Girl: I love you. Me: I love you too my buddy.

@cisium1184

3 күн бұрын

My buddy lies over the ocean. My buddy lies over the sea. Buddy can you spare a dime?

@Brandon-qo1ml

3 күн бұрын

TikTok girl likes a man that refers to his friends as his buddies. Really doubt she wants to be called buddy personally lol

@boris1387

12 сағат бұрын

Men aren't allowed to be men, old fashioned, masculine... We can thank a certain group in society for that. I'm 50 and I've been told it's creepy to be 'old fashioned' by 'modern women'

@grants5383

8 сағат бұрын

@@boris1387 I think this is the wrong thread to discuss this lol

@boris1387

7 сағат бұрын

@@grants5383 I've even been known to tip my cap when buxom fillies walk past lol

4. Never Ever date a girl with a long list of rules, she's only telling you what she wants. Does she ask what you want?

@dang75790

3 күн бұрын

When I dated my wife ? Over 26 years ago. We just talked, and that was it. No rules, no games. Just like each others company. I guess people are too crazy now😂

@Z-Interceptor

3 күн бұрын

if keeping things simple works between 2 people, everything else will be just fine

@jennalavena

3 күн бұрын

good point

@minimallyleah7208

3 күн бұрын

Both people being in alignment with each other is essential.

@slimconfucius

3 күн бұрын

It's called a relationship, it goes both ways

Definitely first time I've heard of a woman finding the phrase, "My buddy," attractive.😅

@CourtneyRyan

3 күн бұрын

Same 😂😭

@hyronharrison8127

3 күн бұрын

She said "my buddy" and I damn near fell out

@MoshJunkie426

3 күн бұрын

It's crazy because I call my platonic girl friends buddy all the time

@johnbrown1851

Күн бұрын

Did she mean she likes to be called his buddy?

@ashtonhokanson1381

23 сағат бұрын

I work in ag. A backwards hat doesn’t fly off while riding a 4-wheeler on a windy day.

I've held many doors for women, All I get is a Thank You, never had her hot and bothered over it

@matthewzumbo9868

3 сағат бұрын

Bruh 🤜🏻

In the circles I run in, “brother” is generally a positive way to address another man. “Buddy” is often used in a slightly sarcastic and passive-aggressive way. I suppose it depends on your local culture.

@douchebagout

Күн бұрын

10-4 brother.

@JACCO20082012

Күн бұрын

I suspect we run in similar circles and I've always found brother to be used when addressing your close friend directly, whereas when you're talking about them to another person, you say buddy so as not to imply literal blood relation (because the bond often is deeper and more complex than that)

@WillMoon

Күн бұрын

Right there with you. “Buddy” is a slightly pejorative way of referring to a liked, but inferior acquaintance. I personally don’t like to be called “brother” tho by anyone other than a very good friend.

@YorktownUSA

Күн бұрын

Agreed 👍

@peterblum613

Күн бұрын

@@JACCO20082012Oops I realize that I misinterpreted the video. The woman was talking about using “buddy” to speak about another man, not to another man. That is different.

A woman will say stuff like that but they actually don't know what they want and are confused as well.

@infinitedurr

3 күн бұрын

I think this is true for most people; we dont know what we really want until we experience it

@jamesmccaul2945

3 күн бұрын

Given you know what women want better than they know themselves, why are you on KZread looking at videos that have nothing to teach you? That would be a massive waste of time when you could be putting your extensive knowledge of the female mind to work in the real world...

@DDD11239

3 күн бұрын

​@@infinitedurr Experience is something you don't get until right after you need it.

@StillAwesome21

2 күн бұрын

the fact that she claims these traits are non-physical and then goes on to contradict herself twice, lends more credence to your point.

@highlanderknight

2 күн бұрын

I think many women (and men) won't say what they like/want in others because sometimes they are afraid they'll be judged by it.

The backward hat also works when you're about to throw a poke-ball. See: Ash Ketchum.

@CourtneyRyan

3 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@jeremybennett5547

2 күн бұрын

Lmao

@omotayosatuyi252

2 күн бұрын

😂😂😂

@M.C.ThomasReviews

2 күн бұрын

Seemed to work for him, he had Misty follow him around everywhere 😂

@justingary5322

Күн бұрын

IDK about being called buddy from someone you've just met 🤔. Thank you to Mrs Ryan for these videos helping Men and Women. I'm just glad I still have my long black hair in my 20's because I only use hair grease and shampoo on it. It's why I'm cool being a 24 year old Christian virgin working as a special education teacher and clinical mental health counselor. This has nothing to do with the video but please listen if you want to otherwise leave it alone and ignore it. Hello my name is Justin and I'm a Christian and Apologist but I'm also a college graduate. I'm not a closed minded Theist as I have nothing against Atheists or unbelievers as I speak to them often to understand their reasons for unbelief but we as Christians are convinced of God's Existence due to many real factors). I'm not trying to convert anyone or convince anyone to become Christians as that's The Holy Spirit's job to help people believe but only explain why I believe in Jesus Christ. There's actually evidence of God's Existence in Christianity. First of all there's proof that Jesus of Nazareth existed in history since the writings of Tacitus, Josephus Flavius, Pliny the younger and other historical documents prove that He was living two thousand years ago that even scholars both religious and Atheists agree with historically speaking but not that He's The Divine Son of God because obviously they don't. I'm going to give you historical and archeological evidence for God's Existence as The Scriptures have prophecies that predate the events recorded in them by several millennia including Matthew, Hosea and Zechariah which prophesy accurately of the people of Israel becoming a nation again after over 1900 years of being scattered around the nations since the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem in 70 A.D. spoken of by Christ in Matthew 23:29-24:3 and returning to their homeland after The Holocaust with Jerusalem as their capital in 1948 exactly as Jesus The Christ said. The prophets including Daniel spoke of the time where several world empires would arise and fall including the Babylonian kingdom, Medes and Persians, Roman Empire, and Saladin and the Muslims which went in consecutive order for the past few millennia. The people of Israel becoming a nation after The Holocaust in 1948 (ironically the melting point of gold as God compares Israel to gold that's tested in fire in Zechariah 13:8 and Jeremiah 16:15) exactly how Jesus The Christ said would happen since God us everything to come in The Scriptures and not just because people were working towards as Atheists claim which are impossible for any regular man to predict. Just before anyone says Christianity is a white man's religion made to oppress blacks during slavery you obviously aren't aware that the first Christians were Jews in The Middle East and that Christianity just like any religion can be used by evil and corrupt people to oppress others but you forget that the first Abolitionists/Civil Rights activists were Christians who sought to abolish slavery, racism, segregation, injustice and prejudice throughout American history. Jesus The Christ loves you enough not to give you what we all deserve which is God's Wrath by His Own Blood. Charles Darwin didn't originally come up with The Theory of Evolution over 200 years ago as it is mentioned in the writings of Ancient Greeks who believed in Demons that gave knowledge to philosophers. Evolution makes no sense when nothing has evolved after thousands of years of human history and supposedly the first creature came from primordial sludge several millions of years ago funny how they won't believe that God an Eternal Almighty Spirit Being created us from the Earth) which came from a supermassive expansion of matter at high temperature that inexplicably created everything in the known universe that supposedly came from nothing billions of years ago. How did the organs evolve before there were bones, skin, substance and how did any creatures see before eyes evolved? I've studied evolution and abiogenesis in the past and read Darwin's " Origin of The Species" and I'm not convinced of macro Evolutionary biology whereas I accept micro Evolution like speciation and adaptation but not macro Evolution because there's no evidence of it nor clear observable examples of it where living creatures evolve into other kinds of species plus the fact that fossils don't show evidence of evolution and genetic entropy rules out evolution. The question begs how did two genders evolve from a common ancestor with a perfectly hospitable and sustainable environment with breathable oxygen and resources to survive on inexplicably? Atheists have the burden of proof to explain how everything came to be and why our existence is possible without the Existence of God from an godless perspective just as Christians have to provide evidence of God's Existence and the validity of His Word. Evolution requires life to already exist in order to take any effect in living organisms so it doesn't account for the existence of Life and reality. Also evolution is impossible because it goes against The Law of entropy and the second Law of thermodynamics because evolution makes things better whereas nothing continues to get better but decays and turns to absolute destruction in the end. Mark Ridley an Evolutionist said "No evolutionist whether gradualist or punctuationist uses the fossil record as evidence in favor of The Theory of Darwinian Evolution as opposed to special Creation". God's Existence is made perfectly known and observable in the universe as demonstrated in His Handiwork in the intelligently designed manner that Creation was made, human consciences and consciousness historical and archaeological evidence of God's Word being valid history, fulfillment of Bible Prophecies God in His Holiness and Righteousness could give us what we deserve in Hell for our since but He's merciful to give us free will to choose to accept or reject His gift of salvation by grace through faith in His Son Jesus. I don't mean this is any condescending manner but if you'd like to discuss The Scriptures with me or have me listen to your view on anything my instagram account is Savage Christian Kombatant

Loving the royal blue color on you!

@CourtneyRyan

3 күн бұрын

Aw thank you! 💙

@LionRafale

3 күн бұрын

Damn, beat me to it. First thing i noticed on Courtney. Love it

@davidchambers44

3 күн бұрын

I agree, it suits you very well!

Always bring back the royal blue 😊

@CourtneyRyan

3 күн бұрын

💙💙💙

@AnthonyManzio

3 күн бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan The government needs to ban all smartphones. Women are on their cell phones 24/7. How are you supposed to meet? Dating is dead.

@JiGantus

3 күн бұрын

@@AnthonyManzioif you’re even talking like that that tells me you don’t know how to date

@AnthonyManzio

3 күн бұрын

@@JiGantus 55 here not 16 you fool.

@DDD11239

3 күн бұрын

​@@AnthonyManzio Humans have had relations for 350,000+ years. Have you never read a history textbook?

My buddy's gonna like when I tell him that we're gonna roll up our sleeves and wear our baseball hats backwards.

I'm old enough to remember the "My Buddy" doll, I can't use that phrase without thinking about that. Not happening. 😆

@dang75790

3 күн бұрын

My buddy, my buddy!wherever he goes, I go 😂😂😂😂😂

@josebro352

2 күн бұрын

My Buddy Commercial. / fiercebenn kzread.info/dash/bejne/gZisy8-OZqTVYJM.html

My buddy and I have never heard of this. Half the list was physical, so I don't think she knows what non-physical means.

@dang75790

3 күн бұрын

Probably right 😂

@highlanderknight

2 күн бұрын

I think I've seen her do videos like this before and is having trouble coming up with new lists.

When I hear someone say "buddy," 90% of the time it means "I don't like you or what you're doing, but I don't want to be mean to you because I don't really know you, so let's resolve this amicably." Like let's say I double park my car for a second to drop something off. A guy I'm blocking in who needs to leave might be like "Hey, buddy, I need you to move the car, I'm about to leave." I literally never hear it outside of this sort of context. Maybe it's a regional thing? (I'm from NY, that's how we use it here)

@Torgomasta

2 күн бұрын

I live in Florida (but have lived all over the US) all my coworkers use buddy as a term of endearment. In my book? Buddy is what I call another guy I’m about to get into a fight with. It’s what you call a 5 year old who doesn’t know anything. I have to continuously remind myself that they aren’t trying to talk down to me.

@lazerpants9026

2 күн бұрын

@@Torgomasta Yeah exactly, like if you're about to get into a fight, you would say something like "Hey, buddy, go away, I don't wanna take this outside." Like it's one step away from using "a$$hole" but you don't quite want to escalate that hard yet. I don't know anybody who would use it endearingly. We would use the term "my boy" or "my girl" in that case. Like "Hey, my boy is at the bar, wanna go grab a drink?" (or swap it out for "my girl" if appropriate)

🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:00 *🎥 Introduction and Video Purpose* - Courtney Ryan introduces herself and explains the purpose of reacting to a TikTok video about non-physical traits that make men attractive. - Mention of viewers tagging her in the video, excitement to react, and the format of pausing after each point to discuss. 00:27 *🗣️ First Trait: Saying "My Buddy"* - Discussion of how "my buddy" is perceived as attractive by some women. - Exploration of why this might be attractive, such as showing you have friends and value relationships. 02:02 *🚪 Second Trait: Holding Things Open* - Typical chivalrous acts like holding the door, jacket, or chair. - Highlighting the rarity of such actions today and their positive impact. 03:23 *😊 Third Trait: Kindness to Strangers* - Emphasis on being kind to strangers like waiters, elderly people, and others in daily life. - Demonstrates a man's character and potential as a partner and father. 04:31 *💪 Fourth Trait: Rolling Up Sleeves* - Discussing the physical appeal of men rolling up their sleeves. - Although considered physical, it's mentioned for its popularity among women. 05:42 *😄 Fifth Trait: Laughing and Smiling* - Attraction to men who laugh and smile, showing positivity and good vibes. - Indicates fun and enjoyable presence, enhancing mutual attraction. 06:39 *🧢 Sixth Trait: Wearing a Backwards Hat* - Mixed opinions on the attractiveness of men wearing backwards hats. - Courtney's personal dislike for it, associating it with frat boy vibes. 08:04 *🚗 Seventh Trait: Attentiveness with Traffic* - Attractiveness of men being attentive and protective in traffic situations. - Emphasizes the feeling of safety and security provided by such behavior. 09:38 *📝 Conclusion and Final Thoughts* - Courtney appreciates the positive nature of the video. - Encourages viewers to share their thoughts and experiences in the comments. - Invitation to follow her on Instagram and engage with her content. Made with HARPA AI

@pantsenfuego9986

3 күн бұрын

Courtney is good looking and pleasant. No reason to quick this one over. Plus AI is cheating.

@DDD11239

3 күн бұрын

Using AI is even more telling of a lazy nature, than is the standard providing of timestamps.

@warezit

3 күн бұрын

@@DDD11239 🤣👍👌

She heckin' BAMBOOZLED us, Courtney!

1) Being called buddy is actually insulting when I don't know the guy, and neutral when I know them. 2) I open the door for everyone if I'm in that position. 3) Always kind to strangers, especially the elderly or disabled. 4) That's physical, I'm in good shape/have good arms but it's not something I pay attention to 5) I only laugh when there's a social element to it, if I see something funny, or there's an awkward situation 6) I don't wear hats, I like what my hair looks like and I'm too old for a backwards baseball hat 7) I'm very attentive with traffic, that came naturally as a cyclist, having played basketball before, or just driving forever - whether as a pedestrian or as a driver, but I always thought only I noticed that. 8) Still single and I've been out more with women who were manipulative. Still looking for the wife.

@jdarnellsix

3 күн бұрын

Agree totally 👍

@drip369

3 күн бұрын

@@rajmathew6220 how many people didn't pay attention to the first one brought up haha it wasn't the girl being called buddy, it was the guy talking about one of his friends using the phrase my buddy. It was the phrase, not the word itself. If a man calls a girl buddy he put her in the friend zone just like if a girl calls a guy bro she put herself in the friend zone. That's not what was going on here

@ShadamAran

3 күн бұрын

Yeah buddy is condescending af

@SamBourgeois-mr4hq

3 күн бұрын

Hey buddy, you got a problem? It's not that deep, my guy. Stop projecting, pal.

@jdarnellsix

3 күн бұрын

@@SamBourgeois-mr4hq go to the "guy" bar and have a great 4th!

Part 2. Being called buddy is an insult here in the west.

@mattgisi3375

3 күн бұрын

I'm not your buddy, guy

@ricky5538

3 күн бұрын

Not in the modern western world - girls like being treated badly - not Lady Courtney though.

@handsomebarber424

3 күн бұрын

I haven’t experienced that and I’ve been working with men for a long time

@Aesthetic626

3 күн бұрын

Buddy in general is an insult

@joneal0284

3 күн бұрын

​@@mattgisi3375I'm not your guy, buddy

My buddy is my German Shepherd. Maybe she heard me talking to my dog. I never wear a backward baseball cap.

Love your content! I’ve learned so much from you!

I find your videos very informative and educational. I also find that the content is being recycled. I find that the “list” type videos have been covered. Maybe it’s time to cover different topics when it comes to men and women. For example: Being better at communicating, how to be more affectionate towards your partner,Boundaries inside the relationship. These are just a few I came up with.

I’ve always thought that wearing a baseball hat backwards makes you look silly, unless you’re riding a bicycle or you’re on a firing range.

@christopherstevenrankin

2 күн бұрын

Makes you look juvenile. Apparently in my area juvenile is a turn on.

Vascularity, took me a second to figure out if there could be some underlying reason for their interest that and there definitely is haha

"My buddy" is how you introduce your lover to your friends when you don't want them to know you're getting intimate.

Thanks for uploading Courtney and have a lovely rest of your day mate

My Buddy? That was an 80's doll and jingle. Its counterpart was Kid Sister. She like that line too?

@pantsenfuego9986

3 күн бұрын

Where I go, he goes. My buddy and me!

@brandonnickerson8934

2 күн бұрын

First thing I thought. OG for sure. Lmao

Hey Courtney, I love your input! Could you make the same videos for women (e.g how to dress nicely) 😅

Coincidentally, a friend of mine also advised me to get button-down shirts and then I saw your vid on what a buttom down long sleeve shirt can do for our arms. Thanks to you two, I now know what outfit to get the next time I'm shopping for tops. Thanks 👍👍

I think I mostly agree with this list. I also think things like opening the door for someone else or just being kind to others has a lot to do how you were raised.

Thank you so much for the content you've been providing. This is really meaningful for us. Try those tips out, and you will perceive the difference in a way women look at you.

I got to admit I don't smile enough but I do love a good laugh now and again, laughter is medicine for the soul!

@Twotone-ld1fb

2 күн бұрын

It can be difficult to naturally smile often when we are hard wired sometimes to constantly focus on negative things around us. And I don't mean that you yourself are negative. By nature we are trained at a young age to judge things to protect ourselves. We are raised to judge, and when making judgements we naturally look for the negatives to figure out if something is something we should avoid for physical or emotional protection. Thus we become hard wired to look for the negative and focus on the negative. It's difficult to train ourselves to instead focus on the positive and see the good as the more important things to focus on. If we can get ourselves to focus more often and the majority of the time on the positive, then that will reflect on us and help our general mood to be positive thus making it easier to smile naturally and more often. Have to train yourself to be positive by judging things more on the positive features then the negative so it becomes natural for you. I'm still working on this myself. Even though I already see myself as positive I tend to focus on and elevate the negatives to make judgements on things. I can't think of a good example but perhaps its more of a, when you first make the judgement on something rather then your brain suddenly making a list of negatives which you then have to use positivity to bludgeon things off that list, you get in the habit of doing the opposite. So the first time you make a judgment on something your list of things are positives but tempered with understanding of some potential negatives.

This needs an asterisk of "only if she already likes you."

@sweetride95_69

2 күн бұрын

Truth. If she likes you enough burping is hot too.

@vaporfogg3437

Күн бұрын

If she likes you then there is no list

Do you have old videos where viewers still comeback to and watch? And any idea why they comeback to re-watch the video?

Woman: "He says my buddy is hot" Me: "I'm not your friend, buddy!"

@GAURON123

3 күн бұрын

"I'm not your buddy, pal!"

@Dgood2095

2 күн бұрын

“I’m not your pal, guy!”

@trevorm9551

20 сағат бұрын

“I’m not your guy, buddy!”

Opening doors for others, and being kind to strangers, helping elderly people…it’s SOP for me. I was raised to do this, and I raised my son to do the same

I'm lucky, I suppose. I grew up with a great mother and older sis as role models, so I did learn a lot of these things early in life. Thank you for another great video, Courtney. These are definitely things men need to know. It's definitely refreshing to see someone convey positivity, and the more opinions the better imo. And if you are a man that is just learning this... that's okay! It will only better your life and the lives of those around you :) I AM left a bit baffled by the whole "hat to the back" thing. Could just be a little niche personal preference.

1) WTH? 🤣 I’m lost on that one.

Love your content. Thanks lots.

Courtney, being a gentleman has worked very well for me. My new girlfriend loves that about me and that’s one of the things that attracted her about me. Thank you for all the advice.

The part about the buddy is true because it makes the dude sound cool and involved also gives up a little mystery because you don’t know if he’s talking about a girl or a guy, but it does show that he is making friends and he has hook ups because usually a buddy is someone who hooks you up with something or is a plug or connection

My hats for covering up my Receding hair line as I cope with trying to come to terms with my male pattern baldness...

Happy Friday, Courtney!

We all know women will change all of their roles and all of their preferences for guys based off of looks, especially when it comes to red flags so I'm sure this is just another one of those videos that only applies towards guys women are already attracted to because the first one is the use of the phrase my buddy which just means he has friends so if she already finds him attractive this just adds on to it. It's great that 80% of men are deemed unattractive to the point that them just getting over the bar is a lot easier than they think.

@sumairshirazi

3 күн бұрын

U ain't wrong

@aziouss2863

3 күн бұрын

Yeh this tiny 130 cm tall deformed dwarf must have been the pinnacle of human physique when he attracted the best looking girl in university... And that kept happening through my later life. Lisen this incel bullshit is in your head. People are more than their bodies. and from my experience women more than men are willing to compromise on that. Ever wonder why half women's erotica books are about gentle tamable monsters? Half are handsome devils but the monsters... Dont you ever think about that? Nah you are too busy spreading this incel bullshit. REMOVE IT. from your head please whatever you want to try just do it.

@aziouss2863

3 күн бұрын

@@sumairshirazi He is.

@sumairshirazi

3 күн бұрын

@@aziouss2863 ????

@JACQUEZJOHNSON23

2 күн бұрын

​@@aziouss2863He not

Your advice is very informative. I am 63 years old learn every day from u professor

“My buddy” Nope. Be a gentleman, yes. Workout, yes. Wear clothes that fit, yes. Watch, yes. Being positive, yes. Backwards hat, nope. Traffic, Eh? Keeping her safe, yup.

My dog’s name is Tyson. When I come home I say “Tyson buddy!” Is “buddy” hot when it’s part of a name or talking about a friend?

Where I live and circle (Socal), a lot of my friends and cousins use buddy to refer to each other. "A buddy of mine" is common phrase to talk about our friends. Although buddy can also be used in a negative way, like older or taller men talking to other guys they don't know.

Lots of men already do things like this and it means nothing. Seems like it's just for women who already has a boyfriend and when *THEY* do it, it makes them seem hot. But if you're single, they don't care that you do these things already.

@vaporfogg3437

Күн бұрын

Facts

Happy Wednesday Courtney.😮

@CourtneyRyan

3 күн бұрын

You too my friend!

I have never called my girlfriend or wife "my buddy" and I never will. You are more than that to me.

Your getting closer to 1M subscribers

What else is new? Courtney coming through with another banger!

Thank you Courtney for addressing “Out of the Car!” I would TOTALLY put my foot down to help the women who I date, despite my visual impairment.

I hold doors open for others, men or women, when I'm aware a little help is needed. There was one occasion that I held a door open for a somewhat elderly woman. It might've been winter or she was carrying something, don't exactly remember. But I asked her if she was OK before I was done. She said she was fine. But off to the side, I noticed a younger gal who witnessed this looking very favorably at me! Anyways, thanks for your channel, Courtney and all you do to help bridge the gaps in our understanding of each other.

First of all appreciate the content & insight! Secondly I've had a woman say she really liked how I planned a date made all the arrangements.

I respect this content Courtney you've done it again masterpiece video

@CourtneyRyan

3 күн бұрын

Thank you my friend! You’re always so kind!

I can't think of being pulled back from the street without thinking about a buddy of mine (hey, look, I used the word "Buddy!") who was pulled back out of the street and certain death once. The situation was that he was in the Air Force, had gone out for a drink or ten, got rip-roaring drunk, and stepped off the curb to hail a cab back to base at just the instant a car came speeding by and would have killed him. He said that he had a weird feeling somewhere he'd heard the voice of the guy who saved him when he said, "Son, you need to be a little more careful. Here, let me hail the cab for you." He admitted that it had taken him a moment to realize that his guardian angel was wearing a general's uniform and he ought to salute. Then he recognized the face that went with the voice that could have just as easily have been saying, "Let me tell you about my rabbit friend named Harvey." James Stewart had just kept him from being a traffic fatality.

three things made me feel like i have to drop a comment on this video: 1- "my buddy" 😂 2- half of her list is physical stuff 😅 (but you still made a good video about it and that's what we want at the end of the day) 3- i love that kind of blue 😊

I'm in AA and I said to one of the women in that group "sup buddy?" but back then I said it all the dang time. I never thought about it. She told me, sometime in the future, that it meant the world to her that I said that. I was like "Really? Why?" because to me it was always like "Hey" or "What's up?" or anything casual like that. She said it meant so much to her cuz she never had a "buddy" in her life.....not once. And at this point, she was probably late 50s or early 60s. I was like late 20s at the time. I was like "Oh that's just something I say to people I like." but she was insistent "No you don't know how much that meant to me and how good it made me feel. Thank you!" and I was like "Sure thing buddy" haha She was a really awesome person!! Zero love connection but a good friend and very insightful.

You look exquisite in the blue dress!! Royal blue looks good on you!

@CourtneyRyan

3 күн бұрын

Thank you! 💙

Good video ! Your channel is very good !

"My buddy" is a phrase that comes from a particular kind of guy. I know that guy. Often, guys will say this about friends they are close with, but they want to act casual about it. Maybe, this woman likes guys who have close friends but aren't confident in expressing their feelings for them - she likes that he has a social network, but there's an opportunity for her to help, so she's useful. She sees the little boy inside the man. There's a macho guy with a soft side. She wants a guy who chops down a tree but doesn't know to call his mother on her birthday. Then, she tells him, and he does it. Being kind to strangers is huge. Women love that one. One time, I was on the bus, and this really old couple was trying to sit down. I was sitting down, and there was one open seat beside me. The woman came first and sat down - she moved fast. My head was down, but I noticed the man out of the corner of my eye, so I jumped out of my seat, and he ran into it (and sat down). The interesting part is that the man was moving so fast that if I did not jump - like, acrobatically - the man would have run into me. The bus was moving. However, that guy read my vibe, and he knew I'd move, even though my head was down. That was a Chinese couple. A cute girl across the aisle saw the whole thing, and she was shocked. I sat down somewhere else, and she turned her whole body toward me and just stared for a long time. She went way past the normal amount of time you can stare at a stranger - even if you like them. Typically, if a young girl likes someone, she'll look for a bit, then look away - then, look back. This girl was locked in, and I avoided eye contact because I wasn't in the mood for an interaction like that. She was just so curious. The bus was moving fast and bumping, and the couple knew that they were literally in danger. If they fall, it's a whole experience. Often, guys are rude in public to other guys - strangers. Then, when a cute girl shows up, they start being polite. You see this kind of bad behaviour a lot on the internet because the guys think there are no consequences. However, your habits build your character. Women see that - all the time. They vibe with your habits, and they sense what you don't show to them directly. If you turn a woman on, she'll desire you and think about you. She'll look at you in a good way. If you show a woman respect, she'll do anything you say. She'll guess at your needs and try to satisfy them before you even notice you have them. Good women love to show respect too, and they are just waiting for the excuse to do so. Make them feel safe, and their hearts open. The Quran says that God put kindness in the hearts of men and women for each other (in marriage), and that is a sign. Everything follows a design.

When I say "my buddy"...it means someone who really isn't a friend but someone who you have connections to via work etc. It's a ranking of friendship for me. Buddies are guys who you'd go out for a beer with but not tell secrets.

On the first one I have been told having in names/ nicknames is attractive cause like Court said it shows you have relationships. The buddy part might be a daddy issue thing for her (joking but....).

My input on topic 1: I can see the attraction. I’m a guy and when I talk about my fellow associates it’s just that. I don’t refer to a lot of people as my buddy or friend so I can see where it shows the potential for a personal relationship.

"Buddy" is more of a diminutive term to men. Men, when speaking respectfully of their fellow men, likely wouldn't refer to them as their "buddy", very few men are just likely to call their casual friends "buddy". A "buddy" is basically someone new at work assigned to shadow you to orientate them. Not a familiar, intimate friend you respect and see as your equal.

I'm guessing that the "my buddy" thing is an indicator that the guy is a "man among men." It's a very masculine trait to have the respect, camaraderie and friendship of other men. The use "my buddy" (as opposed to "hey buddy") demonstrates a level of loyalty and ownership of ones membership in the tribe. In an evolutionary frame, humans became successful as hunter-gatherers.The ability of men to form hunting parties and operate as a cohesive team was critical to our survival as a species. There's a reason that use of a "buddy system" is common in high risk activities like scuba diving.

Don't worry, Courtney: Alicia Silverstone cured me of any interest in trying on a backwards baseball cap when I was about 20!😉 P.S. They're not even comfortable that way.

hello courtney ryan and how your own day and night going and have you thought about starting your own podcast for youtube and spotify with your husband and the girls you have in your own videos in the future

In High School I would say to a girl "my buuuuudy", it was from a commercial about a stuffed guy named my buddy. She would call me Buddy right back. I knew her since kindergarten.

You are right up there with my dog, my buddy

Saying "my buddy" is military/police/firefighter/EMS slang for "my good friend" but it implies that that there is a deeper bond there from facing and supporting each other in danger and trauma. This is very different from "hey buddy" "how's it going, buddy" when approaching someone unknown are inserting yourself into a volatile situation, where it implies potential hostility to the pertain being spoken to. My guess is that it is attractive because it implies that the guy is some kind of "sheepdog" type that knows how to handle himself and has that "protective" personality and instinct. It is probably very similar to the way most women find "a man in uniform" to be attractive. The buddy thing is just a weird little quirk of the field that she has heard and assocates with those traits because she has male friends/family who are in that field and say it. It's one of those things you don't really get or think about until you've spent time in that culture. She's spot on and she probably has no idea why lol.

Haha I think its funny how her list “had nothing to do with appearance”, yet #’s 4, 5 & 6 are 100% related to appearance. And I somewhat understand #1 b/c I used to call my ex-wife “my buddy”. Makes them feel like they’re not only your spouse but also your best friend.

Aside from the comment on the rolled up sleeves, the girl is basically saying that she finds it attractive when a guy displays selfless, gentleman like behavior in a variety of situations. As a guy, yes, I try to display these but I too am looking for a woman who likewise displays these traits. I agree with you Courtney about the backwards baseball look. Furthermore, I am tired of seeing people wearing baseball caps (forward or backward) in church and other semi formal settings.

I agree with these. But I'm learning looks do matter, so people keep that in mind too.

Doing the things I was taught to do as a gentlleman only got me ripped apart, he women thought ot was weak. Back in the 70's a woman waas having a problem with putting gas in her car. I went to help. I had my head handed to me. By doing it it never got me a plus. Helping others I helpped my neighbors when he lost his legs I did the mowing and in the winter the shoveling for them. He thought of me as son, he called me her guardian angle. Greatest gift i ever recieved. I love to laugh its how I het through stress. I make a point of making someone every day, even if I don't know them making them laugh. i have made people laugh at funerals and weeding. Not much different they are both sad.

Yes, a woman likes to know you have friends. And if they speak of you in a good manner. This is a way for women to know "gauge" how he is in a social atmosphere. (Status) among friends, and will stick up for him. I guarantee you, this was a factor in you deciding Teddy.

Thank you Courtney!

Now I'm just thinking of the Jaboody Dubs Sticky Buddy video. "That's what I'm talking about! WOW!"

she's just in love, which makes everything attractive

Skilled tradesman here to explain that the backward baseball cap shields the back of the neck, and indicates that you do interesting things outdoors that require your attention, so your head is often inclined and neck exposed to sunlight. Also, high winds or moving at high speeds create turbulence under the brim and blow the hat to who knows where. The cap turned backwards indicates a life of action, and that's one reason why it's attractive to some women.

The only times to use "Buddy" is for a pet or someone you do not respect...

@CourtneyRyan

3 күн бұрын

It just reminds me of the G-Unit song tbh

@tonyjosephk8267

12 сағат бұрын

Exactly - or when addressing a 7 year old

Her: “I think I’m in love with you” Him: “thanks bud”

From my experience showing that I have a very good relationship with my mom and my little sister and cherish them I’ve been told is very attractive and a green flag.

I think when she said "physical things" she was referring to things like height, hair color, voice, etc. Rolling up your sleeves is something any guy can do... unless you're wearing a tanktop.

#1 being called a buddy, imo not hot (weird) #2 holding things open for you, imo true (being a gentleman) #3 being kind, imo yes that goes both ways also men and women #4 rolling up sleeves (physical) #5 laughing #6 backwards hat (but what if the sun is on your back?) and u gotta cover the back bc the sun is gonna burn it. #7 attentive with traffic

i like speaking about friends as buddy too hahah. it seems more chummy and fun than "friend". friend sounds childish..can't explain

I was lowkey shocked when Courtney mentioned how the bill of a hat can get in the way of doing lat pull-downs. Now we know courtney be getting those gains.

Lmao I’m never opening the door for strangers again, most people never even say thank you. I’m just opening that shit for me and my family or friends and whenever I have a gf. Only exception is old people that are strangers.

I only wear my hat backwards when I work. I'm blue collar, and I get up too early to care about my hair and it stays our of the way and stays on better when it's backwards. That's really it

@CourtneyRyan

2 күн бұрын

That makes sense!

First, Courtney, I love the color of your dress. 1.) My buddy - I use this expression a lot. Women have never said anything to me about it. 2.) Holding things for them - More often than not women just said thanks, though I have had a few women say "I can hold my own door a$$hole." 3.) Being kind to waiters, old ladies, etc. - I usually am kind to most people. This has never gotten me anywhere. 4.) If you need to roll up your sleeves, you should have worn short sleeves to begin with. If she likes seeing the vein in your arm, I have to wonder is she a nurse or lab tech who wants to draw blood? :D 5.) Laughing and smiling - I don't do a lot of either. 6.) Backwards baseball hat - The only time I wear it backwards is when I'm in my convertible. When forward, the wind will sometimes catch the visor and try to pull it off. Wear it backwards and no problem. But other than that? Nah. 7.) Attentive with traffic - As a runner, I'm always attentive in traffic. Don't want to get hit. Doesn't help with the ladies though. Now the one non-physical thing that will attract a woman: LOTS OF MONEY. They're all drawn to that.

@GoDaveGo

3 күн бұрын

In my experience, it isn’t being nice-it’s being in charge. So one woman and I looked at each other as I walked into Starbucks. She looked away and I got in line (confidence). Then we were each ordering and I chatted up the employee like I was in charge (status). The woman went to the other side of the store, and I chatted with some female co-workers one of whom was smiling and laughing (safety). Before I knew it, that girl had crossed back through the crowd to stand next to me, take the first opportunity to talk to me, and make sure I knew her name, when she could be found at the Starbucks, etc. That’s not the only time, but it’s being nice because I have nothing to gain from disagreeing with the employee-they are so much lower in status there is no point, they don’t even have decisionmaking authority. I’m certain that’s really what gets women to respond to me in those situations, not just being “nice”

The only mark of true class is how you treat those who can do nothing for you. Women should always be watching for how men follow the Stoic code of interaction: Is it true? Is it necessary? and Is it kind? While the video contributor had a few good points, she lost me during round one with the "buddy" thing. But this may have been an issue of geographic vernacular. I have a friend from Kenya who always addresses me as "My brother." That is always complimentary and reassuring.

I don’t want a woman ever calling me my buddy, it gives me friendzone vibes!

@vaporfogg3437

Күн бұрын

The crazy part about friend zone is that one person knows from first interaction that your in the friend zone. But the other person gonna use there time that they can never get back. To figure out that they in the friend zone

Blue is definitely a great color for you to wear stunning

I would never call a woman "buddy".

The weather in summer months😂😂😂😂😂

Probably she is referring as non-physical that it is not considering if someone is good looking or handsome, because the roll up sleeves don't mean that someone may be good looking and the same would go for smiling

Tks . Ryan . ! Look lovely in this dress.

👊❤ *Three Words Women say that can ruin a Good thing?* *I Love You!*

I would never wear a ball cap backwards, never was or will be a frat boy. My driving is more aggressive than it needs to be but I'm old so I got my license in the early '70s when 2 lane roads were 70mph speed limit and when the 55 mph national speed limit was imposed... well that was just stupid. I learned to pass on 2 lane roads and have no fear as long as I'm driving something with enough power to do it safely. As Sammy Hagar said "I can't drive 55". Really, I just can't. I have no patience for drivers with low skill levels so I'm going around you, you don't need to dive towards the ditch-I'll be gone before you know it. I live on the southern OR coast so it's very scenic, I get it but pull over and really enjoy the view, don't slow down on the road to enjoy it! I don't worry about impressing anyone while I'm driving, I don't have passengers unless it's a dog.

Courtney Ryan = Absolute class!