Maybe one of the most important and "must know" videos on this channel.

@zahando1732

4 жыл бұрын

Pink Milk agreed!

@SusanWinter

3 жыл бұрын

Excellent, as always!!

@robertamoyaw1979

3 жыл бұрын

True, True!😊

@trevinormandy14520

3 жыл бұрын

On your sentence alone I liked 👍🏻 this video without watching it and I saisubbed too. I work on feelings and emotions which is not to say that I’m weak but a lot of women tend to think this and they get played in return

@artsstyle2k155

3 жыл бұрын

Indeed!

"Do I look fat in this dress? Don't be ridiculous, you look fat in everything".

@ian9toes

4 жыл бұрын

No honey the dress looks fat on you

@tairanwang6119

4 жыл бұрын

Levijatan1389 So. I guess now you are in CPU😂

@larryrubin5150

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Topbrass88

4 жыл бұрын

I heard another one: It's not the dress that makes you look fat.

1>6 months dating before becoming her boyfriend 2>don't buy her affection i.e. gifts 3>no living together 4>no friend zoning 5>always answer positively when asked about how she looks. 6> ??? there I saved you 14 minutes!

@shiladitya_biswas

3 жыл бұрын

thank you

@acharich

3 жыл бұрын

🔥🔑🔥

@prodbytreyyy

3 жыл бұрын

👑🤴

@joaooliveira6366

3 жыл бұрын

saved?? he explains every point you idiot

@G1CAAAAEO

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for saving 14 minutes of my life man. U good.

1. Never be a boyfriend before 6 months of dating 2. Don't buy things for her 3. never live together out of connivence 4. never let a women friend zone you 5. If they ask anything about their look/feeling/ or anything about them, answer them positively

@wulf67

2 жыл бұрын

Dumb advice. If a woman "friend zones" you (idiotic term) it just means she doesn't want anything from you but friendship. When you grow up, you'll realize that friends are a good thing to have, and that attractive female friends are something no heterosexual male ever wants to be without.

@MrMalicious5

2 жыл бұрын

Funny how he says never let a woman friendzone you, but has other videos saying how the friendzone is good.

@calint123

2 жыл бұрын

@@MrMalicious5 Never let someone you're trying to be with friendzone you. It's fine to let girls you don't really care to be with friendzone you in order to use them for your own benefit whether it's at work, going out places etc. It increases your value tremendously. Guys who have too big of an ego to have female friends would see more success using tinder or going to bars and being more direct and to the point. Having female friends just opens more doors for guys who struggle and want more opportunities to get the women they want.

@MrMalicious5

2 жыл бұрын

@@calint123 I only ask out women I want to be with.

@TheEroina

Жыл бұрын

i don't know how he expects to maintain a successful relationships with a woman by following a first point. to be honest, nothing makes sense with those "rules". this sounds more like a guide 'How to fail at dating'.

I think the most important rule, before you ever start thinking about dating, is knowing who you are as a person first. Knowing your strengths, your limitations, what you like and what you don't, what you stand for and what is unacceptable to you.

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

Yes you are right.

@RaidE8_

2 жыл бұрын

It’s very hard to find this stuff out

@omtatsatnamaste4780

2 жыл бұрын

Being honest with your self is important and don't compromise your own values to be with her. I tell women this is what I need to make the relationship work with me and I don't force her to do anything but if she wants to be with me this is what I need.

For the most part this is one of the healthiest relationship videos I've seen on KZread.

My god the amount of gold this man is putting out.

You hit the nail on the head. It's better to get to know each other than to get in mess and misery.

If I am with someone for 4/5/6 months and we decide to stop seeing each other. Its going to hurt whether we have the boyfriend/girlfriend title or not.

@Geewunner4life

4 жыл бұрын

Spoken like a true beta simp.

@Geewunner4life

4 жыл бұрын

@@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335 I've never laughed so hard.

@DEO374

3 жыл бұрын

True

@killa.mode.one.818beastmod9

3 жыл бұрын

😧😄😄😄😄🤫

@Chrisr-je1tw

3 жыл бұрын

@@Geewunner4life sdfu, I swear y'all niggas be throwing that word around like its nothing

This is the best basic advice for a man. This could have helped me 20 years ago.

@Stevebassdjmusicchannel

3 жыл бұрын

Movited by lust u need jesus christ where was he lawless one?

Hit the nail on the head. Great video!

Tripp's advice is just the best 💯.

Thank you so much for your advises!

Good video Tripp. Friend zone is complete waste of time.

@PraveenKanwarMagic

4 жыл бұрын

So True

I swear, it's like playing mind games to get a woman. You're constantly thinking if I do this what happens, what if I do that, what happens. You made some good points though. Especially #3 & #4

@TomFox1

4 жыл бұрын

Dee Jay yes it is.

@ballybunion9

4 жыл бұрын

It's like playing chess.

@clydekimsey7503

3 жыл бұрын

@S at 62, it's still not second nature to me

@clydekimsey7503

3 жыл бұрын

@S that's very difficult. I fail their stupid little games

@itumihai3948

3 жыл бұрын

They are insane man...i' m tired of them! :)) crazy chicks!

Extremly good advices. 👍🏽 Thx for sharing.

Damn, I wish that I knew this a few years ago... Although I am 24, I guess it's never too late to learn new stuff. Thank you, Tripp!

@ericonelavancena9492

4 жыл бұрын

24 is young tho

@dzonyyya

4 жыл бұрын

@@ericonelavancena9492 Well, I screwed up with a few great girls just beacuse I wasn't that wise...

@htokid7299

4 жыл бұрын

dzonyyya we all do brother keep it moving god has much better plans in store for you focus on yourself for now bro. Peace patience and positivity much love 💪🏽💯

@dzonyyya

4 жыл бұрын

@@htokid7299 Thanks, brother. I am not grieving, just explaining. Peace. Stay safe during these times, wherever you are.

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard. Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

Great and very important advices! Thank you!

amazing information ! we appreciate that !!

For that last one: *You look fine/it looks fine.* That's it!

You are so correct on all points.

Great advice Tripp

Very nice advice . Good stuff

Great video!

Great & succint video from Tripp

Good info 👍🏽 Subscribed

My favorite response when a woman asks something like "Does my ass look fat in these jeans?" is...."Hmmm...I can't tell, I'll need to examine it closely"

Thank you Tripp! You're the best.

@joebobmarley2854

4 жыл бұрын

phony homie who's #1 in your opinion?

@joebobmarley2854

4 жыл бұрын

phony homie haha!

Such a great content👍

Very practical advice on the earth!

I gonna invest in your course because I have been following for a long time and your advice on youtube is on point, so considering that your hook program will be fire!

@Demour77

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Ali, how was the course man? Would you recommend it to others?

All good points ! I was one not to rush into anything.

If a woman cannot handle the truth then she does not need to be with me.

Great advice 👏👏👏

The only time you should ever live with someone is if they are your spouse.

@JohnSmithAnythingChannel

3 жыл бұрын

Then my parents and brother are my spouses.

Awesome advice

Yes tripp, you are absolutely right. Went through it and am happy now i did the right thing :D:D:D . Great job keep it up !

Thank you Tripp for waking me up.

Well said 👌

FROM NYC: Good one. They say 1 yr for a couple dating over 50 equals five years together due to life experience.

Friend zone broke my heart , made me feel like a pussy, stopped me from meeting someone else, ruined my life

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

@fleadoggreen9062

3 жыл бұрын

@@andreamoscoso4065 thanks ,don’t say something that can’t be unheard ! I will learn

I feel that by 3 months it could be potentially a relationship or even calling that person your girlfriend however the 6 month point it would be more serious. It just seems weird to me if you've been seeing someone for 3+ months and you haven't become pretty much exclusive. I think with any relationship how much you commit depends on how long your relationship has been so far. Definitely 6 months is a more serious relationship than 3 if the relationship even gets that far.

@wulf67

3 жыл бұрын

Being "exclusive" and being "committed" are two very different things. When I was 13 I was exclusive with my hand, but I was not committed to it.

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard. Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

@myballsitchsomethingfierce6319

2 жыл бұрын

@@wulf67 This guy, lol.

@Carolina-mz9nr

Жыл бұрын

Agreed. Any woman who knows her worth won’t settle for being breadcrumbed by a man who can’t make up his mind in six months about wanting to explore a serious relationship. Shit or get off the pot.

@dontreply69

10 ай бұрын

I agree. 6 month's is absolutely ridiculous.

Thanks man❤️

had a bad trip.. Till I got Tripp's advice.. 👍😅😅 just kidding.. Thanks for the tips Tripp..👌👍❤️

Wise advice.

Older female here. Agree with everything here except #2. Yes, each person should be acknowledging birthdays, Christmas, etc.....but you guys need to know one of the biggest turn ons for a woman is getting flowers. All women love flowers.....So, if you are looking to score some points or if you screwed up big time, send her some flowers. Works every time, guys!

Nice tips. I have never been pursuing girls. I don't waste my time looking for girls. Instead I intend to apply theses rules to be in a healthy relation ship

I’ve made the mistake of moving in with her before we even dated. Disastrous story. Don’t do it, it’s a trap

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

@SirShoddrick

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

@tonyb76

3 жыл бұрын

Why?

@malachimatcho7583

3 жыл бұрын

I did that twice! First time I thought I just lived with the wrong woman. Second time... I realized it was my mistake both times.

@acdragonrider

3 жыл бұрын

@@malachimatcho7583 back in the day, people didn’t move in until after they were married. I think it’s a good idea partly for this exact reason.

Wow...thanks Tripp

Number 3. Aye!

Also for the second one if you spend a lot of Money on a woman, they may not leave you but see it as an opportunity to take advantage of you. I can say this from seeing my uncle go through it with his two marriages. He was a plastic surgeon and both of his wives to a degree took advantage of his wealth. They liked his lifestyle more than they liked him even if he had kids with one of them.

Sir, thank you.

Jeremy from Jersey just subscribed

Tripp what if she wants to hear the words " I love you too" from a guy in less than 6 months..

@TrippAdvice

4 жыл бұрын

Hey Nick ► kzread.info/dash/bejne/ln-kmKevYNyngJM.html

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard. Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

Tripp this must be a perfect trip

Wise words

I agreed with your points until #5. You want the girl a little insecure and guessing how much you find her attractive. If you praise her appearance all the time she will think you're trying too hard to get her approval and will lose respect for you.

@KangenKrazy

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@Gekke_Gerrit94

3 жыл бұрын

So true, never give woman validation

@genevieverenaud2537

3 жыл бұрын

I agree, i will always prefer a man who tells me the truth over a man who lie out self preservation. There is a way to tell a girl her jeans makes her look rounder without calling her a fat cow lol

@damatolgreen5329

3 жыл бұрын

@@genevieverenaud2537 lol true

@ashton1952

3 жыл бұрын

Depends on the woman. Some may not believe you but say thank you anyway. Others may think you're just being charming in order to get inside the clothes.

Yeah, it's either she likes you or she rejects you. Don't ever let her friend zone you coz you just have to take a step into the zone and know that the zone is full of dark energy that will mess with your self-esteem and possibly your sanity. (At least that's what it feels like for me even though I've never been friend zoned before. I can just imagine what guys out there are dealing with as they try to get out of the zone.)

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard. Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

This was really interesting. While solid points, one thing that struck me was the potential influence cultural differences will have. It's the one thing I'd say about this, be sensitive to social and cultural norms where you are.

@FsocietyDotIn

4 жыл бұрын

👌👍

Hey trip good work..really helpful..but I'lld like to find out this girl has been projecting signs that she likes me..weve been talking texting fast forward she doesn't reply to my texts and after I continue with my life she calls me first and asks for a link up. We meet up at a park..all she is doing is complaining to me about her personal life and I happen to sympathise with her. Then what caught my attention is her text saying sorry for sidelining you🤔..i honestly don't know how to react to this could it be a test?

Excellent advice for every young man I wish I knew this years ago. One other thing-don’t ever marry a narcissist

I’ve been married 3 times. 16 years..... 11 months.......last one 11 years. I grew up with three sisters too.... this dude is so accurate... on things I’ve seen.... I got divorced in 2013 and haven’t dated since.... I said F it all. Well ... I’m gonna have to go again but this app dating....The old school way was easy.....see someone out, at a club... wherever..talk and get their number. Oh well..... new school...... maybe

@atvman1014

3 жыл бұрын

Been single 16 years

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

@pastorkm9918

2 жыл бұрын

It's nice to meet you Ross Geller

@MrMalicious5

2 жыл бұрын

Why do boomers use "..." so much?

I love it

Thanks for the video, sir. Could you help me with one thing though? You said 6 months of dating before calling her your girlfriend. But most of the other YT coaches (and I think you as well) have said to kiss her after the first date. How do you reconcile kissing her and not being in a "relationship" with her?

Appreciate his argument that you shouldn’t live with someone unless you’re sure it’s something real and long term. I’ve always been against it for a variety of reasons.

About no3 I couldn't agree more As you said I learn that on the hard way, but about the friend zone thing, I'll take that any time. Only two rules. Don't speak for more than minute on the phone, always have a phisical encounter. And second don't agree with her too easily always banther with her. And as a bonus, try to act like a lover but always keep telling her you are just friends. I hope that I can help someone with this cause it took me a long time to learn this.😄

Don’t even talk about living together on the first 2 dates.

This guy knows his stuff😊

What if you have been together with her and she is comfortable with sharing he problems with you, is it okay if you do stuffs for her and buy things she say she likes or going extra mile in solving her problems?

Incredibly wise.

hey Tripp do you have to marry someone to move in together? what if you have been together 1 and a half year but do not want to marry,but live together ?

It's important to dig deep on the relationship she had with her biological father, and what the experience with her parents has/had been growing up. Follow it up with asking about her relationship with her uncle and grandfather if any.

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard. Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

and contrary to what all women tell you, NEVER show weakness, insecurity, or your soft underbelly to your woman... it's why I lost the love of my life.

@gamalsankara1388

4 жыл бұрын

You lost “the love of your life” because you had that oneitis. I hope you are doing well.

@kylel7158

3 жыл бұрын

The love of your life should be yourself my man

@robtester4101

3 жыл бұрын

If that happened she'd never have turned out to be that.

@chairman6652

3 жыл бұрын

@@gamalsankara1388 🤔

@dontreply69

10 ай бұрын

No its not dude. You lost her for other reasons.

So you have an area where we us can approach with out getting affected by covid 19?

Yikes I dodged a bullet.Thank you Tripp.

As a chick, if they buy too much stuff/gifts it makes me think they see me as an object and not who I really am. I don't even take the guys self esteem into the thought.

@kevinfirouzan1121

2 жыл бұрын

Like TRIPP says, only for her birthday or valentines. I would go further to say the year after you guys have been dating. As a bonus, get her something that she has been been talking about wanting and make it romantic. This shows her you listen to what she likes and care about treating her like your queen.

Where is summery guy?

6 months seems like a stretch don't ya think?

Tripp, I have a question about #2 at 3:47, which I also heard you speak to on a recent podcast episode: How would you reconcile that advice with the guy's authentic personality? What if you are buying her stuff out of financial abundance and your own goofy playfulness, because you genuinely want to--not because you are "trying" to give-to-get, nor "because it seems to be working"? Example: I have had some ideas (if I ever have the opportunity) to do things like this idea: Buy her flowers TOGETHER when she least expects it, such as when we're already at the grocery store together. At some point while we're buying legit groceries, ensure we walk by the floral section and pick one out for her on the spot that matches her sun dress. Or I've even thought it would be fun to try to make her laugh and/or blush by telling her something like "you definitely need one" and buy her one of the cheap wooden flowers at 7/11 when we're are already there together, originally just buying gas and Cokes. To clarify, I'm not talking about BRINGING cheap flowers to her (probably definitely a no-no), I'm talking about doing so to try to praise her (see: #5) in her presence. Would an example such as that still be considered buying her affection?

@TrippAdvice

4 жыл бұрын

I would just stick to love languages

@animamagera8413

3 жыл бұрын

Ofcourse buy here flowers! This advise is horrible

I hurt my girlfriend by speaking very rudely we were talking on phone ..she was alright after that incident but when had something came.. I told her I will be back in few hours but at that time she told me these word's " TAKE CARE, BYE, AND I LOVE YOU" I didn't got that at that but when I came back and tried to call her she didn't picked up. Today is the 4th day I implemented the No contact but she is still sending me her pics and updates on Snapchat "I didn't opened that" What i have to do? Is there any sort of mistake have done?

@rohinahmed6233

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah just dont talk to her for a while. You already apoligized and speaking rudely doesnt mean break up lol. Dont worry shell be back

Also what if you do want to make friends with women that you are not as attracted too? or if you already on relationship?

Yeah but “how” do you tell a girl you don’t wanna be her boyfriend yet.

@TrippAdvice

4 жыл бұрын

Here ya go Captain ► kzread.info/dash/bejne/iX-Kr5RxctLWoZM.html

@CTLatteberry

4 жыл бұрын

“I’m looking to see where this goes” works like a charm

@fleadoggreen9062

3 жыл бұрын

You say “ I’m not ready for anything even close to this serious, we should see other people if we like” , say that earlier the better , next thing you know ur getting married!!!

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

Okay that you literally care for the person and are interested but want to be friends or court exclusively with each other to get to know each other more.

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

Now if you are not actually interested then be honest about it its always best to be clear about things. It saves both of you your time and is kinder for both.

Dude first time coming across you you have 880 something thousand viewers wow impressive. I don't know if all these rules apply though I really don't I think everybody's a unique person and they will span their time together accordingly. I do like your boundaries though bro you got some tough ass boundaries but you remind me of myself hard nose Capricorn

Agree with most everything but the last one. No you don't always say something positive, this is really weak. Oh if I don't say that I like everything she asks me about she might not like me, boo hoo. If the woman asks you how something looks and it doesn't look good grow a backbone and tell her that you don't like it.

6 months is too long. Agree with principle though.

the last one is soo true.

@Dad_of_War

4 жыл бұрын

It's the worst one, makes you seem like a simp

When a man looks within, truly finds himself and his worth, values and moral compass (same goes for women) and doesn't need to turn to you tube on how to create a relationship with a woman, then he is winning. Boys and girls that are trying out stuff like this are so transparent because they haven't developed their own unique character and unconditional love for themselves and I feel for them as many of them do get taken advantage of by unevolved as you say, girls, not women. I have had a few male friends that may have wanted to be in a relationship with me be it serious or casual but knew from the get go that was not going to happen and who I've also given advice to (being yourself and not debasing yourself for approval and possibility of sex) and somehow we are still friends? I guess that can be chalked up to the fact we're mature adults and each think the other is a good person and adds value to one another's lives 🤷 men and women can be friends, just sayin' I think what is key to creating and maintaining a beautiful sustainable relationship is knowing and loving oneself first and foremost, that's most of the work done right there because then you know what you want, you establish clear and healthy boundaries, very quickly you will see possible compatibility and whether it is worth pursuing. 100 percent agree on taking things slowly. I personally don't know how people can be hooking up with so many different people, like the sacredness of relationships and true intimacy is just not respected or valued any more. There are a lot of men and women hurting out there who have a lot of wounds and negative feelings about each other and rightly so but please allow yourself the time to heal and realise that you attract what you are putting out. If you still haven't addressed your inner wounds you'll find yourself in similar situations and relationships. Much love, light and healing to you all and may you find a soul mate when the time is right to share your journey, God bless 🤝💓🌱🦋🙏🏽🕉️

#5 “Praise her freely…Only the masculine side of your woman will grow through challenge; The feminine side thrives on support and praise.” -David Deida, The Way of The Superior Man This is not a “yes” or “no" question. Either way, you flunk the test. Here’s a possible suggestion: Her: “Do these jeans make my ass look fat?” You: “Lemme see? [Take her hand and spin her] Whoa, babe! Those jeans make your ass look sexy as fuck! Daaamn, baby!!”

@kristopherfoster8780

4 жыл бұрын

You have no idea about female nature

@kristopherfoster8780

4 жыл бұрын

Never validate dude

@rob41137

4 жыл бұрын

Kristopher Foster Let’s keep it civil. I actually don’t, I’ve never had a relationship and not ashamed of that. That’s why I’m here, seeking information. So tell me, what is the proper response?

@rob41137

4 жыл бұрын

Kristopher Foster Care to elaborate? What’s your basis for “never”? I know girls seek validation as well as men when in their feminine, which is unhealthy. But I think there is a difference between validation and praise. What do you think is wrong with giving credit (praise) if credit is due, especially in the name of passing a shit test?

@shadowjfd

4 жыл бұрын

@@rob41137 in summary, if you are going to compliment a woman, it has to be genuine. The "praise her freely" never works with women. It makes you be seen as seeking approval and needy

6 months is but a fleeting moment, you can’t know anyone in that period of time. If we can both be realistic it’s more like 6 years before you get to know anyone.

@dontreply69

10 ай бұрын

That's absurd.

When a girl says she wants time and space for a bit, would she text you or you have too

@htokid7299

4 жыл бұрын

alki27 football bro I’m gonna SAVE you right now I went through the same shit DO NOT DO NOT TEXT FIRST!!!!! She pretty much pushed you away so If you text first she’ll see you as weak, needy, and find a new dude. Do not contact her AT ALL if you want a chance of getting her back or even getting her in the first place. She’ll respect the fact that you respect yourself and her both enough to walk away and give her space. She’ll be back bro. Do the right thing

#5 No. There's no way I'm going to tell a woman she looks great with a boyish haircut.

@psychocybernetics1347

4 жыл бұрын

Don’t compliment a woman period!

@mauropedrosa7317

3 жыл бұрын

My king!

@acharich

3 жыл бұрын

💀💀💀

@tuneintruckingwithmr5016

3 жыл бұрын

Only complaint if she asks.

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

@@tuneintruckingwithmr5016 Compliment whenever you want to and when it feels natural. There's nothing wrong with a healthy amount of compliments but if you are trying for something to sway or just trying too hard it can give a negative vibe thus maybe turning into something that will not be experienced / perceived as a compliment.

Tripp: Say positive things about how she looks... Because anything else you say- Me: Can and *WILL* be used against you in the court [ship] of dating 🤣

@andreamoscoso4065

3 жыл бұрын

People don't just hear words they feel words. If the experience they experience with those words is not good often eventually they could not want that and feel/ experience something else they might pay more attention to/from someone else. The point is to be aware and actually treat each other kindly. Don't say things that can grind down a relationship even in spite and don't say things that can't be unheard. Ok call it courting getting to know each other with Faithfulness in your actions/ intent (start right) from the beginning but be clear and get to know each other. Easy. The principles are what are the steps are built on to help build something. The principle is to trust and pray to Christ that He and not yourself will guide you to a good person that He sees and knows that is right and fit for you and vice versa. Also don't say things that the other person won't be able to unhear. Man or woman. Women too are sometimes in their own heads about how they speak to someone or to their husbands. Its a principle thing and not really a gender thing. Everyone is a lil different too and will experience things differently throughout their lives but a common thing across the genders is a choice of words be it in constructive arguments vs deemening someone. Don't say something that one might not be able to unhear. Say what you need to say don't keep it in but find a better more correct way to say it with Christ's grace and help. Christ needs to be our focus for all of us. Everyone needs to treat each other with kindness love and respect the way that God would want us to be treated and that He would want us to treat each other.

@samsmith5633

3 жыл бұрын

I don't know honey,hard to tell with all that back fat, works too.

I've literally done ALL of these in the past 😭😂

Bro, I'm jewish and I know couples that have become engaged in much much less than 6 months.

With time you can make money, but with money you cannot buy time back. Don’t waste it

I completely agree with the not be official boyfriend but not the buying stuffs cause all women love it & most women won’t think the guy is a loser but instead most women will think they are being valued & most women love to be valued . Buying affection is the best part ! They will appreciate it cause they will feel worth it !

Yes, compliment her. Also there is no shame in saying "sorry". You don't have to mean it, but it gives you more power than the fool that is too proud to say "I'm sorry" to a lady he is courtimg

4:56 Yep, learned this too. At this point you realise the only thing shes stroking is your checkbook.

If by 6 weeks we aren't exclusive, I am gone. If we aren't an official couple by 12 weeks, I am gone. Most women aren't going to wait around 6 months. If a guy needs that long to know then he is not emotionally ready for a relationship. Women are not emotionally immature for not waiting 6 months. I would highly reccommend disregarding this man's advice.

@melissamcgee1733

3 жыл бұрын

@DreadLoc Sensi truth is you know early on if there is potential or not. And if 3 months in you still dont feel that you want to lock that person down, then they aren't the right one for you. I apply this to myself and self regulate so I dont waste any man's time either. If 6 weeks in I don't want to be exclusive, then something is missing and i probably wont get there. If 12 weeks in I don't want to commit, then I am not likely to get there. When you meet someone who you could see forever with you know. You have the urge to pursue them and commit. Don't waste other people's time. If you aren't crazy about her then just let her go early on.

#6 Shoe shopping