Want to know how to get into a relationship and make it last? Check out this playlist: 👇 kzread.info/dash/bejne/pHx-raZvqtiZYbA.html QUESTION: Are you waiting for the perfect moment to ask out your crush? Share your comments below!

@SmoothJuice-ev1lg

6 жыл бұрын

The Josh Speaks that's what I'm trying to do. Waot for the right moment. Theirs a dance coming up so I might ask her to that

@bacon6403

5 жыл бұрын

Bro I like this 6th grader (I’m in 7th grade) and she knows I liked her but she thinks I don’t anymore because I lied. TF do I do!?!?!

@is9232

5 жыл бұрын

Please answer what the fuck do we say when we ask them

@conormccormick2771

5 жыл бұрын

This video really helped I asked my crush out and she likes me too

@AtharCalief

5 жыл бұрын

Im scared btw, but I want to ask her out to a cinema, watch together, and be romantic (friendly romantic) so I dont seem to be romantic by mah parent (🙄), also mah crush already confess her feeling, she likes me, she say it twice, but Im not too sure. I also have wrote 2 letters, one of it include giving a heart Yupi (candy), and also a letter about asking her phone number meh, she's a good girl, she is a nice girl, beautiful girl thats why I like her.

When you’re the one showing all these signs, but your crush still hasn’t asked you out

@Ryukuda

4 жыл бұрын

Might have a significant other already though they may be rotten inside

@myflymkultra268

4 жыл бұрын

take the initiative my dude!

@vofant9663

3 жыл бұрын

Hey just saying I think you should ask them (even tho it’s been a year lmao) bc I asked mine and I mean I got rejected but I finally got it off my chest so I felt so good about it anyway

I have just asked her out, I got rejected but alteast I had the courage to do it and that takes a lot All guys out there I request you do the same. I know a lot of people who don't say anything to their crush and they live with this shyness, life is a lot better when you have confidence.

@gracefulgoombas2703

3 жыл бұрын

You took it like a champ! 👑

@sorunaz

2 жыл бұрын

i mean are yall still friends tho ? i dont wanna lose that

@dpa2102

2 жыл бұрын

@@sorunaz you have to have an abundance mindset and not care if you 2 are friends at the end you have to be willing lose that in order to win

@GODGAMER-ss9on

Жыл бұрын

dude i'm so ugly, and scared to ask her out, i might just send her an email do you think that would work???

@shelton_causier

Жыл бұрын

Nah I decided to do the friend zoning

All of these tips are gonna be good for the upcoming school year

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

Definitely, I wanna get you ready for the next year!

@Desechannsl

4 жыл бұрын

So how did that school year go

@nathanmitchell5217

Жыл бұрын

@@Desechannsl he touched 0 blades of grass (probably)

@bruser7770

Жыл бұрын

@@Desechannsl you Beethoven, how ya doin

@Desechannsl

Жыл бұрын

@@bruser7770 so shit I wish I could go back 2 years she decided to go out with a genuine discord mod

I've got 6 months before my friend, who happens to be my crush, moves away for a year. She already has said several times that we should hang out more and that she doesn't know why we already don't. I only see her a few times a week so I don't have much time but Christmas is around the corner so I might just make my move sometime around then. Thanks for the tips, it really helps out a lot especially for a clueless guy as myself.

My crush asked me out, and BRO.

I really needed this. I'm sometimes confused

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

Hey I hope this video was helpful

@coreym140

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah it was really helpful. Thanks

@themacplug

6 жыл бұрын

Or they just want you to do their homework mate.

I’m head over heels in love with this girl but I’m soooooo scared of rejection. I’m a super introvert and a good friend with her. HELP i need inspirational comments!

@phoebetaylor4877

5 жыл бұрын

im asking out a dude tomozza. gl

@notadrian5711

4 жыл бұрын

You're not alone... Good luck!

@dakaden6410

4 жыл бұрын

Phoebe Taylor how did it go

@kenjiharima23nep91

3 жыл бұрын

Don't let the rejection get to you, if she no. Just walk away and move on.

@sorunaz

2 жыл бұрын

@@kenjiharima23nep91 easier said

Why is your voice so calm

Your absolutely right with it’s hard to differentiate nervousness from disinterest. After all you won’t know what’s in somebodies head until someone makes a move.

Omg, I used this and she said yes!! Thxs Josh. U probably have the best advice channel.

@ikillerz_uya8664

4 жыл бұрын

I still can’t get a GF no matter what I do 😞

@Your_local_ashtray

4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations

@cocoacat.pngggg

Жыл бұрын

congrats man

When back to school season rolls around can you do more of these? Anything involving crushes or friends (how to make them going into a new school) would be awesome!

How do I hold an interesting conversation with my crush since I'm usually nervous around and don't know what to say. Sometimes I ran out of things to say. What do I do

@gymdog2170

4 жыл бұрын

Christian Castillo I’m a year late so how did it go

Someone hire this man.

Yup he definitely don’t like me

What if someone tells u they like you but when they walk past u they say ewww

Thanks Josh this video has made me more confident in asking my crush keep up the great work.

and yes I should definitely wait for the right moment

@ikillerz_uya8664

4 жыл бұрын

The right moment is the moment u make yourself

Thank you so much! My situation is a bit complex. I am a gay male interested in other men but I’m pretty conservative and not really all out and about! There is a man I see on my bus ride to work and based on eye contact and his body language towards me there is an awareness and I know he knows I am interested. At first it was akward and he seemed uncomfortable and would avoid me at first but after a couple of years he started trying to come close to me. I couldn’t believe he sat next to me a couple of times on the bus but I didn’t talk to him 🤦‍♂️ he is a shy guy too and there is so much nervousness between the two of us. Sometimes he comes close to me and I mean really close either sitting next to me on the bus or standing right next to me at the stop light to our building for work but sometimes he pulls away so it’s confusing I think in the beginning I would have assumed his body language showed disinterest as he avoided me but over time he became more comfortable but still shy and sometimes pulling away.

This video helped me out a lot Thanks Josh!

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

Awesome, I'm happy it was helpful

I asked my ex before to hang out but she everytime say No i was like Wtf. Then i dont care already

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

Hmm maybe she wants to keep a distance between you two since you are no longer dating

Hi Josh! I really like this girl, but I only see her at work for 2 minutes as I start at 6 and she ends at 6. I did manage to get her number, but I really don’t know if she likes me. Still with these amazing tips it’s hard to say! She always comes up to me to wish me good luck with work, and we sometimes talk on messages. I’m a really insecure, anxious and shy guy and I’m scared to ask her out, because then I’ll know that she will know I like her.. If you can help me out, it will mean a lot.

@kenjiharima23nep91

3 жыл бұрын

Switch schedules to end at 6.

So my friend told me that my crush really liked me, and she told him I did too. He asked me later today if I actually DID like him, and I told him it was true! We were just playing fortnite a few hours ago, and he straight up asked me if I was gonna ask him out! I’m really happy, and I feel complete! ☺️🥰🥴

Josh thanks I really needed this video perfect timing

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

Awesome, I hope it's helpful

@sharkboy8me938

6 жыл бұрын

The Josh Speaks definitely

Yo we need to get him to 1 mil !!! ASAP

So I recently told my crush I liked him, but I don’t know if he likes me or I was friend zoned. But I think I am friend zoned because he said something along the lines of “we can still be friends and hang” but yet he still plays around with me (makes lots of jokes and I thing also try’s to make me laugh) this is something that other boys don’t do towards me and idk what to do! Ahhhh

cool!!! And thanks again your channel really helps me with this sort of stuff :D

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

No problem! I'm happy the videos are helpful!

Me and my crush know each other well. She always responds to my messages even when it's just a thumbs up or other emoji. But that's all she uses to respond to me. I thought it was because she just has no interest in talking to me, but even after I asked she still wasn't giving me any answer, just more emojis. I think she's just teasing me, but I don't really know.

your channel is amazing thxs

She never talks to me unless i talk to her but we have funny and kinda flirty conversations she always talks to my friends about me sometimes her friends talk to me my friends tell me to just do it but she got a date your videos have been helping me with how i act around her lately thx josh your vids have really helped

Josh can you tell me how to start the conversation again if the conversation end about 1-2month ago?

Same here I got the same problem your the best Josh bud 😎

I really hope my crush watches this video and gets the hint I like them...

So I'm having a problem with this girl. Me and her had this sort of falling out a while back because of unwanted advances on my end when she had a boyfriend (note she still does). I've decided I want to try to reconnect with her as a friend. My first step toward that, since I won't have any physical contact with her for a little bit, was to follow her on Instagram. The problem arised when, as I was scrolling through her pics, the feelings I used to have seemed to come back. I really just want to be friends, but I don't want this to get in the way. What do?

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

Hey it seems like the best way to get over your feelings is to let her go, at least for now. Following her on Instagram is going to be that constant reminder for you and every time she posts a picture, those feelings will come back up.

@jonathanbasham3356

6 жыл бұрын

Kiss her best friend

@jonathanbasham3356

6 жыл бұрын

Best advice from a 13 yr old

@IamNster

6 жыл бұрын

Jonathan Sunnasy BOI

@jonathanbasham3356

6 жыл бұрын

Nster hey it worked for me last year

So she has a crush on me at work. Displayed all these signs. And I still have to once again initiate first. 'Beautiful'.

Thanks alot.

I needed this but I wish it was in the school year

Hi Josh, my crush asked me if I’m going to a party this Friday that she is going to, could this be related to point one as a clear indication?

How do you know if she wants to be asked out if you are picking her up from a previous breakup and she’s scared because of past experiences with other guys

soooo I'm going to ask out my crush tomorrow, I had sm confidence earlier but i just had a mental breakdown wondering what would happen if he says no and now this video has cheered me up. ty!

Thx for the help

don't do that... don't give me hope...

Do girls only as guys to keep his sweater if they like him? Or would they do that to guys they see as close friends as well? I NEED TO KNOW ASAP

My crush's name is Erin and she's in my algebra II class. At the beginning of the school year like the 2nd or 3rd week or so she asked me "hey can I write you a note" and I said "sure" and then she wrote my name with a little smiley face next to it. I'm not sure if that's a sign that she likes me or not but my cousin who is studying psychology says that if girls do that (my cousin's a girl too) it's a way of showing that they are interested in you/"staking a claim" which tells other girls that "oh he's taken." I want to ask you guys to see if that is correct and if she's writing my name on the whiteboard if it's a sign that she likes me. I've known her since last year but haven't really liked her till recently.

@polycarpatalor8109

Жыл бұрын

Go for it

Alright josh I need your opinion. I got sat by my crush in health and one spot away from him in science. We’re always chatting in class and he usually nervously laughs at my jokes and I’ve caught him staring at me on numerous occasions. In health, He was talking to his friends and they said “hey (his name) how are you and your girl?” He turned bright red and didn’t look at me. Do you think he likes me? And what do you think I should do?

Thanks you for taking to me

Well I met this girl on snapchat and i have never met her in person but I said we should hangout this summer and she said "foresure I'm almost never busy"I know what to do but it just feels weird cause I asked her out on the internet instead of in person and that's what the problem is. It's easier for me to pick a place to go if I already have met her then it is threw the internet

Omg I'm the 1k like ! Well done you've helped me alot (yes ik its 2020) well done for 1k likes 👏👏👏

I have seen my crush do non of these things but now that I hear them I noticed that I do all these thing to my crush without meaning to (apart from the roomers thing)

Josh I need help, I’m going to hang out with my crush soon and I’m not sure what to talk about to her, any tips??

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

Hey, I put together a free guide just for that, www.thejoshspeaks.com/ice-breakers

I followed all of your suggestions and all the signs where clear and we both said that we liked each other and after 6 months I finally asked if she wanted to go to the next level, becoming bf and gf and she said no after thinking about it for a day and now we barely talk anymore

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

Hey, it sounds like she just didn't feel like there was the potential for a relationship or she may not have been ready for one. There's no guarantee that someone will want to be with you, we all make our own decisions based on our experiences, thoughts and feelings. I think what's important here is what you take away from the experience, what you learned in that process.

I’m really nervous to ask my crush out (I’m a girl) And he doesn’t take anything seriously and he does this stuff and we both show interest in eachother. Heck,i even ask one of those spirit board things and i asked “does ______ like me? And it said yes. Should ask or no?

I think my crush likes me, but I’m also going into 8th grade next year and might want to just do nothing because everybody ends up regretting things they did in middle school. I need advice from someone older that understands this situation. What should I do?

I had a crush for about 1 month and a half and than i got into a relationship with my friend who is also thier friend and than they told me a few days ago they liked me longer than i liked them i was like act fast dont wait.

My crush does everything on the list

Does this count for num 1 “do u wanna go to swimming on one day”

Hey, what if we both like each other but we both are shy though? 😂😂 I am not shy to talk to her, I just shy about inviting her to a conversation, and I am not going to ask her out before we have a real conversation one time.

Hey idk if my crush likes me but I'm one of the only girls who play basketball and when me and him are playing he asks me if I want to go with him to get water alot or if he wants to take a break by just walking around do you think he likes me?

In English my crush sits behind me and his friend sits next to him and basically his friend was like so who do u like and my crush was like me and the fact that he didn't even whisper or say it subtly was as if he wanted me to hear and I did so Idk what I'm supposed to do now does anyone know what I should do??

Is it a good sign that first week of school i have been talking to her as i am sitting next to her but now a bit less. We followed each other on insta. Next week she is now also talking to other guys. So i started to text her on insta and i asked her there about school work, she answered quite quickly. Am i doing good steps or bad steps?

What if I was hugging my friend that was also a girl and she came up to my friend and asked why are you hugging him if you’re not dating him what does that say

I said to them that I don’t have a crush on anyone because I haven’t known anyone long enough and she asked what about me? Does that mean anything?

Broooo i need help im like sure that this girl likes me because all her friends told me she likes me But im just a shy person that does not know how to start Help

One of my friends really likes a girl from our school and I want him to ask her out but he's too scared even though she clearly likes him. I'm gunna send him this video to prove it

Hey josh any tips for confidence because I’m very shy lol

My crush is so confusing. I have absolutely no idea and I am way too shy to ask her out.

@Nice-dg6zy

3 жыл бұрын

Also, Im horrible with 1 on 1 conversations. Especially with girls.

So me and my crush are really good friends and I have only known her for a little bit under a year. I even have her phone number so we can talk durring qaurintene and we play videogames together every once in a while. She some times jokingly calls me her bf and stuff similar to that. Recently though, my parents have limited my time of talking to her and i think she is getting tired of talking to me and is lossing intrest in me. What should i do? Should i make a move now before it's to late? I know you might not see this but if you do please help me i don't know what to do i'm scarred to lose her.

To put straight out there I met her yesterday at a church lock in and traded Snapchat then today we were chatting then I left her on read after she said “oh” and I had no way to respond then I said oh I’m working on my bike rn. She then said that when I finish working on my bike I should come over to swim. Then later made another comment saying we coulda hung out... dunno what to do gotta think about dis I like her and I think she likes me some of the other guys at the lock in was sorta hinting at the fact that she might like me.

How do you know if they are playing hard to get

Theres no time for me to ask he shes always with her friends and i only have one class with her what do i do would a note work do i ask her do i friend her idk plz help

What if he asked me what do I think of him🤔 I’m looking for the signs if he honestly likes me and I’m waiting to see if he asks me out

💀A LITTLE SHY U GOT ME MESSED UP IM 100% SHYYYYY💀

I was gonna assk my cruush out the other day but when i was about to i couldny speak amd i felt like i wad goin to throw up it was horrible then i asked my friend if she has a bofriend and shes does it also hets better I USED TO GO SCHOOL WITH HIM and hes one of my best friends do you have any advice

My crush when I’m in my science class 4th periodshe always turns around and looks at me and smiles for like 10 secs

@slendyabdi1108

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe she wants you😁

@slendyabdi1108

4 жыл бұрын

Man you should try and sit with her at lunch if you have her in lunch you two could start a conversation and the two of you could start creating a bond between you two

@hunterfj0428

4 жыл бұрын

Ask her out tell me how I goes she will probably say yes if that’s the case

@milanvujcich

4 жыл бұрын

Bro she DEFINITELY likes you/liked

Idk i only have one class with her and shes always around her friends its kinda scary to go up and talk to her i want to i don’t want to have a regret later in life thinking i should have just asked them out and i’m in high school so there isn’t much we could even do outside so idk help plz i want to ask her but i don’t know if a note would work or just walk up and tell her plz help

Soooo.. my crush said one day said “ come over here I need help with this” and scooted over for me to sit next to her while she coulda asked anyone at her table the smartest kids in the class were sitting with her I’m confused why she asked me to help Ig there is a possibility they didn’t know the answer, but the assignment was super easy. So ik they woulda known, and also she probably felt bad I was sitting alone. But before we ever talked to each other she didn’t care much where I was. Could it be my personality? Yea this is probably her not wanting to sound dumb in front of other students. Or just trying to be a friend and invite me in on what is happening. Though she even made me read the words to her, she seemed like she rlly want to hear my voice lol. so yeah it’s probably rlly simple but like idk lmao 😂 it’s weird having a crush, you always think it’s a big thing when it could be super small oof. *So help/advice pls lol*

so my crush over text asked let's hangout and it's planned couple of days later but after asking me out it's like she's getting on/off over texts and not texting back(taking long long, i mean really long) time to reply. wtf is going on here

I'm so nervous to talk to my crush on text message

Hey josh i asked out my crush last year in 6th grade, it is 7th now so do you think it would seem desperate if i asked them out now

okay so i have this crush on this amazing guy and the other day he came up to my table (where my and all my friends sit) and he asked which one of us was the smartest and all my friends pointed at me so he said I'll be your buddy then and I don't know if it was on coincidence or not and he is always nice to me when we do sports and never pushes me. I really want to ask him out (with a nerdy pick up line lol) but it will be my first time asking someone out.....I'm really nervous of being rejected. pray for me

@putemongamety4804

5 жыл бұрын

do u u got it... I cant really tell u anything else cuz youll be listening to me, U need to make the option yourself

My crush asked me if i would go out with someone who was 'ugly' but had a good personality my friend was also there and he didnt speak to her at all he just said hello but now she thinks he likes me idk what to do @The Josh Speaks

Even though this video is 2 years old still helpful though lol

Should I still ask her out? I have another friend that likes her and he is like my best friend, should I let him? He is really trying to get her and stuff

ty

oh well, I have to live with it, but it angers me on how girls almost never ask guys out, even if they have a strong desire or liking towards a guy

Watching the Josh speaks

@TheJoshSpeaks

6 жыл бұрын

this is The Josh Speaks, you're watching The Josh Speakssss

@Will-pl4tp

5 жыл бұрын

@@TheJoshSpeaks We can't tell if you're singing.

@ikillerz_uya8664

4 жыл бұрын

William Murrell cmon man 😂 😂 😂 😂

idk if its a joke but a girl has looking at me in a ''😏'' way since i got to this new class and it was like 3 months ago that started, i get much more shy than i am and nervous and we never talked and im nervous to do so bc i tend to look away when im near her or shes passing by, i really need help to know bc im just not brave enough to even talk to her :/

I confessed over text to my crush and he replied saying he liked me to It was akward today for the first few hors then we stryed talking and we didn't mention anything about liking each other My friend asked him that if I asked him out what would he say and he said yes and my friend told me We are going to Paris on Monday till Thursday with or shool Should I ask him then or Friday?

We send hearts to each other and hug all the time and get red when we see each other but she said she wasn't ready a long time ago but she likes me too but I don't know if she's ready and I don't wanna ask

My crush was playing with her hair when she was talking to me but I don’t think that’s much of a clear sign

Is it good if your crush talks less to you and sounds more timid when doing so than to all her other friends?

@victoriahanson5050

Жыл бұрын

honey did they like you???

You have the answer to everything but i still dont know nor how to talk to my crush

I got a question there’s a girl I like she said she likes me and said that she was scared to tell me but than she says she wants to get to know me more is that good or bad and could you explain?

@brettspearman9780

3 жыл бұрын

it’s good champ, she just wants to know more about you and maybe see if you have anything in common, anyways, it’s a REALLY GOOD sign

So the other day my crush sent a Happy birthday to me and I replied back with ”Thank you! And he said yea, of course, have a fun day”. What does that mean? And so time went on and today was my crushes actually birthday (our birthday are close together so yea anyway) and I said Happy Birthday to him and have great day and he replied back with ” Thank You! I'll do my best” what does that mean?

Hey Josh I've been watching your videos for a long time now for dating advice and there is this girl I like but everything your saying instead about how she acts around me so if you can can we maybe chat about it please?

My crush didn't talk to me the there day he was shy and he didn't ask me and stop texting me wht should i do

Problem is she’s going out with someone else but she flirts with me all the time so what should I do

I. Am asking someone to be my gf today or Monday

What about if you talk to her via messenger? She's long distance but I wanna take the chance. It's not the same right?