5 Things, Empaths Express Their Love Differently ~ The Love Language of an Empath

If you've ever wondered how empaths love differently, you're not alone. There are a few traits that most people with the same personality traits share. Essentially, empaths are selfless, and their love is unconditional. However, they also love in a different way. Therefore, things might get complicated if you can't understand how they feel and express their love.
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  • @lorrieholsten2521
    @lorrieholsten25212 жыл бұрын

    It is a blessing to be an empath. I knew i was different from a young age. I must say as an empath you must find balance. If you do not it is easy to let yourself be taken advantage of. We like to see the best in everyone. Unfortunately that can cause empaths to make poor choices when it comes to finding a partner. Yes we are loyal sometimes to a fault. We do not enjoy being lied to. We sometimes expect too much of others because we would never do certain things to them and we expect to be treated the same. It is a constant battle at times.

  • @jwilcox4726

    @jwilcox4726

    2 жыл бұрын

    Is that why I'm a doormat and can't help it?

  • @lorrieholsten2521

    @lorrieholsten2521

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jwilcox4726 I will say honestly I spent many years feeling exactly like that. I had to learn very difficult lessons. I questioned my gifts when i was younger. I had people telling me I was crazy and wrong. Yet the things i felt were on point. I just found out too late. I turned 41 today. I spent my younger years always feeling as though I did not belong in this World. Like I should have lived in another era all together. A time when family meant family and people were loyal to their partners. They called me an old soul and stubborn. Maybe so, however I have finally found that I am just me. And that is all I can be. A lot of struggles in my life. But i went through them so that i have walked in others shoes. I can say I know how you are feeling because years ago I was going through the same obstacles. I can talk to people if they wish to and give them the best advice that i possibly can. It is up to them to take the advice or not. I wish I had had someone giving me this advice many years ago. Once you have accepted yourself the good and not so good you will be able to live better without as much anxiety. We can only take 1 step at a time, 1 day at a time. To learn, to grow, and be a better person than we were the previous day. Yes I personally felt like a doormat however I blame myself for letting it continue as long as it did, and for not trusting my gut. I hope this helps someone somehow!

  • @brendabutler3832

    @brendabutler3832

    2 жыл бұрын

    This is so true. I had to learn, everyone won’t treat you the way you treat them. Hard lesson. I can’t stand a liar.

  • @I-Am-Prosperous-I-Am-Grateful

    @I-Am-Prosperous-I-Am-Grateful

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jwilcox4726 Set boundaries with people, and protect your energy. Call back your energy at the end of each day or after interactions that leave you feeling drained. Google calling back energy, or energy retrieval. These 2 things have helped me tremendously, and it will definitely help you too! ✌

  • @davehenslee4397

    @davehenslee4397

    2 жыл бұрын

    Gosh Dog that is me. In a relationship with a narcissistic woman.

  • @voska7390
    @voska73902 жыл бұрын

    This one line hit me. An empath will be very loyal but only when they feel it. When they don't look out. That loyalty goes away fast. That normally means ending the relationship but not always just loyalty won't be there.

  • @ethanstegall414
    @ethanstegall4142 жыл бұрын

    The past couple of years I foundout this word "empath", and now I have a physical Word for what I've been my whole life, and watching these videos have helped smooth and balance a few thinks for me. Thank,,,....wish I knew I was empath sooner, but it's better to be late to the party then not invided

  • @cherylthompson2731

    @cherylthompson2731

    2 жыл бұрын

    You always knew that you were Kind. You didn't need a name for it 🌸

  • @CoreyMonkeyMoore
    @CoreyMonkeyMoore2 жыл бұрын

    The intuition that come along with being a strong Empath is insane. Ive called it "the Jedi" my whole life until I learned about it. Does anyone else have a crazy fast reflexes? Like I do things before I even know I'm doing it!! I have pulled off some "spider sense" crazy level obstacles that scare me sometimes!

  • @ashleyg4299
    @ashleyg42992 жыл бұрын

    Accurate! In my opinion, it’s both a blessing and a curse. I do love unconditionally and that makes me happy. Sometimes I wish I didn’t know the things I know without proof. We tend to attract people who take advantage of us. The last person actually told me he didn’t know how to take my love because he’d never had a love like that before. Thank you for the work you do.

  • @breakthrough1019

    @breakthrough1019

    2 жыл бұрын

    So true .. it is both a blessing v and a curse ..we learn the hard way and become empowered empaths learning to discern through consistency ( time ) and action rather than words .

  • @kimpage915
    @kimpage9152 жыл бұрын

    Can't stop crying ! It was hell growing up with a narcissist mother. Thank you so much. Love you , and I'm glad we all have you everyday !

  • @nwwoman525

    @nwwoman525

    Жыл бұрын

    mine was a narcissist father! he’s been gone now for almost 3 years and i still feel a little guilty saying i don’t miss him. but no matter how much i loved him, how can you miss someone who made your life a nightmare! my mom and i are finally free of him. and she had to endure way more than i did…but because i’m an empath AND HSP it traumatized me more than her. for so long i was treated like there was something wrong with me- and whenever i get upset i still get told i should control myself or think of the other person’s feelings or that im a grown woman and shouldn’t be “crying like a baby” anymore. but no one considers my feelings!!

  • @jackieparent5027
    @jackieparent50272 жыл бұрын

    I could never understand why others couldn't see what I see in some people. Like when I could see someone was clearly lying or dangerous and they couldn't. I stopped saying anything because of being accused of being judgemental even though I was eventually proved right. Ive always told my kids and grand kids, about the "oh oh" feeling they might get from someone. No matter if there doesn't appear to be anything wrong, to get away from them. I learned the hard way, until I learned it was never wrong. Your description of an empath was right on and though I am happy to know there is a reason people can't relate to me and many of my life experiences have been as you described, at 76yrs old I've had enough and become reclusive. Absorbing the negativity of people around me, has become more than I can cope with.

  • @minella4105
    @minella41052 жыл бұрын

    That was very accurate. Except that this isn't just with romantic partners. This is with anyone I truly care for. Also strangers. I don't know if I am strong enough to feel past what is around my close vicinity. Outside of the walls of the house or room I am in...I don't know. But zi also do not know how to develop these strengths of mine either. Something for me to look into. 😏 Thank you for making this video. Have a wonderfully beautiful day!

  • @rosalynjolly2565
    @rosalynjolly25652 жыл бұрын

    I always feel like I have to clean up somebody trash when I get tired I have to leave the relationship ice for my my partner

  • @brendabutler3832
    @brendabutler38322 жыл бұрын

    This was EXCELLENT! I dated a guy who said I was too serious. He never got to know me. He didn’t see the side of me that is very silly and playful. He began taking advantage of my love and saw how serious I really was when I broke up with him. 🤓

  • @juliejones3416

    @juliejones3416

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Brenda, I was wondering how you knew he was taking advantage of your love? I need to know because I believe I'm in the midst of just that! I wanted to hear the things he would do, or say, that made you see he was taking advantage? I clearly see that he (my guy), is a narcissist, and I'm older, but recently learned that I'm an empath. He also has been caught gas lighting me, I know what I hear and see, but he is lying and he will not come clean! I doubt myself often so the guilt I have because I don't believe him is causing great negative energy for me and I plan on leaving but it's difficult! Thank you!

  • @55jimott

    @55jimott

    Жыл бұрын

    @@juliejones3416, I hope you've run away and left him by now! I was raised by an overt narcissistic mom, which set me up for a lifetime of neglect and abuse by others....taken advantage of and not appreciated, at best. I married a covert narcissist and they're almost worse than overts because they're much more subtle and harder to figure out. I wish I'd known about narcissists when I was in my 20's...what signs to look for, etc. They were there....several red flags that I just ignored, unfortunately.

  • @monicaschroyer7978
    @monicaschroyer79782 жыл бұрын

    I believe this helps very much. It's difficult when others don't seem to grasp how we can understand and feel so much. Thank you for making me feel normal. Blessings to you

  • @padminipeterson8849
    @padminipeterson88492 жыл бұрын

    All 5 points are 100% correct

  • @manishverma-sb7xw
    @manishverma-sb7xw2 жыл бұрын

    5 things empaths express their love diffrently..... 1....when empath fall in love they fell all emotion of partnwr... 2.....empath can feel and see things you cant their intutuion is accurate.... 3.....empath can difficilt to love but worth it not giving up.... 4...... Empath is very loyal they do not play games..... 5.....empath is very seroius but love playing they are generous and authentic fake emotion is not in yheir dictionary....

  • @SuperMissblueeyes
    @SuperMissblueeyes2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sooo grateful for your videos. I'm so used to having my feelings as an empath invalidated & abused (although I'm one of those empaths who reached breaking point & got onto the right path of now standing up for myself, & things have changed dramatically with my parents since I've done so), so it's very refreshing & confidence building to have my feelings validated. Thank you very much.

  • @ginadisantis2684
    @ginadisantis26842 жыл бұрын

    Truth! sometimes very painful n exhausting.

  • @jwilcox4726
    @jwilcox47262 жыл бұрын

    I'm a empath. Adrenol gland is bleeding from stress. My dog has cushings from stress. I think we are dying. I do dream journals a year at a time. Then I go back at end of year or sooner, and I see where I saw the future in my dreams and IT HAPPENED, I mark those in yellow. This will get you started in realizing if you are one or not. Clairvoyancy comes with being an Empath. Kim Russo said in Season 1 ep. 1-6 one of those that empaths see the future. We do thru Clairvoyancy. She says it spot on. Never knew I was one. I can feel everything. Plants that need water, if a tree is dying. My Chihuahua/Westy companion is now on my back so help me and she is the one dying. I live on a farm, in a forest, at the beach in SW WA. Are there any empaths that want to talk over internet maybe ?

  • @ethanstegall414

    @ethanstegall414

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeh when I was a kid I would have dreams that played out in real life as "deja vu" to me. But now I cant remember any of my dreams , I think it's because everytime I'm dreaming I realize it's a dream and try to manipulate the surroundings lol

  • @nicky9148

    @nicky9148

    2 жыл бұрын

    I actually had a dream that was so real & yet symbolic at the same time when I was 12 about the ex-narc ...the dream was pretty wild. The crazy thing is I remember telling the ex-narc about it way before I ever figured out he was one.

  • @lucid2184

    @lucid2184

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ethanstegall414 being able to manipulate your dreams means lucid dreaming

  • @andreamelless2822

    @andreamelless2822

    2 жыл бұрын

    Heyoka empath/intuitive, am dealing with some spiritual stuff myself. Would ♥️ to chat.✌♥️🇨🇦

  • @lucid2184

    @lucid2184

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@andreamelless2822 🙌 heyoka sister💗

  • @MidnhtCrzr
    @MidnhtCrzr2 жыл бұрын

    I'm an empath. We approach romance differently from those that aren't: it's a privilege and an honor; not an entitlement nor a necessity.

  • @patriciawhite5355

    @patriciawhite5355

    2 жыл бұрын

    You got that right a privilege and honor not a entitled ment you don't earn a person. We have free will

  • @SamanthaRamirez-ng8ji
    @SamanthaRamirez-ng8jiАй бұрын

    THANK YOU HIGHER SELF

  • @siphiwemabaso9505
    @siphiwemabaso95052 жыл бұрын

    Thank you guys for this explanation, my whole life has been filled with nepotism and fake love that i used to feel before starting that relationship. Sad truth is that it's always concludes to what i had felt it be would, as fake love and acts, I always notice and hate to be part of.

  • @jaye3848
    @jaye3848 Жыл бұрын

    No longer willing to play games... Equinimity... Go with the flow of loving "What Is" Now!! 💝🙏💫

  • @holliwarriner1279
    @holliwarriner1279 Жыл бұрын

    It is definitely a gift from our Heavenly father. I love these videos. Being an empath is very rewarding.

  • @russellbarndt6579
    @russellbarndt6579 Жыл бұрын

    It's correct, it is its hard yet it makes awareness of how deep consciousness is in a world that most will never get to know the richness of living....

  • @gypsygypsy6435
    @gypsygypsy64352 жыл бұрын

    Narc said "I love you and I can't help it." I said "I Don't love you and I can't help it." Lol, his eyes went ballistic, thought gonna go thru his head. Get a Restraining Order. They are Demons.

  • @elizabethchidiac221
    @elizabethchidiac221 Жыл бұрын

    Silence is golden. My life's motto! 😘❤🙏

  • @michelleensley7846
    @michelleensley78462 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I'm a empath and yes I'm overwhelmed by it so much feeling I feel and I do not like games one bit

  • @paulagrimek1357
    @paulagrimek13572 жыл бұрын

    You are so accurate.this is the way it was for me and my husband for years Thanks for putting it out there

  • @Newmoon520
    @Newmoon5202 жыл бұрын

    Scary in a good way but true! But blessed 😇 to have this 💝 gift.

  • @jwill2513
    @jwill25139 ай бұрын

    As an empathy, I approve this message.

  • @jeanetperico
    @jeanetperico2 жыл бұрын

    Yes 💯 percent true

  • @lillybethford1915
    @lillybethford1915 Жыл бұрын

    With all the wonderful characteristics of an empath, they are the easiest to love.🌈🌟💫❤️ Let’s not forget they’re very romantic, they view love in the purest form. If you’re sincere in your pursuit of love, connecting with an empath is a gift.🎁 However, if you’re a lair, a cheat, manipulator, please stay away because there will never be harmony in the relationship, why? The empath will know something is off, therefore, they cannot not fully commit themselves to you. Particularly, this message is to all narcissists; I get it, empaths are special, however, when you hurt them, my friend, there’s a huge price to pay..they’re God’s chosen ones.☮️

  • @soulsecho2310
    @soulsecho23102 жыл бұрын

    Unconditional love...I will always hold space.

  • @aishwaryaneha4827
    @aishwaryaneha48272 жыл бұрын

    I think I have come across a few empaths in my life so far, they're very different from the majority...

  • @creamalious
    @creamalious2 жыл бұрын

    It's Gift and a Curse sometimes it's hard to find a balance. Being loyal and always trying to see the best in people can lead to shattering and traumatic Heartbreaks. Especially since we attract broken ppl and Narcissists

  • @docfada1701
    @docfada17012 жыл бұрын

    Awesome Video thanks for sharing!

  • @konnieosborne3039
    @konnieosborne30392 жыл бұрын

    Awesome, and spot on!

  • @kausamsalam8543
    @kausamsalam85432 жыл бұрын

    It is a joy to have intuition that seems to come like a book of guidance from inside; it’s hurtful as your excellent video notes, when mean or stingy people call us empaths ugly names like “vampires” or “witches” for knowing how people think.

  • @abbasabdeali3239
    @abbasabdeali32392 жыл бұрын

    Make me an empathetic,sensitive,patient and loyal caregiver to my family and the world ya RabbulAlameen aameen summa aameen

  • @trudykearney883

    @trudykearney883

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am so sensitive right now I can hardly be around people

  • @russellbarndt6579
    @russellbarndt6579 Жыл бұрын

    It is all correct from my experience, which is really hard sometimes but the reward is inner energy to love and to feel love... even while alone and lonely hearted. I often feel as the only person in a room full of people. I have met one person that allows me to feel like I am not the only person in the room , she is much younger than myself and on a friend bases only yet I find myself needing to give back what I can as just a friend which is rewarding even as it creates an empty spot within my heart, she is unaware I am in Love with her and I feel there is nothing I can do but be the very best gentleman and genuine friend that I can be for her benefit....

  • @elizabetharmah9971
    @elizabetharmah99712 жыл бұрын

    OMG you are 1000 percent right

  • @deniseread7278
    @deniseread72782 жыл бұрын

    Very Spot On & Accurate 💖

  • @teejmusic823
    @teejmusic8232 жыл бұрын

    This sums me up and now I know what I am I can better my future relationships by explaining my personalality

  • @alanhean6504
    @alanhean65042 жыл бұрын

    Spot on

  • @francinedevinecrystal4177
    @francinedevinecrystal41772 жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @maryrichardson6029
    @maryrichardson60292 жыл бұрын

    Interesting. Thank you. Peace 💕🇺🇲

  • @diggerbrains1967
    @diggerbrains1967 Жыл бұрын

    55 now and exhausted, life has been all that is described, in many partners, ex wife, work bosses,the list goes on and on, never understood money and greed, why some people would betray others for money, shiney things and stuff. makes no sense, did i arrive here with the wrong instuctions or did i just get off at the wrong stop!? , i have no inclination to control other people, just live in harmony....i want to find someone who is same but like a narc magnet the cycle never stops. so living a quiet life until i go back home.

  • @emelynapole7181
    @emelynapole71812 жыл бұрын

    # 1, 2 and 4.

  • @carolyncolinhogarth8732
    @carolyncolinhogarth87322 жыл бұрын

    it's true about empathy loving play...emotions are really howcempsths communicate...I lovebyourbinfo...try empsth with highly sensitive to environment...

  • @carolynhanner5436
    @carolynhanner5436 Жыл бұрын

    It's great information! Thanks. Sounds like you describe me to a T....

  • @davidkeen1270
    @davidkeen12702 жыл бұрын

    Accurate 💯. Being a sigma empath, can be hard in relationships

  • @beautypablotamarini7315
    @beautypablotamarini73152 жыл бұрын

    🙏thank you

  • @geogriapeach5211
    @geogriapeach52112 жыл бұрын

    All 5 true.

  • @kristle_virgo-empathic4683
    @kristle_virgo-empathic46832 жыл бұрын

    💯% ME!

  • @stellawilliams9303
    @stellawilliams93032 жыл бұрын

    I never just look for the good, I look at everything, the good, the bad and the ugly, and ask myself the question, would this work for me to choose this person? If not, choose again

  • @noahpeszel168
    @noahpeszel1682 жыл бұрын

    That's a lie and empaths put up with a lot of s*** even if they don't want to just because they feel bad but they can break down just like anybody else and be bipolar 🤣

  • @rosalynjolly2565
    @rosalynjolly25652 жыл бұрын

    That right dark empath now don't think you going to get over

  • @alicefarretta8989
    @alicefarretta89892 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I'm all of this to the t it blows me clear out of the water I can feel people's feelings when they even on my TV it is so strange I go to my doctor's office and I can feel how she's feeling that day it's crazy when my husband cheated on me it was like I was there I can't even describe it I knew exactly what he was doing I knew exactly who he was with I don't know how I knew but I knew and like I said it was like I was right there it was so intense I can't even describe it he denied it but I knew I was right and then the truth came out I know deep down the next morning when he came home and tried to climb in the bed with me and I said don't you put your hands on me and I said I know you with your ex-wife last night he freaked out lied about it but when it came out he asked me how I knew that I said it was like I was in the very room with you I could feel it I was also 4 months pregnant so I felt every minute he spent with her I'll never forget it

  • @kathycovington7301
    @kathycovington73012 жыл бұрын

    Listening to this was great as are all of the video's on this channel. Since I've found out more about who I am, a question keeps running thru my head. Why do we exist? I'm pretty sure I exist do to severe sexual abuse as a small child. I learned how to "read" people at a young age. Is this common among Empath's? Does abuse in general cause a person to have a hieghten sense about people?

  • @vineethae4532
    @vineethae45322 жыл бұрын

    👌

  • @knowledgeseeker5247
    @knowledgeseeker52472 жыл бұрын

  • @infiniteartworkgalleria4241
    @infiniteartworkgalleria42412 жыл бұрын

    🎯🎯🎯

  • @tranquilitynaturalhealing
    @tranquilitynaturalhealing2 жыл бұрын

    💫✨💫

  • @loverofcreativity1981
    @loverofcreativity1981 Жыл бұрын

    💞💗💞

  • @mcbabyyouna
    @mcbabyyouna2 жыл бұрын

    ✨❤❤❤✨

  • @unitedarmy1484
    @unitedarmy14842 жыл бұрын

    It's a curse sometimes

  • @aquamarinebarbie
    @aquamarinebarbie2 жыл бұрын

    being an empath is like bringing a piece of heaven everywhere you go 🤍

  • @beautypablotamarini7315
    @beautypablotamarini73152 жыл бұрын

    its burgain i suffer for plant ant stone an imaginary cat in china planet consciesness...ooh...i bear on my soul others misfortune or misdeeds its hard everything here is wrong but i'm strong, obviously, i'm alive

  • @hermymojica3957
    @hermymojica3957 Жыл бұрын

    MISLEADING......

  • @chosenonpurpose489
    @chosenonpurpose4892 жыл бұрын

    👼APRIL 21 , 2022👼 “LET ME CONTROL your mind. The mind is the most restless, unruly part of mankind. Long after you have learned the discipline of holding your tongue, your thoughts defy your will and set themselves up against Me. Man is the pinnacle of My creation, and the human mind is wondrously complex. I risked all by granting you freedom to think for yourself. This is god-like privilege, forever setting you apart from animals and robots. I made you in my image, precariously close to deity. Though My blood has fully redeemed you, your mind is the last bastion of rebellion. Open yourself to My radiant Presence, letting My Light permeate your thinking. When My Spirit is controlling your mind, you are filled with Life and Peace.” (JESUS CALLING)