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@minnieyuyantung

Жыл бұрын

the same tips in this video also works for females!

@tdeo2141

Жыл бұрын

A commenter below added another trait which might help the attractiveness level. The example given was compatibility at a spiritual level. I can’t see, for example, an atheist guy being attractive to a religious girl, for instance.

9. Don't worry about what women find attractive. There's more to life than stressing over what women think. Read if you want to read and work out if you want to work out, but don't do it just to impress women.

@matthewveth2030

Жыл бұрын

Exactly right, wm6739. These "10 things men do that women love" articles make men think they can create attraction when there's none to begin with. "I wasn't into this guy at all until I found out what a great reader and cook he is!" Said no one. Ever.

@tom8437

Жыл бұрын

@@matthewveth2030 So let me get this straight. If you have 2 otherwise equal guys, one acts and dresses in a more attractive manner than the other, you're saying that will make no difference to women and guys shouldn't even bother trying? Ok got it. You go on and keep not bothering. Lol.

@matthewveth2030

Жыл бұрын

@Tom "Not bothering" is not what I said on my end and nothing more than a strawman argument on yours.

@oceansoflorewi

Жыл бұрын

This mindframe is exactly why men grow long toe nails, have stinky pits, eye boogers, cheesy teeth, and wearing long ponytails not cutting their hair since 2018. F that! Lets get back to caring how others view us so we can be presentable and impressive with the aspiration of impressing someone.

@karlr750

Жыл бұрын

I agree with your point … but it *doesn't* invalidate anything Antonio said. I'm married (over 10 years). Already got the girl. I don't need to impress women. But if I ever *need* to go out dating again (either as a widower or a divorcée), I would like to have a few strategies. I'm not going to *change* my interests to impress women. But several of my interests/passions *already* impress women. And if I know *which* interests those are, that's something that might be a good topic of conversation during a first date. I'm passionate about my job. I'm passionate about dancing. I'm interested in cooking and cycling (and do both regularly). I read voraciously. All things I can talk about to generate interest. There's no reason for me to change who I am underneath it all. But there are some strategic ways for me to bring up a few topics a bit earlier in a relationship. Dating isn't binary. If you're assuming that you're changing yourself to impress women, then you've already lost. But if you assume that you're presenting the "best face" of yourself to a potential date … that could be a winning strategy.

1. read 2. be assertive 3. work out 4. cook 5. fix your own shit 6. be confident 7. be ambitious 8. BONUS have a good sense of humor I guess just don't be an asshole, be nice and respectful towards other people, and certainly don't cuss.

@daleweiss9507

Жыл бұрын

9. Have curly brown hair. 10. Be 6'2 11. Make $250k minimum. 12. Have a V shape physique.

@eatdustburnfast

Жыл бұрын

@@daleweiss9507 Certainly helps

@danjoredd

3 ай бұрын

Cussing is a big one. People get upset when you say it makes them look bad, but the fact of the matter is...cussing freely just makes people look bad. That's not to say a bad word here or there is entirely bad, but some people say more cuss words than actual words and then wonder why everyone thinks that they are jerks. Coincidentally, those are the same people that say "i don't care what people think of me" even though they very much do, ironically.

@noneofyourbiz6885

2 ай бұрын

Clint Eastwood has entered the fucking chat.

I agree with you about the cooking thing - I just wanted to learn how to prepare really tasty, healthy, food that didn't take all day to cook. I've had two girls (among friend groups) who I've cooked for since, while I was cooking for everyone, who have confessed attraction to me afterwards... got zero vibes from them before they tasted my meal, I was starting to wonder if Coriander was an active ingredient in love potions or something.

Absolutely agree with being able to repair a vehicle or things around the house, so many men can not even do a simple task such as changing a tire. There needs to be a man camp

@EJ_Red

Жыл бұрын

They desperately need to bring classes like these back into schools and stop drilling in the mindset that only office jobs are successful, especially in a time when trade skills are being appreciated

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

Society needs to collapse so men are forced to be men

@bestcity0979

Жыл бұрын

I would sign up for a man camp I keep looking for this

@EduardoHernandez-vv8ey

Жыл бұрын

True. I think I fall in that camp. . . But I am able and willing to figure things out. And, man, how rewarding it is to do so, and get something done that you thought you couldn't because you've never tried before (or even conscieved of trying). "Skill acquired".

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

@@bestcity0979 are you kidding? Read Jack Donovan’s The Way of Men.

I agree with repairing things by yourself, I always were afraid that I will break things. Until my laptop was dead, I went to the only repair shop in town, I was ready to pay money so they repair it for me. Because I study engineering, I was knowing what’s the problem is, but I don’t know what tools needed, and everyone telling me that I need to buy new one. After being sure that I will buy a new one, I said “what about I go and try using the tools I have and try fixing it myself, anyway, I’m buying a new one”. And guess what, I repaired it, and that’s happened about 8 months ago, never needed to pay thousands of euros for new laptop. I never knew that was a masculine habit, I just wanted to explore things.

My sense of humor is very dry and very sarcastic. Even my wife can’t tell if I am serious sometimes. It is very tough to use sarcastic humor in today’s diverse / young workplace because a lot of non-Americans don’t get sarcasm, and young people either take everything too seriously or are looking to be offended. The problem is that if you make it obvious, it isn’t funny, and if you dumb it down, it isn’t funny. It’s really strange when you can make the 70 year old woman at the coffee shop laugh out loud but a 25 year old in your office thinks the same joke is a personal attack.

@NOXStellans

Жыл бұрын

In terms of attraction, we find those we are attracted to funnier. So, women say they are attracted to funny guys.-So I give up: 'just try to be myself, and try not take myself too serious.

@britishbastard6561

Жыл бұрын

I can assure you that it is the yanks that don’t get dry humour. British dry humour anyway, goes over their heads. Sounds like you, sir, are an exception

Great video, Antonio! To the cooking point, I would like to add: Once you get confident in the kitchen, alter some recipes and make them your own. It's one thing to be able to cook for someone, but to be able to add, "It's my own recipe" puts you to the next level

I've been cooking as a hobby since I was 10 years old. I just simply enjoyed cooking from a young age. Now as a hobby, I enjoy cooking all types of cuisines on a regular basis. Not my job but just a hobby yet I'm better than most restaurant. However I took my cooking for granted and never knew how to use it socially.

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

I’m looking to build an outdoor pizza oven with my hands, then making my dough with the right imported flour with garden tomatoes & basil & home made mozzarella from my raw milk supplier for summer pizza parties. Maybe you like.

@jpjp9111

Жыл бұрын

@@bryanutility9609 That sounds very tasty. The quality of the pizza crust plays a huge part in pizzas. If you're building your own pizza oven, you probably know that already. Some traditional have thin crust however I personally enjoy a flaky thick crust incorporating a lot of olive oil into the dough. This sort of thing is all personal preference. Are you using brick for your outdoor pizza oven?

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

@@jpjp9111 brick and concrete over a yoga ball with chicken wire. There are videos on YT

The two things to triumph them all, and they're not even a habit: be physically handsome/good looking and wealthy. Nothing more attractive to women than that. After looks and wealth, these habits are just a plus to them and honestly, what a self fulfilling person should do, if not a must. It is what it is. Perhaps I'm just a horrible human being, but it doesn't matter how well I can cook, how versed I am in different topics thanks to my reading, how well I can create and keep good and funny banter, and how well I keep my personal appearance, no girl is going to know if they don't even look at my general direction just because I'm not good looking enough for them.

Great teachable moment Antonio! Appreciate the knowledge, clarity and insight.

7 kids!!! Antonio, you deserve a medal for that!

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

When a man can provide for his family his wife can raise children. That’s a major key.

Hey Antonio, I agree 100%. Women absolutely *LOVE* when a guy can cook. I cook for every woman I go out with, at some point, and it draws them like a moth to a flame. My mom always preferred my dad's soups over her own. Women also prefer an assertive/decisive man. A good friend actually lost his wife to an assertive man. They would always do whatever she wanted to do. He saw it as just pleasing his wife instead of he making a decision. By the way, coming to you live from Houston. Diggin' that you're still representing Texas up there in Wisconsin, 3:03 🙂👍You should take a break and bring the family to check out the rodeo (Houston Livestock Show & Rodeo). It just started and it'll continue until 9 March.

Hey Antonio, my wife is pregnant with our seventh child! Always good to see men embracing fatherhood!

@redbearwarrior4859

Жыл бұрын

@G Dev Thanks! It has its own special challenges. But it also has its own special rewards.

@Nature-ep5cu

Жыл бұрын

Competing with Nick Cannon

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations!

habit #5 made me genuinely laugh, because I’m an orthopedic surgeon: I fix bones with plates and screws, and even if I use every day screwdrivers, hammers etc., I don’t do such things at home 😂maybe I should start there too! Thanks Antonio

@TrueOpinion99

Жыл бұрын

If you can screw a bone back together, you can fix a door hinge with stripped screws.

@ianbutler1983

Жыл бұрын

I do woodworking. A surprisingly high number of orthopedic guys do woodworking as a hobby.

@thispersonrighthere9024

Жыл бұрын

well, being a doctor is actually the highest paid skilled trade, so you're good.

@Italy55

Жыл бұрын

You do plenty as it is, with your important work/career.

@tdeo2141

Жыл бұрын

@@TrueOpinion99 and the best part is, the door doesn’t need any anesthesia, no heart monitoring, won’t lose its life, won’t need follow up appointments… so go for it, Dr. Pisano! 😉👍🏼

You know I am passionate about style fragrances and especially shaving. I love my pre shave oil shave brush and a good straight razor

Great video!! Great content as usual! Btw I was wearing headphones and I kept hearing the leather jacket “in the background”

Great video. Being attractive is much more involved than sexual attraction, and it's not just attracting women. Men who are confident, active, self sufficient, and have an active mind that is humble and self-deprecating, secure in their masculinity, these are all winners. They are also skillsets learned over time, which is also attractive as they display maturity.

Thank you. It is a great list. How about another bonus habit? Spirituality - A man taps into inner self.

@tdeo2141

Жыл бұрын

Completely agree. I think compatibility at a spiritual level is important. I can’t see, for example, an atheist guy getting along with/dating a religious girl.

Being able to cook is definitely an attractive trait! Thank you so much for the great video!

That was a really good and succinct way to explain assertiveness.

Great tips!

I can't stop listening to the creaking/crackling of the leather jacket despite you barely moving around, audiophiles nightmare material there.

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha!

@andrewfromthemountain

Жыл бұрын

Oh, I thought it was some kind of microphone problem

@mayhemguitar07

Жыл бұрын

BRO I was looking for this comment 😂. I was looking around my house to see what that noise was

Great list Antonio! keep up the great work.

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, you too!

I love this video!😊😊😊😊

Great list! I'm going to add one for you guys that has been one of my secrets for a long time. Smile. One courteous smile at that gorgeous lady at the supermarket or in the subway or wherever is all you need fellas.

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!!

Book about Napoleonic era? Great choice, Antonio! I highly recommend "Napoleon`s Army" by Oleg Sokolov - very good book as well!

A bluetooth jumprope. Ok. Not every hit can be a home run. A few days back a neighbor pointed out I had a bad rear tail light. He recommended some mechanics since Im new to the area. It was my dad’s 2004 Honda with 185,000 miles on it. H My dad said just watch some you tube videos and do it yourself. Before doing that though we decided to pop the trunk and take a look. It was so easy it was literally just changing a light bulb. Tony has made this point before but its a solid one.

Thank you

Great list on habits. Before watching this video I’ve started reading it’s a thriller by Mark Greaney called The Gray Man. I can do some cooking nothing fancy just simple stuff like taco salad,chili or pasta meals.

This whole list gets an A+ from me. The British sense of humor is definitely a big thing for me. American sense of humor in general hits me as more child’s humor. I don’t like that. But for all things good and holy in this world, if you’re going to ask me out on a date, PLEASE don’t make me choose what we’re doing all the time. If you don’t already have an idea (at least much of the time), don’t invite me out. I’ll invite you out if I have an idea, but I would like the reverse to happen in return.

Good stuff 👍

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

There's more to being "assertive" than just being an "ass." Also, I just fixed an interior door where the hinge screws stripped out of the wood, and last week I did brakes, ball joints, and a fluid change on a beater car we bought while I finish up my student-teaching at a local high school.

0:48 I haven't got a good laugh this week Antonio, Thank you

Thanks for the video.. greetings from Tokyo Japan 🇯🇵

No time to read so audio books it is for now. PS. Haven't watched in a long time, keep up the awesome work :)

I really liked this video. I just couldn't stop hearing your leather jacket move! 😅😅 Sharp look though, the Henley under the jacket.

7:49 "Y'know I can troubleshoot this" (Proceeds to flood the entire house)

Where did we get the new leather jacket from? Have you done a video on this one? Looks great!!!!

I read a TON! sometimes I think I read too much. I love your leather jacket!

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Me too!!

I love your channel and your style, Antonio. Your videos are always very high quality.. SO it hurts to give a tiny bit of criticism and you probably already know this…. The leather jacket, while incredibly stylish, is also very noisy. I’m watching on my phone with AirPods and the crinkle of the leather is really making it tough to listen. I had to switch to the phone speaker. I’m sorry and its a minor gripe but I know you strive for perfection. Thanks for continuing to make incredible and useful content.

love Antonio's jacket .

Be they male or female, reading a book regarding philosophy or the natural sciences is immensely attractive. It's also an amazing conversation starter. Just don't disturb these amazing people if they look too deep into their books. Thank you for a wonderful video, as always. Confidence and assertiveness are something I have struggled with before; I always walked with a stooped posture and radiated pure depression. Working out has been helping in this aspect; that and having no filter when it comes to calling out when it's getting too silly. Sometimes, my autism has been helpful. The British humour of Monty Python and Blackadder is something to be appreciated. I never found humour regarding bodily functions to be interesting. Taking a jab at oneself and then firing back at your conversation partner for a good bit of ol' banter is hilarious. Also, that creaking leather jacket is pure asmr. Best regards, Lars. P.S. Square-toed shoes are indeed abominable. That and baggy trousers hanging around your ankles. However, I will strongly advocate for the return of 16th-century doublets and colourful puffy trousers in the style of that era. The Landsknechts had some of the best drips.

Welcome back sir !! 😁

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Thanks! 😃

I used to read all the time and I was constantly ordering books from the library to borrow. Lately, I haven't been reading much. The bible, but mostly I just listen to that on an app. when it comes to the house or car, I think everyone should know the basics.

this man is life changing

Wow! Until this, I thought all I had to do was to wear something in teal. More seriously, I'm sticking with my belief that it's important to show kindness and to make sure that one's date gets home safely. Good video.

This man has like 10 sponsors :) good job

The basics will always work - body weight for calisthenics, barbells and dumbbells. Just lift heavy stuff. Stop eating junk. Drink water, stop drinking soda. Read. Develop your mind as you develop your body. Your future self will thank you.

I did a culinary arts trade school program for two years under a guy who was an Executive Chef on a train for 9 years. Cooking is fun for me

Great video, but it sounded like your jacket had its own mic 😅

“Books for general reading always smell bad; the odor of common people hangs around them.” Friedrich Nietzsche

@danjoredd

3 ай бұрын

pretty poor attitude, that Nietzsche had.

@bryanutility9609

3 ай бұрын

@@danjoredd best attitude ever! Book copers seethe 😂

@danjoredd

3 ай бұрын

@@bryanutility9609 that is the most terminally online sentence I have heard all week

Nice leather jacket (I love books!)

I like the Assertive part.

7 basic human traits that every adult should have. By now. 😄 Not as sexy of a title but there you go. Btw, just found an old pair of square-toed dress shoes in my basement that I used to kick loose the ice fence that a snowplow left at the bottom of my driveway. Destroyed the shoes and cleared the ice. Win-win.

Love the video. Leather jacket noise is a tad distracting though. Just a thought.

Humour is a big issue. Personally I'm a big guy...think John Wayne type of build. But because as a child I was often the youngest of our group of friends I was the fall guy for jokes. I've kept up that roll, I'm 54 now, and find it a great way to make friends, help others in social situations and I genuinely find it easy to laugh at myself. However, women haven't always seen this as a positive masculine thing. I've had women moan that I should stand up for myself when my friends are making fun of me. I had to point out to a lady a couple of years ago that hay, the lads aren't being cruel to me, it's how groups men are together..they banter. It shows I am popular with my friends and they are comfortable with me and I can take any amount of it...some people cannot and it will adversely affect them. Other women, like my wife, really appreciate my sense of humour and often realise that there one or two who go to far with a joke and it makes them look bad, not me.

I do all the cooking (and food shopping) in my house. My wife looooooves it so much. It’s not just because it’s tasty and good (it is), but because it’s one of the ways I take care of her. I’d add “be polite, especially to working people.” It takes no effort to say “thank you” to the Subway person who just made your sandwich, or give a smile to the bank teller. People will notice it.

Self reliance is so important! I have saved so much money working on my own cars. I was fortunate to have a dad who taught me. Men: learn it and pass it on to your sons.

What you said there, Antonio, is what men should have.

Question about that Leather jacket: towards the end of the video, I thought I could hear it "creaking" or rubbing on itself. I am looking in to getting a leather jacket soon, but the texture I associate with that sound always drives me nuts. Is that a "new jacket" thing that goes away after wearing it a few times, or is it dependent on the type of leather or finish?

0:50 Antonio attractiveness to the moon 📈📈

I found myself attractive for women. Thank you for your information.

I love how the jacket is squeaking throughout the video xD

I watch videos about how to dress well, then KZread recommends me videos on dating and attracting women. KZread is recommending me videos like it's saying an entirely different sentence. I just want to watch videos about men's fashion and put that content into practice! 😂 As a man though I find these qualities attractive in a personality. Book reading and cooking in particular is something I'm working on especially because I go to gym often, and I've been focusing on my mental health. The mental health part is another attractive component in my opinion.

Seven.....SEVEN! Props to ya man.

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Haha! Thanks.

I need to get back into reading, got a good mix of books I got the past few years ranging from history to just fiction. I started Twenty-Thousand Leagues Under the Sea a while ago but I never finished it because of classes. Cooking is also a huge benefit not just for attractiveness but you also save money on food and, if you eat healthy, your body has better "communication" with you since you are also eating for nutrients and not just for pleasure; what I mean is that once you get into this habit and you get sick, your stomach will actually tell you that it needs food even if you don't have taste.

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

Read Bronze Age Mindset

@hillsideonly

Жыл бұрын

​@@bryanutility9609 lol, not a BAP-er here again.

@hillsideonly

Жыл бұрын

What's your reading list on fiction and history??

@bryanutility9609

Жыл бұрын

@@hillsideonly Nietzsche

@hillsideonly

Жыл бұрын

@@bryanutility9609 you want me to be depressed??

i can cook basic things but cooking pancakes is the bane of my existence

where did you put the mic, i hear sounds of leather friction

Seems like a waste of time to put timestamps in the description if it's just going to be "Habit #1, #2," etc. It'd be much better to add value to.

I'm already married, but I find my wife really likes it when I am more assertive, cook, exercise, and definitely read (or learn a musical instrument) rather than watch tv.

Antonio - ability to cook was the reason why my Mrs married me. She was apparently impressed with my ability to cook on our 2nd encounter.

Do these things for yourselves guys ! Not for women or anyone else. Don't try to impress others, be yourselves and protect your peace of mind. If they don't like you, move on!. If you die today, those people who didn't like you keep living their lives. Everyone is the lead character in their own lives.

I didn't know you lived in Wisconsin. Madison, Milwaukee or someplace else? Where are your favorite men's stores?

👍👍👍

❤

Down with square toed shoes 👞!

The reading thing is a very big deal and I agree with everything else in this video. Except that ridiculous burnt orange jacket with the Bevo emblem. Maroon and White would look much better. (You do know I'm kidding around, right?).

Somebody is going to take those comment readings Antonio did at the beginning and use them out of context lol

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Hahaha!

It's good that you added subtitles because the squeaking of your manly leather jacket makes it hard to hear the audio.

But Antonio if I like the video, which I did, can still keep my square toed shoes?

Honestly, I clicked on this video expecting to be able to laugh at some "alpha male" shite, but these tips were more about improving yourself, with attraction being a nice bonus. Good vid, man

Love the jacket but the mic picks up every little sound of the leather.

I couldn’t read in Public. Too many distractions and it gives the vibe of wanting attention. I understand not everyone has the luxury of privacy and time like I do but there’s no way honed in the same with with so many distractions.

I once had a GF tell me I'm not needy ENOUGH, I was too self reliant! 🤷‍♂️

FYI it's self-deprecating, not depreciating.

I read a ton! If only I was hot... 😂

Video idea. Have you considered making a video on vintage/historic wear in modern times?

@RealMenRealStyle

Жыл бұрын

Good idea!

@britishbastard6561

Жыл бұрын

I love the look of detachable collars, but not the really obvious high ones

I've always had a natural curiosity for electrics and plumbing, but when it comes to cars I'm a complete dunce. Didn't get my driving license until I was nearly 40, and I still have no interest whatsoever in motoring 😂

Being rich works 100% of the time.

11:42 Is British english really an accent? Or might it simply be a language? And since British is the original, could we say that American english is the accent?

@ 03:10 WTF? haha...

Something to keep in mind "attractive" does not always equal to "arousing" both sounds close but bit different in their own ways

Some girl told me I looked sexy installing her car's battery one time. Come to think of it, my now wife once told me she thought it was kind of cool that I made my own home maintenance and gardening and stuff--I wonder if she meant she was attracted to that.

As a Rob Schneider fan I am offended, lol

WHERE IS THE SUMMARY GUY

Or self-deprecating humor

Self depreciating? Never heard that particular phrase. Perhaps you were trying to say: self deprecating.

TBH, I'm not gonna do these things because women find them attractive. If I'm going to do these things, it will be for my benefit, not theirs. Thanks for these self-improvement habits though!! 👍🏽

I love your content, Antonio. As a woman, I am tired of the female voices.