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@SkyleeKate

3 жыл бұрын

Haha Psych2Go Don’t lie i know you didn’t you made it public Also I love the art keep the good content going!

@Shahtheking540

3 жыл бұрын

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@ashleythehooman

3 жыл бұрын

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3 жыл бұрын

subscribed already : )))

@mubeenbaig610

3 жыл бұрын

Psych2go on God mode. Who agrees?

People always asking me "why are you so quiet?"

@Che_Yo

3 жыл бұрын

Bruh

@justsomepandawithinternet

3 жыл бұрын

But i ask you "Wai ar yoo geh?"

@hoodwitchniya

3 жыл бұрын

I frickin hate that

@AngelA-ym2jz

3 жыл бұрын

@@justsomepandawithinternet Lmao

@totallydreamer9793

3 жыл бұрын

Same thing happened to me too Like always

We love being alone, but not lonely

@lauras3871

3 жыл бұрын

yes!

@GeneralKennafa

3 жыл бұрын

indeed...

@amruthavalli1260

3 жыл бұрын

💯

@gh05tb0yz

3 жыл бұрын

RT!!!!

@vivekgogate3068

3 жыл бұрын

100% 💯 right

Extroverts be like: "Why u so quite?" Introverts: "No, time for stupid things"

@Nergal_Slayer

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah

@amanekaze

3 жыл бұрын

You meant "quiet" there no need to change it again

@fxrsnxwz5113

2 жыл бұрын

Yea lol and also.. Imagine that, theres a person asking to a introverts person, "why are you so quiet?" but they also ask to a extroverts person, "why are you so talkative?" and both of them notice and just be like.. "Is everything wrong? So we can do NOTHING?"

@nicetomeetyou8482

2 жыл бұрын

introverts be like:I just need to recharge the energy I've used lol.

@aestheticlife3184

2 жыл бұрын

Fr, unnecessary shit lmfao

For anyone who's in hurry. 6 things introverts wants others to know. 1. You are not depressed, and you're not mad at them. 2. You do enjoy company. 3. Just because you are quiet, doesn’t mean you are shy. 4. You aren't always insecure. 5. Many introverts are successful. 6. Introverts do like to have fun.

@luwidji

2 жыл бұрын

accurate, I would like so much that they understand me without me having to say it 😪

@senatorstevenarmstrong6703

2 жыл бұрын

@@luwidji My mom wants me to be extroverted and forces me to talk to people because she always brings me up and convinces others to talk to me. My mom knows I’m an introvert possibly close to extreme so I like to be alone but others like my mom doesn’t know that and says being alone is boring while it enables me to live out in my mind a rich inner world that I enjoy away from sadness that is real life

@senatorstevenarmstrong6703

2 жыл бұрын

@@luwidji Also I really do hope someday that people totally understand you and your perspective on things in your own life. I feel like I can understand you possibly

As an introvert, Introverts are misunderstood

@theblackbutterfly888

3 жыл бұрын

I hear you. We are.

@fayfay3152

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

@arrowghost

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, it hurts when many thought we're different

@Atrexiaa

3 жыл бұрын

If you live in Asia depression and introvert dont exist

@uuuhhhhhhhhhhh

3 жыл бұрын

@@Atrexiaa same, I live in Asia too and my parents constantly bug me go out talk to people and always remain happy.

"Why are you so quiet?" "Why are you so weird?" "Why are you always alone?" Will you just let me relax please?

@psych7656

3 жыл бұрын

People call me weird because i was listening a spanish song from an animated movie -.-

@shimpiyaa

3 жыл бұрын

Just reply " why do you care so much ? Thanks for the attention but I don't need it "

@renatosousa4721

3 жыл бұрын

I just usually ask them "Why do you talk so much?"

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

im an extrovert but I get knocked down for it lol

@eevoid1208

3 жыл бұрын

Answer WHY ARE YOU SO ANNOYING

People need to understand the difference between loneliness and alone time. We're not all depressed 😫

To all the extroverts out there, no, we don't like being lonely. Of course we love staying alone for days to come, but not lonely. We are human beings too, and humans are social creatures. As it was said in the video, we don't like small talks about our day-to-day life. We like having bigger conversations about things we love. And because most extroverted minds tend to lose patience, they cannot tolerate our discussion. And then leave us. And this is exactly why we don't want to make friends with just any random person. And usually tend to stay alone and think to ourselves about the things we love. We can freely talk to people. Yes, we have a lot of confidence. But, it is just that, our brains were designed in a way where we don't like small talk with people. Also, please, a big request, please don't ever ask "Why are you so quite?" It is is similar to asking an extrovert "Why are you so talkative?"

@sparkyblue7016

2 жыл бұрын

Facts . I don't have a big friend circle (I have only 1 close friend ) . I have friends but not close ones and I don't like talking to people a lot unless I have to or want to . Once a girl asked me if I'm an introvert or extrovert . I said I'm an introvert . "But why , why don't you introverts like to talk?" And I was like 😶😶. Yeah , she was an extrovert .

@rachelmills1375

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! I feel so judged by people who are extroverts when they say that. Its like i cant be myself

@fxrsnxwz5113

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I'm very introverts with ppl out there. And if they ask "why are you always quiet?" i just.. Idk.. I prob just say "nothing" and also whenever someone else (except my fam) talk to me, i just got very nervous and also sometimes my classmates misunderstand me for being quiet and also why i only call them classmates is bc yeah, they not my friends

@fxrsnxwz5113

2 жыл бұрын

@Ikerrad true! Just bc we're in the same class doesnt mean we're friends so

@houseofartstalent8055

2 жыл бұрын

I like u!

"Just because you're quiet, doesn't mean you are shy" ANY TRUERS!?!?!?

@xxcupidsarrowxx8060

3 жыл бұрын

TRUEEEEEE!

@Someone-km3mx

3 жыл бұрын

Yes true

@theblackbutterfly888

3 жыл бұрын

True.

@goat1993

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, but I am shy lmao

@anjithaa4521

3 жыл бұрын

It's true.

My mom ask why I look mad all the time. It’s literally just my face.

@oxymoronic717

3 жыл бұрын

Same bro same You'd think my parents would be used to my natural face by now but nOpE

@goldenbird514

3 жыл бұрын

Same. Even introverts can be misunderstood by parents. Nice lesson to be learned

@siradmin6791

3 жыл бұрын

It's called a 'resting b i t c h face'

@bob-so2oy

3 жыл бұрын

same it gets on my nerves all the time

@helloitslilian7996

3 жыл бұрын

i look sad so everyone always asks me if i’m ok but no it’s just my resting face

"I saw you sitting by yourself and thought you looked lonely," I was actually fine by myself and wasn't really feeling all that lonely.

@DisneyfanBeckers

2 жыл бұрын

Inside my head: I wasn't lonely but I am irritated now

I hate when my parents and friends make me make “friends” it’s so hard and I’m introvert WITH social anxiety:( it’s so stressful for me

@billieeilish4735

3 жыл бұрын

I understand, same here

@jesussaves8825

2 жыл бұрын

This is so true.

@moonl1314

2 жыл бұрын

This is a situation where I would take my anger out on the adults for not understanding and being so ignorant to not notice they're rubbing salt on a wound

@saido4178

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah same but atleast my friend knows.

@fxrsnxwz5113

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah ikr, i mean, i do understand that my parents want me to have friends, but like.. Listen, i can't control it.. Its not like i dont wanna have friends, ofc i wanted to, i dont wanna be lonely, but i can't change. I am an introverts and i cant really change it. I try to talk to ppl but i cant. Sometimes it kinda feel pressured when everyone keep telling you to do so. I mean, they should understand, we are an introverts, and we do want friends, but its not easy to do that. And also, ppl in my country arent really nice and careless about others, they were very picky of ppl, that was one of the reason i dont have friends. I was quiet so they dont wanna be friends with me. Again, its not easy for introverts to just talk to ppl normally like extroverts, i wish they understand.

i hate when people say "oh you talk??" 😀😀

@ponkypink3389

3 жыл бұрын

I would just not talk and then bitch slap whoever say that then walk off

@ifrahjama2215

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@Noodles73__

3 жыл бұрын

omg bruhhh so me

@mentallyunstableram

3 жыл бұрын

Ik that’s the most annoying thing 🙄

@blessedfromtx.1910

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

Signs you might be an introvert👍 Need quiet to concentrate. Are reflective. Are self-aware. Take time making decisions. Feel comfortable being alone. Don't like group work. Prefer to write rather than talk. Feel tired after being in a crowd.

@fanimation1603

3 жыл бұрын

SO TRUE...I always feel comfy and safe alone and IDK why but my dad thinks that something is not right but that's not true I just like being alone it helps me think deep...

@theblackbutterfly888

3 жыл бұрын

So true.

@StarPuppetBoy

3 жыл бұрын

I prefer to Type and not to Call and I dont and I mean DONT like being in a group project

@Sunflower_that_loves_you

3 жыл бұрын

I am an ambivert, but I am more introvert type and I can relate to some✌🏻

@m1aouzdt

3 жыл бұрын

As a social introvert, yes this is me

“Being quiet is NOT the same as being shy!” I ain’t never heard anything truer- 😌✌🏻

Me: I'm introvert. Friend: Oh, you're just shy. Me: *angry noises*

As an introvert, it is hard living in an extroverted world. You get pushed into situations you don't want to be in. You can get bullied just for being quiet. It sucks, but all you extroverts just got to chill out a bit and be patient. If you do, introverts will be some of the best friends you will ever have.

@totallydreamer9793

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@vaidehiranade3046

3 жыл бұрын

So true man...and we often think its completely our fault that we r not able to keep up with this world

@aishwarya1567

3 жыл бұрын

So damn true, I hate myself sometimes for this

@rxxalyz3071

3 жыл бұрын

yeah, and you stay quiet because if you say something you will hurt their feelings

@tejas4567

3 жыл бұрын

@@rxxalyz3071 yeah that's why we like to be quiet

When you are shy and Introvert and have social anxiety all together *P A T H E T I C*

@plutodraws8523

3 жыл бұрын

I agree cause I have S.A.D too and I'm shy and introvert... it sucks.. I can't make friends...

@lamyy_x

3 жыл бұрын

@@plutodraws8523 poor soul hope for all the Introverts best luck including me lol :>

@vaidehiranade3046

3 жыл бұрын

OMG....Me too....But whenever I feel shaky I remember that I am not alone :)

@evawambani7992

3 жыл бұрын

🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

@misbahmariyam7247

3 жыл бұрын

That hurts

That last part on #3 was soooo accurate. I always find myself praying that people stop talking about one-sided topics and change the subject to something we can both go into deeper detail with.

I'm an extrovert and I'm glad I watched this because I always want to make sure I am not hurting the feelings or bothering any introverts🥰

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

Good.

@berhonkusbardledoo

11 ай бұрын

I have crazy respect for you then- I relate to this video so much and I wish everyone would watch it.

@berhonkusbardledoo

11 ай бұрын

I have crazy respect for you then- I relate to this video so much and I wish everyone would watch it.

@Amethyst0407

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to understand us! It means a lot

"our bedroom are gosh darn cosy" YES! this is the truth!

@leovaldez3283

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss

@ezraelreynolds3442

2 жыл бұрын

@@leovaldez3283 Percy Jackson

@user-df2dx6wv8l

2 жыл бұрын

I am an extrovert, and I prefer my bedroom from a new place I dont know.

@RandomInternetStranger

2 жыл бұрын

fricc yeah I got a foam cover for my bed, I got a lil desk to do work and stuff at, I got a neat lil wardrobe with a good organization of comfy clothes in one drawer and social stuff in another, and a ton of other stuff. I spend nearly every day in here for multiple hours, may as well make it nice to live in and see the full beauty of. Simplistic in design, very late 90's to early 2000's-ish, very... soft, I guess you could say. iss just a lil comfy room with all the necessities, and the only space I can safely call home.

@peatama7002

2 жыл бұрын

@JubileeLineAbby yessss

Introverts are also very keen and observant, that’s why they were quiet while listening your blabbers

@trentlaststand4574

3 жыл бұрын

@Saly Adel same bro same

@noelabanilla2884

3 жыл бұрын

Oh true im always listening to others...

@introvertedpotato9175

3 жыл бұрын

@Saly Adel Mhm!

@fewbronzegames

3 жыл бұрын

@Saly Adel can't relate I always daydream

@staystronglikeanarmy4347

3 жыл бұрын

You don't know me but you know me-

My parents don’t like the fact that i stay in my room for a long time each day, but when I sit with them it feels boring, they don’t chat about anything important (like they only do small talk) i also get really tired from crowds and stuff and my parents notice that but i don’t know if they understand. Like its not like I don’t wanna be there, its just I know i’m gonna crash from spending time with so many people

@Soso-ce4op

3 жыл бұрын

I understand how you feel

@xtoftef

2 жыл бұрын

Same, they always blame me for staying in my room but i just like the peacefulness and comfort of my room.

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

@@xtoftef same

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

I'd rather read my favourite books than spending time crazily partying with drunk crowds or being in an awkward family gathering

@agentorange153

5 ай бұрын

@@oyshirahman897 Same here!

Whenever I take some time and space to be alone everyone goes on their assumption that I have some kind of problems, I try hard to not look as introverted as I am but I really enjoyed spending the time I have with myself away from people,even tho I LOVE those in my life I just do not see it as a necessity to keep in touch all the time.

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

Same

"I don't see how you can stand being quiet all the time." Silence is only as awkward as you make it. If I don't have anything to talk about with somebody, I just simply don't talk to them because what's the point? It's nothing personal against them. I just don't see the reason in talking to somebody when there isn't anything to talk about with them.

@coquimapping8680

3 жыл бұрын

For some reason I have the magical ability to create something to talk about when there’s nothing.

@Reesanicole83

3 жыл бұрын

I have the sense that people who are uncomfortable with silence or being alone have more issues to work out than people who aren't. It's called contentment. It's being comfortable in my own skin, my own space, and my own company. When people come to my house, the most common remark is the level of comfort here. You really can just relax. No feeling like you need to entertain me or be entertained by me. Let's just chill.. take a nap if you want.

@shimpiyaa

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. One girl asked me" why don't you talk ?" I replied " I have nothing to talk about with you" Also if you don't like silence just start talking yourself , I'll just listen.

@Trollestiatumblur

3 жыл бұрын

I’ve been telling my friend for 2 months now that I like the quiet and silence doesn’t bother me. If I have nothing to say then I just won’t say anything. But whenever there’s silence of more than 3 seconds he’s like “You’re quiet all of a sudden” and this happens multiple times a day. It’s so frustrating. He says he’s uncomfortable with silence and I told him “well I’m not just gonna think of anything to say if I have nothing.” I wish he would just respect that. He has a lot of issues too and doesn’t like to be alone. I like him, I like talking to him, but sometimes he’s seriously draining, especially because we talk every single day

@cloudyheather3770

3 жыл бұрын

I walk with my friend to school everyday and it's so awkward when I don't have anything to talk about with her and she's not saying anything either. I would love to talk with her about things but I just don't know how to start a conversasion. She always says that I should talk more (she means it in a good way, she just doesn't know how I feel) but I just don't know what to talk about :(

“Introverts don’t have friends, they get adopted by extroverts”

@fairywww

3 жыл бұрын

?

@prettypuffprincess

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

@StarryPrism

3 жыл бұрын

Yep😔

@vio7565

3 жыл бұрын

sadly enough

@j.hawkins8779

3 жыл бұрын

* insert something about gatcha * (I'm just meming it up, ok)

Everyone else: 2020 was so bad, I was so bored Me, inside reading: Wait, what’s the problem again?

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

Same. I literally didn't want quarantine to end cz I got so much time to do things I like without having to stress over daily life and school. Now school has opened and my anxiety is back again. And people can chat or video call online. It's not like they have no means of communication 😬extroverts in my class were acting like they were dying so they requested teachers to open school during quarantine.

@peatama7002

2 жыл бұрын

i was so happy in lockdown...

@-1_void

Жыл бұрын

@@peatama7002 me too

“What is it like to be an introvert?” Making friends is damn hard.

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

True🗿

@agentorange153

5 ай бұрын

But the flip side is, there's NO NEED to make friends -- you can have just ONE person of the opposite sex, preferably one just as introverted as you, to be BOTH your lover AND your only close friend, and interact with everyone else on a purely transactional basis! Nice, huh?

i don't understand why people cant be happy being by themselves. Why do people think its so weird that I like being alone, like why cant u be alone.

@fewbronzegames

3 жыл бұрын

our brains try and relate ourselves as much as possible and when it can't then if refuses to believe it

@supertuber120

2 жыл бұрын

@@fewbronzegames That's pretty much it. People who aren't happy when they're alone just don't get how someone could be happy when they are. Not everyone's the same but in general as a species we're not good at seeing things from someone else's point of view.

@fewbronzegames

2 жыл бұрын

@@supertuber120 mhm

@lunarialoonatic

2 жыл бұрын

It just depends. My sister loves being around people and finds it boring to be by herself and after a while she just feels lonely

@liamdahlberg1332

2 жыл бұрын

I hate being alone, I need people to recharge. You need alone time to recharge.

as an introvert, I can say that my life didn't change in the slightest because of corona, before the outbreak I sat in my room all day by myself anyway and that is still the case lol

@vaidehiranade3046

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I am saying...Quarantine is the time in the Extroverted world when INTROVERTS ROCKK :)

@akshatjain2087

3 жыл бұрын

lol me too. tbh it is better inside home not studying at all due to less useless syllabus😅😂😂😂

@j.hawkins8779

3 жыл бұрын

press (A): S A M E

@michelleschrock9141

3 жыл бұрын

My workplace was closed for 2 months. Everyone needed to stay at home and don't leave the house. Only for groceries. For me it was like heaven 😇👼🛌

@powder9157

3 жыл бұрын

it improved for me because now i dont have to go to school which means no more s o c i a l i n t e r a c t i o n s

The "shy is not the same as introversion" really hits me hard. I just got my first job a few days ago and I'm working as a waiter. And my mom was surprised when I was able to talk to customers. For some reason she thinks I'm shy because I don't always talk. No matter how many times I tell her that I'm not shy, she'll always go back to me being shy

I'm always asked, "why are you quiet?" And I hate it. I also hate it when people tell me to smile because my resting face isn't a smile as most people's aren’t I would assume. I relate to the whole list in the video.

@introvertedpotato9175

3 жыл бұрын

@i .candy wow 😂🤦‍♀️

I am definitely an extrovert but always find introverts to be fascinating and endearing ♥️♥️♥️

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Likewise! :)

@galaxynigga

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go hi

@mori_a.Wolfboi

3 жыл бұрын

@@Shushkin that was rude but say what you willing, I'm to an introvert but being different doesn't give you permission to be an ass hole. Extroverts are more talkative because that's just how they are and we have to accept them for that and they have to accept us for being quiet. It's all about respect

@yukeroinactivated6984

3 жыл бұрын

@@Shushkin Harsh, as I have an extrovert friend and their nosy but that’s what I like about them, they get my confidence up.

@AcrezulDragogen

3 жыл бұрын

I’m kind of an in between. I can make myself seem like an extrovert at times but other times I rarely talk and keep to myself. I usually only mention something if it truly bothers me or I find it interesting. Actually small quick edit: I spend a lot of time with my friends(mostly through Xbox or other forms) and I love talking to them, just sometimes I feel like quieting down and letting others take the wheel at the conversation. Sometimes I just stay silent because I know there’s not much I can contribute to the conversation. Yes yes I know.. two edits in under an hour... Edit 2: I’ve known for a while now I never always had an introverted side. I was kind forced into being one. By my own self, actually. When I was in elementary school I was constantly bullied but at my young age I never really understood what they meant and just forgot about it(I’m autistic which probably added to why I didn’t understand) and when I got older I started thinking about it and then I realized it. I knew what they meant. And it stuck with me, eating away at me and I never told anyone. Until 1 friend that I owe my life too. I’m still suffering from it but I know I have people that truly care for me.

Definitely something everyone should watch.

@Omega-jg4oq

3 жыл бұрын

But they will never understand

@mysteryhatter

3 жыл бұрын

@@Omega-jg4oq Literally Try to make extroverts understand introverts is like force dogs to eat cat food

@coquimapping8680

3 жыл бұрын

@@mysteryhatter As an extrovert that’s accurate

@coquimapping8680

3 жыл бұрын

@@mysteryhatter Its also the same for introverts understanding extroverts

@Omega-jg4oq

3 жыл бұрын

@@mysteryhatter you see, you can't understand someone until you feel their pain and know about their past, that is just the basics that people don't know because they can't unnecessary stop being b*****

The struggle is when you are an introvert, shy and have social anxiety. Sometimes not even I can really tell the difference if I just wanna be alone for myself or because I'm scared of people. I am in therapy and it works, but I still have a long way to conquer my anxiety in many situations. Can relate to all the points ♥

"Do you relate to any of these?" me: ALL of it

"yOu dOn't tAlk A lOt" Well yes because I don't like to

@Shushkin

3 жыл бұрын

Because only fools need to be yapping on about nothing for hours

@corinnebloom7005

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with both these statements

@vaidehiranade3046

3 жыл бұрын

@@Shushkin That's not always the case tho...

@sunnyaccount3984

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@coquimapping8680

3 жыл бұрын

For some reason, I like talking. I feel like I’m doing something productive, and enjoying it.

*When you're shy and an introvert* *Amateur*

@Chiiyqn

3 жыл бұрын

Amateur*

@yuziferry570

3 жыл бұрын

"Ametuer"

@ceci_sph

3 жыл бұрын

lmao same

@gabrieldossantossanta5656

3 жыл бұрын

And low self-esteeme

@fairyfellermasterstroke

3 жыл бұрын

People noticing 'ametuer' but not noticing 'your'...

I want friends, I want company. As someone said in the comments " *I like being alone, but I don't like being lonely* "

@bunnysoup6858

Жыл бұрын

​@@squarohedron0664 I wish

@agentorange153

5 ай бұрын

I'd rather be lonely than have too much company!

People say we need to talk more and that being quiet will get you nowhere but they never tell the extroverts to shut up

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

THIS!! Somebody needs to tell this to my mom. I swear she's always pushing me to socialise it's so annoying

Me in fifth grade during break time: *casually drawing on my desk* My teacher: Hey kids why don't you play with iris? Also me: *triggered*

@pissonmytoast

3 жыл бұрын

Random church leader deciding to talk to me bc I’m by myself and looking lonely: 😁🥰🤗 Me just getting anxious and uncomfortable: 🧚‍♀️✨💀😔😣😖 That one girl who decides to force me to smile and hugs me bc I looks sad: 🥰😁 PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND IM NOT SAD IM JUST IN MY OWN LITTLE WORLD GET AWAY OR I JUST READ A SAD FANFIC I STILL DONT NEED YIUR HELP WITH THAT. AND IM BY MYSELF I CAN GO TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE DONT TALK TO ME I CLEARLY DONT WANAN TALK TO PEOPLE RN

@amanekaze

3 жыл бұрын

Cbdjsjshdhdidhfnddkkdididjdhdhdjdjshxjd i draw too but that was on my primary school

@michelleschrock9141

3 жыл бұрын

Same.

@annamariecat_b

3 жыл бұрын

That's a nice teacher you had... But some of my teachers were/are just as other kids. "Where are your friends? Why are you so quiet? (the classical one's in class:You know you need to learn to say your own opinion and what's on your mind. Because you clearly are too quiet and shy.)" Me thinking: I can't tell you what's on my mind, because I would roast everyone and you would kick me out. How's that. xd

@fewbronzegames

3 жыл бұрын

@@pissonmytoast I also have autism which makes me look pretty emotionless a lot of the time so people always see me as ungrateful or sad

One thing I love about being introverted: I get all the time in the world to reflect and daydream. 😄✨✨✨ One thing I dislike about being introverted: Seeing how well extroverts shine without seeming to even try. When times get hard and I need allies, those can be hard to find.

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

@Ontonda Ndou same

@zhanyuxie7869

2 жыл бұрын

damn so true. sadly you literally described my current daily life.

I’m an introvert and am usually really calm and quite, but occasionally I’ll have a day when I’m really energetic and hyped up and loud.

@lemcn_d3m0n

2 жыл бұрын

Sm

I am a more introverted person, and I have social anxiety. My family likes to go places solely to socialize but even though I am almost a teenager I still just choose to hide behind my parents. I’ve had a lot of traumatic experiences in life, and this made me mature much faster. The adults at the parties we attend always drunkenly tell me “go play with the other kids” I’m thankful that my parents get it and they defend me. They understand I will socialize when I want to. And then there are the other times , where it’s kids I know. And when I am especially anxious, I don’t feel good about talking to them. They say “do you hate me now or something?!?!?” I don’t. Then I feel bad so I try to socialize but then that makes me anxious so I try to hide myself anywhere then the adults say “stop hiding. You are being so weird just go play” which makes me even MORE anxious and then eventually I start crying and hiding and then of course EVERYBODY in the room is looking at me and pause the tv or whatever to just look. That is when I feel so horrible. This did happen by the way. Because I’m crying I yell “PLEASE JUST FORGET IM HERE!!! PRETEND I DIED!!!!!” And then I immediately feel bad for yelling. I can’t win. Sorry for rambling, I know most couldn’t care less about my story but I hope some who relate find solitude in the fact that they aren’t weird, and they aren’t the only one that feels this way… good day I guess. Don’t know why I wrote this.

@fayekahnafmanaf2015

Жыл бұрын

Omg same! But still I'm really sorry to hear that. I hope you do well in the future.

To all y’all extroverts 😑 Being quiet doesn’t mean you’re depressed. There’s just nothing to talk about. Period. Point blank.

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

i knew

When I say that I need to be alone, that means to actually go away, not attempt to make me laugh or further invade my personal space. Get the hell away from me.

@banan9432

3 жыл бұрын

"I need to be alone" would sound like something is up to anyone so how about you word it differently

@idontgiveaff

3 жыл бұрын

Same!

@gaillewis5472

3 жыл бұрын

That's some plain English. It can't get more simple than that.

@Fried_Chimken

3 жыл бұрын

@@banan9432 Any suggestions?

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

I never meant to invade your personal space sis. You have your privacy...chile.... Also you gotta realize some of us are super self conscious and we think y’all hate us! We also put ourselves down for just being the way we are! So great to be an extrovert right it must be so easy 😀

I don’t see my dad often because my parents are divorced, but when I do I’m often uncomfortable. My dad is an extreme extrovert and is friends with basically his whole town and his entire family are also extroverts. But I’m introverted, and I don’t like to go out every hour just to see a family member or see one of his friends, and I don’t even want to make friends where he lives because by the end of the week (which is when I see him) I’m very drained from a busy social week, and that just makes him think that I’m antisocial and that I give up on people before I even meet them. But the truth is that I’m just not comfortable around new people who I don’t know if I can trust or not, and I’m just tired of people after being around so many for so long. I love him and all, but I really wish he would give me a break because otherwise every time I get to his house I really do get social anxiety, and that sucks Maybe I’ll send this to him, but I feel like he’d be annoyed 🙄

mom: "why are you so quiet?" me: "it's in the silence that my mind works"

give psych2go a reward, as an introvert this vid is true

@michelleschrock9141

3 жыл бұрын

🥇🏅

Parents: We'd like to see more of your face, you spend so much time alone in your room! Me, in my head: Well yes it is a safe space with music and books and Animal Crossing how could you not want to be in your room 24/7, this family stresses me out big time Me, out loud: ...ok *runs back into room*

@pineapple423

3 жыл бұрын

One time my mom told me to keep my door open more often and I didn’t so she taped a large laminated picture of my school photo onto my door :’). This comment is getting a little too close to home-

@Gotsole-vm3ut

3 жыл бұрын

Story of my life

@raccoon4090

3 жыл бұрын

@@pineapple423 This is true torture, I bet you looked ✨fabulous✨ though

@pineapple423

3 жыл бұрын

@@raccoon4090 I actually looked like a ✨ 𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑦 𝑔𝑟𝑜𝑠𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑖 𝑐𝑎𝑛𝑛𝑜𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑘 𝑜𝑓 𝑎 𝑐𝑜𝑚𝑝𝑎𝑟𝑖𝑠𝑜𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑟𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑛𝑜𝑤 ✨

@raccoon4090

3 жыл бұрын

@@pineapple423 hunny no I'm sure you look ✨stunning✨

I needed this video. Not that I am an introvert but I have an introvert friend that I really want to understand and be available. She's been stressed out these days and lots of the things in this video are things she does

My bf is an introvert while I'm an extravert through and through. At times we have quite different needs. But there is a lot we can learn from each other, allowing us both to grow. This video made me reflect on those things and genuinely gave me some new insights to understand him better.

The quiet one is so true. I enjoy conversations but not when they’re useless. But then again, it depends on my mood.

@coquimapping8680

3 жыл бұрын

In my opinion, no conversation is useless.

@Waytotheland

3 жыл бұрын

@@coquimapping8680 I get you.

@coquimapping8680

3 жыл бұрын

@Saly Adel That’s not being an introvert, that’s just being a normal person.

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

@Saly Adel noone enjoys that.. not even an extrovert

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

@@coquimapping8680 yeah..

People sometimes get surprised when I talk. I’m not necessarily sad when I’m alone, I just like to be alone to recharge, and then I will talk to my friends.

@mattl5727

3 жыл бұрын

@Saly Adel same! Art is my outlet, and I prefer to be alone when doing it

@fxrsnxwz5113

2 жыл бұрын

Me too, my classmates sometimes get surprised when i talk, and when i do something that they normally do, they were just staring at me weirdly. And also, i feel embarrassed easily. So i cant really forget or not feel embarrassed when they do that.

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

@@fxrsnxwz5113 same

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

@Saly Adel same

@alissonrose97

2 жыл бұрын

I’m kind of an ambivert but I was a huge introvert when I was in elementary. So much that teachers would clap for me whenever I would answer a question. I hated that

I can relate to this video forever. In the breaks at school i usually sit alone in a corner and draw and everyone thinks I'm mad or sad or I don't have friends. An other thing is that I don't talk enough so people think I'm shy or something but I just don't want to talk so much and a lot of these times I'm just thinking something. Gosh, I'm tired of these things.Why can't people understand that I want to spend time with myself:/. Sometimes I think the only ones that understand me are my friends,the internet,or people like you. :)

My dad thinks that I have psychological problems because I don't like hanging out with other kids. I like talking with them, but only when I'm comfortable, which is not that often. My only close friends are my cousins, who are 13 years older than me.

I feel "You do enjoy company" on a spiritual level.

1. You're not depressed, and you're not mad at them 0:45 2. You do enjoy company 1:13 3. Just because you are quite, doesn't mean your shy 1:33 4. You aren't always insecure 2:06 5. Many introverts are successful 2:34 6. Introverts do like to have fun 3:28 Reply if you're an introvert, because I am!

@iammyself7798

3 жыл бұрын

Yes introvert club 😄✌🏿

@oscararias-vezina9724

3 жыл бұрын

I'm an introvert, AND I confirm that the content of this video is totally true.

@zwolf2453

3 жыл бұрын

I’m an introvert

@htft753

3 жыл бұрын

I'm an introvert hehe But not online Tho ;P

@metalxner5411

2 жыл бұрын

Wassup introvert fam

"Leave me alone" -That's me asking for hugs and cuddles please. Force me into a hug.

I like being alone, but online im a social butterfly. A stark contrast to how i actually am. I usually prefer being around my pets and family rather than with crowds of people i don't know. Ive always had trouble socializing and especially making eye contact.

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

Same

When you’re an introvert with depression, social anxiety, and you hate yourself

@Fionacle

3 жыл бұрын

@Saly Adel I do write! It does help me feel a lot better to get my feeling and experiences on paper or to project them onto a character in my stories. Thank you for the kind words! I have a friend group of people with many different interests do opinions so I can share certain things with different people, it’s just I have some things I can’t share with anyone and even the things I do share I wish I could be more open about. It’s really nice to know that someone ours there cares and understands, I hope you have a wonderful day! 😊❤️

@Fionacle

3 жыл бұрын

Ack I thought with was a different comment so just disregard the part about my friends I’m working through my issues with my therapist! :)

@Fionacle

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Also idk man maybe they just don’t understand how people can get so much energy from interacting when it’s the opposite for introverts

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

@@Fionacle mm I think they just pretend to be like you guys and think it’s cool. OR THEY NEED MENTAL HELP.

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry about that dear. I recommend therapy and to find some coping mechanisms. You can journal, listen to music, or use some object you can squish or touch. I hope it gets better for you

I am a real introvert and I really relate to this video. So, thanks. I wish people could understand all these things because really often I feel misunderstood. I'm happy this channel exists. ❤️

I appreciate your videos which help me understand introverts better.

Your so wright... I love being alone. And it's so much harder to be with narcistic people. They really can make me mad.... I don't like to be told everytime the same bad thing. There is always something wrong with me!!!! That drains me like instant. And then these people are mad that I want to talk about it and then they say I'm getting loud. That is a bond breaker and the hardest for us to be around

I am the only introvert in my school, and they think introvert is just an excuse to not hang out with them

@Shushkin

3 жыл бұрын

Might as well use it

@anjithaa4521

3 жыл бұрын

Send them the link of this video friend....

@idiotpathiczip

3 жыл бұрын

@@anjithaa4521 ok

@vaidehiranade3046

3 жыл бұрын

Aw thats so sad ☹️

@khdooy025

3 жыл бұрын

My family thinks introverts are some kind of Psychiatric autistic people and they won't stop talking shit if i told them that i am an introvert

"Yes Mother, I'm fine, I just need to recharge." Story of my life!

This helped me so much and your voice is so calm and relaxing 😊 introvert here and I don't know if it's only me but when I'm asked something I keep it short and straight to the point and I struggle to speak up a lot. So much so that I was for a while mistaken for being mute

I'm introverted, sadly, because of low self-esteem. I'm not physically fit, I don't make a lot of money, I don't drive (as I feel too uncoordinated)...it's hard to present myself to someone of the opposite sex because of all that. And I often get misunderstood. People actually think I'm gay, when the truth is I'm too embarrassed to present myself the way I am.

Me just now trying to explain myself as an introvert to my family 👁 👄 👁

@aprilvismanos3016

3 жыл бұрын

why do you make it feel as if being an introvert is changing genders?

@jamsya493

3 жыл бұрын

Relatable. But I just don’t explain myself

@lilypierie9126

3 жыл бұрын

@@aprilvismanos3016 what do you mean? That has nothing to do with this. I’m just saying I am an introvert lol

@lilypierie9126

3 жыл бұрын

@@jamsya493 lol a lot of the time I don’t either

@coquimapping8680

3 жыл бұрын

@@lilypierie9126 I think he means like your making it look more important than it is (but I’m not saying that, it’s just what I think he’s saying)

Introverts are mysterious

@Sobek-khufu

3 жыл бұрын

That's the point

@AngelA-ym2jz

3 жыл бұрын

dUh

@carriegrasty8852

3 жыл бұрын

Were not supposed to be understood so yes we are mysterious

@ipettynote

3 жыл бұрын

I mean...yeah

@gigglesandtickles9159

3 жыл бұрын

extroverts make introverts hate themselves because of this exact statement so stop saying it please and thank you

This is the first video I've watched from this channel and I really enjoyed it. I also enjoy listening to the narrator's voice.

"People may think you're feeling depressed because of how much time you spend alone with yourself." me inside the room: *gaming*

@oyshirahman897

2 жыл бұрын

Lol💀

I love these vids just makes me really comfy and loved

@-iiixiii--identity-5921

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr lol

@system_ai9248

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheLuckyblockbro Her calm and warm voice is really relaxing. And the drawings are really lovely.

People always say I'm shy, but I'm quiet, not shy. At home I like to be alone but still have fun

Tq so much!🥰 This is what we really need others to know! A lot of ppl thought I am mad when I suddenly quiet. I just want some personal space😂😂 I m tired emotionally haha

Your voice gives me positive chills, like I am so chilled and kalm right know. I love watching the videos and doing some breathing sessions. I see this channel as a good podcast. I don't mean your litte cute pictures are bad, you just have a difference to other channels that you teach things and I love to listen. Someday I would love to support you, when I get money. Wish you a nice time❤

I spend over 90% of life outside work alone and need it to recharge and avoid unnecessary tedious chat/gossip..💛

"why are you so quiet" "stop being awkward" "i can't hear you when you mumble" leave me alone 😃

@anne-lynngroen4814

2 жыл бұрын

RELATEABLE THESE 3 i hear themmy whole life long

@korok_05

2 жыл бұрын

@@anne-lynngroen4814 SAME HELP 🥲🥲

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

They don’t know you. Don’t get hung-up on the opinions of strangers who aren’t even trying to understand you. It’s not worth your time and neither are they (unless you vibe otherwise or have some sort of connection with them).

Thank you for this video! As an introvert I’ve been struggling lately with people wanting me to be somebody I’m not

Sometimes we do need someone to notice us and stand up for us, and we aren't good at asking without sounding needy.

The thing is, I’m not really an introvert, well kinda in between Yes i am overwhelmed when given too much attention. But it doesn’t mean I hate it. I am shy, just don’t force me to talk, that’s the only time I’m timid.

Thanks for the video. I'll seriously tell my friends to watch it!

"As an introvert, You love relaxing in your room." Aha.... Haha- I never get alone time- And I just wish I had a room so I can just relax in there all day- hopefully with a window, sunlight passing through.. There ain't no relax time when someone's in the same room as me and that's always

I understand introverts, I'm one and so are some of my friends. •v•

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing! How many of these points did you relate to?

@haseenabadshah5381

3 жыл бұрын

Gacha is cringe.

@user-vc8lu9eb1l

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go most

As an introvert i can relate to it

Thank you so much for this🥺now I can show everyone beside me what actually I feel❤

if you havent gotten a comment like this yet you have the most calming voice ive ever heard. ive felt anxious amd watched one fo your videos and it just helped massively

They also think im bored when I'm in my own headspace and I have to leave it and say no I'm fine but they think I'm lying or something is bothering me, the truth is I don't want to leave my thoughts :(

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

:( i hope you get the courage to tell them that you just like being alone

I'm an introvert and I often feel like nobody understands me. What hurts me the most is that my best friend is the one who's always pushing me to be "better" by telling me that I should talk or go out more. Many times I felt like there was something wrong with me, but you know what? I love who I am and I'll never let anyone change me just because I'm not as they wish I were. I'm not afraid to lose the ones I love if that's the consequence for loving myself. I love my friends and I always try to understand them when they do something I don't like, but I feel like they're not willing to do the same...this sucks

I’m a introvert and It also comes with self esteem issues and social anxiety. When digital learning started in 2020 for my school I was fine with being alone at home cause it was my comfort but for the next few days I was lonely and alone and I wanted to see people like to observe not in a weird way and it made it really hard for me which made me be more alone that I was. The thing is with me is that I used to being alone since I didn’t have friends cause they would come and go but they wouldn’t stick to me, which also makes it hard for me to talk to people and me not noticing social cues/ impulse partly cause of my ADHD and RSD. One of the things is that I can talk to people but it can take a lot of time and courage for me.

did not expect this to resonate so deep !!

Im an Introvert, i embrace it, and i love it!💛😌

Thanks a lot! Every extrovert should see this video. People think i am shy, they get surprised whenever i say something🤦🏻

@sync_mxlly5610

3 жыл бұрын

mm I saw these vids but I don't think its um that bad to get shocked when a quiet person says soemthing, educate me

These videos make realize things about myself in many ways, thank you for helping me in that way

I'm so glad this video exists ^v^ To be honest I couldn't quite figure out why I did these things myself.. I thought I was depressed and got all confused but this video helped me a lot! Thank You!

As an ambivert,I almost feel like I can turn it off and on when I'm interested and comfortable but I generally don't like having to center that time around other people and their activities

@gigagigagigagigagiga

3 жыл бұрын

I felt this comment on a gut, platonic and spiritual level.

@josephoshaughnessy7124

3 жыл бұрын

I'm an ambivert to (ENTP)

theres a difference between quiet and why as well

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

She did mention that in the video.

It's so odd and provoking, when my parents and siblings force me to come out of my room. It's also irritating no one knows, what I feel, like being tired.

@Anonymous_Anon882

Жыл бұрын

Mhm, it’s different when it’s family. All they have are your best interests at heart. Maybe show them this video.

“why are u mad/sad?” I’m not mad/sad! this is literally my normal expression 👁👅👁