5 Red Flags You're With the Wrong Person

Even though your relationship started off great, you’re beginning to realize your beliefs don’t line up. What do you do? How do spot red flags in relationships? How do you know if you’re dating the wrong person? We’re talking about it all in this message.
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Statistically Speaking… - 00:00
Be Wise - 01:07
Two Contrasting Types of People in Proverbs - 01:47
This Might Feel Extreme - 03:50
Red Flag #1 - 04:40
God Is Limiting My Options - 08:32
Having Unequal Values - 09:07
Red Flag #2 - 11:37
Counsel of a Friend - 12:59
Red Flag #3 - 14:42
Healthy vs Unhealthy Couples - 15:03
Be Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak - 18:03
Red Flag #4 - 19:00
When You Can’t Trust Them - 19:40
You Might be The Red Flag - 20:20
Red Flag #5 - 21:24
Temptation While Dating - 22:42
Encouragement to Make a Change - 27:01
Green Flags - 29:02
I Want to Honor Jesus - 31:39
Feeling Unworthy? - 34:03
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  • @life.church
    @life.church11 ай бұрын

    What do you value and appreciate in your friendships and relationships?

  • @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh

    @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh

    11 ай бұрын

    If they don’t put God before me and themself. That is a big red flag - if they make God a priority and then put all worry and love into god, then that is the best Green Flag ever

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@AllGloryToTheOneMostHighabsolutely!🟣🟣🟣🟣

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    A little compromise, but so many couples are lacking it!🍌🍌🍉🍉

  • @marilynmusgrove2588

    @marilynmusgrove2588

    11 ай бұрын

    Amen!!! Great message Pastor Craig God Bless you

  • @slackerharrelson3559

    @slackerharrelson3559

    11 ай бұрын

    Trust

  • @Jake-hn6yt
    @Jake-hn6yt11 ай бұрын

    1. They don’t consistently pursue Jesus. Not a committed follower of Jesus. 2. When those you love, don’t love who you’re dating. 3. When you don’t face healthy conflict. 4. When you find it difficult to trust the one you love. 5. When the person you’re dating is leading you away from Jesus.

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    Why are they doing this?!🤷🤷🤷🤷

  • @donnahampton3632

    @donnahampton3632

    10 ай бұрын

    Thank you for taking the time to write out this outline for the rest of us!

  • @billashby7858
    @billashby785811 ай бұрын

    Pastor Craig is correct, when I was in college I dated a girl who was a lot of "fun," but my friends and parents did not care for her. I knew in the back of my head that she was not morally good for me, fortunately for me she broke up with me, and a few years later I married a woman that became my best friend!

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    I love that story Bill Ashby, This is encouraging and gives good feelings knowing you are blessed. Thank you, for sharing -Team LC Ronnie

  • @brandichampagne5748
    @brandichampagne574811 ай бұрын

    Quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry! 🙌🏻

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    Good point...period!⚫⚫🤯🤯

  • @jesussavesrick
    @jesussavesrick11 ай бұрын

    I listened to this, in order to weigh myself. To see if I was worthy of someone dating me. Great message! 🙏

  • @sidekickster8917

    @sidekickster8917

    10 ай бұрын

    @jesussavesrick Great idea! Hopefully you're ready

  • @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh
    @AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh11 ай бұрын

    Man these teachings are always seem to be exactly what I’m going through 😭

  • @richardgray23

    @richardgray23

    11 ай бұрын

    Same Brother😅

  • @misstmf

    @misstmf

    10 ай бұрын

    Same here

  • @sidekickster8917

    @sidekickster8917

    10 ай бұрын

    God's timing is perfect!

  • @chay516

    @chay516

    11 күн бұрын

    SAME! Isn’t God amazing!

  • @bobiah2578
    @bobiah257811 ай бұрын

    I want to be closer to Jesus in all my relationships and all things in Jesus Name!

  • @Progamerjay100
    @Progamerjay10011 ай бұрын

    This was such a good sermon.

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    Wow...period!🎀🎀🎀🎀

  • @itzcruzii

    @itzcruzii

    11 ай бұрын

    amen

  • @mtbiker841
    @mtbiker84111 ай бұрын

    Great relationship advice! Should be taught in Jr high and high school!

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    But how? Teens are struggling!🛀🛀🛀

  • @sidekickster8917

    @sidekickster8917

    10 ай бұрын

    @@melaniemartin730 As a person that's been a youth Leader for decades, that's EXACTLY WHY it should be taught in Mid hi/ High School. I actually was thinking about how I COULD teach this to my current youth group

  • @sidekickster8917

    @sidekickster8917

    10 ай бұрын

    @mtbiker841 YES TRUE! (see other comment)

  • @aliceswarts3684
    @aliceswarts368410 ай бұрын

    I'm so glad I found this sermon. I had to break up with someone because of the last red flag. Thank you, I needed the reminder. It's not easy to shut someone out of my life, when in the beginning, I believe it was meant to be. In the end, the Holy Spirit was telling me to get out. I hope someday the reason is revealed to me. My heart is still broken, but I believe it will be healed. All in His timing. God bless! 🙏

  • @aaronperry9836
    @aaronperry983611 ай бұрын

    I missed all the red flags , and now I regret it ….

  • @elizabethssandor
    @elizabethssandor11 ай бұрын

    Amazing sermon! Thank you! 🙏🏻

  • @richardgray23
    @richardgray2311 ай бұрын

    Definitely not what everyone wants to hear but definitely what we need to hear, wish I would of known this before my first marriage, this is definitely the biggest eye opener I've seen in the last couple months🙏🙏🙏 God Bless thank you Life Church❤️

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤️😊

  • @Dxnwashere
    @Dxnwashere10 ай бұрын

    This is a great message, thanks Pastor Craig!

  • @user-lr1ut4kc7l
    @user-lr1ut4kc7l2 ай бұрын

    I want to be closer to Jesus Help me to honor you 💖 Help me in my relationship & put Jesus 1st

  • @marilynmusgrove2588
    @marilynmusgrove258811 ай бұрын

    Goodmorning Pastor Craig and the entire life Church Family watching from Bahamas, Blessings 🙏❤

  • @rociocartes
    @rociocartes11 ай бұрын

    I’ve had friends date unbelievers who come to Jesus BECAUSE of them. So, there are upsides, and the Bible does mention marriages with unbelievers. - I understand that is a harder path, but is possible if your partner is open to it. And it’s so beautiful to see them come to God. (An example of someone well known is Lee Strobel, who was an atheist and his wife was a Christian). Obviously this is something you have to pray about, and really listen to what God wants for you. I definitely think red flag 5 is the most important one to look out for, so I agree that if someone pulls you away from God then you need to break up with them.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes it does happen, but as Christians we are called to be equally yoke so we avoid the hardships that can come with dating an unbeliever. The Bible says in Amos, "How can two walk in one accord if they do not agree." Waiting on what God has for you is so key. God Bless you! Myriam - LC Social Media Team

  • @destiniharrington3973
    @destiniharrington397310 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this message.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    10 ай бұрын

    💛

  • @heidirobinson3352
    @heidirobinson335211 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this video.

  • @IfiokBassey-wz2fs
    @IfiokBassey-wz2fs11 ай бұрын

    Pastor you're massages brings people closer to God. Keep it up God bless you.

  • @user-lr1ut4kc7l
    @user-lr1ut4kc7l2 ай бұрын

    I'm Soo glad draws near to me Thank you Jesus

  • @Yankee4ever2
    @Yankee4ever211 ай бұрын

    This is absolutely amazin advice, thanks you Craig, God bless you

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    🙏🏼❤️

  • @maryidoko2492
    @maryidoko24929 ай бұрын

    This sermon gave me clarity that I had been looking for. I advise you to listen with an open mind. Especially if you're in a relationship or about to be in one

  • @achengracejane558
    @achengracejane558Ай бұрын

    I neglected the red flag, 20 yrs later my life is full of regret, however, I have separated from the abusive marriage and totally found complete peace in the Lord God almighty, thank you Pastor

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    Ай бұрын

    Amen! 🙌🙏

  • @ahl8229
    @ahl822910 ай бұрын

    Amen!! So good❤️‍🔥🙌🏻

  • @servantofthelord8147
    @servantofthelord814711 ай бұрын

    This is raising my standard. Wow.

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l11 ай бұрын

    I always seek you first.

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l9 ай бұрын

    Yes! I have, as long as I can remember. But I have reaffirmed my Baptism!

  • @user-lr1ut4kc7l
    @user-lr1ut4kc7l2 ай бұрын

    Thank you for forgiving me & my sinful ness

  • @sarahwheatley1734
    @sarahwheatley17343 ай бұрын

    amen to that I love this message about relationships

  • @marianlyngdoh9256
    @marianlyngdoh92569 ай бұрын

    I love to be wise, And I hate stupidity

  • @vladislavvolkov4537
    @vladislavvolkov453711 ай бұрын

    So good

  • @dkl1562
    @dkl156211 ай бұрын

    Great advice

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    Hello DKL, glad you got something from this message- Team LC Ronnie

  • @kati_katracha7070
    @kati_katracha707010 ай бұрын

    Yes, Lord! Take me! I want you and NEED you to take my life in your hands! Guide me, in Jesus'name! AMEN!!

  • @cyruscembrano3550
    @cyruscembrano355011 ай бұрын

    Quick to listen

  • @1018Stacey
    @1018StaceyАй бұрын

    Wow, this is a very helpful topic and very comical too! 😮 - This really made me think about my failed marriage to Dave that's leading to dreadful divorce!

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l9 ай бұрын

    I have been drink once before. It just made me tired and out of control. So I got home safe and went tosleep by myself. Never did it again.

  • @brooksouth3975
    @brooksouth397511 ай бұрын

    Sheeewwww time to sober up…..hit me to my core….hallelujah

  • @Peterbehera91
    @Peterbehera9111 ай бұрын

    I give my life to you Jesus ❤

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, Peter! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Mika

  • @marianlyngdoh9256
    @marianlyngdoh92569 ай бұрын

    I'm not ignoring,the signs

  • @user-lr1ut4kc7l
    @user-lr1ut4kc7l2 ай бұрын

    Quick to speak & slow to anger

  • @Ivylove7
    @Ivylove78 ай бұрын

    having a marriage with the wrong person IS very painful to go through, especially when kids are involved. This message is very good and important for everyone. I found this message useful for friendships as well.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    8 ай бұрын

    💯 Amen!

  • @valerieescabi6104
    @valerieescabi610410 ай бұрын

    Shalom 🙏🏻💖 peace

  • @clouwho7675
    @clouwho767510 ай бұрын

    Yes Pay VERY CLOSE attention to those RED FLAGS!!! OR SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCE.😢

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l11 ай бұрын

    Yes!

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm2456811 ай бұрын

    This message will help alot of dating people out there.

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    But how🧏🧏💆

  • @malcolm24568

    @malcolm24568

    11 ай бұрын

    @@melaniemartin730 help them to identify red flags within their relationships or what to look out for when they start to date.

  • @lonlonlove
    @lonlonlove11 ай бұрын

    I'm giving my life to Jesus

  • @izmaryia
    @izmaryia7 ай бұрын

    I want to be closer to Jesus in all areas of my life. Ready me for all that you have waiting for me. In your mighty name Amen.

  • @user-qp3op9fx2r
    @user-qp3op9fx2r7 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l9 ай бұрын

    I want to always be more closer to Jesus more. Every Day and include God also.

  • @SECURITY21
    @SECURITY2110 ай бұрын

    Be closer to Jesus

  • @wilfredmotosue2615
    @wilfredmotosue261511 ай бұрын

    Some people have common sense and others don't have common sense. You don't have to ask if he's a Christian, you will see by what says and by his actions.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    I've met Christians who are doing God's work, but still have not a lick of common sense. God can still use them and loves them the same ❤️ -Kat

  • @kenji2342
    @kenji234211 ай бұрын

    Please pray for me and my girlfriend, I think we got 2-3 red flags. She's not a genuine christian, though she is interested in it. Please pray for her salvation, even if we won't work out; please pray that she will love Jesus.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    Lord, We know the paths You have for us are amazing and so much better than our own. Please guide and strengthen Kenji for his faith in You and help his girlfriend to see Your love through Kenji so she can see You and committee to following You whether it is with Kenji or not. Allow Your Spirit to work in both of them and let them be able to grow in You in Jesus' name Amen. Laura

  • @megossavino4190
    @megossavino419010 ай бұрын

    IM GIVING MY LIFE TO JESUS

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    10 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, megos Savino! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

  • @dd-ph9fv
    @dd-ph9fv11 ай бұрын

    Words to live by. Thats how i fell in love with my wife. All she spoke about was jesus. I knew right then she was the one!!

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤️🙌

  • @aceliu5997
    @aceliu599711 ай бұрын

    I wish I watched this long time ago.

  • @navsidhu7294
    @navsidhu72946 ай бұрын

    I’m giving my life to Jesus

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    6 ай бұрын

    Praise the Lord! Would you like next steps?

  • @Yankee4ever2
    @Yankee4ever211 ай бұрын

    Giving my life to Jesus baby !

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, Yankee4ever2! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

  • @luzdelacruz5081
    @luzdelacruz508110 ай бұрын

    ❤ Amén!

  • @ieshad.6201
    @ieshad.620111 ай бұрын

    I want a God honoring Relationships! Family, friends, my spouse, career, life

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l11 ай бұрын

    I have been drink before. Then I fall asleep. I had TBI so I can't drink. I didn't like it . I didn't like feeling out of control.

  • @blossomyusuf9935
    @blossomyusuf99353 ай бұрын

    I want to be closer to Jesus

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    3 ай бұрын

    Father, we lift up this guest. We pray that they will experience Your presence in a new way today. Help set their heart upon You and Your Word! May You guide their path towards You, Lord, while deepening their relationship with You. Fill their mind with Your thoughts and ways, and provide community that strengthens their resolve towards You. Renew their mind and fill them with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment to grant understanding of Your nature and character. In Jesus’ name, Amen

  • @malcolm24568
    @malcolm2456811 ай бұрын

    PRAISE YHWY, PRAISE HIS HOLY NAME, AMEN 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    Meanwhile at the movies, we saw snippets from "father stu." (It's because of copyright laws!) 🎁🎀🎁🎀🎁🎀

  • @Marcie-dd2ul
    @Marcie-dd2ul10 ай бұрын

    I give my life to jesus

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    10 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, Brushstroke and beyond! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church - Laura

  • @viralhabesha4151
    @viralhabesha415111 ай бұрын

    ❤❤one day I will teach on this stage amen 🙏

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    What were the scriptures?🉑♨️🉑♨️🉑♨️

  • @slingingshot15
    @slingingshot159 ай бұрын

    Nice sermon. Do you have any sermons similar to this that are aimed at singles who want to have a relationship?

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    9 ай бұрын

    God’s here for you, and so are we. If you’re interested in wisdom or encouragement on how you can grow closer to God and find meaningful relationships while single, this is a great place to start: finds.life.church/tag/single/ -Team LC Ronnie

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    9 ай бұрын

    Yes! We have numerous messages. Here are a couple: www.life.church/media/save-the-date/3-qualities-you-need-before-marriage/ and www.life.church/media/save-the-date/5-signs-youre-dating-the-wrong-person/ both from a series of messages last year. You can also search here: www.life.church/media/messages/ Thanks for reaching out! -- Jenni

  • @americantojo3367
    @americantojo336711 ай бұрын

    I am quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.

  • @diverseten8392
    @diverseten839211 ай бұрын

    I am currently learning how to not be a red flag

  • @annmburu1063
    @annmburu106311 ай бұрын

    This just came at the right time. I went on a date two days ago and after that I had this clarity that this is not the person I would see myself getting married to or being in a committed relationship with. The date went okay but unfortunately most of my friends are not godly so they thought I am really choosy when I said the date was okay butI didn't have that sense of peace deep down and I can't date someone whose heart doesn't belong to Christ. I feel like this message was particularly meant for me. May God see me through as I continue seeking God's kingdom

  • @kenji2342

    @kenji2342

    11 ай бұрын

    God bless you. Cheers to u for your strength and wisdom

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤️

  • @annmburu1063

    @annmburu1063

    11 ай бұрын

    @@kenji2342 Thankyou and amen 🙏

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤️

  • @user-mb6mh5yy6l
    @user-mb6mh5yy6l11 ай бұрын

    Quick to listen, show to anger

  • @cyruscembrano3550
    @cyruscembrano355011 ай бұрын

    Im giving my life to Jesus

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, Cyrus Cembrano! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church - jenni

  • @user-bm7ur8jw8f
    @user-bm7ur8jw8f11 ай бұрын

    I surrender my life to Jesus ❤

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, Григорий Булатов! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Mika

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    Same here, I'm giving my life!💜💙💚💛💜💜💙

  • @ivanhartanto2222
    @ivanhartanto22229 ай бұрын

    i'm giving my life to JESUS.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    9 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, Ivan Hartanto! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Matthew Team LC

  • @blossomyusuf9935
    @blossomyusuf99353 ай бұрын

    I surrender to Jesus

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    3 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, @blossomyusuf9935! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

  • @holyenforcer8200
    @holyenforcer820011 ай бұрын

    I want to be closer to you Jesus Amen

  • @nataliefunk4895
    @nataliefunk489510 ай бұрын

    I think I'm the problem, but I'm not sure if it's 100 percent.

  • @MonkeyNamedJay
    @MonkeyNamedJay11 ай бұрын

    The hiding under the bed from Amy was a solid joke😂

  • @dreamlist3610
    @dreamlist361011 ай бұрын

    I want to be closer to Jesus.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/

  • @jennifergrimaldo904
    @jennifergrimaldo90411 ай бұрын

    What if one’s family doesn’t have a good spiritual foundation? But they have their opinions

  • @allysonhill4195
    @allysonhill419511 ай бұрын

    this video describes EXACTLY what I'm going through!!! My soon-to-be ex-husband is extremely abusive and narcissistic, he had severe anger issues and neglected me. he also emotionally and verbally abused me. I didn't want to believe the warning signs and ignored it, Pastor Craig is right!!!! I'm going to write a book about my experiences about surviving domestic violence and how I'm learning to say no and stand up for myself. Jesus rescued me

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    ❤️Thank you for sharing your story @Allyson! May God continue to give you strength and hope as you move forward from this situation. What the enemy meant for evil, God will use for good! 2 Cor 1:4 -- Jenni

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    Oh no!🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @quinoasongs2507

    @quinoasongs2507

    Ай бұрын

    I hope you do. I also was in that kind of relationship, and he even presented as a godly man in the beginning. Ironically enough he introduced me to this channel. But watching this video, I was gonna have him watch it with me, but the opportunity didn't come, as we already were becoming more distant because I insisted on our time together being productive, and not falling into the trap of the "Netflix and chill" equivalent.(I don't have Netflix) I shudder that I could've fallen for the concept that we "need" to get married soon based on 1 Corinthians 7:9. We can all keep learning, and helping each other to live productive lives and avoid such relationships and so on. Be blessed today

  • @allysonhill4195

    @allysonhill4195

    Ай бұрын

    @@quinoasongs2507 thank you for sharing your story! your not alone ❤

  • @skyeabad3347
    @skyeabad334711 ай бұрын

    I give my life to Jesus

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited for you, Skye Abad! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life. Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -TeamLC Ronnie

  • @hiyabkebede9147
    @hiyabkebede914711 ай бұрын

    Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry

  • @melaniemartin730
    @melaniemartin73011 ай бұрын

    Even though I'm not dating, i feel bad for those who are dating the wrong people. What can i do?!😓😓😓

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    Hello Melanie! I believe we can always pray for other people who are dating the wrong people. We can also pray for God to speak through us, and to have the courage to reach out to them and to guide them on their next steps! -Mika

  • @bforcenorth6393
    @bforcenorth639311 ай бұрын

    Just started listening from NJ but I suspect I am guilty of not paying attention to the warning signs. Going through a divorce right now after 15 years of marriage .

  • @calistadecoster6274

    @calistadecoster6274

    11 ай бұрын

    Praying for you and her during this difficult time!! 🙏🏻✝️

  • @calistadecoster6274

    @calistadecoster6274

    11 ай бұрын

    God bless you!!

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@calistadecoster6274sorry that your Marriage is sadly ending!😭😭😭

  • @EjirogheneRoze
    @EjirogheneRoze11 ай бұрын

    I GIVE MY LIFE TO JESUS.

  • @Lauren-host
    @Lauren-host11 ай бұрын

    Hi

  • @AdrianPuiu
    @AdrianPuiu10 ай бұрын

    Hi Life Church team. I applied to be part of 4 life groups so far and I sent emails to all of them, but I did not received any answer from anybody. I hope someone is seeing this comment. Thanks

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    10 ай бұрын

    Hi Adrian! Some groups may be on vacation or away for personal reasons. You can put for other Life Groups, or wait for them to answer. -Kat

  • @americantojo3367
    @americantojo336711 ай бұрын

    I want to be closer to jesus.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/

  • @victoriagelencser2463
    @victoriagelencser246310 ай бұрын

    What if you have been with this person 7 years, and leaving them would make you homeless? Idk what to do anymore and need somebody to help me.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    10 ай бұрын

    Victoria, we're here for you if you'd like to talk about what you're going through. Just head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. - LK

  • @Joy-ei2jr
    @Joy-ei2jr11 ай бұрын

    What about the red flags that funny show up till after you get married.

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    What do we mean by red flags?♨️♨️♨️♨️

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    Melanie Martin Red flags are meant to be warning signs to prevent you from making a bad decision. In other words, you do not really know your choice for a spouse until after the wedding. TeamLC Ronnie

  • @graciesalomon9744
    @graciesalomon974411 ай бұрын

    I am slow to become angry

  • @cindyloguirato8435
    @cindyloguirato843511 ай бұрын

    I want serve and be closer to Jesus my Lord and Savior!!

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    Hello Cindy! We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/ If you’re interested in encouraging and caring for others on our social media platform. We would love to invite you to join our volunteer team! If you’re interested, you can get connected here: go2.lc/lcsm God bless you my friend. Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good

  • @jeanniewalker3398
    @jeanniewalker339810 ай бұрын

    Question: what if a lot of the red flags are prominent n very much are issues in mine n my husbands marriage? We are currently separated, should I go ahead then with filling for divorce if these things are very much been problematic n true for us through at least the last 9 years! It’s caused so much more trauma n sickness to take place in my n my children’s bodies. I need clarification from the Lord that it’s okay to divorce bc I don’t have peace as of yet to start that process… sister in Christ, Jeannie

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    10 ай бұрын

    Hi Jeannie Walker! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/careform We’re praying for your family my friend. God bless you. Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good

  • @luikssmart7751
    @luikssmart775111 ай бұрын

    Hmmm…. 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

  • @brads1282
    @brads128211 ай бұрын

    I question the first red flag. Being a committed Christian doesn't mean you have to talk about your faith every second or minute.

  • @Korijean11
    @Korijean1110 ай бұрын

    What about Christian and Catholic, I can’t seem to convert to Catholicism for my bf and it has hindered our relationship. I can’t see a future because our beliefs are so different

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    10 ай бұрын

    Hi KJM! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/meetwithus - Jas

  • @jdgfsullivan
    @jdgfsullivan11 ай бұрын

    What if you’re already married?

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    Jessica you are not alone... God, I lift up this marriage. I ask that you help them both have the heart and eyes to see each other through your eyes. I pray that you work in them both, giving them a willingness to forgive and seek reconciliation. God, I ask for patience as they navigate how you will work in this marriage and choose to put you first. Protect both of them from ungodly influences that strain their marriage and their trust. Work in and through them to bless each other in this difficult time. In your name, Amen. -- jenni

  • @dmwehrer7094
    @dmwehrer709411 ай бұрын

    What if I'm dating an Asian? I'm living in Southeast Asia.

  • @denonjoka8848
    @denonjoka884811 ай бұрын

    Hawayu Life Church *& I Appreciate Pst. Craig Groeschel 4 This Powerful, Blessful Deep Sermon on "5 Red Flags Yu are With The Wrong Person!"Where I Have Learnt That The 5 Red Flags Yu are With The Wrong Person are:- 1. When They Consistently Don't Pursue Jesus, 2. When The People Yu Love Don't Love The Person Yu are Dating, 3. When Yu Don't Experience Healthy Conflicts, 4. When Yu Find It Difficult 2 Trust The Person Yu are With & 5. When The Person Yu are With Doesn't Trust Jesus Christ & Doesn't It Have a Relationship With Jesus Christ 4 He Who Finds a Good Wife Finds a Good Thing & Obtains The Favor of The LORD & Husbands Love Yur Wives Just As Christ Loves The Church Written In Proverbs 18:22 & Ephesians 5:25 4 I Have Been Blessed Pst. Craig Groeschel & Life Church* & May Our Great Almighty God Bless Yu Pst. Craig Groeschel & Life Church So Veryyyyyy, Veryyyyyy Much.🙏🙏🕊️🕊️

  • @melaniemartin730

    @melaniemartin730

    11 ай бұрын

    Why would unhealthy couples fight dirty? Help! 😔😔😔

  • @lukenycz7967
    @lukenycz796711 ай бұрын

    My father was not a Christian before he met my mom and now he is a much better Christian and role model. Also for point #1 what if the person we like just grew up in a non Christian family or taught wrongly about Christians and needs led to God? I have met many people who don't like Christians because they think they are all religious and Bible thumpers thus avoids them. Then we also have Hosea who God had married an adulteress women.

  • @life.church

    @life.church

    11 ай бұрын

    Luke, Praying for those who don't believe is a good start. Plus, you can ask God to show you ways to show them the love of Jesus. 🙏❤️ Laura

  • @olivenwankwo4875

    @olivenwankwo4875

    6 ай бұрын

    It feels like stories like this were more common decades ago. These days people choose to be who they want to be and it's very difficult to get them to be who you think they should be.