5 Signs That Your Ex Probably ISN'T Coming Back

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5 Signs That Your Ex Probably ISN’T Coming Back
In this video were going to discuss;
#1 - Your Ex Has Been With Someone For Six Months Or More
#2 - You Can’t Get A Conversation Started At All
#3 - Your Conversations Lack Consistent Substance
#4 - Your Ex Is Getting Married
#5 - It's Been Longer Than 8 Months After The Breakup
Sign #1 - Your Ex Has Been With Someone For Six Months Or More
So, in this situation is where your ex has moved on and dates someone new, and not so long ago I was curious about how long the rebound relationship lasted. You can do a search on google and it won’t give you a definitive answer. After looking for years for an answer, I decided to do some research to come up with a number of how long a rebound relationship will last.
My research came to the overall conclusion where the average rebound relationship should last exactly five point two months. So, if your ex has been with someone for over six months your chances plummet, it doesn’t mean that you can’t get them back but it does mean that their relationship with that person is a lot more serious.
Sign #2 - You Can’t Get A Conversation Started At All
When you can’t get a conversation started or get your ex to respond to your messages at all its not a great sign, as they are not willing to invest their most precious resource into you. Now on the other side if they are willing to invest then use that as positive sign,
Sign #3 - Your Conversations Lack Consistent Substance
So, where sign number two was all about quantity, sign number three is all about quality. It seems to happen often to clients in my Private Facebook Group, where clients complete the No Contact rule start reaching out and get great response, then the conversation begins to run a bit dry.
Sign #4 - Your Ex Is Getting Married
So, this one is a bit of a no brainer, where if they are about to get married there is almost no chance, they’re going to come back. Unlike the other 4 signs mentioned in this video, this is the only situation where I have never had a success story, where an ex who is married or is about to be married has come back.
Sign #5 - It's Been Longer Than 8 Months After The Breakup
What you will find is a lot of coaches will tell you that you can get your ex back no matter what the situation, it doesn’t matter how long it has been since the breakup. Now this isn’t completely false, but what I want you to understand is that your overall chances after the breakup, looking at the image in the video of the Triangle Theory. Your chances are at its greatest when you’re at the peak, but there is also a point where there is too soon to get your ex back or too late. The average amount of time for the peak to occur is between 3 - 7 months, where most people end up trying to get their ex back when it’s too late.
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  • @SeanStPayne
    @SeanStPayne3 жыл бұрын

    The only time you should give it another chance is if neither of you have been with another person. A rebound is the sign of an unhealthy person, or the love is gone

  • @PricelessBinkey1337

    @PricelessBinkey1337

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey the 90s called, they want their facts machine back...

  • @EmilyGloeggler7984

    @EmilyGloeggler7984

    Жыл бұрын

    That is not true. I moved on when I wasn’t with another person after dumping an ex. Best decision ever.

  • @Wildanimal864.

    @Wildanimal864.

    Ай бұрын

    Sometimes it’s those rebounds that send them back to you. Check your ego. They slept around before they knew you.

  • @move6160
    @move61602 жыл бұрын

    My ex decided to break up. I went to no contact 3 years she came back and I told her no. If you leave me no matter how hard I love you I will never accepted you back. I dont even have problem finding women.

  • @JadeStaze1

    @JadeStaze1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Finally someone who's not desperate with a lacking of self respect. Respect for you

  • @mr.crowleydogman7349
    @mr.crowleydogman73495 жыл бұрын

    Let them go. Maybe it’s for the best. Stay strong

  • @novaknovakovic1585

    @novaknovakovic1585

    3 жыл бұрын

    Winner of a video, I been tryin to find out about "hot to get my ex boyfriend back" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Woniam Loverman Scheme - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my brother in law got amazing results with it.

  • @56cadd
    @56cadd2 жыл бұрын

    Once they're in ex mode, just go next mode !

  • @akasickform
    @akasickform Жыл бұрын

    1. Never reach out to an ex that got rid of you 2. If you got rid of them, you're wasting time by not trying to repair it, that very well might be why they aren't coming back to you in the first place, because you didn't try during the relationship 3. Messaging them first will only push them further away 4. When they contact you, you need to be good. Not tell them you are good. But actually be good. 5. Playing stupid games wins stupid prizes

  • @victorianike4497
    @victorianike44975 жыл бұрын

    One ex of mine returned after 5 years of no contact. He had left me for another woman with whom he spent several years. Now I have another ex but he is a long distance one, and left me for another woman who lives near his home. This time I'm hopeless as he is so far away...but you never know! The only thing I can say is that the first ex returned when I accepted we would never meet again ....and surprisingly he appeared madly in love

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    Great add! There are always outliers.

  • @terrelladams2905

    @terrelladams2905

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hell no

  • @elgitabeinarovica3005

    @elgitabeinarovica3005

    4 жыл бұрын

    It gives me hope :D it has been 5 years :D haha

  • @justaunpopulargirl8463

    @justaunpopulargirl8463

    4 жыл бұрын

    Stay away from both and never do long distance

  • @GoldenAngel-

    @GoldenAngel-

    4 жыл бұрын

    Victoria Nike Wow , You Wonderwoman

  • @jessemyalvanosgr6370
    @jessemyalvanosgr6370 Жыл бұрын

    I got my ex back after 23 years!!!!! Beautiful love story although it didn't last not even the second time

  • @stephb5169
    @stephb51695 жыл бұрын

    Is it normal for an ex to break up with you out of the blue when things are going well and you’ve been together for three years and in return they are rude to you? Now mind you, you’ve been like beat friends too.

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi Stephanie....I hear it all the time. Sometimes an ex can be impulsive and do and say foolish things. Though I agree that I see less of that in relationships of 3+ years. You should take a look at NC in the manner that I teach it in my Program.

  • @lemotheemonemo

    @lemotheemonemo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Chances are it's not out of the blue for them. People don't just wake up one day and decide to break up. There was probably a lot of stuff brewing inside of them that they weren't showing you.

  • @mudduck754

    @mudduck754

    3 жыл бұрын

    I didn't see it coming, things were good. Then she cheated on me with the 24-year-old kid in a motel room. We have children older than that.And instead of confronting me about it. She would rather destroy the whole relationship then have that conversation with me. I know what she did I'm not stupid. So well she is living in her car amongst the homeless and drug people I am moving forward with the plans that we had made previously in the year. Meeting new people, going different places to avoid her. And I have found a 50 year old little blonde that just loves the hell out of me she thinks I'm the greatest thing since sliced bread. I don't know if I would ever want the ex back

  • @pedrovega358
    @pedrovega3584 жыл бұрын

    My ex was engaged to somebody else. I still talked to her but somehow that ended and we got back together

  • @dt4654

    @dt4654

    4 жыл бұрын

    engaged...he was talking about when they go pass the engaged stage where they are married already.

  • @joebelinda3443

    @joebelinda3443

    4 жыл бұрын

    If u really want God to Bering ur ex back to u. I know of a very powerful man of God in African that can help u out if u really want

  • @krisjonagalinda2044

    @krisjonagalinda2044

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@dt4654 Hi

  • @12Kcalico

    @12Kcalico

    2 жыл бұрын

    Biggest.luck of all time 😂😂😂

  • @maggieharris7530
    @maggieharris753015 күн бұрын

    Don’t ever do it. It takes time to heal and you just reopen the wound. My ex broke up with me twice over same woman after he promised he wouldn’t the second time. In actuality, you just set yourself back. I consider his leaving a blessing. He didn’t deserve me. It’s the fool me once adage. Now to make myself happy. I am actually looking forward to it.

  • @atimdelight4505
    @atimdelight45053 жыл бұрын

    He left me the very day I was told he got someone else .I don't expect him back

  • @kevinvanhorsing5141
    @kevinvanhorsing51413 жыл бұрын

    To the point bro

  • @alexandermelchers1497
    @alexandermelchers1497 Жыл бұрын

    Just some comments on points #2 and #5: limerence, which may be involved when your ex gets into a new relationship/rebound can last on average for up to 2 years, rarely up to 3. Also, this peak time frame in which you can get your ex back is not only dependent on the individuals involved, but will also cycle, with there being a number of peaks. However, it is true that over time, the intensity of these peaks is said to drop off... There's just so much involved in emotionally that there isn't really a one-size-fits-all pattern...

  • @user-eo7zf8se8d
    @user-eo7zf8se8d9 ай бұрын

    hey i have a big question, about point N.2. how am I supposed to start a conversation during no contact?? and obviously most exes are not gonna sit down and casually chat with their ex specially right after a break-up so how am I suppose to use that sign to assess the situation?

  • @DonnaItt-sc6hx
    @DonnaItt-sc6hx4 жыл бұрын

    I accept that we wont be back together again,we been boyfriend and girlfriend for 13 years and we have a 1 child he is gonna be 7 years old soon, he was my First loved and my last ached.... i hope he will be happy and have someone better than me cos i am not a good girlfriend to him like am not perfect for him ...Cos i said bad word to him..i accept the depeat and realized that their is no forever!!! And he said he have a dream since he was 5 years old until now he did not achieved yet..

  • @marthamiller1319
    @marthamiller13195 жыл бұрын

    My ex blocked me, now what! I’m so heartbroken I could die!!!

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi Martha...time to execute your ex recovery plan

  • @marthamiller1319

    @marthamiller1319

    5 жыл бұрын

    Chris Seiter I need to know something, he actually didn’t block me , he just had his phone off! When he broke up with me, he said I was Harnessing him, and I realize now I was.so I asked him to block me several times but to this day he hasn’t, I hadn’t contacted him for months, but decided to call to see if he would answer, he didn’t but I’m still not blocked! If I had asked him to block me , what his reason for not doing it????

  • @joebelinda3443

    @joebelinda3443

    4 жыл бұрын

    If u really want God to Bering ur ex back to u. I know of a very powerful man of God in African that can help u out if u really want

  • @princessbeverlymubitelela7856

    @princessbeverlymubitelela7856

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joebelinda3443 I really want my ex back.. So help please

  • @Rahulsingh-uk6ov

    @Rahulsingh-uk6ov

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@joebelinda3443 how will he help me I'm in India where my gf told me she is not in love with me and even her family is not wanting me as I dont have a job right now

  • @jerryesque3747
    @jerryesque37472 жыл бұрын

    Why would anyone want there ex back???

  • @karmaisreal9094
    @karmaisreal90942 жыл бұрын

    He wanted an open relationship so I had no choice than to leave .. still hurt and have not heard from him now 7months

  • @Jeanninecomeau
    @Jeanninecomeau3 жыл бұрын

    Mine sent me a gift after about a month of no contact, but won't talk to me. Any advice would be great.

  • @dlforlife8230
    @dlforlife82304 жыл бұрын

    Leah Marshall Me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months it has been really rocky at first we were very angry and lots of hurtful things were said. However 4 months In things calmed down and we seemed like we were on the right track for a couple of months. However now things do not seem to be progressing at all and my ex is still holding onto the past I threw him out and he can’t seem to move on from this and let it go and is still angry with me. His been very hot and cold one minute he wants us to work the next he don’t. We have two children together too. I just don’t know what to do anymore

  • @angelliew194

    @angelliew194

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do u still want him back..if yes pls contact him...he can help u with your problem +2348118012326

  • @italian76boi
    @italian76boi2 жыл бұрын

    Me and my ex didn’t have a bad break up. She is seeing someone shortly after we broke up. Almost 2 months now. Hid it from me. She left all her clothes at the house until I found out about it, then brought everything to her moms.We exchanged words her and I lol. We still have open communication. But I’m in NC. She told her mom she thinks about getting back with me all the time, but the it’s not a good time for her because she’s trying to work out things for herself. (Her mom told me what she said) She’s not telling her mom about this guy, not posting on socials… nothing. No one really really knows we are broken up outside of people I know. She told me she never ruled us out getting back together. She says she never said there wasn’t a chance of us getting back and she doesn’t know what’s gonna happen in the future (see what she told her mom). It’s like she’s keeping the door open, like she knows where she wants to be, she’s just going thru her stuff so I’m just letting her go thru her process… I’m living my life… any suggestions?

  • @SouthernBelleReviews
    @SouthernBelleReviews5 жыл бұрын

    He hasn't dated or been with anyone (that I know of.....) . I haven't either. I mean we're still married. Sometimes we get conversations started that are very deep. Especially about regrets and our kids and sadness. We still argue alot. But we don't talk very often. He's always "busy." I'm very resentful about it. We never get sexual. Which I think bums me out more than anything. That would clear up so much shit for me and we might feel close again. But nope. No sex. We've been living apart (again...no surprise) for 8 months now. Going on 9. Lovely. But that's because of financial reasons too. He definitely does that one word answer shit. God that makes me feel completely devalued. Like I'm fucking nothing. I almost killed myself this weekend. I'm fucking sick of him making me feel like I'm completely worthless. Like I'm fuckin nothing. I've given birth to three of his kids. I fucking deserve respect.

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    After reading your comment about the difficulty you are experiencing, including possible suicidal thoughts, you should know that I am not a licensed counselor or psychiatrist and therefore I don't feel I am properly equipped to advise you. My best recommendation going forward is for you to speak to a counselor, therapist or a psychiatrist. Given your current circumstances, I believe those mental health professionals are better able to support you during this difficult time in your life. Your Health and Safety is paramount. You matter and are important to many people. If you are feeling depressed and/or suicidal, there is help for you. ​ The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is a 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service available to anyone in suicidal crisis. So if you are at risk for suicide, homicide or other harm or injury, please call 911 or seek other help (such as a hospital emergency room or doctor’s care) immediately. If you need help from the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, please dial: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) You will be routed to the closest possible crisis center in your area. With over 120 crisis centers across the country, their mission is to provide immediate assistance to anyone seeking mental health services. Call for yourself, or someone you care about. Your call is free and confidential. ​

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @teczdn

    @teczdn

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think marriage is totally different than relationship.

  • @reactiveiffi5053
    @reactiveiffi50535 жыл бұрын

    tell me , this signs also consider , when we are in LDR ? please reply

  • @Tortoiseshelll
    @Tortoiseshelll4 жыл бұрын

    On the topic of rebound relationships: what if your relationship only lasted 4-5 months?

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

    You shorted your no contact period

  • @nikkiraske6759
    @nikkiraske67593 жыл бұрын

    My ex is engaged but still contacts me. Do I have a chance at getting him back chris?

  • @teczdn
    @teczdn3 жыл бұрын

    After 2-3wks I think I gonna forget hell about him. I aksed him to be blocked. He did for 2hrs...then unlock...Before we no contact, he threatened multiple times on blocking me... but never...Cut off contract for a week then I called him early morning for the stock marketing chances. He didn’t pick the call but text back soon. Said you were doing so well. What’s up?....Do we hv chance to get back ? But why we hv to? I gonna date some new guys then decide

  • @erikagomes9379
    @erikagomes93793 жыл бұрын

    My ex told me he doesn’t talk to me because he knows that if we do, we’ll get back together. He hasn’t mentioned anything about the future though

  • @davidnill9058

    @davidnill9058

    3 жыл бұрын

    True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost. Do you need your ex back if yes I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without stress and delay

  • @davidnill9058

    @davidnill9058

    3 жыл бұрын

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    @davidnill9058

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @grxceselter7518

    @grxceselter7518

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @grxceselter7518

    @grxceselter7518

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack5 жыл бұрын

    I was the first to like. And the most ex obssessed. Even if i sleep with other girl, it is “against” my ex... wtf

  • @craigsmith4326
    @craigsmith4326 Жыл бұрын

    Who cars do they come back or not. Move on. Find someone who won’t leave you

  • @karllarson770
    @karllarson770 Жыл бұрын

    What if my ex breaks up with her new bf after a year?

  • @noellelohjiayu5500
    @noellelohjiayu55003 жыл бұрын

    I don't want to be hang up on my ex for 6 months. Honestly I don't expect myself to be here after 3 months. He moved on from me within 5 days of breaking up with me since July and now it's already September. He blocked me everywhere and won't talk to me since I kept blowing up his phone in the initial break up stage. So now I just don't really know what I am fishing for at all. I just hope I will move on before 2021 because I just cannot live like this missing him and be miserable while he has a gf and happy.

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    @grxceselter7518

    3 жыл бұрын

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    @grxceselter7518

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @grxceselter7518

    @grxceselter7518

    3 жыл бұрын

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    @grxceselter7518

    3 жыл бұрын

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    @grxceselter7518

    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @theborieotero6183
    @theborieotero61835 жыл бұрын

    Hello I watched your videos and I like what u are saying. Well I'm reaching out to you because I need help in getting my ex back. How can I do this. Right now she's really up set with me. Please I would like to hear from u.

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    What was the cause of the breakup? What have you done so far to get her back? You can also visit my site www.exgirlfriendrecovery.com for a comprehensive guide to getting her back if you prefer not to wait for answers. I have tons of free information on my site. :)

  • @theborieotero6183

    @theborieotero6183

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisseitercoaching well is a combination of everything. I was Flirting with her friend. I was being disrespectful with my mouth. She felt unappreciated.

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @dianethongboutsady7868
    @dianethongboutsady78684 жыл бұрын

    My ex left me 7 months ago I still massage him every day I want talk to him but he never reply at all. What should I do ???

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Diane, you should stop messaging your ex and go into a longer period of No Contact, where you leave them alone for 45 days, and read/ watch videos about the Holy Trinity

  • @OscarMartinez-lo9ec
    @OscarMartinez-lo9ec3 жыл бұрын

    Ive been in no contact for nearly 2 years and all ive gotten was a view from my ex on my profile that was it but i guess its for the best

  • @iammoot.9031

    @iammoot.9031

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@oliviawilliam6297 GET A PROPER JOB OLIVIA!

  • @adahsilvera8818
    @adahsilvera88184 жыл бұрын

    Hi Chris it's been 6 days since I broke up with my boyfriend, we broke up for the 3rd time,but he always used to text me after 2 days,but this time he didn't text me, yes he did, when I removed my WhatsApp dp he asked if I blocked him again but I didn't even see it, Because he wasn't asking me to come back or anything like he used to do before, he didn't contact me in a positive way after that, what should I do? Our relationship got over because he was ignoring me saying that relationship has become boring! Please reply!!!

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Mayaaa I would suggest that you do some work on your Holy Trinity and then from there let your ex see you are doing great without him. And this is going to make him want to know how you are etc

  • @joytracy505

    @joytracy505

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @joytracy505

    4 жыл бұрын

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    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @cindydavis4000
    @cindydavis40002 жыл бұрын

    Why will he not say he wants r don't want the relationship?

  • @raheemahraheemah4494
    @raheemahraheemah44944 жыл бұрын

    Let them go God is never wrong

  • @hereonlyculturally6334
    @hereonlyculturally63344 жыл бұрын

    I have understood I got no chance to get him back so I will not book a session with u as I have already lost,I wish u all the best of luck

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hope you find happiness Elisa, be sure to watch some videos about the Holy Trinity and how to be happy and the best version of yourself

  • @stephenechem1414

    @stephenechem1414

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @stephenechem1414

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @thelegionary07
    @thelegionary075 жыл бұрын

    So Chris.. I'm in month 8 of NC.. Are you suggesting I break NC, and test the waters with a text?

  • @Shabaka87

    @Shabaka87

    2 жыл бұрын

    Are yall back together? If someone can go 8 months without wanting to talk to you they don't give af about you at all.

  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack5 жыл бұрын

    9.00 its the climax of your oeuvre!

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @lilprettyboy13
    @lilprettyboy135 жыл бұрын

    It's been a week since my ex dumped me.ishe blocked as as soon it happened in social media and I immediately did No contact.now her friends are coming to me asking if I'm ever going to get her back and I always reply with a no.Should I try to get her or keep doing the no contact?

  • @ahmadbelhoul3679

    @ahmadbelhoul3679

    5 жыл бұрын

    Erik Guerrero if you can move on then I encourage you to do, if leaving is easy for her now then she most probably will leave later

  • @lemotheemonemo

    @lemotheemonemo

    5 жыл бұрын

    It depends on the circumstance of why she dumped you. Did she ever express concern that you didn't care about her and/or were neglecting her? And do you genuinely think she might be right and isn't trying to play a power trip on you? Then no contact is not your best strategy. All you've done is confirm her belief and helped her move on faster. If they have a low self-esteem, they might come back. But it'll never be a healthy situation. And there's no guarantee that she won't snap later on down the line when she hits her breaking point of feeling worthless/unappreciated. Did you give her too much attention and/or clingy? Did she need her space? Did she want to spend more time with friends than with you? Did she only want to talk about her problems and disregarded yours? Then yes, stay in no contact. She got complacent in the relationship and took you for granted. Cause her ego has her thinking you'll run back to her. But if/when she does chase after you take her back, keep in mind that she can go back to her old habits. So do you really want to take a risk on that?

  • @joebelinda3443

    @joebelinda3443

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @mandihall1986
    @mandihall19864 жыл бұрын

    I’m just letting you know my ex husband’s rebound/affair lasted longer than 6 months out of him feeling so guilty. His affair ended our 19 yr marriage and broke up our family and we have 4 children. Of course my ex is not dating her anymore. Now we have been seeing ea other since June. Now though he says he likes being alone and not answering to anyone. We are having sex though. What can I do to try to get him back with me and our family. I don’t want to make anymore mistakes and lose him for good. CAN YOU PLS HELP ME

  • @bonkeydollocks1879

    @bonkeydollocks1879

    4 жыл бұрын

    He is stringing you along, he doesn't want you apart from sex but does not want anybody else to have you, he should come back 100% or let go

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @ConceptHut

    @ConceptHut

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @mazelliit7204
    @mazelliit72044 жыл бұрын

    we broke up 4 months ago and he block me yesterday.. I found out that he is in relationship. he broke up with me because he doesn't have time.

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi Jhem, at times they find an excuse to justify the break up. It is possible that he had the grass is greener syndrome, if you want him back then you need to complete a 45 day NC and then follow the being there method

  • @mazelliit7204

    @mazelliit7204

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisseitercoaching I didn't contact him for 4 months....He told me on the break up that He doesnt want to prioritize love..I respect that and follow the nc for 4 months and then found out yesterdays that he is already in a relationship.

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    @joytracy505

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @joytracy505

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @purplebear445
    @purplebear4455 жыл бұрын

    Lol i did no contact then found out my ex moved on and now has no feelings for me. What a waste of time. All that no contact shit is total bullsh@

  • @missprincess06

    @missprincess06

    3 жыл бұрын

    It is :(

  • @BB-iy2mk

    @BB-iy2mk

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think no contact is stupid too. It is ok only if they did smth to make you upset...

  • @PricelessBinkey1337

    @PricelessBinkey1337

    3 жыл бұрын

    The point of no contact is to move on and focus on yourself for yourself. Granted i have not had a single ex come back, amd agree with you, but the whole point is to cushion the fall of the breakup so the sudden jerk from being in a relationship and happy to confused and single giving you whiplash. At the end of the day, you should always assume once its done, its done.

  • @prawingurung441

    @prawingurung441

    3 жыл бұрын

    No contact was for you mate ..if you have self developed yourself during that period that it is still a win

  • @purplebear445

    @purplebear445

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@prawingurung441 i posted this comment 2 years ago. Since then i have met someone new who is 100000000x better than my ex . Now i understand why he wasnt meant to be in my life. THANK YOU GOD 🙏

  • @timepassvideo4713
    @timepassvideo47133 жыл бұрын

    Y u guys want ex back? After a year u wont even remember their last name

  • @Fangbango
    @Fangbango4 жыл бұрын

    He went back to his ex wife, who divorced him 3 years prior to my meeting him in life. He went back to her, and his grown up kids in their 20s who live with her, after saying repeatedly, he'd never do that. He refuses to talk to me at all because he knows what he's done was so offensive, but doesn't care at all how that hurt me.

  • @davidnill9058

    @davidnill9058

    3 жыл бұрын

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    @davidnill9058

    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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    @grxceselter7518

    3 жыл бұрын

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    3 жыл бұрын

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  • @allisonbrown7037
    @allisonbrown70375 жыл бұрын

    Technically I don't know whether or not he's with somebody else but it's been 2 months since The Break-Up and he hasn't been replying to my messages or Facebook messages but once in awhile he will block me and then unblock me he actually did that within the same day

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi Allison....just keep your focus on your continued recovery and personal growth. If he is unresponsive, then you should consider employing No Contact to support your healing.

  • @allisonbrown7037

    @allisonbrown7037

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am seeing a counselor what does that got to do with helping Daniel get back in contact with me

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi Allison...helping yourself with counseling is so important in many ways. The future is always moving with possibilities and things may come back together with him or maybe not. But through it all, your emotional heal and personal growth is always most important as there are many paths for us all to travel and we need to do so in a healthy way.

  • @joebelinda3443

    @joebelinda3443

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @lanieknowles7084
    @lanieknowles70844 жыл бұрын

    What happens when the person who left you is a well known cheater and now has herpes simplex virus 1 and 2,and still sleeping around with that.

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

    Then I would suggest getting yourself checked get clean bill of health and stay away!

  • @lanieknowles7084

    @lanieknowles7084

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisseitercoaching I got checked for everything and I'm clean. However she's passing herpes around like it's Halloween candy...

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    @nailedit79752 жыл бұрын

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    @collettekingrodriguez4492

    8 ай бұрын

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  • @selinawise298
    @selinawise2984 жыл бұрын

    My ex left me after 33yrs wth no explanation? Finally he tells me it was for another woman? I believe its emotional distraction hes not emotionally in love anymore? How can i get him back

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

    Wow Selina, I am sorry, you need to work the being there method and the Ungettable girl information into your life so that your ex regrets letting you go

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @lisat5666
    @lisat56663 жыл бұрын

    How can your ex talk to you if you’re in no contact?

  • @patrickdolan8388

    @patrickdolan8388

    3 жыл бұрын

    texting or calling..IF the ex initiates the text first then it is still no contact because u didnt start the text.

  • @lisat5666

    @lisat5666

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@patrickdolan8388 I understand so why are these videos saying “no contact” but then they say “if you’re talking to your ex...”

  • @patrickdolan8388

    @patrickdolan8388

    3 жыл бұрын

    from what ive learned if they are talking to the ex its because the ex kept the texts going not the one who got dumped. Dont be rude to the ex during no contact because then the ex will stop trying to communicate then you have lost because the ex reaching out is what u want.

  • @LanaClarkLC
    @LanaClarkLC4 жыл бұрын

    When you say 8 months does that include you guys talking or just radio silence?

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

    Complete silence, when speaking if it is platonic then it doesnt go in your favor but if there has been some flirting then it is a positive

  • @emilypancake269
    @emilypancake2695 жыл бұрын

    I guess I have to give him up 4 good :( he has a girlfriend for a long time now and doesn't talk to me anymore I am so sad :( he even said he regrets ever dating me

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    How long ago did you breakup?

  • @emilypancake269

    @emilypancake269

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@chrisseitercoaching 3 months ago

  • @rizacas8664
    @rizacas86645 жыл бұрын

    But why he is still chasing after his marriage?

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    Great question, usually because he likes feeling wanted. Marriages can become more steady vs. exciting and he's looking to you to fill that void. Most times men will not leave their wives because they have so much invested in the marriage. They will loose money, kids, their lifestyle etc.

  • @joebelinda3443

    @joebelinda3443

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @abigail_hanna7115
    @abigail_hanna71155 жыл бұрын

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  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    Welcome

  • @momocyrine
    @momocyrine4 жыл бұрын

    Talking about men or women ?

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @jeshuaavila1620
    @jeshuaavila16205 жыл бұрын

    I do not know what to think about two weeks ago my ex broke up with me and during the break up acted nice. Post break up I accidentally sees me at school looks pissed and tries not to see me. Then the next week I see two of his friends while walking to my research job and they did not try to look at me. Like he did not I did something apocalyptically wrong to me under ice. I not tried to text him to ask him why because I assume he block me because he deleted me on all social media. A friend of him even deleted me from pokemon go :/ It bothers me they are acting this way because we are not in high school also hurts cause I do not have bad feelings to them or him but I am disappointed they are behaving this way like I thought we were friends and got along. It kinda triggers my anxiety to the point I am not comfortable at school and gonna tell my therapist eventually but want to know what people think of this behavior. Like for me it was a sudden flip and is concerning their behavior.

  • @cecilydunford9093
    @cecilydunford90934 жыл бұрын

    My ex boyfriend blocked me on Facebook but haven’t unblock me yet

  • @jerryjones2054

    @jerryjones2054

    4 жыл бұрын

    Do not attempt to contact him, you must wait it out and go no contact immediately!! Good luck !

  • @justaunpopulargirl8463

    @justaunpopulargirl8463

    4 жыл бұрын

    If he comes back block him never go back find someone better

  • @justaunpopulargirl8463

    @justaunpopulargirl8463

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@jerryjones2054 or not wait and enjoy your life without them

  • @leepop123
    @leepop1234 жыл бұрын

    I never had no exs come back sorry to say it exs never comes back they are one who dump u for whatever reason plus dumpers are selfish people and reason why is because they was never inlove with you if they was inlove they wouldn't walked out of your life....exs stay exs they never come back they always think in their back of their minds they can find some one else better than you! So move on for get them and stop caring.

  • @BuckRogers007

    @BuckRogers007

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wrong. Had an ex break up with me years ago and tried to come back 3 times afterwards. The last time was over a year later. That was only a 2.5 month relationship to begin with.

  • @marko5472
    @marko5472 Жыл бұрын

    I think you are giving very much false information about getting an ex back. Every relationship is different so you can't use graphs like that to present time when chances are best or worst to get an ex back.

  • @derrekz1552
    @derrekz15525 жыл бұрын

    Aye I need help bro

  • @chrisseitercoaching

    @chrisseitercoaching

    5 жыл бұрын

    What do you need help with? I'd be happy to help.

  • @derrekz1552

    @derrekz1552

    5 жыл бұрын

    Chris Seiter so I recently started talking to my ex, we had a nice conversation and stayed on the phone all night, she almost said “I love you” and I assumed that she somewhat wants to get with me, so after time she texts me like everyday but idk if like I’m going or heading to a direction where I’m gonna be friendzoned, she calls me and I don’t reply until I’m done with what I’m doing, then sometimes when I don’t reply to her she never replies back until I reply so last night she put on makeup and FaceTimed me, idk if she put make up for specifically me but anyways she hung up cause her aunt called her and she told me as well, so I just seen the screenshot of the pic of her being on the phone with her aunt and then since I didn’t text back at all after she sent me the screenshot and Idk if I should think that she just ignored me and went to a party or if she just is being stubborn and didn’t text back because I didn’t, it’s confusing and I just want my head to go into a direction I wanna go to instead of having mix paths so what’s your advice do you think her behavior is basically friend zoning me ? And if so should I just tell her and if being in a friend zone even a good idea

  • @joebelinda3443

    @joebelinda3443

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @mxg021
    @mxg0215 жыл бұрын

    So, my exes Mom passed away a year ago from breast cancer and I have always been there to support her with it especially on the day of the anniversary and on her Mom's birthday. We broke up a couple of days ago and she said she would think about us in the future and maybe we can work on things when I get home from college. We are currently in no contact, but we do have each other's number and social media. My main question is if it is a good idea to reach out on Sunday since it is her Mom's birthday. I don't want to reach out and it being the wrong thing or not reaching out and making a mistake by not being there for her like I had promised from the day her mother died. Also, any opinions on the possibility of us getting back together in the future? Thank you in advance

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @mxg021

    @mxg021

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oliver Mayer hi thank you but this happened a year ago & since then i learned she wasn’t for me or worth my time. things often come to light after time passes. but i am glad you were able to restore your relationship!

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    @olivermayer4904

    4 жыл бұрын

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  • @samadsiddiqui4444
    @samadsiddiqui44444 жыл бұрын

    I had was with a girl for 6 years In the middle of it I started another relationship. I told both of the everything last September I wanted to be with the second girl. But I kept going back to the first one didn’t sleep with her but I felt bad. Finally one night we hooked up and my second gf found out she blocked me on everything do I have a chance. I literally talked to this girl every day for 2 hours and we did so many things together she blocked me on everything i miss her so much and my first girl keeps reaching out but I ignore her.