This pastor is so real... The pain of divorce is the reason God hates it. He doesn't us to have to go through it

@Habest-luv

7 ай бұрын

Presently going thru this... it hurts really and the fact that the kid we ask you my daddy have go to church... But what is more painful is when you hear later another story that was not it, how they will lie up against you... Well God dey

@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood

7 ай бұрын

​@@Habest-luv so true. All these stories will be resolved on judgement day and that is the only day we will know the full truth. This is how I have my peace.

@lucasmaryanne6974

6 ай бұрын

You can day that again. It takes a lot to make the person whole, that is, if the person is willing to cooperate with God. Otherwise ba, the wound will putrefy.

I hope his first daughter and son watch this! And we pray for reconciliation and healing

@victoriaijeomalekwa1615

7 ай бұрын

Amen

@justarandomgirl129

7 ай бұрын

Amen and Amen

@florencedele

7 ай бұрын

Amen

@marthachy9418

7 ай бұрын

Amen

@MrsGiant

7 ай бұрын

I pray so too oo, they really need to find their father, I feel so emotional hearing his side.

😢pko knows so much about marriage but throughout this series, he's been more on the listening side. That alone speaks to his wisdom❤

@Stageyuliamultimedia

7 ай бұрын

@efa-eval you are very correct but don't let's forget that it is an interview session. PKO interviewing POE😊😊😊...

@kemistrykemidada9256

7 ай бұрын

Exactly my thoughts. His listening skills is top notch.

@enochnanakwesigregg5329

7 ай бұрын

And he hasn’t been divorced before. He’s learning like all of us.

@PrinceDennisWoruka

7 ай бұрын

Pastor K is blessed with wisdom

@sandraokonkwo900

7 ай бұрын

​@@kemistrykemidada9256exactly

No matter how bad a spouse was to you, never deprive them of seeing their kids!!

@firstchoice307

7 ай бұрын

Yes!Never.It makes the situation worse

@ladeneganolukayodeakinjide5539

7 ай бұрын

What if that Ex-spouse is known to be diabolic, and you have a sense of duty to protect your children from getting entangled in their dark arts, so you would permit such a person to destroy their lives?

@hnbala41

7 ай бұрын

Thank you both, it is so deep and informative. God richly bless you

@iamwoleojo

7 ай бұрын

Women are to usually too bitter to listen to that, even though they are at faults

@blessok77

7 ай бұрын

The girl needs you oooo

I have been sobbing listening to this man of God. He went through all these and he is still standing. God will restore you. Your children will reconnect with you very soon I pray IJN

@philipjoshuak.4828

7 ай бұрын

Amen

@adebolajaiye-ojo9813

7 ай бұрын

And may the wife be healed, in Jesus name

@ngoalvankay844

7 ай бұрын

It's heart breaking

@ehi2283

7 ай бұрын

Have you heard the side of his wife? It takes two and never judge a book by its cover. No matter what, let the word of God prevail.

@josephloadedman545

7 ай бұрын

​@ehi2283 you heard him say he gave his people her number, told them where she was at the time and asked them to go and do their investigations siting that what he said was his side of the story

There's no problem we can not solve except the problem we can not discuss 👌

@GbemisolaOluwasina

5 күн бұрын

Kai

I'm in tears now, people go through a lot in the name of marriage,Lord please help me not to make mistakes in marriage 🙏😭

Pst Kingsley is Igbo,Pst Olumide is Yoruba but they all sat down together in unity and in love because of one purpose,vision and agenda to foster unity love,empathy to humanity and mankind.For the purpose of their coming together no one said your Igbo your Yoruba and 'im sure at that point in time none of them even remembered where they came from,what they had in mind was the sense of urgency to relate with themselves and with others..Bible says how wonderful it is for brethren to dwell amongst one another.Nigeria is great and has great people.Each and every tribe is beautiful and our unity in diversity is Power but until we can come to the point of understanding that we may not become a formidable force as we ought to.Everyone on this platform is Great,remember that.I'm from the North and i love both of them so much they have been a great blessing to me.Great video.Thank you very much.

Man of God your children are coming back to you especially your son

One of the hardest thing to do for most people who are in the business of talking; is interviewing - the urge to ask & sit back is tough, Pastor Kingsley does a fine job of that 👏🏿

A divorce is like an amputation, you survive but there's less of you - Margaret Atwood

Pastor K is such a good listener and conversationalist, no wonder PM likes him

@msfubby9372

7 ай бұрын

Yeah.. I noticed that too. He didn't interject at all.. or tell his own story

@peterillah7944

7 ай бұрын

I love them both. Great men of God.

@eunicenjeru215

7 ай бұрын

Counselors have to learn to listen!

@teamsugarcopsTV

3 ай бұрын

Who is pm? His wife?

@darlingtonanele6403

3 ай бұрын

​@@teamsugarcopsTVPM is Pastor Mildred

Pastor K displayed a vital skill in this recording, The Art of Listening. He knows so much yet he listens with such focus. It's not cosmetic, it's real. Gid bless you P.K,

How to move on: 1. Be healed and it takes a while 2. Find out what went wrong. What mistake did you do? What lessons did you learn? 3. When you meet someone, be open, transparent, full disclosure with them. Investigate each other, ask the right/relevant questions. Help each other heal from past hurts 4. Don't compare your past with your present. Know each other together because everyone you marry came with their own baggage. So enter by faith. 5. Commit to make it work 6. Pray to marry the right person Marrying a divorcee: 1. See things from their own lens 2. Recognize they have a baggage. Are you ready for all the stigma and all? 3. Have mature mentors 4. Use the wisdom of God to strengthen others How can we reduce level of divorce: 1. Premarital counseling. Churches should have in house facilities. Help your parishioners to prepare for marriage. You can't manufacture the weapons of war on the battle field. Have post marriage training for couples (Marriage Enrichment program) 2. Ensure genuine salvation, discipleship st church level because many in church are not transformed

I am once a member of CBC,so i witness some of this things and i was in dat meeting when he announced d divorce,and i can say that pastor olumide is real,may God continue to uphold and bring back his children

Please share this video. Let it go viral. People who know the children hear this message

There is no problem we can’t solve, except the problem we cannot discuss 🔑🔑🔑

@omosowonloveth3948

3 ай бұрын

I take inspiration from Pastor Jerry’s marital story. Well what do I know, only he who wears the shoes knows where it pinches

This man is an incurable fun abi comedian. Still cracking jokes despite all he's been thru. E pele man of God, it is well with you

Praying for reconciliation with the kids 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I often say even if your husband is a bad husband to you; he deserves every right to be a good father to your kids. Don’t punish your children by denying them access to their father. It is a seed that will come back to haunt you!

@rosekwasi3824

6 ай бұрын

Amen

I wish Pastor K could bring this subject of adult having IVF for children without father. It is a trend now. A lot of woman waited waited and waited no husband. So there are creating their own family.

I pray Pastor Olumide’s children reconnect back to him, he really needs them , I’ve learnt a lot from this conversation

@ogunnsomoniyi4049

7 ай бұрын

Amen and amen 🙏

@stolives1159

7 ай бұрын

Amen!!!

@oseamagbewan9648

5 ай бұрын

Amen... God Will work things out in due time..

@oluwaseyiighereje5743

4 ай бұрын

Amen

Pastor Olumide is anointed!

Please Pastors, also do something on widows and widowers. The difficulties they face in having partners for marriage, how they manage sexual ouches etc

I pray that elohim will arrest your children wherever they are with this series, to reach out for you Bishop olumide in Jesus mighty name AMEN 🙏. Thank you Pk and Bishop for this series.

Thank you so much sir for being vulnerable enough to show us your scars🙏🏾 May the good Lord restore you on EVERY SIDE🙏🏾

Pastor K’s facial expression is like “God have mercy….divorce shall not be my portion”

@auntietee

7 ай бұрын

Amen oh

@AderemiAdebowale-kl4ze

7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂how you take know now from ordinary facial expressions.

@SomaPrecious

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@teamsugarcopsTV

3 ай бұрын

Hehehehe

@chipsyeguae5562

2 ай бұрын

😅😅😅😅 Amen

The pastor is a strong man, God will reward you for your faithfulness.

"People are not really transformed"...if we were, no body will tell us to do certain things..I couldn't agree more

Most people in church are not born àgain! You're right sir.

Pastor K is amazing, he allowed the man to talk and listened all through

Infact the world need to hear this Man of God😢

The pain of Divorce is bigger than divorce.

These are healing messages. They have blessed me because I have been divorced and would not wish it on anyone. Thanks so much for the work you do. ❤

No matter what happened between the husband and wife no one should keep the children away from the other. Keep your issues aside and let the children see their other parent.

O my GOD 😢😢. Father let Pastor reunite with his children again

I saw this happen to so many people around me when i was single and my only prayer for marriage became "GOD HAVE MERCY" .....thank You LORD for your MERCY and the PEACE i have in my marriage. If you jam Mad Man or Woman ehnnnnn‼️‼️‼️‼️ hmmmmm

I'm on the verge of divorcing as at today, but this episode really made me understands more on the dangers aftermath. I really hope my spouse's heart is turned to flesh.

@elinaonomuophu1148

7 ай бұрын

Amen...I would be in prayers with you

@oyewaleolatunde326

7 ай бұрын

@@elinaonomuophu1148 Thanks for this, She's so hard hearted to listen to Counsel and guidance.

@osindeindeemmanuel9112

7 ай бұрын

Amen🙏

@OnyinyechiAchodor

7 ай бұрын

Amen

@elinaonomuophu1148

7 ай бұрын

@@oyewaleolatunde326 there is nothing too hard for the Lord.

Healing is when you touch a wounded part and it no longer hurt. Healing from a failed marriage or relationship is when you remember them but laugh in response to the thoughts and memories

@jackieomugah4968

7 ай бұрын

It's true. I was in a relationship that failed and it took me about 5 years to heal from it. The journey wasn't easy but God, family and friends walked with me every step of the way. These days, I laugh at the memories...But the most important thing is for one to know where they went wrong because no one is perfect, and learn from it...even though the other person in the relationship was the one who may have caused the relationship to flop.

@obeabayomi5901

7 ай бұрын

That's a whole lot of time... Just that we need prayer and scriptural evidence of the right partner before we allow other games like dating, questions, and introduction to set it. If we can be serious in prayer and the word ministry choosing right at once won't be a problem. Emotion and trend is the challenges relationship and marriage have nowadays.

@israeliseoluwa6704

4 ай бұрын

this is good! I remember my ex now but I laugh and move on! 😊

This is real wisdom for all, I personally remember when an amazing man was asking for my hand in marriage , all was well until he opened up about his previous marriage, I told my mum about it since my dad was late and she was ok with it but said all these things, that if I went ahead to marry him that I have to be prepared for the baggage, I thought about it and finally ended the relationship peacefully 😊

Divorce is one of the most painful experiences in this life. It should be avoided as much as possible!

Great session. Dr Olumide don beat Pastor Kingsley tire as he dey gist. 😂😂😂😂

@SomaPrecious

4 ай бұрын

Aswear 🤣🤣🤣

@abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@joyouscharity

Ай бұрын

😂😂😂 whala

Thank you so much Pst Olumide for your vulnerability. I am putting to action every single point you gave to help me bounce back. May God continue to supply his wisdom and knowledge to you and PK.

@aderonkefalore1393

7 ай бұрын

I can relate with this interview because of my scars. Don't worry pastor, the Lord will deliver them from manipulations and manipulators. if it is not working one should not be bittered to the extent of holding back the children.😢😢😢

Those ignorant people who say,they don't have anything to learn from people divorced, this video is for you...

@jareya

7 ай бұрын

So true

"Wealth is not sexually transmitted " ...wow! Pst Olumide well done!

Papa please try and reunite with your kids... Try reaching out to your ex relatives

This is so powerful.. thank you Pastor Olamide for being vulnerable to share your dark days with us. May the good lord perfect all that concerns you, and continues to strengthen you in Jesus name.

I can't really remember when I started loving and listening to Dr Olumide, he's so real and pragmatic with good emotional stability. Always cool listening to you ❤

It takes a lot to share this part of someone’s life🥹 Thank youuuu so much PK for such a platform🤲 Thank youuuuu so much Dr Olumide. God bless you immensely Sirs and I pray that by God’s supernatural intervention, you are reconciled to your children in the name of Jesus.

This is is really interesting. One big lesson here is that remarriage after divorce is no joke.

This is from God to me. Thank God I stumbled on this.

I wish this could go on. Have listened to each part three times already. Sharing with friends asap

I would love to hear this woman’s version. I give it to Dr Olamide, at the point where he talked about pregnancy, he mentioned perspective…. That from her perspective, his insistence on her going to church while pregnant could have been seen as abuse. That’s a stretch, but could there be other issues he didn’t handle well.That moment made me trust him more. Ppl demonize past partners, many times not intentionally, we protect ourselves naturally. When ppl talk about past relationships, u can almost see horns on the heads of their partners. Marry a kind person. God forbid, if things go bad, a kind ex would be considerate, no matter what.

@histreasure3189

7 ай бұрын

💯...about marrying a kind person!

O LORD of all power and might, we agree as the body of Christ that Your servant’s children will get in touch with him and rekindle their relationship in the name of Jesus.

I’ve thoroughly enjoyed this 3-part series! Learnt soooo much!

These guys are beautiful and very enlightened ….!!…always learn loads

My waiting is over waiting😂😂😂😂 this pastor is shaking very strong tables. Topics that people avoid in the church..make we get sense oooo

@jareya

7 ай бұрын

Honestly… these discussions are so important and we need more of it in the church

Thank you so much Pastor Olumide for not hiding these information from the public, sir, you are a real mentor ❤

Thank you for sharing your marriage journey. After listening to this. I have few points to share. Churches need to have a marriage counselling unit for the married ones. Problems should be discussed in marriage not swept under the carpet. Prayers sessions are good but emotional damage needs to be dealt with continuous counselling sessions until healing takes place. Most Christians marriages are going through tough times and couples are enduring the marriage instead of enjoying it. They are only patching things because of what people will say. Divorce is a very tough decision in marriage and one will live with the scares for life. We need to feed our marriages with the correct ingredients in order to get the expected meal served to us. I pray God gives us the wisdom, knowledge and kindness to feed into our marriages.

This is so amazing, I learnt a lot God bless you sir

Amen Amen Amen. Thanks very much for the uploads

Dr Olumide is such a courageous man. Pastor K is a good listener very mature

@preciouschidubemnwaogu2446

7 ай бұрын

His is a counselor, being a good listener is a major requirement.

The wisdom of the man of God 🔥🔥🔥

God may take you round but he will always lead you right! Word!

Thanks you Sirs for being a blessing. I was blessed.

This is a blessing to the entire world especially the body of Christ.! Full of reality and transparency!

If this man's children are in America,they have really suffered identity crises.I live in America and in sschools kids who don't know their father suffer a lot and most of them are the trouble makers in schools.There is a kind of culture in America that even if a child has a step dad, they stiill don't fit in and they keep saying I don't see my da.Even university students sadly express that emptiness.I wish this video can get to them so that they reconnect with their dad!

I love the flow of diamond discussions

Wow! This is life and intensity and transformative.

God has seen that I will go through this and made you go through it so that I can be strengthen. This is the first time I am listening to marriage seminars since my separation. I didn’t even want to hear anything about marriage. I thank God for this program

Truly a loaded conversation and filled with wisdom.

I am speechless...more Grace Man of God for sharing these deep life lessons.

I have learned so much from listening to both of you

I felt set free by this messages

You cannot manufacture the weapons of war in the battle field! I am enjoying these nuggets. Thanks.

My God !! This 3 parts were so enlightening ✨✨✨ God bless you both

PK thank you Sir and For your guest 🙏 thank you for sharing this.

When you have a message the devil tries to make a mess of your life. Go through it knowing It’s still part of the message. The story will inspire a lot of persons, stop others from making such mistakes and cause healing in the lives of others. God bless you Sir for still standing

@lizbethy8830

7 ай бұрын

I like this, I will like to quote it

@nicolagolding3281

7 ай бұрын

AMEN

@drolugbengaadetitunTV

3 ай бұрын

Standing well and moving on.

This three part series was beyond helpful. Thank you PK and Doc❤❤❤

Thank you sir for your teachings.Have learnt something new for my family.God be my helper.

Amen. These series were worth hearing ❤ you Sir's..More grace to keep teaching us

Wow ❤. This was a very real conversation. All I can say is God is faithful, what a story.

This videos are so so educative, eye opening.. thank you so much PK and Bishop

Thank you very much POE &PK.

Thank you so much pastor sir.

Amen to the prayers I use my parents as a point of contact. They must reconcile and love themselves again like never before. I don't know how God will do it but I strongly believe it.

God will bring your children to you, sir And you will release that memoir… we can’t wait for it!

Thank you for this enlightenment Sir. God bless you Sir.

The marriage package is commendable

There is no problem we cannot solve except the problem we cannot discuss-Olumide

I really like these conversations and Pst Olumide is amazing!!! So much wisdom oozing out.

This is so helpful and refreshing

I am really blessed listen to this. God bless you

Pst Olumide is so real

Specifically in the area of having children Dr Olumide just spoke my mind. 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 🙌 Pastor Olumide really touched most challenges in today's churches. God bless pastor K and Dr Olumide for this session. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Wow the openness is amazing.. thank you sirs

This was powerful. God bless you sirs

Very honest and true narrative, owning up to his mistakes.

Pastor Olumide mannnn 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Post 1 year counselling - I’m sooo in support of this!

Wow this was very helpful. Thanks Sirs 🙏

A child sets you back 15 years. Your last born plus 25 years is your freedom. Wise sayings. Thank you pastors. More wisdom