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@Uwaroselyne.

4 жыл бұрын

Matthew Coast - Relationship Advice hy coast!if u are in relationship with a man is divorce with the first wife,he trust none,he don't want to talk to me when we together same time, what can u do?

@Poochipup

3 жыл бұрын

Yes I will rush to do so!🙄

@toddwichelhaus5295

2 жыл бұрын

@@Poochipup G0 away

1. Take full responsibility for your happiness 2. trust him 3. bring play, presence, and sexuality 4. allow yourself to be impacted by him 5. challenge him (by being the best version of yourself) YOU'RE WELCOME! :)

@ushathiyaga

5 жыл бұрын

thanks!

@anaacevedo2263

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊

@simmichopra8305

5 жыл бұрын

So kind of you dear really helpful these notes

@simmichopra8305

5 жыл бұрын

Appreciate ur effort

@simmichopra8305

5 жыл бұрын

Keep it up

“You have the power to hurt each other greatly or ascend together and heal each other” brilliant!

If a man pulls away, Push him more! If a man can’t give you a proper credit , just walk a way, why to bother? , Find someone who can give you the love and respect you deserve.

@everbrightesipieterson3702

5 жыл бұрын

True

@adelfalapiz2554

5 жыл бұрын

Haha exactly you have a point but when the heart truly in love it's a very big suck🤔 its so difficult 😁

@phindilematsebane7451

5 жыл бұрын

couldnt have put it better myself...👏

@joanofarcxxi

5 жыл бұрын

YES! :)

@maggiekohler9711

5 жыл бұрын

Don't look for anyone else to give you the love your deserve, you need to be that person for yourself in first place!

Trust must be earned....I trusted him until he betrayed with lies...

@ajasprings1273

5 жыл бұрын

How do we trust a guy that has lied multiple times before?

@Alena-xoxo

5 жыл бұрын

@@ajasprings1273 you don't.....you walk away at that point💋

@onlyme6662

5 жыл бұрын

Highly agreed tough when your married over 25 yrs.

@patrycjaw8323

5 жыл бұрын

@@ajasprings1273 you don't. You move on

@gurshannagra2489

4 жыл бұрын

@@onlyme6662 same here living with the lies 21 year

It’s sad that so many people think life revolves around manipulating another person. Life is a thousand times bigger than that.

I completely agree with all of these! I avoid women that put on the "save me" persona. A relationship isn't 50/50 it's 100/100. Bring your whole self to the table please!

@blessedapplez864

4 жыл бұрын

@véronique crabbé I couldn't have said it any better!👍

Be yourself and don’t worry about it too much, if there is a special bond and connection with someone and they both will get crazy and craving each other ...

Great stuff Clayton! Visit his channel and subscribe... kzread.info/dron/tKW9swe4-j596iCIh2_nrA.html

@claytonolsoncoaching

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Commitment Connection! Keep putting out quality content. Much respect to you as well.

@SunnivavinnuS

5 жыл бұрын

..What if hes proven guilty..

@user-bh6ty6br9m

5 жыл бұрын

Commitment Connection - Relationship Advice

@0315RN

5 жыл бұрын

But my boyfriend~ I trust him but he dont trust me, he sometimes being paranoid and make unreal things real and make me cry all time., like for example: when he go to party and drink some alcohol~ Its totally okay with me.,but also at the same time i also got out from work., so im kinda tired~ After i ate dinner i just told him that i got home~ After that i immediately go to my bed., and unconsciously im asleep in just seconds., THE next day~ He just doesnt talk to me., i was just soo worried., and then before the day end., he told me "You are actually mad/angry with me coz i hang out with my friends" ~ I told him that I slept straight i mean., maybe because im also tired but im not angry., but he still insist that i am what he is thinking., we fought., and he doesnt want to believe me., he said he doesnt want us fighting., so the best idea he can get is just for US TO JUST BREAK UP! ~ I hate it when he say it like there is REALLY NO OTHER WAY... i dont know how to handle him anymore.,

Love the way Clayton analyzes and presents his advice. He goes many steps further than other KZread counselors and very genuine. I always gain something from each of his videos.

You stand out is so different from the rest. I love your delivery your firm conviction. Your explanations are right on and so beneficial This one brought me to tears. In the long distance relationship and everything you have talked about is exactly what I’m going through in my relationship. Thank you so much Clayton

This is pretty spot on. They didn’t say don’t let a man make you happier, simply don’t depend on him for your entire happiness. Trust is EVERYTHING! And yes allowing him to impact you, huge! Give them credit where is due. Think about things you admire about him, independent of you. Men need to play (not screw around or cheat) and they need space to do that. And yes, sex is important. And give him trust until he proves otherwise. Sound advice!

I just want to thank you! This video makes me think back at a past relationship and BAM! Even though that is in the past! I'm just hoping another woman sees this and takes you up on learning from this!

Great video. Learned it before but always good reminder ! Thanks

This person is amazing ! Thank you so much for all your knowledge, loved the video!!

Clayton ....THANK You as below...😊 KEEP up the excellent empowering work you do! Appreciate you! 😊

All of Clayton’s videos are amazing!

@claytonolsoncoaching

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Helena. :)

@awoman6204

5 жыл бұрын

Yes AMAZING video, thank u!! Have you two done any videos together? Would love to see if you have!

To all lady you meet man who already have his own circle ⭕️ and refused to understand that you are the first in his life father god just just work away and live him in his mess life

Clayton... you nailed it! FANTASTIC!

Insightful, intelligent advice. It makes sense and I enjoy how you convey your guidance. I like how you draw meaning from your own experiences. (You have said this in other videos) Thank you

Really needed to hear this. Thank you!!

I've watched 100s of videos on this subject including some of yours, Clayton but I have to say, this one is on the top 👌 Enough for me to comment. Bravo! And thank you!

Great Clayton, really wonderful to hear from a Man how a aMan THINKS AND WANTS from a Woman....YOU make us really know about a Man's thoughts as regards their qualities in the woman he wants, especially when one never grew up with a Male Role Model! THANK YOU....far better than hearing from a Woman reading from what the Man has written down and not hearing his authenticity as he speaks as the "expert in his subject if being a Male and advising us! SUPER...beautifully presented!❤👍

Woww amazing..love your videos Clayton...thanjs for sharing its very useful... And interesting

Great unity of channels!!! Already follow you both! Explosion of wisdom

I like rule-1 the best..FIND HAPPINESS IN YOURSELF!!!

Great content. I will use these tips to help grow my relationship with this man who I truly adore. Thanks!

Awesome info...I’ve pretty much been doing some of these things already,but will take the rest into consideration...Thanks

Wow! the "work environment" analogy was an eye-opener!

What a load of absolute crap, it's teamwork, should not be up to one person. Let's just give the man a pacifier and put a nappy on him.

@angelakilpatrick6055

5 жыл бұрын

Well said!

Also you dont automaticaly trust anybody, trust needs to be earned !!!!!

Best advice. Thank you very much.

Sounds like a lot of games to me, if a man cannot accept the beauty in you then he is not for you, do not change your unique self for any man. If you cannot rely on your man to support you in difficult times, he doesn't care. If you want real love, be love, if you want respect, don't play games. The End.

By the time i do all this i will be too exhausted to date him. Why bother.....it appears that the woman is working so hard....ladies be yourself and trust your gut feeling...it will never fail you..no time for games....when a man loves you he will move mountains and love EVERYTHING about you the negative and positive....am there now...no women got time to play peek or boo games with a man OR put an acting show for him..

@laylacooper861

5 жыл бұрын

Janet Rivera thank you the mind games are childish ✌🏽👌🏽😊

@edyacheraii4279

5 жыл бұрын

Janet Rivera depends on who broke off the relationship if you broke up with him basically you got to kiss his ass and apologize for making a huge mistake

@angelakilpatrick6055

5 жыл бұрын

@@edyacheraii4279 that's ridiculous. He needs to make his ass worthy. Both parties need to. Not just the woman. Not just the man. Both

@jaclynvazquez6155

4 жыл бұрын

lol well said

@teenash6823

4 жыл бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾⭐⭐⭐⭐

This is so GOOD!! I’ve been doing these with the guy I’ve been dating naturally and it’s been the most wonderful relationship I’ve ever experienced!

@almaalatorre5963

4 жыл бұрын

You must be in lalaland. Get a grip.

Thank you for this powerful truth and insights. Amazing.

Love is not a game. Love is a gift. A gift from God!

@baljitgrewal2956

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely

Thank you for sharing these secrets!

Aww! Clayton I love you so much.. U r so adorable ur advice is always up to the point. I mean how can someone be so smart and helpful.. 😘😘

Love this knowledge!!!🧡my man said to me...only two things he want from me....TRUST and UNDERSTANDING...not all women can give man trust and understanding...only woman who truly love the man will give this gifts to a man

@MideaMusic

5 жыл бұрын

Yep, trust and understanding...and let's see how soon you'll become a convenient woman whom he'll get bored with at some point.

Great video. Thank you ❤

This has been the best, most useful video I have heard. God bless you.

Exactly what I needed. Thank you.

Those pictures behind him are beautiful!

spot on authentic advice

Great stuff!!! Good points! Thank you!!

You are really good at what you say and are so right. God bless you always.

Clayton exudes authenticity...❤️

Clayton. Well said. Many thanks

It's awesome. Thanks Clayton

This was a fantastic video! I needed to hear this thank you!!

Thank you so much for the amazing advice ♥️🌻

This is one of the best videos on the entire internet! 💗

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you!

Best Video I have ever heard!! Thank you sooo muuuch 💗

It takes men of the hook from being the hunters. They can't any more because rules like these have caused men to become lazy and complacent. Then, women wonder why, after she has tied herself up into a pretzel doing this that and another to attract and hold him, why they get treated like yesterday's garbage.If a man doesn't miss you and see the beauty in who you are, move on without jumping through all these hoops. Over the years, gradually the roles are being reversed to the point where women are so accepting of men who have so many other choices (and women realize that) that if they don't talk, act or do things the man can just swipe her off. As a mature woman, I never have to chase men and have no shortage of male attention because they know I am femininely genuine and honest. I love and adore men and that shines through so that they know it and I'm not in a perpetual state of trying to do, be or act the way any man might want or find attractive. If you want to stand out, stand up and just be yourself without preconditions or preconceptions of what will be. God gave all of us woman an innate beauty that is all our own and the right man will see it and be gravitated to it naturally so that he will do whatever necessary to be with you. Take care and God bless you in your single state. ❤️

@claytonolsoncoaching

5 жыл бұрын

Hi Robin, thanks for the detail in your response. I can tell that you really value equality and authenticity in your relationships. Those are great qualities and I respect that you are a stand for those. I'm curious though, what specifically did you hear me say that is in opposition to what you're expressing? The intent of the video is definitely not to let men off the hook, however, because women are the primary audience in this video, it is intended to help women shift what they have control over in themselves, which is their perspective. The video is an invitation for women to be more genuine, to be more of themselves and in many ways, to take their power back so they can be the vibrant attractive woman that has men want them. In essence, and to your point, embodying these qualities inspires a man to be more of a hunter and pursue. I speak from personal experience as a man. I feel you can relate given this is an area you seem to have success in. Anyway, watch the video again through this new lens and perhaps you'll hear it differently. If not, some specific feedback where you disagree is welcomed.

@Rainwater1313

5 жыл бұрын

Bravo !

@HisMiraclesHappening

5 жыл бұрын

God warned me 8 months before my ex husband cheated on me. He showed me what she looked like, what car she drove and that she had a son. It was all true. I told him about the dream, he told me I was crazy. I was only crazy because the affair started 6 months later. He cleaned out our bank account $30,000, runnier my credit, the stress of him not coming home at night, caused me to miscarry our baby. When he asked me for a divorce on our anniversary, he said it was because I miscarried. He said he would have stay married if the baby had lived. BS!! I was a stepford wife. I was stupid. Lesson learned. I didn’t make that mistake with my second husband. We have 2 children, passion, and it’s ten years later. I love him completely. God makes marriages stronger

@joolspools777

5 жыл бұрын

@@HisMiraclesHappening Sounds as if your first husband is a narcissist

@carlaspahr6886

5 жыл бұрын

Amen Sister! My sentiments EXACTLY! I started watching this and started to realize that this is more work than need be. I feel this is grooming the man to be selfish and completely irresponsible for his own behavior and actions. No thanks.

Awesome. Thanks

But, what does he do for the female???? Tired, of trying to please him, when he is in love with a women who won't give him the right time of the day...IMO

Loved loved this video!! Such great advises !!

@MatthewCoast

11 ай бұрын

So glad!

Powerful teamwork;highly appreciated.

Hi I like this... Thank for that insights. Amazing!

SO glad this showed up again today!!!!! TYSM, I needed this refresher!

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

I just love every words u said, thanks man

To be honest enough,I saw and feel the real truth of amazing love words,that any real man or woman,may love to give his or her love one for love captivity.

Our happiness cannot be contingent on a man’s approval, attention or pursuit of us! Women- get busy loving your life! Dive into passionate pursuits ! And enjoy your beautiful self daily! Jesus loves you! Give him your energy! And you will meet the right man one day. 💗

@rose4u2

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely sister! Jesus loves us and is at the door knocking to come in to our lives an heart, and he loves us no matter what. His love is forever till the end of time evermore! ❤

You are amazing! Diving very deep , some are only teaching manipulative tactics that work maybe for few months because lack of depth !

He got the baby eyes. Crystal clear.

What ever you explained was amazing.....really needed at this time....i am happy that i heard you....love you...thanks 💖🥰

I gave him my 100% trust from the beginning of our relationship. He failed me, I caught him flirting and chatting with another woman. I was hurt but since I love him so much one sorry from him it becomes okay then. I trust him again believing that he will not do it again. We're planning to get married this year but he left me without any single reason. And I was left alone hanging. But God is really good I have a very supportive family and friends who I leaned on during the difficult times of my life. Now, I am moving on. 💪💪

I will do this to a Charming Prince only. Not losers and immature men. Oh dear.. !!!

Unbelievably wrong! Trust is earned!

@peterchou5161

5 жыл бұрын

@Stacie BINGO!! It takes a lot of efforts to earn one's trust but takes very little to throw it all away. If that person wants to earn someone's trust the second time around, it'll take 3 times the first effort. Some time you don't get a second chance to earn that person's trust again.

@Alphacentauri819

4 жыл бұрын

Jane Doe yeah, but what if you enter a relationship and the guy immediately questions everything you are doing, doesn’t believe you, checks on you all the time? You won’t do well, you won’t feel good and ok... same if what you do for a guy. Learn to be discerning and pick good partners, and also don’t tolerate bad behavior if it comes up. :)

Thank you so much..indeed very informative and helpful..감사합니다.

You are truly a blessing,thank you for helping.

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

We're glad it helped! You're welcome!

Love the heart pendant of this handsome ♡

Absolutely worth listening, thank you for sharing your valuable thoughts.

I disagree. If a man thinks that your happiness is something that he should not be responsible for, why bother to be with him? Come on you guys! A real man who is capable of loving you will always find ways to bring joy and happiness into your life!! I understand that a woman who is independent and sexy and witty and playful is definitely attractive, but a woman as such does not need a player. And if a man thinks that she should be happy without him so that she will not burden him with her presence and leave him space to be with third parties, this toxic piece of junk has no place in her life!

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

If a man is responsible for your happiness then your happiness will fluctuate based on how the man acts around you. This will not only make your life chaotic but it will make it draining for him to constantly have to do things to try to make you happy. It's a lot more attractive to him when it's easy for him to make you happy because you're already happy because you don't rely on him for your happiness. The only way that happens is if you take responsibility for your own happiness.

@i.tbloomfield3703

5 жыл бұрын

@Commitment Connection - Relationship Advice I am afraid that I see things from a different perspective What you should be saying to girls and women is that they do not need anyone's validation to be happy because happiness and joy come from within us. It is appreciation for what we have and all that we are which can get us far Self confidence, self esteem, self love! And for that matter, if a girl or a woman decides to start something with a man, she should remain in this energy of self love and self confidence. But what about the man who is in this relationship with her? Unless the need to offer her love, joy and happiness flows naturally in him and he either disappears, or finds excuses not to see her or acts in a selfish manner, which depicts a man with narcissistic traits, SHE SHOULD IMMEDIATELY GIVE HIM THE SACK by refusing to play his game. Healthy relationships involve reciprocating and a man who cannot reciprocate equally in a relationship is not worth a woman's attention and time. To conclude, as far as I am concerned, dearest ones, unless a man is determined to put effort and energy in a relationship in order to offer the cup of happiness and companionship to a woman, unless this need flows naturally in him constantly, I regret to tell all of you that he has no place in her life.

@margaretkoopman9154

5 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree! I'd rather see your future video on this subject, than his! 😂

@Jo0334

5 жыл бұрын

@@margaretkoopman9154 love some of these comments. Makes me facepalm 😝😳

@beautylee4344

5 жыл бұрын

Dragon

Absolutely love this!! So true!!!

@NatalliaVPhotography

4 жыл бұрын

Step 3!!! Wow!! so good!!

Always about the man and more we have to do to please them but the moment we are weak and aren’t 100% because life isn’t perfect and we can’t be the rock all the time he needs to be able to step up too. So learned they don’t have much going on up there in there head

Wow...this is AWESOME

I think 2 happy people equals happy couple. If you have one negative person it’s draining I usually trust someone till they give me a reason. I told that to the guy I’m talking to and he has opened up to me a lot and in turn I feel more comfortable. So we there is open communication. I tell him let’s talk about anything and I ask him how he feels about different things and I like to show him that I’m willing to listen. I think it’s working, he says he misses me and he can’t wait to go out again.

Brilliant video !

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

Many thanks!

This is very insightful and so true. Just wow and thank you.

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

Blessed day watching from Japan

I enjoy nice tips Sir thank you so much.God Bless You

Wow! That was powerful

Very insightful, very deep. It could really change my love life. Thanks a million.

Extremely brilliant..nvr heard b4..awesome..absolutely resonate !!! Stay blessed

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

So glad that it resonated with you!

Love your advice and the way you put advice as from the heart and soul you are dedicated to your subject from a man's feelings! I subscribe to your Channel and am very impressed and helped! Thank You for your "side's that we need to know that only you as a male can help us as only you know your feelings!!! Thank you again ....VERY helpful indeed! Have a Super Day! 😊

God be the center of our relationship..

Wow this was amazing! Thank you!

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

U r amazing clayton.....🤗

You hit every nail on the head. Great advice. Women better take your advice. Men don't want to fix broken women, just like women don't want to fix broken men, when you come to the situation complete your less dependant on the other to fix your imperfections, because you fill your cup with or without them. 😁

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

Yes!

Thankyou very much...much appreciated 🌼🌼🌸🌸❤️❤️😊😊🌹🌹🌺🌺🙏🏼🙏🏼

Great video im so grateful this is just so perfect timing on my situation so helpful...

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

This is great! We're glad the timing was perfect for you!

This guy is great !!! And so true !!!!!

Awesome info

Wow this is awesome advice 👏🏽

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Oh.. These are goooood 👍🏾

Absolutely brilliant 😎

I literally loved your video .......though I'm not in a relationship but I keep watching new different videos to increase my bag of knowledge . And I feel happy that I chose to watch this video of yours . Thanks for sharing this with us

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Harshita! Here's to your future relationships!

Awesome bro ...Soo Crisp and full of clarity covered.. alot most important in such a short time excellent