I am 78 and I have just learned that I am enough and that everyone is not going to like me and I am my own best friend 🥰

@lia-liz2012

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!

@viviansmallwood3078

2 жыл бұрын

I am sooo happy for you.

@charnewyngaard9598

2 жыл бұрын

That was beautiful to read.

@twilde3754

2 жыл бұрын

Amen Judith!

@patriciamorris7453

2 жыл бұрын

❤

Lewis - I just want to comment that you did a really nice job interviewing Brene. You didn't cut her off or talk over her. Introverts like time to think about what they want to say before they speak, and you gave her that time instead of rushing her or finishing her sentence with what you thought she might be trying to say.

@ChristianaSenibo

2 жыл бұрын

Yep. That was really good

@charnicholson8987

2 жыл бұрын

I definitely agree with this statement. Trying to belong and the feeling of loneliness. The story of my life and a constant battle for me. I still am not able to come to grips with this.

Belonging is being comfortable in your own skin and not worrying if someone gets you or not. Love being your authentic self. ♡

Lewis I was compelled to acknowledge how authentic, genuine, and compassionate you are. Your presence with and interest in your guests is engaging. You are golden💛 a gift! Thank you.

@AppleTY2015

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely agree and I love how you don’t talk over people or keep saying ‘yes’ … ‘oh yes’… ‘mmm’ in every silence. You’re a beautiful man. 🌿

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you! 🙏

@triciamedora9274

2 жыл бұрын

@ yes, very grateful to see a person shine, with humility, has an interest to learn more and willing to share the knowledge with us. Our world 🌎 is blessed.

@bobbyphillips1151

2 жыл бұрын

Recently lost my husband and feel I do not fit in at times..

@religionishipocrisy

Жыл бұрын

@@bobbyphillips1151 I'm so very sorry for your loss. I hope you find some close friends to get you through the tough times. More importantly, I hope you discover the inner strength, love and resolve to be your own best friend, no matter what.

Very impactful interview. Most parents don’t realize that often times just apologizing to your child for any shortcomings will solve a lot. Instead of making them believe their feelings are out of place.

@statesunlocked

2 жыл бұрын

This is so true. Showing children the same respect you would ideally show an adult, by apologising when necessary will imbue them with a sense of self worth and self compassion

@laurieclark2456

2 жыл бұрын

My spouse was a big criticizer- to our kids. Now that they left he’s doing that to me. Even about the very same people that are being kind to me. .

@kellyh9572

2 жыл бұрын

@@laurieclark2456 get rid then. You watched your children go this, now your accepting it yourself. Dont live with regrets 🥳

@ChristianaSenibo

2 жыл бұрын

It's so important to validate our children's feelings. It builds confidence in them which is so fundamental in dealing with everything else they face externally.

@LC-pk4zz

2 жыл бұрын

You couldn't be more right. Even though it's said you should forgive, regardless of whether someone apologizes - thinking about my own father... an apology or accountability for his shortcomings would have changed the entire course of our relationship. We had a moment 4 years or so before he died where he was actually vulnerable, apologized - it felt like a huge weight was lifted from my shoulders and thought - finally, things could be different! Unfortunately old habits die hard and he returned to the comfort of his old ways until he died.

True statement...."I belong to no one, but myself." Thank you for this. It's really helped me understand its okay to be alone. 🙌💗

@graceramirez748

2 жыл бұрын

I believe you belong to God he created you not to be alone He created us to be with somebody no man is an island. Adam and Eve created as one pair. Yes to be alone is lonely if you don’t know that there is God with you.

@JL-wb1dy

Жыл бұрын

@@graceramirez748 very well said. Thank you

@myavo4015

Жыл бұрын

That is the truth .. we belong to God ❤

It is so true when she says that if you voice your fears you take away its power. 🎯 I have had a tragic and traumatic childhood and even adult life, but one thing I can say about myself is that I am extremely confident, I believe that I possess something special within myself,🌟GOD. I have learned that being grateful especially in your darkest moments is empowering. 🙏👸🌹 Daughter of the most high King 👑 Jesus Christ.💕

@amyp9010

2 жыл бұрын

Hey warrior if you are LDS we should chat or at least since you believe in Jesus Christ we should chat

@Msfruity44

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!!

@cynthiaewing6584

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️

@gracelovvheals2169

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏

@thembisaodendaal

2 жыл бұрын

That is amazing

Lewis is such a good interviewer, it's really nice to hear his well timed questions coming from such a vulnerable and honest place. Videos like this are really important to me as a single mom to a 17 year old son.

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

🧡

Thank you - what a liberating statement “I belong everywhere I go, as long as I never betray myself’…🙏

@idacullinan216

2 жыл бұрын

9🥐

@rhytmicmelody

2 жыл бұрын

Gggi

@KuiWagacha

2 жыл бұрын

Testify.

@TheWallaceReboot

2 жыл бұрын

Yes!!

@lilycat1694

2 жыл бұрын

I am still trying to figure it all out at 59 years old. Struggle as an introvert who feels very alienated from other people. Never feel like I fit in. Maybe It’s okay. This is a helpful video.

8:28 Brene Brown “I feel like I belong everywhere I go, no matter where it is or who I’m with...as long as I never betray myself. And the minute I become who you want me to be in order to fit in and make sure people like me, is the moment I no longer belong anywhere. And that is hard, it’s an everyday practice.”

@StephaniRoberts

2 жыл бұрын

She has so many great quotes in this interview but boy did this one resonate. 🎯 💛💛💛💛

@jamilgotcher5456

2 жыл бұрын

I think this is a good quote but I could see where someone could use this as a way to not grow as a person. The type of people who are crass and say, I just like to keep it real, as a way of explaining why they haven't matured or grown as a person or any not so attractive qualities they have. Like they are saying, this is who I am love it or leave it even when who they are is someone who has stayed the same since high school. I know someone like this and I don't want to be around her. Maybe she hasn't betrayed herself but she hasn't grown or matured in any way. She is true to herself but in a bad way not a good way.

@sungjinryu1318

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you .. every day ractice I need now…

@sungjinryu1318

Жыл бұрын

I make sure again ..I belong to me:)

@vm3813

Ай бұрын

Truly well stated! I caught that.

I have never felt like I was a part of my family. To this day I still have issues with feeling like I am a part of anything. I am 74 years old. I belong to me too!!

@lia-liz2012

2 жыл бұрын

Me neither, and now @65, I see that I am confident, even if my family doesn't agree with me on politics or ANYTHING actually. They even act embarrassed about me most times. I lived (wasted) half my life trying to fit in 😔

@jixie_93

2 жыл бұрын

67 here...me too...tried again recently to fit in with them and, sadly, it just never feels right... I've ended up depressed and lost feeling again...they aren't at all into healing or spirituality and that's all that matters to me now...don't know what I was thinking...I was just lonely I think....

@susanscandles

2 жыл бұрын

I have felt the same way and still do at 61. Friend and counselor said it was an “ orphan spirit”.

@horaciocapanelli-soto4710

2 жыл бұрын

I’m with you in this

@traceylennon1204

2 жыл бұрын

@Sherry...Girl I can SO RELATE to your comment!! And I'm talking more about my immediate family...

“The more you care about what other people think the more they own you.” Well, ain’t that the truth!

Those people is a great example of be courageous being vulnerable... All of them had face setbacks... all of them has learned with trial and erros as well

First 3mins and I'm already teary, this hits, and I haven't even gotten to the main content - 'belonging is being a part of something than yourself, but it's also the courage to stand on your own and belong to yourself... which can make people really uncomfortable'

“Vulnerability is power” made my heart glow ✨

I feel very vulnerable after having my wife of 42 years, take her own life 4 months ago. I feel lost in my own space a lot. What she says makes sense of my situation but I still struggle as I was the one to fit in all my life. I’m 64 and feel I have much more life ahead. Some days just feel stuck!

@lia-liz2012

2 жыл бұрын

So sorry you lost her 😔

@spOOkySami

2 жыл бұрын

You already said it perfectly, you have so much more life ahead to live ❤️ keep on going, friend. Wishing you nothing but health & happiness in your journey 💘

@misskim2058

2 жыл бұрын

That’s horrible...I get stuck a lot, too...hope you get some people to help occupy the time, help you start a whole new chapter in the book of your life that you never expected to have to write, because the hole that gets left behind isn’t fillable, not the same way, and it’s a big wound, they take time to heal...and seems like it’s a partial healing.

@diane5522

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please live your life. You can have another different, happy life. There is still time.

@raxmacail

2 жыл бұрын

ERIC JENNINGS I CAN'T IMAGINE YOUR PAIN SORRY FOR YOUR LOST HOW ARE YOU THESE DAYS

Breñe Brown is my top mentor. I admire the change to how many of feel about shame, courage, vulnerability & communication. This interview was done w dignity & respect. Thank you for sharing.

@joycepearljones4907

Жыл бұрын

yes, Southerners in the USA are polite and say Yes, maam. But my students who broke all rules were the Greg Dahlman's and Syndi Conrad Stone's of the world. I am so proud of each of you who gave up drink, drugs, careless sex for love, purpose I love you each person who found yourself listening to Brene Brown. You have choice. Even if you are Robin Williams or Superman or Super Woman.

We end up trying to fit in when in reality most of us want to stand out.

@lorrainetaylor8570

2 жыл бұрын

Oh how true!!.🤩🤩

@reginap942

2 жыл бұрын

Very true!!

@leejay2418

2 жыл бұрын

Well said Casey!

@deebee843

2 жыл бұрын

@Casey Burns Investing Perfectly said… 💯

@cynthiaewing6584

2 жыл бұрын

👍🏼

Lewis & Brene: outstanding dialogue, candid sense of sharing & mutual respect. Thank you BOTH for continuing to come out of YOUR comfort zones and giving US the room and ……challenge to do the same. 👍🏽

@lewishowes

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching!

Wish every man was Lewis Howes. He's so genuinely beautiful.

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

🧡

The hardest person to know and understand is yourself...🙏🕊❣

I loved the idea of changing the belief by forgiving yourself from thinking a negative thought, forgiving it, and changing it. Marissa Peer has helped me with that too. Whenever I start getting negative thoughts, I mentally respond with, “I am worthy, I am enough, and I am loveable.” I do this especially when I am anxious or when I have to do something that takes courage. Sometimes I still get butterflies in my stomach, but it helps me get through my difficult task, and then I often feel empowered or relieved.

I love Brenee Brown! I read all of her books and her teachings changed the way I see myself and others! Life changing ❤️

@ChristianaSenibo

2 жыл бұрын

She is so knowledgeable and gives vocabulary to those feelings we find hard to express.

Brene is so great. She is very raw and real...and teaches us to do the same. All the time. We do feel lonely. Especially when we have a deep fear of exposing ourselves to others.

@horaciocapanelli-soto4710

2 жыл бұрын

Not long ago I wrote that there’s no bigger loneliness than that one of secrecy.

The opposite of fitting in is belonging. Don’t lose YOU. Show up as who you are. Never betray yourself.

"Belong to yourself" I love this!!! Finding me has been a horribly difficult road. As I think, even maybe believe, that "me" is something I do or what I am: my advocacy work, being a mom or grandmother, etc. I really don't know who I am, who my true self really is. Being 50, I am LOST. I had to leave all the work I was doing due to extreme burn-out, its effect on my health -mentally, emotionally and physically. I want to know ME and not who others expect me to be. I love your talks, your interviews and your insights Brene. Thank you so much!!! --Tess

What keeps me grounded and confident is my self care and counting my blessings everyday. Humbling myself to help others when I can, treating others the way I would want to be treated.

You enspire me. I'm 63 and when I lost my home and my family I lost myself. I'm still trying to figure out who I am now. I've been listening to videos about this. It's motivating me and I haven't felt motivated in a very long time. And what you said about making your children proud really hit my heart because I've been thinking about this. I'm so done living in poverty and even feeling like a victim. I'm NOT a victim. I've been procrastinating and there's some fear there and laziness. But I DON'T have control of my situation because my body doesn't cooperate ALOT of the time. And I was someone who always had many projects. One day my body said NOPE! Very distressing and I didn't handle it well. PAIN will stop you in your tracks but I have plans. Plans that I have no idea how to achieve with what I have to work with.

@karishort1891

2 жыл бұрын

I am in the same boat

@gt2203

2 жыл бұрын

Yes to your No! I look okay to the naked eye, but behind the curtain is an unassembled mess that will take a lifetime to heal. Realized I have FASD after decades of dysfunction and ridicule. Decided to cast aside those who cannot be humble. A purification process that is difficult to be honest. But, I would rather be sincere with standards amongst few, than alone with many. Stay strong in your struggle. There's strength in your authenticity. I can feel it from here, and it is Goddess worthy, despite not being surrounded by adoration in a castle.

@tracy85777

2 жыл бұрын

@@gt2203 Thank you. It's so hard to get anyone to get it! And, by the way.I want the Castle, LOL.

@michellerjackson5776

2 жыл бұрын

@@karishort1891 Me too..

@joyeballar7608

2 жыл бұрын

@@tracy85777 I understnd what you mean more than I can say. Lets keep on going and figure it out. 😘

Interesting how she brings up that parents can continue learning long after the kids have grown.

@chilloften

2 жыл бұрын

The boomers refuse, absolutely.

Love to hear Brene Brown and of course I think Lewis Howes is such a great interviewer with that warm face❤️

I totally felt I have lost myself , trying to please and compensate for those around me. One of the best things I ever heard.

True Belonging Demands That You Be Who You Are. The cost is high but the reward is great. Never ever betray yourself.

This is amazing. I wish my mom was still alive to hear this discussion. Our family has a lot of this disease called shame.

@vm3813

Ай бұрын

Keep healing ❤️‍🩹

Brené Brown is such an excellent example of an antidote to these days cancel culture. Great conversation and this video is just one example of why I keep coming back to this beautiful channel.

@ChristianaSenibo

2 жыл бұрын

Yes. She sure is

I love her honesty! I do belong to me....no one else in my life gets that. Lewis is a great interviewer!!

BE-longing, longing to BE. Be what? Peace? Connected? Be-ing is an inner knowing of who you are. It can only come from a connection with God. It is such a powerful pull that we spend our lives seeking for it, until we realize we are always part of Him.

@cynthiaewing6584

2 жыл бұрын

BE-longing, longing to BE. Oh, that’s really good!!!

@Elena-ul1ve

2 жыл бұрын

@@cynthiaewing6584 yes words have power and we don't always think about it I saw a sign for sale at a local flea market and it was only two phrases : "Beloved" "Be loved"

@lovelocked5385

2 жыл бұрын

Get a KJV bible and read it front to back.

@theresamcgallicher

2 жыл бұрын

A Course in Miracles was the answer for me

Great observation from Brene: "True belonging never asks us to change who we are". Indeed, peer pressure, social pressure, many times, forces their own rules and beliefs on individuals, in order to be accepted.

@ChristianaSenibo

2 жыл бұрын

So true. Choosing ourselves and finding the courage to show up as we are is the most challenging and rewarding work.

This convo was refreshing. It made me realize im not alone in how i feel. Never heard of her. Great convo.

Extrovert introvert, I agree courage to belong to yourself is a daily process. The key to balance between the two. I know it's the freedom to be who we are. I work w kids and this helps me daily.

"pain that is not transformed, will always be transmitted". Hurt people, hurt people ~~just leveled da fuq up

I’m Actually 59 Years Old And My Son Send Me Your Story On KZread And Is Was Very Inspiring And Listening To You Talking About Your Story And Feeling That You Had. And Sometimes A Actually Have Loneliness In My Life. So That Inspirational For Me ❤❤❤❤

Anyone else could just listen to her for hours? She seems so entertaining n yet so honest.

I could listen to her 24/7

I have been single for 19 years and that is by choice it's sad but I truly believe that I will never find love again and I'm okay with just loving myself, I WANT MR. RIGHT, NOT MR. RIGHT NOW 🤣

Lewis, I love your interview style. Thoughtful questions, and then, and I can't even believe this, you actually let them answer and you don't fill in the blanks! So glad I found you, brother!

I always stay by myself unless I'm with my kids but when I go out to the bars or out for dinner by myself I don't feel like I'm alone I feel like right at home cuz that's when I put all my thoughts and sort them out and also feel free

Wow! Love Renee's definition of belonging, and how important it is to belong to ourself. And Lewis's view on being the youngest and being able to stand alone. Being true to ourself is really powerful.

OMG I LOVE HER!!! Her TRUTH is FREEING TO MY SOUL 💕

I appreciate how you ask questions, Lewis, simple direct and revealing!

I think we will always be figuring it all out. Life is filled with ups and downs with all the uncertainty life brings, it also brings such beauty, in all we do, when we look closely. Sometimes, when feeling lost, in need of true connection, I do feel I need a roadmap too, to be certain but this isn't really possible. There is no real blueprint. So, we are all on the same page really and we belong to ourselves. We all all developing, evolving, changing. Who we are today will change in a year, two years. Such food for thought. This interview resonates so much. Thank you Brene. Never try to fit in, always be you. It is the most wonderful gift! Love your interviews and you interview so sensitively Lewis. I love the fact that you joined a musical at school and didn't stay in what others thought you would be. Wonderful.

Thank you Brene for being so truthful, I appreciate you saying that you do feel very alone at times, I get it, truly especially as an introvert myself. I know more than ever now that I need my downtime to recharge!

I have been therapist for many years. A friend recommended me to view this Ted Talk with Renew Brown. I liked her message and plan to share them with clients I am seeing.

Thank you for this video. Sometimes we need a reminder of our souls. We're brought up as machines. Work, work, and on the same cycle. Nothing else. On a routine of work work.

Victor Frankl would say, dealing with vulnerability is a situation of meaning

The “You have two choices” method is something I needed to hear. This is fantastic! Thank you for sharing.

Yea it's easy to slip into feeling alone , especially when you are surrounded at times.. God bless and thank you guy's for sharing this.

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

I love how you both are so honest and raw with such authenticity and you beautiful people are doing vulnerable nicely. Im from down under . I can relate with high school. I was bullied it was a very lonely time for me too! 😘😘☮️💪🏻

Wow Lewis! Yes very valuable discussions, for all SOCIETIES! This type of medium is what the world needs.Natural primary self resources great medium for a beautiful medium for a suttle strength & courage beautiful way so gentle & suttle rooted from each family cultural Family values developing guidances between Children , young adults, adults, and aged adults. All built through conflicts, trauma, neglects, privacy Condemnations rules etc ....attracts Patience, guidances

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you! 🙏

Brenè, your wisdom, honesty and absolute realness got me through some big challenges…mostly about belonging to myself and freeing myself from the need of validation from others. I have really done the work, girl it was tough, but wow at almost 57, I’m standing strong, even in those vulnerable moments. I reflect way more than I armour up, and it’s life changing. Thank you beautiful soul sister 🙏🏼

Thank God for you Lewis Howes. This was a great show. Great speakers and I appreciate you and all your questions.

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

I love you Brene, thank you for everything :)

I feel thankful for have access this nuggets of wisdom from those greats masters. From now on I know that pain, all those setbacks it is a great library for me

@lewishowes

Жыл бұрын

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening.

I am so lucky to have found Lewis on KZread and grateful to be a subscriber! He is awesome and has really given me some tools for being able to accept myself. I have learned so much in watching him. The interviews are always enlightening and motivational. There's always some truth to acknowledge that perhaps it's always been accessible, but not quite presented in a way to make a difference. I think the world of him.

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you! 🙏

I love how you can talk about your parents! Mine have done a great job though once in awhile they get stuck taking it personally most of the time they grow with us

I have long maintained that one cannot be brave UNLESS one is afraid first. I recall an interview Barbara Walters did with General Schwarzkopf ("Stormin' Norman" )years ago after Desert Storm. When he spoke of the concern of heading out away from his wife and daughters, he wept openly. Later Walters mentioned how tears and vulnerability seemed the antithesis of his image as a hard core military leader. He candidly and directly responded that it was the men who couldn't weep who worried him the most in battle and life. Profound!!

Your teenage years feels so vital because you're really just starting to learn how to apply who you are without often knowing who you are and with your peers who all basically feel the same way. The biggest danger is thinking the way your life is in your teenage years is the way it's always going to be. That is a total delusion and can lead to tragedy such as suicide. If teenagers could understand it's a testing ground and wether you succeed or fail in these years you have a whole other world waiting beyond it where you basically start a second life. Don't give up on you 🙌

Brene Brown must be a big fan of Maya Angelou. Everything she expressed and every quote is a play or replay of Ms. Angelou's beliefs, quotes from her parents and grandparents, or quotes from Maya Angelou during interviews. I love Ms. Angelou as well. She is a powerfully blessed spirit.

Thank you! I needed to hear this

Thank you so much for this!! 🙏🏼💕

Lewis questions are awesome.Great interviewer

Thank you Brenda and Lewis for this interview. Berne,I love your book dare to lead. It’s helping me to learn and grow.

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜

I did the best I could with my kids. Now I'm 55, my daughters are 28 and 25, and they say I was the worse mom. They ended their relationships with me. The fact I had health issues and an extremely narcissist partner isn't an excuse, but I wish my daughters could understand how this impacted the family and that I didn't, on purpose, be less than they needed.when I take responsibility for what happened during their childhood...they tell me I'm acting the martyr. So at 55 I have escaped a bad marriage, lost my income and started over, lost my daughters, and trying to find who I am.

@earthling1229

2 жыл бұрын

I am so sorry Pamela. Parents are humans too. We all need to find ourselves. Being a mom certainly adds to the dynamic process. Wishing you healing, peace, and happiness 💓

@sharonmurphyuk

2 жыл бұрын

It sounds like your daughters need to heal and grow some more. I always thought my mother was less than I needed her to be, however as I had my own family I saw that life happened to my mother and she did the best she could with what she had. The fact that your daughters aren’t allowing you to take responsibility shows me they aren’t ready to heal yet, but they might in time. Wishing you love and peace x

@carolineroberts1237

2 жыл бұрын

There is time for your relationships to heal Pamela. You would not show concern if you did not care a great deal. Focus on yourself for now. All will be OK wishing you peace love and happiness. 💕💕💕

Thanks so much, Lewis! Great, helpful content as always! Brene' Brown is such a beautiful woman and hits right on with the reality we all live! Love and blessings to you all! We all need to just stick together in life! Let's appreciate and be kind to each other! Never quit and know that you are enough!! 👍❤💜🤗

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you! 🙏

Lewis, it's so refreshing to hear a male speak about the importance of emotionally intelligence and vulnerability and or shame. So grateful for you!

@lewishowes

Жыл бұрын

Appreciate you and your support 🧡

“Identity is found when stopping, looking and listening. Be in the moment” Tim Storey is inspiring ✨

@dianafox7188

2 жыл бұрын

Was that 2nd interview Tim Storey? I loved everything he had to say!🥰

Thank you Lewis. Thank you from the bottom of my heart 💖. Your podcasts have been super helpful, got me out of a very dark suicidal place. I am now back to sports, daily routine, smoke free and have a better understanding of who I am and what I want to do with my life. Sure it's my doing and undoing, but inspired by you and your guests.

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing love and your continued support 💜

@diane5522

2 жыл бұрын

Well done. That is amazing.

Wow! What a great conversation... So good! Thank you! ❤

Thank you so much Lewis your interviews and topics and questions are so liberating to the mind , soul , heart - you are a true gift to us all - saving us from ourselves ....following our bliss not expectations - Love you my dear Brother...from a Muslim sister finding her soul finally aged 50...step one again in my life ...been in a sand storm but now the dust is settling .. I can see more clearly and honesty.....I finally love myself and trusting all will be fine Xxx Ameen Xxx blessed Xxx

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome,thank you for being here 💜

You're still unfolding..I LOVE IT!!!!

Thank you love your podcast.

Even though I haven’t listened to this entire video yet. I appreciate Brene Brown. I admire and look up to her✨

I needed this at this moment!!!!!!

Wow you guys are great to listen to! I love the honesty and genuine heartfelt intelligent discussions on real topics

I love that "the opposite of fitting in is belonging" we always want to fit in, but do we ever really truly want to belong to anything ?!!? I want to belong and I want to know my belonging, I never really ever was the "fit in" type and this video helped me understand where that has come from inside me for so many many years! Tyvm!!

Incredible congratulations for the heartfelt transparency!🎉💥

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you! 🙏

Wow...It's like she is speaking my thoughts and experience. Wow. It's like I'm watching Lewis interview a person who is channeling me. Crazy. Everything she is saying...

A fantastic listener Lewis :))) you are a beautiful example of how listening ..... is allowing energy to flow and evolve

Love her❣️

LOVE that you had her on this!!! She is amazing👏🏼😍🙌🏼

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

😊

What a REAL conversation! You both are so authentic and down to earth!

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Thank you finally a honest person

Brene Brown you value the most valuable values.

Appreciated the diversity of the people you chose to showcase. Love them all but as POC we deal with not only the normal existential stuff but the constant reminder in daily life and the media that our lives are disposable and given less value than the rest. So it's nice to see people who look like me and my family sharing their experience. Loved this ❤️

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

So happy you are enjoying the content. I would love for you to subscribe and leave me a review here: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id596047499

"I belong to me." Brilliant at the deepest level of soul. 💗

Outstanding! I'm 62. Me and my boyfriend of 4yrs ended 7 months ago due to his anger and inability to be vulnerable and empathic towards me feelings that he hurt so to his behaviors , tone, etc. Yet he comes over all the time. In forwarding this to him.

Lewis and Brene', you both are so awesome and authentic.

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

Dude you ask amazing questions

Thank you Lewis. love Priyanka's energy. I didn't know about her and thank you for interviewing all this great people

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

Lewis you ask thought evoking questions that have your guests and listeners expanding on the topics. You chime in like an instrument in an orchestra. Superb host. Bravo

@lewishowes

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Your comment made my day 😊

Knew who I was then lost the people and life that gave that forum, hung with other people instead and though it was fun on the surface for a good few years, have been lost ever since. The teachers were bang on. Its a very important message, presumably too late for many of us watching it.