The best line was "only text to meet up, no chitchat". Powerful and thoughtful.

@Noir-sr5bw

3 жыл бұрын

My mother does that to me.

@codycampbell3562

2 ай бұрын

Women have enough penpals.

"Distance creates desire." Damn, that girl I met 10 years ago must really like me now

@austinroberts6229

Жыл бұрын

Lol, needy isn't attractive, but staying away didn't usually work either.

@PublicNuisance2K24

3 ай бұрын

⁠@@austinroberts6229being needy and desperate is a turnoff I agree, first In order to create attraction. You must first create an identity and create a presence before you disappear. If u don’t do that then you will simply be forgotten.

No offense, but I've dated piles of girls, and tried much of what many dating experts recommend. In the end, I just don't give a rip. If I'm busy I text them when I am not. If I'm not busy I text them back. Playing games is just lame. If a girl wants you, and is intelligent, and keen she won't need you to jedi mind trick her. Mystery is good etc etc, but purposely trying to wait to text means you're focusing way too hard on outcomes. Don't care. That's true strength.

@matthewcoworker633

4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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@vigorouslygaming5917

2 жыл бұрын

No offense should be taken, he preaches self-improvement which enforces this ideology.

@liamjose8012

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree. Men are usually always busy. By busy, I mean they have a lot of shit to do and I am not even talking about work. They have a lot of hobbies. The real way to do stuff is that you shouldn't give priority to women. After you do everything you want to do, may be you can message.

I used to text and reply almost instantly. Used to send emojis, the good morning sunshine crap. Now I only call. Call her phone. Speak with a low voice, slowly. It’s so much better that way.

@lesliebakos8428

3 жыл бұрын

Bullshit.....you were like a pet....I hear ya

@roopealho1515

3 жыл бұрын

Why is a number the hardest for me to get with this girl, when she responds on everything else? Like I want to give her a call to be more direct and human lol.

@roopealho1515

2 жыл бұрын

@Black Boy King TV Got her number shortly after that comment, basically got 2 positive responses then when I actually tried to switch it up to be more direct got 2 negative responses.

Unfortunately, all the girls I talk to are part of the .01%

@luluchannel3999

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@tebuswekemorris3399

2 жыл бұрын

😀😁😁😅🤣

alot of the availability and lack of initial vulnerability stuff is really expanded on in 48 laws of power. Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary Law 12: Use Selective Honesty and Generosity to Disarm your Victim Law 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor

@soshieopath7142

3 жыл бұрын

Great book

@mrityunjayagahlot6085

10 ай бұрын

Are you an INFJ?

it is hard to be a challenge when you really like someone and want to talk to there

@QuadraAce

3 жыл бұрын

Simp

@lordsushibar4167

3 жыл бұрын

@@QuadraAce You my guy are 13 and have no Sense of empathy

@dirkauditore8413

3 жыл бұрын

@@lordsushibar4167 Yea, hes an ass. I understand the Fadi Mammoun perfectly.

@Chrisr-je1tw

3 жыл бұрын

@@QuadraAce how

@dirkauditore8413

3 жыл бұрын

@David Michaels You sir are flawed. Fadi expressing his thoughts/feelings does not make him any less of a man than you

This is funny as other dating coaches are telling women the same strategy. At this rate no one will ever get it together.

@TrippAdvice

4 жыл бұрын

Yes they will. Just have to focus on becoming a high value, great person and you'll attract the same.

@teejayencarnado6790

4 жыл бұрын

@@TrippAdvice i agree with you because i have observed my experience, before i was kinda low value with women because i always do what they want, i am not being a challenge, i was treating them like a queen bfore.. Its like i always get them fall in love with me because i can always make them laugh but after a couple of weeks they leave and it is maybe because i am not a challenge and i was so clingy

@teejayencarnado6790

4 жыл бұрын

@@TrippAdvice and i have observed too that the More clingy and boring you are, the more chance that you'll lose them.. So thank you , i have learned a lot of things from you and now i treat girls like my value is higher than them and i am not the one who should chase them, im from Philippines btw

people want what they cant have

@TrippAdvice

4 жыл бұрын

Yessir, strange but true.

@dr.davidj.welham841

3 жыл бұрын

@@TrippAdvice ...You're very good at what you're doing here Tripp... Keep it up... The concept of "women wanting what they can't have," is EXACTLY why we see so many women, (especially single women in their mid-30's) extremely attracted to older (10-20 yrs. +) married men. If a women in her mid-30's is working with a married man who is say 50, there's an almost 80-90% chance she will start to obsess over him and hopelessly fall in love with him. I've seen this in my practice hundreds and hundreds of times. Married men, with success, money and a family do something to these lonely women. Can't say what causes it, probably something that is hardwired into human genetic behavior.

@f.dmcintyre4666

3 жыл бұрын

@@dr.davidj.welham841 Sorry where do you get your stats from? I don't dispute them tho..........Bless............

Covid.. even Sam Harris switches profession

@mikejhensley7518

3 жыл бұрын

Good one 😆

@mens8120

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@MrRoops3

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@Poolinblue

2 жыл бұрын

Haha funny asf mate

You're the most calm and relatable dude I've ever watched on this type of things,thank you. Tripp.

Pro tip- mute conversations on phone.

@ricardoroger787

3 жыл бұрын

What for?

@f.dmcintyre4666

3 жыл бұрын

Sorry, can you explain? Thanks.............

@ZenBullEpisodes

3 жыл бұрын

@@f.dmcintyre4666 so you don't instantly reply back.

All excellent advice from Tripp. As for being attracted to what seems to be unavailable to us, we obviously won't desire something if we already have it!

So true... the challenge is in you all along. There’s a psychological thing that your not looking for good love but the love you were familiar with as a child. If you complement the love and denial of love your partner had as a child then they will “fall in love”

Tripp you have saved me once again! I feel like I’m learning and realizing so much every time I watch your videos. I’m always thinking of how I go about dating and talking to girls every time you’re giving advice. It feels like applying these tips will not only be easy but really beneficial! Great video, Tripp!

I am so guilty . You are a legend

Thanks for the advice, Tripp!! I will put all of your advice to good use!!

Agree with this because I 100% focus on myself.

so true! this tip would probably be applicable in a marriage. To keep the passion and desire alive. As the saying goes, familiarity breeds contempt.

Great job man, amazing advice

These rules are ridiculous to me. Why have we turned dating into a game? Can people just be their authentic selves?

@TrippAdvice

4 жыл бұрын

It's the rules of biology. It's the most authentic thing there is.

@DaveNagrom

3 жыл бұрын

I think you have to be your best self. Hopefully, when you are young, you learn table manners. When you go out, you display that etiquette. Naturally, you may dispense with that etiquette, but that would be offensive to others. So, you show your best self, the more socially acceptable version. This does not make you inauthentic, it makes you capable of successfully deporting yourself in society. This is simply telling men how to present their best selves.

you are a superior teacher mr. tripp. thank you very much.

THIS IS GOLD.

Great advice my friend, keep it coming. We need more people like you

Great vid, thanks Tripp!!!

Your job is amazing, bro! Keep up with it.

Dude, you're onto something very powerful here. Of all the things I ALREADY knew and a was a 100% sure of is the don't try to impress by buying and give her material things. However, I was completely failing by overcomplementing(even if I AM being sincere, because I do mean it - there's a thin line line there) and it 'becoming white noise' really checks out. You're giving us gold, dude. Thanks for the excellent tips! "And then saw his vid! Now I'm a believer!" :D

Remember demand is only high with scarcity when the product is valued. If you’re without supply and not desireable, you have 0 sales. Work on yourself brothers

That economics part was best explanation bro

Wouldn't it be simpler if women was just authentic, period.

@dirkauditore8413

3 жыл бұрын

What do you mean?

My scarcity-value is so high that women don’t even know I exist. I am like a rare gemstone buried 50 miles under the earths crust

@lechanneldemysterieuxmante1807

3 жыл бұрын

Playa playa, this is Diamond a Club Status.

Great coach!

Spot on as ever, Tripp 👌 Easy to listen to as well Keep up the good work, bro!

What Tripp is saying in this video 100% makes sense. Won't lie, I'm 20 years old and have complications with getting into a relationship, but I keep trying and I'm gonna keep trying! I know I'll start seeing more improvement as I keep going.

@matthewcoworker633

4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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@matthewcoworker633

4 жыл бұрын

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What is good about your channel is the fact that you keep a mature vibe in your videos. It is less likely high schoolers get involved because mostly because of the way the message is delivered. Even I don't consider I need this stuff I find myself constantly evaluating what you teach. It is upsetting listening to emails from youngsters that Even struggle everyday to choose what colour of sneakers they are going to wear.

The first 3 minutes of the video he basically said everything in my head

You the man Tripp 💪

availability is not the only challenge. most of my successful nights involved "disagreements" i've had women almost yelling at me when i calmly disagree with their point of view on something, then had those same women all over me half an hour later lol.

@matthewcoworker633

4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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@matthewcoworker633

4 жыл бұрын

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Thanks for this video... interesting perspective. 👍

I wish I had seen this man’s videos 4 months ago.

Facts all being needy and clingy does is push her away, you gotta not be available all the time it’s not what you want to do, but it’s what you have to do.

Thanks Tripp.

The whole texting phenomenon is ridiculous because it just lends itself to the stupid mind games. Just phone the person and make direct communication and be honest how you feel.

Great video

My ex complained that I was never available. So we broke up.

Indifference makes a difference.

Any advice on a situation like this. My and my wife are seperated. Been working on myself and I'm fine with the split at this point. However I'm down and out waiting on an ankle surgery. Getting out right now is difficult. Meeting up not so easy. Besides myself and working on my mind. What kind of game or dating can I work on while I heal up? Video on this may be good as well. How to continue this lifestyle when life itself get rough.

Like a PS5, couldn't find one so easily. I was so happy when I found one and now that I have it, it's barley being used.

Basically be reserved!!!!!

The best way to be a challenge is to show interest in us but also have your own life. Dont be there available at aall times. That tells us we will be despo sivlw for your self-esteem. That's not attractive to anyone, especially when you barely know each other. No one likes to feel that they are 100% responsible for someone else's happiness, someone else's social life. Being too available feels engulfing and is waaaay to much pressure. This goes for girls needing to have their own life and not being too available to the guy she likes. It's human nature.

If I'm POLITE, HANDSOME, SUCCESSFUL AND ADVENTUROUS...BELIEVE me they ain't gonna LOOSE INTEREST!

Hahaha. I approach and approach and approach. And I don’t get numbers and dates. So I don’t have to worry about being too available because I don’t get the date!

So .. I'm going for it guys. I have a girl that I am crazy about. I have always loved her .. been friend zoned for DECADES. Not sure how this is going to turn out, but I would LOVE to have her in my life. Yes, I understand its a long shot, but I feel God is working inside of me. I am changing and understanding more and more about women and my girl in particular. Yes, I may read this post back in a year from now and feel like the biggest dope ever. But as Marcus Luttrell (Lone Survivor) said .. "we have this fire inside of us .. a river .. pushing us into those cold dark places .. where the bad things live .. where the bad things fight. And we wanted that fight at the highest possible level .. a loud fight". I'm not afraid to fight. I'm not afraid to look like a fool. If I am going to be a fool it will be for my Lord and my love. Amen!

@dirkauditore8413

3 жыл бұрын

Let us know how it goes! Much luck brother

@wildprodigy

2 жыл бұрын

What happened my brother in Christ? Any update.

There's not really any difference between guys and girls in this. How would you feel about a girl instantly texting you back every time, constantly buying you gifts, never challenging you, always hanging around? Sure, some of these may be "nice", and out of politeness you'd thank her for the gifts, which is usually what girls do to guys, but you can't buy attraction. Being mysterious is alluring. Girls, like strippers and writers and movie makers, constantly use it.

@TrippAdvice

4 жыл бұрын

Yup! Works for everyone.

@ZmeyMusic

4 жыл бұрын

I would be more happy than anything. Really, having someone just to please you is such a wonderful thing. Who cares about feelings when you can have THAT? :))

@jakebanack3605

4 жыл бұрын

NotSèeD MortDeRire wrong. In theory it sounds good but what you emotionally respond to is completely different.

Lets hear Kezia's response to this one

you gotta make a video on how to approach a high school girl that you have no classes with but want to get to know her without her thinking your a weirdo bc you know how it is

@udntknw001

4 жыл бұрын

🤣 Perv detected. Anyway, he won't because it'll damage his reputation. He's too old to claim publicly that he knows how to deal with highschool girls, even if he does know.

@bahaatamer1245

4 жыл бұрын

I suggest you check Todd V for that!

@cheeto9

4 жыл бұрын

I can tell you this, never tell her “I want to get to know you.” You want to come off relaxed, and exchanging a few words is truly a low stakes situation. Don’t try and say something in order to win her or get her - don’t “try” for her verbally, she will sense you are looking for her validation. If she doesn’t know you exist right now, you can change that, but do it gradually. Don’t go all in on one interaction, a few words today, a few words another day - over time it will build.

@Exolityy

4 жыл бұрын

Casey Chiodo thank you a lot

Hey. I get a text ..I respond. If the girl doesn’t want me it’s ok with me HER LOSS.

I am totally against dating more than one woman at a time.

Thx bro

Most important ATTRIBUTE when dating is making a good IMPRESSION and EFFORT in everything you do!! REMEMBER YOUR COMPETING WITH OTHER MEN....

Lmao, girls are watching the same videos and both don’t text each other for weeks and one person gets very impatient and texts or calls finally 🤣😂

You're the Iron Man of love man !!

These are some good tips and ideas, and really how a lot of guys approach dating etc. I totally agree that knowing how women think is great but I might caution against putting too much work into chasing a specific person, if she does not try to connect with you after you've tried a few times than she probably is not interested and you should move on. After a bit of time yeah she may show interest again but she may also be messing with you or she may be practicing her attraction skills on you or who knows. I guess I'm saying that if it's meant to be than it will be easy and fluid, and if it's not than maybe it's not the right time or right person or both. I agree that it's not good or right to give gifts, or buy attention, even when people are married it's not really a good look if it happens all the time. Tripp has some good advice and I'll admit that I've done some of the things that Tripp is advising against, this is how guys think I guess, and the phycology of attraction and dating seems strange sometimes but if this is how most people think and act than role with the good advice. And if all this feels difficult, Alternatively, you could live in a society that has your relationships and marriage, if you are to be married, planed before you were born, or some other arrangements. So, improve your self and learn about phycology but don't be too hard on your self either because this is very much social stuff and there is and have been a great variety of societies. Also, it is possible that your life and experience is different from those around you, and while some people are attracted to difference others are not. Some people will relate to you very well, others may not, and it's no one's fault it's just that there are a lot of people on this world. Food for thought.

@matthewcoworker633

4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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4 жыл бұрын

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Just find interesting things to do in your life and girls well recognized that and well shase you just keep that and never never make her feel she got u...

Few years back I saw your video on something about forming a triangle when looking at a girl. Eye + Eye + Mouth. It worked the first time I used it and ever since then I have been using that. Since then I have also started paying attention to your content. I remember having this girl friend for few years and she knew my schedule and we could only meet few times a week. That help maintain my relationship with her for few years until I moved out of state. Good Tipp on been mysterious and taking my time to relive little at a time.

well now she knows you're not busy since you're in quarantine

@TheMagStylez

4 жыл бұрын

Facts 😅

Any difference in your recommendations, if the girl is in a different country ?

man, i like your dating advice and especially the way you articulate english words, i can hear clearly though i am non-native.

When people take a day to return a text and you know they got very little in their life, it comes across as pathetic in my book. Then again, why am I interested in someone like that? lol

Definitely agreed, but where do you get the statistical number?

@TrippAdvice

4 жыл бұрын

I'm basically saying most women.

So does this all go away when you say, you’re cute lets hangout? Like when you approach you give a compliment and usually men ask to hangout. Doesn’t that mean your value is gone? “ does he like me or not?” It’s obvious that he does ??

geez, I have been doing everything wrong

This not always work. I know one beautiful smart girl that married not handsome, poor bald man because he treat her like a queen. She said he is hard-working and have a lot of potential. When he is success she will be treated even better. And know what? He is rich now and she is still his queen. Smart girl have wider vision

Thanks tripp ❤

What does it mean when someone you work with says where have you been hiding this guy from me

Amazing channel for alpha males

In a nutshell, Be Darth Vader 💀

@f.dmcintyre4666

3 жыл бұрын

ROFL............Yeah he's a chick magnet.................Bless..............

I agree

Your the best😁

3:25 she will choose another guy that clarifies that to her. Has happened to me in the past bro

Well in my case, the 0.1% of girls are in my school. Just kidding🥰😂

For this to work does she always has to be attracted

Me. Stops being so open (aka not always initiating conversation) Her: never fuckin texts me again

Tripp I hope you read this. I wanna say man to man. Thank you. I know you don’t know me but I love ya brother. Thank you.

Hahaha.... @ 1 minute .. "I bet some women are watching that" 😉 yup... I just randomly clicked on this. Actually your tips can be used by both parties. Matthew Hussey, the relationship couch for women is giving us the same advice. 😛 Fun channel! Good luck!

@thomasf1531

3 жыл бұрын

That's gonna be fun if both partners are following the same advice, haha.

Never EVER reply straight away. It's a game killer Trust me I'm talking with plenty of experience.

Well love became mind game I can say....

She'll only be up to the challenge If she's attracted to you in a first place So then you can give her a little bit of the challenge ,or some sort of stimulation to keep things less boring.. Otherwise it's a waste of time. And sorry to say but the main attraction factor will be your looks, body , face, smile , eyes, how you carry and present yourself , maybe tone of your voice, your emotional intelligence, flirting skills, other talents, smell of your perfumes. etc. Then you may serve her some playful challenge 😄😎

Hhhmmm that's so true and interesting

Hey i met a girl on tinder and from the get go when we stated to talk i told her what i was lookin for..(not friends) she was cool with it...we stated to talk then i ask to meet she said she not ready then covid came and i ask that we video chat she didnt want too. so i cont to talk and tex was good seem she was intrested ...but after i ask her so where this is goingshe said she not sure...i did bring it up a couple of time later on and she said im pressuring her and she really dunno where its goin ? any advice? should i just walk away?

This doesn’t work. I’ve tried for years not to make myself available and haven’t had a girlfriend in 6 years. Whenever I make myself a challenge they lose interest and disappear.

@cl1489

3 жыл бұрын

You have to build attraction first. Otherwise there's no challenge worth pursuing.

@Localtuff

3 жыл бұрын

@@cl1489 hence, the catch-22.

MYSTERY. THE MORE YOU DONT CARE THE BETTER muahahahahaha

Desperation is not an aphrodisiac. Give compliments rarely, after she has earned them.

i did everything wrong in my last relationship, great to know the reason why now is unattracted to me :)

ty trip you said the right thing. Now am gonna go and punch my astrologer

I'm a girl but I'm just watching this because i wanna see how accurate it is

@YOFACE9999

3 жыл бұрын

Is it accurate?

I can get a girlfriend no matter i do or say, i try everything.

👍

Yes, not being too available makes you more attractive. However, it also increases the chance that she picks a man who is available in the meantime. Good women do not need to wait, they will be approached all the time. If they are really attractive, they will not be single/available anyway. The cute women are snatched from the market quickly, if you wait too long, they are gone! Happened to me and none are left to date.

@jameswatson5707

4 жыл бұрын

None left? Is not the population being continually resupplied?

@ProfWho-ut5he

4 жыл бұрын

@@jameswatson5707 Yes, but I assume having something with a kid is illegal, at least where I live

So after 10-20 years he/she figures out everything about me, does that mean it's time for divorce?

@tlc6756

Жыл бұрын

Ha, well from a female perspective, there's always nuances in someone that change/evolve overtime. As long as you're both growing spiritually/emotionally/psychologically you can appreciate some positive changes and also the stability of a long-term relationship.