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@RebeccaZungEsq

6 ай бұрын

I'll see you all there!

@staywellandstrong4199

6 ай бұрын

​@@RebeccaZungEsq Boundaries Do Matter. Thank you for this Crucially Important Reminder.

@Theshamegame

6 ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsqYou are a blessing 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

@Theshamegame

6 ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsqI love you very very very much

They’re addicted to watching, observing and stalking you. They’ve always got to keep tabs on you, because they’re very insecure and they have difficulty controlling themselves. They try to control you as a means of compensating for their own insecurities and deficiencies.

@Mo.1988

6 ай бұрын

Absolute *FACTS* They’re nuts.

@Mike_Cosentino

6 ай бұрын

They also usually seek artificial validation usually online whether it be TikTok, IG, facebook, Twitter, etc. they blame anyone and anything but themselves for not holding up their end of the bargain. And I’m talking about a 43 year old single mom, not some 20 year old lady with not much emotional baggage. 4:40 that’s so relatable. She claimed she’d contact me asap and I was genuinely concerned because her ex is apparently abusive but instead she got passive aggressive with me and tried to turn the tables on me. After that night (along with other bad nights), I gave up on her. I’m not dishing one penny to anyone not deserving. She used to be sweet and grateful and then she said preposterous stuff like “you can’t buy me” or something blah blah. I never thought I would, SHES the one who was dependent on me for a while but never mentions it at all.

I have been there… the victim shit is so exhausting and so is the silent backstabbing gossip. I feel they are more difficult than grandiose narcs!

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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Coverts communicate by SIGNALING. My father is a dark creepy covert and says very very little at all! But the entitlement, superiority, conceit, aloofness and judgement drip off him like mucus off an alien. Sighs, facial expressions and body language cues are highly developed as manipulation tools in the coverts tool box.

@jewel2916

6 ай бұрын

I love your description It perfectly describes my can't be ex soon enough husband. What baffles me is how I didn't see it for so long. I kept chasing and wondering what I had done wrong. But once you see it. Wow the light. No going back. Ever.

Oh lordie we're in narcy season again..this time of year. Always have to be on top of everyone. Always gotta be the loudest and the last sound at night and the first noise in the morning, or compete with you if you're the one just ever so slightly getting the attention. ALLLL the attention gotta be to them! Focused on them. Any form of attention they will manipulate out of you even to get you upset ... "then they win!" Get me out of holiday season so they can go back and annoy others where they work. 😅

Perfect analogies there. N.P.D is definitely a real thing but the covert variety is the hardest to deal with and spot. There is no fix or save for these types of people. If you happen to find yourself dealing with one make an exit strategy. If ya gotta “cut ya losses” then you should do it earlier than later. The longer you stay around that the more it will cost you in the end. Not just financially but mentally as well and this in turn effects your physical. Run now and run as fast as you can. Don’t look back-no contact at all. In the meantime if you want to annoy them just say “no” or “I don’t feel like it” and watch them short circuit lol 😂

@patricehoward9831

6 ай бұрын

Rebecca is the narcissist though, and she has benefited from her lies for years.

They also are masters of plausible deniability, they weren't giving you the silent treatment, their phone was just off (even though they normally text you nonstop from morning to night) or they just fell asleep (at 6pm or some other time you've never known them to sleep). I have a friend in a narcissistic relationship right now and it's like she's been brainwashed to never even consider that her partner could be the problem and always assume the best intent. The partner has convinced her that all this questioning her reality, low self esteem and depression is from her "toxic workplace."

Its the drama triangle, the victim > the rescuer ,> the persecutor .... and yes the guilt trip uggghhhh

1 1:20 Sneak insulting/sneak demeaning you. 2 3:07 Sudden detachment from you/suddenly ignoring you like you don´t exist. 3 4:20 Playing the victim, twisting stories to seem like they´re the victim. 4 5:11 Silently sabotaging , sneakily spreading false demeaning rumors. 5 6:02 Guilt tripping you , sneak accusation.

Not only did I fall in love with her.... unfortunately I worked with her too, in a factory nonetheless. Three months into our relationship I caught her in a blatant lie. It was a very subtle lie. She immediately got mad when I told her she was being deceptive. She went into rage mode and then gaslighting mode. It was horrible. I regretted even calling her out anymore. Well after that I was anxious asking her anything because she would deny everything and get mad I would even think that of her....even tho she knew I knew she was lying to me. I loved that woman until I just couldn't anymore. Now as it turns out Im the "villain" because my M.H couldn't do it anymore. Its a lose-lose situation...but at the end of the day I had to make a selfish decision. I would rather be the "villain " at peace...than the hero with a broken heart.

I just lost my Father and I was driving with my two boys and my ex Narcissist showed me a video of my Father and my children singing and I started crying while I was driving and he said " You are such a cry baby, you shouldn't cry over this. That is why I should have not shown you this. If you were a good daughter you shouldn't have to cry." I was mad but I am in so much pain that I feel numb of any abuse I get from him.

@ippmoeproject8502

6 ай бұрын

They’re thinking is so absolutely twisted.

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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Yes, I've experienced all these behaviors with a covert narcissist. Its difficult to try communicate or articulate the abuse you're experiencing to others because i feel it flys under the radar. Its a whole other level of abuse others don't truly understand or want to hear until they've experienced it personally. I agree that the covert narcissist is the most dangerous as most of the abusive, slanderous and insidious behaviors are spun around back onto you. Everyone will believe this person when they choose to be charismatic with others in the community. Its truly a nightmare

@amberdetwiler9786

6 ай бұрын

Yes, you are right! It is very hard to articulate, and it is easy to second guess one's self when the abuse lets up for a little while. I find myself wondering why I haven't gotten important things done....its like time passes at a different rate because the narc keeps you so busy with all their little games.

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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💯 my family dealt with this for a yr with my Mil. I heard the twisted story, victim mentality all the time and guilt for existence in her presence. Just disgusting Thank you for these videos! They help so much!!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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I remember mine a few times made me feel weird or like she was low key hating on me for how I was. I would be telling her about something about my business then she would say “You’re all about the money” when she always benefited from my money.

Going Through It Right Now ! Thanks 🙏🏻 For The Tips To Be Wise As A Serpent Harmless As A Dove

@user-ge4tq2bs8u

6 ай бұрын

Me too. I'm going through it better because of the knowledge these videos provide. I really am having a hard time finding someone to talk to about it and compare stories. If you would like to try it please let me know 😀

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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Show them a gift someone surprise gave you, a favorite new top and be prepared for their back handed insult taking you aback, surprised at their cruel dry comment!

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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Thank you Rebecca, im definitely learning a lot about narcissists from your videos. Ive only just come to a blow up point with a friend of mine whom i would never have her down as a narcissistic personality until educating myself a little more. I realise now that my friend is the typical covert narcissist, and how dam manipulating these types are, I have always been left feeling very confused and letting her away with messing me about. She was always planning ahead to meet up and telling me how much shes missed me and cant wait to see me only to cancel last minute. When we have met up, i have always left feeling a lot of self doubt, and like she has done so much for me, she even once reminded me of the gifts she has bought for me over the years, whilst her partner was in the next room and could obviously hear the conversation. Her last dig was telling me that shes not doing Christmas presents for a few friends this year. I'm included in the no presents list. Im not bothered about receiving gifts, its the telling me that highly embarrassed and made me feel unimportant. I cant believe this has gone on for 10 years and ive only just figured this pattern out, Thanks again Rebecca ❤

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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I've seen it! They are indeed pastors. I had to leave a church I enjoyed going to to get away from one of them. She even showed up at a coffee shop I go to all the time and sat nearly opposite me and I was shocked at that. Thankfully I've stopped ruminating about it now.

So true, they are always lurking. I feel like I am being stalked by them. It's sick

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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Thank You for giving me the information to realize the difference, now i need to end this torture session

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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I'm powerful.I am always ready.Thank you for this great advice❤❤

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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That shit hurts so bad I'm a Pisces 20YRS later shit was out after 14years didn't recognize it but she new GOD told me i typed what she does on utube and narcissistic came up 2weeks later she said u need 2 look up and c what a narcissistic person is started studying it empowered me left got my own now she leaves me along but took my 50percent from my daughter turned her against God will handle that she covert she said I gotta keep putting the mask on taking the mask off hurt my heart

#1👍🏾🆙🆙🆙🆙🆙 THANK YOU FOR THE DAILY THERAPY!

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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@Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S

5 ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq Will do and thank you so much!

"I've seen this" "It's not okay"

I've seen that. Over and over and over and over over over over over for life and over

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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# 6 boundary violators

Happy New Year Rebecca! Nice flying with you! 🌠

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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I’m goin from group to group or channel to channel announcing to all empaths to run away from these narcs, they are here to exchange their crazy low life destiny with your glorious one using love ❤️ as the cover up, stealing physical cash and emotional energy leaving you mentally drained and physically handicapped to do anything even if you recover

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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Thank you so much for this Rebecca, You're a treasure to humanity, Absolutely tremendous, Peace, love, Respect to you and everyone, Happy new year Rebecca, Thank you universe 💙💚♘🦄🐉💜💛🕊🌹🌷🌲👽☘🌚🐎🌈❤🌌🌝🐶😍

Yes interesting. I found a narcissist, she was a pastor and could talk very nice. But she killed her husband and son. Both due to cancer. She even told me, that she was surprised that her son was not afraid of dying. He was even completely relaxt and waited to get released. Unbelievable if you do not experience this yourself 🤦‍♀️

Worked for years on turning your children into sneaks and liars. Tell people who never met you how they (Narc) had to raise your children for you…. Not a word of truth! Calling cousins who are/were close with me all our lives, with ridiculous lies, tearing our once great family into pieces. I could go on…. The envy and open resentment of my God given talent (that’s all I have, and thank goodness it supported my children and me). They have so many great abilities never developed. Why??? 50 plus years of destruction! What does this do for them?

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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Thank you sister for this Video In Jesus Name Amen 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯❤❤❤❤❤❤

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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Thanks for all of the empowering and insightful tutorials. Happy New Year Rebecca to you and your kin. Cheers! 😊

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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@vikingmike8139

5 ай бұрын

@@RebeccaZungEsq Rebecca, thanks for your lessons and mentoring. Very effective 'anti' NPD/toxic people tactics. Cheers! 😊

Yes.. this happens all the time

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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I lived it … knowing this person… knows I know the whats going on…!!!… lol

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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I’ve seen it!

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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I'VE SEEN IT!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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It won t ever be OK

How do we get them on fraud of the marriage?

@ippmoeproject8502

6 ай бұрын

I think that’s a difficult thing to prove.

@atirliag2833

6 ай бұрын

@ippmoeproject8502 It is, I was feeling so frustrated when I commented that you would have to know you were conned to start with.

@ippmoeproject8502

6 ай бұрын

@@atirliag2833 Our eyes are open now. And since I’ve done hella research on the subject of narcissism I can’t unsee it when it pops up.

i ve seen it....

🎯

Wish I could of recognized this before I had child with my ex girlfriend and now I have to get help from a lawyer cuz she threatens me with my child visitations only because I said a fact that she promised and she makes excuses a lot too for her to not add me to the birth certificate

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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If a person just uses one of these does that mean he’s a narcissist? He uses number 2 often and Won’t acknowledge,admit if he hurt you……..it’s your fault, you deserve it if he’s acting this way.

@RebeccaZungEsq

5 ай бұрын

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You describe my ex perfectly. Yuck 🤮

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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This is my ex-husband to a tee!!! IT'S NOT OKAY!

They lie!

It's not okay

IT'S NOTTT OKAY!!

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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I've seen it

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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It's not ok.

It’s not ok

It's NOT OK👍

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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It's Not Ok

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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It’s not ok 😮

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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its not :0( k

They are the BIGGEST "SELF-INFLICTED VICTIM(S)"...

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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It’s not ok

@RebeccaZungEsq

4 ай бұрын

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