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You know you’re an INFJ if the most burning question imaginable is “why am I here?”

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Ha. Indeed :-)

@thatguybutitsactuallyagirl5384

4 жыл бұрын

Uhm, no, I would say the question would be much more like; "Who are we? And Why are we here?" What you said sounded very Fi-Ne.

@LifeisaBeautifulting

4 жыл бұрын

This resonates so well it hurts lol

@Nina21_

3 жыл бұрын

Oh yes ! I feel better knowing i'm not the only one with this..

You know you’re an INFJ when you have a near panic attack when someone takes too long to respond to a text message & you rehash every conversation you had with said person and come to made up conclusions why they are mad at you and they finally respond normal and you go damn I did it again overthink the shit out of situations..what I hate most of being an INFJ 😒

@aprilparker7151

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, lol. But I am getting good at talking myself down out of the panic. Making myself realize its all in my head lol

@zebrastripes3786

5 жыл бұрын

April Parker that’s good,I do that too..remind myself of all the previous times I panicked & it turned out to be nothing at all but can’t seem to get over this behavior 🙃

@safa6267

5 жыл бұрын

Sabna Ajith and it always leads to the conclusion that they hate you. it's irritating because I know it’s irrational but I really can’t help it

@KM-zn3lx

5 жыл бұрын

I just let them contact me first now.....anytime I contact them it feels like they didn't want me too! I wish he'd slow down on some of these points. Many ring true. Especially debates comment. But not math

@eastonbolen4563

5 жыл бұрын

having anxiety just makes it worst as well

"You don't need people but you REALLY do need people" YES 😔👏

@khaligee1218

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@maurivanhanen9208

3 жыл бұрын

What does that mean? I honestly haven't met another person in months, and I don't feel unfulfilled.

You know that you are an INFJ when meeting another INFJ in real life is almost like a religious experience -- YES!!!

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Yes! Glad you relate, Bev :)

@KM-zn3lx

5 жыл бұрын

Wish I could.

@ispbrotherwolf

5 жыл бұрын

Totaly agree, have only met 3 and it was great. Like meeting a familly member.

@fharhunachoudhury2434

5 жыл бұрын

Bev M I have yet to do this but plan on doing so

@infinity7647

4 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately I haven't met anyone like me yet

Another one: you know you're an INFJ if you're kinda obsessed with mbti because as a "logical feeler" it really helped you understanding the human world around you. At least that's the point where I noticed that I'm an advocate lol

@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes

2 жыл бұрын

You are so right, I though I was unhealthy and the lonely to being obsessed by MBTI. Feel a little guilty to know all of this knowledge so quickly.

*You know you're an INFJ:* 1) Pretty sensitive but rational 2) your friend wonder where you disappeared 3) analyze others emotions than your own 4) enjoy the idea of travelling, but travelling in your head 5) people don't really understand you 6) feeling guilty about feeling misunderstood because feeling unique is a bit vain 7) when you get angry - an absolute configuration 8) sick of people telling you're a unicorn 9) decent in math but also good in literature, history - a bit of everything (all rounder) 10) life is a perpetual quest to under what you're looking for 11) people find you kind of mysterious 12) you're intense (deep) - in nice friendly way 13) most of your friends enfp (or none at all) 14) soft spot for intp and entp? 15) never seen as the best but think you're the best in some domain 16) movement intelligence is very low@bad 😅 17) if stressed turn into SC dominance ESTP 18) when you're confident you feel like you're not ESTP but ENFJ 19) single criticism will shake of your confidence 20) when in good mood people see you as extrovert 21) don't understand PJ different (I don't understand this point) 22) an advocate - you don't need people but also need them 23) a lot of stuff you do, nobody knows about 24) try to be nice to everyone unless they don't make an effort 25) very cold to someone when you know that person betrayed your trust 26) worst door slam can be seen as a little bit sadistic 27) you have many different type of personality to different person (chameleon) 28) feels like an actor but also seem detached 29) think you can win more debates if you're shameless 30) neither right nor left brain but both 31) missing an infj in real life feels like religious experience 32) talking to another infj could be source of warm and relief 33) unique kind of charisma 34) your phone in airplane mode/offline so not to be disturbed 35) your empathy can be a source of pleasure 36) your music taste is like an infp 37) you seem preoccupied or lost in a dream@ daydreaming? 38) attracted to paradox eventhough you're logical 39) strong sense of kinship with INTJ 40) never the best strategies 41) your mind is not made to thrive in capitalist economy 42) try your hand at poetry 43) sense of humor is far less PC - people can be surprised with what you come up with 44) you're a logical person 45) your thoughts doesn't translate into ordinary language 46) can feel powerful emotions and bless with that ability 47) hold grudges more easily than you would like to admit 48) Absorb another person emotions before they speak 49) 1 compliment that you would hear is that you're profound and fundamentally interested in others I don't know what point i miss... It should be 50 😅

@77HadassaH77

6 ай бұрын

I think you need to dissect point 44 in: 1 you’re a logical person > 2 until people see you with a cute animal (so 2 is number 45). I like how R did this. It’s spot on for me because it can really be a mind boggling experience for a person who gets closer to me and didn’t quite yet know everything about me…

@Markay-wu2cq

2 ай бұрын

u missed the first one 😀 thanks for the list!

@MVPA-io5ee

2 ай бұрын

@@Markay-wu2cq Thank you for the info 😳😊

The traveling is in your head -- YES!

@darkhorse7460

5 жыл бұрын

Lol, many free vacations

@KM-zn3lx

5 жыл бұрын

So funny! I was thinking the other day that travel could be in my head! I don't know INTJ etc. My neighbor is one and she finally got to me too much! Door slam!

@nfernandez11163

5 жыл бұрын

So true!

@stringofpearls4551

4 жыл бұрын

...and gardening, redecorating, being interviewed on a national show, writing a book in your head, arguing with people in your head, wondering about everything in your head and often finding that reality is an unwelcome intrusion to what's going on in your head...

@VilkanVisions

4 жыл бұрын

That's why I love to watch shows like Star Trek :D

The worst part about being an INFJ is the 16 personalities that are within me. I am every single person I've met, every single book I've read and all the experiences in my life. I don't have a sense of self. I don't really know who I am. If I read about an ENTJ, I become an ENTJ. If I talk with an INTJ, I become the INTJ. I am who you are.

@yaminigaur1394

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly same here

@rctempleton9711

2 жыл бұрын

i love or at least will have to explore your concept,would that be like a narcissist with their prey only in good way with a kind heart?????

@alainfranken7081

2 жыл бұрын

Oh this is so true. We are so great at adopting a persona and not being one person. Become enlightened and you know why this is the case

@hope-9475

2 жыл бұрын

Same here

@educationalbrowsing8913

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, this is kind.

Here's a list to all of you INFJ brothers and sisters out there. I took most of it from the captions so there might be a few mistakes. Take care out there all of you! 1. You know that you're an INFJ from time to time if you really are an INFJ. 2. You know you're INFJ when you're pretty sensitive but also pretty rational 3. You know you're INFJ when your friends suddenly wonder where the hell you've disappeared. 4. You know you're INFJ when you'd much rather analyze other's emotions than your own. 5. You know you're INFJ when you enjoy the idea of traveling but most of the time the traveling is mostly in your head. 6. You know you're INFJ when you feel like people don't really understand you. 7. But you also feel like an INFJ when you feel guilty about feeling misunderstood because feeling unique is a bit vain. 8. You know that you're an INFJ when you really get angry but when you do it's an absolute configuration. 9. You know you're INFJ when you're sick of people telling you that you're a unicorn. 10. And you also know you're INFJ when you're often decent at maths in school but you were also kind of good at literature and history and a bit of everything. 11. You know you're INFJ when your life is a perpetual quest to understand what you're really looking for. 12. You know that you are INFJ when people find you kind of mysterious. 13. But you know that you're INFJ when people find you intense but in a kind of nice and friendly way. 14. You know you are this type when most of your friends are ENFP's. 15. And you know also that you are of this type when you often have a soft spot for INTP's and ENTP's. 16. You know you're INFJ when you were never seen as the best but you kind of think you are the best in some domains. 17. You know you're an INFJ when your kinesthetic intelligence the movements intelligence is very low and very bad and is nothing to boast about. 18. But you also know that you're INFJ when you're stressed you turn into your kind of SC dominance ESTP. 19. You know that you are of this type when you go through a confident patch you feel like you're not an ESTP but an ENFJ. 20. Now unfortunately you know that you're INFJ when single criticism is enough to shake you off your confidence and you're no longer an ENFJ. 21. You know you're also an INFJ when you're in a good mood people often see you as an extrovert. 22. And you know you are of this type when people don't really understand the PJ difference which often pegs you as a P. 23. You know that you're an advocate when you don't really need people but at the same time, you really need people. 24. There's a good indication that you're an INFJ if a lot of the stuff you do nobody knows about. 25. But you also know that you could very well be this type when you try to be nice to everyone and your family for example unless they're really making no effort. 26. You know that you're of this type when you can become very cold to someone when you feel like that person has betrayed your trust. 27. Even more so you know that you're INFJ when some of your worst door slams can be seen as a little bit sadistic in their brutality. 28. You know you're INFJ when you feel sometimes as if you had 12 different personalities adapted to different kinds of audiences and have an intuitive feeling of what would be the best mode of expression to them. 29. You feel like you're an INFJ when you often feel like you're an actor in a film and present and detached at the same time. 30. You know that you're an INFJ when you know you would win so many more debates if your skin was a little thicker. 31. You know that you're of this type when you're neither left nor right brain but kind of both. 32. And you also know that you're this type when meeting an INFJ in real life is almost like a religious experience. 33. You know that you're an INFJ when talking to other INFJ's online can be a great source of warmth from a tough world. 34. You know that you're this kind of type when you have a unique kind of charisma which is subtle yet present and all your own. 35. You know that you're an INFJ when sometimes you put your phone in airplane mode not to be disturbed by mankind. 36. I think another tell-tale sign that you are this type is when your empathy that can be a source of difficulty sometimes can be a source of pleasure and you can utilize almost as a source of pleasure. For example when you put yourself in the shoes of a movie character or musician and feel like you can actually experience the fragments of their lives. 37. You know that you're an INFJ when your music taste is basically those of an INFP except that it is the INFPs that tell you about how to get a music taste. 38. You know that you're an INFJ when people are looking at you, you seem preoccupied or lost in a dream. 39. But you also that you are of this type if you're attached to paradox and even though you're logical you're interested in what can not be explained by logical means alone and that you're interested in what's behind that. 40. You know that you're an INFJ if you at the end of the day you feel a strong sense of kinship with INTJ's despite your differences. 41. You know that you're an INFJ when you were never the best at strategy games or board games of any kind it's almost if your intelligence lied elsewhere and whenever you were focusing on these games your intelligence was misused. 42. You know that you're an advocate if you often feel like your mind is really not made for thriving in the capitalist economy but maybe you would thrive in a different kind of economy. 43. And you know that you're an INFJ if you've tried to hand the poe at poetry once or twice in your life at least or maybe more. 44. And you especially know when your sense of humor is far less politically correct and proper than people think and in certain circles, people can be surprised by what you come up with. 45. Another telltale sign that you are of this type is that you're kind of a logical person but one way to make sure to convince people if they need to be convinced that you're not T is if you're in the presence of a cute animal. 46. You know that you're an INFJ when your thoughts simply do not translate into your ordinary language. 47. And you know that you're this type if you can feel extremely powerful emotions and mostly you feel blessed for that ability can be a source of pain which you would not exchange for anything else. 48. You feel like you might be an advocate if you hold grudges easier than you'd like to admit and don't easily let go of them although you can. 49. You know that you're an INFJ if you sometimes absorb another person's emotions even before that person has spoken it's almost as if the aura around the person has done the job already you'd absorbed all the waves. 50. You know that you're an INFJ if the one compliment that people would never take away from you that you would hear is that you're profound and you're someone who's fundamentally interested in others.

@mdkgr

2 жыл бұрын

I feel like I am being expressed by all 50 of them

You know ur an infj wen uve bin through or are currently in the process of going thru a spiritual awakening :)

Great list Ren! How about also, you know you are an INFJ when you become extremely irritable, stressed to the point of lashing out at others if you do not get enough alone time.

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely true! Thanks Leigh :)

@emfer3010

5 жыл бұрын

Yess!!!

@chasingtheunknown3763

5 жыл бұрын

yes, i become bitchy!!

@ame8710

5 жыл бұрын

Almost all introverts are like this...

@fharhunachoudhury2434

5 жыл бұрын

OMG yes libraries are a great comfort for moments like this, a haven amongst chaos

“Infj can be a source of pain but you wouldn’t trade it”.... Pretty spot on! I literally just told someone I wouldn’t choose this personality but I wouldn’t trade it either.

@oficado58

4 жыл бұрын

Too weird to live, too rare to die

@Sariine436

4 жыл бұрын

I hate my personality...

I listened and laughed, smiled, nodded, reflected...yes INFJ. Thank you for your work.

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the very kind comment :-)

You know your INFJ when many many times in your life you meet people for the first time, sense something from them, ask if everything is ok with them, and end up hearing details about a person that you are not on a relationship level for that information.

Present, yet detached. Yes. Our paradoxical nature can be maddening.

@ashlazdanovich8396

4 жыл бұрын

I sometimes like being in the mind space between present and detached. I find it easier to connect but to not be too overwhelmed. It’s weird but interesting. Then again I am an INFJ.

@maurivanhanen9208

3 жыл бұрын

Not really paradoxical. We're present in reality and oblivious to the pathetic lies.

@loref4200

3 жыл бұрын

@@maurivanhanen9208 Oblivious? I am rarely oblivious to lies..

You know you're an INFJ when only you can tell yourself whether you can do something or not. Always gotta try!

My wish and desire for INFJ's is to use their super powers to transcend color lines and help bring peace to this unforgiving and dying world :-)

Hm 46 are true, but: 1. I enjoy analysing both my own and others' emotions. 2. I've always been good at strategy/board/card games. 3. No INFP is suggesting music to me, I am discovering it myself. 4. Not sure about the last one, but I think I'm too narcissistic to be fundamentally interested in others, haha.

@skyegraves5053

5 жыл бұрын

It’s always enfp’s suggesting music to me, it’s so annoying. I know what I like to feel with music, AND music is as intimate as close friends - mostly people don’t (or shouldn’t) suggest friends 😂.

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

INFPs and ENFPs have usually really good taste in music haha

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

rolom: you appear to be the only INFJP in the world!

@talielnussen3867

5 жыл бұрын

I think I am...too

@rolom3

5 жыл бұрын

@@tsenjin7903 Wow I'm very similar to ISFP... I need to do more research.

#51 this video makes you feel validated LoL🙌🙌🙌 I truly Laughed Out Loud when you said, you know you’re an INFJ when all your friends are ENFP😂😂😂 it is sOo true for me!!!🙌

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Haha it's true for me too! Thanks a lot, monica!

@aprilparker7151

5 жыл бұрын

Validated, yes!

@becurious17

5 жыл бұрын

Same!! I had to pause the video for a laugh at that point. ☺️ ENFPs are my closest friends and when I meet a new one I tend to always feel a kinship with them. I feel at ease and more of my authentic self around them. 💜 Doesn't hurt that they always liven things up and bring me out of my dark hole at times. 😬

@fharhunachoudhury2434

5 жыл бұрын

My best friend is enfp & her aunty is infj but we’ve yt to meet lolz 😂

@AA123TD

2 жыл бұрын

My daughter is a possible ENFP. She is 12 so maybe things will change. I hope she will be my best friend as an adult.

#3: What friends?

@Sariine436

4 жыл бұрын

I wish I didn't but did have friends...

@malcomlittle251

4 жыл бұрын

True.

I love your facial expression throughout the video. A mischievous smirk. 😏

@AliceDont888

4 жыл бұрын

Lolol

you know you're INFJ if this video makes you emotional because someone finally gets you

The random board game one - I have disliked board games since childhood, and I’ve never known why. 😂

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Haha, I feel the same way Skye :D

@aprilparker7151

5 жыл бұрын

Well I am sure you would love some board games, maybe Scrabble? I hate strategy games, too though. Now I know why... haha

@neiln4478

5 жыл бұрын

Yes - wow, never realised why

@mersereaucatherine

5 жыл бұрын

Except T rival Pursuit

@The_Red_Pill__

5 жыл бұрын

Skye Graves I do like cribbage though. I also like world maps.

*You know you’re (probably) an INFJ when you laughed and nodded in agreement to pretty much all of this* What an awesome video that really resonates...thank you for sharing!

@RensRoom

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Hi. I scored 49 out of 50 for INFJ. The only one I was not sure about was kinaesthetic. I love dancing but struggle initially with learning and memorising the sequence of steps. Thank you.

@tyogafitness6071

5 жыл бұрын

so me as well ;)

@VilkanVisions

4 жыл бұрын

I'm infj dancer and to learn moves I repeat them milion times :D

@isabelle1976

4 жыл бұрын

Mee too. Can hurt myself by tripping over non moving objects and be very clumsy ... But i love dancing. I don't feel like it is such a paradox as i experience dancing more like an emotional internally oriented experience. It's receiving and merging with the energy and waves of the music, resonating with it. Completely intimate and intuitive. Goes better with improvisation for me then with a stereotyped, fixed, learned sequence of steps, which is valueless for me. And i don't have such a great memory ... especially for things i'm not interested in, so, forget it with the learnt choregraphy !😋

@mastervision5902

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, I am actually much more agile and graceful in my movements than what I suppose an INFJ should be. Of course, I have been told I take after my grandfather and great grandfather, who were dancers at some point, and I also took martial arts as a kid which has helped A LOT in terms of my agility, flexibility, and reflexes. I am, though, a big klutz when I'm in a hurry.

@fortuneh1851

4 жыл бұрын

You’re not an IFNJ if you love to dance in public

Hi Ren! Very nice video with some traits that are not frequently talked about. I am a Spanish INFJ living in The Netherlands. Something that I sometimes struggle with is hierarchy, specially when authority is based only on force or a "because I say so" attitude (I experienced that since I was little). I think that or what we consider attacks on people in a disavantageous position or our values system, rubs us INfJs in the wrong way far more than to other types (and unexpected conflagration enssues as you said, Dragonball style :-D, which can scare people. I liked your point about board games: my brother (INTJ) and I liked playing when we were little but the moment someone was hypercompetitive or rules were strict, we became bored... We like to develop our own flexible rule systems in a creative process, I think we would probably be the worst soldiers ever.

@JonasAnandaKristiansson

5 жыл бұрын

Yes!!! I'm with you completely here. The board game thing too. Some people tend to destroy the fun and playfulness it is all abou.t

@TukaSlave

5 жыл бұрын

I think the natural reaction if conscripted would be to conspire with the enemy to avoid all contact, and to shoot our own officers if they insisted on us attacking instead.

@AA123TD

2 жыл бұрын

I can't stand competition

I was very bad at math when I was younger. I am not getting better at it. Because I am a Chinese, it feels like I have a disability when I am around other Chinese. Then I know I am better than other Chinese in other ways. No complaint.

@aprilparker7151

5 жыл бұрын

Yes. I am bad at math too. Confessions of a current student who has dropped her math class twice.... :/

@SteubeMan

4 жыл бұрын

I was good at math until geometry. fuck geometry. algebra could be fun though, so long as i didn't have to memorize too much

@dinkin_flicka14

3 жыл бұрын

I was so bad at math that I barely managed to pass. I was pretty good at history and languages.

@maurivanhanen9208

3 жыл бұрын

I was and can be good at math, but it's not something I'm naturally interested in, so I'm rusty as hell.

The first one is the bomb. I always asked myself that question. As I mentioned before, you have hit the nail on the head with these descriptions. I will definitely listen to more of what you have to say.

This is the most accurate description, I have ever come across. I was laughing and crying at the same time! Thank you so much! Btw - it really was an INFP who taught me my taste in music

I've watched this video of yours a few times before and twice today. Whenever I watch, it feels so enlightening. I tend to change my personality around different sorts of people that each of them would describe me in incorrect ways or just generalize me as sweet. Despite knowing a lot of people, there's rarely even a chance that they know me truly. Even my parents say that I'm so complicated and have so many layers that it shocks them at times. It would just freak me out when I've met strangers talking about their own life in general or when people will start sharing their deepest secrets after talking to me for only a few days or a week. Still I couldn't share easily. I switch off my phone or keep my wifi off so that I stay away from my friends for a while, without hurting them so that they don't know I'm detaching. Sometimes, it feels sad that why am I the way I am? Why I don't have a true "best friend"? I never thought there is something called as an logical feeler until I dug deeper into INFJs. Thank you so much for the insight!

The best and most accurate "signs of an INFJ" video on the internet.

Merci I am french ....I just learn that I'm a INFJ six months ago and I have 58 years old...what a shock for me I tried to be like others sibling in my family but the 6 of them we are 7 all reject me and but me in a aslum and the psychiatric Said a have a big depress after they said I was bipolaire and medication so high for 12 years....but I was so slown my friends for 35 years reject me too 😔 but the good news is I'm positive person and all my backgroung expérience help me a lot to keep going...I'm alone with Molly (German Sheppard 1.4 years old Rescue humanitary and Jules( Taby coffee 14 years) and Taffy (Taby black and withe 2 years old rescue humanitary) ma family...😊😻😻🐶♥️. I never meet others person like me I think is because I stay in Québec (Canada) and they don't know a lot about gifted person, MBTI and others...they always said that I'm "folle" but I know I'm not and your vidéo make me cry because I feel so alone and you help me...A big hug to you and thank you to share...you are a sunshine in the rain here this morning (9h30am) Regard's and have a lovely day 🤗☀️♥️

This is all quite accurate to me personally, I smiled throughout the whole video. It’s so wonderful to know others feel and go through similar things. Comforting. Thanks Ren!

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome, mell :-)

As an empath I just discovered that I am also an INFJ as well. I really do appreciate this soul searching journey. You can learn so much about yourself

Brilliant, can relate to most of the above, especially the one about not needing as well as needing others. I find I struggle to think quickly enough when interacting with people, with consequences of not being properly understood.

OMG! Found your channel today. I learned I was an empath/HSP 4 years ago. Before then, I had struggled with depression and feeling like i was always tired for almost 9 years. Learning that I was a male empath helped me in so many ways. The biggest being that I learned to protect my energy and know when I needed to recharge. I'd sometimes hide from the world when I felt burnt out. I could never explain why. I revisited the Briggs-Meyer test because I hadn't done it since high school, and mine came up as INFJ. So glad I found your channel :) I've felt alone for years. I've always felt like the outsider where ever I go, and I struggled with feelings of inadequacy because I thought my sensitivity made me weak and less masculine. Anyway, thank you for your vids. I am so happy to read the experiences of others, and to see that there are other men out there who have had similar internal struggles.

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this and I hope you stick around, Yokahu! :)

I'm 58. I've only just now seen 3 different people on here talking about this. I'm hearing my life. Totally tripped over here and suddenly this familiar knowing comes into my tube feed. So explains everything to me. Wowed. Thanks

This was so accurate I wanted to cry because of all the “good traits” mentioned but also of the pains we feel.

Loved it, Ren. This is a great list. Funny, entertaining yet deep and stimulating with a poetic touch... very INFJ-ish.

you know you're infj when you look for youtube videos ab infj's.

The board games one 😂 I’ve always been terrible at them, it just doesn’t keep my attention.

@toxendon

3 жыл бұрын

Same!!! And I always felt bad for it! But now I know why!

@prathampokhrel8944

3 жыл бұрын

I am actually really good at chess, but except for that I am not good. I am strategist infj xD

This is such an endearing video, not just the way you describe the "50 signs", but your facial expressions and lightheartedness :-).

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Aw, thanks so much! I appreciate that a lot :)

@TheBakingSlave

5 жыл бұрын

@@RensRoom No problem :-), as an INFJ, I wish this video would have been around when I was a kid or teen because I wouldn't have felt so alone. You are one of the few INFJ's I connect with (I know I don't know you obviously, but I just mean in the way you would connect with anyone you watch on TV or KZread). You just seem so kind (from your videos) and really knowledgeable. Being an INFJ can be so hard at times, especially the empathy. I get so overwhelmed at times and its nice to know that there are others feeling the same types of things. It's so funny because the "feeling" you get from people is such an INFJ thing and I get such a "kind soul" feeling from you when I watch your videos :-). Anyway, thank you for posting, just discovered your channel and I really like it.

Very informative, thank you for posting this video. A few times I laughed because you mentioned traits I have that nobody has ever mentioned seeing in me, or I thought they couldn't see. It is a lot to take in all at once so I will come back and listen to it at least a couple more times.

I was so doubtful about myself till I discovered this... This really made me emotional. Thank you for making this video ❤️

Good one. Thanks! Occasionally tech for a noob... Will return when less ignorant about other types...🙏🙏👏👏🤘

"Stupid game!!" exclaimed Cian in anger, flipping over the Monopoly.

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Hahaha this rings a bell, Cian! Have you been well?

My mind is blown right now. I'm just learning about this and wasn't sure if my typing was correct. I can't explain my emotions watching this, and how comforting and relieving it is to understand that there are people who understand me. I cried watching this. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I'm not sure I'm questioning anything anymore. Thank you very much for such a comprehensive list of traits. I appreciate it.

A lot of list made me laugh Not because it was funny, well some was, but it was so true, so close to the heart. Thank you

This is great, and I had a hearty laugh as well!

lord ! i feel so naked listening to this man, he's reading me like a book !!!

Perfect, I was doing what you saying questioning if I was an INFJ. Thanks very much.!

Aha! Now I know like I know I am an INFJ! Thanks Ren for this video. I got a boost after a rough morning and I appreciate your humor along with some of the comments that were fun to read. The "I don't need people yet I do need people" hit the nail on the head for me.

100% correct!!! You’re spot on REN!

I've been told I'm TOO DEEP emotionally and intellectually

@malcomlittle251

4 жыл бұрын

Feel your pain

INFJ here with a big fat soft spot for my lovely INTP

Thank you so much. I've spent my life thinking I was an INTJ who couldn't manage to be himself (lol), due to taking these tests over a decade ago. When I took them recently and got INFJ, it was like a lightbulb went off. I had been striving against my feelings for a very, very long time, trying to out-think myself in order to fit the shape others seemed to want for me, but that's a long story. Watching this video was truly like a religious experience. I'm well on my way to getting comfortable with arranging my life in a way that allows me to give what I can to the people I can, when I can. And staying away like a hermit the rest of the time, lol! Thank you!

been struggling back and forward these days when ive discovered this. Especially being an ENFP instead, but this was bit of a nail in the coffin. Thnx

Love the video. I'm an infj and I think some of the stuff you said I don't have or I don't do, But most of it was right.

i remember that time at a class when we "open up" about describing ourselves and i said that I was (I'm) different at home, with my friends, at school ,etc, and someone looked at me weird and said "isnt that a disorder?" i really thought that, that was something completly normal that everybody acted different according to the situation.

@RensRoom

4 жыл бұрын

Not a disorder at all, just being INFJ ;P

You got it spot on my man. Obviously not all infjs are the same but 48 of those things, I can relate😅😅

Great list! I identified with most of them except the ones about being friends with a certain MBTI type or being drawn to a certain type. I don't really make an effort to type other people, so I can't say for certain that's true about me. Also, at 4:42 Ha! Actually, I would say I'd win more debates if I didn't care about the *other* person's skin being too thin. I'd be able to shut down so many arguments so much more quickly if I were more ruthless and didn't care if the other person hated me for the rest of their lives. So I also toe the line. I'm not sure I understood the music choice one at 5:55 either because I don't know what INFP music tastes are like. Unless it's simply believing that great music has no single category, and you can find it across multiple genres. Thanks for this list though! It was quite illuminating. :-)

Wow - I resonate with so much of this!!

What a miracle it is to me to FINALY KNOW im not alone😲❤🙏😊 it amazes me how i shouted "YES EXACTLY!" to literally all the 50 examples you mentioned! i had never heard of these terms like INFJ and so on before so thank you so much for sharing 😊👍😁🙌🤗

Great work, thank you!

I'm constantly questioning whether I'm an INFJ or not, people calling us literal unicorns and super humans made me feel really sceptical about it. And also the rarity. But after watching some of your videos, and after paying attention to your behaviour in this video and myself really relating to it, I'm more positive that I'm an INFJ.

@RensRoom

2 жыл бұрын

Great to hear :)

I totally agree 👍 ud swear that u can predict people's moves nd yes profound studying people is my thing, the advice part spot on. I guess it takes a sense of acknowledging ones thought process nd feeling to be this kind of personality trait. No wonder its a rare form. Thank you for this insight it has really helped me understand new things

All of this. Great video.

this is right on target! nailed it.

I found it soooo relateble thanx Ren I loved the way you speak in this video :D Sounded like it's not your usual manner of speech

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Julia! I wrote the 50 different experiences, so this might be the reason why! :)

SO, so good! Saving this one :D

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Thanks mate! Hope you've been well.

Absolutely loving your videos. Thank you because you are helping me to get clarity, knowledge, and insight!!!💯🙏✌♥🔥

:O I don't know if this feeling of being floored by how accurate these INFJ videos will ever go away. So trippy!

Wowwww Perfect descriptions

Very interesting stuff Ren. Thank you.

I thoroughly enjoyed this one!

I just shared this video with a couple of friends. I asked them if they would let me know if any of the 5o made them think of me and they said all of them! LOL ❤️ Thank you for taking the time to put this information out there !😊

This is very affirming lol and I'm really impressed with your confidence behind the camera. charisma in spades.:)

That was great! You know you're infj when you play news and educational videos at 1.5 or 2 speed to save time and get to the point faster... while reading comments.

I just recently found my personality type. I am 63 and I wish I had this help long ago. I think that my bi-polar 1 would have been better with this kind of help. I am also an Empath so I do appreciate your videos since they resonate perfectly with me !~~Thankyou for your knowledge and insight !!!!!! Sending love your way !!!

Yesss! All of these! Especially the feeling like an actor in the movie of life. 🤔

Really well presented video, smooth transitions lol

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Haha thanks a lot!

An affirming video. Sincere thanks. New subscriber - love the videos.

@RensRoom

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Excellent video! Thanks Ren!

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Neiljjim, I hope you've been well!

Great video!! Thank you))

These were so funny! Thanks for sharing them! !!!

@RensRoom

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks Shiona!

this classification is amazing

So very true myself, to everything you just said. Thanks for helping me find out who I might be.

@RensRoom

4 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome :)

You know you're an INFJ when you're smiling throughout the video. :)

All 50 correct! Thanks Ren!!

Thanks for the differing between the two

Yep, all of these are spot on ✨

Soft spot for INTPs, damn that's accurate for me 😂

"Traveling in your head" My Instagram bio literally says "Always mentally in transit" 😂😂😂

If I had any doubts before, I don't now. Lol

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Glad I settled this for you ;) How have you been?

@45Seconds2Mars

5 жыл бұрын

@@RensRoom I'm doing ok. Just been in introvert mode and analytical thoughts. I keep forgetting to mention to you that you might want to check out Tod Desmond's youtube channel. Think he is or was a philosophy teacher in US. He incorporates philosophy, Jung, and some physics. I've only watched a few of his vids (Jung Near Death Experience) so far. Thought you might be interested in it.

Good job Ren! Kind of an eerie experience to hear my life described so well. I’m an engineer and a visual artist. Tried poetry for a couple of years. I wonder at times whether I’m really INFJ. For a long time time I ascribed my personal quirks to growing up in a somewhat dysfunctional family. Now it turns out I am just inherently weird. (INFJ humor.)

I am an INFJ and totally relate to all of these comments. Thank you!

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Glad to hear it, Suzanne!

You know you’re an infj when you distance yourself the moment you see they are jealous hearted…you think to yourself “they can’t hang”

So beautifully done!! ENFP here. 😘

@RensRoom

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

I think m an INFJ for sure now. My humor is not PC but revealed in trustworthy circles, meeting another person like me is a religious experience almost made for a grander purpose, never would trade off my emotions no matter how logical i am because i know somethings cant be explained by logic, anybody who knows me knows i completely shut off but when in group i seem extroverted, i morph my personality to best fit the vibes in the room, i know m good in debates but i also care to see others are not offended or see their point is definitely heard coz they have a wisdom to share too although i know m not the best debator, constantly searching for my purpose and how to best serve society, anybody who knows me knows i genuinely care for people and have difficulty saying no, i deeply relate to intps, entps and intjs. And yes i got a lot of enfp friends. I know am an INFJ. i thought i was an INTP, but i just know i read people too well and what they are all about, sometimes even knowing the ways to manipulate them but never for bad intentions, i see the potential for good in every human being, i like depth, philosophy, good in math, but most importantly i see that most of my thoughts are always images, or about humanity and its well being. I know for sure now INFJ. i havent doorslammed anyone. But i know if anybody betrays m never placing my trust on them ever again. I will still be cordial but will never ever give them back that trust ever. Its done forever...i might even fantasise about killing then in my dreams but dont worry i got sadistic thoughts only in dreams. I am too nice to ever want something this bad for anyone in reality even for my enemies. And no i dont have enemies. I will say i only tough teachers. They are all teachers for our personal development.