For those who want to skip through the fluff 0:46 How you convey yourself 3:04 How you convey the relationship 6:58 How the relationship starts 9:44 Your boundaries 11:57 The girls story

@stealth797

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@SammyCee23

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Less is more :)

@lucasvilleza1188

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks dude

@c.h.5855

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, sir. "We cannot waste time; time is precious" - Garry Kasparov

@tialt6857

5 жыл бұрын

we need your services for all his vids LoL please

This is not so much about female psychology but about how deeply you know yourself and are comfortable with your desires not being in line with social norms. I call this deep congruence and never faking anything. It's how I get away with all my imperfections and look cooler than guys who try to fake perfection. And - this is key! - I am far far happier. Because congruence == happiness. Emotions come and go, happiness is here and now, forever.

@YolatheFou

11 ай бұрын

Damn, spot on 👀

@naturesmusic5926

6 ай бұрын

❤❤

I just wanted to take the time to say thanks Todd. This is great stuff you've got me studying your videos now and the results are showing. You also inspire me to improve in all aspects of life.

This is one of the most solid in content, length and editing. Love the Bold text (as a graphic designer)

Your knowledge and your understanding of female psychology is mind-boggling.

@Neb6969

2 жыл бұрын

Cause he’s full of shit 😂

So powerful. This brought me out of the supplicating, unscalable frame of trying to do things for any girl, to the repeatable, confidence building frame of setting the tone for the girl to follow.

Don't under estimate the importance of this. Many think game is something young guys do for a while. Wrong.

@ty-le5lv

Жыл бұрын

Many of these are excellent tips for other than romantic relationships as well

Todd, thank you for everything. These lessons are just "game " lessons but life lessons.

Todd's cinematography is always as point as the info. Thanks Todd.

This is gold man. This video is just what I need for my current situation. Very much appreciated.

Awesome clarity Todd!! Tnx again

Awesome video, would love to see more videos covering relationships and how to maintain the relationship you want

Always with a fire soundtrack to these vids!

dude your videos are dope and so are the beats you put in them

This is definitely a topic that isn't addressed nearly enough. It's great to meet girls, but it's even more important to know how to have healthy relationships that make you happy. www.toddvdating.com

This is one of your best videos Todd, and that's saying a lot, because everything you put out is quality.

@blacktortoise6812

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah this one is a game changer, no pun intended. Like he said, this kind of encapsulates game in that it is a way of increasing congruence, conveying value, and observing and rearranging frames.

This is Dope, thanks my man!

You make sense man, you make sense. Keep the videos comin'!

I wish I could know all of Todd's knowledge when I was 15 year old. Ty very much Todd for helping us and sharing your time

@Jon-pn1sw

7 ай бұрын

It's awesome this kind of knowledge is out there for the young guys of these days, wish I knew too. But atleast we know now.

09:25 absolutely true, specially if you know what you're doing!

Thx Todd..i been in negotiation...great advice

Thanks Todd, this is still as relevant as ever. 🙌

Todd is the definition of a Genius

Thank you Todd, really

So useful thank you Todd👍

Brilliant video (as always.)

So much said in one video.... -convey social proof and abundance -good game -convey social proof & abundance (other options -controlling the frame -under testing you pass -Have power and convey what you want Meeting: Day game, night game, work, dating sites, class etc. -what happened before hooking up -so something about it when your have boundaries -uphold boundaries, maintain the relationship and keep it friendly without making the other person hate you. -do not feel forced and coerced -do not tolerate everything -intergrity and decide precursors ahead of time -“set the frame” to put your foot down Sixth: Background and story You need an overlap in what you want as a spectrum and what he wants as a spectrum.

Thank you a lot Todd :)

Very good info. Didn't think about these things.

Very good with the details, I agree with most of this. I believe u should break this down at least to 3 separate videos. Or if ur viewing this and u are confused, take one step at a time until u fully comprehend. Other than that awesome also note that if ur Lovely dovely u risk losing the woman or being used and abused, u have to find a balance and play the game called Life to win.

CONVEY WHAT U WANT. THIS WOULD HAVE SAVE ME A LOT OF TIME GROWING UP. THX TOOD

Thanks Todd for changing men life's RSD TODD FAR THE NUMBER 1

love how you mentioned ranges for all those poker players out there

Thank You, Todd! This video is the Bible for establishing a new situation without being cocky or arrogant! Very well articulated, my Man! 🙏🏾

Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Be honest and try to listen to one another and things will get better. Amazing talk bro! Learning a lot from your videos. Keep it up👍

This is mind blowing. I've always wondered why women see to act differently and have a different personailty in their next relationship than with me. I assumed it was because of not knowing themselves or being fake, now I get that it's about the guys on a deep level.

very well put through

Your videos are excellent for us thinking people

Immense value in that video exactly what I was looking for 😍🔥

Dude, we need more infields

@salembeats1875

5 жыл бұрын

Look up Todd infield he had alot but they got deleted

@seand622

5 жыл бұрын

SALEM I’ve probably watched all of them. His style of game is the best in my eyes

@SuperFilipman

5 жыл бұрын

There's a lot of infield in the Sytem. Good quality. You can buy it If you want. I'm glad I did.

@minobutterfingers

5 жыл бұрын

I paid for The System, and I would pay for a pack of infields. Also JP's infields are cool, but more difficult to replicate.

@taylor_tony

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed

Nice video! I watch more from the theoretical/ theatrical framework; game isn't for me. I like how you keep a nuance that deconstructs relationship dynamics but doesn't (too much) force the game mentality and respects viewers have different intentions.

@mrpussinboots4252

3 жыл бұрын

You're trying to use synonyms that make no sense...

You set the frame, expectations and rules from day 1, moment 1

So knowledgeable on game.

Todd could you make an video about techniques that help to set boundaries in a right way? Or maybe someone has good examples, sources, etc.

This was very informative. This makes me glad that I am single and staying that way.

@josel8311

4 жыл бұрын

Girls txnd to bx xasy to manipulate. Somehow. No xffense intended

Amazing insights

The End Screen cards have been missed :P

Very intelligent video by the way

Great video

Todd. One video I haven’t seen on your channel is how to be how to build sexual confidence in the bedroom. That’s the point of this all. I would love to hear what you say about this

uphold boundaries! -do not let them step over the lines!

Todd, this is a different message to you. The video is very useful pointing out the big picture in starting a relationship. You have had many and serious relationships, that is why I want to ask you - How do you work on the relationship? How do you have the relationhsip under control and how it develops? How do you avoid the emotions and drama before they come up? There must be a proactive way of having conversations where both introduce their expectations and negotiate before things escalate. This is what I call having a mindful relationship. Not by having all the power, but by having the control over its developement. Not having things happen in the relationship unexpectedly, but putting issues on the table and sharing reationally with no drama. Have you had a similar experience? Please share some techniques about going for this option. Thank you for your articulate and specific videos and lessons. Greetings

@mohamedabd8285

5 жыл бұрын

In my country ppl get married this way since its religious moral country, but other cultures is hard to have such thing before displaying high value. I would say u must chose the wright type of social circle.

@cumthru2555

2 жыл бұрын

Not sure if you'll see this, but you need to approach and conduct yourself in a manner that indicates that you are intentional with your actions. Have the conversation and be upfront about what you're looking for in a partner, what you expect from a partner, the role you can play, who you are, and what you bring. This conversation isn't had in one sitting - this will scare her off because you will come across as manipulative. You have to time it right and be as honest as possible. Don't lie about your intentions, and don't make/let her compromise on her boundaries and expectations. A lot of the time, this kind of honesty allows for a woman to feel like you are trustworthy - as a person, and as someone who will always have her best interest at heart... like a leader. Be self-assured, open, honest, and this takes some vulnerability and work on your end.

GREAT VIDEO

That timing though

The key to happiness is to have fun. The purpose of a relationship is to have fun. If your your not having fun your in the wrong relationship

@versatilelord8893

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@jamalthompson5583

2 жыл бұрын

Real s#it

@jimbersmcimbers

2 жыл бұрын

This

This dude a genius

@fukc9970

4 жыл бұрын

This dude is a tool

Good stuff ;)

*Resist much, obey little.*

@SammyCee23

5 жыл бұрын

What do you mean?

@badmudafucka4448

5 жыл бұрын

obey? fuck that. cant be half-man.

@fitnesspoint2006

5 жыл бұрын

You tying soooo hard to sound profound but failing miserably at it my dude.

@b.b.2638

5 жыл бұрын

Discover pls explain your point

@hexadecimal5236

5 жыл бұрын

DO NOT OBEY is actually perfect, my FWBs often Order me to do things, or we'll have a 'talk' and she will say, 'I thought we both agreed to...' Before I understood this I would say Oh Ok and Obey. Now, I say, *"I didn't agree to anything, you talked and I listened but just because you say something about me doesn't mean it's True."* And of course the threats to never see me again follow, which of course are not True at all because females are fundamentally biologically driven and as long as you continue to be the highest value male she can attain, she will continue to seek you and your validation.

UNION SQUARE!!

Can you make a video on approaching more than 1 girl or a group of girls? I only cold approach girls alone.

@kittycat5347

5 жыл бұрын

@Luis BielExact! The last RSD Max video is exactly about that.

This advice is golden. One thing I must say: there are decent women out there. Just be honest, be open, communicate. The women want the same things as you want. Do not think women are different species. Do not think they are your enemies. Otherwise you have lost the gsme because women get to choose.

Odds that those 3 ppl who gave this a thumbs down are in the type of relationship they dream of????

SOLID gold. Question: when a new girl wants to talk about your past GFs do you make a joke and avoid the subject, lie or honestly tell her and convey how you've changed so she knows you're no longer the guy you're describing. (Although doing this can kill the vibe) I'm mainly into short term girls unless I find a keeper which is unlikely.

@IWasAlwaysNeverAnywhere

4 жыл бұрын

honesty is the way to go dude. if youre even considering being dodgy or dishonest youre doing it wrong. doesnt matter who youre talking to or what your motive is.

@themancuniancandidate2744

2 жыл бұрын

I always body swerve this one with a smile and the answer "A gentleman never tells". That way you let her know the subject isn't up for discussion, but she also knows you won't blab about your relationship with her, should it end. Every time I've handled that question in this way, the girl has been ok with it and hasn't brought it up again.

@barbapapaplouf5419

7 ай бұрын

You're free to disclose or not disclose what you want dude. Jokingly push that away. Or say something like: it's too early, We don't know each other well enough, I keep that for when we're closer, it's too personal for now... Etc... It's not about dishonesty, it's just boundaries. You decide who you let in your personal life, and how fast/slow if you decide to welcome them. Be it your boss, a stranger or a date.

use for one of your videos future married to the game

they fuckin did Todd, thanks a lot

What’s your take on the overly feminine dudes and masculine women? I guess the dynamic of their relationships made them that way

@justinwhitebeaver966

4 жыл бұрын

No the feminst media made them that way. Henceforth news casts,tv shows, movies ect. The femimst media yearns to eliminate gender roles. But those relationships end bad for both. Think of it the women is a single mother and the father has to pay out the ass for that kid or kids. Because no true alpha wants a single mother

Can you put out a video about how to get intimate with a girl which is not sex? There's a huge connection that happens during sex but what are other ways to connect in order to make each other feel good? @ToddVDating

Guys! I'm not even kidding! For best relationship advice study the philosophy of Patrice O'Neal a.k.a. Black Phillip and Dante Nero a.k.a. Beige Phillip

making decisions ahead of time

Todd looks so happy on the thumbnail, he must've gone through Julien's Transformation Mastery! :)

@ramonalfaro3252

5 жыл бұрын

Transformation Mastery is Alcoholcs Anonymous + Breathing exercises. Save your money.

@mohamedabd8285

5 жыл бұрын

+ramon alfaro did u go to it?

@ramonalfaro3252

5 жыл бұрын

No I wasted money on it.

@gcg8187

5 жыл бұрын

@@ramonalfaro3252 you didnt learn anything?

Great video! How is the music genre called in the intro/outro?

@eliegillard1762

5 жыл бұрын

That's hip-hop, I guess you could fine similar tracks by searching for "Lofi hip-hop" "Jazzhop" or "Trip hop"!

Todd V for Vocabulary

FIRE CONTENT

12:50 yay

When will new content be added to the system?

“How many sandwiches do I need to make before I get a ring on this finger?”

@justinwhitebeaver966

4 жыл бұрын

70,000,000,000

@versatilelord8893

4 жыл бұрын

Where did he say that in the video

Buenísimo. Pletórico. Súper Valioso. Clave.

Is there a video for how to hold power in relationship

It takes two for a healthy relationship. If your giving it your all and that other person isn’t then it isn’t going to work out. Social media ruins many relationships.

@someguyO2W

4 жыл бұрын

Ruined my marriage

The girl is your mirror - tom torero

dude i need more oomph

This video can be summed up in one line: Girls see whatever you show them.

Voice tone & volume is too high up ;)

6 more plzzz plzzz

todd said oOF

Hey Todd, let’s say, you were in a committed relationship with a girl, doing all the things that set you up as a boyfriend, then you break up with her, but she still loves you. Is there any way to realistically re-enter the relationship at a lower capacity? Ie - renegotiate the terms to resemble a more casual relationship?

@jake.geckler702

Жыл бұрын

You could just do it through your actions brother. Hang out at night only and only back at your crib or hers. Don't go out on dates and don't bring her over to meet the fam.

@greenfairy7646

11 ай бұрын

I personally do not think that is healthy. She needs to be able to get over you and move on. Not be used because you don’t want to give her up. That’s not fair. Let her go and let her move on. Find someone you really want to be with. Or find some one who wants to be a casual hook up

Song name?

@ 6.09 some girls will be very insecure around a guy with options as they don't want to be just another option

Self help is the future, Todd!

@JJ-vp3bd

5 жыл бұрын

how so? explain?

@seyned89

4 жыл бұрын

How so?

This black jacket has more game than me

Game has become a science. Dudes who don't stop and focus on this stuff have no chance. They find themselves on their azz looking up and wondering what happened. Even being woke with this stuff, it takes a lot of technique and practice.

סרטון מדהים !!! תמשיך ככה כיף לראות שיש עוד אנשים בתחום הזה בעולם. גם אני מאמן דייטינג בישראל ונתת לי השראה להמשיך :)))

Awesome

So how do I set boundaries in a relatonship if not by being angry or ignoring?

@Barad-Dur_IsACapitalOfMordor

5 жыл бұрын

Eating and drinking is good, but you should try to use your mouth to speak.

@gcg8187

5 жыл бұрын

@@Barad-Dur_IsACapitalOfMordor LOOOL

Is it ever advisable to give a girl an honest/upfront ultimatum? (Like if you’re asking to hang out (second date) and she keeps being “busy” after a while I gotta say I can’t wait forever) OR do I just not say anything and stop asking/trying altogether

@jake.geckler702

Жыл бұрын

Ultimatums don't work. Find a new girl or several that make it easy to hang out and that actually want to see you.

There are two rules you need to know: 1. NEVER act like you want a relationship if you don't want it and don't give her impression you care about her more than you actually do. In other words, do not pretend you're on the same page with her and have the same goals if you don't. 2. See the first rule.

@MartinHansefiction

4 жыл бұрын

Horseshit

@spacemeter3001

2 жыл бұрын

Why not?

what's the best way to transition from casual fling to serious relationship

@badmudafucka4448

5 жыл бұрын

playing to win, not to not lose.

@claresimmons5996

Жыл бұрын

Tell her you want something serious

where the hell did you learn all this Todd.?

@theweekendprojects3308

5 жыл бұрын

Experience

Know yourself and your target. Design a win-win that funnels the energy towards.activities you prefer.or both enjoy. Make sure you understand how much freedom how much security the other person once you balance those two elements into their favor you can get away with whatever you want. it's all about presenting something in a way that they want to choose the options you provide You and the woman I always want different sides of the line getting the ladies to understand and appreciate and accept turn aspects of their nature that societies train them to deny I'll have your girl on the same side of the line as you. Also discretion, discretion, discretion. not making a big deal about all the chicks that you knocked down will give you much more opportunity in the future you don't want to be labeled as a player if you really want to sample the whole field do it on the sly don't kiss and tell and you'll get repeat business.

@blacktortoise6812

4 жыл бұрын

Todd's going to have to make a video about what to do if the girl has game LOL

Can you make a video about boundaries and how to make her respect you,etc? I feel like i got disrespect twice by a girl i was friends with that i didnt wanted to fuck and i feel like she did it twice because i didnt care but know i care and want to be respected by future girls.