6 Signs You're Actually an Introvert, Not Shy
Have you often been told that you’re shy? But deep inside you, you know you’re not. Maybe you’re a bit quiet at times, and you just don’t care for small talk. Or maybe you find it hard to connect with some people, but that doesn’t mean you’re afraid of socializing. Well, instead of being shy, you may just be an introvert all along. Here are six signs you’re actually an introvert, and not shy.
We also made a video on signs it's social anxiety, not introversion: • 5 Signs It's Social An...
Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Sam Rain ( / sadsamrain )
KZread Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
Cherry, K. (2021). 8 signs you might be an introvert. Verywell Mind. www.verywellmind.com/signs-you-are-an-introvert-2795427.
PowerofPositivity. (2021, April 15). 10 signs you are not shy, you are actually an introvert. Power of Positivity: Positive Thinking & Attitude. www.powerofpositivity.com/10-signs-not-shy-actually-introvert/.
Sakurai, C. (2015, August 26). 24 signs you're An Introvert- not shy. Lifehack. www.lifehack.org/285869/24-signs-youre-introvert-not-shy.
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Comment below if you are an introvert! Also, we also made a video on signs it's social anxiety, not introversion: kzread.info/dash/bejne/i5eVt9qFprLMqLQ.html
@saharaaoks785
2 жыл бұрын
I am
@DarknessLikesChoco
2 жыл бұрын
I love you video :)
@kimitzuosoo5289
2 жыл бұрын
Im not an introvert im shy and anxious :(
@RussiangirlKsenia
2 жыл бұрын
Introvert here🙆🏼♀️
@sabre.
2 жыл бұрын
Hello there, I am an introvert.
Being introverted is nice, never have to deal with drama
@elinehegrand5487
2 жыл бұрын
True
@A1xn666
2 жыл бұрын
Ur everywhere bro
@agedmilk
2 жыл бұрын
Being an introvert is nice until you get involved in some drama
@kostas5520
2 жыл бұрын
Dude, are you gonna be in every single video that I'm watching.
@madriagajanjosephg.8047
2 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
6 signs you're actually an introvert: 1. Finding a hard time to find people you connect with. 2. When you do connect with someone, you're social with them. 3. People describe your conversations as intense. 4. Your energy feels drained when around crowds for too long. 5. You are not a fan of small talk. 6. Your mind is always running an inner monologue and you get distracted.
@shubhanshujain9827
2 жыл бұрын
thanks😃
@Strangestormcloud
2 жыл бұрын
I am literally all of those
@JunkJuly
2 жыл бұрын
@@Strangestormcloud same 💀
@keiron.4612
2 жыл бұрын
The part about my energy been drained is pretty true
@neofulcrum5013
2 жыл бұрын
Aside from 3 yeah this is me
"There are some good people, they're just hard to find." -Mom
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
Agree! If you have or have found a good person or two in your circle, keep them close and treat them well.
@lofrez1785
2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. 😊
Most people think an introvert is someone who is just painfully shy, doesn’t have strong opinions, insecure in who they are, and tend to be generally nervous. That’s NOT introversion! A preference for harmony, orderly quiet not crowded spaces, and a strong attraction to learning and discussion of the things that actually matter in life, that’s introverted!
@donnycorn3086
2 жыл бұрын
Most of the points you made, I can somehow relate. Despite being a notoriously weird kid at school (not violence, just acting and thinking weirder than most), I got to find someone who I found interested in drawing. We keep exchanging notes and scrap papers full of drawings, and is close to being the way of our communication. And up to you, but it is the reason why I kept on engaging with offline classes than online.
@fluffylemon8665
2 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@greaterred8857
2 жыл бұрын
I literally can't stop talking and discussing my "intense" opinions with friends but with people I don't know I barely utter a word haha
@EveryLittleBitCounts
2 жыл бұрын
i've never heard anyone say that about an introverted person in 30 years of living. Are you sure you're not just projecting your own thoughts about introversion and shyness onto everyone else?
@Stephanie-rc9tz
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Your Right, In this state, I want to be pure introvert because I'm afraid of making friends, Crowded Places and Harmful People. Extrovert in Online, Introvert in Real Life.
The balance between quality and quantity of this channel is insane.
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! We're trying our best to improve our content to best serve everyone! - Cindy
@glacialblast2588
2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go This channel has helped me so much, I want to thank you for being here (◍•ᴗ•◍)
@chimp4225
2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I have a question is that voice your natural voice or you talk like that only in videos? That voice is so unique I’ve never heard ir before
@ashmagupta2187
2 жыл бұрын
@@chimp4225 your question is good but u are asking the wrong person.she is Cindy(yt manager)and the VO is Amanda silvera. So maybe Cindy will later notice Amanda and tell u the answer.wait till then.
@chimp4225
2 жыл бұрын
@@ashmagupta2187 thx
The worst thing as an introvert is that it’s hard to make friends. And even if you make friends, they may not be the right ones, and you’ll have an even harder time to tell them that you don’t want them anymore. I currently have 0 real life friends. :’) I had a few. But I had to let go of them as because they’re not my taste. And almost everyone from my school isn’t my taste. I don’t wanna try to be friends with them. I really wish I could meet my online friends. They’re really my taste. :’) Lol Good luck with everything, y’all!
@Maddie-hx2rd
2 жыл бұрын
Man. That's sad. But don't loose hope. As an introvert with 5 close friends, I can tell you it's just a matter of time. Sooner or later, you'll find someone to befriend
@ragenesimone1458
2 жыл бұрын
Damn. I relate to the first part of this comment. Thought I was the only that felt this way. I have 2 close friends but at times I feel like they don’t get me the way I want them to. I love them so dearly but I wish I felt like we have a deeper connection.
@kkKkK.KK87
2 жыл бұрын
Same here I'm 20 now I'm let going some of my few friends i had..and now i wanted to be alone..it may hurt sometimes but I'm happier than before 🤗
@HiImUnderYourBed
2 жыл бұрын
@@Maddie-hx2rd Yeah. :) I’m still waiting to befriend someone. Thx for your sweet comment!
@majora1675
2 жыл бұрын
Same...
The hard part about being an introvert is that you have more time to analyze things to a extreme level and get depressed
@user-ml3bg1fc9b
2 жыл бұрын
True
@Loch_Nessie9
Жыл бұрын
Ye
@agentorange153
7 ай бұрын
*analyze
@agentorange153
7 ай бұрын
Analyze (from ana-, throughout + lysis, taking apart) = to examine something in detail Analize (from anal, having to do with the anus) = to shove something up your (or someone else's) a*s See the difference?
@nicoleschaefer1151
7 ай бұрын
@@agentorange153 Thanks? English is not my first language lol
This sounds exactly like me, I don’t hate socializing, I enjoy talking to people I consider friends, but I’m not someone who will go out to parties every chance I get. I recharge by watching hours of KZread and that’s more my cup of tea than partying all the time.
@shadows2909
Жыл бұрын
Me... Just like me 👍🏻
"Introverts avoid small talk because we know it is the refined bread of conversation. There are no real nutrients in it, just empty calories." - Mandark
@icebear6707
2 жыл бұрын
👍⚡☺️🤣
@zaakatumbo9542
2 жыл бұрын
Genius 🔥🔥🔥
@DavidSmolej
2 жыл бұрын
Accurate!
@smaragdwolf1
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like Mandark never ate good Bread xD
@greatwavefan397
2 жыл бұрын
Mandark... From Dexter's Laboratory, right?
Very much an introvert. I have no issues talking with new people, but I definitely think small talk is boring. I love my alone time and as the crowd around me gets bigger the more I want to pull away. I most definitely have an inner monologue. I have conversations and debates within myself all the time. Family even tells me I'm very self aware.
@chelseazaydaraensehon1198
2 жыл бұрын
Same! I have conversations and debates with myself all the time too.
@reynalynzipagan6554
2 жыл бұрын
Yes small is so boring and so it really good to recharge myself from being alone or sleeping alone in my room
@karaka2253
2 жыл бұрын
Deep conversation are the best, even more when your brother is an introvert too. Also inner monologue are really useful, you can do simulations of the next things who will happens or just question about deep and interesting topics. Most of people's conversation are boring I mean don't care about what the friend of the friend of the sister of your cousins did yesterday 😂. For me small talk is the most annoying thing for an introvert.
@s.crawford12
2 жыл бұрын
@@karaka2253 Me and my sister skip the small talk every time we visit each other. It's always super deep and detailed on whatever topic we choose. I always love those conversations. I think that because small talk is not stimulating or has anything of value that we find it boring and kinda pointless.
@karaka2253
2 жыл бұрын
@@s.crawford12yeah you are lucky to have a introvert who will always be on your side, the same goes for me. I find people who really like what they do are way more interesting when they talk about their passion or hobbies or their goal in general cuz the conversation is not useless and it's a pure exchange of each viewpoint in a specific subject unlike most of the conversation of extroverts (no offense btw) who just talk about insignificant small thing. Also when i watch a show or play a videogame I can always see a message and learns from that instead of just consuming the thing. I always see a deep meaning anywhere, for example I learns the meaning of the quote : "The world is not all black or white" in videogame and animes, I could associate this value of "gray people" with the Yin-Yang and why there are not really good or bad side in most of the case. I don't really feel superior but most of normal people wouldn't see any connections and will just enjoy without asking any questions to themselves 😂.
Being an introvert is such a relief cause you're not even involved in any Chaos going around you
These characters and your voice is so calming.. I don't feel anxious while watching your videos.. I don't know why.. but I feel safe after watching these.
I'm an introvert but my friend was an extrovert. He's always out of his home going to see someone or something, basically the opposite of me😂. Whenever I hang out with him , it's so awesome, because we are different, it's a really great experience, in the end we both had a lot of fun. I was into videogames while he was into outdoor sports 😂.most of the time he's outside. He only uses his home for sleeping😂. I wonder what he did in the pandemic.
@Cherrycreamsoda1
2 жыл бұрын
I used to have a friend like that :') he was great because he helped me come out of my shell and have more self confidence. I would share projects I was working on and he was always interested, so it was a win-win. I think he spent the pandemic talking to people and trying to keep everyone happy, poor guy XD
@wakeyqq4229
2 жыл бұрын
hah thats my crush, he does basketball and goes outside a lot, but he is really good friends with me lol
@keehanmaahiabdurahman3230
2 жыл бұрын
Sensing extrovert quite Dominant
@grassblock6964
2 жыл бұрын
I think you're an extrovert, you have three crying smiles in your quote.
@demantoid
2 жыл бұрын
@@grassblock6964 what?....
People often mistake introversion for shyness. But it's not so.
@cincancin9119
2 жыл бұрын
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@tranquility6789
2 жыл бұрын
@@cincancin9119 Shut
@elpeade3618
2 жыл бұрын
I totally get that I tell people it's in my system And they imply that they're not caring and being considerate for introverts like me
@eevee4245
2 жыл бұрын
Im both lol
@arjuntb1204
2 жыл бұрын
I'm Shy 😢
I've come to understand myself as an introvert a lot better now. But it's rough because recently my social anxiety has doubled and it feels like I'm trapped in the belief that I have no friends. Don't give up, nothing will change if you don't go out there and do something about it.
I love all the references - its coming full circle with designs for personality types being referenced in future videos now
Being an introvert is great. Too much drama with people, love being alone, always in my thoughts and being with close friends. That is what makes me happy and, me
@kirtu9035
2 жыл бұрын
same 💗💗
@elihoyt5546
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to some of that, but overall, I’m an extrovert
@kirtu9035
2 жыл бұрын
@@elihoyt5546 cool!
Wow I can definitely relate with all of these!! I'm less shy nowadays, but I'm definitely still an introvert! Being a doctor requires me to be a really effective and empathetic communicator and it's taken years of practice - but when I come home after a long day, I feel absolutely drained! EDIT: I also just want to say that introverts are just as capable of being great doctors/clinicians as extroverts are! We're all special and talented in our own ways
@cincancin9119
2 жыл бұрын
AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Have-Sex]💞 (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over KZread: This is fine Someone: Says "heck" KZread: Be gone #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾
@James-sm7kn
2 жыл бұрын
I very much agree with this and sometimes they can be better than extroverts depending on what profession you want to do I hope your day is going well
@nallyaaaaaa
2 жыл бұрын
honestly samee! i thought that maybe i wasn't an introvert since i'm less shy now, but i guess i still am, and it's nothing to be ashamed of!
@chelseazaydaraensehon1198
2 жыл бұрын
Oh my introverted self lol definitely could not handle being a doctor. 😰 lol you are brave! ❤️
@bineetgtm9317
2 жыл бұрын
Wow this comment section is ME
I feel like introverts are often generalized as a bookworm or philosophical. I’m an introvert and that’s definitely not the case! There’s a reason why I’m a bio major and not a English major lol. I also rarely pick up books to read (other than textbooks). I do enjoy going out, but it’s not like I always feel drained afterwards. In contrast, I do enjoy hanging out with friends for the most part, but after some time I do feel the need to sit out and have some alone time. I’m usually good at getting along with new people, but not good at starting a long, lasting friendship with them, because of that, I only have a few very close friends. That doesn’t mean I find it hard to make friends with strangers though! It just means I don’t put as much time into socializing with these new friends/acquaintances of mine.
@latricewillins-butler5403
2 жыл бұрын
When it comes to books, I write and publish them. As an introvert, I play in my imagination all day long, and that's entertaining enough😂😇
this channel makes me really comfortable and relaxed, i really just love all of this
These videos are so calming
@cincancin9119
2 жыл бұрын
AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Have-Sex]💞 (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over KZread: This is fine Someone: Says "heck" KZread: Be gone #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾
@gamingwithsp9489
2 жыл бұрын
@@cincancin9119 🍌🍌🍌
-6 Signs You're actually an Introvert And Not Shy. 1) You Have A Hard Time Finding People You Connect With. 2) When You Do Connect with Someone, You're Pretty Social With Them. 3)People Describe Your Conversations As "intense". 4)Your Energy Feels Drained When Around Crowds Too Long. 5)You Aren't a Fan of Small Talk. 6)Your Mind's Always Running an Inner Monologue and You're often Distracted. Take care y'all❤✨. I'm introvert too
@cincancin9119
2 жыл бұрын
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@kimitzuosoo5289
2 жыл бұрын
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@Directioner13_
2 жыл бұрын
@@kimitzuosoo5289 I'm adding all it takes time
@ruthlesscommentator9575
2 жыл бұрын
Why you do this? Why do you make our life easier ? Why do you save our time ?
@kimitzuosoo5289
2 жыл бұрын
@@ruthlesscommentator9575 may be for likes :D
Being an introvert is awesome. Having a small friendship group is peaceful for me.
I have been watching pysch2go for a time and I love their videos. the animations are so good and the script is so correct and I got to know about mental health in this way because nobody want to talk about it. I am happy that I am able to get the right information :)) And Amanda voice is so soothing.
Finally someone can explain my feelings T_T thank you so much
@cincancin9119
2 жыл бұрын
AISURU.TOKYO/piit?[Have-Sex]💞 (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*18 years and over KZread: This is fine Someone: Says "heck" KZread: Be gone #однако #я #люблю #таких #рыбаков #Интересно #забавно #девушка #смешная #垃圾
@kirtu9035
2 жыл бұрын
@@cincancin9119 shut up pls
@gotyourballsinabag
2 жыл бұрын
Aww that's good for you to understand your own feeling! Sending hug for you
Congrats to everyone who reaches in just seconds for this awesome channel!
@TardisInTheSkye
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@businessisboomin7252
2 жыл бұрын
@Piit Hustima🌹 naughty bot....get bonked
@user-mb4mq8th8t
2 жыл бұрын
Than q !!!
@jadeplayswithanimations9011
2 жыл бұрын
Thx
@jokeloy4916
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
Great video! It’s nice hearing someone talk about introverts who gets us!
I'm SO glad that I've found your channel through the recommands of my sister! You've showed me a lot of interesting signs of mental illnesses and showed me what kind of mental illness type I am - also I can learn more about myself through your vids. Plus I can grow from it (and therapy) a lot like a person who I wanna be! Thank you very much!
@agentorange153
7 ай бұрын
Please note that introversion is NOT a mental illness!
Introvert is hard hard. People keep thinking im socially awkward, that im shy, and soft-hearted so they take advantage of me especially when i have social anxiety which makes it worse. I hate extroverts for the fact that they don't understand how to give space to others and are always so self absorbed with just wat they want. They start conversations and proceeds to ignore you when its not what they expected to answer.
@MS-lg4yr
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like introverts get a bad rap, like there’s something wrong with us for not constantly needing socialization or attention. When in reality, I think it’s the extroverts that basically suck. They have tons of friends but they’re usually very self-absorbed and uncaring. As I get older I realize I just don’t need that kind of negativity in my life. I may not have many friends but I truly appreciate the few I have.
@chelseazaydaraensehon1198
2 жыл бұрын
This! 💯
@elultimo102
2 жыл бұрын
@@MS-lg4yr Are your friends primarily introverts? Most of mine are,, Usually they are only children or the eldest, but not the favorite.
@Jasturtle
2 жыл бұрын
@@MS-lg4yr true true extroverts suck, so i decided to not consider anyone friends of mine no matter how kind you are to me, i try to avoid them as much as i can cuz i get drained. easily.
@Kwankrang
2 жыл бұрын
@@MS-lg4yr hating someone for the way they were born? this sounds familiar. (I'm an introvert btw. I'm just not a part of this weird "introvert master race" mentality I keep seeing. it's quite honestly disturbing.)
The thing with being an introvert isn't actually the fact that you can't make friends or socialize with others ,it is that you prefer staying alone and doing things you find entertaining.. Although yea there is possiblity that you will get adopted by an extrovert..
@marsha4253
2 жыл бұрын
Nah i definitely can't make friends or socialize
@melindasmith3713
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 44 and not had any friends ! Did marry and have kids .
@hailey.gc2
2 жыл бұрын
i hope i get adopted by an extrovert the would be so nice
@dahoodie8798
2 жыл бұрын
yeah i’m an adopted introvert( ◠‿◠ )
@drakeyork241
2 жыл бұрын
Someone else knows about extrovert tendency of introvert adoption.
I can relate to all of these, thanks for clearing up my confusion :)
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Which points do you resonate with the most?
@Sparkle224
2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Mostly the "not being a fan of small talk", "being social with people I've connected with, as well as getting tired very easily among crowds. I'm glad I got to know some people throughout the years :)
this video i feel so related...since when i was little i was always the quiet, head in the clouds extremly shy type of guy and gets distracted quite easy tbh... in my city most ppl of my age know me but i have a small circle of ppl that really KNOW me... i've lost countless of really close friends but always got some in return which is nice that nowadays they text me :) feels good sometimes. i've found more easy to make really good friends on the internet or just playing games! made some close friendships with ppl that i never met and i would like to meet them one day! this channel helped me alot this past 3-4 weeks going through heartbreak(wich i still suffer from), tons of anxiety and lot of stress. Thank you so much to the ppl behind this channel! 🤍
I literally tick every single one of these boxes. I feel kinda called out, in a good way.
@kirtu9035
2 жыл бұрын
Same
I've never been accustomed to small talk. It is just draining and most people find that I'm weird, especially people close to me.
Funny, Every single sign of being an introvert instead of being shy I can relate to, I struggle with small talk, but when I do get into conversations they are long, deep, and drawn out. I hate being in large crowds of people for long periods of time, in fact, doing this at high enough volumes causes me to have an emotional kind of panic-attack, where all of my emotional control gets thrown out the window! I also struggle to find friends and struggle even more to keep them for longer periods of time. I like to stay home more than I do going out, but I still go out every now and then so I don’t become starved of social contact, and staying home alone is how I recharge my battery. Lastly I very easily get distracted, mainly from ADHD, but whenever I am alone usually around bedtime or when there is absolutely NO ONE HOME, not even my PARENTS, I let my imagination run wild, heck, I have created a fictional timeline of situations that come from only my own imagination that has so many characters and locations, they are all usually sci-fi, and I can turn basically anything that comes to my mind into a full fledged story that connects with the other things I came up with in some way and keep it up for potentially hours on end! Which I am proud of as I think that is a skill that I have, an endless imagination.
i’m kinda okay being called shy but sometimes it bothers me, but hearing this made me feel good, yep i’m a introvert. nice👍
🎶 Not shy, not me🎶 I find amusing that even when I say something "intense" people pay attention to me. It's funny how people tend to like me, I guess I'd have a lot of friends if I were extrovert, like my sister.
@SunnySunoo
2 жыл бұрын
🎶ItZaYyYyYy~~🎶
@moonlight_1111
2 жыл бұрын
Eyyy Midzyss risee✨ And wow that's good to hear... I kinda have just a few friends who really get what I'm saying... Rest judge😀
@candlethatrosetriedtoeat
2 жыл бұрын
🎶Not shy, not me🎶
@lavender3509
2 жыл бұрын
@@candlethatrosetriedtoeat 🎶 itzzzzzyyyy 🎶
@somyakhangar7943
2 жыл бұрын
i love itzy i am also a huge midzy
I'm introvert not because I choose who to connect with but I just love my own company, inner and quiet peaceful life.
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
2 жыл бұрын
💚
@Nsquare_01
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
This was honestly one of the most wonderful videos I've seen from you so far. Loved the art style and the beautiful background music (would you mind telling me artist and title?? ♥). Also I now am more sure than ever that I'm really just an introvert. (gets back to writing and reading) The most wonderful thing is, my best friend is an introvert too (even though you really can't tell when we're together, for none of us, haha!) and when one of us visits the other over a long period of time, we both know the other person needs some alone time in the evening to recharge no matter how much we love each other. It's the most peaceful and amazing friendship thing I ever had the pleasure to experience. ♥
Damn, watching a video of yours once in a while is an excellent morale boost, at least for me. It helps a lot
3 Quotes to Live By: 1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self." 2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending” 3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart." Love from a small KZreadr💙
@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
2 жыл бұрын
Oh You right 💚 The 1 is the one I ofthen share by "we are all different"
@noodlele
2 жыл бұрын
I like #1 a lot
@hjymegann
2 жыл бұрын
Great quotes 👍
@humanzombieninja
2 жыл бұрын
nice quotes
@HybraKatzz
2 жыл бұрын
thanks for the help :)
I love living alone. Being alone is the best part of life.
Thanks for this videos. I'm feel relaxing & much better. 😊
all these point are accurate, i just commented in your quiz video about how i am completely different when people talk about topics i like. but those also start when they try to talk with me while i am pondering about things
While mostly true regarding myself, I also don't get drained by large crowds like movies/sporting events ... As long as I'm left alone during them. It's the interactions during such events that becomes more energy draining.
@bartix8951
2 жыл бұрын
Yea you are right when I go to school it's okay until there come interactions with classmates (they don't leave me alone and make fun of me cuz I'm introvert and they think I'm shy) then it drains me.
@agentorange153
7 ай бұрын
Exactly -- crowds per se (like on the New York subway) don't bother me as long as I can just stay in my own head and let them flow around me without interaction -- but INTERACTING with crowds (like at a party), now THAT is sheer torture!
Thank you so much for this. I never knew I was an introvert. No wonder when I'm in a crowded place, I don't socialize with people who I don't have a connection with.
I already knew I was an Introvert - which is why I enjoy these videos so much. Keep up the great work.
I... actually relatere to points 1, 2, and the one point where I prefer to play games online if possible. Though with point 2, I do believe I tend to enjoy whenever I'm invited as opposed to calling friends over
I’m a happy and proud introvert. :)
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2 жыл бұрын
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@halamadrid2370
2 жыл бұрын
Good 👍:)
@justgotosleep8691
2 жыл бұрын
@@cincancin9119 No...
@justgotosleep8691
2 жыл бұрын
@@halamadrid2370 😊👍🏻
Yes finally thank you for this!
Y’all always make me feel better
I actually like being a introvert. Its just really chill.
@jahsiasrivers8687
2 жыл бұрын
How. I feel like the pandemic made me more introverted then I was
@krautor1999
2 жыл бұрын
@@jahsiasrivers8687 pahahah same i lost like so many socials
I relate to all except 3. I don't philosophise, I just tend to think hard about stuff that isn't important. I struggle alot with small talk; idk how people do it! But still, it's not bad being introverted :)
@alioth7260
2 жыл бұрын
Small talk is basically talking about stuff that isn't important, so you're halfway there (this comes from a socially awkward introvert)
@bageller
2 жыл бұрын
@@alioth7260 still, I struggle with starting it, and actually keeping it going, which is hard when making friends, but cool if you want to be left alone. :)
@alioth7260
2 жыл бұрын
@@bageller a trick i use is to just let the other person talk after you ask a simple question, that way i only have to answer to their question or just make them know i'm hearing, like saying “oh right, sure, mhh mhh, ah nice, ecc". People are so self absorbed that it works on almost everyone
@bageller
2 жыл бұрын
OK thanks for the tip! :D
@samanthakim5035
2 жыл бұрын
Samee
After some thought, I was pretty sure that I was shy, because I do enjoy go time to time with some close friends. But after some self reflection, I accepted that I'm introverted and it's awesome
this is so on point! 🙌🏼 naturally introverted, selectively extroverted here 🥺💛
I yearn for the day when introversion won't be stigmatized and treated as a comfort zone or fear. Each and every one of us is different and our differences should be respected, cause that's what makes one's life better and more fulfilling 🙏
All of these apply to me. I've always been an introvert so I hate it when my family, as much as I love them, say I should get out and socialise; it seems to be beyond their understanding that I enjoy being by myself. I find peace in that quiet. I can socialise if I have to but being in crowds becomes overwhelming and I need my alone time a lot. Thank you for summing up exactly how I feel and that it's normal. Love this channel ❤
it nice to be alone sometimes and it can be peaceful at times, yes it is nice being an introverted
And people around me always told me I was shy when I was just introverted, a new world opened up, its suck but at least now I know what I am. Great video btw.
I can relate so much with this. People always say that I'm very quiet & shy, but in reality its just that I'm more interested in my own thoughts rather than always listening to their convo. Then slowly those people start to avoid and stop makes any talks towards me. And sometimes I often ask my self that, is it me or them that the one who is really shy ?
@vasantsupekar1939
2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh 😀
When I was a few years younger I never was this introverted... But also wasn't making the right friends... Now I hate being myself... I just have 3 or 4 people who get me... And I can't get along with people at all... I actually have started hating people and stick to my pets, family and just those 3/4 friends :')
i was a bit paranoid so i checked this video luckily i was none of those being extrovert is the best, u get to make a lot of people happy and that makes me happy 😊
I'm absolutely an introvert, and proudly so. Always have been, though after my car accident (I was 15 years old) I started to understand how many people really like me. I decided it was time to start giving something back, and discovered that I actually like most people too, but I'm still an introvert. Thanks for helping people understand us!
Oh gosh YES. I'm such an introvert and I honestly DO LOVE IT. There's something to be said about the way introverts have the power to recognize who are the right people to spend time with and truly, deeply connect with those few chosen. There's also something to be said about the beauty of true, deep, real connections. You know you've established a deep human connection with someone when you can just be yourself around them and never feel guilty, sad or sorry about it. Those kind of connections may be few in life, but they're priceless.
Being shy and introvert is not the same?! That blew my mind away
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2 жыл бұрын
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@_DreamerGirl_
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm just a shy extrovert aka shy entp, like I'd wish to talk more with people but I'm just shy i guess lol
@nakshatramusic21
2 жыл бұрын
@@cincancin9119 no one's interested
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2 жыл бұрын
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@guerra1111
2 жыл бұрын
@@_DreamerGirl_ wow im entp too and im a bit shy
*I* *am* *a* *pure* *Introvert.*
This resonated so much. I don’t like small talk and I’m always the one coming up with weird and deep questions 🤦🏾♀️😂
I’m definitely an introvert and I couldn’t help relate to everything that was mentioned here. Things that I didn’t realize I did so often, until I saw this video 🙊👀
I'm three in one. Introvert, shy and socially awkward.🙂
@FlamingBeat
Жыл бұрын
Oh my! Same
thank u for this great video. ❤️
Really love this animation!!
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
Something about this channel that I love, is that the English is soooo easy to understand, me, someone who is learning English, even I’m advanced, is a little hard to understand what some people are saying, cuz they speak too fast or “eat many words”, but i can easily understand what these videos say! 💜
@gotyourballsinabag
2 жыл бұрын
I know right! They're the best
@klaire..08
2 жыл бұрын
@@gotyourballsinabag aww thanks, you’re amazing too 🥺
4:13 why does Psi look so attractive 😩🙏🏻💞✨
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
IKR
@michaelcheng9987
2 жыл бұрын
thank you for saying it for me! 💕
Lol thanks for this video you made. I have all the signs of an introvert. You deserve a new subscriber.
This videos gave me a new perspective of view, thanks really
Your channel is amazing. Thank you for making such a great content. We all love you ❤️
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Your support means a lot
It’s not intense topics in conversation, you just mention a book you read and people are like “books?”
TY for this vid. Makes it clear.
I'm definitely a introvert, but it's kinda difficult especially since I'm still in school. Small talk is way to common, and I'm kinda forced to socialize with people. I'm not a big fan of school lol
When you realise that your fave psychology channel uploads 20+ vids per month: Insane
I recently started doubting that i'm an introvert because i've been enjoying being with my friends (they are alot) that i couldn't say were close to me before But since school started i realised that it isn't that i'm accepting people faster It's just that i got so comfortable with the friends that i mentioned (we've been classmates for 5 years now and most of us are like family now) And i'm so happy to have this many close friends that could even bring me out of my thoughts and make me talk with other people that i don't know
@nightfall5725
2 жыл бұрын
well, if it's your friends who brings other people to you instead of going by yourself, you are still an introvert :) introvert doesn't mean being anti-social.
@bartix8951
2 жыл бұрын
You can be social introvert
@catcasserole
Жыл бұрын
I know im a year late but this is literally me. Except for the fact that they will be gone next school year, so basically i think i need to make more friends in HS🥲
@syan2240
Жыл бұрын
@@catcasserole No! Dont lose contact with your friends For me Most of us are separated rn But we still talk alot And go out sometimes We were out yesterday Im not saying that you shouldnt make new friends But dont lose your current friends you'll probably regret it
@catcasserole
Жыл бұрын
@@syan2240 I appreciate the encouragement, though i am REALLY awkward through chat. I'll try !
This video was spot on.💯💯
1,2 and 6 defenitly fit to me. I actually find the themes of small talk often interesting and helpful so i do enjoy it instead of "intense" conversations. But 4 is complicated because I actually need both time alone and outside with friends in a balance, to be happy. I would describe myself as a social introvert, mainly because i connect really fast with almost every one that talks to me.
@agentorange153
7 ай бұрын
I think you're probably an ambivert!
As an introvert... I have crush on a girl for 5years.... But I'm not brave enough say that I have feelings for her.... Damn, and then she's been committed with a guys.... I was like.... Why should I live....
I actually thought I made progress as I previously tried to change for a long time. I still do most of what was described in your video, my imagination still runs wild (not necessarily a bad thing) starting conversations with people I work with feels awkward all the time so I just mostly just do it as professional as I can and sometimes I hear from other people that I can be a bit condescending. I don't have anyone now that I am comfortable sharing details about things I love and enjoy and I find this annoying. I still occasionally try to communicate, I usually have to make use of topics/jokes that I have observed to be working, making it awkward and all in all exhausting..
@agentorange153
7 ай бұрын
Why do you want to change???
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“We have two ears and one mouth and we should use them proportionally.” ― Susan Cain If you haven't read the book Quiet by Susan Cain then I 100% recommend checking it out. I'm introverted and I found it really insightful 😊
@redrickschuhart3836
2 жыл бұрын
"We have two ears and one mouth so that we can listen twice as much as we can speak" -Epictetus ;)
@GrowthMindsetChannel
2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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Lately I became completely drained, I even feel like relationships became a burden 🙁
I can't even figure out whether I'm shy or introverted. I always get told I'm extremely nice but If I'm not put into a situation I won't ever try and talk with others. But this video helped me figure out, especially the random "intense questions" I ask lol.
Cute animation 😊 This video 100% describes me. But when i find someone, we connect quickly and became friends 😊
@Psych2go
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Glad you like the animation too :)
@dr.fjoer_the_crazy_scienti5841
2 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Np 😊😊 continue being awesome
You litterally described me perfectly with those 6 points so i can conclude that i'm an authentic introvert.
I usually have to present myself as shy since most people don't know the difference. It works since it cuts small talks but also makes it a bit harder to meet new people.
I always assumed I was an extrovert because when i was with those I was close too i would be energetic however apparently even my parents knew for the longest time I was an introvert and I never knew lol, but after seeing more of these videos, and observing things I do around and away from others i certainly see how I am more introverted than extraverted and I am not upset about it, it feels good to know a little more about myself especially with something like this lol
•Timestamps• 1. You have a hard time connecting with new people 0:25 2. When you do connect with someone you are pretty social 1:04 3. People describe your conversations as intense 1:31 4. Your energy feels drained when you are around crowds too long 2:14 5. You are not a fan of small talk 2:48 6. Your mind is always running an inner dialogue, you are often distracted 3:25 💖💜 Have a great day/night!
@0ice674
2 жыл бұрын
Legend
@ArcadeX2
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@gotyourballsinabag
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This needs more attention :)
I absolutely don’t like starting small talk. It’s the exact reason I don’t initiate calls or text people. And people get extremely upset at me from not keeping in contact. This is exactly what I tell them “To be fair I don’t call or text anyone so I’m not singling you out, I don’t even go out of my way to text or call my family” though I don’t really have any close relationship with any of my family so that may be why.
I’ve been called shy all my life, but I always knew I wasn’t. This video is the bestttt.
this is absolutely true for an introvert...everything resonates !!