from the love of Bode" 😂😂😂😂😂😂....my ribs
@emareesther3341
9 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
Pastor K 😂😂😂 Thank you for always giving value and making it very fun at the same time🙌
This is for me right there
Thank GOD for your life Pastor K
Wowwww I'm humbled
Powerful ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much
Thank you PK
Thank you Holy Spirit
God bless you Sir 🙏
You are a blessing sir 🙏
Thanks pastor
Very beautiful piece thanks sir
God bless you pastor k...
Great job PK👍, more grace 🙏
Thank you so much for this !!!
I need to save this
God help us to love ourselves enough, to allow ourselves to be loved 🤍🙏🏼
Thank you sir
Thank you so much. This came at the right time . This was tailored for me
Thank you sir ✍️
Many thanks for sharing Pastor
Powerful message!!! Thank you sir.
Thank you so much sir... God bless you 💯
Very powerful message. Thank you
A powerful marriage lesson for all indeed.
Wow informative indeed.Thank you pastor K
10 solid points.
I so wish they would hear!! these points are so valid and realistic in our society now.
Timely message for us young ladies. Thank you Sir
Thank you pastor k
Thank you so much pastor🙏
Thank you sir ✨🙏
Im whole with this topic
thank you PK
Pastor K. Thank you for this ❤️
Excellent teaching. Thank you!
Thank you Pastor 🙏
Great points. Thank you sir. All points are correct.
Thank you so much sir for always giving back to the world at large
Thanks God for ur life PK 🙏
Wise words coming from a wise pastor🫡❤️
God bless you pastor
Thank youbso much.🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thanks so much for this Pastor K ❤
May the lord blessed you Pastor k this message is so timely and in season I trust everyone is blessed as I'm.
Thank you Pastor sir, your messages have made a huge impact in my life. I love you sir
Thanks pastor K for this insight
Your are a blessing to this generation, may God give you more grace
😂😂😂 Your sense of humor is top notch sir
Thank you sir for this
You are so on point Sir... The madness and witchcraft needs to stop!
@ogeobianuju
9 ай бұрын
😂Funny but it's true.
@FavourChidinma1
9 ай бұрын
As in
Thanks pastor k
Thank you so much, PK for this timely information.
God bless you Pastor K. Many thanks for the enlightenment.
I needed to hear this! Thank you
Thank God i chanced on this at the right time. God bless you for letting me know
God richly bless you PK🎉
Thank you pastor k. You are indeed the best
Thank you sir 🙌😢❤
Well said 👏👏👏
This blessed me! Thank you sir!
Thank you Pastor Kingsley Sir. You are talking about practical things that some of us women do which put us in a very compromising position whereas we are still single.
I am here on time... An hour to posting 😊😊😊
This was full of so much wisdom and so hilarious at the same time. I feel like I was listening to a wise uncle lol
Soo much humour and power 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 My God
Thank you so much PK. I have learnt a lot from this teaching. God will help me and have mercy on me.
Thank you Pastor
Ps K your sense of humour is top notch! Thank you sir I have learnt alot
Thank you so very much,, for this talk Following for more enlightenment 🎉
Absolutely loved these points😂👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley😊
I am super blessed by this words
Thanks to God for this message I come across
Praying 🙏
Thank you PK,very informative & insightful... awesome 👏