I certainly wished my parents got to watch this video

@straycursor5562

4 жыл бұрын

@Lezerock sorry but you don't understand her comment.

@chilloha6464

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@jessicag8219

4 жыл бұрын

But at least your future children will be grateful that you got to watch the video 💕

@ryalat3682

3 жыл бұрын

I just forwarded my parents the video 😛

@shubulayesha6689

3 жыл бұрын

So true...💜

I doesn't matter if our parents saw this video or not but we can watch this video and treat our children way better than our parents did.

@miriamart9712

Жыл бұрын

I think as a person that's watching this video depending on your age you can make changes if you wanted to and if you can. Sometimes it's not all about the parent changing it's also about the child accepting to change too.

@annkelly8613

Жыл бұрын

That's my goal! My parents never display any sign of affection for me. I know for sure, my dad loves me. He's just a shy guy and had it bad as a child. As for my mum, she's pure evil. Well...I did notice some positive changes in her as she's getting older but I never felt loved by her and never felt I have a mum even if she is still alive. I came to accept this reality and promised I would not be that kind of mum to my future child. I am now 2 months pregnant and I freaking out :D. I just want to be the best mum to the new life inside of me.

@Ashtarot77

Жыл бұрын

@@annkelly8613 I think you will be an amazing mum because you aim to move away from the trauma you experienced as a child and shield yours from growing up that way. That's a very important step to cancel generational trauma. Good luck throughout your pregnancy and parenthood. Kids really do change your outlook on life 😊

@annkelly8613

Жыл бұрын

@@Ashtarot77 Thanks! That's very encouraging and heartwarming. :)

@lockenkeys1722

Жыл бұрын

@@Ashtarot77 g.

Parenting is one of the best management training programs there is. Having a child is like getting a tattoo on your face, so you better be committed. The aim of good parenting is not to raise a child to become a good child. The aim of good parenting is to raise a child to become a good adult 🖖

@man_vs_pantry

3 жыл бұрын

Goosebumps!

@patty8334

Жыл бұрын

Exactly. I tell my kids that… you’re practicing to be an adult 🤔

@jasonrobbins4227

Жыл бұрын

Morality is and always will be the cure to your "good adults". You want good adults then create selfless children.

@chyibegbunam

Жыл бұрын

Parenting is one of the best management training programs and there is. Having a child is like

@jasonrobbins4227

Жыл бұрын

@@chyibegbunam incomplete thought? It just kinda was left unfinished.

"Force creates resistance but relationships build autonomy" GOLD 🙏 These parents deserve awards. This is by far the best parenting advice I've ever seen.

@JurOz1980

Жыл бұрын

There parents deserve award? Because they tell a story? You easily persuaded 😂

“You give others the best of you and give us the rest of you” applies to other relationships as well and is something we should try to avoid

@Kathrynlove

Жыл бұрын

Why avoid that? Not everyone gets my best...I can't give to everyone...

@alissahhodges5854

Жыл бұрын

@@Kathrynlove you avoid giving the rest to the one's who matter the most. Yes not everyone can have your BEST but giving it to coworkers and friends or sometimes even a mistress is the problem. People's grandmother's die alone while they drink at the bar. People's children get ignored while friends get the attention. Even social media gets more attention from children's parents then they do. Give the people that wait at home for your hugs the attention. Your boss won't mourn your death like those little faces will .

@iamtheonlywilly

Жыл бұрын

@@alissahhodges5854 wow. So true

This is a message for improvement for our generation, to make things better. Do not need to be like "I wish my parents followed these". In reality they always did the best they can from the information and experiences they had back then, which in comparison is miles better from their previous generation. And that is good, it's a proof of evolution.

@mirsaes

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it is evolutionary and parents are really trying their best. I mean look at what they have to work with...education in shambles, jobs won't give you time off, and salaries are abhorrent. The environment just keeps getting worse.

@caseyworley2741

Жыл бұрын

Some parents actually did not do the best they could. Some do not care about thier children. Man, I just can't with humans anymore... everyone acts like they know everything.... billions of ppl living thier own individual life and so many able to say something is THIS way and THATS HOW IT WAS. HOW IT IS.... The only thing we know.... IS NOTHING! HUMANS....... ugh......... I am never surprised anymore...

Parents mold the children like clay. Be gentle yet firm. Your impact is significant

@pointtopink

2 жыл бұрын

Yass....children require an invest of our time and attention. I feel strongly the time and attention after 18🤔😊 but that is a topic for another day.

"another life doesnt belong to you" that hit home

@bellafortunata453

4 жыл бұрын

@ExportedImport i'm sorry, I guess the parents in the old days think that they are the king or queen of the house..they have rules and not complying with what they want they punish by hitting or spanking their children..I remember when we were small our parents will hit us with a stick if we do something they didn't like..and say something that really hurts emotionally, I remembered I just cried and even wish them to die😢 but I already ask for forgiveness from God for cursing my parents then...you are not alone...but please look at the brighter side, if you can go away from your parents, do it and strive hard to change your life, remove all the heartaches your parents have caused you, forgive them and move on with your life without them...and when the time comes that you'll have your own kids, treat them well and show them unconditional love...I hope you'll have a bright future ahead. God bless you.

@ryalat3682

3 жыл бұрын

@ExportedImport I'm so sorry to hear that. No one deserves that. I hope you will be able to turn your life around in spite of all that heartache you have experienced from them and endured. My parents aren't perfect too, and if there's one thing I learned, it was to parent myself (be the parent to my own inner child that I wish my parents were to me) and give myself what I needed and the love that I was seeking and looking for since no one else was going to give it or do it for me. Wishing you better days and a beautiful life ahead. Sending you love and light. ♥ 🌈

@lancecleary2170

Жыл бұрын

A child belongs to you until they are of age, they teach you here they are not are bollocks

@Lulu-mj2fi

Жыл бұрын

Lance they do not BELONG to you, they are their own human! We are here to love and guide them, not own them!!

@MrEvldreamr

Жыл бұрын

"Another life doesnt belong to you" then why is abortion legal? By very definition abortion is the act of terminating life for a mother convenience.... =/

90% of parents won't see this video. We need these type of video as TV commercials like seriously😓

@Babylon2060

2 жыл бұрын

I'm a parent on here looking for parenting advice from a genius. I mean if they're smart in every other subject they gotta be smart at parenting as well. Thankfully I'm learning this now while my two children are very young.

@gopalkalet7727

2 жыл бұрын

@@Babylon2060 ll

@abbyadda1

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I have a 3 year old, I cried watching this !

@MG-qt3vq

Жыл бұрын

Too true, too true

@relaxcalmnaturepeace

Жыл бұрын

@@abbyadda1 me too!!

“If another life has chosen to be with you, please cherish that.” ❤️ As someone who has worked with so many youth and adults abandoned by the families they love, wiser words could not be spoken. Parents and guardians who support their children in figuring out what this thing called life is to themselves, not their adults; we need more like this! The assimilation without analysis adults have concreted themselves in is killing each other and the planet!!

I am going to be the parent I never had. 💔❤️

@meghamann1734

2 жыл бұрын

All think like this. But believe me when u become a parent, u respect and luv ur parents more. Cause thats when u realize how tough it has been for them

@PYT.123

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. I am a child abuse survivor so breaking the cycle is of immeasurable importance not just for myself and children...but for generations.

@Childofbhaal

2 жыл бұрын

@@meghamann1734 Doesn’t matter how tough it is, parents shouldn’t beat their kid until he’s black and blue.

@MrEvldreamr

Жыл бұрын

Relax Jesus, you'll prob end up a shitty parent just like the rest of us. Ppl think its so sad easy to raise kids until you actually do. THAT'S when you realize of terrible you are at doing it and wake up.

I love the comments about how their parents before them should have watched this or done better. Now that you are the expert you can show all the parents before you how great of a parent you are. Watching a few minutes of video is not going to change who we are. Unfortunately many think they have found the answer and can condemn those who came before them. Talk is cheap and parenting can be tough. No rhyme or reason for what can happen in life. I came from an abusive home but I know my parents loved us despite their shortcomings. They had lots of good in them too. It’s now my turn to look in the mirror and try to be better for my daughter. All the best and should anyone come across the parenting manual please send it my way. I have a wonderful 14 year old who is challenging me to be a better parent.

@tonyqwabe5873

Жыл бұрын

Agreed....there is no point in finger pointing or looking back at how our parents should have raised us. Every era has norms and values of that time. No one can claim to have the best recipe for parenting.....it's about doing our best

@NJovceski

Жыл бұрын

Funny you should say that. I think all parents do the best they can with the toolbox they have, either through own personal experience, or even the 'expert' advice of the time, and times change. If you are better than the generation that came before, at least you are heading in a positive direction. Xo

For someone who became a mother at 18 I sure made a lot of mistakes trying to raise my kid with what I want them to be and not allowing them to be who they are, am glad this video has come to my rescue and I really hope it's not too late to fix things 😭. Thanks

@echoes8

8 ай бұрын

Dont be hard on yourself that is every parent and will be for generations we all create some form of mistakes from not knowing & working with what we knew at the time you should be proud for becoming self aware keep it up your doing great keep learning 💜🖤💜

Parents are the picture of the world when the children comes into it, they learn from their parents every basic value of life which they carry all their life. And what impact they got of their parents speaks their position in the society. It's a Gen gap between a parent and a child but we still can fill that gap with love, pateince, understanding the age, and behaving accordingly with each other.

@parentingbeyondbehaviours6382

Жыл бұрын

Well said thank you

One of my boys asked me "Mom, can I use swear words". My response "Of course you can. You make your own choices. If you want others to think you are unintelligent, vulgar and disrespectful, then use swear words." Parents are supposed to give them the guide book not take the wheel.

@gathiij

Жыл бұрын

Love this 💯

@kingalphadogg

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, until this child is being unintelligent, obsene, vulgar and disrespectful in the home, around company, in school and out in public; then actually everyone will look at YOU. Yes they make their own choices and its not about taking the wheel, its about parenting and those kids actually having direction and an understanding of consequences, natural and parental from those choices they make.

@gunkapoor

Жыл бұрын

Mine would go right ahead anyway. They r 5

@shannonsmithjared

Жыл бұрын

I feel like that approach is setting your child up for failure. Say they go to school and use swear words the consequences are going to be more than just thinking they’re vulgar. Train a child in the way they should go and when they are older they will not depart from it.

@Lulu-mj2fi

Жыл бұрын

Nah that just sounded sarcastic and some children won't care and say well my mom said I could. It would be better to say, "do you want others to view you as....." and then let him answer

I'm all for creativity & curiosity from my kids! I struggle with the clean up though. They're never as excited about tidying up after the experiment. Point being, maybe loving parenting is a balance of both order and chaos, teaching & trusting. Bless our efforts 🙏

@christinawilliams008

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree.

I had horrible parents, and was a horrible one myself with my oldest. Now that I've had 2 more later in life, I've learned that by explaining things instead of spanking or forcing them, they respond SO much better. My 7 and 8 year old are so smart and well behaved. They're appalled by all the brats around them on a daily basis, and it makes me feel great when they complain about how bad all those other kids are. I'm really proud of myself and them. Everyday I hope to become a better parent so that they'll be perfect ones.

@libanfaris8532

2 жыл бұрын

I hardly let my kids do there own thing and I am so glad that I am changing now thanks for this video

@doncorleone3901

Жыл бұрын

The fact that you acknowledge you weren't a good parent to your first child shows what an introspective person you are. Your kids are lucky to have you

@Maya-ig9kx

Жыл бұрын

No one is a perfect parent, but we have to be humble and grow.

@theremnant7497

Жыл бұрын

I have so much more patience with my younger boy compared to how I was with my oldest. I'm better now. For sure. But I can't imagine being happy for my child to complain. It's good to acknowledge between right and wrong behavior, I get that. But ultimately people who complain are not happy. Gratefulness is so much more healthy. My son and I were abused for years and we're still recovering, but one thing I can say is that he never complained which would not have helped the situation

@lydiawhitting5406

Жыл бұрын

Honey, no such thing as perfect person, child or parent. We're all at school on this planet. N sometimes learning really hurts us hard.

Once I was thrown out from the home cz I wanted to stand on my feet and free from being the slave. Now I run my life with all ups and downs yet I am happy.

Yes l agree that we need to accept each child for the unique blessing that they are and to celebrate this, however if a child is going down the path of destructive and negative behaviour they need guidance to help them find the confidence in themselves to make positive life choices, self love and respect are key from an early age, humans are always a work in process but love must be paramount.🙏

@rupinderkohli2015

Жыл бұрын

That's true

I hope I don’t ruin my 5 year old like my parents broke me. Help me God, I just want to be the best parent I can be for my kid.

Now I'm starting to love my family's rules coz even tho I don't like it but it mold me to be a good and better person.

My child isn’t my easel to paint on Nor my diamond to polish My child isn’t my trophy to share with the world Nor my badge of honor My child isn’t an idea, an expectation, or a fantasy Nor my reflection or legacy My child isn’t my puppet or a project Nor my striving or desire My child is here to fumble, stumble, try, and cry Learn and mess up Fail and try again Listen to the beat of a drum faint to our adult ears And dance to a song that revels in freedom My task is to step aside Stay in infinite possibility Heal my own wounds Fill my own bucket And let my child fly Shefali Tsabary, PhD

@xneilaelprupx5367

Жыл бұрын

this is so beautiful thank you for sharing this with us here 💜

These videos are amazing and teaches me new things. Thank you for the motivation 😊

Saving the best for last! Hard hitting Sadh Guru! Great advice by all!

We can't go back and start all over but we can make it better from now on. ❤️

What a great video! Wishing all the best to all future parents on becoming great and Wonderful Caring Loving Parents!

I love this....absolutely wonderful! Thank you for sharing.

Yes!!! Let us keep elevating 👏🏾 One Love🙏🏽

True - Your children are not FOR you, they are merely FROM you!

Oh my god those are so good parenting advices!!! Thank you

This was probably thee best thing I have come across on social media! I watched it, loved it, saved it, shared it, and commented. This is a huge relief, and incredible top drawer material, to have encouraged me to continue on with how and want to be, and raise the child I created. I know they are there own people! And they learn through play, and very experience, is a fundamental tool for there over all well being. To help navigate a whole person. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I'll cherish this video with me forever throughout my life. After watching them, I doubted whether such people exist in the world?!

Thank you so much! The best advice I’ve ever heard.

This was definitely one of the best pieces i watched on KZread! A must watch for all parents ❤️

Great lineup. Gabor Mate also helped me become a better parent.

Powerful words from great minds. We have so much to learn

Thank you for sharing this ❤🙏🙏🙏

Every little bit of this video is PRICELESS.

Wow! That was some good stuff! Definitely what I needed to hear/learn. Now it's time to put it into action!

This is literal perfection 🥰

Sent watched and shared.. Thank you

I absolutely loved this video!! Such great reminders and perspective… I just shared with a whole bunch of people!!!

Beautiful Insights on parenting by the world's best Experts. 🙌💖These are wonderful pointers for inner child healing as well. 💗

Thank you very much.

SO POWERFUL

I want to be the best parent.

@keionnalee

3 жыл бұрын

You will be 🥰🥰🥰

@llkg9

Жыл бұрын

You will be, until your kid becomes a teenager. Then you'll be "the worst ever." Then when THEY have kids, you'll be the best ever - again!

@aashaprasad869

Жыл бұрын

@@llkg9 😊

@justinamusyoka4986

Жыл бұрын

@@llkg9 The graph of maturity doesn't go that way,it's always advancing as we mature with age till at a certain age,we are like a village library. Those whose graph go horizontal or zigzag were puppets ,doing copycat parenting.You can even be a good parent even without your own children.

@llkg9

Жыл бұрын

@@justinamusyoka4986 My comment was clearly written to reflect a child's PERCEPTION of the parent, not the actual performance of the parent.

Its incredible!!!!❤❤❤

Chanakya...the great Indian philosopher... says this about parenting... Adore your child till they are 5 years of age, discipline them from 6-15, once they are 16, treat them like your friend! What an awesome advice! It also coincides with modern science which says most of rapid brain development and character formation happens till age 7...and this advice above gives us two windows...till 5 give your kid your unconditional love...and next 2 years falls under 'discipline' period with utmost impact! How brilliant!

Man this is powerful stuff!!!!! I'm very glad I came across this video. Thank you for sharing!

Beautiful,genius,inspiring❤️

Thank you!

Thank you for sharing 🙏

This video is short, sweet, informational and full of the best advice when we have children. Thank you for this amazing video, by the way, I am curious of your family rules. I need to come up with mine for our family. Thanks again, I am a parent of a tween.

I needed this. Especially that last one.

This is amazing and exactly what I needed right now. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for this.

Love it 🙏

Beautiful!!

So Insightful ✨✨😌

Really wise words 😇

"Force creates resistance". True words.

Sadhguru Rocks 💖💖

Brilliance ❤️‍🔥

Awesome I enjoy parenting my Son and Daughter wish I knew some of these 🙏❤️

Love this 💥💥💥💥💥

This is Gold

Love this

Aww, this was HEARTWARMING... 😊👏👏💗

Parenting can seem so difficult at times, stressful nonetheless. These tips are simple and logical once we really think about the reasoning behind each of them and their final outcome 🙏

This brought tears to me eyes! 💚💚💚

I’m glad I have come across this video. I agree with the opinions.

Thank you

This really just reminded me of why I get anxiety when I hang out with my child and my family. It's really about their idea of how my child should act, knowing very well that I have a very good relationship and understanding of how my child is.... I still fall in the trap of wanting to be accepted by them and for them to see me a good parent. All in all, I say all this to say, that I will do better in advocating for my child when I am with him. He is deserving of the freedom to be accepted just as he is. I love these speakers and am very happy to have heard this on a Sunday Morning. Blessings to everyone watching

WOW ❤This was a Very nice Important Broadcast!!!

Amazing ❤

I needed this, as a mother of 2 babies that are still less than a year old. They're at a stage where they're already playing with staffs around the house and I constantly have to remind myself to let them play as longest it's safe.

Awesome parenting lessons, i will definitely share with parents on my contact.

Awesome👍

Great words

Best thing i have ever heard💜

Very helpful 👌

wisdom at it's finest

I thought all these 5 things within the past 24 hrs... I can't explain the where's our how's I learned this, but I have. Hearing these from these 5 individuals reinforced the ideas with a refreshing point of view.

Great stuff

What beautiful messages

Awesome video wish they had this when I was growing up. 😢

thank you.

Ok....FACTS....Well Recieved....

So powerful

Sadghuru! 👌🏾

Excellent all around.... Judges in the family court system need to internalize this message because they remove fathers wrongfully every single day they are active. Fathers are critical, so many kids living without dads by force of the courts, not absent by choice

Something I am glad my parents always did 😊I always feel so close to them and an exceptional relationship

Love From Saginaw MI

Best advice ever.....

Blessed 😇🐣🎹🎶

I'm glade I found this video. I wished I found this video years ago. Hopefully this helps me with my 2 youngest children.

This is so beautiful … ❤

This is powerful. A million likes!

Peter 4:8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Look to the heart ❤️ of the child look for the good.😊 give him the blessing. Then the child within you 🤔 what you wish your Father would or could have done to you.✨️

My appreciation💙✨✨

Such an wonderful talk 👍