Comment down below where you are watching from (Let's push this algorithm) 😎

@KatyWithAWhyyy

Жыл бұрын

Middle of America - suburbs of Kansas City (:

@audbod4140

Жыл бұрын

Glasgow

@lana9788

Жыл бұрын

Dorset, UK

@lucindakennedy7966

Жыл бұрын

Ireland

@LissaRes

Жыл бұрын

Ohio

If the Devil can't get to you, He will send a Narcissist. TRUTH!!

@kat-75

Жыл бұрын

A snake or rapist too. Or a mask wearing liar in different forms.

@pamelaprivette5361

Жыл бұрын

OOHHHHHH! So that is what my whole life has been about! I MUST be something SPECIAL! I have no choice but to finally ACCEPT that now! Thank you!

@milicaboric303

Жыл бұрын

that means the devil is always around us

@RossMaroc

9 ай бұрын

The devil send his workers and if he cant get to you through them! then he comes to you disguised in human form as a Narcissist!!

@clintkiesling8149

7 ай бұрын

"That's the fact, Jack!"

I always thought in a healthy relationship we discover depths and faults in each other. Not so with a narc: the more you know about them, the more they hate you. You’re not supposed to figure them out.

@samuelfoston4556

Жыл бұрын

Just another fella making stuff up and acting like he’s knowledgable, whilst simultaneously demonstrating what little value there is in his knowledge. Standard behaviour for a Grannon victim.

@kandebabou

Жыл бұрын

@@samuelfoston4556 if you have ever experienced being in a close relationship with a narcissist (family members, friends etc.) then you would know that the above comment is accurate. You don't need to have a PhD in psychology to understand the damage done by narcissists - you just need to have live through it.

@catshouse6192

Жыл бұрын

No, we are not supposed figure them out, in their minds we are stupid and weak, and not at all that we are kind, caring and patient too much for our good. We rather delude ourselves for a period of time than admit that these kind of creatures can exist. When narcs get figured out by us, their ego can't bare the fact that stupid and weak are actually them.

@clevelandwilliams5922

Жыл бұрын

They have an agenda and it’s all by design. So no sympathy whatsoever.

@Alabamasparra

Жыл бұрын

Totally true fed up of narcassism!! xx

Narc weaknesses : 1 Addicted to false self 2 False narrative 3 Impressionable 4 Thin skinned, labile moods 5 Reliant on others

@NoMoreHeroesAnymore1334

Жыл бұрын

All of these. Now how do we free a minor child from their clutches without infinite money? Oh...right.

@louisegarner8888

Жыл бұрын

@@NoMoreHeroesAnymore1334 Do you get the child at all? Get a friend over to take the child out back where you've music on, as soon as they arrive. Have a camera with recorder set up where it's a surefire bet the narc will stand. Stay very calm but provoke them by saying something softly that would seem innocuous but you know will set them off into a crazy rage, have police on speed dial and Bob's your uncle. Get inventive but safety first. Dig up any dirt on them you can use and be well organised so it's 💯proof evidence. What was that you found in your child's backpack?! A bound diary, date and time stamped is good for Court. 👮‍♂️😠😈🤬👮‍♀️✌️

@crystalclear5397

Жыл бұрын

​​@@louisegarner8888 Definitely! That is Exactly what I did here. Take pictures, record the conversations, take screenshots of text history, things like that. I did have issues with the cops though, my small city cops Suck and always took his side.....Until only once and Finally spoke with and later came when I called was a female cop. The male cops with her were a disgrace, as I explained what took place when they arrived, 'Thats not what we hurd, we hurd you going off and snapping at him from the outside of the window when we got here', yes dummy- when You Got here. You weren't here just prior to hear or see what took place by him that lead me to yell like that you hurd. Are you that narrow minded or on your male ego high horse? He was choking me but just because there was no signs they thought I was lying when I brought it up in my first earlier call that night.

@andreaslandgren1681

Жыл бұрын

Yup thats human behaviour alright!

@louisegarner8888

Жыл бұрын

@@andreaslandgren1681 Nope, it's called exposing the inhumane monster for who and what they really are, legally.

Yes please who lack self worth and respect. They are unable to achieve success …and are jealous of people who have WORTH!

I say, run away when you have the chance. Confrontation is not only pointless but dangerous.

@David-eu1ms

Жыл бұрын

Win the conflict by avoiding it.

@spectershore4482

3 ай бұрын

My lil sister is a narc. She's 37. Years after year she's more into lying, threatening, and abusing. At the end she just feels more entitled than ever. Crazy!

The only thing that seems like it could help is having the Narcissist fear, legitimately, being publicly shamed and called out for their behavior.

When I finally couldn’t stand it and wrote a long text telling him how he hurt me and how I thought he was narcissistic, he blocked me and told me he didn’t trust me. He didn’t like that I saw through him. I’m now a threat, to exposing him for who he is.

@freedomwarrior5087

13 күн бұрын

I told my ex years ago that I had figured him out and that he couldn't lie to me anymore, so just give it up. He then packed a suitcase and left and never returned, not even for the rest of his stuff. Of course little did I know at the time his new supply was all ready to go.

@jcbanbury

17 сағат бұрын

Same! TWO of them blocked me instantly! Anyone innocent has no reason to disappear!

@jcbanbury

17 сағат бұрын

​@@freedomwarrior5087you are lucky! They disappear when caught!

But they can never be ashamed or feel anything because they just dump you and head away...no truth, no depth and no justice. He tore out my soul.

@jjule85azzuro4

2 ай бұрын

They only feel shame if their BS is shown to a crowd. Never confront alone.

Do the thin skinned narcissist always have “health issues”? I can’t get over how many health issues this person had. From nasal passages being clogged to gout, and heart burn. If I ever said I have some health issue like I’m really tired or a pain somewhere (which was rare) within minutes or hours without fail he came up with some problem himself. It was like he always had to be in pain above me, the attention was all about him. It was exhausting, I felt more like his mother than his gf.

@hughlindsay540

Жыл бұрын

So close to the bone.

@jelkel25

11 ай бұрын

I would say a Narcissist is more likely to at least imply that you are whinging about your own health problems before one upping you. A sick partner is too good an opportunity to miss because you are vulnerable at the time. If this guy didn't try to make you feel worse in some way then not a Narcissist, even a fragile. Maybe just an unfortunate attention seeking hangover from childhood.

@charshill2978

10 ай бұрын

I found that no-one was allowed to suffer or endure more pain than him..I used my pain or illness "as a way to gain sympathy" , even when I hadn't told anyone that I was illl...but he had felt genuine, life ending pain that he found his own way out of...

@Rabswood296

7 ай бұрын

The narc i know always has health issues, it was a way of getting more attention because he would get looked after and pandered to. He would go to the doctor's/hospital for tests everything would come back OK. Also anything that he did have was the 'worse case the doctor had seen'.

@lolololololollol4793

Ай бұрын

the narcissist is knew always had an issue with everything he needed a bubble but he was also overweight and didnt take care of himself

the one in and out of my life was frighteningly dangerous, his anger came fast and furious like throwing a flame onto alcohol, he was capable of anything in that moment, then it would pass, these people are unpredictable and you need to be on your guard at all times.

@jenbodhi1133

13 күн бұрын

Like a rabid dog

If you want to go through life with kindness and compassion, you have to be willing to defend yourself often when the jackals come out.

Telling people to give up hope on a narcissist that they can change can sound bad in and of itself, but actually can save someone from wasting so much of their life on a person who will only continue to cause damage and wreak havoc month after month, year after year whilst waiting for the change that will never come.

I left the narcissist and when I held them accountable for their lies, using certain tactics, their true self showed! So true.

@user-sc3xm5lc4z

Жыл бұрын

what did you do to hod them accountable ? what actions ?

@verumbellator6899

Жыл бұрын

@@user-sc3xm5lc4z i tried the nice root for the longest time. Shrugging off criticisms and trying to be civil. That of course got me only more of the same. So instead of taking it inwards I bounced it back. First I left then I called him out on his lies and shamed him for it. Said he was a child…. Weak and an ungrateful____. Then all the truths came out of him. Tit for tat baby! There is no winning with a narc. Just leave and say you peace when you are in a safe place.

@iramsavir5631

10 ай бұрын

​@@user-sc3xm5lc4zBy exposing their lies, deceit in such a way and with evidence they simply cannot refute or deny. Once you've blown their cover, you are no longer of any value and they will resent and loathe you for it. They will try to make you pay dearly for ruining their image, crumbling their fake world and will discard you in the cruelest way possible. These narcs move on to the next victim at the speed of light because they always have backups/replacements waiting on the back burner, or shelf.

@zaramayne2444

4 ай бұрын

​@@verumbellator6899Yes something similar worked for me face them with it ,they have to come out of hiding but watch your opportunity softly ,there's a time and a place use wisdom stay safe too Just my humble opinions ( I've taken alot of flak narcissism is every where these days )

@spectershore4482

3 ай бұрын

My lil sister is a narc. She's 37. Years after year she's more into lying, threatening, and abusing. the more surprising thing is that she feels more entitled than ever. Sick!!😳

Am listening to our Richard from a nice village in Lorraine, France, where thousands of mirabelle (plum) trees are blooming everywhere in the countryside just now 🌸

I absolutely agree that our current societal 'norms' have created the conditions that allow narcissistic behaviours to exist largely unchecked. My ex-boyfriend was a classic case in point - he much preferred his online life as it allowed him greater control & manipulation over others than his real self ever could 😥✨

@Tified967

4 ай бұрын

So true. 'My' narc was my cyberstalker - much easier to do when you're sat behind a keyboard hacking someone's phone & accounts. It was literally a living a hell. He has his own KZread channel (how I met him) where he props up his ego given the sheer banality of his own real world existence. He's about 30 & im in my late 30s; no way would've I been sat on social media all day at his age, like, get a life.

Once you see their patterns they really don’t seem that smart

@jennyadee913

Жыл бұрын

They become a predictable bore for anyone remotely recovered from a BPD or just plain old healthy having a first encounter with one. They are a house of cards I recently engaged with a covert narc. It has been a fascinating unravelling . The disengagement was swift and graceful on my end. . Now the narrative is imploding as efforts at triangulation and reality checks are setting in. Still…. Disappointing I will miss the philosophical chats and psychological and esoteric shares. Never should have made love after a year of talking and listening. The cues were there . My empathetic ass showed up only to show me empathy is a foil . A tin foil hat for us “weirdo” different folk who seek affirmation when we are having a motivation / creative block. Procrastination is an invitation for these types. Just saying,, Idle hands Idealism Idolatry Idle minds The Id. God save the ego

@christinehawkins1382

11 ай бұрын

​​@@jennyadee913 It was kinda hard to follow most of your comment but the end was interesting, then I read it again and it became very clear , I too have empathy and allowed it to be used and abused , I know my heart and dont need to prove how understanding I am , Big difference between *having* emphathy & being a full blown empath ...A narcissist will also have a hard time with intimacy = into *me* See

Richard, you, BY FAR, are the BEST source of information on NPD that I have come across and the level of understanding i have been able to achieve thanks to you has been a blessing and a lifesaver

9:13 pointless trying to get them to wake up… tried marriage counselling with mine. Made it much clearer that it was time to leave.

Richard, I just realized that because I had an experience with a narcissist this was a big gap that I was missing in my personality to be able to deal with the world now I’m a completely different person. I’m so strong now I feel so adult and courageous.

I've noticed they've used my good characteristics against me, they would say I don't have any to me,but they've use my empathy against me,its funny how they know your not a bad person, but continue doing horrible things

Absolutely, they have created this world around them that they really believe is real. But it is all in their head. Their flawed connection to reality leads them to understand the world only on their terms. They get frustrated when you don't submit to their world view, because it shows your strength and their lack of reality. They envy your ability to live in reality and manage the issues that come with life. They cannot accept what challenges them. It is like watching a petulant child having a fit. To a certain extent, they are annoying.

@thecustodian1023

Жыл бұрын

A petulant child with adult-level resources to throw around at will.

@parrymylogicthen290

Жыл бұрын

​@@thecustodian1023 so much truth to this! My narc gf will literally go through our money some days! I don't trust her with our money at all.

Wow! This guy really goes even deeper than I understood before. He really hits the nail on the head.

For the algorithm! Richard is the only coach, that wants you to actually get to a point where, you no longer watch his videos on narcissism.

I agree: it takes a village not only to raise kids, but to keep parents accountable.

I am just learning about npd and am shocked that the person that says they love you can be so cruel. My stories are exactly what all of your videos say. They truly never think they do anything wrong, and lie lie lie even when the truth is in their face. It’s painful because I wanted to be loved so much that I looked past all the negative behaviour for years.

@chrissemenko628

4 ай бұрын

Keep learning hun, and make your getaway plan. Good luck. Christi

"Human needs aren't being met, BECAUSE we've succeeded as a species" is a truly profound and real statement. In addition to a great resource on dealing with toxic people, you are a philosopher too, Richard. Keep up the good work! Watching from Canada.

Brilliant! I have learned so much from you. I know you must get tired of narcissist videos. I'm so fascinated though. I've been out of my relationship for quite some time. However, I'm still so mind blown by the happenings during the relationship that I study narcissism. I also study myself and consistently work to improve. Your blunt videos have helped keep me strong and persevere through it all. Thank you!

@tammywallace5611

Жыл бұрын

Me too! Well said!!

@milicaboric303

Жыл бұрын

he obviously learned on his own with the help of those around him, like all successful connoisseurs of narcissists ... anyone who has not had contact with them does not even know what a narcissist is

This perfectly describes what I experience and see in a ‘friend’ after many years of self-education on the topic Finally free No chance of being hooked for a third time No chance It took co-dependency training and assessment and a commitment to self-differentiation My mother is a narcissist addict Wasted many years trying to help her Grew up and just found new narcs

I'm listening this from my soul

You just described the entire police department I worked in. Needless to say they destroyed my life and livelihood.

When he was caught red handed cheating and others were witnesses to it....he broke a 10 year sobriety and had to go to rehab. In his 30 days he was FORCED to look inside with intense therapy, no drugs, no alcohol and no family. He came home a different man BUT then the mask when back on and he returned to who he was. I left him in May. It's been such a painful journey but I know there will be a light at the end

@justsomeguy5417

2 ай бұрын

Im so so sorry. I know that pain :-( trying to find the 9

With the birth of social media, people don't have to deal with this nonsense anymore. People are happy just having their cell phone and no human interaction.

The more I do the more useless I supposedly am and the worst I'm treated but I know the truth. I'll be free some day.

The narcissist in my life is from South America and his family is very tribe like and I noticed over the years that they support his narcissism. They are not allowed to talk about feelings or it’s not supported

I just want to say THANK YOU!! I have been seeking help with my trauma bond for years!!! It's been HELL on earth. With that said, I just started your course on getting out of "trauma bond," and for the first time, I felt like I was on the path to recovery! Words can not express my gratitude towards you!! You are truly amazing!!!

6:30 Narcissistic mortification: if that small window of opportunity opens, of the narc's total collapse and abandonment of all support and flying monkeys, they may be open to seeking some feedback or therapy. But my experience showed me it's like a rubber band. The awareness is temporary. It stretches enough to self-soothe and but snaps back to their normal.- MAGAville, Pennsyltucky

Wow Richard you hit the nail on the head, in a tribe there are many care givers so it would be hard for a child to without love/warmth. I’ve got avoidant personality disorder and growing up my mum literally did the bare minimum for me. She had zero interest in me and was physically aggressive towards me if I tried to bond with her. I learnt to stay well out of her way. Yet it was like this weird world where we were so isolated in London with so many people surrounding me that could have stepped in and provided me with a loving caregiver but my experience as a child had been reduced to just my mum and siblings because of the modern day set up. People need community and I’m proof of that. Not all of us are blessed to have functional parents so we need the extended family to step in and provide support. The state is supposed to be that safety net but they fail children and vulnerable people time and time again. What I would have given as a child to have someone hug me after school. The sad truth is I know there are good people out there who would have but I was out of reach and sight to the rest of the world. Thank you for bringing these topics to light 🙏🏼

@lovepeace2137

Жыл бұрын

When we need help they give us a pamphlet and ask us to take a survey. (I'm in the US) we're statistics

@christinemccoy4471

Жыл бұрын

Ellie Similar. I'm avoidance also.

@SteeleMagnolia

Жыл бұрын

Yes, this. Not having love or any chance of rescue from my dysfunctional home life, with a narcissistic mother that forced my poor dad into a life of alcoholism, I reached the solid conclusion that, as an adult, I have no need or patience for the ignorant advice from the willfully ignorant.

@skazzwag8

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. No child should be subjected to it. I think you're still somewhat stuck in that cycle though. The state is not supposed to be the safety net. The community is the safety net. In a community people say "let's work together and help this person". In a government-centric system people say "let's force people to help at gunpoint (state tax collector), then sit back and not be bothered to do anything else". It's lack of connection that allows abuse.

@karenpeatey6226

Жыл бұрын

Sadly the system and even mental health carers have not caught up with narcissist It’s quite a new learning curb isn’t it

Unfortunately my mum is a narcissist and she doesn’t love me. Explains, exactly why I have been depressed and disassociated for years and haven’t managed to get better. 😞😖 she’s been subtly emotionally abusing me. Onwards and upwards I guess, no contact from here on.

@opticalman6417

Жыл бұрын

and the rest of you family think she a lovly caring person

@Miami904

Жыл бұрын

@@opticalman6417 when you cut them of will they make a smear campaign against you. ?? I have never cut of my mum before but thinking it’s what has to be done for my mental health.

@SteeleMagnolia

Жыл бұрын

You absolutely have to be your own advocate, and DO NOT depend on any positive energy nor communication from your family when you go no-contact. Stand firm in your recovery, and choose your family and friends as though your life depends on it, because it does. The sooner we realize this, and stay headstrong about it, the easier our recovery will be.

@AN-fg4cd

Жыл бұрын

What zodiac sign is your mom? Just curious.

@Miami904

Жыл бұрын

@@AN-fg4cd Aries

Man you're good! You described my ex that took me years to 'See'. I look back and think 'damn, am I stupid' but at the time when that occured I had allot going on with much limitations to resolve them. Now I look back that I was meant to go through that as a life's lesson. Life is like that, you repeat lessons until you get it right. And when you look back you will be proud of what you went through and learned from that can Help others.

@tammywallace5611

Жыл бұрын

I was thinking this morning about how bizarre it was that I couldn't see it when I was in it and I had no awareness of the changes in myself. It's not us! We didn't look for it because it's not how we think or feel. I'm am coming to the belief that it is demonic!!

@thecustodian1023

Жыл бұрын

Same here but it was my parents. Ones is dead now but the one that is alive has gone off the deep end over nothing that is real because they want to have control of things that are not theirs to control.

@crystalclear5397

Жыл бұрын

@@thecustodian1023 I can understand what you're describing as it sounds similar to my mother. I could never figure out if she was this kind of person (narcissist) or the trauma she went through before we were born. 'Family' can be found all around you of course though, from friends to acquaintance (just wish more in the world could realize this)

@thecustodian1023

Жыл бұрын

@@crystalclear5397 Yea, my friends have been awesome through all of this, but the family is either brainwashed by their BS and does not want to look at the mountain of evidence I have against them now. Or they just want to stay out of it in hopes the narcs don't come after them next if they do take me out. The rest seem to have no clue any of this has been running out for nearly two-plus years, which says everyone in the immediate family has put a lot of effort into making sure this all stays under the radar.

Narcissism, part of our culture? Definitely!

I have been surrounded by Narcs my whole life including my parents and have become quite humbled by them because of multiple attacks! I originally thought they were tricksters but your description of the behavior patterns and their self has changed my understanding. The tactics are bazaar and your video has clearly explained why.

@SKCothrenArt

Жыл бұрын

I can relate.I hope you can get out and move on and be happy! You deserve it! I gave them all love for 40+ years, finally had enough and cut all of them off. I'm still in therapy, but I can finally be ME and I love my life! You can do it!

@GrowtopiaCreamlady

Жыл бұрын

@@SKCothrenArt you are amazing. you always were.

@SKCothrenArt

11 ай бұрын

@@GrowtopiaCreamlady what a beautiful message. Thank you.

Being in lockdown during Covid with a grandiose narcissistic spouse who besides manager also is an artist, was a true f*cking nightmare. I always thought he was depressed because he missed his admiration on stage, now i know it's called narcissistic depletion. 🙏🏻

@user-jq8tg4fq4f

Жыл бұрын

Hello 👋 how are you doing!!?

Seems it is rampant in all tribes great or small. Cain and Abel. Cant escape it. Only accountability and morality helps.

I'm listening from New Orleans LA, US :)

Thank you Richard. Remember thinking before the age of 10 and then after the age of 15; wanting another family to bring me in to be their own.

I was with who I suspect was a covert narcissist for 4years. He always played the victim, always someone out to get him etc. It has been 4 months since he left me and I now realise that I knew basically nothing about him. We never lived together, cause my parents lived with me as my mom was very sick. She died last year Oct., I became depressed and between him, my grieving dad and my kids, he started complaining I wasn't paying enough attention to him. My explaining my depression, my other responsibilities fell on deaf ears. He didn't try to help, or actually showed much empathy. So he started a month long online affair with a woman on the other side of the country, while still telling me he loves me until the day before she packed up her life and moved with her little daughter to live with him. (Think she has issues too). From what I have heard his personality has done a 180° degree turn with her, suddenly he is in incredible debt etc. It just boggles the mind🙄

Tribal, or small communities, are a natural way to live. Narcissistic personality wouldn't develop because the trauma would be lessened.

Watching the adolescent discontent and sideshow of an adult, an ex, after they've been called out on their undiagnosed NPD...shocking

I love the brake down of how tribal narcism for most part wouldn’t exist. How are current culture fosters NPD.

Michelangelo’s David used as an image of the fragmented narcissist? A character who represents the literal opposite of the narcissistic personality.

I totally agree, it truly does take a village to bring up a child. If we have no where to turn for what we need those needs go unfulfilled, and that leads to a messy head!

One of my narcs would sleep for days whenever they felt they weren't getting what they wanted from their supply. Another would rage and "punish" others for not going along with their plans for them. Sick, sick people!

Thank you for the work you do and the effort that you give in the process. Brilliant Conversation. I believe, just as you pointed out, the power of numbers in small groups forces accountability. Not everyone has Integrity. I say this out loud quite a bit, that if there had been a third party present in the majority of arguments regarding morality with family members, friends and significant others, those disagreements would have ended much sooner, and with less resistance. Exceptionally less gaslighting for sure. Unfortunately my dichotomy always has me feeling sorry for the aggressor because I realize it is in fact not their fault, but a trait that has either been passed down through generations (and/or) caused from trauma. This has always led to giving eternal forgiveness, yet always being the only one to ever apologize.

@Prometheuspredator

Жыл бұрын

Don't feel sorry for them as they know exactly what they are doing as they know right from wrong as society dictates this. Feeling sorry for them makes you an easy target by a narcissist. It lays your life wide for a narcissist to come in and invade and destroy your life. You have to hold them accountable as this will prevent a hostile takeover of your piece, happiness, and causing total destruction in your life.

Watching from New Zealand 🇳🇿

Never really heard of narcissism in the 60’s,70’s and 80’s. It probably was there with abusive husbands. Did the internet bring it out more with people and self absorbed or the knowledge of the internet? Grown men age 65 ish are narcissists, did they experience trauma or idolizing from parents in the 50’s and 60’s?

@ashleyallen3522

11 ай бұрын

Narcissism was alive and well always. It was just not widely understood or talked about back then. With the internet and social media we have so much more access to information and the ability to share it than we did previously. Before, if you were living with a narcissist you probably just thought You were the crazy one and had no one to turn to for help.

This is completely fascinating how he’s talking about how narcissism grew because of industrialization and people becoming less connected to each other where they could hide it. It makes me think of all the houses in the hills in LA how that may have started with wealthy rich narcissists being able to hide the things they are doing a way from the rest of the world. Then it became a trend associated with status and then therefore weird narcissistic traits just seemed excusable as that’s just how rich people act.

highly recommend the unplug-course. let the misery and drama end and start to be human (again). ✌️

Great video! For me there was nothing to find out, I could tell all of this already, from the very first interaction, however long ago it was and even when somebody starts to lean into developing a narcissistic personality if they weren't one before. As someone who grew up very quiet, being observant is like my middle name. It's effortless and very easy to read people, good people and bad. I have had my fair share of narcissism directed my way and everything you said is on point. I see them watching and copying me even though they act like I am insignificant. However much they think people rate them, I know they believe I rate them way more way more than I actually do, and that is not at all. The very decision they make to obsess over you just to hurt you shows that you are all they think about which is in itself, ironic.

My mother changed in prison. I'm not qualified to say she was fully a narcissist... I don't think so. (I suspect I have the most docile of the narcissistic tendencies myself now from her, if you could rate those qualifiers that don't hurt others by the ones that do.) I have very good relationships but maybe I'm a little fantasy prone? Idk. (Someone would have to come tell me I'm imagining things if that were the case. So far so good! 😅 ) Maybe her story is context-specific, as you taught me a few months ago. Context specific narcissism, I mean, due to alcohol. I love her still... that will never change. There is no denying how much she's changed during her time in lock up. I always feel like she makes sure to hang up on good terms. It's tangible- her efforts. I also value that principle "don't go to bed angry" ❤... so it's something we've both been working on and I'm really glad for it. It finally feels like I have my mother back.

Hello from New York City🍎

i dont think im narcissitic but i do think i have attributes/tendencies like most people do. grew up with both sides of my family being narcisstic. i knew at a young age that something wasnt right but couldnt ever really put my finger on it. i knew that the way i was raised wasnt right and made a vow to my self that i will not treat my kids the way i was nor the people around me. i do want to better and understand my self as i do see some of the things mentioned in your videos actions of my self. i really appreciate your time and efforts that you put forth to educate.

We LOVE you Richard!!!!!! Thanks for all your hard work and sharing this info with us and helping us deal with these people.

@wattlebough

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Grannon is pathological. I’d recommend Dr Romani and Dr Carter and avoid feeding whatever pathology is feeding this guy. He’s suckering a lot of venerable people to feed his own ego.

Marietjie South Africa They are actually very predictable as well ..

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Yes When you Fully Understand NPD 100%

Always love the way you do these videos with such wisdom.

Listening from Chicago ❤❤❤ you ! Thank you !

I always love the perspective you bring to the table.

Thank you for this.

Thank You, Richard! You are speaking truth.

Thank you very much for your work and compassion!

Watching this from Somerset UK 👍 Thank you Richard 🙏💛

Great video. Very true

Loved this discussion! Well done Richard and thanks for your dedication and research🎉

Thank you!!!

You are so wise!! Amazing insight and spot on!! ❤

When we were in Versailles we went up the baack stairs from the farden, and he asked where the vench eent in- a orop from the nivue "Desirëe" from Disney😊

Watching from Canada!

I’m learning so much from your videos, Richard. Deciding right now which course of yours to take first after being discarded a month ago. I’m actually stunned at how much this hurts.

Truly informative and enlightening. Thank you.

thank you ❤ lot of strenght out to you

You are helping so,so, much!! Watching from Indiana. God Bless you🎉

This is one of the most important videos l have seen. Thank you Richard this is so true.

This was helpful very enlightening. Thank you for putting this out.

How bizarre. There's trauma that people react to, though much of this did not occur to me. I've been told I'm too independent, and have had narcissistic people sabotage me, so I could not be independent. I think it is because they are not able to make their own business connections, which means they can't earn money. Pretty sad way to live.

Great content video Richard!!

NB, Canada 🇨🇦! I’ve learned so very much, thank you for all the wonderful knowledge. Indeed knowledge is power! Ty

Really fascinating.

Fabulous video.....very much enjoyed the content. The ideas put forward are thought provoking. Thanks.

NZ Rasta here ❤️❤️💛💛💚💚

You are very insightful

Good one! Useful. Thanks.🙏🏾 Listening from Germany Cologne 🧚🏽‍♂

Thanks!

I wonder if they used palo santo to cleanse folk with that ‘W’ inside of them. The alienation from your kids was one of the worst parts of the discard. It ripped my insides out😢.

Hi.Thank you...And OH DEAR''For the affected ,and the ones beiing affected//What a mes..My gentle love to you all.

I ABSOLUTELY loved your commentary after. I love the way you view a lot of things you spoke of. I agree

Home. Sandusky, Ohio

I appreciate you so much.

Spot on

Watching from Finland❤️😍 Amazing video thank you so much🙌‼️🙏❤️🥰

Yesterday I watched Talented Mr. Ripley and now watching this Richard’s summary